I read and studied these principles when I was in my twenties. Now in my seventies, I again studied them. Although I had forgotten most of them I found that I had applied most and had been living them instead, Had I reviewed and re-applied them in my forties or early fifties I would have advanced greatly. As it is now I have lived a full and spiritual life. In retrospect, I am able to see the areas where I made mistakes and I could have improved. I am in anticipation of an even better eighties.
So phucking hard & painful. At 59 am in this lost confusion state of being after putting EVERYONE before caring/loving me first (thought as a mom & wife, that's how it was supposed to be). Trying to begin again all on my own as I silently cut the people & pain.
@@lisabuscaglia1856You're going to make it. I can feel it. You found out at 60; I'm 80 and just finding out! God is in your life too, and you can bet on that!❤❤❤
I’m 82 and I completely agree with you. I live alone and wouldn’t have it any other way. Oh.. I have two little female Yorkies that are my good buddies.😇👌
This is great advice, and at 66 I can honestly say had I known and followed a lot of these words of wisdom I'd have avoided a hell of a lot of misery and heartache in my life.
Me too at 77, but hey it’s never too late to change and turn things around. I’m taking heaps of this on board. I just love it , the quotes and his voice are amazing 💕
Loneliness is the price we pay… except I don’t feel lonely. I cherish my alone time. I’m still taking great pleasure in learning even though I am in my eighties.
At the age of 71, I’m still learning and try to avoid making mistakes. By applying these quotes into my life has helped me improve myself esteem, be more selective when it comes to friends. There’re always lessons to learn. Some can be painful and some can be grateful. Thank you ❤
As a male aged 59, I wish I had taken heed of quotes like these. I excelled in sales for most of my life, in sales you broadly speaking listen to what people want then eloquently fulfil their needs which is great, however a people pleaser has similar traits, and I tried to please all those in my social life and relationships at the detriment of my needs. I’ve finally got it … These words are like gold dust
I recently came across a study that said that gratitude and anxiety use the same arena in our brain, and can't simultaneously occur. We are wired with the capacity for our choices to immediately affect us, haha, this is not a profound statement, but a true one. Let's remain grateful. I am happy to have been included in on this life. I know we are living in a backwards world during backwards times, but such is the backdrop we were given, and against such a backdrop, living in a truthful manner in alignment with goodness and beauty will help contrast against the stark magnificence of living well in times of turmoil. Let's ensure we are generating enough love to sustain ourselves and those around us. Hold God close, and radiate that invincible spiritual force.
I seemed to have lost family and friends after an injury and I couldn’t help everyone anymore. Funny how that works. I’m a natural giver , not a sucker anymore .
Me too Ashley, l understand l built my life around my friends, l experienced some trauma, needed at least a few many to talk with. It's as though we have never met I was always there for them if they needed me always, l would never turn my back on a friend never. I have to adjust my thinking it's tough.
Well great job in the past.I am really sorry you had gotten hurt. I'm aware of you're "Sorrow", how you felt as being a sucker?-Never That! God new then and used "You" at those specific times. You could never(!) Be a suckered for God. By your kindness being conveyed when you didn't have to shows= Strength!So alone or not stay Strong,because "They"lost a GOOD THING😊
I've always been a loner, and for good reasons. I'm hated for being self efficient, masculine, handsome, with a bit of charisma and mystic. Things that some men either love or hate in a other men. Yes, I would rather be left alone. I was out there "trying to come to my own" as a young man, but had it all along. Just didn't know it until I had gotten older and realized I have a light, a light that they want to extinguish. I regret I didn't see it when I was younger.
I am 80 and battling from anxiety and depression and wrong thinking I am on medication and not happy about that addiction : have lost confidence to be with people and now after listening I must strive to live the best I can Tq will listen again and again to spur me on
I so enjoyed this, I like time to my self, but also enjoy company. Since Covid most of my interaction with people, has been via the phone. 🤷♀️I’m going to listen to this tonight, his voice is so calming, it will most likely put me too sleep. There’s some great lines in there 😉
You are so right your light has always been within you , when you were younger wolves in sheep clothing who disguised themselves as friends and lovers is what you dealt with
I agree I been alone for a year or two I’ve felt this burning feeling in my chest it started a few years ago it’s not ailment I’ve talked to other meditators they feel the same the animals of the world also know something s up i sees the sign mass pole shift maybe 🤔love an prayers to everyone an everything that is living
But i am alone by choice & TMH has blessed me to not feel lonliness most people feel. Im so tired of being ignored, disrespected, neglected & mistreated by being co-dependent
What i understand is that has a human,when we give out love to people, we expect, them to show appreciation but most times the capacity on our goodness dogs when you're good to them they will love you, and its the mindset of people and their thoughts ❤
@catherinepatton8699 It is very nice,but humans interactions are very important. Those 4 legged friends will eat off your face after you stop feeding them, and I have seen that happen before.
The quote at 1:40 hits hard, "Rule your life with your mind, not with your feelings. Every bad decision we have made in life, there was more emotion in it than there was mind. Every Single one."
what about marriage? if you find your wife through pure reason there will be no love. finding your wife includes more emotions than rationality and it is not a bad decision.
@@14MCDLXXXVIII88 You're absolutely right but just check the quote, it says “every bad decision”, If your wife is a pure soul then it is not a bad decision. Every thing we do is directly or indirectly based on emotions.
@14MCDLXXXVIII88 no family is business. You can grow to love someone that increases your wellbeing and the wellbeing of your legacy. That doesn't mean pick anyone that seems like a smart choice. Just pick from a pool of your smart choices. Use your emotions on the pool only. 👍🏾
At the age of 43 my eyes are open. I was the ppl pleaser I always said yes. I expected too much from the ppl who so called love me. And those same ppl turned their backs on me. Boy what a wake up call this video is on time. Im never lonely just alone. I dont have that friend word its too much hard work keeping a true friend. So I am my true friend. And Ion hate a soul. And Im content with never going back to anyone who had me uneasy. THIS VIDEO IS A GEM.
My life exactly like that till this day😢😢 I cut out all non blood family who used me to the bone. Now is my family who have no one to helped them but me. I feel like I was born to make others happy and myself suffer 💔
ALONE ❤🎉❤🎉❤I AM NOT REALLY LONELY... BECAUSE I AM Happy ❤🎉❤🎉I LOVE & RESPECT MYSELF❤🎉❤32+ YEAR'S NO ALCOHOL NO DRUGS , ONLY LOVE❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤HELPS THE SPIRIT,THE SOUL, AND MAKES A TRULY QUALITY TYPE OF HUMAN BEING ❤❤❤❤❤I FIGHT BATTLES OTHER'S HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT,NOR DO I BRAG ABOUT WINNING ALL THOSE BATTLES
I'm 65 year's old and getting my education started everyday listening to these amazing videos..completely amazing. Thankyou Jesus for not Forgetting me lord..Thankyou again guy's Nicely said and done! ♡🌿🙌👍
I’m living all these affirmations because I’ve lived through the darkness to open my eyes and see the light with clarity… I’ve learned to love differently, choose wisely, think smarter, let go easier and soar above those cannot fly without guilt.
I'm 64 years old and I'm glad to listen to this amazing video of wisdom and knowledge guys.. just receiving more important message of Wisdom and of knowledge.. it's very educational and important to me.. Thankyou guy's abbreviated it All..👍🤔❣️
It's been said that friendship is life's greatest gift, yet it's one of the things that can destroy you, leave you broke, and in pain. They say "You must first be a friend, to have a friend," but none of my "friends" wanted me to prosper, and during my darkest hours, I always found myself alone. I always hoped the best for them and did whatever I could to prop them up. In the end, I believe I was the friend I always wanted to have. After all these years I can clearly see why they say, "If you find one true friend in life, you have done well."
In my 40s I started to see these philosophies and applied them to my life through the power of whatever creators are in our world. Iv so much peace and alone time that I love
Decided to stay single and work on myself for about 2 years. Got in a relationship that ended in heartbreak and was filled with anxiety and stress the entire time being in the relationship. After the breakup I became happy again and realized I was my happiest while alone.
Listen to your gut...FEELINGS! Feelings are the sensual part of you. Your emotions, “feeling” have their part to play. Just use your mind to hold back when you need to and to move forward when it’s wise. Live each day in the present moment and love what you do. When it’s not always to your liking, work hard at what needs to be accomplished and be grateful you have attained inner discipline. Money will not always flow so use your money wisely. Happiness is circumstantial. Joy is ever abiding. Positive thinking is good but it’s opposite can balance you and cause you to take action when action is necessary. Life is not one big pot plant miasma. You sound rather negative about love. Learn of it. Go further than you’ve gone with it. Define it. Expectations are on a continuum. Set your goals and climb. Step back and take a sabbatical. Be balanced in reality. True about focus and vision when your heart gets broken and it’s true people don’t care so don’t talk too much. Watch your money and yes at some point make peace with your past. Be kind not “nice”. Growing up is vital. It happens when you least expect it. Great about everyone is going to hurt you. It’s true because we all perceive differently and few know how to effectively communicate. Sometimes we need to back away and be silent. This for the most part sounds wise and true. Really good. All are necessary chapters to complete your book. Intetesting. Stoic philosophies made modern for us. Yeah I liked a lot of it. Yes about forgiveness. The ones worth suffering for. Yep. Ok
I thought all of these were great. I managed to apply several of them throughout the past 40 years. Only a few of them did I make exceptions for my husband. I also shared the wisdom of the quotes with him. I have saved this in my profile so I can listen and share wirh others now that my husband is gone. Thank you!
These concepts are pure gold. Even if a listener took a couple of these principles and paid close attention to them, there would be immediate life realizations and improvements. I am over sixty and have been applying some of these ideas over the years without realizing it. To hear them drives the points home.
I have suffered the pain of hell from Jelousy, left right and center, from families socalled friends, pretencious sympathizers, Witches and Warlocks, deadbeats husbands and almost everyone i have trusted. I am like Joseph the Dreamer, too kind and too helpful have made me a targetto be used, and used i was. However, I am waiting to reap Gods promices as yet but I am recouperating to rise like the Phonics.
The way you treat others reflect who you are, not who they are. This one hit home. Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed. YES!!!! Thank you 🙏
I’ve given away so much of myself to people that truly didn’t deserve it and it only left me brokenhearted 💔 I’m learning how to embrace loneliness after listening to all the great advice. I realize that people pretend that they love you but in reality they really don’t! 😢
Thank you for these quotes. I am 76 and a lot of them I have used in my life, but lot of them I didn’t know had I’d known them my life would have been much better. It’s not to late to practice them now because life will now be much better.
Pushin 60 now, these quotes all make sense after 6 decades but the one thing I have come to realise is that there is peace to be found in acceptance, accept people for what they are and accept them for what they do, you don’t have to like it but accept it and move forward. The Beatles once sang a song that said let it be, great words of wisdom, let it be and move on……
@@suginomura Depends on the context of the song. I’ve found some lyrics to be very wise and have a positive effect on my life and sanity , so it’s foolish to simply just dismiss all musical lyrics because a band also made fun and frivolous pop music too, that’s crazy thinking!.
I am considered an extrovert. And I like people - well I like strangers. 17 minutes of conversation and I know all I need to know about you. At 69 I realize I'm not necessarily a loner as much as I am an independent. So many people insist on one way when there are at least 3 ways to do everything. And I don't like to be told that their way is the only way. So I live alone - well with my 96 lb German Shepherd and I'm happy. My siblings and my children and my grandchildren worry about me. But I'm completely happy
This is all about declaring your independence and standing up on your own 2 feet. And that's good. What's needed as well (perhaps its own video) is what a healthy community and being part of one takes.
Who is watching this in 2024? This made me think clearly. Thank you for posting these inspiring wisdom quotes. Joyful, successful unity prayerful nuturing and healed 2024 to all! 🙏🏽🙏✨️🎉🌌
I’ve tried to avoid loneliness my whole life, but nearly everyone I’ve met walks away, I don’t think we have a choice. Others decide whether a person lives life alone.
It does seem Like that - I think God wants me alone for a while longer so that I do my art - that’s what i am guessing ! Do you ever wonder like that ?
Amen I predicate in listing to you in a few minutes, I say Amen. I want you to Know that the words has brought peace and commonsense into my life. Thank you, and keep up with the good work . I hope as many people will have the potunety to hear you or listing to you, all you are sayin is so so true thanks God bless you.
Time does NOT CURE anything. So...do not waste time to think that. Everything stays with you. Your body never forgets. Your body keeps the score. So protect yourself maximum.
You are describing ALL THE ADVICE I need to deal with my family!!! Its heartbreaking 💔these are the people that brought me in 🌎 and brought me up! I'm the ONLY ONE that became successful and they treat me horrifically and use me!!! It's lonely 😢but I'm done! Thank you for the reminders!!!
Don't think of it being lonley....the strong always walk alone..it's like haven the sun as a family member....wait I see why they treat us like that🤪😂still not right...I only got one thing to say...SHINE bright like a diamond...
The most people that judge me, can't stand me, can't accept who I am and what I have to say or even ask for the sake and love of thier parents, they don't like my presence, hold grudges against me, they ignore me and if a family member speaks they praise them and and put them on a pedal stone, they just plain hate me and that is my blood siblings. I don't like confrontation, fighting, hurting anyone, insulting any one, name calling, but I am truely hated by family only!🙂
I know EXACTLY what you mean!. I had to take a look back at my life.. and figured out that my own family (even mom) was my blockers in life. We all still love eachother.. but for some reason...... they belittled me. This conversation can go on and on... currently struggling with a couple people at work that just *HATE* ME and we've never had confrontations, etc. This is totally fu*ked up! .. so I know how you feel!
Great advice/ tips. Never ever accept disrespect! So freaking true. One thing in this life I can't tolerate is disrespect. Silence is key! Blessings! 🙏👍
God bless you SIR for creating this one. You have given the solutions to my most genuine problems. Going through listening this 2 hour thread, my mind couldn't wander anywhere because of your voice`grossness. I have downloaded it and i definitely know that whenever I would listen it again, it would give me strength, ideas and much more UNIQUE. Again, God BLESS you sir for creating this UNIQUE-PEACE.❤❤❤❤
Jesus Christ provides with perfect peace. People were made to be part of community, to reach out and support and love one another. I am a hermit by nature ,but that is not how God wants us to be. Yes there are people out there who use you, but we have the Holy Spirit who gives us discernment and who should be kept out of our inner circle of friends. God loves us and has a plan for each of our lives. I have found this the speech of a man who has been hurt and has put up walls around himself. Quite depressing , not encouraging, but stoic and frozen. Jesus came to give us life and life more abundantly. To all you out there who are going through hard times or have no hope, Jesus came to give you life . God bless you all, Jesus brings us life eternal. I went through depression and went to end my life, but God came with His amazing love and changed my life. Stoicism is not the answer.
I am so sorry! I wish I have heard this before 20 years ago! That I would've made better choices! And I wouldn't be in this situation that I am right now! But I can still learn. Thank you so much.! I'm listening to your advice! Simply amazing! Like you said, it's never too late to learn! Had to be patient! Thank you so much please pray for me for wisdom and understanding more than anything. I want to believe that most people are good.! I need strength and wisdom! Thank you so much this open my eyes! A little late, but he's better late than never thank you so much! I wish I can talk to you in person! Everything you're saying is true! My biggest problem is that I trust people too much! Because I have a good heart I think everybody is like me! And I made a big mistake of trusting the wrong people! Who turned out to be fake! So, by opening my eyes! I will make better decisions! Thank you so much. I am so grateful to you.! God bless you! And thank you again for your valuable information not to trust anybody or everybody! Because everybody's not like me! Not everybody has a good heart! And that everybody's honest! They lie they lie, they lie! And this is what I tell people! They don't like to hear the truth! But they would be much happier if I tell them a lie! So I'm gonna start line from now on! And everybody would love me now! Thank you for opening my eyes to see that everybody's kind like me not everybody, so give her like me! I gave my time, my money, my effort, my energy to a lot of people specially my family! But like you said, it's never too late! Thank you❤❤❤❤❤
Das durfte ich auch lernen, das nicht alle wie ich sind. Wir sind alle verschieden und das ist gut so. Wichtig ist doch die Prüfung anzunehmen und mit Selbstliebe hinauszukommen. Es wird immer Geber und Nehmer geben. Gib dir zu erst, immer.❤
It amazing how smart we become when getting older! God knows I did become one. It's just like saying I learnd long time ago,, broken ship knows that life is a journey,,
WOW came across this tonight November 21, totally amazing I shared with many people. This is a life changer 😍. Thank you much blessings from Florida ❤️
Timing is everything… I found this treasure just at the right time which help affirm thoughts I’ve had about sensitive situations with family members. Thank you! Endure til the end friend.
Love your stuff. Thanks. People, what are we without memory? To those who say memories are bad I say rethink. Just process your memories positively and don't let them control you.
Read II Corinthians 12-21, Memories, good or bad, is part of this life. You seem to lean toward your own understanding but "The True God" has a way to draw men like you. Just rest your mind and your soul will follow
The very beginning of this topic, happens to me, dealing with the devil demonic ppl, i lost everything house 🏠 🚗🚘jobs ect ect. Now renting and doing public transit 🚇 Life is one long road with lots of signs
I really learned a lot about people and life by listening to all the advice. I truly wish that I heard it sooner but I’m going to apply them to my life. Thanks 🙏🏾 ❤
If nobody has ever said it to you, I will. Well done on getting this far. You should be so proud of yourself. Keep it up, keep being kind to yourself, and most importantly, keep trusting God while you keep moving forward. ❤❤❤
I'm 64 and retired. I have been a weight lifter since I was 19. I started practicing martial arts at 21. I still lift and do my kata's and do heavy bag training. I am a musician, and i was a loner since i was very young. I enjoy my friends, but i value my "me" time. I could spend all day writing, preforming, recording, and listening to music. I also have 3 aquariums, i meditate to them. I am a Pagan. I am a fortune teller. I use my crystal ball for fortune tell snd meditation. I studied Carlos Castaneda! Interesting books, i love "The Journey to Ixtalan." I own 60 acres with 55 wooded. I meditate in the woods. Fishing is a relaxing pastime. I eat healthy and am a avid gardener.
Your absolutely right i gotta learn to value myself before valuing other's time what I'm paying for I had to learn not trust others who are liars manipulators and psychotic assholes...it was my fault for being too nice to those who were up to no good and not be trusted..even though I sometimes had to be disciplined in order to learn my place without being caught up in craziness that's what I get for beefing with evil so much but there's things and certain sacrifices I had to make choices to stop it without losing everything I worked hard for ain't no body was gonna destroy me na huh I've gone through enough and I'm emotionally drained I've had enough I was too weak to set boundaries with toxic enemies but it ain't happening again I refuse to be a victim again. I told myself if I'm being burned out it's because other enemies are trying to sabotage me enough to see me ,fail struggle or give up, I thought I was a narcissistic person but I'm more of empath then a narc I care about other's I try to help others but not be token advantage of I'm afraid to own up to the truths of being wrong if I messed up I'll hold myself accountable but if not then I won't apologize if it's someone else's fault..I shouldn't have been open minded too much that's how I got token for granted and I blame myself for not being cautious of things I do when I should try to be selfless of other's priorities who respect me I make mistakes I don't mean to do them deliberately on purpose but I'd try to find a solution to fix them so it doesn't occur into another problem later and get worst my family would say I need to stop attacking myself on things I do wrong God knows my heart and know the kind of person I am I do self analyze myself I would need to think highly of myself then to talk negative about me and say I'm a terrible person.....I'm human not perfect I mess up at times doesn't mean I don't care it just means I struggle but won't get everything right all the time others who like to complain about everything can either appericate it or kiss my black ass then either way I'm not tolerating stupidity anymore enough is enough I deserve respect and I want to be left alone...I can help others but if they use me that's it their own their own their problems ain't gonna be my concern their own issues are their own not mine.
We know all those things,but life goes on,live as best you can,guard your peace and let them all get on with their lives,in this short space of time.Alone is not lonely.
Ppl take kindness for granted, Im mid seventies, im still learning, ppl are always scamming people, i watch, i listen, smile and move on. I know who i am were im going in life. I've done well not taking others so seriously 😊😊. Thank you! 😉
The lesson is straightforward, it's simple enough, and nothing is remembered easier. Do-not EVER trust people. Do-not EVER even ever conditionally do so. Not-to will be
I read and studied these principles when I was in my twenties. Now in my seventies, I again studied them. Although I had forgotten most of them I found that I had applied most and had been living them instead, Had I reviewed and re-applied them in my forties or early fifties I would have advanced greatly. As it is now I have lived a full and spiritual life. In retrospect, I am able to see the areas where I made mistakes and I could have improved. I am in anticipation of an even better eighties.
I’m in my eighties and working out it!😊
Me & you both.
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I just turned 60 I realized that everything I have been taught was based on lies
Agree with you I messed up
Loneliness is the price you pay when u start to improve on yourself
Well said, 🙏
So phucking hard & painful. At 59 am in this lost confusion state of being after putting EVERYONE before caring/loving me first (thought as a mom & wife, that's how it was supposed to be). Trying to begin again all on my own as I silently cut the people & pain.
I don't think I understand you
@@janiemartinez147I don’t find myself to be lonely at all
@@lisabuscaglia1856You're going to make it. I can feel it. You found out at 60; I'm 80 and just finding out! God is in your life too, and you can bet on that!❤❤❤
Im a lone wolf.i like to be alone. No one can hurt me no more. I have my job my roof my food. I thank god for everything.
I was born by myself and love being alone. I Love Me Some Me
Dewd allison has a tattoo that says lone wolf but also she lives by that motto cause prior abandoned lives in her family past
Me too but People have problem with IT
reached 80 three years ago, and decided no more, live alone, quietly, safely, marvelous, never ever lonely
I’m 82 and I completely agree with you. I live alone and wouldn’t have it any other way. Oh.. I have two little female Yorkies that are my good buddies.😇👌
I'm 75 still live with husband 56 years. One day 1 of us will be really happy. ❤
Me too Joan. Been alone since 2016. That and my 6 canines. Hope all is well today. Welcome to the Ascension of Earth.❤
Mary from kingston ,tn
I am 39 and this all makes sense and I truly needed this advise. Some I already do
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This is great advice, and at 66 I can honestly say had I known and followed a lot of these words of wisdom I'd have avoided a hell of a lot of misery and heartache in my life.
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Amen.
Me too at 77, but hey it’s never too late to change and turn things around. I’m taking heaps of this on board. I just love it , the quotes and his voice are amazing 💕
Loneliness is the price we pay… except I don’t feel lonely. I cherish my alone time. I’m still taking great pleasure in learning even though I am in my eighties.
LIFE IS A CONTINUOUS LEARNING PROCESS,
& WE WILL CONTINUE TO COME BACK AGAIN & AGAIN--- UNTIL WE ARE PERFECT LIKE GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
me too
Most of my life i have lived alone but never felt lonely. The world is too interesting if you are curious
SO true - the freedom to learn is a wonderful gift, bestowed by solitude.,
you are a precious person !
At the age of 71, I’m still learning and try to avoid making mistakes. By applying these quotes into my life has helped me improve myself esteem, be more selective when it comes to friends.
There’re always lessons to learn. Some can be painful and some can be grateful.
Thank you ❤
As a male aged 59, I wish I had taken heed of quotes like these. I excelled in sales for most of my life, in sales you broadly speaking listen to what people want then eloquently fulfil their needs which is great, however a people pleaser has similar traits, and I tried to please all those in my social life and relationships at the detriment of my needs.
I’ve finally got it … These words are like gold dust
I can relate. I have learned to never again put myself first and be good to people. It took years.
Big deal
Yes it is I want this inbeded in my soul
You and me both.
Gold dust... well spoken
I recently came across a study that said that gratitude and anxiety use the same arena in our brain, and can't simultaneously occur. We are wired with the capacity for our choices to immediately affect us, haha, this is not a profound statement, but a true one. Let's remain grateful. I am happy to have been included in on this life. I know we are living in a backwards world during backwards times, but such is the backdrop we were given, and against such a backdrop, living in a truthful manner in alignment with goodness and beauty will help contrast against the stark magnificence of living well in times of turmoil. Let's ensure we are generating enough love to sustain ourselves and those around us. Hold God close, and radiate that invincible spiritual force.
Agree with you, even though I leave religion behind.
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But he's referring to spiritually rather than religion. Two different things 🤔.
Thanks for the post... Very well stated ✌🏾
Cook popcorn just for the music it plays.
Be proud of how hard you are trying, your friends want you to do good , just not better then them , so true
I was brought into this world alone and I will die alone I have learned how to do the impossible by myself. With the Lords help not people .❤❤❤
❤Amen❤ same with me.
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I seemed to have lost family and friends after an injury and I couldn’t help everyone anymore. Funny how that works. I’m a natural giver , not a sucker anymore .
Same here. That is when you see their true colours. What doesn’t brake you make you stronger 😊
Me too Ashley, l understand l built my life around my friends, l experienced some trauma, needed at least a few many to talk with.
It's as though we have never met
I was always there for them if they needed me always, l would never turn my back on a friend never.
I have to adjust my thinking it's tough.
Well great job in the past.I am really sorry you had gotten hurt.
I'm aware of you're "Sorrow", how
you felt as being a sucker?-Never
That! God new then and used "You"
at those specific times. You could
never(!) Be a suckered for God. By your kindness being conveyed when you didn't have to shows=
Strength!So alone or not stay Strong,because "They"lost a GOOD
THING😊
And does eny one help you now I hope thy do,if I had known you I would off,
I've always been a loner, and for good reasons.
I'm hated for being self efficient, masculine, handsome, with a bit of charisma and mystic. Things that some men either love or hate in a other men. Yes, I would rather be left alone. I was out there "trying to come to my own" as a young man, but had it all along.
Just didn't know it until I had gotten older and realized I have a light, a light that they want to extinguish. I regret I didn't see it when I was younger.
Wow interesting. Im 57 and have always been a loner. And because of that a target
Im 35 and Can relate to this very much! 🙏
I am 80 and battling from anxiety and depression and wrong thinking I am on medication and not happy about that addiction : have lost confidence to be with people and now after listening I must strive to live the best I can Tq will listen again and again to spur me on
I so enjoyed this, I like time to my self, but also enjoy company. Since Covid most of my interaction with people, has been via the phone. 🤷♀️I’m going to listen to this tonight, his voice is so calming, it will most likely put me too sleep. There’s some great lines in there 😉
You are so right your light has always been within you , when you were younger wolves in sheep clothing who disguised themselves as friends and lovers is what you dealt with
Loneliness is the prize you pay, when you start to improve yourself …..well agreed 💯 👌🏾🙌🏾
Hum good thing I've always been a loner...step ahead💯
I agree I been alone for a year or two I’ve felt this burning feeling in my chest it started a few years ago it’s not ailment I’ve talked to other meditators they feel the same the animals of the world also know something s up i sees the sign mass pole shift maybe 🤔love an prayers to everyone an everything that is living
Facts!
But i am alone by choice & TMH has blessed me to not feel lonliness most people feel. Im so tired of being ignored, disrespected, neglected & mistreated by being co-dependent
Beautiful & Well Said 🏆
Its lonely on the top, but your reward is peace. You can't put a price tag on this 💜
I always been a loner and rarely enjoy human companionship or behaviors. Being around Animals give me far more joy
What i understand is that has a human,when we give out love to people, we expect, them to show appreciation but most times the capacity on our goodness dogs when you're good to them they will love you, and its the mindset of people and their thoughts ❤
Amen complete total joy laughter love.
The very best friends l have ever had are animals the ones with four legs.
I adore them.
Me too 😊❤
birds for me
@catherinepatton8699 It is very nice,but humans interactions are very important. Those 4 legged friends will eat off your face after you stop feeding them, and I have seen that happen before.
You had me at "who gives a shit"...
"Not everyone is your friend."
The quote at 1:40 hits hard, "Rule your life with your mind, not with your feelings. Every bad decision we have made in life, there was more emotion in it than there was mind. Every Single one."
what about marriage? if you find your wife through pure reason there will be no love. finding your wife includes more emotions than rationality and it is not a bad decision.
@@14MCDLXXXVIII88 You're absolutely right but just check the quote, it says “every bad decision”, If your wife is a pure soul then it is not a bad decision. Every thing we do is directly or indirectly based on emotions.
Soon TRUE!
@14MCDLXXXVIII88 no family is business. You can grow to love someone that increases your wellbeing and the wellbeing of your legacy. That doesn't mean pick anyone that seems like a smart choice. Just pick from a pool of your smart choices. Use your emotions on the pool only. 👍🏾
Yes
At the age of 43 my eyes are open. I was the ppl pleaser I always said yes. I expected too much from the ppl who so called love me. And those same ppl turned their backs on me. Boy what a wake up call this video is on time. Im never lonely just alone. I dont have that friend word its too much hard work keeping a true friend. So I am my true friend. And Ion hate a soul. And Im content with never going back to anyone who had me uneasy. THIS VIDEO IS A GEM.
My life exactly like that till this day😢😢 I cut out all non blood family who used me to the bone. Now is my family who have no one to helped them but me. I feel like I was born to make others happy and myself suffer 💔
Me too😢. Now 28th am changing my life.
Same life
Thank you so much for this video. A lot of people have disagreed with me, but living alone and being alone I believe is the best for me.
ALONE ❤🎉❤🎉❤I AM NOT REALLY LONELY... BECAUSE I AM Happy ❤🎉❤🎉I LOVE & RESPECT MYSELF❤🎉❤32+ YEAR'S NO ALCOHOL NO DRUGS , ONLY LOVE❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤HELPS THE SPIRIT,THE SOUL, AND MAKES A TRULY QUALITY TYPE OF HUMAN BEING ❤❤❤❤❤I FIGHT BATTLES OTHER'S HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT,NOR DO I BRAG ABOUT WINNING ALL THOSE BATTLES
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding
In all your ways acknowledge Him and
He shall direct your paths!
Amen 🙏
Amen ❤️
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen 😊
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I'm 65 year's old and getting my education started everyday listening to these amazing videos..completely amazing. Thankyou Jesus for not Forgetting me lord..Thankyou again guy's Nicely said and done! ♡🌿🙌👍
Beautiful people are not always good but good people are always beautiful.
Aye
Yes!
don't look back, you are not going that way! Work on yourself and make a fortune... some of your best times havent happened yet ❤❤❤
"Loneliness is a mindset born by individuals who need life justification."
Is good to be alone and I am enjoying the quiet time I get in my life and I am not alone because I know God is always there for me….Amen ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Amen
❤Amen❤
Amen 💜
I’m living all these affirmations because I’ve lived through the darkness to open my eyes and see the light with clarity… I’ve learned to love differently, choose wisely, think smarter, let go easier and soar above those cannot fly without guilt.
"Distance isn't a barrier; it's a chance to prove your strength and determination."
I'm 64 years old and I'm glad to listen to this amazing video of wisdom and knowledge guys.. just receiving more important message of Wisdom and of knowledge.. it's very educational and important to me.. Thankyou guy's abbreviated it All..👍🤔❣️
It's been said that friendship is life's greatest gift, yet it's one of the things that can destroy you, leave you broke, and in pain. They say "You must first be a friend, to have a friend," but none of my "friends" wanted me to prosper, and during my darkest hours, I always found myself alone. I always hoped the best for them and did whatever I could to prop them up. In the end, I believe I was the friend I always wanted to have. After all these years I can clearly see why they say, "If you find one true friend in life, you have done well."
In my 40s I started to see these philosophies and applied them to my life through the power of whatever creators are in our world.
Iv so much peace and alone time that I love
Decided to stay single and work on myself for about 2 years.
Got in a relationship that ended in heartbreak and was filled with anxiety and stress the entire time being in the relationship.
After the breakup I became happy again and realized I was my happiest while alone.
It's good people out there so never give up just always be careful
If it keeps you happy keep it to yourself I love that one ❤️
Sorry about that.
Listen to your gut...FEELINGS! Feelings are the sensual part of you. Your emotions, “feeling” have their part to play. Just use your mind to hold back when you need to and to move forward when it’s wise. Live each day in the present moment and love what you do. When it’s not always to your liking, work hard at what needs to be accomplished and be grateful you have attained inner discipline. Money will not always flow so use your money wisely. Happiness is circumstantial. Joy is ever abiding. Positive thinking is good but it’s opposite can balance you and cause you to take action when action is necessary. Life is not one big pot plant miasma. You sound rather negative about love. Learn of it. Go further than you’ve gone with it. Define it. Expectations are on a continuum. Set your goals and climb. Step back and take a sabbatical. Be balanced in reality. True about focus and vision when your heart gets broken and it’s true people don’t care so don’t talk too much. Watch your money and yes at some point make peace with your past. Be kind not “nice”. Growing up is vital. It happens when you least expect it. Great about everyone is going to hurt you. It’s true because we all perceive differently and few know how to effectively communicate. Sometimes we need to back away and be silent. This for the most part sounds wise and true. Really good. All are necessary chapters to complete your book. Intetesting. Stoic philosophies made modern for us. Yeah I liked a lot of it. Yes about forgiveness. The ones worth suffering for. Yep. Ok
I thought all of these were great. I managed to apply several of them throughout the past 40 years. Only a few of them did I make exceptions for my husband. I also shared the wisdom of the quotes with him.
I have saved this in my profile so I can listen and share wirh others now that my husband is gone. Thank you!
Very true . Folks want you to do good, but not better than then. I learned that from I was 16 yrs old. I'm a loner and I'm happy . Betrayal hurts.
These concepts are pure gold. Even if a listener took a couple of these principles and paid close attention to them, there would be immediate life realizations and improvements. I am over sixty and have been applying some of these ideas over the years without realizing it. To hear them drives the points home.
A good laugh and a long sleep heal everything ❤❤❤
That's why I watch fake fart videos at bedtime!
I have suffered the pain of hell from Jelousy, left right and center, from families socalled friends, pretencious sympathizers, Witches and Warlocks, deadbeats husbands and almost everyone i have trusted. I am like Joseph the Dreamer, too kind and too helpful have made me a targetto be used, and used i was. However, I am waiting to reap Gods promices as yet but I am recouperating to rise like the Phonics.
The way you treat others reflect who you are, not who they are. This one hit home. Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed. YES!!!! Thank you 🙏
Love listening to these quotes. It helps to get over the harshness of life and the cruelty of some people.i just rest and listen to this.very helpful.
Yes Father God thank you so much Father God in teaching me to what to do my life.
This is the best moderator that I have heard. I think some quotes are to emphasize to make it more meaningful. THANK YOU.
I’ve given away so much of myself to people that truly didn’t deserve it and it only left me brokenhearted 💔 I’m learning how to embrace loneliness after listening to all the great advice. I realize that people pretend that they love you but in reality they really don’t! 😢
🦁💯🏆 "Mastering others is strength, Mastering YOUrself is True Power."
Thank you for these quotes. I am 76 and a lot of them I have used in my life, but lot of them I didn’t know had I’d known them my life would have been much better. It’s not to late to practice them now because life will now be much better.
Pushin 60 now, these quotes all make sense after 6 decades but the one thing I have come to realise is that there is peace to be found in acceptance, accept people for what they are and accept them for what they do, you don’t have to like it but accept it and move forward.
The Beatles once sang a song that said let it be, great words of wisdom, let it be and move on……
@@suginomura Depends on the context of the song.
I’ve found some lyrics to be very wise and have a positive effect on my life and sanity , so it’s foolish to simply just dismiss all musical lyrics because a band also made fun and frivolous pop music too, that’s crazy thinking!.
They also sang about no Heaven and no Hell
This is a great list of affirmations… I know a lot of these already, so this makes me realize I’ve been learning & paying attention.😌
I love these quotes. These are the keys to life...I love the grit that you added to some of these.
I am considered an extrovert. And I like people - well I like strangers. 17 minutes of conversation and I know all I need to know about you.
At 69 I realize I'm not necessarily a loner as much as I am an independent. So many people insist on one way when there are at least 3 ways to do everything. And I don't like to be told that their way is the only way. So I live alone - well with my 96 lb German Shepherd and I'm happy. My siblings and my children and my grandchildren worry about me. But I'm completely happy
This is all about declaring your independence and standing up on your own 2 feet. And that's good. What's needed as well (perhaps its own video) is what a healthy community and being part of one takes.
It requires conformity and loss of self.
"Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants." - Epictetus
No needs, very fine feeling indeed.
Who is watching this in 2024? This made me think clearly. Thank you for posting these inspiring wisdom quotes. Joyful, successful unity prayerful nuturing and healed 2024 to all! 🙏🏽🙏✨️🎉🌌
I love how your channel is a source of daily motivation. It's like a virtual dose of encouragement.
I'm going back to my old ways of being by myself. I tried to fit in and make friends but i always get disappointed. This things is not for me.
Am 25 years old, am so lucky to gain this piece of wisdom "I wish I knew" will never be my phrase 🙏
I’ve tried to avoid loneliness my whole life, but nearly everyone I’ve met walks away, I don’t think we have a choice. Others decide whether a person lives life alone.
It does seem
Like that - I think God wants me alone for a while longer so that I do my art - that’s what i am guessing ! Do you ever wonder like that ?
Amen and hallelujah glory be to god our protector in my life amen
Amen I predicate in listing to you in a few minutes, I say Amen. I want you to Know that the words has brought peace and commonsense into my life. Thank you, and keep up with the good work . I hope as many people will have the potunety to hear you or listing to you, all you are sayin is so so true thanks God bless you.
THANK YOU FOR THESE WORDS OF WISDOM.
Time does NOT CURE anything.
So...do not waste time to think that.
Everything stays with you.
Your body never forgets.
Your body keeps the score.
So protect yourself maximum.
You are describing ALL THE ADVICE I need to deal with my family!!! Its heartbreaking 💔these are the people that brought me in 🌎 and brought me up! I'm the ONLY ONE that became successful and they treat me horrifically and use me!!!
It's lonely 😢but I'm done! Thank you for the reminders!!!
Don't think of it being lonley....the strong always walk alone..it's like haven the sun as a family member....wait I see why they treat us like that🤪😂still not right...I only got one thing to say...SHINE bright like a diamond...
I can relate but like it's been said at 1:40
Amen. Shine like a diamond.
Knowing that there is ONLY NOW~ keeps me mindful of the power of my sacred breath~ here and now. 🧘🏾♀️💨
The most people that judge me, can't stand me, can't accept who I am and what I have to say or even ask for the sake and love of thier parents, they don't like my presence, hold grudges against me, they ignore me and if a family member speaks they praise them and and put them on a pedal stone, they just plain hate me and that is my blood siblings. I don't like confrontation, fighting, hurting anyone, insulting any one, name calling, but I am truely hated by family only!🙂
I know EXACTLY what you mean!. I had to take a look back at my life.. and figured out that my own family (even mom) was my blockers in life. We all still love eachother.. but for some reason...... they belittled me. This conversation can go on and on... currently struggling with a couple people at work that just *HATE* ME and we've never had confrontations, etc. This is totally fu*ked up! .. so I know how you feel!
I feel better now. Searched this topic trying to find out if I'm overlooking something or going the wrong direction with my 17 year old
You are an old soul and that is a good thing. Just wanting to make sure you haven't missed anything is remarkable. God Bless
Great advice/ tips. Never ever accept disrespect! So freaking true. One thing in this life I can't tolerate is disrespect. Silence is key! Blessings! 🙏👍
Thank you for including a transcript. It was extremely helpful.
God bless you SIR for creating this one.
You have given the solutions to my most genuine problems.
Going through listening this 2 hour thread, my mind couldn't wander anywhere because of your voice`grossness.
I have downloaded it and i definitely know that whenever I would listen it again, it would give me strength, ideas and much more UNIQUE.
Again, God BLESS you sir for creating this UNIQUE-PEACE.❤❤❤❤
Jesus Christ provides with perfect peace. People were made to be part of community, to reach out and support and love one another. I am a hermit by nature ,but that is not how God wants us to be. Yes there are people out there who use you, but we have the Holy Spirit who gives us discernment and who should be kept out of our inner circle of friends. God loves us and has a plan for each of our lives.
I have found this the speech of a man who has been hurt and has put up walls around himself. Quite depressing , not encouraging, but stoic and frozen.
Jesus came to give us life and life more abundantly. To all you out there who are going through hard times or have no hope, Jesus came to give you life .
God bless you all, Jesus brings us life eternal.
I went through depression and went to end my life, but God came with His amazing love and changed my life. Stoicism is not the answer.
Be kind. But don't let people use you. Excellent advice!
I am so sorry! I wish I have heard this before 20 years ago! That I would've made better choices! And I wouldn't be in this situation that I am right now! But I can still learn. Thank you so much.! I'm listening to your advice! Simply amazing! Like you said, it's never too late to learn! Had to be patient! Thank you so much please pray for me for wisdom and understanding more than anything. I want to believe that most people are good.! I need strength and wisdom! Thank you so much this open my eyes! A little late, but he's better late than never thank you so much! I wish I can talk to you in person! Everything you're saying is true! My biggest problem is that I trust people too much! Because I have a good heart I think everybody is like me! And I made a big mistake of trusting the wrong people! Who turned out to be fake! So, by opening my eyes! I will make better decisions! Thank you so much. I am so grateful to you.! God bless you! And thank you again for your valuable information not to trust anybody or everybody! Because everybody's not like me! Not everybody has a good heart! And that everybody's honest! They lie they lie, they lie! And this is what I tell people! They don't like to hear the truth! But they would be much happier if I tell them a lie! So I'm gonna start line from now on! And everybody would love me now! Thank you for opening my eyes to see that everybody's kind like me not everybody, so give her like me! I gave my time, my money, my effort, my energy to a lot of people specially my family! But like you said, it's never too late! Thank you❤❤❤❤❤
Me too, I have regretted so many bad choices in life that r still so painful today.. thk u 👍👏🥰💕💞
Das durfte ich auch lernen, das nicht alle wie ich sind. Wir sind alle verschieden und das ist gut so. Wichtig ist doch die Prüfung anzunehmen und mit Selbstliebe hinauszukommen. Es wird immer Geber und Nehmer geben. Gib dir zu erst, immer.❤
It amazing how smart we become when getting older! God knows I did become one. It's just like saying I learnd long time ago,, broken ship knows that life is a journey,,
Great stuff. Have saved this vid & will listen again & again, being a slow learner & a quick forgetter! 😊
WOW came across this tonight November 21, totally amazing I shared with many people. This is a life changer 😍. Thank you much blessings from Florida ❤️
I am almost 65 and have had to learn alot of this through much hardship. And I am still learning, and will be till my last breath.
Timing is everything… I found this treasure just at the right time which help affirm thoughts I’ve had about sensitive situations with family members. Thank you!
Endure til the end friend.
Thank you so much !
It was great time listening to
Remarkable advices !!
The most powerful motivation God bless you
Very sound wisdom. Very enlightening thanks.
The truth is everyone is going to hurt you, you just have to know who is Worth suffering for ✔️
Whoever is listening to this take head it’s true I had to learn the hard way Thank you for sharing🎉🎉🎉🎉
Love your stuff. Thanks. People, what are we without memory? To those who say memories are bad I say rethink. Just process your memories positively and don't let them control you.
Read II Corinthians 12-21, Memories, good or bad, is part of this life. You seem to lean toward your own understanding but "The True God" has a way to draw men like you. Just rest your mind and your soul will follow
The very beginning of this topic, happens to me, dealing with the devil demonic ppl, i lost everything house 🏠 🚗🚘jobs ect ect.
Now renting and doing public transit 🚇
Life is one long road with lots of signs
Wow, so,so many true,clear words.
Everything, every word is truth.
You have made me feel so much better.
So many thanks 🙏 ❤
Thank you for sharing these wisdoms. 🎉
“I may be alone but I rarely feel lonely” - This has been at different periods of my life
Thank you for your words of Wisdom! ❤
I really learned a lot about people and life by listening to all the advice. I truly wish that I heard it sooner but I’m going to apply them to my life. Thanks 🙏🏾 ❤
Morning, Indeed & totally drained my Spirits & Positive Vibe due to SO KIND HEARTED ❤😂😎🤟🙏
If nobody has ever said it to you, I will.
Well done on getting this far. You should be so proud of yourself. Keep it up, keep being kind to yourself, and most importantly, keep trusting God while you keep moving forward. ❤❤❤
“Some people secretly want you to fail” Wow I’ve been through so much shit in my 36 years on earth and never realized this fact.
I'm 64 and retired. I have been a weight lifter since I was 19. I started practicing martial arts at 21. I still lift and do my kata's and do heavy bag training. I am a musician, and i was a loner since i was very young. I enjoy my friends, but i value my "me" time. I could spend all day writing, preforming, recording, and listening to music. I also have 3 aquariums, i meditate to them. I am a Pagan. I am a fortune teller. I use my crystal ball for fortune tell snd meditation. I studied Carlos Castaneda! Interesting books, i love "The Journey to Ixtalan." I own 60 acres with 55 wooded. I meditate in the woods. Fishing is a relaxing pastime. I eat healthy and am a avid gardener.
Sounds good to me
AMEN. Thank you Heavenly Father for your beautiful message and kind advises in the name of Jesus.
I really appreciate how your channel serves as a constant wellspring of inspiration, providing a digital infusion of motivation on a daily basis.
Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn - that's a win - win situation ❤
Your absolutely right i gotta learn to value myself before valuing other's time what I'm paying for I had to learn not trust others who are liars manipulators and psychotic assholes...it was my fault for being too nice to those who were up to no good and not be trusted..even though I sometimes had to be disciplined in order to learn my place without being caught up in craziness that's what I get for beefing with evil so much but there's things and certain sacrifices I had to make choices to stop it without losing everything I worked hard for ain't no body was gonna destroy me na huh I've gone through enough and I'm emotionally drained I've had enough I was too weak to set boundaries with toxic enemies but it ain't happening again I refuse to be a victim again.
I told myself if I'm being burned out it's because other enemies are trying to sabotage me enough to see me ,fail struggle or give up,
I thought I was a narcissistic person but I'm more of empath then a narc I care about other's I try to help others but not be token advantage of I'm afraid to own up to the truths of being wrong if I messed up I'll hold myself accountable but if not then I won't apologize if it's someone else's fault..I shouldn't have been open minded too much that's how I got token for granted and I blame myself for not being cautious of things I do when I should try to be selfless of other's priorities who respect me I make mistakes I don't mean to do them deliberately on purpose but I'd try to find a solution to fix them so it doesn't occur into another problem later and get worst
my family would say I need to stop attacking myself on things I do wrong God knows my heart and know the kind of person I am I do self analyze myself I would need to think highly of myself then to talk negative about me and say I'm a terrible person.....I'm human not perfect I mess up at times doesn't mean I don't care it just means I struggle but won't get everything right all the time others who like to complain about everything can either appericate it or kiss my black ass then either way I'm not tolerating stupidity anymore enough is enough I deserve respect and I want to be left alone...I can help others but if they use me that's it their own their own their problems ain't gonna be my concern their own issues are their own not mine.
We know all those things,but life goes on,live as best you can,guard your peace and let them all get on with their lives,in this short space of time.Alone is not lonely.
"No man is your friend, no man is your enemy; all men are your teachers."- Some guy thats never been in my kitchen
Ppl take kindness for granted,
Im mid seventies, im still learning, ppl are always scamming people, i watch, i listen, smile and move on. I know who i am were im going in life. I've done well not taking others so seriously 😊😊.
Thank you! 😉
Thank you so much for sharing this meaningful quotes, it’s help me a lot.
The lesson is straightforward, it's simple enough, and nothing is remembered easier. Do-not EVER trust people. Do-not EVER even ever conditionally do so. Not-to will be
This is a great video; thank you for sharing. ❤
Such wisdom! So empowering!
A really good way to start a morning. Really good quotes here.
Glad you enjoyed it