What Summer says is very important, though. You can't settle for somebody whom you're not sure about, like she was unsure about Tom. When she met her husband, she was finally SURE that she'd found a truly compatible partner. She's not being cold here; she's being honest. He needed to hear these words so that he could move on from her and open his heart to Autumn.
But if you're unsure about someone then why would you hookup and kiss and have sex with them? That means that she actually gave hope to him didn't she?
@@rohitgurav16 that doesn't mean she owes him anything... when you date someone, you do all that stuff to know for sure of you actually have the right chemestry with that person, there is not a perfect timing to feel unsure about someone, maybe at the very start you feel good and later on the more you get to know the other person you don't feel right. It's not her fault to realize that later on, even thougt breaking up is always hard, it would have been way worse to be unhappy with someone you just realized you don't truly love, just for pity.
Summer gave Tom a gift here which we don't usually get after a breakup, closure. Instead of Tom's development, we get a peak of Summer's. She found true love and cared enough about Tom to seek him out and give him an explanation.
@ShivamShukla-66 Autume never rescued Tom...He just moved on with life and wanted to date again....No one will rescue you , you have to decide to move on
People hate this specific scene because it showed the reality of this kind of situation. It sucks to be in the place of both characters - not being sure of the person you met, or falling in love with someone you thought will give you back the love you ask for in return. But the thing is, this is how life works. You can’t make people love you the way you love them. You can’t also give your heart to someone that you don’t see as your significant other, knowing that you’re just gonna hurt both of you. That’s a pill that’s definitely hard to swallow, but it is what it is.
How TF is summer situation sucking rn? She got everything she never hoped for and she is happy. The only one that sucks there is Tom, summer is fine and dandy
@@jordoruiz0001 it wasnt as bad as Tom's, but dont assume that it is easy to tell someone "youre not the one i was looking for" or "i was nevee sure about you". the important thjng to note here is thar Summer had been very clear with one thing from the start; she bluntly told Tom that she wasnt into serious stuff. she never intended to lead him on. tom on the other hand, finally broke free from her, especially after this scene. also, Tom was finaply able to work on himself [career wise] after their break up. its honestly a win-win., it was not just that obvious.
I hate this specific scene and the whole movie in general because Summer has no accountability in treating Tom badly. Never apologized. The fact that Zooey Deschanel is the actor makes it worse, because she is truly terrible at acting. Scenes that require her to have empathy make her look like a calculated psychopath. I’m aware that the moral is supposed to be that you can’t force love. Zooey Deschanel could not convey that.
She didn't do that for him.....she did it for herself..... She knows she did him dirty, and she feels guilty about it.....she doesn't love Tom.....she never did...... Tom was a Toy to her
@@Struggle_Streaming_With_BKshe literally told him she ddnt want to be with him she was clear he allowed him self to tell a story in his head that is not on her that’s in him he’s an adult
@curlygirldeeex3425 was Tom delusional. Sure....but she invited him to a party that her man was going to be at, knowing how he felt about her.... this 🐝 is a devil!!!!! She didn't show up to give Tom closure.... she showed up because she feels guilty about what she did to him. She wanted to know if Tom was good, so she didn't feel bad anymore. She doesn't GAF about Tom's feelings, she never did..... Thats why Tom is delusional
@@Struggle_Streaming_With_BK tom was a fucking dumbass just like 90 percent of the men rn yall get butthurt when it all was well deserved and then grieve on the internet like incels,she could not have been clearer its completely toms fault
@@curlygirldeeex3425 and there are scenes that counter that (Ikea, initiating the kiss, initiating reconnecting after the fight, etc.). That's more than the friends with benefits setup she pushed it off as
its just hurts looking at this. I am in the same situation. She just hooked up with someone that she barely just met, even when I was chasing her for years. Its just unfair and I know life is always unfair but this word just keeps coming out of my mouth every time I think about it. "What I was never sure of you". Which might have been what she thought too. What could I have done to not made her unsure of me, I don't know. I like just the way she is, all I want is to just have that special connection with her. I really wish there won't be anymore of anyone ever have this cursed feeling I'm having.
Just find a more beautiful, better girl for you and make sure to let her friends and her know. She will be jealous because she wants the attention not you. So sorry but you might be dealing with a narcissists.
Lived that scene. Did not hold it together like Tom did. Painful. It was hard to believe the people who told me I'd get over it. It took two years. I''m stronger now. Smarter now about how relationships are. Having a good life. But still miss living in the happy delusion even though I would never go back to it. The other movie that nails a similar mindframe is The Matrix. That one's not about love but all about "happy delusion". And when I saw it post divorce, for the first time I understood the slimy "traitor" that wanted to go back into the Matrix.
I read somewhere that this was an imaginary scene, and that Tom didn't really meet Summer here. It was just a situation that he imagined in his head, him wanting closure and all. I went through something similar 16 years ago where we were young and in love and we suddenly broke up and she moved on way better than I did. But I never got closure, so I kinda had to look back at the warning signs and where it was going wrong, like Rachel said to Tom
Summer is the ultimate girl next door. They give off the vibe of "I can be with you . . . right now" even when you will never be with them. Summer is being sincere with checking on Tom, but it can be more difficult on letting go.
i havent watched this movie. but... if someone had the courage to tell me what exactly he/she feels no matter how hard or harsh it could be, id definitely appreciate that person. and it will help me get thru the moving on process much faster too.
Well, for all we know Summer left her husband 4 years later whereas Tom had a great Autumn and a happily ever after. People like Summer don't make great life long partners or any sort of lasting partner as they act on whims (which she did throughout the movie). She would most likely end up only being "happy" in an open marriage or relationship. The movie beautifully shows how two people navigate relationships in polar opposite ways. I dislike that it potrays Tom's sensitivity, as some sort of naivety. Tom's attachement style indeed has problems and doesn't gel well with a character like Summer. But given that, lasting relationships are hardwork and not some sort of mystical and magical randomness event. People like Tom are the ones who end up having a "life" partner whereas people like Summer usually die alone after their 4th failed marriage.
@@carlaconnor8347yeah summer is a major red flag for a girl. She didn't even know why she's unsure about Tom. She's just using her emotion without any realizing tom is sincere for the beginning. Instead she's just accepted a proposal from a man who she barely knows. Any sane person would not think otherwise.
@@dapidyunanto7968 absolutely not summer was completely valid in her decision and tom is the delusional one, he chases the idea of him being happy only when he finds the perfect girl, the most obvious clue of this is when he meets autumn and it all starts again, tom might never learn considering how the movie ends and in summers defence she stated MULTIPLE TIMES that she just wants to be friends and nothing more, i agree that the stuff they did was wayyyy more than just being friends but thats just who she is, even in the beginning of the movie when they show both of them as kids the narrator tells us how much summer absolutely loves her dark long hair but also cuts them with no remorse or feelings. if only tom wouldve not had this idea of a perfect girl that you meet then they both wouldve stayed friends even after her marriage, but tom did overreact and blamed her even tho she stated it ike 1000 times in the movie. and if you blame summer for not knowing why she didnt think of tom as perfect applies to tom more than her cuz tom is the one who believes in the idea of "love"/"perfect girl" and that he cannot enjoy life without one, summer was happy without him and happier with him, as per her husband she probably saw something in him that she didnt in tom. basically if i was tom and shi like this wouldve happened to me then i wouldve kms so his reaction is also justified, hence no one was the villian in this movie just two very complicated people with different idea of love
They both are dumb. She sucks because she knew she could string him along, he was clearly super into her and she just let him get more infatuated, and he’s stupid for falling g for it and ignoring all the signs that she’s never going to chose him.
@@gianperez2103Summer: “hey, I don’t like you the way you like me, and I never will, let’s go our separate ways” Tom: “yeah, I need to listen to what you’re saying and not follow signs I’ve made up in my head about you, thanks for the clarity”. See? Easy. Cut and dry.
Nah, Summer is *not* his mother. Tom was an adult (albeit a young one), he made the choice, and he knew there was a risk of it not going how he wanted it to, and (like everyone has to) he had deal with the consequences. She communicated with him well before he took the leap, and that's the whole arc of Tom.. He was not being honest with himself, and this echoed throughout the whole movie. The most noticeable was Summer wasn't what he wanted, but he hoped she would change her mind in-time and unnoticeably. He didn't particularly like his job one and he knew it was not his true calling. He shrugged off Summer's advice to go after his true calling and she referenced it at the engagement party= he lacked ambition. Also, lacking honesty breeds neediness, Tom was incredibly needy, although understandably in the situation he was in.
The reality check here for me is this: If you ever fall into a relationship which is unhealthy or makes you feel unhappy, you will grab hold of the first opportunity to get out of it. In this case. yes. Summer met someone in the diner and he is now her husband. It does not necessarily mean he is her true love but that guy gave her something that she might not find again - an opportunity to escape Tom. People dont realize but they choose someone because of convenience first and "love" second
Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces. Mathew 7:6
A hard to swallow pill but nonetheless, a closure. My last relationship of 7 years just one day told me she didn't want to move on anymore and blocked me. Since we're half the globe apart I cannot even find her to get an explanation, I'm married with kid now but not gonna lie it still hurts to think about it sometimes, in a sad way, not a regretful way.
I still wonder the quote about “people just grow apart” kind of things is really quoted in the movie or not? I have watched this several times but I don’t think it is in the movie. 😅
Summer is one of the most selfish human character i have seen. Everything she did in the movie was for herself. She never for once considered tom's feelings
yall fucking dumbasses, this is why i see mfs on the internet all sad and shi she left and all that bullshit like DUDE SHE SAYS A 100 TIMES SHE NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS ITS TOMS FAULT HE GOT ATTACHED AND YOU CANNOT MAKE A PERSON LIKE YOU BACK, IF ONLY HE DID NOT HAVE A FUCKED UP IDEA OF LOVE THEY STILL WOULDVE BEEN GOOD FRIENDS. just because you want someone very badly doesnt mean you deserve them or that they should want u too, life doesnt work like that
This scene is what I would have said to my first love, had I found my spouse before he met his, he was Mormon and I was brought up christian years before. When we met I was a raging non-believer and still am to this day. But I can say the phrase there's a reason for everything, resonates even to a secular person like me
This all you need to rewatch in this movie. And then rewatch the ending because it's funny when he meets autumn. The one that follows summer. Because he's better educated about love and relationships so you know he's going to be alright.
Summer was cold-blooded, she was only willing to settle down with a certain type of guy. However, this should also be a lesson to young men that love shouldn’t take the place of having a career path. Tom was an underachieving young man, who was trying to find his happiness through “falling in love”, and that’s not a good recipe.
Well, Summer 1st said she did not want anything serious and then she did with Tom, at thr end she took the dude who was financially more stable, at the party at the end she said that Tom could be a great architect if he wanted to. I mean Dorian Grey, really? She was thr one who asked Tom about The Smiths, is that not the same nonsense. Fact is, love is shit, has nothing to do woth what you do, you cant make anyone live you, Tom was in love she was bored, end of the story. Like, why the hell does she touch his damn hand at the end.
i would choose to encounter a person like summer than someone who cant be honest about the most basic things. do not forget, from day 1- summer had always been veey honest about her intentions of not wanting anything serious with Tom.
@@V_for_Victory_for_V for real! my version of summer was a woman that was lying about her commitment level the whole time we dated until i fell for her and then she just dipped. wish she would have been up front about her needs so i could have subverted my expectations. FRICK!
Summer is the worst person here. In reality, these type of people end up old and alone because they used others and laugh at their pain. These are the type of people who will cheat on you if they got bored. 😢
What annoys me about Summer is how it not arrogant or cynical but downright immature and childish. A woman that age mocking the very concept of love existing despite all the proof around her. It seems like a defense mechanism that gives her the ability to act however she feels until maybe, eventually that changes and she does fall in love...again? Don't remember if she ever heen in love but her wannabe edgy and oh so jaded outlook on life was nothing but a sham. I say good riddance although Tom can't realise he never had chemistry with her,that she isn't just someone to be won like a prize and not realizing he doesn't even love her personality,just her looks. They both kinda suck, it's just that Summer feels alot more disingenuous.
Very disingenuous!! She was hurt about her parent’s divorce, and it would take a relationship with Prince Charming to make her settle down. Whether her marriage works out or not, she’ll be financially set.
What Summer says is very important, though. You can't settle for somebody whom you're not sure about, like she was unsure about Tom. When she met her husband, she was finally SURE that she'd found a truly compatible partner. She's not being cold here; she's being honest. He needed to hear these words so that he could move on from her and open his heart to Autumn.
In my case I've never opened my heart to autumn I haved dead in summer on the beach...
💯
He was sure about her...stfu
But if you're unsure about someone then why would you hookup and kiss and have sex with them? That means that she actually gave hope to him didn't she?
@@rohitgurav16 that doesn't mean she owes him anything... when you date someone, you do all that stuff to know for sure of you actually have the right chemestry with that person, there is not a perfect timing to feel unsure about someone, maybe at the very start you feel good and later on the more you get to know the other person you don't feel right. It's not her fault to realize that later on, even thougt breaking up is always hard, it would have been way worse to be unhappy with someone you just realized you don't truly love, just for pity.
Summer gave Tom a gift here which we don't usually get after a breakup, closure. Instead of Tom's development, we get a peak of Summer's. She found true love and cared enough about Tom to seek him out and give him an explanation.
I am still stuck with summer, theirs no autumn in my life to rescue me 😭😅
@ShivamShukla-66 Autume never rescued Tom...He just moved on with life and wanted to date again....No one will rescue you , you have to decide to move on
@@linapesz313 i have given up bro
People hate this specific scene because it showed the reality of this kind of situation.
It sucks to be in the place of both characters - not being sure of the person you met, or falling in love with someone you thought will give you back the love you ask for in return. But the thing is, this is how life works. You can’t make people love you the way you love them. You can’t also give your heart to someone that you don’t see as your significant other, knowing that you’re just gonna hurt both of you. That’s a pill that’s definitely hard to swallow, but it is what it is.
How TF is summer situation sucking rn? She got everything she never hoped for and she is happy. The only one that sucks there is Tom, summer is fine and dandy
Tom got the short end of the stick. Tom losses everything and Summer gains everything.
@@jordoruiz0001 it wasnt as bad as Tom's, but dont assume that it is easy to tell someone "youre not the one i was looking for" or "i was nevee sure about you".
the important thjng to note here is thar Summer had been very clear with one thing from the start; she bluntly told Tom that she wasnt into serious stuff.
she never intended to lead him on.
tom on the other hand, finally broke free from her, especially after this scene.
also, Tom was finaply able to work on himself [career wise] after their break up.
its honestly a win-win., it was not just that obvious.
I hate this specific scene and the whole movie in general because Summer has no accountability in treating Tom badly. Never apologized. The fact that Zooey Deschanel is the actor makes it worse, because she is truly terrible at acting. Scenes that require her to have empathy make her look like a calculated psychopath. I’m aware that the moral is supposed to be that you can’t force love. Zooey Deschanel could not convey that.
@@jordoruiz0001plus, tom was the one who had to learn all the lessons. Summer learned nothing
Summer relaized Tom was right. Tom realized Summer was right.
Great observation 🗿
"It's just wasn't me that you were right about... 💔"
This screen until the end of the movie is so true to life.
The ending is unfortunately a fantasy. In so many cases this is the end for most people, and what awaits them is loneliness
@@HCforLife1 Harsh bitter reality
She loved him enough to give him the closure he needed
She didn't do that for him.....she did it for herself..... She knows she did him dirty, and she feels guilty about it.....she doesn't love Tom.....she never did...... Tom was a Toy to her
@@Struggle_Streaming_With_BKshe literally told him she ddnt want to be with him she was clear he allowed him self to tell a story in his head that is not on her that’s in him he’s an adult
@curlygirldeeex3425 was Tom delusional. Sure....but she invited him to a party that her man was going to be at, knowing how he felt about her.... this 🐝 is a devil!!!!! She didn't show up to give Tom closure.... she showed up because she feels guilty about what she did to him. She wanted to know if Tom was good, so she didn't feel bad anymore. She doesn't GAF about Tom's feelings, she never did..... Thats why Tom is delusional
@@Struggle_Streaming_With_BK tom was a fucking dumbass just like 90 percent of the men rn yall get butthurt when it all was well deserved and then grieve on the internet like incels,she could not have been clearer its completely toms fault
@@curlygirldeeex3425 and there are scenes that counter that (Ikea, initiating the kiss, initiating reconnecting after the fight, etc.). That's more than the friends with benefits setup she pushed it off as
its just hurts looking at this. I am in the same situation. She just hooked up with someone that she barely just met, even when I was chasing her for years. Its just unfair and I know life is always unfair but this word just keeps coming out of my mouth every time I think about it.
"What I was never sure of you". Which might have been what she thought too. What could I have done to not made her unsure of me, I don't know.
I like just the way she is, all I want is to just have that special connection with her.
I really wish there won't be anymore of anyone ever have this cursed feeling I'm having.
you cannot force someone to love you, it's a hard pill to swallow.
Just find a more beautiful, better girl for you and make sure to let her friends and her know. She will be jealous because she wants the attention not you. So sorry but you might be dealing with a narcissists.
just because you want her badly doesnt mean you deserve her/she deserves you, you cannot makeher chase you just move on
Same situation with me brother😅
It's very hurt to see someone with her.what should i do now? I have no idea🙂Day by day its give me more pain
Lived that scene. Did not hold it together like Tom did. Painful. It was hard to believe the people who told me I'd get over it. It took two years. I''m stronger now. Smarter now about how relationships are. Having a good life. But still miss living in the happy delusion even though I would never go back to it. The other movie that nails a similar mindframe is The Matrix. That one's not about love but all about "happy delusion". And when I saw it post divorce, for the first time I understood the slimy "traitor" that wanted to go back into the Matrix.
I read somewhere that this was an imaginary scene, and that Tom didn't really meet Summer here. It was just a situation that he imagined in his head, him wanting closure and all. I went through something similar 16 years ago where we were young and in love and we suddenly broke up and she moved on way better than I did. But I never got closure, so I kinda had to look back at the warning signs and where it was going wrong, like Rachel said to Tom
this made me really uhmmmmm, in a state of fugue
Summer is the ultimate girl next door. They give off the vibe of "I can be with you . . . right now" even when you will never be with them. Summer is being sincere with checking on Tom, but it can be more difficult on letting go.
i havent watched this movie.
but... if someone had the courage to tell me what exactly he/she feels no matter how hard or harsh it could be,
id definitely appreciate that person.
and it will help me get thru the moving on process much faster too.
Well, for all we know Summer left her husband 4 years later whereas Tom had a great Autumn and a happily ever after. People like Summer don't make great life long partners or any sort of lasting partner as they act on whims (which she did throughout the movie). She would most likely end up only being "happy" in an open marriage or relationship. The movie beautifully shows how two people navigate relationships in polar opposite ways. I dislike that it potrays Tom's sensitivity, as some sort of naivety. Tom's attachement style indeed has problems and doesn't gel well with a character like Summer. But given that, lasting relationships are hardwork and not some sort of mystical and magical randomness event. People like Tom are the ones who end up having a "life" partner whereas people like Summer usually die alone after their 4th failed marriage.
Oh shut up
@@carlaconnor8347yeah summer is a major red flag for a girl. She didn't even know why she's unsure about Tom. She's just using her emotion without any realizing tom is sincere for the beginning. Instead she's just accepted a proposal from a man who she barely knows. Any sane person would not think otherwise.
@@dapidyunanto7968 absolutely not summer was completely valid in her decision and tom is the delusional one, he chases the idea of him being happy only when he finds the perfect girl, the most obvious clue of this is when he meets autumn and it all starts again, tom might never learn considering how the movie ends and in summers defence she stated MULTIPLE TIMES that she just wants to be friends and nothing more, i agree that the stuff they did was wayyyy more than just being friends but thats just who she is, even in the beginning of the movie when they show both of them as kids the narrator tells us how much summer absolutely loves her dark long hair but also cuts them with no remorse or feelings. if only tom wouldve not had this idea of a perfect girl that you meet then they both wouldve stayed friends even after her marriage, but tom did overreact and blamed her even tho she stated it ike 1000 times in the movie. and if you blame summer for not knowing why she didnt think of tom as perfect applies to tom more than her cuz tom is the one who believes in the idea of "love"/"perfect girl" and that he cannot enjoy life without one, summer was happy without him and happier with him, as per her husband she probably saw something in him that she didnt in tom. basically if i was tom and shi like this wouldve happened to me then i wouldve kms so his reaction is also justified, hence no one was the villian in this movie just two very complicated people with different idea of love
It’s true
They both are dumb. She sucks because she knew she could string him along, he was clearly super into her and she just let him get more infatuated, and he’s stupid for falling g for it and ignoring all the signs that she’s never going to chose him.
That's life bro. Nothing is ever cut and dry.
She clearly said she doesn't want anything serious
@@ryokohonda4619 and she still said she did whatever she wants with him. Not saying he isn’t at fault, but that’s pretty terrible to do also
@@gianperez2103Summer: “hey, I don’t like you the way you like me, and I never will, let’s go our separate ways” Tom: “yeah, I need to listen to what you’re saying and not follow signs I’ve made up in my head about you, thanks for the clarity”. See? Easy. Cut and dry.
Nah, Summer is *not* his mother. Tom was an adult (albeit a young one), he made the choice, and he knew there was a risk of it not going how he wanted it to, and (like everyone has to) he had deal with the consequences. She communicated with him well before he took the leap, and that's the whole arc of Tom.. He was not being honest with himself, and this echoed throughout the whole movie. The most noticeable was Summer wasn't what he wanted, but he hoped she would change her mind in-time and unnoticeably. He didn't particularly like his job one and he knew it was not his true calling. He shrugged off Summer's advice to go after his true calling and she referenced it at the engagement party= he lacked ambition. Also, lacking honesty breeds neediness, Tom was incredibly needy, although understandably in the situation he was in.
The reality check here for me is this: If you ever fall into a relationship which is unhealthy or makes you feel unhappy, you will grab hold of the first opportunity to get out of it.
In this case. yes. Summer met someone in the diner and he is now her husband. It does not necessarily mean he is her true love but that guy gave her something that she might not find again - an opportunity to escape Tom.
People dont realize but they choose someone because of convenience first and "love" second
Summer: "i just woke up one day and i knew"
Tom: "knew what?"
Summer: "what i was never sure of with you!"
Dangggggggg!
If the statement ‘it’s not you, it’s me’ were a few lines in a movie…
One day you will be Summer and understand
ikr
Yes it took me 14 years to finally understand Summer.
You are wrong. Not all of us become her. I know I'll never be like her
We all get rejected and will end up rejecting people. It's just how interpersonal relationships work. Even on the platonic level.
Shit i experienced it just noww
I like to think this scene was all in his head and was just him accepting closure.
Makes it even more sad as a scene 😢
Damn, that guy probably never read that book. It's sad she fell for it
Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces.
Mathew 7:6
The last look Summer gave Tom was the same look I gave my ex boss when he fired me “imma get you for unemployment 😎😈✌🏽”
A hard to swallow pill but nonetheless, a closure. My last relationship of 7 years just one day told me she didn't want to move on anymore and blocked me. Since we're half the globe apart I cannot even find her to get an explanation, I'm married with kid now but not gonna lie it still hurts to think about it sometimes, in a sad way, not a regretful way.
Summer is wild.
I still wonder the quote about “people just grow apart” kind of things is really quoted in the movie or not?
I have watched this several times but I don’t think it is in the movie. 😅
Summer is one of the most selfish human character i have seen. Everything she did in the movie was for herself. She never for once considered tom's feelings
That's the usual woman for you.
yall fucking dumbasses, this is why i see mfs on the internet all sad and shi she left and all that bullshit like DUDE SHE SAYS A 100 TIMES SHE NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS ITS TOMS FAULT HE GOT ATTACHED AND YOU CANNOT MAKE A PERSON LIKE YOU BACK, IF ONLY HE DID NOT HAVE A FUCKED UP IDEA OF LOVE THEY STILL WOULDVE BEEN GOOD FRIENDS.
just because you want someone very badly doesnt mean you deserve them or that they should want u too, life doesnt work like that
@@HCforLife1 dumbass
This scene is what I would have said to my first love, had I found my spouse before he met his, he was Mormon and I was brought up christian years before. When we met I was a raging non-believer and still am to this day. But I can say the phrase there's a reason for everything, resonates even to a secular person like me
It's one of those days where you wanna break stuff
Can you please fix your video? The speaking is not aligned with the image. Thank you.
This all you need to rewatch in this movie. And then rewatch the ending because it's funny when he meets autumn. The one that follows summer. Because he's better educated about love and relationships so you know he's going to be alright.
this scene is an absolute gem......well done to both of these actors...Bravo
Real talk...
This is a brilliant scene. If it helps, this is clearly meant to be in Tom’s head.
Summer was cold-blooded, she was only willing to settle down with a certain type of guy. However, this should also be a lesson to young men that love shouldn’t take the place of having a career path. Tom was an underachieving young man, who was trying to find his happiness through “falling in love”, and that’s not a good recipe.
what a movie
LOVE THIS SCENE!!!! LOVE THIS MOVIE!! NO HOMO
LOL NO HOMO SAME!
Well, Summer 1st said she did not want anything serious and then she did with Tom, at thr end she took the dude who was financially more stable, at the party at the end she said that Tom could be a great architect if he wanted to.
I mean Dorian Grey, really? She was thr one who asked Tom about The Smiths, is that not the same nonsense. Fact is, love is shit, has nothing to do woth what you do, you cant make anyone live you, Tom was in love she was bored, end of the story.
Like, why the hell does she touch his damn hand at the end.
Summer is and animal
i would choose to encounter a person like summer than someone who cant be honest about the most basic things.
do not forget,
from day 1- summer had always been veey honest about her intentions of not wanting anything serious with Tom.
@@V_for_Victory_for_V for real! my version of summer was a woman that was lying about her commitment level the whole time we dated until i fell for her and then she just dipped. wish she would have been up front about her needs so i could have subverted my expectations. FRICK!
Summer is the worst person here. In reality, these type of people end up old and alone because they used others and laugh at their pain. These are the type of people who will cheat on you if they got bored. 😢
What annoys me about Summer is how it not arrogant or cynical but downright immature and childish. A woman that age mocking the very concept of love existing despite all the proof around her. It seems like a defense mechanism that gives her the ability to act however she feels until maybe, eventually that changes and she does fall in love...again? Don't remember if she ever heen in love but her wannabe edgy and oh so jaded outlook on life was nothing but a sham. I say good riddance although Tom can't realise he never had chemistry with her,that she isn't just someone to be won like a prize and not realizing he doesn't even love her personality,just her looks.
They both kinda suck, it's just that Summer feels alot more disingenuous.
Very disingenuous!! She was hurt about her parent’s divorce, and it would take a relationship with Prince Charming to make her settle down. Whether her marriage works out or not, she’ll be financially set.
Who else wants a climax where Andrew tate appears as summer' husband and mocks Tom and a part two where we see a red pilled Tom 😁
Andrew tatt was right
About what?
What a b
She loved him enough to give him the closure he needed
actually if you watch the commentary this scene is played out in his head - shes not actually there
@@bobothefumoreally??
@@cringlez1096yup! It’s in the commentary
@@bobothefumo whaaaaat
@@bobothefumoyou have the link to that commentary clip?