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Grown Ass Woman Tag~Botox, Insecurities, Love/Over 65 Life
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- Опубліковано 5 лис 2022
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I had no friends and no boyfriends. I felt like an alien in this very cruel world. I like watching your videos because of your kindness, beauty and your soft voice. You are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen, this includes models and celebrities. You are blessed to have so much love in your life.
You are so very kind. I appreciate that so much. Those days can be cruel ones. I had a group of friends that I liked, not necessarily the "popular" ones, but we had each other's backs. But man did I want a boyfriend. Glad those days are over. Thank you!!! Love, Melissa
I agree with you. Melissa is a rare beauty and nice with it. I had loads of friends growing up but only have a few now. I am often lonely and depressed. I try to think of the things that I do have though and be grateful. X
I agree! You make me feel like maybe I will be ok! I don’t have any friends except friends from years ago and I never see them anymore except on Facebook. I have let myself go especially the past year cause I had to go back to work last year cause I was homeless due to husband losing his job and our house was part of his job..so I have a shed home I’m renting to own behind my son and daughter-in-law and having to work to pay for it… I call myself Reconstructing Leslie cause I’ve had 5 spinal surgeries 4 Surgeries in past few years..so now I’m hoping to do something about my appearance.You’re absolutely beautiful inside and out! I love Little Poet too…, I will check out the other channels you mentioned too!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
glad to see things have changed since you wrote it in the past tense
I completely agree with the above comment! Melissa is very beautiful!❤😊
You don’t need a facelift at all… you are aging magnificently.
That is so sweet. Thank you!
A woman of substance, that’s what you are Melissa. So many of us love you, look forward to seeing you because we know you will encourage us, and share the things that matter to your heart. Thank you for a little better glimpse of you, we are drawn to you like a beautiful light. I love you.
Well I'm not sure I'm a woman of substance but I thank you for saying that!. lol. aw, I appreciate that so much Cindy. You sure have brought so much joy to my life. Much love and thank you! Melissa
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Beautiful comment 🥰
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I can so relate to this tag, I learned accidentally as a young girl that my mother wanted to send me away. This led to low self esteem & feeling very unworthy of being loved. Into my teens I had had few friends but was always on the outside looking in, no boyfriends & desperately wanted to be loved , accepted & popular. I have struggled with this into my adulthood. I’d tell my 20 yr old self “ you are enough & worthy of love”. Ahh the music of the 80’s, it still lives on today because of it’s greatness. I will age with grace,I’ve earned everyone of these wrinkles. Thank you for this beautiful video .Have a wonderful day❤
Oh Mitzi. I'm so very sorry for this. What a terrible thing for a little girl to find out. Those teen years can be so hard. I love watching reaction videos when young people listen to older music for the first time. They are always surprised how talented everyone is. Thank you and please take care. 💞💞💞
I’m sorry you felt those feelings from your mom but YOU are amazing I don’t even have to meet you to know that❤
You know what most people have a nasty memory my mum was jealous of me when I hit 15 she went all funny she never told me I looked nice it took me years to realise she didn't like me much she even lied to my dad about me and, told him I hated him if I could tell my 20 year old self anything it would be leave home cut contact with you parents and get your own life my mum ruined my life with her nastiness she died in 2013 all I could think was, what a, waste of her life to leave behind so much resentment 🙏
You don’t need Botox or fillers. You look great!
Does anybody remember a band called Cream? They sang an amazing song called In my White Room and if I hear it I'm right back there as a nervous 16 year old. This is a fun video dear Melissa. X
I’m excited for the “It’s ok to ask for a hug” video, they’re so therapeutic so I hope people really follow your upcoming advice in that one ❤
Oh thank you!!! I had to learn the hard way! Many thanks.
My favorite age 50 and beyond women on UA-cam are the natural ones. Women who are not all pulled and botoxed and filled. It’s not pretty at all. Not on Celebrities either. Very unnatural looking. It gives off the impression you are insecure and trying too hard to be young. Our expressions should be alive when we laugh, worry, smile, get mad, surprised, etc! Laugh lines. Smile lines. We’ve lived this far! That’s beauty too! So I appreciate your face still being your face whatever the reason! If this offends someone I don’t care. It’s just my opinion! 😃
hi Melissa, I can so relate to wanting to be loved, I’m 68 soon to be 69, my dad divorced my mom when I was eight, I’m the youngest of 3 kids. Back in that time it was a taboo to having divorced parents, my mom was the oldest girl out of 12 kids, she only got to go to 3rd grade but was pulled out of school to help with the other siblings. She never remarried and worked at a dry cleaners as a presser, she devoted herself to us. We were excluded out of a lot of family gatherings because of my mom being divorced. My grandmother and grandfather moved the 4 of us to live with them, my father paid no child support and we rarely saw him, he was an abusive man. I guess growing up that way made me very shy, very few friends and I guess I was looking to be loved, never thought I would ever get married so I eloped with the first guy who asked me, I was 18 and had my daughter at 19, stayed married for 8 hrs then I divorced him, I figured I was better off being alone and lonely than being with someone I didn’t love. I was single for 6 yrs then met my soulmate and best friend been together for 35 years. My mom passed away 9 hrs ago at 90, miss her everyday.❤
Your story just broke my heart. And please accept my condolences on the passing of your mother. She raised a beautiful daughter and you are such a credit to her. I am so thankful you found the right person to spend your life with. You so deserve to be happy. Thank you for sharing this with us. Much love Melissa
Why are you apologizing for not wanting to do invasive procedure s on your face ??? I think it’s wonderful…..!!! How many times I’m listening to different people explaining what they use on their face only to find out they either used Botox or fillers !!!! Thank-you for being real…….🙂
I agree with you totally over Botox, fillers etc. Each to their own is what I say. If it makes you happy or feel better then all power to you. I wouldn’t have anything put into my body that wasn’t a medical need. It’s just how I feel.. I’ve always thought with every birthday that I’m so lucky to have got here. Enjoyed this video thank you. You seem lovely on the inside and outside. Greetings from Surrey UK
I think waiting to date is such a good idea. More girls should not worrying about boyfriends as early as we tend to, me included. Great video
I think it was a big mistake that I was allowed to date at 14. I wish I had just seen boys are friends until I was much older and just hung out in groups with them. Take care and many thanks.
You are amazing! I could be your grandson by age and I love to watch your channel and I love your tips for skincare very much- I am kinda doing a similar routine already and hope to be a male version of such a graceful and beautiful well aged person as you are! Thank you for sharing your experience with us here! Lovely greetings from Germany 💖🤗
I appreciate that so much! Interestingly, my granddaughter No. 3 is so interested in Germany. She is taking online German language lessons and is writing to a German penpal. She so hope to visit someday. Anyway, this is so appreciated.
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Melissa, I'm with you on facelifts -- one can never be sure what one can end up looking like. i also relate to you when you mention chronic illness. I also have a chronic illness and having to recover from other procedures on top of the chronic illness is so very hard. On the subject of music, I sure was devastated when my beloved Karen Carpenter died - the Carpenters made a living on love lost, love gained. Have a blessed day!
Oh Karen Carpenter!!! An angel. I got to see her in concert in a small setting when they were getting started and she was mesmerizing. Take care and I sure appreciate it. Love, Melissa
Thanks for being so open. I think that's hard to do but it helps all of us when anyone is willing to be real.
So very kind of you to say that. Thank you!
Hi Melissa,
You brought back many memories with naming all the bands. We all have things we can’t do or don’t want to do. Your health means more than anything to your existence. I have very sensitive skin and am allergic to a lot of sunscreens. I can’t us Retin A or retinol. Loved your answers to the tag. Much love and kindness, Teresa
Wasn't that a blast from the past thinking of that music? Such a good era. I have so come to appreciate how important health is. You can have all the material things in the world but if you don't feel well, what use is it to you? Thank you and have a wonderful week. Love, Melissa
Loved hearing your tag answers. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. You really are beautiful. So I would stay with your skincare program. It's only on the recent past I started skincare and SO appreciate that you, and others in this community, share what you do and products that work. I was clueless in this area. I see all these feminine things(makeup, skincare, hair, etc) as self care. I know it helps me when I look my best. Loved your 3 words too. Mine are: gratitude, love, peace. Wishing you a wonderful week ahead. 💞💞💞💞
Oh thank you Christina. I have learned so much from the women here on UA-cam. There are so many good ideas and tricks to learn. I love your three words. Good ones to live by. Love and thanks! Melissa
This was a fun tag! I relate to you in many ways. You don’t need Botox or a facelift. You’re a beautiful lady ❤️
You're so sweet. Thank you!
I love your honesty and you Melissa!!
Melissa you are such a light! You’ve been helping this 20-something year old gal a lot with my concepts of femininity, happiness, and looking at life moving forward with hope. Thank you for sharing your sweet self ❤
Thanks so much, Melissa. We appreciate you so much.
Such great answers!! You are the sweetest lady and the most beautiful lady I’ve ever watched. Have a great week💕
We have very similar taste in music!
One day in the 90's my husband and I were taking a walk thru our neighborhood on trash day. Someone put stacks and stacks of records from the 70's and 80's on top of their trash bins. They had either put everything on cd or had a religious conversion, lol.
I remember on top was the Blondie album where Debbie Harry had an arrow "going thru" her head.
Yes, we came back with a car and picked them all up.
Thanks for bringing up that memory.
Oh my gosh, that is amazing. I heard that turntables and albums are coming back in style now. We still have ours! We have shelves of albums and didn't they have gorgeous covers? I would have done the same thing and grabbed them!!! Thank you and take care!
I am so happy you did this tag. We are so much alike! Thank you so much for your sweet words! Hugs!
I enjoyed hearing your answers, Monika, as they struck a chord with me, too. Please take care and I hope it's a really good week for you. Love, Melissa
You’re such a lovely & genuine person Melissa! Thank you for putting yourself out there to be such a positive part of our day. XX 🍃🤍🍃
Oh thank you so very much, Michelle. So kind of you. Much love, Melissa
Melissa I don’t know if you will see this but you channel has bought be so much joy. You are so beautiful inside and and out. And I feel life you appreciate life’s little things. You are the most stunning lady I’ve ever seen here on UA-cam. You literally look like a princess. I wish I could look like you!
I truly loved your answers Misllisa and I could relate to every answer! I was just talking about asking for someone to hold my hand! A hug is good too! I loved all the bands you mentioned...I was surprised!!! And I do understand about facelifts, botox and lip injections. You are beautiful with or without makeup,,,, and you will never need work done. I loved this and Monika did an amazing job too with Erin's tag. Erin said she would ask all new questions all these years later so I hope she does this again!!! Happiness is watching our grandchildren....ah....yes yes and yes!!!! xxoo Love to you and yours, Susan
Thank you, Susan. You are so kind and I truly was inspired by your answers. You were thoughtful and just made me think and inspired me. Thank you for this. Hope you are well. Please take care. Love Melissa
You are pretty organized to me!!! I enjoy watching you decorate the house for the holidays!!! You have already started your Christmas shopping. I got on the ball when I heard what you have already done. I love watching your videos!!! Praying you will stay healthy and that your family has a wonderful Thanksgiving!!!
Thank you for sharing your several tags I respect your honest thoughts and answers. What works for someone but not be the same for others. We all need to respect each other choices and just do what’s best for themselves.❤️🌺
Hi Melissa!
Love listening to you speak about and understand in a healthy way, issues about aging. Plus the most important: Love for Family! Especially those precious Grand baby’s!! Those special moments they give us, with a sweet look, smile, and of course those hugs💝 a blessing that I wish we could bottle and give to those who need Love and compassion.
Love & Blessings to all🫶
Thank you Linda! It's amazing how the grands add joy to our lives. Love and thank you !!!
When I was in my early 20’s I lived in the Florida Keys. One night at dinner with friends in Key Largo, we noticed a Lamborghini in the parking lot. When we met with our friends inside the restaurant, we asked if they saw the Lamborghini outside, of course they did and went further to say, “it belongs to Blondie, she’s right over there!”. Well, I was star-struck and against my husband’s and friends wishes, I decided to walk by her on the way to the restroom. She was sitting at the end of the bar by herself and as I got closer to her, she looked over to her right and smiled at me!!! I smiled back and told her that I was so excited to see her, but I kept walking as I said it. She touched my arm and I stopped and we chatted. She was SO kind and gracious with her time, asked me to join her (I didn’t, and I kick myself for not!), she spoke with me, asked me questions about my workout routine (back then when I was in shape!). It was just an amazing experience! And…she was so incredibly beautiful in person! Ugh…still kicking myself over that missed opportunity. And my husband and friends still gave me such a hard time when I got back to the table bc I “bothered” her! 😳
Wow! I had no idea about your surgery. You take such good care of yourself that I think you will heal quickly and be feeling better very quickly too. I’ll be praying for you, your surgeon, and the medical team that delivers your care. I really enjoyed this one… I’ve just been working so much the last few years, and my phone doesn’t notify me of your new posts now for some reason, but I was so happy to find you again today… like finding an old friend or something. Be well ❤
You are stunning! So kind hearted! ❤
So enjoyed this tag Melissa! And I loved your answers! Looking so fabulous as always😍 And girl you don't need a face lift or anything else doing your face & your skin is just so beautiful 🌹 Have a great week my friend, much love Deb x❤️❤️❤️
I just found your channel today and I just need to tell you what a joy you are to listen to. Such a beautiful light. Much love from Nashville.
Love a tag ❤ Love our mature beauty community and love your genuine approach to beauty and aging 💜💜💜 love all the music classics you mentioned… so much cruelty and ageism on YT … makes me sad. My 2020 mothers remind mind me it’s alive and active. Your so sweet and honest just love your honesty and genuine nature ❤❤❤❤❤.. you are one of my favorite beauty UA-camrs … sending you do much love 💕 💕💕💕
Didn't even watch this yet but your energy is so beautiful and glad you're still making videos. I've been watching you for years and years. Some of your beauty and life advice still sticks with me!
That really touched me. Thank you so much for writing this. And take care! Love, Melissa
Your comment about having guys like you but they didn’t love you and that is what you craved!! That was me too. Met the right guy when I was 24 and we have been married for 41 years. I am 67 almost 68 too. Thank you for all your posts and your kind and thoughtful words. And you are stunning and have no need for Botox or fillers. You have taken great care of yourself and have lived a good life - that’s the way to stay young.
Great video!
Thank you so much for sharing.
Your kindness and warmth are felt through your videos.
Please keep the great videos coming.
Oh that is so sweet of you to say. Thank you so much. 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
I just started following you. I’m so glad I came across your videos. I really enjoy them. There are so many things I wish I would have known when I was 16 or 17. I think it would have helped navigate high school a lot better. Haha! I have a wonderful life now and from my experiences growing up I gave my daughters great advice!! I won’t do Botox either! Of course I wish I looked younger and finally in my 60s I finally have the courage to accept myself as I am. Enjoy my life! Thanks so much for this!
Your skin looks amazing! Beautiful as always
You're so sweet. Thank you!
It's always nice to stop by and see what's on your mind.
Oh gosh! Got a giggle from that tag! I have also become a devotee to retinol and Tretinoin - in part because of seeing your results. Thank you and Happy Holidays!
This was a fun tag! There are several things I regret, but I don't think I would change anything because it has brought me to where I am today....which is a very blessed life! Have a happy week sweet Melissa!
Hi Melissa. Funny, my 1st concert was Fleetwood Mac. Loved them, but also loved many of the groups you mentioned.
Being a grandparent is one of the happiest things that ever happened to me. What it does to my heart is indescribable.
You do not need anything done to your absolutely gorgeous face. You are flawless.
This was such a nice idea for a video. You are the sweetest. Love you! 💋💋💗
I grew up the same, needing some boy to love me. My dad was an alcoholic and not loving so im sure thats why I made bad boyfriend choices but have been happily married now for 25 years ❤
Neil Young grew up in Omemee Ontario just 10 mins from me. I used to live in Omemee and my Son went to Scott Young public school which is named after Neil Youngs Father. He was a journalist and an author of many books
You and Little Poet are 2 of my favorites!
Oh thank you!!! I am so honored to be mentioned with her. She is amazing. You take care, Joann!
You are so sweet, and smart! No need to worry about offending anyone. You are being smart about your health and not wanting to do any other invasive procedures. Besides, you look just wonderful as you are!😘
I can relate to your teenage years , same here, unfortunately ! Thank you for a great video!
I appreciate it so much!
Relate to you in so many ways! Awesome video. Lovely walk down memory lane. ❤️
I'm watching this late and so glad I did see it. Your answers were great and I relate to you and always have. I'm 67 turning 68 in a couple of days so we are close to the same age. I have watched you for years and you look better now than when I started watching you! I loved Crosby Stills and Nash the most - their music just transported me to a happy place - if that makes any sense. You will never need any work done on your face - you are so beautiful. I also have a health issue that makes me scared to do anything and the cost as well honestly. Sending you Love and Best Wishes my friend. xoxo Deb :-)
Neil Young's Only Love Can Break Your Heart was one of my favorites. Procol Harum's Whiter Shade Of Pale and pretty much everything the Moody Blues made. Just to name a few. I loved 70's rock and still do.
Also, you are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen and you certainly don't need a face lift The people who accuse you of having plastic surgery are doing it out of jealousy. Great video!!
Oh those are classics for sure. Wow they had some good music didn't they? Thank you Debbie. You take care. Love, Melissa
@@debbierussino3117 Oh you are so kind, Debbie. I appreciate it so much. Love, Melissa
I agree with you about waiting until you are older to get involved in a relationship. I married young and I regret that I did that - I shouldn't have married at all. Just not my thing. I'm too independent. I had an opportunity to travel with a friend and gave that up for a guy - I will always regret that. I wish women would just embrace their age more. I look my age and that's good! I don't want to look 45 when I'm 80!
Blondie & Linda Ronstadt & X we my jam! Great video. I agree with you on so many points. Btw, I’m the baby of the family & am definitely more bohemian than my older siblings but I’m also the most easy going. So there’s that.
Melissa, you are such a pure beautiful soul, God bless you ❤️
How kind of you to say that! Believe me I have my very ugly sole moments! lol. But I guess we all do. Thank you and have a good week.
Such a fun video. I have watched all three of these ladies YT channels. Very fun looking back.
Greetings Melissa! Thanks for doing the tag. I had to smile at the number of bands you chose! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
I appreciate your perspective and videos. I have been watching you for a little while and my goodness about one month ago now I had a very spooky - serious experience with what looks to be ulcerative colitis. Wow, I had no clue how scary this kind of issue can be! God bless you. Thank you for being there!
Oh No! I am so sorry to hear this. It sounds like you are really being proactive and this is so important. The meds now are really good and you really can live a normal life. So please don't despair. I know how frightening it is, but I just know you will be really diligent and do well. Take care of yourself. And I will keep you in my thoughts for sure. Love, Melissa
@@Melissa55 thank you for your help. You have no idea how much you help. ♥️
In 1969 I first heard Santana around the time of Woodstock & their first album release. Ever since, That’s been my FAV band! By listening to any Santana song, I can tell you what was going on in my life at the time the song was popular. I was also crazy about Fleetwood Mac (what girl didn’t want to BE Stevie Nicks? Lol), ZZTop, Grand Funk, Van Morrison and Janis Joplin. Wow, we had the greatest music to listen to!
Terrific video. Enjoyed the tag. I did some dumb stuff when I was younger. I’m amazed I wasn’t killed. Wanting to be around the bad boys was really insane. Linda & I both liked the guys in the motorcycle gangs. Thank you Lord we were never raped . My Mother did not know what I was getting up too. If she found out I would’ve been locked up forever. My life was music. I went to lots of rock concerts. Tickets were so cheap then. I also hate injustice & cruelty with a passion. My blood boils when I hear things that happen to people. I also value honesty. Things that make me smile are children, beautiful garden’s & gorgeous men on TikTok. Love you, Lucy
Love that you enjoy your family so much. Also I think most can work on having more confidence!
I wanted to be loved by boys, too. Plus I also dream and wake up feeling like I was in that era of my life and it’s so moving to the point that those emotions linger throughout my day. I relate to sooo much to your responses (except that I adored Aerosmith 😂).
Oh my gosh, that feeling! I can so feel it reading this comment. I wish we had known things back then that mattered. So many girls feel this way I fear. Thank you, Lisa. 🌹🌹🌹
I didn’t have a bf in high school and went to the proms by myself. I have always been a loner. Enjoyed your answers. Xoxo 😘
I love that you did that. I was trying to think if I had a best friend. I had friends, but I wonder if I had a best one. I can't think of any special person. I just wanted a boyfriend so badly. lol Love and much thanks.
Oh Melissa I loved Fleetwood Mac, definitely relate to injustice, looking at my son when he was on the earth, no facelifts, wish I had been more financially savvy when younger, retin-a, humble, work-ethic, and hope:)
You are the sweetest, Melissa ♥️ I miss you and Kristin when you did your videos together.
Love it...thinking about doing this as filler video during my week off for Thanksgiving! Love your answers Melissa and YOU!
Thanks, Mary! It's a good tag. Thought provoking. You take care too and love you lots.
Such a good tag! You have LIVED girlfriend 😀 I find so much inspiration in your grandparenting style. You make grandbabies seem like toys for grandparents 😅 So fun! I’m looking forward to that part of life more calmly (no rush 😂) My youngest is still in HS 😆 Love ya!❤
Thank you MQ!!! And you will be an amazing grandmother. It's hard to explain the feeling. I don't think you love them more than your own children, you just enjoy them more. Maybe because you don't feel so responsible? Anyway, I always appreciate you. Love you! Melissa
You are so beautiful and are so lucky that you had the money to continue Retin A.
I was not well liked when I was 20-I tried to stay out of the way because I was a nuisance for just existing. I missed out on most of life because I tried so hard to stay out of the way that I became completely withdrawn. I didn’t have any friends.
I went through that with Doug. I was afraid to sit in the same room with him when we would watch tv because I was afraid I would annoy him and he would leave me. It's such a terrible way to feel, to feel like you annoy people just by existing, and I am so very sorry that you suffer from this. I have to fight that feeling daily so I do understand. I send you much love and compassion, Sheryl. I'm so sorry. Love, Melissa
I know the feeling, very much.
You are the kindest, sweetest woman. It’s hard to comprehend how such a talented, how the boys weren’t vying for your attention in high school. You really are the most beautiful woman on you tube! Love you! Judy
I just came across your channel and I cannot believe how stunningly beautiful you are. And gracious. I’ve been in the beauty industry for decades (I’m 65) working with luxury beauty products and they all work ok but if you’re interested in a less invasive procedure than surgery or even botox, please look into Fractional RF Microneedling. It helps rejuvenate the skin by triggering your body to stimulate and make more collagen hence improved texture and firmness. I’m looking into it myself and am very tempted to book an appointment. Let me know what you think after you research it. 😊
Confidence is a tough one.
I think when a child is needy (or a teen) it's because of needs not being met by the parents. I was very aware to build-up my children's love tank and make sure that any emotions that came up were acknowledged and validated. When a girl doesn't feel loved and is needy I believe she goes looking even searching desperately for it. It's just as vital to thriving as food. God made us to require interaction the giving and taking of physical affection, encouragement, and investment from family, in our lives and support interests so we feel balanced. If the balance is off we feel the deficit and innately look for someone or something to make up the difference. Of course parents are imperfect, but they should be alert and vigilant to tend to that little ones heart. So as a "grown ass woman" we feel the deficit in our spouse who is also imperfect. We feel it at work or in our lack of close friendships. The tendency to wander for something to compensate can be overwhelming. This is where my relationship with the One who created and knows me best comes through. He fills the deficit that God shaped hole we've heard about. Im his girl. While I feel the weight of responsibility to meet others needs, it cannot be complete. If it could then God would have phased Himself out.
Glad you haven't considered invasive procedures. They almost always look worse. From what I've heard from dermatologists derma rolling can be dangerous when not administered professionally. I guess they consider it invasive. Something to check out.
Most importantly though...NOT LIKE QUEEN?? I'm not sure we can be friends.😄xo
Wow your skin is amazing, I’d have bet you’d had all the procedures money can buy, you look That amazing!!! As beautiful as you are, your heart is the most beautiful part of you, it’s what draws all of us to your light.. God bless you.
Thank you so much for sharing with us. You are such a kind, beautiful person and always happy to see a video from you. Hope you have a wonderful week.
You are the kind one, Sheila. Thank you so much for such an uplifting comment. I am so grateful. Love, Melissa
Just always love your videos Melissa, you truly have the kindest heart. Even if you weren’t scared to have surgeries or Botox, you don’t need a stitch of anything done to your beautiful face. You are STUNNING. I read something the other day that said you can take no credit for being beautiful at 16 but being beautiful at 61 is a work of your soul. I believe that’s true. I think having such a caring, beautiful heart can really make people stay beautiful as they age. I know so many ladies that are so precious and selfless and they just remain gorgeous year after year. I think that’s the case for you too Melissa, you’re so beautiful internally that it just radiates outwardly and you can’t even help but have a beautiful appearance. 😊
I will never have botox either or facelift! I'm almost 60 years old. But I feel like it's not for me either. I do wish more women would feel like this. but you're right if that's what they want to do. You're so beautiful love your videos. Thank you for sharing! Because women that don't do that need to hear it
Melissa you look beautiful as you are. You do not need a face lift or any procedures. I always look forward to your videos and encouragement. God bless.
You're the sweetest and just enjoyed learning more about you.
Hi Melissa , Jennifer watching your videos along time. You are a very pretty lady. I am younger the you. You got me beat on firmness of skin. I wish when I was young I would have had more confidence. You are sweet lady thanks for video. Thanks Melissa Jennifer 🤗🍁
You are such a loving, accepting human being. I enjoy your company.
You don’t need botox or fillers you look really good! I started tretinonin because of you and Im 25. I hope to age as good as you.
That's so nice of you and I appreciate it so much. Have a good rest of the week and thank you!
I’ve always wondered why i feel so similar about things like you do, and then you mentioned being the youngest....I am too. Maybe that’s why we have so much in common 🤗🌸
That is so interesting. I have been studying it, so do look into it. It's very interesting and rings true in so many ways. Thank you!!! Love, Melissa.
I agree with you about botox or any foreign thing. Cause I also have an autoimmune disease. That started from a foreign thing I put in my body. If other people want to do it it's fine with me. That's what makes the world unique. You look fantastic! 🩷
You are a very special lady, Melissa.
Loved this! Will you share your skincare routine? Your gorgeous ❤️ do you do anything special for your neck so tight!
Melissa you and Little Poet are my two favorite you tube people who I watch regularly. And you are both beautiful, down to earth and honest. I so look forward to you both putting out the next video. .. I can tell you had no work done on your face etc.. your body (arms and legs) are in as good shape as your face! So you are just natural and in good health muscle wise and skin wise. You are beautiful outside and most importantly inside, that radiates..
This is such a kind comment and I can't thank you enough. I appreciate it and you really warmed my heart. Thank you. Love, Melissa
I just loved this Melissa! Thank you!
I really enjoyed hearing your opinions on these topics, Melissa. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. ~Janis
I sure appreciate it so much, Janis. and I hope you are taking care of yourself!! Much love, Melissa
I loved all of your music choices. I still listen to Crosby, Stills,Nash and Young. Their music made a statement.
Thank you, Vera, and you are my kind of woman., Love them!!! I sure thank you!
Enjoyed your video
Always so lovely to hear from you and your thoughts and opinions on all these topics! Always looking fabulous great to see you! 👍👍
Thanks, Denise and if you decide to do this tag, let me know so I can come watch it. I sure enjoy you! Take care and much love to you! Melissa
Melissa you forgot to mention all the happy times you share with Doug. If this had been an Oscar acceptance speech all the tabloids would point out Melissa55 didn't mention her husband Doug in last night's Oscar acceptance speech.
Don’t worry so much about “offending “ anyone. You’re entitled to an opinion on these subjects & it would be nice to hear your opinions without all the disclaimers! It takes away from your credibility- Most ppl can handle different opinions it keeps life interesting!!!
3 Dog Night and Chicago. Still 2 of my favorites!
OK, I have to admit I got so darn tired of Joy To The World by 3 Dog Night. lol. It played on the radio constantly. But gosh those are good times for music.
Hahaha!! I know what you mean!
You have more confidence than you think. Your loved for so many reasons. I can talk frankly with you if i feel the need. Loved by us watching you. So much xxx❤❤❤🦮🐾🐾
Out of there 4 products you use which one would u credit the most for a firm neck!? Or any recommendations for the neck area to keep it firm!? Thank you❤
Thanks Melissa..I think so many people don't look like themselves after extensive plastic surgery...my husband does not like the big unnatural lips...ot too tight look. I think you are beautiful and the products you use keep your face unlined. I too, have nothing against people who want to do major work. I love all your answers. Oh, I remember I had a real heart shaped face, but alas, now it is not as sharp...getting that more square look.
Melissa, you couldn't offend anyone if you tried. As far as a face lift goes, i would definitely have one if i could afford one, and i don't care if i offend anyone, lol. It's everyone's choice, right? I'm thinking about demerolling ( think that's what its called) i watch a lady who does her face and body, and she looks great( she even does her hands) anyway great video! Have a wonderful evening and upcoming week, stay well and be safe! 💕
Thank you so much, Sandra. It really is such a personal choice and I would never begrudge anyone their decisions on doing anything. I think it's interesting and I enjoy seeing the before and after. And there are people that have told me they would never put the products on their face I put on mine, and that's cool. It's really great to have options now. Thank you and much love!
I think you are lovely just the way you are Melissa. Confident people scare me unless they are doctors or lawyers. You have a perfect face, better than most people. I am 62 and have just had mini-botox for the second time. I felt a bit funny after the second lot, not sure why. I have also had hifu to lift my jowls a bit. I think it has worked a bit. Unfortunately, tretinoin makes me peel like a reptile so I only use it very occasionally. I need to work on my depression next. It is low level but difficult to shift. Keep smiling and thanks for sharing xx
I so enjoyed this, Melissa! I can really relate to the wanting a boyfriend so bad. I too was popular and was blessed with many wonderful friends, but I always wanted a boyfriend. My first love dumped me too when I was 16 and shattered my heart and my confidence. Things like that matter so much more in high school. I’m so glad it’s behind me…lol. ❤
It really does matter so much, doesn't it, Angela? And really I think it might have shaped a lot of my life. I married very young to try to secure that love from a male, and it was so sad really. I had to become an adult at 17. Thank you so much for sharing this. Much love Melissa
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