My Straight Roommate: Falling for a Straight Man

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  • @2imtuan103
    @2imtuan103 5 років тому +127

    OMG im falling in love with Max's smile

  • @jeremy1350
    @jeremy1350 5 років тому +74

    My personal rule is this ... Don't fall in love with your friends, or your best friend. Been there, done that. I lost a couple of best friends over this in the past, in the very beginning. My best friend is straight, and we spend inordinate amounts of time together. I love him, but I don't LOVE him. He just got engaged. So there's that! I had a friend some years ago, that we hung out 24/7 and one night, in a moment of grace, he told me that he loved me. Soon after he ran for the hills. I have friends who are attractive and I find them attractive for one reason or another. But I stick to my rule, I try not to think sexual or attraction thoughts about my friends. It saves me a lot of grief. I have a wall that goes up and I dare not cross it, because I know how some people react to the same things you said in this video. I'd rather have friends than lovers. But there is no harm and no foul in telling someone that you love someone. It might make their day.

    • @victorhill2234
      @victorhill2234 5 років тому +10

      Sometimes you can't help it, the heart want what the heart wants.

    • @NellPetersBanks
      @NellPetersBanks 5 років тому

      @@victorhill2234 true😭😭😭😭

    • @cryptomology9137
      @cryptomology9137 5 років тому +1

      Agree. Well said mate

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +4

      Love is complicated and I see now that we are all just trying to learn how to best navigate it! You're pretty cool and much love to you! :)

    • @jam4lifeus
      @jam4lifeus 5 років тому

      Being gay to fall in love to your straight friend is hard & it can be painful compared to any heterosexual men and women which is likely to be successful. #lifeisunfair

  • @buffordang6384
    @buffordang6384 5 років тому +25

    Max is cute, adorable and emotionally mature than most straight guys I know

    • @tashkenty
      @tashkenty 4 роки тому

      Rookielove1 you missed the point. He didn’t turn him down. He listened to his roomie, he had an open mind and gave wonderful advice, without judgment and silent disgust that most straight guys unfortunately do.

  • @parisnotfrench
    @parisnotfrench 5 років тому +38

    The downside about feelings is that you don't really have a full control over your feelings; like you could never tell your feelings to NOT fall for straight men, or anyone in that matter.. so that sucks when you got to develop some feelings towards your straight good friend, it would most certainly never end on such a well note. But what Max said actually very on point though, you should totally be able to communicate with your good friends about anything, that's a healthy friendship should be.
    Again, great content Dan! 💕 xxoo

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +2

      Thank you so much for watching! You are so right. Emotions can be hard to turn on and off, but I think it is important to feel every emotion as they come because they remind us that we are alive! Much love!

  • @gerardpritchard657
    @gerardpritchard657 5 років тому +295

    Falling for straight guys is awesome and awful all at the same time 😥

    • @vampboy89
      @vampboy89 5 років тому +4

      True story

    • @michaelmiller1215
      @michaelmiller1215 5 років тому +11

      Gerard Pritchard I have loved my straight friend and former co-worker- who looks like the hypothetical better-looking younger brother of Bradley Cooper-for YEARS. I lost my job there three weeks ago; he still works there. Aside from a text saying ‘I’m sorry ‘ the day I was let go- I haven’t heard anything from him, even though I’ve been sending short texts to him still. My heart is broken beyond all repair..

    • @jugi42
      @jugi42 5 років тому +9

      ​@@michaelmiller1215 i hope you will sort it out, and even your crush doesn't want you you deserve to be happy with someone who will appreciate you and respect your feelings

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +13

      Falling in love is a roller coaster of emotions, but so worth it!

    • @mmnn9982
      @mmnn9982 5 років тому +2

      What makes it awesome?

  • @trentt5310
    @trentt5310 5 років тому +2

    This is one of the best things I’ve ever seen. So wholesome and an example of a healthy relationship between friends and ugh just so spot on I don’t have words for it. Instant subscribe though!

  • @ibuddie01
    @ibuddie01 5 років тому +7

    Damn, I’ve worked with my co-worker for more than 9 years, and just last year in 2018 I started to have these romantic feelings for him ever since he gave me this huge smile. I know for a fact that he does care and watch over me like a brother. Lately I’ve been saying to myself “why now?” All this time I’ve worked with him “why now?” I miss him when I don’t see him for over 2 days. One single text from him makes me happy. He does get touchy too and his touches are so tender and soft, especially when he runs his fingers through my shoulder while I’m working as he walks by. I know that he is comfortable around me. I love the way how he always easily finds a way to make me laugh and smile.
    He’s 43, never been married. Doesn’t have a girlfriend but always talks about women. Got a chance to sneak peak his photo album too in his iPhone but nothing in there lol
    I am tired of feeling this way too and I know for a fact that my fantasies towards him will never happen. I love him and I know that he has been there for me all the time.

    • @ibuddie01
      @ibuddie01 5 років тому

      em4nuels thanx. I believe that he is straight, and I’m the one in the closet. It’s tough sometime but the feelings are slowly drifting away though which I don’t mind. 😉

  • @akumeithe4th
    @akumeithe4th 5 років тому +9

    In a way it's a very common concept that some of us go through... And the discussion is nice... but it's definitely comforting to show Max being there for him~ It's very endearing and shows the awesome friendship between Max and Daniel

  • @isabelemeireles7373
    @isabelemeireles7373 5 років тому +116

    I think max is the straight crush but i don't knowww

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +14

      Hahaha who knows

    • @foreignx862
      @foreignx862 5 років тому +7

      I thought the same lol

    • @Paulmazuk
      @Paulmazuk 5 років тому +9

      He is! He 100% is, I've been there

    • @jaxonk1440
      @jaxonk1440 5 років тому +5

      Not the straight crush but definitely the crush

    • @juancarlos9592
      @juancarlos9592 5 років тому +4

      I think Max is the one

  • @kiddicarus
    @kiddicarus 5 років тому +1

    Continuing to love your "surprisingly" (for whatever reason) relatable content! Thank you so very much.Subscribed!

  • @supersalty5091
    @supersalty5091 5 років тому +50

    i hope all straight guys would be like max.and if i were straight. i wanna be like max 😁

  • @imtlac
    @imtlac 5 років тому +37

    I knew a gay friend that i confessed to reacted poorly and left the friendship. So he's right .. a true friend straight or gay, will always be there for you. Those that dont, arent.

    • @victorhill2234
      @victorhill2234 5 років тому

      My rule also.

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +8

      Relationships are difficult and they involve work, so I completely agree. Those who love you will at least try and stay.

  • @charlesbuell4548
    @charlesbuell4548 5 років тому +23

    Strummin on the heart strings with this one!!! I feel like we all have had experiences such as this. Never get easier!!

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +3

      After seeing all these comments I see now that experiences like this are shared by a lot of people. I find comfort in knowing I'm not alone! You're pretty cool Charles and much love to you!

  • @basspro364
    @basspro364 5 років тому +79

    I had the same problem once. The bad part is I still have feelings for my best friend who is a straight guy.

    • @haopygay9579
      @haopygay9579 5 років тому +2

      Me to I still got feeling 18yrs

    • @xavieralmeida6498
      @xavieralmeida6498 5 років тому +3

      can relate

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +11

      Hi Daniel. Having feelings for a friend can be difficult, so approach the situation carefully. I always lean towards communication, but i understand that there are situations where being honest isn't the best, so be careful. Also remember that you are deserving of so much love!!!

    • @noneofyourbiness
      @noneofyourbiness 5 років тому +4

      Ugh. It does suck. Especially when he leads you on and you do end up doing things repeatedly. It messes with your mind. It's strictly friendship now that we don't drink. I would still die for the guy but the feelings are there.

    • @xavieralmeida6498
      @xavieralmeida6498 5 років тому +2

      I was honest about my feelings to my friend and we still friends, but just friends sadly😢

  • @imtlac
    @imtlac 5 років тому +41

    Max is dreamy

  • @bradyvaughn136
    @bradyvaughn136 5 років тому +198

    Well that was depressing, and pretty much sums up my love life😭

    • @thomaswschaller
      @thomaswschaller 5 років тому +5

      yep

    • @jugi42
      @jugi42 5 років тому +2

      welcome in the club

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +4

      Listen Brady you're incredible and you deserve so much love!!

    • @bradyvaughn136
      @bradyvaughn136 5 років тому +5

      it's Daniel I know, this video just hit hard! Thanks so much, I appreciate it. Love you sooo much💜

    • @saltnugget
      @saltnugget 5 років тому +5

      Ikr I've been through that and one way or another I may or may not showed him that I'm gay, and now he won't talk to me anymore like we're strangers that's the most brutal thing

  • @gggreggg
    @gggreggg 5 років тому +9

    this is a well done piece!!! so natural,, so sweet. it felt so real.

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +3

      Thank you so much Wright! We really want to create genuine stories that people can relate to.

  • @OneRandomVictory
    @OneRandomVictory 5 років тому +8

    You two are friendship goals honestly

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +2

      Thank you so much! Everyone deserves a great friend!

  • @belladonna9818
    @belladonna9818 5 років тому +19

    That was cute when Max hugged Daniel ❤️😊

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +2

      We all deserve a good hug!

    • @belladonna9818
      @belladonna9818 5 років тому +1

      @@itsDanielRivera You two make a cute couple!I really wonder if it is Max you are falling for.I don't blame you ,he is one french hottie! Good luck to you Daniel 😉

  • @michaelglass7047
    @michaelglass7047 5 років тому +35

    My best friend is gay & I'm straight we are like brothers our friendship goes back since 1986, we travel everywhere.

    • @Dakarai_Knight
      @Dakarai_Knight 5 років тому +1

      Adorable you are a great person

    • @zzzaaayyynnn
      @zzzaaayyynnn 5 років тому +2

      Most of my close friends have been straight guys; if there is no sexual/romantic attraction for either of us, it works out great...

  • @obiphil8672
    @obiphil8672 4 роки тому +4

    "Physically punching me" would be a gd thing. Should cure the crush right away. I wish my crush could do that to me so I could hate him instead of pinning after him.

    • @retrograde9053
      @retrograde9053 3 роки тому

      the fact that you said 'cure the crush away' summed up the emotion of having feelings towards a straight guy especially if he's your friend/ best friend. We know it will always be a bad thing that could severe the friendship. 😔

  • @kikonyc68
    @kikonyc68 5 років тому +62

    I HATE falling in love. It's never been a good thing for me all my life.

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +9

      Falling in love can be scary and painful sometimes, but I always remind myself of the Call Me By Your Name Quote: “We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!”

    • @kikonyc68
      @kikonyc68 5 років тому

      @@itsDanielRivera I can't wait to get to that stage where I'd feel absolutely nothinggggah for someone. All I want is to mind my own business.

    • @Hypegreene05
      @Hypegreene05 5 років тому

      @@itsDanielRivera I completely understand what his saying but also that line in that book broke me.

    • @TrackerNeil
      @TrackerNeil 5 років тому

      Love is wonderful, but it's not easy, and it is not kind.

    • @Evilregall
      @Evilregall 5 років тому

      Once I loved and once I learned, love is weakness, love can leave you burn!

  • @supermanifold
    @supermanifold 5 років тому +57

    I suspect that Max is the straight crush?

  • @Mercury1709
    @Mercury1709 5 років тому

    This just pulls into the heartstrings. Love the honestly and vulnerability and it's relatable AF! You really cant help who you fall in love with and that can be both wonderful and in some ways sad.

  • @RubyAstari
    @RubyAstari 5 років тому +2

    I love this friendship of yours, guys.

  • @BrokebackBob
    @BrokebackBob 5 років тому +5

    Max is THE BEST kind of straight man.

  • @fiveoctaves
    @fiveoctaves 5 років тому +56

    I want to fix Max's collar.

  • @ewanhoyle4864
    @ewanhoyle4864 5 років тому +27

    Omg this is true i fell for a straight guy, that ended our friendship and now I found a guy and he's my boyfriend

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +5

      I'm so happy that things worked out for you Ewan! Say hi to your boyfriend for me!

  • @michaelluera3475
    @michaelluera3475 4 роки тому +1

    I’ve experienced that several times in my life and Max is right! They are still some of my best friends and the love never stopped.

  • @jackdeweese1971
    @jackdeweese1971 2 роки тому

    LOVE you guys!!! Please keep posting - you are very cute and sweet and you make me laugh. Thank you!

  • @almtl1256
    @almtl1256 5 років тому +4

    Max is so adorable! I just found him and I already love him!

  • @yazajag
    @yazajag 5 років тому +1

    That was the sweetest most supportive friend convo, awww. 🤗

  • @D4rient
    @D4rient 5 років тому +1

    You are so lucky to have Max! He is the kind of friend that I would love to have.

  • @richardbautista2704
    @richardbautista2704 5 років тому +2

    If this "straight guy" he's talking about turns out to be Max... Oh my GOSH! 😳😳😳

  • @J-Alex7631
    @J-Alex7631 5 років тому +1

    Gosh. I needed this video hace tres años. 🙈

  • @yonggrey6407
    @yonggrey6407 5 років тому +4

    Plot twist: It's you, Maximilien. I am in love with you. (Guess who's talking, Daniel or me.)

  • @paulandrews298
    @paulandrews298 5 років тому +47

    Why don't you just admit it's Max you have the crush for?

  • @billycarroll9153
    @billycarroll9153 5 років тому +4

    Just tell Max already. He’s ready. He may not want to marry you, but maybe he’d be up for some experimentation.
    Sometimes PEOPLE just find connection and fall in love.

  • @Eric-rr8ui
    @Eric-rr8ui 5 років тому +37

    Iam straight and have a gay best friend. I think it's great. We share everything.

    • @leechris2729
      @leechris2729 5 років тому +3

      good for you. I usually don't share this thing to them. they Will misunderstand me and don't know what it feels like.😓🙃

    • @Eric-rr8ui
      @Eric-rr8ui 5 років тому

      @@leechris2729what is "this thing"? And who are "they"?

    • @Eric-rr8ui
      @Eric-rr8ui 5 років тому +2

      @Joshua Astorga I have a wife and he a boyfriend. One of the best things about our friendship is the complete lack of boundaries. No subject is off limit.

    • @munii3216
      @munii3216 5 років тому +1

      aw!

    • @russelstephan6342
      @russelstephan6342 5 років тому +2

      Its normal I don't know why people think this is abnormal or rare, people need to get off their self righteousness and adapt to other people, they think people that are different are beneath them or not worthy , its annoying

  • @RobertFleming
    @RobertFleming 5 років тому +1

    And the awesome award goes to....! God, this is good.

  • @govilela
    @govilela 2 роки тому

    Sooo good, love it guys, great job!

  • @israelperez570
    @israelperez570 4 роки тому

    The roommate with a beard has got to be the coolest guy. Actually want to listen to someone's problems and trying to help. I like you scenes and I'll try to be more like this person

  • @LenHealsU
    @LenHealsU 2 роки тому

    So sweetly done and portrayed. So tenderly done!

  • @AdultingWithSamnang
    @AdultingWithSamnang 5 років тому +3

    get yourself a straight friend who is as good at giving advice as Max.

  • @SingSumKun
    @SingSumKun 5 років тому +4

    * cries in gay *

  • @JonesJr876
    @JonesJr876 5 років тому

    This is beautiful. So emotional when you listening and think up your own experiences.

  • @keithfoester7326
    @keithfoester7326 5 років тому

    falling in love is such a bittersweet thing. you feel free yet caged at the same time. you love dearly and you annoy irritatingly.

  • @avarice11
    @avarice11 5 років тому +3

    i confessed with my straight friend and i told him that i'll take care of my feelings and there is no need to reciprocate. He is sport about it and we are still good friend though i tried my best not to see him in a regular basis to put a stop on my feelings. On the road of moving on hahahahah.

  •  5 років тому +49

    Don't tell him dummy. If he feels the same way about you he will show it to you eventually. Then you will know. If not, then enjoy the friendship.

    • @victorhill2234
      @victorhill2234 5 років тому +5

      I agree.

    • @samwinchester3189
      @samwinchester3189 5 років тому +1

      It's not that easy he might lose that friendship as well

    • @zenithquasar9623
      @zenithquasar9623 5 років тому +1

      I think that is pretty bad advice. What if he is thinking the same way?!

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +3

      Thank you for the advice Gilster! Much love to you! :)

  • @jcb561
    @jcb561 5 років тому +3

    I just fell in love with that straight guy.

  • @danieldumas7361
    @danieldumas7361 5 років тому +2

    I fell in love with my best friend. The emotional overload was strickly one sided. I tried my best to stifle it, until he suggested that we move-in together. I broke down, telling him my true feelings. He broke down when I said that it would be best if I just went away, back east. Once we hugged and stoped crying, he agreed to continue to live apart if I agreed to stay. Bottom line is, as much as it hurt to let the cat out of the bag, it was truly the best thing to do. D.

  • @masonrexwhitton6892
    @masonrexwhitton6892 5 років тому +1

    This was soo good

  • @Jocular64
    @Jocular64 5 років тому

    Another great short! These shorts are like cocaine; always leaves you wanting more! Daniel, you are a great actor! The #Oscars missed you, my friend!

  • @Sean-dl8ym
    @Sean-dl8ym 5 років тому +2

    I'm strictly attracted to straight guys! Sucks, but is what it is.

    • @tre_4
      @tre_4 4 роки тому

      There Are Masc Gay Men Out Here.

  • @whatsup4041
    @whatsup4041 5 років тому

    I like how they seem so real and it doesn't look like as if they're acting for a video.

    • @omar-ms3ip
      @omar-ms3ip 5 років тому

      What's up are you gay??

  • @prabuud
    @prabuud 4 роки тому

    very well made, gotta watch from start

  • @eusoffable
    @eusoffable 5 років тому

    I am already in love with the straight roommate !! Our life story. Oh nevermind , the episodes never ends.

  • @argo1221
    @argo1221 5 років тому +2

    1:09 "Is he talking about me?"

  • @castielcarlysle7327
    @castielcarlysle7327 5 років тому

    part two please!!! I want the part where you confess all what youve just said to MAX.

  • @biomechanicalintegration6137
    @biomechanicalintegration6137 4 роки тому

    "can I have a hug" I felt that

  • @baguette6758
    @baguette6758 5 років тому

    I’ve needed this video all my life, this is literally me

  • @nerveitch5836
    @nerveitch5836 5 років тому

    this is so pure

  • @MelodicSmile
    @MelodicSmile 5 років тому +2

    If you two don't miraculously end up together imma be sad lmao

  • @cupcakkerares
    @cupcakkerares 5 років тому

    Seriously just went through these emotions yesterday. Really needed this video

  • @indycurt1
    @indycurt1 5 років тому +1

    What's even worse than this scenario is falling in love with a MARRIED straight man.

  • @Hypegreene05
    @Hypegreene05 5 років тому +1

    Been through this twice a few years ago. Not doing it again. It's just too much and to many emotions to deal with. It sucks.

  • @MP-yz6sb
    @MP-yz6sb 5 років тому +5

    You guys are so cute together. People just need to forget the labels and focus on how another individual makes them feel.

  • @averagejoessb3110
    @averagejoessb3110 4 роки тому

    Wow just found this video. Idk if this is scripted or acting or what but this conversation just sounds so real, I love it.

  • @marth9660
    @marth9660 5 років тому

    I relate to this 10000%. It sucks and it makes me sad that so much attachment and feelings and ....well.....love travelling both ways can’t be intimately expressed or taken deeper and that we need to struggle with the “what if’s” just even thinking about telling someone we’ve become close to how we feel. This video didn’t depress me but it reminds me of the frustrations. People say “don’t allow yourself to start to feel things for straight guys” but starting to love someone is such a natural process and it’s simply not possible often to just shut it all down before it takes hold. Chemistry is chemistry. People are people. Love is love. But we can’t always get what we want....or need.

  • @SuvojitBandopadhyaya
    @SuvojitBandopadhyaya 5 років тому +1

    straight crushes suck.... also I'm so glad I found this channel.

    • @kikonyc68
      @kikonyc68 5 років тому

      Gay crush sucks too. A lot of times.

  • @christianjaybonito2396
    @christianjaybonito2396 5 років тому

    Max has the hearty-est laughs I've heard ugh ma hart

  • @joseaod15
    @joseaod15 5 років тому +3

    I love documentaries, though!

  • @hottestfba
    @hottestfba 5 років тому +1

    Waiting for next episode!!😍😍

  • @nanianmichaels
    @nanianmichaels 5 років тому +1

    Yeah, I've been there.
    My best friend at the time, the first guy I told I'm gay, and probably the best reaction I've ever had (his reply was "... And?", he was completely unphased by me coming out, despite us being acquaintances for like two weeks at the time).
    We hung out a lot, and I started to develop feelings for him, to the point I was finding it hard to not express them (like, actually kissing him).
    So, one day I just came out and told him. "Look, this is what's going on. I know you can't reciprocate, and I don't want to lose a friend by doing something stupid, so I need a few days to sort my c**p".
    We ended up just saying "hi" for a week, or so, until I managed to assimilate that, while he was a great catch, it was not the catch for me.
    At the end of the day, our friendship survived, and we're still good friends to this day. Not best friends because he lives ~5000Km away from me, but he's still one of the very few people I truly trust.
    Same thing happened with my ex. We dated for 3 years. In the end, it wasn't working. We broke it off, but kept the friendship. Those first couple of months SUCKED, because I wanted to vent, and the person I wanted to vent to was him, and that was not an option.
    Today, he's my best friend, and we still finish each other's sentences. It's weird, but we make it work, and our respective boyfriends know exactly where we stand on our relationship.

  • @bhills1393
    @bhills1393 5 років тому

    Where did you record this? The atmosphere seems a bit different

  • @looniebin21
    @looniebin21 5 років тому +14

    How long did it take for you to be desensitized to Max's face?! I couldn't handle it lmao 🙈🙈

    • @JakeLikesJoking
      @JakeLikesJoking 5 років тому

      looniebin21 What’s wring with Max’s face? Or do you mean he’s too cute?

    • @looniebin21
      @looniebin21 5 років тому +2

      @@JakeLikesJoking I meant he's too cute.. lol I would just stare at him..😍

    • @JakeLikesJoking
      @JakeLikesJoking 5 років тому +1

      looniebin21 Oh yeah, I agree, he’s adorable 🥰

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +2

      A couple minutes...lol jk

    • @looniebin21
      @looniebin21 5 років тому +1

      @@itsDanielRivera teach me your powers ?! Lmao !!!

  • @bradbowlamma3039
    @bradbowlamma3039 5 років тому +1

    came out to a colleague last week that works in a different branch, seemed cool at first and after that when i text no no longer replys... whatevs

  • @fahood9114
    @fahood9114 5 років тому +1

    I am going through the same thing but the guy i have feeling for is my coworker he's also doing the same thing all touchy and all but I can't even think of talking to him or anyone else about it because of the country that I'm in i'll get prosecuted for even saying that i have feelings for another guy 😢😢. I just hope somehow i get to a place where i can be true to myself and not be afraid about it anymore

    • @fahood9114
      @fahood9114 5 років тому

      @no name no Kuwait

    • @fahood9114
      @fahood9114 5 років тому

      @no name no they're all same because they're Muslim countries

  • @KellytheCoach
    @KellytheCoach 5 років тому

    Very well done guys. Got totally caught up, Was so real. Thanks

  • @scottwascher8567
    @scottwascher8567 5 років тому +7

    I hate when that happens...

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +2

      It can really suck sometimes!

    • @scottwascher8567
      @scottwascher8567 5 років тому

      A M E N! I fell really hard for a guy that kept going back and forth... and he ended up going crazy in a sense... he up and stopped talking to me and was telling everyone I was the problem and that I brainwashed him etc etc..... he hasnt talked to me in 13yrs or more...

    • @scottwascher8567
      @scottwascher8567 5 років тому

      It even still hurts sooo bad after all these years.. how the whole thing (timeline) worked out

  • @eulsscepter1343
    @eulsscepter1343 5 років тому

    Indirect confession. Poor kitty, he chose not to confirm that he was talking about him.
    The straight guy though have an idea and neither him doesn't want to ask his kitty friend.

  • @gregorygaugau
    @gregorygaugau 5 років тому

    The reverse can be difficult too, when a straight guy falls for you and he tells you that you are a special exception, that he isn’t turned on by gay or bi porn because the physical stuff isn’t that interesting to him, he just wants that physical intimacy with you.

  • @yondaimesama7002
    @yondaimesama7002 4 роки тому

    The guy is so cute. I often felt cute to handsome guy but I hate it most especially if they look perfect. I kinda like "I hope I'm amazing as this guy". It's like I'm insecure and envious but if they deserve complement then I give it.

  • @Lylo-mj8ek
    @Lylo-mj8ek 5 років тому

    OMG DANIEL! Just tell him! He's wonderful for you. And come on you know he has feelings for you and real friendship is the basis for a great relationship. He would be the luckiest man alive to have YOU! ( sorry if I overstepped my bounds ) But you two are amazing together. Much Love to you. Peace.

  • @a_blaser
    @a_blaser 5 років тому

    This is so real! I related to this a lot.

  • @юлиясапожников-й1у

    plot twist: max is the straight guy

  • @haopygay9579
    @haopygay9579 5 років тому +1

    That's good because it's a company u have with each other my best friend said he feels good safe and comfortable around me I am so happy with that it better than gay guys now days I love my best friend

  • @alika5189
    @alika5189 5 років тому +1

    I told my "supposedly openminded" straight friend that I liked him.. That didn't end well 😂.

  • @hugoperez3149
    @hugoperez3149 5 років тому +6

    Plot twist! It's actually his roommate 😂👌

  • @thecatwithoutatail5420
    @thecatwithoutatail5420 5 років тому +2

    But what if you fall in love with your best gay friend, we literally call each other "sis" ...

  • @SrTBP
    @SrTBP 5 років тому +2

    And that's what oblivious means...
    Ps: Like, I think, like, he says like, like...too many, like, times

  • @kej1166
    @kej1166 5 років тому +3

    I'm right there, right now. It is VERY frustrating

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому

      It can be very frustrating, but as you can see from the other comments, you are not alone.

  • @nikko7117
    @nikko7117 5 років тому +1

    That is indeed a problem . . . And it sucks. . .

  • @NikMaxens
    @NikMaxens 5 років тому +1

    Oh lord your straight roommate is attractive lol

  • @ZValerian21
    @ZValerian21 5 років тому

    Wow! This hit very close to home! I just reconnected with a straight guy that I stopped being friends with cause I fell for him and couldn't handle it (yes, I'm that asshole).
    Also why is Max like almost perfect!!!

  • @TrackerNeil
    @TrackerNeil 5 років тому +2

    I'm not sure I agree with Max's advice, as well intentioned as it was. Telling Straight Friend (SF) is not a bad idea, but Daniel is quite justified in worrying about the consequences. Gay panic is a very real thing, and gay men have gotten beaten (or worse) by straight men who felt threatened in one way or another. I'm not saying Daniel shouldn't have a talk with SF, but his fears are quite reasonable.
    Even if SF is totally fine with the admission, however, there is something else to consider; namely that he's not going to be able to support Daniel very much, no matter how hard he tries. Daniel has feelings that are likely going to lead nowhere, and it's probably going to be better if he and SF take a break from each other while Daniel works through those feelings, hopefully with the help of friends and others close to him. They may well be able to resume their friendship, later, but for now I think Daniel needs to limit his exposure while he heals.
    I do agree with Max, however, that the current situation is untenable. Daniel's friendship with SF has *already* changed, and it won't do either of them any good to pretend otherwise.
    Obviously, the fact that I just typed three paragraphs of commentary means I enjoyed this short film. :-)
    P.S. I would totally watch a documentary to distract myself from heartache, so, yay Max for suggesting it.

  • @luanmorosini
    @luanmorosini 5 років тому

    Great videos, you two are very cute. I love the channel. Hugs from Brazil.

  • @270poundJane
    @270poundJane 5 років тому

    Wow, that was a great conversation and correct. I have had several straight rooms make and housemates, they were neat men to hang around. Then their girlfriends, they were the Prize.

  • @2eleven48
    @2eleven48 4 роки тому

    Great script, great acting, from you both, but, yeah, the fact is it's deeply unwise and torturous and goes nowhere if you have feelings for a straight friend. You have to cherish the friendship as it is.

  • @walkercaustin
    @walkercaustin 5 років тому +7

    this is my current problem lmao

    • @itsDanielRivera
      @itsDanielRivera  5 років тому +2

      We're all here for you Austin! You are not alone in this situation!