Having a Trans Partner
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00:00 Intro
01:45 How to Respect a Trans Woman
02:49 Where to Find Trans Women
05:53 Men Being Discreet
08:15 Intimacy with Trans Women
11:42 Accepting Infertility of Trans Women
12:22 Telling Your Family About Your Partner
14:24 Is it Gay to Date Trans Women?
17:27 Why Men and Women Hate On Trans Women
19:30 Closing Remarks
Maya dropping another great video to no one's surprise
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
You are so sweet, and I think that's what makes you so good at delivering all of this information. It's easy to learn from someone patient enough to explain it!
I am getting so much from your wonderful videos. You, Maya are being so authentic and encouraging. We are all on a journey, and my own wish is to find someone like you; a beautiful, intelligent and caring woman. I want to share my life with someone like that. Thank you so much for your excellent advice and coaching. You rock, girl!
He's not going to have sex with you calm down
Maya, Another wonderful video. Thank you. I have learned so much through your videos. I could listen to you all day long.
I just had sex with a cisman for the first time last week. As we started, we discovered that the angle of my vagi was quite different than that of a ciswoman. I started freaking out. I already had issues with my bottom surgery quality. The guy wasn’t fazed. He led me to different positions until we found one that worked. He was patient with me when I got upset. He assured me that everything was okay. It was the right way to respond, as far as I can feel. I might go for a revision, for a few other reasons, but regardless, I’m really lucky that he was my first experience, because he was kind and treated me as a person with feelings.
When did you tell him you were a trans woman?
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A Trans Gender woman?
I think is a reasonable question!
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Apparently biological men are now called (Cis male) in the transgender community!
@@ronferguson9695why does that concern you?
@@ronferguson9695no, biological *males* (sex can be different from gender) who's gender identity is congruent with his sex assigned at birth. Cis is the opposite of trans. Not all biological males are men, not all men are biological males.
You’re so eloquent, like a modern day philosopher 👏🙏 loved this real-talk yet respectful perspective!
Hey Maya.Proud of you. This video is much needed. Stay safe & true to yourself
Trans people are never ''true'' to themselves, like if someone claim to be ''trans'' it means they do not accept what they are since the womb and they biew themselves negatively, completely going against reality is what they do instead of actually accepting that they can not change what is impossible to change which is biology.
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
I’m so glad there are UA-cam’s like you Mayr to educate people.
For this reason alone you are an amazing human being.
Educate on what exactly? What do you think the person is ''educating'' them on?
Want to know.
Póngale cero maestro 👨🏫
Miss Henry (Maya) - I wanted to reach out and share something with you. Several years ago, my nephew came out "gay", so naturally, believing this to be abnormal and a mental illness, I went in search of ammunition to use against his decision and coming out. On my searching endeavors, I came across you, much before your surgery. I was intrigued by your mannerisms. So every once and awhile I'd catch up with what was happening in your life, your aspirations, dreams, hopes and I watched as you shared almost every aspect of your transition. Along with way I realized wait - She's not mentally ill or any of that. Maya seems genuine. Well now years have passed and I've found, for this old Baby Boomer that perhaps nature got you wrong. At one point in pregnancy we're all both male and female, and the fathers gene's take over and decide the sex. It's obvious to me you were meant to be a girl (lady). Nothing about you is a boy (man) nothing! I wanted to share this with you because if I can change my mind and reasonings along these beliefs, than I'm clearly in the wrong and need to leave it alone. You've actually helped me, image that. Peace !
So what about your nephew?
@@ShaneJMcEnteeI love him he’s is family and I support him in his choice
@@Tim_Takacs that's great, but I would say it's not a choice to be gay. It's just who he is
I'm proud of u and I'm so glad that you did ur learning and research and became more accepting!
@@ShaneJMcEnteeI guess what they mean is they respect their choice to live their life in a way that makes them happy
Hello Maya❤️ I can honestly say, the first time I seen one of your videos, I actually didn't know you were trans, not till I had seen several of your videos. By the time I had heard you say the word trans, I already thought of you as a beautiful woman, that I wish we were friends, cause I think your an awesome girl, I've been hurt too many times to want anything but friends. But I have always thought of you as a Beautiful woman that I wish was a friend. Love you girl❤
Just awesome views and ideas. Very open and free ❤ thank you Maya for inspiration 😊
I thoroughly enjoyed this video 👌🏾
I've followed you off and on for a few years.
Good job and you've earned it
the honest way. Much respect.
Wonderful subject Maya ✨ I'm trans and love to have positive creators to listen to! Stay awesome 😎
Ms. Henry. Thanks for your insight. This was very well presented.
Great video Maya! 😊
Great video very informative keep making great videos Maya
A pandabulous video Maya. I've had hard times finding and keeping partners too but I think I've now found my forever partner. She's very supportive. Being trans in the best and worst journey but I wouldn't have it any other way. Looking forward to your next video.🐼💖🏳⚧
Thank you Maya for another classy and intelligent video. ❤❤
This is a fantastic video with very valuable information that we can pass on to others. Also, loving the necklace. You look WOW today.
This is a great video with a great topic.
Maya: You are a real trooper! Keep up the good work! You are a beautiful young lady who has a lot to offer. I appreciate the courage you exhibit in your approach to these issues. You are helping many of us understand the struggles of being a trans gendered lady. 😍
Love this video Maya! Thank you! ❤❤
Being a Pre-Op Trans myself & who Was married for a decade, it’s all about communication & compromises in long relationships. Plus? If you don’t have that connection & love for each other? Then you’re just waisting time with that partner.
Back in the Dating pool? Being Trans? Makes it hard to find someone who have a good balance in being with you.
Judgmental, insecurities, fetishers, and self centered types litter the dating space badly.
I dated a post op Trans who was so self centered into themselves? They never once said I looked good while dating them. That was during those two very abrasive months, constantly saying aloud to themselves:
“I look good, I’m so damn good looking….”
While smiling staring constantly in the mirror or pics of themselves. Felt like I was talking to a wall to. I did my best to look good on a date out, & never once got a compliment, just them asking how they’re looking so damn fine. They never asked about my life? Always about theirs.
About myself, knowing your flaws helps to. I’m all about Love & Care, but the moment it gets questioned when I’ve fallen to hard for them? Is when I have to step back & make sure I’m not being to much.
So I definitely agree with ALL you said in this video Maya. Great video! Love it when you’re so open to tell it like it is for you. 😘👍
Thank you so much lovely Maya!
I never knew you hadn't done a video on this topic before.
Dear Maya, seeing you and listening to you gives hope for a civilised life for us humans in the future. Thank you for your emancipatory commitment. Satisfaction and happiness for you in your courageous being
As always, your words of your own view on the matter align with mine and this video is very educational and I hope this helps people with their questions on the matter after all we like what we like ❤ you are a force and I adore your content now as always, keep it flowing ❤
Super classy and casual glamorous look for this vid. Impressive.
Great video Maya. I feel like most of this does not apply to me because I have never ever been attracted to men in any way (abusive father), so I am a gold star lesbian. I am not straight at all -- don't get me wrong, I went on a couple dates and fooled around a little bit, but I was disgusted by the pressure and mansplaining.
Most of my relationships have been "trans for trans" T4T because there is almost no chance that I am being fetishized, zero chance for mansplaining, and I feel that I have always been treated like a woman (except for one girl who was always a bottom -- and I felt used because she made it all about her).
I also have explored several other non-traditional relationship styles like polyamory and a recent throuple situation. My best relationship now is a non-intimate one with a beautiful femme cis woman who has ALWAYS said the right things and made me feel like a beautiful woman. We have more of an emotional relationship, but we do make out a little bit; I do wish that we were closer, but it is truly so good otherwise.
I just want to live my life and feel companionship and love -- just like EVERY other human.
This was such "Killer" content! I've followed you a long time, to see this level of maturity is so refreshing ! Your beauty and personal maturity is electric! I'm almost 80, starting HRT, very much influenced by you content. Thank you!❤❤
Really 80 years old and just going on HRT
@@jeromesamuels8977 ikr, might as well just see things through at this point. Can't be healthy for someone's body to go through such a drastic change?
It was amazing content thank you so much for sharing that academic research as well
More thoughtful words of wisdom from Maya! Yes! I agree with everything you said. I always find you one of the wisest and most humanistic (if I can use that term here) people in the trans community. You inspire me every time I listen to a new post from you. I love your sense of humor and your playful attitude. Thank you for all your posts. Sorry you have to put up with so much hate from the transphobes out there. Seriously, how could anyone feel hate towards someone as warm and beautiful (inside and out) as you? I admire your courage Maya. You are such a good person. Keep up the good work. The world is definitely a better place with you in it!
Maya, this video has been so informative to me and I really appreciate you. You are so pretty that you probably don't have any issues but Ilove your attitude about everything. Love you much.
You are very well spoken, classy !!
I love your videos!! this topic is very important, thank you for sharing! btw, I love your outfit!
Very articulate and intelligent-kudos
I love you so much Maya ❤
The thumbnail is one of the best pictures of you ever, Maya.
U look stunning 😍 keep it up Maya
Great video, thanks
Such a wonderful video! (from another trans woman who is currently navigating dating). I may send this video to any guy that expresses interest from now on as homework lol
list it as a Prerequisite to your 101 class :)
Sameeeee
amazing ❤
You are amazing and beautiful and informative. I know from your posts, and from what I have learned in the real world, that it is imperative to be respectful of all and not just leap. But damn, lady you have it going on.
Thanks Maya your the best😊❤️
I love the funny faces you make and all your content, the real you!❤
You are totally absolutely the bomb
I still found it very interesting!
I personally myself I think the best of both worlds would be the bomb
Great video Maya. As a Trans woman myself I agree with your points and advice in this video.
Gorgeous!
You are an inspiration
loved this
Love this Video! Me as a trans woman agree with the whole Video. However my opinion is if you like trans women pre op than maybe it’s just a complete category on its own.
Thanks for sharing 👍.
Very good. Someone at least got it right. Your content is always on point. Stay beautiful and and always sweet.❤
Hey Maya, Just wanted to comment on your movie. Dawn,Her Dad and the tractor. I watched it last night and cried most of the time. You're an amazing actress and I'm glad I found it. Thank You!
one video a week, Maya started 2024 showing that she is here to stay. 😍👏🏼
Thanks for video really interesting,
I’d never intentionally look to date a trans woman but wouldn’t be a problem for me and wouldn’t bother me if she felt she had to hide it in the beginning.
I would treat her like a princess and make her feel special.
If anyone had a problem with me dating a trans woman that would just make me question if they are the sort of people I want in my life.
Sending you love and positive vibes ❤
Your necklace is very pretty. Much respect.
maya, I admire your guts in trying to dissolve the stigma around trans women, as you say we all have the same blood running through our bodies keep doing what you do .
No worries. So much better having a mic.
Oh. My GOD Maya you are SO pretty. I can't even.
Society needs more compassion and understanding, you are a pioneer and you can help spread awareness. Great video Maya 👍
Spread awareness of what?
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
love ya girl, I love your videos so much great information im hooked on you, lol take care an God bless.
Hum ill have to check out some of those sites thanks for the info
Maya, I feel what you’re saying! I am autistic and it is hard to explain to people about autism!
Maya ... fun rant!
love you
Would the microphone work on the other side, under the hair? Or does your hair make noises when it moves over the microphone?
A wired clip might be smaller, or you could wear darker colors.
Not distracting, though. Good audio quality.
Good for you for having the courage to be yourself.
maya i like how you put it over pll have to get on with that is around us have Sean most of life ty maya keep up great work💯😇🤩
Very pretty 😍
You are always the best❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
1:07 I love the snow balls in your hair, Maya!! LOL.
I would walk proudly beside anyone of you girls
Good video. You are a beautiful wholesome woman.
I love this. Maya everything you said is so true. Ive dated two trans women that were pre-op and did not look like men at all. In the relationship to me they were women and both lived to be treated like not only a woman but a person. The only reason we didn't stay together was because one moved out of the country and I couldn't leave with her and the second one wanted to get into the porn and I didn't agree with it. Much like you said, your either in it because you care and love the person and not for a fetish or experimentation
I also want to add that im secure in my sexualality and I am not attracted to men. Trans women to me are women whether pre-op or post op.
I think those who claim they are ''Trans'' need good people, sane people, around them. A good person that can tell you there is nothing wrong in being a boy or a girl, male or female, that is just what you are since the womb and it is Literally impossible to change. So do not waste your time to mimic, emulate, something which you can not be. Ever.
Well said, Love! WHO CARES!
I've always been of the mind that everyone deserves to be treated fairly, no matter who you are, or your lifestyle, orientation etc. I grew up in the 80's and 90's back when things were way more conservative. Things like being gay or bi were out of the question. Yet even as a teen and young adult I had fantasies like we all do. But as I got older and learned more about myself and what I like I learned to appreciate the experiences and partners I shared them with more. While the majority of my partners have been women over the years, one of my best and favorite experiences was with a beautiful trans person. Another time was with a guy I had met. He had this magnetism about him that could not be denied. Plus being really cute didn't hurt his case either. I guess what I'm trying to say is that as I've gotten older, I've learned to appreciate beauty in life wherever we can find it. And if it leads to a pleasurable experience I'm all for it.
Love this and U
❤ Just sending you some Love xx❤
I'm dating a transgender woman, and she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen and the first woman I've dated. I'm so glad I've found your channel and this video. You give valuable information and food for thought. You're so patient and you put things plain and simple. Plus you don't judge us or see us as rude when we ask questions! :)
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Thank you.
very well explained as usual. all women should be more like you.
Do you have any thoughts about T4T dating or being in a lesbian relationship as a transwoman?
Since starting my transition about 4 months ago from a straight guy to a transwoman, I've not changed my sexual preference but I have noticed that I'm now finding other transwoman to be particularly attractive and also interesting to converse with. I'm not finding this feeling unpleasant, but I do find it odd.
Another thing I've noticed is that I am getting far more attention from both cis and trans women as a non-passing transwoman than I got as a straight man. I guess that I am still in that early phase of my transition whereby I have a pretty good male physique and yet wear hyperfeminine clothes and have better makeup than the vast majority of women. I'm finding that girls / women whom I had thought were out of my league previously are only too happy now to kiss and fool around with me, but never take it further. Getting the attention is nice, but it feels that they see me as some kind of play thing that they don't take seriously.
Your sharing was good for me to hear and feel. Thanks for sharing. 7:46
T4T just makes sense in my opinion.
Time stamp. 15:26 I’m not gay I just like girls with extra fun. OMG. Thanks. 15:26
Your could not have said it better.
What I found is you get so many “chasers”.
When you are with someone it’s almost more like a “experience” rather than a relationship.
Maya, great videoand so informative to me and you are so sweet and pretty. I love you lots.
Factssss
This came up in my feed and so want to gloat about the beautiful world of T4T. I’m in a T4T Hetero relationship. It is the most gender affirming thing ever. Everything feels so natural and as it should be. I had trouble presenting as a cis hetero but figured as I’m not attracted to cis males I must be attracted to cis females which I am but difficult having a sexual relationship when I have to be masculine dom. oh dear. So I had relationship aversion and then when I’d be in a relationship I’d have sexual aversion as being the male triggers gender dysphoria. Now it’s 100% gender euphoria 😊
I'm fascinated
I'm married to a transgender woman since 2019 a lot of reassurance and been there for every major surgery
I wish my parents would watch your videos over time. I think it could change their limited world views.
Last night I played a blank tape at full blast. The mime next door went nuts.
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You look so LOVELY ☺️ ❤️
What great advice, centered on good, healthy relationships, not toys - unless that's what people want, no shame :-)
Also, just wanted to say, every single girl I've been with had shit they were insecure with about their bodies. Honestly, it's annoying because I've never seen what they had a problem with, but you learn just to manage it however works best for her.
(^that probably sounds cold, but like I said, it never made sense to me, so I just learned to figure out what makes it better - which seems like basically nothing lol, but different girls need different things around that, so it's always a learning process. I'm sure it's the same with trans, but just a guess, it's just not that abnormal in my experience)
Maya you look particularly pretty today.
Completely off topic, but I'd love to know where was your white top and necklace purchased from. Thank you for the hard work, Maya!
Thank you! Top is Babaton Body suit from Aritzia, and necklace is a vivian westwood knock off from shein LOL
Amazing, I found them and will add to my shopping list, so very classy and stylish. Thank you again for doing what you do and have a wonderful 2024 💜@@Mayavhenry
WOW Maya, I love what you have to say and your perspective. As a straight, Afro-Canadian male, I want to tell you that I think you're beautiful, intelligent and classy as hell. I would date you in a New York minute.
Thank you for posting.