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  • Опубліковано 29 сер 2020
  • And then, there’s another kind of love: the cruelest kind. The one that almost kills its victims. It’s called unrequited love. Of that I am an expert. Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? We are the victims of the one-sided affair. We are the cursed of the loved ones. We are the unloved ones, the walking wounded.

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  • @sniperxauthor6221
    @sniperxauthor6221 2 роки тому +533

    Unrequited love: when you love someone who doesn't love you back, but for some stupid reason, you're still stupidly in love with them.

    • @a.r.c8631
      @a.r.c8631 2 роки тому +6

      I am frustated, i have a relationship with a girl that i have been searching for this past 8 years, and i was so happy that i finnaly find the one who can make me falling in love, the happiness continue when She accept me, but it only last for 1 month, She changed, She slowly ignoring me, never chat me, don't care about me. Its the worst feeling ever, but i can't let her go, so here i am, confuded and suffering from it

    • @axomorlora3625
      @axomorlora3625 Рік тому

      @@a.r.c8631 good 👍

    • @_Izumii_
      @_Izumii_ Рік тому

      😅💔🥀

    • @remopkr198
      @remopkr198 11 місяців тому

      love can never be unrequited

    • @remopkr198
      @remopkr198 11 місяців тому

      I express my feelings to women I am in love with she mercifully declines as long as I breath I am never going to stop loving L*#A
      love is for ever

  • @ackerm4n123
    @ackerm4n123 3 роки тому +373

    i’m tired of everyone around me being so happy.
    im tired of never even being an option.
    where’s my happy ending?

    • @thevaliantshadow5411
      @thevaliantshadow5411 3 роки тому +9

      The people that I know aren't even in relationships. They are just happily single. I just don't understand what it's like to not put all of my energy towards someone else that doesn't give their energy.

  • @cranberry556
    @cranberry556 2 роки тому +130

    7 billion beating hearts on earth and I just had to fall for the one that does not beat for me. I can't find a stop button for these wasted emotions.

  • @alessiaaltorfer9740
    @alessiaaltorfer9740 3 роки тому +269

    Here we are again: A year after he broke my heart and now being good friends me falling for him again.

    • @777mehak
      @777mehak 3 роки тому +26

      don’t. run... don’t do it. I’m typing this with fcuking tearssw in my eyes. don’t do it.. i’ve been there. it’ll tear you apart and you won’t be able to come back from it. please don’t i don’t know you but i know that kind of love.. it will destroy you ..

    • @Bellend50000
      @Bellend50000 3 роки тому +10

      I know how u feel. She told me it would never happen, and my heart broke. A year later, we're friends, then she told me she liked me, stringed me along for months and then dropped me like i was nothing.

    • @Bellend50000
      @Bellend50000 3 роки тому

      It fucking hurts

    • @myas5176
      @myas5176 3 роки тому +3

      From my experience, the feeling is always there whilst you’re talking to them, you may not notice it but there will be feelings, the best thing is to let time tell

    • @alessiaaltorfer9740
      @alessiaaltorfer9740 3 роки тому +1

      @@777mehak thank you for sharing this with me. Sorry for your pain. I'm better now I know he isn't the one for me. I keep my distance. We're still friends. But i wont ever let him hurt me again.

  • @jackiehalljr.5507
    @jackiehalljr.5507 Рік тому +31

    I've already accepted the fact that I will love her until the day I die. Thirty-6 years now.

  • @Jeng4280
    @Jeng4280 3 роки тому +78

    I too am cursed by this unrequited love thing. It’s been over 3 years..and I actually saw him again the other night believe it or not. However to him I didn’t really exist.😌 It’s been really hard but I’m trying to move on.

  • @bobbymack4577
    @bobbymack4577 3 роки тому +74

    You know what really sucks about falling for a guy you know you’re not right for? You fall anyway because you think he might turn out to be different. 🥺😢💔

  • @danielle.angela
    @danielle.angela 3 роки тому +72

    I hate that I’m still hoping.

  • @saltedpeanuts7110
    @saltedpeanuts7110 3 роки тому +46

    This is why I think falling in love is hard
    I want to be in love but I don’t want to feel the pain of falling out of it ....

  • @taetaebangtaneditsandfanfi8478
    @taetaebangtaneditsandfanfi8478 2 роки тому +28

    Have you ever related yourself with a kind of situation when ur crush asks you who's ur crush and you be like "sorry...I can't say" but in mind "damn,it's you"

    • @bluiib8227
      @bluiib8227 Рік тому +1

      This has happened to me

    • @thomasbrown6527
      @thomasbrown6527 Рік тому +1

      More times than you can count, worse yet is that she's taken

  • @Idontexisthihi001
    @Idontexisthihi001 3 роки тому +89

    I think I’m in love with this friend who I’ve known for about 3/4 years. I knew from the start I had no chance (he’s straight) so it was a dead end. But I couldn’t help it. I knew he was gonna meet girls, date them, etc… And I thought I had mentally prepared for when it happened. Turns out, when I found out he was dating someone, it hit me harder than I could have anticipated. I’m trying to get over it, but it’s hard.

    • @tvds8350
      @tvds8350 3 роки тому +5

      I understand, it really does hurt, especially when that other girl was once your best friend.

    • @davidrudpedersen5622
      @davidrudpedersen5622 2 роки тому +1

      Been there

    • @jaquesdonpan6906
      @jaquesdonpan6906 Рік тому +1

      Fuck, this is so truee huhuhu

    • @humanhere8200
      @humanhere8200 Рік тому +1

      Hurts like hell doesn't it😖

    • @randomentertainment
      @randomentertainment 11 місяців тому

      i get it man. i’m in love with this girl (she’s straight) and i am not prepared to watch her get asked to homecoming or eventually prom or for her to get a boyfriend and it’s going to hit me like a train. i love her so much, and i know it’s going nowhere, but i don’t want it to go away

  • @hiyabhattacharya9693
    @hiyabhattacharya9693 2 роки тому +20

    To be true I liked three people in my life and they never liked me back..... two of them are traitors they were not my bfs but one sided love.... but the third one is the one I like the most I know he will never be mine cause he doesn't even know me.... but I will love him forever.....

  • @jnne4048
    @jnne4048 2 роки тому +9

    *"the holiday" is the best film for insight on unrequited love fjfbfufj i love this kind of angst👌🏾👌🏾*

  • @Yuliafuji
    @Yuliafuji Рік тому +5

    7 million people in this planet and I still fall in love with people who doesn't feel the same about me and I can't stop loving him

  • @laura-yo5ln
    @laura-yo5ln 2 роки тому +31

    I fell in love with a friend of mine and I told him (he has a gf).. he was really nice and understanding about it but the fact that I'm still hoping is sick.. we're having arguments all the time bc we're so different but we also really like each other. It's so hard but I can't let him go bc I value him sm as friend. I KNOW we would never work in a relationship but I cannot stop thinking about him for 6 months now. send help.

    • @laura-yo5ln
      @laura-yo5ln 2 роки тому +2

      Update: He gaslighted me (I ignored all his red flags and let him destroy me) and I was finally able to get away from him. We ended the friendship and it hurt more than I had expected haha

    • @pinkyverma8415
      @pinkyverma8415 2 роки тому +1

      Exact same thing happened with me....

    • @laura-yo5ln
      @laura-yo5ln 2 роки тому

      @@pinkyverma8415 that’s such a coincidence.. I’m sorry to hear that..

    • @pinkyverma8415
      @pinkyverma8415 2 роки тому

      @@laura-yo5ln how are you doing....

    • @laura-yo5ln
      @laura-yo5ln 2 роки тому +1

      @@pinkyverma8415 we can talk private if you want to.. are you on instagram?

  • @cursetea49
    @cursetea49 Рік тому +6

    i wish i could of ended things on a nice day...but the longer i stayed the more my heart was ripped apart.

  • @lesegoseshabo1657
    @lesegoseshabo1657 2 роки тому +10

    I tried hard until I realized that now everything I did was to impress him, but I was just being stupid and weird to him. He fell for my best friend Instead. 10 years I still love him but I don't want him anymore... In the next life I will avoid him at all costs.

    • @asafe_space
      @asafe_space Рік тому +1

      I'm so sorry.😭

    • @axomorlora3625
      @axomorlora3625 Рік тому +1

      😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏

    • @user-hu2fe8pj3x
      @user-hu2fe8pj3x 8 місяців тому

      him being in love with you bestfriend is worst i have the feeling where i feel maybe somethings wrong with me

  • @the_fairytale_3985
    @the_fairytale_3985 Рік тому +3

    I was in love with a guy who played with my feelings and who didnt except me socially but came to me when he was alone and in private. d fact tht i m still not over him eventhough i Was mentally drained nd i realize how badly he treated me and even bitched abt me to his frnds behind my back but played a gentleman infront of me. Its like i knw he is not worth it or gud fr me but still my feelings remained constant fr 3 years. Nd at times when i see him unexoectedly my body nd mind strts shivering nd my heart beats faster than ever. Its sad tht i cant control my feelings. Its even sadder that even after all these he dsnt knw my pov nd thinks of me Jst as one of his random girls who he had a casual relation with but dsnt knw tht i went through hell through d past 3 yrs.
    Its better if my situation nd feelings remains unsaid isnt'it?
    Or ds he deserve to know my pov...

  • @peachesnpearls5506
    @peachesnpearls5506 2 роки тому +11

    This pain is sooo heavy.

  • @littlerocky5174
    @littlerocky5174 4 місяці тому

    It's definitely the most painful thing to deal with bro. 😔💔

  • @k-e-n-z-i-e-1
    @k-e-n-z-i-e-1 2 роки тому +3

    i love someone for 5 years of my life. five years but i gave it up. why? bc i couldn’t continue on. it would’ve been the same as lying. our relationship went dead and i realized i was in love with you. you swore you would give me your all. we waited. my best friend was in love with you so i sat there and waited for her to get over you so i could tell somebody how i feel. you told me you liked me. loved me. i felt like flying but realized my wings had been clipped. she loved you. i couldn’t do it. and i didn’t. but you were my best friend through it all. we cried together after you found out i love you too but we couldn’t be together. she turned out toxic anyways and got over you. i was so happy. until you dated my new best friend. the guy i’m so hopelessly in love with with my best friend. at least she took her chance. then she asked me if it was ok. I TOLD HER TO SAY YES AND BE THANKFUL CAUSE YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY WITH HER. SO WHY OH WHY DO YOU IGNORE ME AND ACT LIKE YOU HATE ME? YOU TELL ME I’M ANNOYING AND TOO LOUD BUT I LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL. WHY AM I WORTHLESS TO YOU? GOSH I MEAN YOU’RE EVERYTHING TO ME AND YOU TOLD ME I WAS URS BUT NOW THIS?! i’m sorry for the caps but it hurts so bad i feel physical pain. you told me i was perfect which ik isn’t true but you really made me believe that you love me. well i guess that was stupid wasn’t it. you don’t love me and you never will. but stop acting like it some days and then others like you hate me more than everyone else. be a friend like you said you would. i was depressed before i met you and now i’m right back in the same pothole. i just want someone to love me but even if they did i’d be stuck here in love with you.

  • @predator093
    @predator093 3 роки тому +12

    I'm never the one 😭😭

  • @Lenorexs
    @Lenorexs 2 роки тому +10

    I love my friend and he didn't know we have Chemistry and we have so common . I'm worried that if I tell him I love him, our friendship might break. Because of this ı'm not gonna tell him and İt's to late right now he said me you are like my sister wtf lol
    Sad story...

    • @Alexa-eo4tf
      @Alexa-eo4tf 2 роки тому +1

      Oh the sister quote. Must have hurt like hell. I fell in the trope of Eeeeewwww. *Sigh* love is always complicated 😪

  • @vikkiemlu1437
    @vikkiemlu1437 3 роки тому +6

    Can people just mention the title of the movies?

  • @Alexa-eo4tf
    @Alexa-eo4tf 2 роки тому +1

    My dude,I want to know the names of the movies listed in the vid. I'd really appreciate them. I want to binge watch them

  • @Ariel-my7lh
    @Ariel-my7lh Рік тому +3

    Im in love with him and he's in love with her, more than his life

  • @richardmaduna8397
    @richardmaduna8397 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow it hurts cause its true but we are not to be blamed

  • @Mandivargas_
    @Mandivargas_ 2 роки тому +1

    This current dude legit is frozen with emotions and now simply is displaying like he gives no fuck doesn’t message pushed me back when I used to be a priority as a friend. Now only messages because he probably feels obligated if he could just take this invisible hint and simply just leave me alone so I can try to get over myself. He wanted me to feel so sorry for him I helped him when he needed help. Now I’m left picking up my pieces. And that’s fine, it typically happens anyways.

  • @user-hu2fe8pj3x
    @user-hu2fe8pj3x 8 місяців тому

    i was in love with the person like madly i was so much in love then i got to know he doesnt like me and whenever he would gice attention to any girl it was like someone crushed my heart in their hand whenever i saw him looking at someone else i felt physical heart pain i loved him it was my first love because of him i became self concious then i said to myself no everyone is him lets move on it took me year and here i was it was not a love in first sight i liked him i thought hes so goood then i slowly slowly i started liking him so much and later that i got to know he was being nice with me and ge had girlfriend now i feel unloved and i cant get over him i have had the most painful moments like i have panic attacks now but what can i do i feel so bad its the worst feeling i remember him daily and its been so long i just cant get over him

  • @user-oz9rt4te5c
    @user-oz9rt4te5c 8 місяців тому

    I die a little every day for somebody who doesn't want me. I hate myself for it so much.

  • @koudakoudate4688
    @koudakoudate4688 3 роки тому +7

    Please , can you give the names of films 🙏

  • @gabrielasolis2657
    @gabrielasolis2657 2 роки тому +4

    So I started a friends with benefits thing with my best friend and recently I've started to regret its because I've fallen so hard so deep and now he has a date this Tuesday on April 5th

  • @ArmyKetchum
    @ArmyKetchum 2 роки тому +1

    all had their happy endings, what about me? 😖😖😖😖😭😭

  • @manyavirmani806
    @manyavirmani806 3 роки тому +1

    What is the name of the film which has the princess

    • @janes4174
      @janes4174  3 роки тому +1

      Victoria and Melbourne Show: Victoria

  • @lakeshaanderson7435
    @lakeshaanderson7435 Рік тому

    Where did this quote come from

  • @hjaw8242
    @hjaw8242 Рік тому

    Does it ever stop beign painful !? I just got into one

  • @suja605
    @suja605 Рік тому

  • @majla5523
    @majla5523 2 роки тому +1

    Show at 1:53?

  • @avantikapotdar8218
    @avantikapotdar8218 2 роки тому +1

    Name of the show at 1.15 ???

  • @manelslim385
    @manelslim385 3 роки тому +4

    1:06 can someone please give me the name of the movie please

    • @haven5083
      @haven5083 3 роки тому

      The Vampire Diaries

    • @tvds8350
      @tvds8350 3 роки тому

      The vampire diaries it's a tv series

  • @schizophreneng1149
    @schizophreneng1149 3 роки тому

    dayum cj why

  • @nur-gz5dn
    @nur-gz5dn 2 роки тому +1

    What is the name of the movie at 1:12

  • @fiercy_jhalli
    @fiercy_jhalli 2 роки тому +1

    Name of the movie at 0:23 ?

  • @MelvinMathewWolverine007
    @MelvinMathewWolverine007 5 місяців тому

    1:38 show?

  • @danielle.angela
    @danielle.angela 3 роки тому +4

    What’s the series/movie of the clip where Selena Gomez was?

    • @Jeng4280
      @Jeng4280 3 роки тому

      That was Another Cinderella Story.😁 Really cute movie.

    • @danielle.angela
      @danielle.angela 3 роки тому

      @@Jeng4280 TYSMMM

  • @beautifulgirl-uy6se
    @beautifulgirl-uy6se 2 роки тому +4

    Shall I tell him my feelings?

  • @RS-sv8qo
    @RS-sv8qo 3 роки тому +9

    There is a boy and literally everyone ships us to be together but i dont even know hin soooo good.... We have met a few times (not alone, Always in a group) and i really really Like him. We have talked a Lot (alone) and He is really great. But i Just dont know if he thinks the same about me and it really kills me.... I dont know what to do....

    • @RS-sv8qo
      @RS-sv8qo 3 роки тому

      @@pujyaaggarwal yeah i want to but im sooo bad at this😖

    • @Bellend50000
      @Bellend50000 3 роки тому +3

      @@RS-sv8qo yeah so was i, and then i met someone. I spent months pining over someone, then i finally got up the courage to ask her out, and she said she had been waiting and hoping, but didn't know how i felt. Basically what i'm saying is, if there's one thing i've learnt in life, it's that if you don't ask you don't get. Yeah sometimes you don't get it even if you do ask for things, but you will find more pain sitting there wondering, as opposed to the chance that he may say no.

    • @Alexa-eo4tf
      @Alexa-eo4tf 2 роки тому

      Confess. Even if you're rejected I assure you life goes on, and you learn to move on. Eventually love will come knocking on your door for someone who really deserves you. When you confess not only are you telling him or her how you feel but you'll be at peace with yourself

  • @jannedrumsit
    @jannedrumsit 3 роки тому +1

    Movie at 0:23?

    • @lauren9181
      @lauren9181 3 роки тому +2

      it’s not a movie, it’s a tv show called supergirl and the clip is from season three, their love story is in s2+3 and it’s amazing but rlly sad

  • @CalleighSpencer
    @CalleighSpencer 3 роки тому +1

    What's the first text from? 😢

    • @janes4174
      @janes4174  3 роки тому +4

      - Iris, played by Kate Winslet, in the movie The Holiday

    • @CalleighSpencer
      @CalleighSpencer 3 роки тому +1

      @@janes4174 Thank You!! 🥰

  • @parmidaaa9135
    @parmidaaa9135 2 роки тому

    Spoil warning