We know but women can leave their baby daddies and be fine. It's society which shames them but not men. And also single women are criticised, they can't win
I know from experience you cannot blame the light for not turning green fast enough if you want to be impatient and roll the red !! Hurts but it’s real
facts! and these men will play every trick in the book to get in your pants. they certainly have a certain amount of time where they will wait to get in a woman's pants. they know we don't want to give it up right away. if he really loves and wants only you you have to make him wait for a year or more!!
This is crazy about the ring. If she seen those red bright flags the ring wouldn't be an issue. Run would be the answer. Ask the rest of his 10 girlfriends prior to her.
I felt that. I had a dude waste 4 years of my life. Part of it is our fault. You can't hang on hoping a man will grow to love you, they either do or they don't. My ex never even french kissed me and he acted like sex was a chore, but as soon as some high value man came around in their benzes or fancy sports car all of a sudden he wanted to get back with me or claim me. One day I purposely humiliated him to finally burn the bridge and because he was my down stairs neighbor he made it a point to treat the one after me way better right in front of me. Now I'm seeing a great a guy who let me know right off the bat that he is truly into me and falling in love, and he doesn't live in a crappy small apartment he owns his own house and has a decent job and takes me out on wonderful dates so whose the winner now? You can do it Jhene get yourself someone better girl you deserve it!
Yes and I think women should stop being harsh on other women because men always defend men. We need to do the same and leave as soon as they mention how awful their ex was, they'll do it to you too. They were also in love with their ex once. I agree to a point let a man chase you but a man who doesn't show affection early on should be dumped. It's the ones who trick you who are truly hideous 🤮
Some men pretend so well in the beginning and turn around and do you dirty. Some men never cared in the first place, so it’s basically a game for some men. My last situation we went on dates, he brought me flowers and all. This man was still trash 🗑️
@ Yep, it's a game to them. Out of 4 years of living in the same complex and 4 years together it never crossed his mind to really have a future with me. I'm bitter because those were my critical child bearing years but it was always "I'm not ready." I basically lived with him mostly in his apartment while mine remained empty upstairs but he didn't want to get a bigger nicer place together and it got to the point where every little fight was "Go back upstairs." Then he would sometimes ghost me for months until a new guy came into the picture. When it ended, because I humiliated him by getting with a younger cute white guy and letting him live with me during one of these break ups, which was a major insult to him, at this point he finally started talking marriage but I knew it was just a game to suck me back in, mutual friends told me that he would actually cheat on me during our relationship.
It took the LA fire and the Full moon for her to wake up. I’m so glad that she can finally see what we’ve been seeing for years. Freedom!!! Go and thrive sis 👑✨
I bet it did. I bet the straw that broke the camel's back is because she lost everything in them fires and he probably won't help her even though she got a baby by him.
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Yeah and now she lost her 5 million dollar house in Los Angeles fires a week ago!!! Now he's out when she maybe at one of her lowest!! This guy is definitely for the streets!!!!🤷🏽♀️
@holdingsconsultinggroup7223 and what is she?? Why do y'all conveniently forget that she was married & cheated on her husband with him?? 🤣🤣🤣 is she for the streets or does she get a pass for being pretty & because she can sing?? I'm confused 🤔😭
Big Sean need to grow up. He thinks he is a player. This is why I am Solo Dolo. I refuse to get married again. I am divorced from a 25-years marriage, and I am happy then I ever been.
The thing that kills me with y'all opinions of him is that Jhene was married & cheated on her husband with him. Y'all always speed right past that 😂😂😂 I wouldn't marry her ass either!! 🤷🏽♀️
@lisaschwietering9546 She was the POS First! She is More of a POS because she was married. Now I know you 304s don't like this but she proved that not him. Saint or not, he truly is not supposed to marry a toxic and proven disloyal woman. Anyone who thinks otherwise is clearly delusional.
He’s not ready and that’s his prerogative. He’s young and rich. We all knew. She wasted her own time. She waited and cut her losses. A red flag is a red flag 🚩. Heed them 💩.
All women go through heartache. Many of us experience low self esteem and looking stupid over a man we are blinded by love for. I find it atrocious that women are dragging her at her lowest moment.
“His” first child. That’s Jhene’s 2nd. Either he will or he won’t. Money single mom’s won’t want to be a single mom 2x. So she’ll put up with a lot. & narcissistic men know that… they prey on single mothers, impregnate them then live “OFF” them instead of build “ with” them, taking advantage of her vulnerability. Big Sean became more famous when he started dating Jhene. He’s an energy leach. & she’s his biggest supply.
It's not his first child it's both their second child he has a older son I think by a black woman his ex before he made it big or I think he previously broke up with his ex/ child's mother right after making it famous I'm not exactly sure in what order but he does have a son already this would be son #2 by Jhene
He did not become more famous after dating her 🤣🤣🤣 he dated women WAY more famous than her; she ain't touching the same fame as Naya or Ariana 🤣 not to mention that she WAS married & cheated on her husband with Sean. Why y'all want him to be the bad guy so bad?? She made her bed now let her lay in it 🤷🏽♀️
Statistically 2nd marriages have a higher divorce rate. It gets higher after each marriage too. I don't blame Sean for not marrying her but I also think it was stupid of him to have his first kid with a woman who already had one.
He was not emgaged to that women when he got with her. He was dating that witch ariana grande who literally stole him from the other women and naya even confessed this!
Never do wifey things as a girlfriend. You WILL be used… jhene lowkey did this to herself. EVEN at my small age I can see that this man was a red flag to begin with. But she’s not innocent either. Ladies, stop wasting your time, stop confusing red flags for beige or green ones, stop not asking men what their intentions are with you. Clock this tea!!!!
That's why you express a timeframe boundary in the beginning. Weeds out most of the garbage. Some will stick around & think they can change your mind, but regardless won't be able to waste too much of your time if you stick to it & cut them off. Gotta treat em like employees. Show up late or miss work & you're fired!
No Jhene Aiko you let him waste your life. You call the shots on your own life, never let a man do that. You been with him for how long, and you haven't seen them red flags? Women wake up it's 2025. I used to think about others and realized when time has passed me by I haven't accomplished what I really wanted to accomplish. I started going to school to become a RN then to MD, now I'm giving myself the freedom to think for myself and do for myself. No one is going to make you happy but you. Time awaits for NO ONE!
I’m that chick with the glasses must not have heard those 3 men saying they weren’t in love with their wives 😂. But anyway jhene should’ve left a long time ago. Big Sean up is a nobody . Now she has his baby and gotta deal with him
he dont want her but no one else could have her! He wanted the access always, thats why she got kids and not a ring! I'll never be *that* upset that I'm late 30s and no children!
Everything y'all said is correct stop giving your womb to these guys if you want to have a baby that's different but if you know that this guy is chasing after you because he wants a baby with certain aesthetics then you should hold off. Kids are always going to be the mother's priority never the fathers. He just wants to come in so he can put his hand on top of his head and twirl him around and say yeah this is my son look how good his hair is. That's all he wanted to do. She thought she was special she thought she was different from black women and she ain't no different than any other woman that he dated. Now she's a baby mama.
They met each other through cheating, what was the expected outcome for their “relationship?” She should have known better. Now she has two kids by two different males that didn’t want to commit to her. She needs to do some soul searching. I’m a fan of her music but not of the way she moves.
His first girlfriend name is Ashley. She was in one of his songs, beautiful brown skin girl but of course you know when he got big that’s when he moved onto. I believe the actress.
Marriage is a contract for the government. You can be IN LOVE with someone and not be married to them. Contrary, you can marry someone and NOT be in love with them. The only difference is that love is free and divorce costs a whole lot.
@ Say that in family court when you're trying to take half a man's money that you didn't even help earn. Being "an ex-wife with no job and no way to make that kinda money" sounds like an excuse to rob a man of all he's built for himself, just so a woman can kick back and spend his money on herself and other dudes. Ain't nobody stupid. We see what the family courts do to men. Women make it a CAREER to be "Instagram models" to marry men with money, just to divorce them two years later and start the process over with another sucker.
@Sarah-rs1bz, If that’s an excuse why wasn’t everyone in the BIBLE y’all love to throw in ppl face married🤣🤣🤣 Last time I checked HAVING kids was NATURAL, ion see animals getting married some animals just mate and go bout their business🤣🤣🤣
@MicDropBBQ, I’m a woman and very much understand cause it’s TRUE..Only ppl win are the government and the judicial system.. I worked in the family division, divorce got very nasty and it’s very expensive…
I like Jhene...she is pretty and she seems like a good person...that said...marriage does not benefit men...the worst thing a man can do these days is get married. If things don't work out between them, Big Sean can leave at any time and the most she can do is hit him with some child support stuff for YEARS to come...but she can't take half his stuff right out the door. This is what women do nowadays...they take half you stuff and then make you pay child support and alimony with the other half while trying to still support yourself and any new boo you might get...marriage is not the move for a man...women want marriage because it benefits them the most LEGALLY...I salute Big Sean for not falling for the PRESSURE...if they really love each other, they can stay together and raise their child or children if they have more, without ever getting married. Getting married is the WORST financial move a man can make.
That's how them men in particular do women and imma leave it like that bc no man is a man unless they are there for you through thick and thin. Loyalty and commitment is key. Not sure why so many lack it.
She ruined her own life. She had already cheated at the beginning of the relationship, so it’s difficult for a man to take her seriously, and he’s afraid something similar will happen to him. That’s the answer right there.
Time. Beauty. Energy. All of these resources can be used in the same way money (currency) can to gain access to what people want. In my opinion, she is mismanaging her resources and preventing access to the life she truly wants.
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Too bad you figured this out after you had ANOTHER CHILD!!! UGH! We tried to warn you in the comments. You should've known better from your first child. That guy did the same thing!
He rambled on an on during that interview and still didnt say anything. WTF was he even talking about? Just say you dont want to marry her, just be honest. idiot.
Based on how they met and started out, they should've never been in a relationship or had a kid together. Men and women especially over the last 25 years view marriage differently. Before a man and woman even get serious with each other, they should discuss how both of them feel about marriage, then both parties will know what the others intentions are from the start. The only thing left to do is look at their actions then you won't over invest in the thought of marriage if the other person doesn't want the same thing!!
That's not the case!!! There are married people saying this themselves. No one is saying this to feel better. Not all married people though but some regret the marriage.@@Random.338
@@Random.338I got married young but my husband passed away after 11 years. I used to think marriage was so great but now since being a widow for a couple years I am realizing there are benefits to being single. In a marriage the benefit is that you have help but you have to compromise. When you're single you don't have to compromise and you could focus solely on yourself but you don't have help. It's a pro and a con with either situation.
Typical bs answer. So what if you get a divorce. You acting like you married why not legally be married? A man does what’s best for his family, not himself.
She was “manifesting “ a baby daddy and that’s what she got. I love her but girl “manifest” a Husband, not to mention don’t give him no babies if he ain’t give you a ring. He been said he isn’t into marriage, she knew better. What we choose to ignore is our own fault, we all do it. We waste our own time, thinking about what could be rather than for what it is.
NOT ALWAYS TRUE.... Narcissistic People Don't Marry For LOVE n Loyalty! Some Just Want Servant To Gaslight And Prosper With Like Him! Whoever Helps Him SHINE The MOST .
She said he waisted her time which is right. But at the same time as women we NEED to see the red flags. You CANNOT beg for a ring. My husband always told me. A man (a real grown man) knows what he want. If he doesn't commit while being that long with you, you are not his first choice and he (consciously or not) wish for an escape. Don't rent your uterus for them. He can have a kid (which is a stronger bond than marriage) but not "sign a paper" to be with you... Hell nah
I’ve always thought it was weird IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY, how men view babies as less of a commitment that marriage. You can divorce your wife but you can undo your bloodline. Or they’ll make it seem like only the best of the best bestest can be their wife, but any ol body can be the mother of their children. Um shouldn’t someone that mothers a child be more vetted than a “wife” I see why God intended for them both to be the same
And having his baby won't change his mind either ladies.
Bars
Not at all
Exactly when will they realize that 🤷🏾♀️
We know but women can leave their baby daddies and be fine. It's society which shames them but not men. And also single women are criticised, they can't win
I know from experience you cannot blame the light for not turning green fast enough if you want to be impatient and roll the red !! Hurts but it’s real
This is WHY you take your time and DO NOT get on your back! You do not move in and play house!!!
facts! and these men will play every trick in the book to get in your pants. they certainly have a certain amount of time where they will wait to get in a woman's pants. they know we don't want to give it up right away. if he really loves and wants only you you have to make him wait for a year or more!!
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Amen!! I'm guilty of doing that I will never again N life I won't even stay night don't wanna get comfortable, have set boundaries
I agree with you on this.
It has actually been scientifically proven that premarital cohabitation decreases the likelihood of marriage/long term commitment
this is why you don’t do wifey thing when you’re just a girlfriend
Facts 💯
Has nothing to do with it. He’s just an immature man. You got wives not doing wifey things.
You don’t!!! They will have no incentive and men do not move with comfort. We do but they don’t. Girls, do not make it comfortable for them!!!!
Frfr
@@bosslady83and what's "wifey things" cooking and cleaning up after a man?🙄That's his MOMMAS job
Marriage isn’t everything. If he’s not a good boyfriend, then what makes anyone think he will be a good husband
Well good boyfriends eventually get married in general, there are very few exceptions.
Exactly. Somehow society tries to make women think they need men when a lot of men do women so wrong
Periodtttt!!!
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Yea GOOD BOYFRIENDS
Once she lost her home that truly opened her eyes to the whole relationship.
when did she lose her home????
@@ShannonJohnson-c6oin the recent LA fires....
@@ShannonJohnson-c6o In the Eaton fires 💔
@@ShannonJohnson-c6oin the Cali fire…
In the Palisades Fire@@ShannonJohnson-c6o
A loss is not always a loss!!!
Exactly. And a "man" is not a plan.
Only if knowledge is gained. Doing it over and over and over again is neglecting yourself. Life is full of lessons.
@ Amen! It’s what we do with the lessons that makes all the difference ❤️❤️❤️😏I agree 💯
lost do not exist
@ 😂😂🙄🙄🙄 OK 👌🏾
That was the longest answer, and he truly didn't say anything.
For real. He should run for governor or something...
@@a.r.tavares1322omgosh😂
Word salad 🥗
@@a.r.tavares1322 😂😂😂😂
Lmao big facts 💯
She realized no ring was coming. This is what they do . SMH …
This is crazy about the ring. If she seen those red bright flags the ring wouldn't be an issue. Run would be the answer. Ask the rest of his 10 girlfriends prior to her.
@He wasted the best years of her life.
@@deniseeugene1852she cheated on her ex husband with Big Sean so....
I felt that. I had a dude waste 4 years of my life. Part of it is our fault. You can't hang on hoping a man will grow to love you, they either do or they don't. My ex never even french kissed me and he acted like sex was a chore, but as soon as some high value man came around in their benzes or fancy sports car all of a sudden he wanted to get back with me or claim me. One day I purposely humiliated him to finally burn the bridge and because he was my down stairs neighbor he made it a point to treat the one after me way better right in front of me. Now I'm seeing a great a guy who let me know right off the bat that he is truly into me and falling in love, and he doesn't live in a crappy small apartment he owns his own house and has a decent job and takes me out on wonderful dates so whose the winner now? You can do it Jhene get yourself someone better girl you deserve it!
Yes and I think women should stop being harsh on other women because men always defend men. We need to do the same and leave as soon as they mention how awful their ex was, they'll do it to you too. They were also in love with their ex once. I agree to a point let a man chase you but a man who doesn't show affection early on should be dumped. It's the ones who trick you who are truly hideous 🤮
Some men pretend so well in the beginning and turn around and do you dirty. Some men never cared in the first place, so it’s basically a game for some men. My last situation we went on dates, he brought me flowers and all. This man was still trash 🗑️
@ Yep, it's a game to them. Out of 4 years of living in the same complex and 4 years together it never crossed his mind to really have a future with me. I'm bitter because those were my critical child bearing years but it was always "I'm not ready." I basically lived with him mostly in his apartment while mine remained empty upstairs but he didn't want to get a bigger nicer place together and it got to the point where every little fight was "Go back upstairs." Then he would sometimes ghost me for months until a new guy came into the picture. When it ended, because I humiliated him by getting with a younger cute white guy and letting him live with me during one of these break ups, which was a major insult to him, at this point he finally started talking marriage but I knew it was just a game to suck me back in, mutual friends told me that he would actually cheat on me during our relationship.
It took the LA fire and the Full moon for her to wake up. I’m so glad that she can finally see what we’ve been seeing for years. Freedom!!! Go and thrive sis 👑✨
First sentence made me cackle🤭🤭
I bet it did. I bet the straw that broke the camel's back is because she lost everything in them fires and he probably won't help her even though she got a baby by him.
@@lindaclark4242 Lmboo girl me too😂 & she said that👏🏾👏🏾
Lol 😂😂😂
So he can get her pregnant but dont wanna marry her? 🤔
That's the Black man's way
They ain't got no songs together 🇻🇳
@@levidiaz3074they do and they have an album together wym
So she can have a man's baby without demanding to be married first ? It's her body, remember ?
Yea, having kids is NATURE marriage is MANMADE
She wasted her own time she seen the red flag
Keeping it 100%
She knew what it was as time went on
EXACTLY women see the signs and still stay ....
And he still made her a baby mama
@@FallingInLoveWithWhoIAm thats what AA men do best
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I would have jumped out my chair waiting for him to explain this long winded excuse. She's aware of what it is. She can settle or move on.
Yeah and now she lost her 5 million dollar house in Los Angeles fires a week ago!!! Now he's out when she maybe at one of her lowest!! This guy is definitely for the streets!!!!🤷🏽♀️
Exactly just sad and wrong 😔
Despicable
Omgosh this is so sad, and my heart goes out to Jhene.
@holdingsconsultinggroup7223 and what is she?? Why do y'all conveniently forget that she was married & cheated on her husband with him?? 🤣🤣🤣 is she for the streets or does she get a pass for being pretty & because she can sing?? I'm confused 🤔😭
@@atrielmoore1396 cricket!!! I guess people dont want to answer you.
Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Buy 2 get 1 free
That's it. You'd be surprised at the people that think this way
This comment will never get old
RITE
Okay how does that explain wives also being mistreated? I actually think society should stop telling women marriage is key
He talking but ain’t saying nothing. I got 1 here on this same bs. Our ending anger is deadly.
Big Sean need to grow up. He thinks he is a player. This is why I am Solo Dolo. I refuse to get married again. I am divorced from a 25-years marriage, and I am happy then I ever been.
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
You deserve happiness.
Do you sis, nothing but clowns out here
After 25 years, your options are slim anyway
,20 over here 😊
Experience is the best lesson of life. Moving forward she will understand what to accept and not to accept. Make ur next move ur best move.
People also need to know that is not her first child, she has an older daughter from a previous relationship.
What does that mean just waste people’s lives
 I'm not saying that, she just has to move on & stay strong for her kids. Teach her daughter to be better than she did.
Tf does that have to do with anything???😂😂😂😂 he just not in love with her it’s somebody he wants it’s not her
@ Ok, my fault
He didn't waste her time, she wasted her own time. He proposed to Naya Rivera in 6 months.
The thing that kills me with y'all opinions of him is that Jhene was married & cheated on her husband with him. Y'all always speed right past that 😂😂😂 I wouldn't marry her ass either!! 🤷🏽♀️
They seem to keep conveniently skirt around that glaring red flag. 🤦🏾♂️
And Big Sean is a saint?
@lisaschwietering9546 She was the POS First! She is More of a POS because she was married. Now I know you 304s don't like this but she proved that not him. Saint or not, he truly is not supposed to marry a toxic and proven disloyal woman. Anyone who thinks otherwise is clearly delusional.
😂😂😂
EXACTLY!!!!!!
Dang Sis in the beginning hit the nail on the head and she is absolutely right.
Well you loose them how you get them to ❤❤❤❤ I wish her the best
if only this were always true
How did she get him?
@JoanneArc-or9sr i think she was married first, but she left her husband for Sean.
@@lapittualyoung yep, and he broke up with Naya Rivera to be with her.
@FallingInLoveWithWhoIAm Yep,Full Circle.
She wasted her own time. Then she gave him a baby smh. 🤷🏽♀️
Yup, they’ll never learn.
Facts!!! She gotta take some responsibility in this cautionary tale ladies.
He do not want a wife, & he do not want to be a husband. He should Just be honest about it.Simple 😂
Seriously. Excuses means no. Confusion means no.
He’s not ready and that’s his prerogative. He’s young and rich. We all knew. She wasted her own time. She waited and cut her losses. A red flag is a red flag 🚩. Heed them 💩.
All women go through heartache. Many of us experience low self esteem and looking stupid over a man we are blinded by love for. I find it atrocious that women are dragging her at her lowest moment.
Thank you. Wish women would support other women
We all learn in our own time. We all need grace to grow.
I agree. Usually, it's women that put down other women when relationships fall apart. It's not okay 😢
@@AS-wj1du Support is one thing. Helping someone remain delusional is something else entirely
Who is dragging her?
“His” first child. That’s Jhene’s 2nd. Either he will or he won’t. Money single mom’s won’t want to be a single mom 2x. So she’ll put up with a lot. & narcissistic men know that… they prey on single mothers, impregnate them then live “OFF” them instead of build “ with” them, taking advantage of her vulnerability. Big Sean became more famous when he started dating Jhene. He’s an energy leach. & she’s his biggest supply.
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It's not his first child it's both their second child he has a older son I think by a black woman his ex before he made it big or I think he previously broke up with his ex/ child's mother right after making it famous I'm not exactly sure in what order but he does have a son already this would be son #2 by Jhene
Very true, I know firsthand 🤦🏽♀️
@@SpiritualQueenVibesno he does not. This is his first child.
He did not become more famous after dating her 🤣🤣🤣 he dated women WAY more famous than her; she ain't touching the same fame as Naya or Ariana 🤣 not to mention that she WAS married & cheated on her husband with Sean. Why y'all want him to be the bad guy so bad?? She made her bed now let her lay in it 🤷🏽♀️
Big Sean said a lot of words but reading between the lines he doesn’t want to marry her. 😒
He’s literally mentioned that their relationship has a history of being extremely toxic but she still wants to get married anyway…
Some don't wanna get cuffed to protect they money and avoid paperwork
Cuffed means relationship not married so she is cuffed
So they want a woman to birth their child and get their labour and services in the home without marriage? Men like that should never get 🐈
Especially in California
If she wanted to be married that bad she should have stayed married to her ex-husband who she cheated with Shaun on
I think I heard her say het ex was physically abusive.
😢 that part say that one more time sis amen
Or Childish Gambino. He was in love with her
She was divorced YEARS before she with Shawn. People just say anything smh
Statistically 2nd marriages have a higher divorce rate. It gets higher after each marriage too. I don't blame Sean for not marrying her but I also think it was stupid of him to have his first kid with a woman who already had one.
I don't understand why women just settle She can do better.
I don’t think she thinks that
She will be fine
Amen
She will... but only if she leaves for real.
She better she got two kids and two diff baby daddies. Same thing they shame fully melanated women for..
@@inactiveaccount6106and if she upgrades her mindset
Karma is real. Those of us who have seen it play out know
Next month, they will have an album coming out
Lol😂😂I was just about to say that. They need some money flowing again.
😂😂😂😂
And she'll be pregnant again
😂😂😂
She did that to herself.
He was not emgaged to that women when he got with her. He was dating that witch ariana grande who literally stole him from the other women and naya even confessed this!
You don't steal a person if their heart belongs to you. 🤔 When you truly love someone you won't entertain the thought of hurting them.
🤣🤣 true naya said ari was sneaking around with him while they were engaged!
Ladies we gotta stop being so easy to these men.. that’s why they feel like they are the prize but when In reality they need us women!
Never do wifey things as a girlfriend. You WILL be used… jhene lowkey did this to herself. EVEN at my small age I can see that this man was a red flag to begin with. But she’s not innocent either. Ladies, stop wasting your time, stop confusing red flags for beige or green ones, stop not asking men what their intentions are with you. Clock this tea!!!!
I know a man like Sean. He wanted all the benefits of me without any commitment. I had to block him and RUN 🤷🏾♀️
It's wild how people can cohabit and have a child but won't get married.
Dudes don't want to marry anymore we always lose at the end
That's why you express a timeframe boundary in the beginning. Weeds out most of the garbage. Some will stick around & think they can change your mind, but regardless won't be able to waste too much of your time if you stick to it & cut them off. Gotta treat em like employees. Show up late or miss work & you're fired!
It's quite strange because marriage actually benefits men more than women.
@The-Oneness11 they're lying. They want to use a woman's body and labour for free
@@The-Oneness11Fake news
@@The-Oneness11but why women are the ones who keep pushing it then....
He must not trust her
He is slow like alot of men waste your time.
No Jhene Aiko you let him waste your life. You call the shots on your own life, never let a man do that. You been with him for how long, and you haven't seen them red flags? Women wake up it's 2025. I used to think about others and realized when time has passed me by I haven't accomplished what I really wanted to accomplish. I started going to school to become a RN then to MD, now I'm giving myself the freedom to think for myself and do for myself. No one is going to make you happy but you. Time awaits for NO ONE!
Yess!!!
I’m that chick with the glasses must not have heard those 3 men saying they weren’t in love with their wives 😂. But anyway jhene should’ve left a long time ago. Big Sean up is a nobody . Now she has his baby and gotta deal with him
he dont want her but no one else could have her! He wanted the access always, thats why she got kids and not a ring! I'll never be *that* upset that I'm late 30s and no children!
It's nobody's fault but hers. She could of left at anytime.
It’s really not that easy especially if you famous and people know you.
@LEONA2014-obx famous people break up everyday. He never said he was going to marry her. He been saying so interviews for years. This is on her
Could ‘of’ left?! Please learn to write. Could HAVE left, not, ‘of’ left.
Say it louder!
@@georgiabarker6852people can speak how they want. Who are you the grammar police?
Everything y'all said is correct stop giving your womb to these guys if you want to have a baby that's different but if you know that this guy is chasing after you because he wants a baby with certain aesthetics then you should hold off. Kids are always going to be the mother's priority never the fathers. He just wants to come in so he can put his hand on top of his head and twirl him around and say yeah this is my son look how good his hair is. That's all he wanted to do. She thought she was special she thought she was different from black women and she ain't no different than any other woman that he dated. Now she's a baby mama.
If this is true. I guess Jhené will be “Back up on her bullshit.”
She better be done dealing with him seeing as he doesn't know how to deal with her
They met each other through cheating, what was the expected outcome for their “relationship?” She should have known better. Now she has two kids by two different males that didn’t want to commit to her. She needs to do some soul searching. I’m a fan of her music but not of the way she moves.
She intimidates him. He's slow.
THIS!!!!
And she’s lower for falling for it…
😂 is he really slow? That makes it worse for her
Yeah right
He’s not cute. I would be out!
He was engaged and used her to run away from that engagement because he don’t wanna marry anyone probably
Or a man
His first girlfriend name is Ashley. She was in one of his songs, beautiful brown skin girl but of course you know when he got big that’s when he moved onto. I believe the actress.
The people that are saying she did it to herself.. like she wasn’t manipulated cuz she was in love…
It was just lust not love. Sex is key to how you develop feelings towards someone and bond to them soul ties aka dick whipped.
Unrealistic Expectations is NEVER Going To Be A Realistic Healthy Outcome In The End For All Person's Involved.
Marriage is a contract for the government. You can be IN LOVE with someone and not be married to them. Contrary, you can marry someone and NOT be in love with them. The only difference is that love is free and divorce costs a whole lot.
That’s an excuse
@ Say that in family court when you're trying to take half a man's money that you didn't even help earn. Being "an ex-wife with no job and no way to make that kinda money" sounds like an excuse to rob a man of all he's built for himself, just so a woman can kick back and spend his money on herself and other dudes.
Ain't nobody stupid. We see what the family courts do to men. Women make it a CAREER to be "Instagram models" to marry men with money, just to divorce them two years later and start the process over with another sucker.
@Sarah-rs1bz,
If that’s an excuse why wasn’t everyone in the BIBLE y’all love to throw in ppl face married🤣🤣🤣 Last time I checked HAVING kids was NATURAL, ion see animals getting married some animals just mate and go bout their business🤣🤣🤣
@MicDropBBQ,
I’m a woman and very much understand cause it’s TRUE..Only ppl win are the government and the judicial system.. I worked in the family division, divorce got very nasty and it’s very expensive…
Exactly Marriage is a scam no man with common sense is doing that these days
When she lost her home she kept on saying "my and my kids" homes. I knew he wasn't really living with her.
He has a face that only a mother could love & hes Cheesy. I dont know what she sees in him God bless her lol 😆
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I just wish Jhene wouldn't have started a family with him....because now children are involved. That really sucks...
Love u Jhene aiko we will find a man one day ❤
I like Jhene...she is pretty and she seems like a good person...that said...marriage does not benefit men...the worst thing a man can do these days is get married. If things don't work out between them, Big Sean can leave at any time and the most she can do is hit him with some child support stuff for YEARS to come...but she can't take half his stuff right out the door. This is what women do nowadays...they take half you stuff and then make you pay child support and alimony with the other half while trying to still support yourself and any new boo you might get...marriage is not the move for a man...women want marriage because it benefits them the most LEGALLY...I salute Big Sean for not falling for the PRESSURE...if they really love each other, they can stay together and raise their child or children if they have more, without ever getting married. Getting married is the WORST financial move a man can make.
That's how them men in particular do women and imma leave it like that bc no man is a man unless they are there for you through thick and thin. Loyalty and commitment is key. Not sure why so many lack it.
He just wanted a mixed child....thats it
BIG SEAN, GROW TF UP!! Also, they haven't broke up
And you can’t built happiness on someone else pain.
A person only does what you allow them to do.
She need to be alone and focus on her craft! If it is meant to be it will! Periodt!
Well call it karma. she was married and she left her husband for Big Sean so that’s her bad
She ruined her own life. She had already cheated at the beginning of the relationship, so it’s difficult for a man to take her seriously, and he’s afraid something similar will happen to him. That’s the answer right there.
Didn’t the title say she broke up with him .
It pisses me off when a beautiful woman lets somebody waste their time. Use your currency while you have it, ladies. 💰 💅
What do you mean by that “use your currency”
Time. Beauty. Energy. All of these resources can be used in the same way money (currency) can to gain access to what people want. In my opinion, she is mismanaging her resources and preventing access to the life she truly wants.
@@Candace-i1h thanks love for explaining. I never heard currency used in that context
How you get them is how you lose 'em
Jhene is intelligent, fine, talented, has her own success career: she should have left his a$$ long ago. Eff petty Sean.
Y'all.... go watch their live. Shit was cringe AF💀
Which one !?
He wants to be the one that's more popular than her.
He just don’t wanna marry her, and it’s ok she been knew that…
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Very nice😅So many stories of people dodging bullets with women like this
Too bad you figured this out after you had ANOTHER CHILD!!! UGH! We tried to warn you in the comments. You should've known better from your first child. That guy did the same thing!
Im sorry but where exactly is the part where she states all this?? The video is too vague
He doesn’t trust her and she unconditionally loves him .
Jhene has an older daughter. That wasn’t her first child
Jhene is a writer, correct? Why would she say "stringed" when it's "strung"?
Love her?? He don't even Like her.
He don’t like her, he don’t trust her and won’t love her. 💔
She wasted her OWN life.
He rambled on an on during that interview and still didnt say anything. WTF was he even talking about? Just say you dont want to marry her, just be honest. idiot.
Based on how they met and started out, they should've never been in a relationship or had a kid together. Men and women especially over the last 25 years view marriage differently. Before a man and woman even get serious with each other, they should discuss how both of them feel about marriage, then both parties will know what the others intentions are from the start. The only thing left to do is look at their actions then you won't over invest in the thought of marriage if the other person doesn't want the same thing!!
Where did she slam him for wasting her time or said he strung her along? These clickbait videos 🙄
Everyone coming @ Sean but Jhene just as bad lol, these type of people deserve each other. Karma
I don't want kids. I don't want marriage.
Most people who are married are miserable or not truly happy and usually want to do something else with their lives.
Cause ppl rush and force them into it. Ppl too pressed for societal validation
Sorry sis, but that is not true. Thats something people who think they can't get married say to themselves to feel better.
That's not the case!!! There are married people saying this themselves. No one is saying this to feel better. Not all married people though but some regret the marriage.@@Random.338
@@Random.338I got married young but my husband passed away after 11 years. I used to think marriage was so great but now since being a widow for a couple years I am realizing there are benefits to being single. In a marriage the benefit is that you have help but you have to compromise. When you're single you don't have to compromise and you could focus solely on yourself but you don't have help. It's a pro and a con with either situation.
Then why are single people wanting to get married? Why do men who sleep around while young want to have a nurse to change them in their later years?.
Typical bs answer. So what if you get a divorce. You acting like you married why not legally be married? A man does what’s best for his family, not himself.
She was “manifesting “ a baby daddy and that’s what she got. I love her but girl “manifest” a Husband, not to mention don’t give him no babies if he ain’t give you a ring. He been said he isn’t into marriage, she knew better. What we choose to ignore is our own fault, we all do it. We waste our own time, thinking about what could be rather than for what it is.
NOT ALWAYS TRUE.... Narcissistic People Don't Marry For LOVE n Loyalty! Some Just Want Servant To Gaslight And Prosper With Like Him! Whoever Helps Him SHINE The MOST .
He seriously needs to get himself together
So does she
She needs to walk away . She has a teen age daughter. What type of example are you setting for her?
She said he waisted her time which is right. But at the same time as women we NEED to see the red flags. You CANNOT beg for a ring. My husband always told me. A man (a real grown man) knows what he want. If he doesn't commit while being that long with you, you are not his first choice and he (consciously or not) wish for an escape. Don't rent your uterus for them. He can have a kid (which is a stronger bond than marriage) but not "sign a paper" to be with you... Hell nah
I’ve always thought it was weird IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY, how men view babies as less of a commitment that marriage. You can divorce your wife but you can undo your bloodline. Or they’ll make it seem like only the best of the best bestest can be their wife, but any ol body can be the mother of their children. Um shouldn’t someone that mothers a child be more vetted than a “wife” I see why God intended for them both to be the same