THE APPROACH FORMULA (What to Say and How To Get Her Attention)

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  • @ToddVDating
    @ToddVDating  Рік тому +48

    I'm pleased and excited to introduce James to this channel. He's an outstanding coach, and it's also just good to get different explanations of the concepts because different people resonate with the ideas in different ways. If you're interested in getting coaching with James: www.toddvdating.com/coaching and toddvmentoring.com

    • @InfernoSztorm
      @InfernoSztorm Рік тому +1

      I am based in Europe, does James have social or fanpage?

    • @kingjames2226
      @kingjames2226 Рік тому +1

      Coke isn't it. Todd is it ! He's the richest taste we've ever found !!

    • @Cbrrr-jp8er
      @Cbrrr-jp8er Рік тому +1

      When is verbal game going to be operational again. It has been down for awhile now?

    • @chasehadley5230
      @chasehadley5230 Рік тому

      You actually cut out the most important part of the filmed approach. You both spoke about the fact that the pre-opener wasn't as ideal as it should be. But then you failed to show it including how it was overcome. Very important piece, you chose not to show.

  • @allenmciver1888
    @allenmciver1888 Рік тому +91

    Conversation skills are useful whether in dating, work or life.

    • @mrsherwood2599
      @mrsherwood2599 24 дні тому

      That's the beauty of Game. Its universal.

  • @Chazmox
    @Chazmox Рік тому +79

    This is GOLD, esp the pre-open stuff. On a small sample size, I’ve found the importance of strong grabbing the attention with “excuse me” with very direct eye contact.
    In fact the best reactions were where the girl was slightly surprised by the pre-open. Almost like a tension and release loop.

    • @JOKBO1
      @JOKBO1 Рік тому +5

      Same here! On my first few daygame approaches my pre-opener was so weak that I just confused the girl. Then I realised that starting strong, with a smile yielded better results.
      By the way, I almost always open with a compliment something I genuinely like about the girl. That's just me being honest and so far, so good.

  • @Dicedogg22
    @Dicedogg22 Рік тому +128

    Not sure why no one listed the Steps.. but:
    1. Angle
    2. Pre Open = Hey, Excuse Me! (Assertive)
    3. Eye Contact (+ Smirk/Small Smile)
    4. Opener (Tonality, Pause, Pace)
    * Pause after the Opener (let her talk)
    5. Follow Up (Cold Read)(+ Tension)
    6. *False time constraint (If Needed)

    • @Starsteam1
      @Starsteam1 Рік тому +10

      Also no complementariness until she's hooked enough

    • @zanyryan6417
      @zanyryan6417 9 місяців тому +1

      What’s the “Angle”?

    • @wickedhyperstyler
      @wickedhyperstyler 9 місяців тому

      @@zanyryan6417 Watch the video! 😂

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 8 місяців тому

      @@zanyryan6417 its in your pocket

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 8 місяців тому +2

      anyone just reading this list will entirely miss any of the valuable information explaining it all

  • @androsforever500
    @androsforever500 4 місяці тому +3

    I love how you make her validate herself by going "most russian girls I've met have no personality" so instantly she subconsciously has to start "trying" to show that she is not one of those russians without personalities. I will use that one, thanks!

  • @joshliu2410
    @joshliu2410 Рік тому +21

    This video content is absolutely pure gold. This is a must wished piece of knowledge. With this set of sequence mastered it'll make a huge positive impact in our approach. James you teach so detailed, so well. If this is just a lesson with James, I can imagine how it would be like taking a complete course with Him, that would be life changing. Thank you very much. Keep it up!

    • @oliveroox
      @oliveroox Рік тому

      100% agree !

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 Рік тому +1

      One tip for long term relationship:
      As a woman I don´t say I understand all women´s motifs but I understand the best one.
      You love yourself
      not for what you say
      but for what you feel in present moment
      its spontaneity and happiness
      woman loves you for the same reason
      not for things you say
      but for things you feel at the moment, but dont say them
      (the things the guy thinks in head subconsciously and unknowingly, without preparation)
      with spontaneity and happiness
      because if she is a normal nice woman
      her only dream is to have a guy who is spontaneous and happy
      happy men easily fall in love
      Preparation is good, but at the same time its annoying.
      Preparation is opposite of spontaneity and happiness.
      I mean when you go to buy an ice cream
      you feel spontaneous and happy,,
      you dont prepare long speech to get the ice cream
      you just buy it because you feel spontaneous and happy at the moment
      if you buy a car and you start to prepare in your head all the reasons
      about why you need car and for what reason and start to analyze everything for two hours
      your level of happiness drops down and you feel no joy from buying the car
      because of analyzis - paralyzis
      the same is about women
      they want you to feel happy at the moment, so she may get closer to you, and feel the moment of happiness
      because it makes her happy that you can not hide the happiness
      because you were not prepared for falling in love with her
      no protocol prepared you for falling in love
      therefore starts to be spontaneous, because love can not be prepared
      starts to have unexpected feelings
      but I am not talking about some sex on first date, or flirt,
      I am talking about long term relationships.
      this moment of happiness and spontaneity
      women dream about
      she dreams about guy who dreams about her with a happy thoughts
      she doesn´t want a man who is unhappy who doesn´t understand what happiness means etc
      The only problem is a chemistry
      but even chemistry may come later
      if both are humble and nice.

    • @hairycanary5912
      @hairycanary5912 Рік тому

      ohhh, how sweet. great advice ma'am -- for LONG-term relationship building. we're not here for those types of relationships. but, i'm sure there are other sites out there somewhere that can appreciate your sage advice and romantic wisdom. thanks anyway though, ha!@@alaalfa8839

  • @MrRaphale
    @MrRaphale 4 місяці тому +25

    Are black tshirts mandatory when you’re opening?

  • @sahityikduniyamevisamarans3994
    @sahityikduniyamevisamarans3994 Місяць тому +1

    I learn the pre open very first and now I just go smooth with this pre open

  • @booopwappp1323
    @booopwappp1323 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for answering the smiling question. Some gurus forget to even acknowledge facial expressions.. too much too little. A smirk seems right

  • @iunnor
    @iunnor Рік тому +18

    One of my tendencies i’ve noticed is that when i’m meeting a person of interest, i quickly go into interview mode and start asking “what” and “where” questions a lot. I’m going to practice removing those words from my vocab and focus more on the “you” like you guys outlined in this video.

    • @Eluderatnight
      @Eluderatnight Рік тому

      "You seem like ____..."
      Hear that many "like"s in a row drives me nuts.

  • @Submersed24
    @Submersed24 Рік тому +7

    Todd’s style is straight to the point lmao. I prefer a style where you strike up the conversation as if you already know her so it doesn’t get the annoying onlookers every time. I think blending in works way better because it can look a bit “pua” ish when doing it a lot

  • @xristoskostoulas9841
    @xristoskostoulas9841 Рік тому +12

    James is really inspiring as well as technical and I really loved the technical breakdown of the opener. Btw, Todd's exercises on push-pulls and exaggerations in VGA totally help regarding the followup lines when you need something relative and spontaneous after the opener! They really blend together

  • @raphaelschildgen
    @raphaelschildgen Рік тому +8

    Omg this is so incredible valueable. I was once on Todd's Barcelona Immersion. One of the best investments of my life.

  • @LtVadim
    @LtVadim Рік тому +13

    "Angle is a separate topic on its own" (C) - 100%!
    Can you please do a video on the angle issues?!

  • @lint8391
    @lint8391 Рік тому +33

    The young Russian woman featured in this video came over really well. The sort of woman that would be great company for most men. She deserves to have success in her dating life.

  • @mr.rollup4322
    @mr.rollup4322 Рік тому +3

    Its so good to know that there are some people who can give us the insight about all these beautifully carved informations. You know not all of us has so much free time to get to exercise these feelings. Man I seriously appreciate it keep it up legends.

  • @Aladinyo_93
    @Aladinyo_93 Рік тому +1

    this is amazing Todd V is the best dating coach he's just straight up to the point and simply gives you what's effective, great work I appreciate all of his work

  • @fahdkhali6760
    @fahdkhali6760 Рік тому +8

    Freaking amazing video man, TODD I freaking love it!!!!

  • @stanislavkimov2779
    @stanislavkimov2779 Рік тому +8

    I like how you're just honest and rational. All the other content and info I find on the topic looks like a scam. Or is just manipulative to go on a negative downwards spiral. Crazy how you're the only ones who look trustworthy.

    • @taisou108
      @taisou108 Рік тому +1

      I think most "coaches" talk theory than actually go out and game and these guys are the genuine article!

  • @starfighter1972
    @starfighter1972 2 місяці тому

    You are both very good at what you are teaching.
    I think it's best for me to conquer my fears first and then move on to learning techniques.
    Right now, I'm into step 2, just stopping and asking girls for directions or making a compliment. When I get comfortable with this, I will move to a little more than that. But I don't need techniques right now because I won't be able to use them at the level that I'm in.

  • @driespottas4379
    @driespottas4379 Рік тому +3

    Hey Tod, thanks so much fore this amazing video I really enjoy this type of chat where you just sit down with one of you coaches or someone who has an advance understanding of game and just have a podcast style conversation with them. It really gives some more insight and I like the vibe.

  • @stagbeetle195
    @stagbeetle195 Рік тому +5

    Amazing content. Thank you fellas, I feel this filled in a couple gaps and answered a couple opener questions.

  • @MrDikembeMutombo
    @MrDikembeMutombo Рік тому +4

    Awesome video - 1000 thanks. Love the technical break down. Would be interested in seeing a follow-up vid James/Todd on steps into comfort

  • @Paul-yk7ds
    @Paul-yk7ds Рік тому +17

    I think I gotta study about 100 hours of infield from Todd and his coaches, taking notes on what topics to bring up, lines to use, etc. My interactions usually feel a little flat and boring compared to these infield clips. (I understand these are just highlights, but still they inspire me about the kinds of experiences I could potentially give to girls.)

    • @nickblaze4066
      @nickblaze4066 Рік тому

      Cause the infield clips are fake bro why do you think there's so many cuts

    • @woudanborson2778
      @woudanborson2778 Рік тому +1

      @@nickblaze4066 if they were fake (scripted) they wouldn't need cuts, would they?

    • @guaranisalice9447
      @guaranisalice9447 Рік тому +2

      wrong mindset bud, if you watch his videos is already enought knowledge. Go out and approach, then do Field reports and analise, thats how you improve.

    • @boxerusx5530
      @boxerusx5530 Рік тому +1

      Only after doing the sets myself did I start to see a pattern of the things they were talking. Put a pause on the infield videos bro and just go out and practice. Do that a couple of times. You'll be surprised at what you find.

    • @Paul-yk7ds
      @Paul-yk7ds Рік тому +2

      Both you guys @guarani and @Boxerus X have a point, but I've been having lots of interactions with women already - I just think by studying examples of more interesting game, I can find a lot of good ideas for how to add more emotional spikes and premise in my conversations - how to turn her boring responses into teases etc. I was watching some of Todd's hour-long infields from the Women course the other day and got a lot of ideas, noticed a lot of patterns of how he makes the conversations more interesting compared to my usual "get to know you" conversations. Studying infield isn't the right focus for everyone, but I think it has a lot of utility at this point for me

  • @JoeTheGhost
    @JoeTheGhost Рік тому +9

    Interesting comment about the eye scanning thing, what exactly makes it bad? I've noticed, the times I said something like "I love your look" to the girl, I would get "my what?" a lot. But when I briefly look her up and down while saying that, she's a lot more likely to understand.

  • @basgalgemba
    @basgalgemba Місяць тому

    Stellar advice from you both!
    One note concerning the audio editing: I find it a bit irritating that James’ speech was just cut completely as soon as Todd was speaking.
    You can also, depending on the thing that’s being said, dim/fade one or the other, and if you add just a little pan (and if necessary, a tiny bit of room to put them in the same virtual acoustic space and make it sound more natural) to the voice tracks, you can even just let them both sound for a second. It happens in real live, it’s no problem and you understand what’s said by both even better.

  • @stevekinsey2695
    @stevekinsey2695 Рік тому +5

    Todd is a great man, seriously

  • @johnstarnes1925
    @johnstarnes1925 Рік тому +1

    Getting back in game after taking break because of school. Needed this! Gold

  • @d_sportello
    @d_sportello Рік тому +20

    Oh yes, more of James please. Thanks Todd

  • @matusk3308
    @matusk3308 Рік тому

    lovely video, among other things i also liked that the guys don't interrupt the infield every few seconds, but they let you see a longer sequence o illustrate their points

  • @tantricsurfer
    @tantricsurfer Рік тому +2

    Masterpiece. Thanks James and Todd.

  • @nick_333
    @nick_333 8 місяців тому +1

    Im curious to see the whole infield...shouldve shown more of the "restaurant table convo.."

    • @yugiohmbm
      @yugiohmbm 4 місяці тому

      Seriously. It's like "we're getting to know eachother" and then jump cut to restaurant "I get why women want threesomes with two men." How the hell did we get here?

  • @EurGardenie
    @EurGardenie Рік тому +2

    Long hair , the legend is back !

  • @dreamawake2670
    @dreamawake2670 Рік тому +7

    I flipped the script with the standing in my nightgame and just asked for her name, spinned her around and lead her to sit down and ask her some basic non boring question while sitting close.

    • @kashifhussain4441
      @kashifhussain4441 Рік тому +5

      Did she motion for the restraining order yet, bud?

    • @dreamawake2670
      @dreamawake2670 Рік тому

      ​​@@kashifhussain4441 Are you so repulsive that you think a girl doesn't like that in a nighclub (if you're a fit chadlite) lol. She asked to give me her number. After we kissed.

  • @aan4280jaamac
    @aan4280jaamac Рік тому +1

    😅Good to see you back Todd
    James welcome bro

  • @samuelcoutts2648
    @samuelcoutts2648 Рік тому +43

    I think the weak low voice tone is a common mistake. Yes, the secret is to start off strong with showing some authority. If you sound like a mouse, you have already lost points before starting. Good video guys, well done

    • @mrbeety
      @mrbeety Рік тому +8

      Yeah, the fear of failure is usually the most common reason for the toned down version which in essence leads directly to failure. Even if you overdo the assertive voice and scare the girl initially you can always calibrate after the fact and show her what a nice down to earth sweet man you are - or not. ;)

    • @DAMfoxygrampa
      @DAMfoxygrampa 10 місяців тому

      Imo you only have to show that you can be strong and assertive a handful of times, just to prove it to the girl. After that you can act a lot more how you naturally would

    • @oahts5906
      @oahts5906 3 місяці тому

      Sound like a mouse 😭 we all been there 😂😅

  • @dariosso
    @dariosso Рік тому +1

    again, I learned a ton :) thanks you

  • @nickholmquist
    @nickholmquist Рік тому +4

    Damn for someone who’s already done loads of approaches, this is all I need to advance my sets

    • @philmomslim526
      @philmomslim526 Рік тому

      Same here Pimping. This was the icing for me

    • @razzdiamond6447
      @razzdiamond6447 Рік тому

      Deadass. Filled in some gaps for me and gave me more clarity

  • @4grammaton
    @4grammaton 6 місяців тому

    Could you please explain the rationale for the formulaic black t-shirt, black pants dress code for Todd and his coaches, and a lot of other game coaches?

  • @Rob-wy7ro
    @Rob-wy7ro Рік тому +12

    Hey Todd, can u ever post an infield of an old student (in his 40s or late 30s) or your oldest coach getting the number of a young hottie? This would really break paradigms of what's possible in game. Also u could get a lot of new followers (old guys like me) with a video like that. Thanks

    • @GoonCity777
      @GoonCity777 Рік тому +1

      Try for women in their 30's

    • @dreamawake2670
      @dreamawake2670 Рік тому +4

      Fresh, Good looks, nice hair, gym body, weldressed and confidence - with minor social skills is enough.

    • @dreamawake2670
      @dreamawake2670 Рік тому +1

      ​@@GoonCity777 Why? I got 20 -29 getting wet for me.

    • @quagmir3
      @quagmir3 Рік тому +10

      Todd is in his 40s

    • @Rob-wy7ro
      @Rob-wy7ro Рік тому +2

      @@GoonCity777 I don't want to 😜

  • @BarChordA
    @BarChordA 9 місяців тому +1

    The idea of being overly focused on the opener reminded me of this: “When you have reached the opposite shore, you do not carry the raft on your back, but leave it behind.” -Alan Watts
    The opener is a means to an end - to get the conversation going. Use it for its purpose, and leave it behind.

  • @OscarSegundo
    @OscarSegundo Рік тому

    Great video and content!

  • @burakyeral58
    @burakyeral58 Рік тому +3

    What is the term “false time constraint” exactly? I lost them there. Can anyone help with that?

    • @Paul-yk7ds
      @Paul-yk7ds Рік тому +5

      You say something like, "I have to leave in a minute, but..." or "I'm meeting my friends in a minute, but I'm really curious about your outfit..." It's a technique pickup artists often use in the opening. I guess it increases the girl's willingness to chat with you since she knows you gotta leave in a minute anyway, you won't rope her into a 30-minute conversation or something.

    • @TitsMegee420
      @TitsMegee420 Рік тому +3

      It's not that it increases her willingness to talk to you because you have to go. It makes it seem more like a random meeting and less like you're out trying to pick her up. More love story style. Then again if you listen again to that section what he says is also true. It takes the pressure off of her and let's her know this isn't a situation that's too serious or could take a long time. That you may have to leave soon etc.

    • @johnbroussard4115
      @johnbroussard4115 Рік тому +3

      Ex. I’ve only got a minute or I’m about to leave but..

    • @burakyeral58
      @burakyeral58 Рік тому

      @@Paul-yk7ds thanks Paul!

    • @burakyeral58
      @burakyeral58 Рік тому

      @@TitsMegee420 thank youu

  • @tothemoon8465
    @tothemoon8465 Рік тому

    This was amazing, Wow.

  • @jovanirodriguez7357
    @jovanirodriguez7357 Рік тому

    ok its check list lol but i love the dance you did there

  • @christianbj12
    @christianbj12 Рік тому

    For some reason the ambulance at 0:10 reminded me of "Linkin Park - Faint" haha

  • @KoJing-rh6mt
    @KoJing-rh6mt Рік тому

    What advice do you have for situations like:
    • A noisy environmental where you may have to scream for someone to understand you;
    • The girl is some distance away from you:
    - Either seeing you for a while walk straight towards her; (Do you have eye contact the whole time? Or, look away, and then establish eye contact again when you're closer? Do something else?)
    - May see you for a few seconds from a some distance before disappearing (whether in a train station, or somewhere else);
    • The girl looks very focused on something else (maybe it's reading, maybe it's searching for directions, or something else): Do you just interrupt, and open disregarding what she's focused on? Do you acknowledge what she's focused on while opening?

    • @deadringer333
      @deadringer333 Рік тому +1

      Stop overthinking and do whatever feels natural at the time.

  • @ayomikunosunseyi6556
    @ayomikunosunseyi6556 Рік тому +1

    Love this!

  • @fighterpilot12
    @fighterpilot12 Рік тому +1

    Love the content. Todd seems restless though?

    • @known8172
      @known8172 Рік тому

      I noticed that too. Maybe just a lot of stress or something.

    • @taisou108
      @taisou108 Рік тому

      @@known8172 He's around his teacher making a video. He's a little nervous.

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 8 місяців тому

      @@known8172 How to pick up chicks when he has Parkinsons?

  • @marioottaiano475
    @marioottaiano475 Рік тому +1

    I prefer to go immediatelly with eye-contact by risking to be a bit creepy, but this allows you to be 100% on the girl's radar and then you can follow-up and show that you are not creepy, then James says the false time constraint takes off the pressure from the girl so this means that the false time constraint can be used everytime and not just in the occasions he mentions, since if she does not feel pressure by talking to you it means she is ok with you, so false time constraint is a cheat code

  • @bradleyhicks8886
    @bradleyhicks8886 Рік тому +1

    Who is the guy at the very beginning of the video?

  • @SandyRodriguez
    @SandyRodriguez Рік тому +1

    What I really like about this is that she is really having a good time which means u can take away the sex and this still can be so much fun for everybody

  • @ManojLifestyle28
    @ManojLifestyle28 5 місяців тому

    Did he say scanning the girl up and down after the eye contact gets better results or gets poor results?

  • @nickapollo5059
    @nickapollo5059 Рік тому +1

    I wonder how JP is doing, that dude was hella smooth with it.

  • @kifacorea
    @kifacorea Рік тому

    Really helpful content

  • @gfunkin2
    @gfunkin2 Рік тому +2

    Good stuff.

  • @unknownlegend1207
    @unknownlegend1207 Рік тому +1

    How do I become a coach, I'm located in SA, you've really helped me out a bad space, and id like to pass that on to other men as well.

  • @PimpBoySwag543
    @PimpBoySwag543 5 місяців тому

    So at what point do you display intent?

  • @l80sman104
    @l80sman104 Рік тому

    Yeah, James gets it.

  • @arturxavier5639
    @arturxavier5639 Рік тому

    non video related question, but what watch was he using in the begining of the video ?

  • @Cbrrr-jp8er
    @Cbrrr-jp8er Рік тому +1

    Verbal game academy has been down for awhile now. When is it going to be fixed?

  • @napndash
    @napndash Рік тому

    11:30 Effectively St. Robert's approach

  • @DelasVC
    @DelasVC Рік тому +1

    That haircut is dope! What happened to JC though!?

  • @firesome11
    @firesome11 Рік тому

    Any video links related to polarized approach ?

  • @gardenwaller
    @gardenwaller Рік тому

    What's that watch youre wearing James? Looks good

  • @KpopListener
    @KpopListener Рік тому +3

    I want to be a coach to help out my hero Todd

  • @Laydayogi
    @Laydayogi Рік тому +1

    Nice pull James!!!

  • @AleFiorenzano
    @AleFiorenzano 9 місяців тому

    En Barcelona, Placa Real

  • @dandangalodangalus9082
    @dandangalodangalus9082 Рік тому

    I talk too fast all the time. It’s such a great tip to slow down and make sure she hears you clearly.

  • @xLegitMusix
    @xLegitMusix Рік тому

    where can we watch his infield????

  • @Gamechangerr667
    @Gamechangerr667 Рік тому

    James is the best coach Todd has. He's even better than Todd himself at game.

  • @fecaldegallo2247
    @fecaldegallo2247 Рік тому +18

    James with the WOAT haircut but the GOAT game 🔥

    • @ChanceBerryman
      @ChanceBerryman Рік тому +6

      having a dorky haircut is "cool" in Australia not even joking. it's a style

    • @KlutzyBoss
      @KlutzyBoss Рік тому

      You talking about his haircut with Todd or with the girl

    • @By.daniieel
      @By.daniieel Рік тому

      ​@@KlutzyBosseach of them has a goofy haircut

  • @rendizzo8097
    @rendizzo8097 Рік тому

    I need to know, did James close the Russian from the video that same night? What was that conversation like?

    • @hairycanary5912
      @hairycanary5912 Рік тому

      well, it ended like this. james told that desperate russian that her new name for the night is "ritz" and his new name is "putin". then he made the old song a reality...

  • @rambo7135
    @rambo7135 9 місяців тому

    Does James come to the UK?

  • @thatacefamily9165
    @thatacefamily9165 Рік тому

    I noticed James wearing glasses in the pickup scene. I wear glasses, although I thought about getting contact lenses. Do you think Glasses look more attractive in certain scenarios of attractiveness for guys ?

    • @taisou108
      @taisou108 Рік тому

      I'm sure it depends on the person

  • @rudigerrusselheim9628
    @rudigerrusselheim9628 Рік тому +1

    How do you react if she is telling you „I have a boyfriend.“ Is this a lame excuse for a rejection or does she wants to challenge me? How do I find out if this is really true or something like a code for a different meaning?

    • @Lovegun.
      @Lovegun. Рік тому +1

      Just don't even react, ask how serious it is, then say something like "well, gimme your number, and if I text you and it gets more serious with him, no harm no foul,". If she keeps declining, then she probably does have one she likes..

    • @rudigerrusselheim9628
      @rudigerrusselheim9628 Рік тому +1

      @@Lovegun. Thanks for your advice!

    • @hairycanary5912
      @hairycanary5912 Рік тому

      just tell her that you will allow him to watch...

  • @psychurch
    @psychurch Рік тому +1

    Great content. I do want to point out though that on the open when she mentions that she’s from Russia she was being self conscious because of the global circumstances while he pressed on with his agenda. Obviously that misalignment didn’t last long and they got on the same page. It’s encouraging to know that even pros aren’t perfect.

    • @foam_on_face5091
      @foam_on_face5091 11 місяців тому +1

      Someone finally said it. I thought the same and he even didn't even acknowledge that or at least smoothly transition, there were many other flaws in the interaction like he went on and on about the number exchange stuff. Pointing out that she's excited can raise ASD which is not conducive to seduction. She was sold by then and was very into him so still it went well. Doing something like that during early stages of the interaction is what kills the interaction. Goes to show that all interactions need not have to be 100% perfect to make it successful.

  • @juanalvares11
    @juanalvares11 Рік тому

    Where can i find james is he in europe if yes where excatly ???

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Рік тому

    When you say "veteran coach" , does this imply certified/ accredited?

  • @alexandrufilipescu1301
    @alexandrufilipescu1301 Рік тому

    What's James UA-cam channel?

  • @zJADGz
    @zJADGz Рік тому

    LINKS IN WEBSITE ARE DEAD

  • @cases2939
    @cases2939 Рік тому

    That's a good one.

  • @KingCol
    @KingCol Рік тому +1

    GOAT 🐐🔥

  • @ernestd
    @ernestd Рік тому +5

    So my game results were worse in the last few months and now I learned it's because Todd is already taking the big pie piece away in Barcelona

  • @slamar8712
    @slamar8712 Рік тому

    What's the most advanced topic in game ? Devalidation ? Leveling?

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 3 місяці тому +1

    *It’s easy to forget that sometimes it’s the little things that get a woman’s attention, not flashy lines.*

  • @flavio888
    @flavio888 Рік тому

    What are the top 5 cities in us and Europe to pick up girls and have beautiful girls?

  • @peucaue
    @peucaue 3 місяці тому

    10:00 Guy is describing Eric Ronaldo. He doesnt let the girls talk.

  • @svenphil8879
    @svenphil8879 Рік тому

    what city was the set in?

  • @darryltaylor3960
    @darryltaylor3960 Рік тому

    Joined a matchmaking service. 27 and tired of getting no results. Not trying to be negative but I still consume Todd’s videos and steal some of the techniques when applicable.

  • @AntonioSanchez-bi3nu
    @AntonioSanchez-bi3nu Рік тому

    Add subtitles al video. Ty.

  • @johnnyd2222
    @johnnyd2222 8 місяців тому

    I wish that infield was not cut up and played from start to finish

  • @Jamesk6941
    @Jamesk6941 Рік тому

    How about some advice for women?

    • @hairycanary5912
      @hairycanary5912 Рік тому

      ha, you mean advice on how to simply pick and choose which man you want?!

  • @dreamawake2670
    @dreamawake2670 Рік тому +2

    Open-Approach, lead, - talk-close.

  • @chltmdwp
    @chltmdwp 4 місяці тому

    21:56 sequence

  • @huntermogs
    @huntermogs Рік тому

    Follow up concept 10:48

  • @markthesolarexpert
    @markthesolarexpert Рік тому +1

    @10:16 - He MEANS “figuratively huge; not literally huge.

  • @chigennucketgames1689
    @chigennucketgames1689 Рік тому

    This is money thanks

  • @healthyself7941
    @healthyself7941 Рік тому

    Not clear if the Russian girl was simply out on the street "working".

  • @seanmiller8081
    @seanmiller8081 3 місяці тому

    “I think we could get in some trouble together”
    “In a good way?”
    “Nahh, like in a 3-5 kinda way 😈”