My brother just finished paying child support for his daughter for 18 years and he hardly ever got to see her(makes me sad). He did his part but he had no voice. His choice is go to jail or pay child support. The system ain’t fair for so many men.
I can’t stand it either. I worked hard to get my kids dads and the families into their lives. And I did NOT get support from them. They wanted nothing to do with them. It boils my blood to see dads that ACTUALLY want to be in their lives can’t because of the ratchet mother.
I'm loving the follow-ups. Please keep these coming. The honesty. Too many men don't have a voice or have a voice & cannot be heard. The child support system is soooo jacked up
@@gavn6337 Now that is insulting for any judge to order that and it's insulting as a parent to not to want to take care of his or her child. I think I would give it back to him...smdh
It absolutely is! My son is dealing with this foolishness. He hasn't seen his children in 2 years. His wife gave their children to her mother and now he has to pay her child support. How is that legal? They are legally married. No pictures, calls, texts no nothing. Please help me help him!
Thanks for this follow up. I like this man because he talks about how he feels, he actually HAS feelings besides mad and glad, and he has a relationship with a little boy.
I spent years watching Wilkos and springer and I have mad respect for what you’ve been doing. These follow ups fit very well into the story that’s shown it be even a tad better if you had snippets from your trial to give a little reminder of how it went down
The laws should be change for men paying child support who truly that not theirs. There should be a mandatory DNA for every child that's born automatically justice any other birth testing that is done.
Who widespread are this kind of cases? I think it is very unfortunately to find once self legal responsible for child support payment. This guy need therapy or some kind of way that he can deal with this situation. Imagine that woman asking for raise of child support as this man earning in creases.... This is hell on Earth for me! This law really needs to be changed!
It's not in the government's interest to implement such justice. Get someone on the hook to pay whenever possible. The problem with it not being mandatory is that the man risks causing offense by asking and who wants to cause a drama during the joy of the arrival of a newborn baby. Any decent guy is stuck between a rock and hard place.
@@rmharding5263 The whole system needs an overhaul but it's too much of a headache so nobody wants to do it. A lot of the laws are antiquated, designed to cover the classic man/woman *marriage* breakup from back when only the men worked & women were mostly housewives (& therefore *incapable* of supporting children without assistance). To cover the more modern relationship/child raising scenarios & changing gender roles, those old laws have merely been amended bit by bit over time. In that sense, it's become a patchwork system that'll never be quite as adequate as something purpose-built. There won't be real equality until those old laws stop being used as the basis against which modern cases are judged.
A lot better, I can hardly wait for part 3. And can father’s when they then find out, not their child and signed the paperwork in beginning; file to get their money back??
This is so wrong on so many levels, I think the laws need and should be changed from the get. If a father or mother suspects a man is not the true father of a child it should be determined at birth for free. This would free up the court system and stop all the bull, on the other hand this would make men and women be more responsible before that child is conceived. Now women who lie should be held at the same standard as a man with the pay back ( money spent) of taking care of another mans child. Someone democrat or republican should take up this matter since they are fighting so hard against abortion.
DNA tests are free at birth in the hospital. If you opt out, then you have to pay. If there’s any doubt, that is your opportunity to settle it without court. The Child Support laws DO need to be changed, but it has nothing to do with access to DNA testing.
Fellas should ask for DNA testing BEFORE signing the birth certificate. It'll save you from paying for a child that ain't yours in the physical & emotional sense. The babies suffer the most in these situations.
I thought if you’re NOT the father it will say 0% probability How is it that his would say 98.6% that he’s not the father? Did he word that wrong? I watch a lot of paternity court & it NEVER comes out 88.6% that you’re NOT the father. Rather 0% chance that you’re not -❓❓
Because of our genetic history, it is entirely possible that the actual sperm donor is distantly related to him. They probably share a great-great-great-great-grandfather.
@@Devillin I get that, however 98.6% NOT is NEVER how I've heard of someone NOT being the father. I watch a LOT of court tv, paternity court etc... and it's always 0 Probability 98.6% sounds like more of a chance of being the father.. NO dNA analysis :)
What do you think of the new argument. If a woman has the right to abort the baby the dad has a right to abort child support. The man really wants his baby and she gets rid of it well oh well. The woman wants the baby and the man really doesn't well life time child support. Is that really an argument?
Absolutely love this judge. No sexism , racism , bias going on. Some of these sorry women need to not push out kids as a source of income because they sorry @SS DONT WANNA WORK !!
I just got to the point where I just gave up I mean all they want is money,so what is the use fighting..File for visitation,but you have to hire a lawyer first then pay them to file..I have so many court costs and fees it's insane..I just gave up..Even the strong get tired..
@@wavewatcher_ how do you know? Regardless I think this is common situation for men and we are just expected to trust that a child is ours without any proof of the matter
Don't watch the channel regularly wonder if you have covered Felix versus California with your audience and it's probably a great case for you to bring up to them.
No shade here because I watch all of your court scenarios but....what's the point of this story? Like...is there going to be advice at the end of this story? He's singing the same song alot of men sing.
If I understand this he signed as the father because he was being audited by the IRS and wanted the tax break. Later he finds out that he wasn’t the sperm donar and is crying. Did I get right?
I love that you are giving a voice to men that need to be heard.
These people don’t need to be heard because they’re actors
@@wavewatcher_ based on real cases tho
@@wavewatcher_ I never said this man needed to be heard. I said she is giving voice to men.
She led him to believe it was his son. His contract with the state should be void. When are men going to demand equal justice in family courts?
We won't stick together
My brother just finished paying child support for his daughter for 18 years and he hardly ever got to see her(makes me sad). He did his part but he had no voice.
His choice is go to jail or pay child support. The system ain’t fair for so many men.
I can’t stand it either. I worked hard to get my kids dads and the families into their lives. And I did NOT get support from them. They wanted nothing to do with them. It boils my blood to see dads that ACTUALLY want to be in their lives can’t because of the ratchet mother.
Did he ever go to court to petition for visitation??
I'm loving the follow-ups. Please keep these coming. The honesty. Too many men don't have a voice or have a voice & cannot be heard. The child support system is soooo jacked up
Yeah it is my dad only
Pays 20$ a month
@@gavn6337 WTH
@@SJones-Myself honestly like wtf 10$ a month gonna do for me
@@gavn6337 Now that is insulting for any judge to order that and it's insulting as a parent to not to want to take care of his or her child. I think I would give it back to him...smdh
It absolutely is! My son is dealing with this foolishness. He hasn't seen his children in 2 years. His wife gave their children to her mother and now he has to pay her child support. How is that legal? They are legally married. No pictures, calls, texts no nothing. Please help me help him!
These days, a guy should get a paternity test immediately after birth BEFORE you sign the birth certificate.
Aint that a sad part of the modern age ...
Thank you for giving the voiceless a voice to express what happens to the men in the world who go through this
She’s not giving anyone a voice if all the people she works with are actors
I wish more judges would take your ethics and truly turn the corner. Thank you so much for giving father’s their voice!
She’s not taking on any ethics if she’s just playing pretend with actors on UA-cam.
We have no idea how she actually does this in real life
Thanks for this follow up. I like this man because he talks about how he feels, he actually HAS feelings besides mad and glad, and he has a relationship with a little boy.
I spent years watching Wilkos and springer and I have mad respect for what you’ve been doing. These follow ups fit very well into the story that’s shown it be even a tad better if you had snippets from your trial to give a little reminder of how it went down
“Did she know I wasn’t the father the whole time?”
Most likely. But at the very least she knew there was a good chance you weren’t.
This update is great. Please Judge keep it up, but don't forget to always give us flash back. Thanks.
Thank you for not being a man hater and keeping it fair!
I’m so glad to hear this podcast. There are good men out there that get in this situation is. Glad he is there for her son
What a cliffhanger! I was like noooo! Looking forward to the next one. I don’t like hearing the mom showed no empathy.
The laws should be change for men paying child support who truly that not theirs.
There should be a mandatory DNA for every child that's born automatically justice any other birth testing that is done.
Judge working overtime! Respect
This little child will always love you no matter
Who widespread are this kind of cases? I think it is very unfortunately to find once self legal responsible for child support payment. This guy need therapy or some kind of way that he can deal with this situation.
Imagine that woman asking for raise of child support as this man earning in creases.... This is hell on Earth for me! This law really needs to be changed!
Paternity tests should be mandatory before signing all birth certificates. There are no valid reasons this shouldn’t be the case
It's not in the government's interest to implement such justice. Get someone on the hook to pay whenever possible. The problem with it not being mandatory is that the man risks causing offense by asking and who wants to cause a drama during the joy of the arrival of a newborn baby. Any decent guy is stuck between a rock and hard place.
@@rmharding5263 The whole system needs an overhaul but it's too much of a headache so nobody wants to do it. A lot of the laws are antiquated, designed to cover the classic man/woman *marriage* breakup from back when only the men worked & women were mostly housewives (& therefore *incapable* of supporting children without assistance). To cover the more modern relationship/child raising scenarios & changing gender roles, those old laws have merely been amended bit by bit over time. In that sense, it's become a patchwork system that'll never be quite as adequate as something purpose-built. There won't be real equality until those old laws stop being used as the basis against which modern cases are judged.
So sad that this happens to so many men, and the court continues to make them pay for another man’s child
A lot better, I can hardly wait for part 3. And can father’s when they then find out, not their child and signed the paperwork in beginning; file to get their money back??
Am suppose to see a message, here from you?? Hope ur having a good weekend.
Man a King.
This is so wrong on so many levels, I think the laws need and should be changed from the get. If a father or mother suspects a man is not the true father of a child it should be determined at birth for free. This would free up the court system and stop all
the bull, on the other hand this would make men and women be more responsible before that child is conceived. Now women who lie should be held at the same standard as a man with the pay back ( money spent) of taking care of another mans child. Someone democrat or republican should take up this matter since they are fighting so hard against abortion.
DNA tests are free at birth in the hospital. If you opt out, then you have to pay. If there’s any doubt, that is your opportunity to settle it without court. The Child Support laws DO need to be changed, but it has nothing to do with access to DNA testing.
This channel bout to blow up I keep seeing clips from this channel on other peoples UA-cam shorts judge von trendin
Fellas should ask for DNA testing BEFORE signing the birth certificate. It'll save you from paying for a child that ain't yours in the physical & emotional sense. The babies suffer the most in these situations.
He got played ... She wasn't who he thought she was.
I thought if you’re NOT the father it will say 0% probability
How is it that his would say 98.6% that he’s not the father? Did he word that wrong?
I watch a lot of paternity court & it NEVER comes out 88.6% that you’re NOT the father. Rather 0% chance that you’re not
-❓❓
Because of our genetic history, it is entirely possible that the actual sperm donor is distantly related to him. They probably share a great-great-great-great-grandfather.
@@Devillin I get that, however 98.6% NOT is NEVER how I've heard of someone NOT being the father. I watch a LOT of court tv, paternity court etc... and it's always 0 Probability 98.6% sounds like more of a chance of being the father.. NO dNA analysis :)
What do you think of the new argument. If a woman has the right to abort the baby the dad has a right to abort child support. The man really wants his baby and she gets rid of it well oh well. The woman wants the baby and the man really doesn't well life time child support. Is that really an argument?
I’ve watched three friends go through this. These stories upset me.
Wow interesting story
Why isn't the percentage 100% not the father?
Because we all share dna
Absolutely love this judge. No sexism , racism , bias going on. Some of these sorry women need to not push out kids as a source of income because they sorry @SS DONT WANNA WORK !!
I just got to the point where I just gave up I mean all they want is money,so what is the use fighting..File for visitation,but you have to hire a lawyer first then pay them to file..I have so many court costs and fees it's insane..I just gave up..Even the strong get tired..
And yet though no one is going to change this crooked law
Poor man, I feel for you brother, this must be an absolutely horrible experience. Just know that what goes around always comes around!
He’s an actor
@@wavewatcher_ how do you know? Regardless I think this is common situation for men and we are just expected to trust that a child is ours without any proof of the matter
So where is the biological father and why is he not paying ?
When he signed that acknowledgement of paternity he became financially & legally responsible for that kid regardless of non biological relation.
I thought when your not the father is 100%. It’s the Father is 99.8%…. Can you educate on that?
I Came Here For This Comment Cause I Thought It Was Only 99.999999% YoureThe Parent Or 0% Probability Of You Being The Parent
It would be nice if they made a law to have a mandatory DNA test after birth.
I am looking forward to the conclusion
She picked the safest or most profitable father. She knew looking at that baby that's why she hasn't him thy whole name to create the bond
Where’s the part 3?? :(
Am I the only woman in the world that doesn't get child support?
What happened to all the court cases, they were great. This sit down and talk is not why I watch
They are still coming.😊
This stuff does happen to men ur not the father but since u live with the mother and her kids for a long time ur consider the father.
Judge Vonda so pretty
Theres 2 part 2s!
Which is part 1?!
This is the full interview of part 2. There was a glitch on UA-cam with the upload on the other.
I wish this was real and not a tv show with actors.
With southern people a 3 min video takes 30 minutes....
My dad only pays 20$ a month
WE THE PEOPLE????🤔🤔
We. Love. You. Woman.
why are breaking these into "to be continued " parts?
Analytics say it’s best.😊
Where is part 3?
This. Is. Disgraceful
Don't watch the channel regularly wonder if you have covered Felix versus California with your audience and it's probably a great case for you to bring up to them.
Mandatory paternity test at birth.
No shade here because I watch all of your court scenarios but....what's the point of this story? Like...is there going to be advice at the end of this story? He's singing the same song alot of men sing.
The acting is Great😳 give these folks an emmy shat
She must of know it was chance the baby was someone elses
Strap up before you shack up
Wow
This is to slow.
3rd 🤣
First
If I understand this he signed as the father because he was being audited by the IRS and wanted the tax break. Later he finds out that he wasn’t the sperm donar and is crying.
Did I get right?
You obviously have no kids if you think that a fucking tax break makes up for the legal obligation to raise a child
No, you did not