Hi Jackie I hope you are still doing well, I have struggled all my entire life with G and at the moment feel constantly down and sad. I seem to have water behind my eyes but can’t seem to cry. G has unfortunately consumed me over the years, I like yourself wish I could stop for good and just be myself again. Take care
Looking forward to seeing your fresh start work out ! Get what your saying re enablers but on the flip slide we are responsible for our own decisions. Not making a decision is a decision in itself.
@@thementalhustle I am being responsible and making a decision. I have made this decision a million times, maybe a million and one will be the difference 😂 This time tomorrow will be one day free 🤦♀️
We all need that one person to say hey , I love u but your messing up .. Not coming down u just looking out .. I wish I had that kind of person in my life back when I was at my worst . Much love and hugs from Nova Scotia . Your beautiful , Your one of a kind , Smile always dear heart ♥
I think that if we've made the conscious decision to be in a relationship, then it should be exactly like that. If we decide to be single, then we need to be that for ourselves. We feed off the energy we're around and sometimes we need that extra ❤️and thank you❤️❤️😊😊 so happy that you're still with the channel here and we're all still fighting 💪💪
@@JustKen57 we have to get u out the relapse spiral, what do h need from us? Hope that u can see today for the new day it is and that somehow, u can leave the past in the past. ❤️ You will be okay ❤️
You very articulate in the way you speak and discuss situations impressive hi there was looking through UA-cam and found your videos in my search for gambling addiction relapse ,after 32 years gambling crazy daily hundreds off thousands pounds gone was 2 years absolutely gambling free and I've only gone and relapsed last week and its fucking blown me side ways just admitted today to peer because if I didn't I was inches away from hiding it and going into fuck it mode and completely blowing my 2 years off amazing work and strength so glad I reached out today totally admitted my fuck up and your wee videos have given me that little light back wee bit understanding and insite thank you 😊 🙏
So happy for you! 😊 thaaat gorgeous smile of yours 😊 I had a, maybe similar, maybe not so much, thing that happened to me with just a pal with whom I'd talked about my problem and shared quite a lot and thought I was understood... But like after a month or two of me being clean and happy with the fact, there comes the person, coming back from some event, telling me they brought me some...merchandise (magnet or something) from a very specific casino brand 😳 Like, wtf, dude, I've been successfully trying to stay away from this sh** and you come to me and basically tell me you associate me with a gambling brand and even think this is going to make me happy?! Wow.
I had gambling friends who always wanted me to go out with the Nikki so I can totally relate . Even when they knew I was trying not to go and succeeding in that , they still asked me to go with instead of saying good for you .. I have sence removed all gambling friends from my life and am all the better for it . Much love ♡
It's true! Mine used to give me money to win but never asked about the winnings. It became like a reward, here u did that so well, ill send u a tenner to play😑
That is so true! My dad have multiple times said too me "just stop gambling". Its not that easy. He Will never know the feeling of when you lose selfcontrol in that way. And most People Will never know the anxiety and pain of being a gambling addict who cant stop.
@Rick3y Rick3y hahahahaha 😭😭😂😂 I guess she wanted him to spend that money. Enabling is more about keeping and maintaining contentment for fear of being alone (i think).. And its a pity
Ill call it what it is, ENABLING. I accept my blame and my mistakes, doesn't mean that because i have my issue i cant be observant enough to realize others . ✌️
@@RyanAJonez Definitely👌❤️ There will always be negative comments but we just pray for grace. Grace to accept the things and minds we cannot change. We pray that understanding is found as it benefits many and kindess. Kindness because even if we're not understood, at least we didn't cause additional pain to ignorance. ❤️
Keep it going. Remember GAMBLERS NEVER WIN AND WINNERS NEVER GAMBLING
Hi Jackie I hope you are still doing well, I have struggled all my entire life with G and at the moment feel constantly down and sad. I seem to have water behind my eyes but can’t seem to cry. G has unfortunately consumed me over the years, I like yourself wish I could stop for good and just be myself again. Take care
Looking forward to seeing your fresh start work out ! Get what your saying re enablers but on the flip slide we are responsible for our own decisions. Not making a decision is a decision in itself.
Thank you ❤️🙏 yes we definitely are responsible for our choices, from addiction to the ppl we choose to have in our lives
@@thementalhustle I am being responsible and making a decision. I have made this decision a million times, maybe a million and one will be the difference 😂 This time tomorrow will be one day free 🤦♀️
@@Teddy-to3bl there can't be a day 100 or 1000 without a day 1! Yess u go for it!! 💪💪
We all need that one person to say hey , I love u but your messing up .. Not coming down u just looking out .. I wish I had that kind of person in my life back when I was at my worst . Much love and hugs from Nova Scotia . Your beautiful , Your one of a kind , Smile always dear heart ♥
I think that if we've made the conscious decision to be in a relationship, then it should be exactly like that. If we decide to be single, then we need to be that for ourselves. We feed off the energy we're around and sometimes we need that extra ❤️and thank you❤️❤️😊😊 so happy that you're still with the channel here and we're all still fighting 💪💪
@@thementalhustle I am here as long as your channel exists
@@JustKen57 we have to get u out the relapse spiral, what do h need from us? Hope that u can see today for the new day it is and that somehow, u can leave the past in the past. ❤️ You will be okay ❤️
@@thementalhustle Every time I relapse I can feel it coming to a time when the urge will be totally gone Jackie
@@JustKen57 that's so wonderful to hear ❤️ better and better
You very articulate in the way you speak and discuss situations impressive hi there was looking through UA-cam and found your videos in my search for gambling addiction relapse ,after 32 years gambling crazy daily hundreds off thousands pounds gone was 2 years absolutely gambling free and I've only gone and relapsed last week and its fucking blown me side ways just admitted today to peer because if I didn't I was inches away from hiding it and going into fuck it mode and completely blowing my 2 years off amazing work and strength so glad I reached out today totally admitted my fuck up and your wee videos have given me that little light back wee bit understanding and insite thank you 😊 🙏
So happy for you! 😊 thaaat gorgeous smile of yours 😊
I had a, maybe similar, maybe not so much, thing that happened to me with just a pal with whom I'd talked about my problem and shared quite a lot and thought I was understood...
But like after a month or two of me being clean and happy with the fact, there comes the person, coming back from some event, telling me they brought me some...merchandise (magnet or something) from a very specific casino brand 😳
Like, wtf, dude, I've been successfully trying to stay away from this sh** and you come to me and basically tell me you associate me with a gambling brand and even think this is going to make me happy?! Wow.
Nikki 😍😘 hi darling ❤️❤️❤️
I don't think ppl completely understand these triggers for us 😂 sometimes ppl really are just wow haha
I had gambling friends who always wanted me to go out with the Nikki so I can totally relate . Even when they knew I was trying not to go and succeeding in that , they still asked me to go with instead of saying good for you .. I have sence removed all gambling friends from my life and am all the better for it . Much love ♡
People that are not addicts, will never understand what its like to have a gambling addiction. My gf enabled by getting me more loans 😩
It's true! Mine used to give me money to win but never asked about the winnings. It became like a reward, here u did that so well, ill send u a tenner to play😑
That is so true! My dad have multiple times said too me "just stop gambling". Its not that easy. He Will never know the feeling of when you lose selfcontrol in that way. And most People Will never know the anxiety and pain of being a gambling addict who cant stop.
@@randomvideosse7285 so much easier said than done.
@Rick3y Rick3y hahahahaha 😭😭😂😂 I guess she wanted him to spend that money.
Enabling is more about keeping and maintaining contentment for fear of being alone (i think).. And its a pity
Do not call it Enabler. You are only one to blame unless you change your mindset you will keep struggling
Ill call it what it is, ENABLING.
I accept my blame and my mistakes, doesn't mean that because i have my issue i cant be observant enough to realize others . ✌️
@@RyanAJonez ❤️ thank you ❤️
@@RyanAJonez 😘❤️ what a beast of a comment there Ryan ❤️🙏 another reason why I'm going to marry you!
@@RyanAJonez Definitely👌❤️
There will always be negative comments but we just pray for grace. Grace to accept the things and minds we cannot change. We pray that understanding is found as it benefits many and kindess. Kindness because even if we're not understood, at least we didn't cause additional pain to ignorance.
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you from toronto ?
Nope 😀
@Rick3y Rick3y Caribbean /Swedish 👌✌️💞😊
have a great holiday
Thank u