Girls should come, and learn, because they have a opportune to learn rightly, but some ladys might be so full of woke and other s#it, that it might be hard to learn anything anymore.
The part about losing money...one's lost nothing; losing health, one loses something; but, lose character, we lose everything... appreciate you, Rabbi.
You know women would listen. I hope they do. This is vital information for both men and women. As you said, not following this advice "cheapens" a relationship. Thank you Rabbi Friedman.
17:47 "she didn't share his devastation" ..... "because she was not suffering with him, she lost her right to even give advice" - Wow. I could never put that situation into those words. Thanks for that statement. People just want to feel 'cared for' and failure to empathize communicates an attitude of "not caring". Poignant example.
Thank you for your words of wisdom, dear Rabbi Manis Friedman. I wish the more people to hear this, your words could sife lifes and marriages. May Ashem bless you and all your familly.
15:48 Thank You Rabbi Friedman. A catholic from Belgium who doesn't want to miss out on the Best jewish teaching. Your distinctions are very precise and to the point, for instance on appreciation and admiratión. How do i know this? Cos my wife insinuates the same....If you've lost respect, you are no longer capable of criticism that could hope to be just.
I love a lot here. "People watching the couple criticize are cringing. The couple doesn't even notice." Speaking about the "right" to criticize your partner. This was so true. I see couples do this all the time, and it is painful. They really do not notice it. I also like the point about waiting to give criticism. I have seen the husband criticize the wife at the dinner table for how she orders food. It's so petty, it's so sad. If he would wait, this would be much better! We all need to watch these trainings again and again, until it is in our mind and our behavior starts to change. (Meaning, I also need to do this). and that is why I watch these videos again and again. As bread to my soul.
A genial advice to appreciate and celebrate marriage every day .. I wish I would hear this advice years ago .. Now I got the gift of your advice: to keep the marriage in the every of the joy of the beginning … not let slide into routine ❤
Sorry Rabbi, I couldn't help myself. I haven't listened to the video yet, but as soon as I finish typing this, we know what's going to happen 😅 Obviously, I will be forwarding this video 😁 ✌🏽❤️
Sorry to intrude but, I agree 💯. Delayed reactions show that u think things through and give u time to consider everyone n not just your initial response/reaction.
Please, make a video with 3 tips for men who cheated their wives and now they have to fix it. Thanks for your advices, sorry to seen this video. Shabat Shalom!
Something happend(a pottential wife to be mine) asked in public,: what happened after we met in our teenage age . Physiology, psyhology, karmatology, egology..? Many thyngs but biology, and still I wonder: Vera there is the sense from you and me. Meet me when ever whenever creation needs know
I guess it's growing that oneness constantly and seemlessly. Marriage is manifestly not an outcome , but a growth journey for life. A bit like eternity .
I can be patient 'living' properly, fixin karma, but please release there is no time, nađimo se kako god i s Tanjom, eto,razvijena si dovoljno. Vidim da ćete
What tips, why tips? Marriage should be simpliest way of existence of man and women. When man loves woman, he love exystence as itself. When I finnally met her, I will know
So do not try to be wise please, stop making war, see and KNOW, give to me my present country help support, stop fight for or with, just be. You said truth word when you said noone want make war. IS THERE ANY WAR OR WEAPON IN BREATHING:in so ham(i am not the body), 'a ham' I amnot this mind
Interesting that there is a tip for husbands to delay their criticisms of their wives until later, but no such tip for wives for their husbands (other video)- nope, just respect and admire the husband and accept whatever they give without criticism. So per this advice husbands are justified in correcting their wives - just do it later, and husbands don’t need correcting - just lots of respect and admiration and confirmation that whatever they give is wonderful. Doesn’t sound right to me.
Hey! Come on now. You are forgetting that this was not addressed to women and it certainly doesn’t infer that criticism in this fashion would be negative. As a matter of fact he insists and I agree that respect is integral to criticism. So is wisdom. Zoom out a little. Also, can’t you let us men have this little space/video?
@@kunmiakinbode From the Oxford dictionary - Criticism - the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes. It does not mention ‘constructive criticism’ and they didn’t mean it either because why would men have to ‘delay’ constructive criticism? Yes, I listened to the ‘ladies don’t listen’ but I also listened to the ‘Ladies only’. I’m entitled to hear both sides of the fence to get both viewpoints. It just sounds wrong that one sex gets criticized (albeit delayed) and the other encouraged, don’t you think? I give you permission to listen to the ‘Ladies only’ vid to get both perspectives and see what I mean.
Yeah. So it is all on us women to be blamed when they don't kee it you know where. Talk about teaching men lack of responsability and morals if he ain't capable to be loyal, he won't be my leader and he is not someone I can respect!!
Common misunderstanding on marriage: -Marriage is not a past event. It’s continuously regenerating reality. Tips1: respect -Marriage = you both committed to respect intimacy. -Clarification for common misunderstanding: Marriage does NOT provide couples the right to intimacy with each other, not to mention many times of dating. Intimacy is a gift, it happens voluntarily. if one party fails to be intimate, on some regular basis it's grounds for divorce. Tips2: be appreciative appreciation = not to be taken for granted. admiration = they are valuable. -Example: you don't have to compliment your wife for every meal but you have to be grateful for every meal that she prepares Tip3:Delay reaction Avoid embarrassment. If it is really important you won't forget. -Example: Criticism negelecting partner's despair and devastation lead to divorce.
That about intimacy. How many men do really think that? They expect it without them even considering the wife needs. They don't have the right or demand it!
It’s funny you didn’t “want women to watch this 😉😉😉” and it wasn’t advice for men, it was still like the other video … WHAT WOMEN SHOULD DO. We knew you wouldn’t be fair, yep I JUSTICE!!!
Who came here as a girl because of 'ladies don't listen'
Girls should come, and learn, because they have a opportune to learn rightly, but some ladys might be so full of woke and other s#it, that it might be hard to learn anything anymore.
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The part about losing money...one's lost nothing; losing health, one loses something; but, lose character, we lose everything... appreciate you, Rabbi.
That's great marketing. The title is going to have every woman who sees this video watching it.
This comment is awesome. I'm glad I get to be the first to comment on it
So true.
Haha yes, had to watch 😂
AKA clickbait.
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Putting ladies don’t listen in the title is a great strategy to get women to listen
Wow. Wisdom delivered with sensitivty and kindness.
the volume of grey hairs tells you how much wisdom the old man has!
1) respectfully
2) appreciation
3) Delayed Reaction
You know women would listen. I hope they do. This is vital information for both men and women. As you said, not following this advice "cheapens" a relationship. Thank you Rabbi Friedman.
17:47 "she didn't share his devastation" ..... "because she was not suffering with him, she lost her right to even give advice" - Wow. I could never put that situation into those words. Thanks for that statement. People just want to feel 'cared for' and failure to empathize communicates an attitude of "not caring". Poignant example.
This goes both ways for sure
Thank you for your words of wisdom, dear Rabbi Manis Friedman. I wish the more people to hear this, your words could sife lifes and marriages. May Ashem bless you and all your familly.
15:48 Thank You Rabbi Friedman. A catholic from Belgium who doesn't want to miss out on the Best jewish teaching. Your distinctions are very precise and to the point, for instance on appreciation and admiratión. How do i know this? Cos my wife insinuates the same....If you've lost respect, you are no longer capable of criticism that could hope to be just.
Wow, this video came to me at the moment I most needed it, thank you so much for these wise words.
The best teacher of all my life!
I need you more and more every day!
Ever so gentle and wise, love you "Manis Friedman"!
Outstanding wisdom, just what we have been missing.
Keep up the good work 👍
I would love to hear the Rabbi speak sometime about raising children, disciplining children, and topics along those lines.
I think if you check the videos and shorts history you can find them. ❤
I love a lot here. "People watching the couple criticize are cringing. The couple doesn't even notice." Speaking about the "right" to criticize your partner. This was so true. I see couples do this all the time, and it is painful. They really do not notice it. I also like the point about waiting to give criticism. I have seen the husband criticize the wife at the dinner table for how she orders food. It's so petty, it's so sad. If he would wait, this would be much better! We all need to watch these trainings again and again, until it is in our mind and our behavior starts to change. (Meaning, I also need to do this). and that is why I watch these videos again and again. As bread to my soul.
He has a problem with impatience
Appreciation is great, but I like admiration more than appreciation personally.
You’re a blessing to the world 🌎
A genial advice to appreciate and celebrate marriage every day .. I wish I would hear this advice years ago ..
Now I got the gift of your advice: to keep the marriage in the every of the joy of the beginning … not let slide into routine ❤
Thank you father rabbi Friedman long live and health for you❤
Thank you Rabbi Friedman, it is so inspiring to listen to you and your advice is so easy to understand!
Thank you Rabbi Friedman ❤
I will write a book too! Thank you LORD, HaShem n Adonai for marriage covenant since the beginning of time!
Sorry Rabbi, I couldn't help myself. I haven't listened to the video yet, but as soon as I finish typing this, we know what's going to happen 😅 Obviously, I will be forwarding this video 😁
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❤❤ Well said rabbi thank you from us all that benefit from your wisdom ❤❤
like the positive attitude . Humor
Intense lesson on marriage thank you ❤
Thank you Rabbi Manis Friedman.
Im thankful to you Rabbi. This helps me understand my experience
Thank you rabbi
Thank you Rabbi Friedman.
Thanks!
I’m a woman.. listening 👂😄
Me too😂
heeeey! it's mens space 😁😁
@@Itagain365the video was for both men AND women if you actually watched it
Hello brother Manis!
Sorry to intrude but, I agree 💯. Delayed reactions show that u think things through and give u time to consider everyone n not just your initial response/reaction.
delayed reaction means you won’t burn bridges! 🙃
Literally just talked about this right before the upload
Thank you 🙏
I'm a woman.Thank you Rabbi.. you're a real mench. Lesson learnt.
profound words of wisdom, thank you RABBI
best 21 minutes ever
Please, make a video with 3 tips for men who cheated their wives and now they have to fix it.
Thanks for your advices, sorry to seen this video.
Shabat Shalom!
You do know that telling someone not to generally creates the opposite response.
Future looks bright
As haShem renews Creation. You knew women would listen.
I watched this video out of curiosity cos the heading excluded women😂😂😂 thanks for the vital information
Come one!!! You KNOW us women are gonna listen, so we can hear the tips and yay or nay 'um!!!!! 😻🙀😿
Powerful 🙏
Good job
4:47 what about שאר כסות עונה? 6:18 I should have waited?
He's talking both to men and women if you listen carefully. 😅
We have a failed society when it comes to justice in responsibilities and rights.
I know how it feels when a husband would treat a wife with more appreciation and respect and value than strangers and his family.
Thank you Rabbi Friedman!!💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶
Social science is real science
Well when I'm told "dont listen", IT MEANS IM ALL EAR
7:20 rabbi Friedman is ואהבת לרעך כמוך a מצווה בין אדם למקום in this understand?
Yo will make all and everyone will, no doubt
Something happend(a pottential wife to be mine) asked in public,: what happened after we met in our teenage age . Physiology, psyhology, karmatology, egology..? Many thyngs but biology, and still I wonder: Vera there is the sense from you and me. Meet me when ever whenever creation needs know
Hi I’m a girl listening
Ladies please don't listen 😂
Side point 1:28 why is marriage compared to קריעת ים סוף it should be comparable to התהוות יש מאין?
😅 you can't say don't watch it, we're gunna watch it aren't we... Hahaha
😂😂😂😂 He knows women will listen ❤🎉
That's my thought as well😂😂😂😂
13:05 the לא תשא עליו חטא that היום יום explains?
Ladies don't listen... 3:40 talks to the wives...😂
😂😂😂 Caption and ladies
You can’t do this!!!! If you say ladies don’t listen, after posting tips for men, you can be sure I’ll be listening! 😅😅😅😅😅
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If mariage is becoming one then how come it becomes continuously renewing reality?
I guess it's growing that oneness constantly and seemlessly. Marriage is manifestly not an outcome , but a growth journey for life. A bit like eternity .
I can be patient 'living' properly, fixin karma, but please release there is no time, nađimo se kako god i s Tanjom, eto,razvijena si dovoljno. Vidim da ćete
Sum: Thumb
12:39 0:58 פעולה נמשכת
Men feel entitled to intimacy ruining marriage!
That's Lo NACHON!!
The same goes for the wife
There is a wonderful corresponding video for wives.
I dont suppose you want to marry me?
What tips, why tips? Marriage should be simpliest way of existence of man and women. When man loves woman, he love exystence as itself. When I finnally met her, I will know
Sorry Rabbi!
So do not try to be wise please, stop making war, see and KNOW, give to me my present country help support, stop fight for or with, just be. You said truth word when you said noone want make war. IS THERE ANY WAR OR WEAPON IN BREATHING:in so ham(i am not the body), 'a ham' I amnot this mind
Interesting that there is a tip for husbands to delay their criticisms of their wives until later, but no such tip for wives for their husbands (other video)- nope, just respect and admire the husband and accept whatever they give without criticism. So per this advice husbands are justified in correcting their wives - just do it later, and husbands don’t need correcting - just lots of respect and admiration and confirmation that whatever they give is wonderful. Doesn’t sound right to me.
Hey! Come on now. You are forgetting that this was not addressed to women and it certainly doesn’t infer that criticism in this fashion would be negative. As a matter of fact he insists and I agree that respect is integral to criticism. So is wisdom.
Zoom out a little.
Also, can’t you let us men have this little space/video?
@@kunmiakinbode From the Oxford dictionary - Criticism - the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes.
It does not mention ‘constructive criticism’ and they didn’t mean it either because why would men have to ‘delay’ constructive criticism?
Yes, I listened to the ‘ladies don’t listen’ but I also listened to the ‘Ladies only’. I’m entitled to hear both sides of the fence to get both viewpoints. It just sounds wrong that one sex gets criticized (albeit delayed) and the other encouraged, don’t you think?
I give you permission to listen to the ‘Ladies only’ vid to get both perspectives and see what I mean.
God created woman to be the helpmate of a man.... marry him! Protect him from himself when other women make themselves available to him. He is weak?
Yeah. So it is all on us women to be blamed when they don't kee it you know where. Talk about teaching men lack of responsability and morals if he ain't capable to be loyal, he won't be my leader and he is not someone I can respect!!
It hurts to be stepped out of the marriage on. Criticize is not a question but a reaction.
Common misunderstanding on marriage:
-Marriage is not a past event. It’s continuously regenerating reality.
Tips1: respect
-Marriage = you both committed to respect intimacy.
-Clarification for common misunderstanding: Marriage does NOT provide couples the right to intimacy with each other, not to mention many times of dating. Intimacy is a gift, it happens voluntarily. if one party fails to be intimate, on some regular basis it's grounds for divorce.
Tips2: be appreciative
appreciation = not to be taken for granted.
admiration = they are valuable.
-Example: you don't have to compliment your wife for every meal but you have to be grateful for every meal that she prepares
Tip3:Delay reaction
Avoid embarrassment. If it is really important you won't forget.
-Example: Criticism negelecting partner's despair and devastation lead to divorce.
That about intimacy. How many men do really think that? They expect it without them even considering the wife needs. They don't have the right or demand it!
It’s funny you didn’t “want women to watch this 😉😉😉” and it wasn’t advice for men, it was still like the other video … WHAT WOMEN SHOULD DO. We knew you wouldn’t be fair, yep I JUSTICE!!!