1. you have a bright and uplifting personality 0:24 2. you have good hygiene and grooming 0:53 3. you are true to yourself 1:25 4. you stay true to your style 1:52 5. you give your opinion 2:22 6. you notice people staring at you, or raising their eyebrow 3:06 I hope I could help!
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I’m ace, and personally if I find someone attractive it is almost completely based on personality. All these things are quite accurate to me. Probably because I don’t form a huge amount of attraction towards people, and just form a general interest in them as a person
I would date an ace person (well woman because i'm a lesbian) :)) I don't think of myself as very attractive physically, so if they didn't care about that anyway, i would be honoured to have them like my personality
Doesn't this basically mean that you're just a bit shy in terms of love but your inner self doesn't want denie it anymore. I once was an ace myself but then I saw that it's just something you denie for dumb reasons. It took away allot of me
The problem is that people who have low self esteem often have that in conjunction with other things. And they aren’t bright and uplifting, because they don’t feel good about themselves. And the reality is that they actually are very attractive, but their energy screams that they aren’t comfortable in their own skin, which has the result of making them be less attractive to others. It’s the opposite effect. They de-attractive themselves. The key is to somehow rise about that and love themselves from the inside, and then the self esteem follows. From there, they become more bubbly. And from *there* they are very attractive to others.
Well, I actually grew to love myself, but still I'm an extremely shy introvert and I just can't make myself show just a bit of confidence outside, even if I know I can do something well or I feel good, or beautiful on that day. I just cannot and that's starting to frustrate me 😭 Especially when I'm watching videos like this, I think to myself "oh, I must be pretty attractive but let's click on this since I don't have anything better to watch" and I hear that I have to be confident, bubbly, happy all the time and pour my heart out on others. Nah. That's just not how I work. I prefer to leave this side of myself for people close to me and I feel a lot better this way. I understand where this comes from but I feel like the society is pushing introverts too hard. Come on, if you want to encourage us (I mean shy/insecure people here, not introverts ofc) to love ourselves, just show some love to us first. That's the first move, you can't just complain and say "oh, you should go out and see people, that will do". And trust me, introverts will appreciate every little gesture, just don't go overboard. If you've read this till the end, have a nice day, because the comment started growing longer and longer and longer too fast as I was thinking what to write 😂❤️
I was Naturally Born with an Energetic Extroverted Personality (Which may be considered bright cuz people tell me it alot) But Here is a tip, Be Who you are you don't need to be An extrovert or super bubbly or ANYTHING to be attractive! You be you and People who have the taste will like you, In case of hygiene Just brush your teeth 2-3 times, Sometimes warm showers and Perfume will do the trick! :D for me I like Floral Fresh DetergentY smells, You should also take care of your hair since that's also a plus!! 💗💗🍨💖（☆/＞u＜/）
@@smrithings same applies to me as well. Being sensitive is totally okay☺️but i don't give a damn about what they think, cuz it's my life im the one who is supposed to live and make the best of it
This is inaccurate. I complain about the way my brain operates. I also focus more of my thoughts on being beautiful inside than focusing on my outer appearance.
Looks don't last! The inner person does. Twilight Zone has a great episode about these grown kids putting these masks on their dying father gave them. Ugly masks. Their faces had become just like the hideous masks when they took off the masks after he died. They were not nice people. So the father wanted them to look like who they really were on the inside.
Thank you Psych2Go. Your videos are so helpful, being a man with depression, anxiety, low confidence and body issues is super hard . You help breakdown those issues people have and help people think in a new perspective. It is helping me at least get a different view. Thank you so much. Hope you have a good day .
I suggest working out if you dont. If you're able to dedicate time to it you can become naturally confident instead of relying finding things that give you superficial confidence.
There is no absolute and true number when it comes to attractiveness. There are no real fives, eights or threes. Having a realistic and grounded understanding of what attractiveness is and the role it plays in your life can have a big impact on your mental health. 😄😄😄
@@aspiretoinspire9679 they really did :( that's why social media affects so many kids and teens, like me. they feel like they have to meet a certain criteria in order to be pretty
@@smrithings Social media can then hurt your body image by constantly exposing yourself to the ideal body type, leading to constant comparison of yourself to unrealistic standards. Additionally, photoshop and filters are readily available to users playing into the unrealistic body image.
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
The truth is everyone is beautiful. Society puts this unrealistic standards that woman should be unrealistically skinny which lend to a lot of eating disorders. And that men shouldn’t cry and need to act “manly” and never show their vulnerable side which lend to a lot of men committing suicide.
I used to have a bright personality before I went to college and learned that people are hateful and don’t deserve an ounce of kindness that I would’ve given them in high school
@Psych2Go I have 2 topics I think would be interesting for you to cover. One thing that should have awareness spread about is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, it really was a turning point seeing that there was a description for what i was going through, and it made me feel less alone and hopeless. Another topic is messy parental relationships, where both sides are trying their hardest but it just isn’t going right, and is messy. I really need help with my messy relationship as my life and choices are restricted by my parents because they disagree with my beliefs and I can’t get the experiences i need to learn, and the things i believe and are part of me conflict with my parents beliefs, for a good example being bi and my parents believing you have to be born gay or else it is a sin or I am doing it because it being ‘popular’ influenced me, but she is still trying to work it out, and does her best, just sees what i see as impossible. It makes everything messy. Please consider making a video on what to do in these types of relationships, if you can either have a message towards parents or kids about these types of situations, it would help many lives, including my own. Love the content, you help me greatly every video even if it doesn’t relate to me, it educates me. Thank you
Thanks for sharing this Ryan! It sounds like something we can dive deeper into, but we don't. have the resources at the moment to talk about it, because it's an area we don't know much about too. Do you have some suggestions for videos you are currently watching on UA-cam?
@@Psych2go I don’t really have any videos for it, but I saw alot just searching Rejection Sensitive Disorder. I mostly just knew it by having it, which was being afraid of judgement even if it doesn’t matter what the person thinks, even to me. As an example I showed my friend a song and it was a bit out there compared to what he listens to and cracked a joke about it, but the next day I couldn’t listen to the song cuz i felt dumb about it. I have trouble in social interactions and contradictory to some things I found I like showing people stuff I did and having social interactions, I just come out feeling like I screwed up or made a fool of myself because I just didn’t know what to do. I felt stressed in rooms full of people, so classrooms weren’t fun, I could do work alone by a pond or at a park, but in a classroom I felt watched and judged just being there because I’m quiet and people make comments and remarks on not knowing what I have, implying I was a school threat, making me feel the entire school rejected me, when I am a very I don’t care I do me type guy. Little remarks will affect me more than they should and having a joke not land just makes me even more quiet, shy, and awkward. I am only quiet cuz people dont talk to me, or people who do are there to make fun of me, make a purposely short awkward interaction, or I just have trouble holding a conversation with them cuz I don’t like small talk. I felt like I was going insane over every little thing and I didn’t understand what to do causing frustration as well. That’s the most of it, the little joke pass offs of judgement have alot more effect than people seem to realize, and I really felt alone in it because of that, I have a crippling fear of overreacting leading to me under representing any problems I’m in greatly, and afraid of the judgement I didn’t really tell anyone much of this, only my online friends who I always look forward to talking to because they make me feel understood, the fear of being seen as dramatic, overreacting, that your emotions aren’t a valid excuse, and being asked ‘well whats so bad’ or ‘what is actually wrong’ adds stress because I personally just wanted to get out of every situation i could and sort it out online where im more comfortable, people understood my issue but my parents though I was overreacting and my emotions aren’t a valid excuse for slowing down in school, but I couldn’t do my work in the room full of people, but I couldn’t get them to understand that. That is all I’ve got actually now, wanted to add that your videos are phenomenal, love all the animation styles and you help alot of people
I'm loving this new voiceover, and the animation is adorable 💜🥺 Thank you; I think I was needing this today, and especially when having trouble sleeping and being sleep deprived due to anxiety makes it hard to feel confident in myself.
Extraordinary person reading this, you are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life! You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness and gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever! Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly ✨❤️ - Nat
Thank you for this video! I have had this problem all my life and I am 40 yrs old now!! I love your channel I'm so happy for all this information!!! God bless you 🙂
i’m like a person who’s like: damn i’m ugly and look like shit, and yet people at both work and school constantly tell my i’m pretty or ask for my snap. at this point i’m telling myself that those people just feel bad for me and are lying
Everytime I feel ugly and unattractive, I know I just need to get a new haircut. So off to my barber, I'd go. And voila, instant confidence boost! Doesn't matter if others find it attractive or not. I'm happy with the cut, and that's all the opinion I need.👍🏽
@@Psych2go ofc... Please.... While the previous voice still feels like asmr to the ears this new voice felt different & motherly to me, she has a warmth in her voice, really enjoyed 😄💖🌸✨ They can take turns voice-overing the vids 😄💖
So that's why I adore Izzy Moonbow so much. She is: True to herself Says her opinions Makes everyone happy Has her own style And has really pretty hair Of course, not a fictional crush, just a favorite character.
Just like a lot of comments have said, society is a messy place I’ve viewed myself poorly much like I feel most people do at some point but, in terms of this video I related to several. I’ve been told all these things like your pretty and beautiful, but I don’t think that. Yeah I’m never going to be some super model but I honor the good in people. Its a scary world and it’s surprising how a simple glance can actually have such a effect. Never take what you are for granted. I appreciate the video its made me think about how I view myself haha, in a good way. So thank you.
Nope, I have Avoidant Personality Disorder and avoid almost all contact with people..But I still enjoy watching these videos to see how the rest of the world behaves.
I don’t know how to be myself. I feel dull and like I don’t have a personality because I don’t know who I am or how to express it. Any interaction I have with strangers is executed through anxiety and fear of judgement. It’s a permanent mask that goes on as soon as I walk out the door. I’m tired of it and I just want to learn to be completely comfortable in my own skin.
Hi y'all! Take good care of yourselves! Be kind to your body:🧼🛁🪥🧴🩹 Dress warm and comfy:🧦👘 Get your vitamins:🍎🥝🍇🍑🫐 Get you minerals and fiber:🥦🌽🥔🥕🍅 Drink plenty of water:🥤🥤🥤🥤🥤 Treat yourself to something you enjoy:🎮🎳🧩🛹🎧 Express yourself:🎨🎸📸📝 Make sure to take relaxing rests:🛏️💤 🌈You matter! You are valid! You are important! You are valuable! Take care!🏳️🌈🏳⚧
I was literally just taking a series of selfies and I got a notification for this video lmfao I was really like "Do I look weird?" When the notification came lmfao 💞
Stop it. Jusss stop it. That's not entirely healthy to do consistently. Give yourself a break or you'll never be perfect enough for yourself. I got this way and ended being more narcissistic and even using steroids
@@chase4562 It's not that bad lmfao I haven't taken selfies in a long time and I hadn't seen myself on a camera in a bit. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for being concerned though! I appreciate it.
_ah, this helps a lot. you see, i'm non-binary who uses she as one of the pronouns, i've identified as a girl for the rest of my life, and since i used to identify as a girl only, i used to have long hair. my mom told me days ago that today, exactly, _*_today_*_ , a hairdresser would come to my house, and i wanted short hair with bangs that could cover my eyes, kinda like the alt hairstyle you can see in tiktok and pinterest. the thing is, my sister wanted the same hairstyle as me, the only difference being that she didn't want bangs. when she heard about what i want, she called me copycat (she meant it as a joke but it still made me feel kinda bad). when the hairdresser cut her hair, she looked so good. i got jealous. when it was my turn, i didn't want to tell the hairdresser what i wanted because my confidence crashed down. he only lowered the volume on my hair. i still don't feel like myself. that haircut was what would've made me happy with myself. even my mom thought it wouldn't really look good on me, but she obviously didn't say it because it was my choice._ _and of course, my family will compliment my sister more because she's prettier, it always happens._ _i'm sorry for my bad english._
You have good English. You should get that short haircut soon, maybe in another style. You and your sister are siblings, so you would both look good with the same haircut anyway! you can change the style of the short hair whenever you want, just do it
@@Psych2go the uplifting and bright personality (although sometimes I have struggles), I am pretty true to myself, I stay true to my style, I give my opinion, I see some people staring at me (my crush too 🙂) I am gay, I live in algeria so it's not easy to be gay and I have a crush, who I suspect is but I'm scared to tell him because we're good friends and everything, I don't want to ruin my image, because I'm seen as a very good person. I appreciate your videos, they helped me through depression and other things 😁 Thank you for making this content 🤗
You always add in new things into each video, nonstop if I do say so myself. Impressive, but don't you think it's best to take a brake, and what I mean is that we've passed over the halfway mark of the end of the month meaning.... It's almost the end of the year. ☃️❄️🎉 You know that everybody's got a limit on how much they can take a a certain point. 😉
Only #2 I can relate to I’ve been threw so much shit pretending to be someone else or harassed when I try to be myself. That I don’t know who I am and I have a really low self esteem and want to change how I look but are too scared to.
⭐️ *5 Powerful Ways To Become Your Best Self:* 1. Try new things. You can’t let yourself become complacent. Surprise yourself by pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone. Doing so will give your ingenuity and innovative side a boost. Plus, you will have discovered something new about yourself -- perhaps a hidden talent or an ability to learn something you didn’t think you were capable of. 2. Pursue your dreams. Most people on their deathbeds say their biggest regret was not living their life to the fullest and actually pursuing their dreams… Instead, most of them lived a life pursuing other peoples dreams (like their parents) and never end up being their own authentic self… Don’t wait until you’re on your deathbeds. Do it now. 3. Sustain your motivation. We all have days when we wake up just not feeling it. Those days when our brains won’t get going - we’d rather do anything besides working. But despite being low on energy or inspiration, you have to find a way to keep moving forward. Remember, progress is incremental. You have to find ways to keep that fire in your belly; to keep nurturing that deep desire to achieve. 4. Create good habits. Habits shape our life. But remember when developing a habit it takes time and repetition, and should be done slowly. Trying to change too many things at once will feel overwhelming and daunting. The goal is to make incremental changes to your lifestyle that eventually become a way of life. Remember that even small habits can have a powerful cumulative effect. 5. Focus on self-care. Never spread yourself too thin. Many times we focus too much on filling other peoples cups that we forget to fill our own… Don’t forget, you can’t be the best for others if you can’t be the best for yourself. If you’ve read this far and resonate with this post… Save it to remind yourself everyday and give it a thumbs up so others can see it and apply it as well! - Just an Alchemist, sending you lots of love 💜
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2. you have good hygiene and grooming 0:53
3. you are true to yourself 1:25
4. you stay true to your style 1:52
5. you give your opinion 2:22
6. you notice people staring at you, or raising their eyebrow 3:06
I hope I could help!
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how'd you reply 2 days before the video was posted
@@sunnyorange180 the video was unlisted
Wthell why this comment is 2 days ago and this vedio is came just now😐😰😨😱😱😱😱😳😳😳😲😲😲😵😵😵ottuke?
Haha I used to have great hygiene but now I go a week without washing because of depression
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Thank you for this! 🥳
someone else already made one
@@catropy I don’t see the other one though, so I’m commenting on this one
just a comment
@@ngantran9884 i was just pointing it out
I’m ace, and personally if I find someone attractive it is almost completely based on personality. All these things are quite accurate to me. Probably because I don’t form a huge amount of attraction towards people, and just form a general interest in them as a person
I would date an ace person (well woman because i'm a lesbian) :))
I don't think of myself as very attractive physically, so if they didn't care about that anyway, i would be honoured to have them like my personality
@@vappuluoma2918 hey I'm an ace "girl", wanna go out? ;)
(Haha I'm joking of course)
and it begins...
Doesn't this basically mean that you're just a bit shy in terms of love but your inner self doesn't want denie it anymore. I once was an ace myself but then I saw that it's just something you denie for dumb reasons. It took away allot of me
@@themasterofanalyticsandwie1342 what's an ace? ._.
The problem is that people who have low self esteem often have that in conjunction with other things. And they aren’t bright and uplifting, because they don’t feel good about themselves. And the reality is that they actually are very attractive, but their energy screams that they aren’t comfortable in their own skin, which has the result of making them be less attractive to others. It’s the opposite effect. They de-attractive themselves. The key is to somehow rise about that and love themselves from the inside, and then the self esteem follows. From there, they become more bubbly. And from *there* they are very attractive to others.
Bingo 👍
Thx for the tip. Appreciate it 👌
But remember *DONT bully YOURSELF into loving you* that is not the right way on learning how to love yourself
@@pirupami9746 or trauma…but let’s go ahead and gaslight someone and tell them it’s a lack of will.
Well, I actually grew to love myself, but still I'm an extremely shy introvert and I just can't make myself show just a bit of confidence outside, even if I know I can do something well or I feel good, or beautiful on that day. I just cannot and that's starting to frustrate me 😭
Especially when I'm watching videos like this, I think to myself "oh, I must be pretty attractive but let's click on this since I don't have anything better to watch" and I hear that I have to be confident, bubbly, happy all the time and pour my heart out on others. Nah. That's just not how I work. I prefer to leave this side of myself for people close to me and I feel a lot better this way.
I understand where this comes from but I feel like the society is pushing introverts too hard.
Come on, if you want to encourage us (I mean shy/insecure people here, not introverts ofc) to love ourselves, just show some love to us first. That's the first move, you can't just complain and say "oh, you should go out and see people, that will do". And trust me, introverts will appreciate every little gesture, just don't go overboard.
If you've read this till the end, have a nice day, because the comment started growing longer and longer and longer too fast as I was thinking what to write 😂❤️
As soon as she said “you maintain good grooming” I knew I was f’d
my game was already over at "bright and uplifting personality"
@@sonias9722 I stand with you solidarity my brethren. 🤝
I was Naturally Born with an Energetic Extroverted Personality (Which may be considered bright cuz people tell me it alot) But Here is a tip, Be Who you are you don't need to be An extrovert or super bubbly or ANYTHING to be attractive! You be you and People who have the taste will like you, In case of hygiene Just brush your teeth 2-3 times, Sometimes warm showers and Perfume will do the trick! :D for me I like Floral Fresh DetergentY smells, You should also take care of your hair since that's also a plus!! 💗💗🍨💖（☆/＞u＜/）
Hahaha I think we all fall into that trap.
@@Hay_Bay this isnt a matter of summers eve is it...😳
i can't 'be myself' around people lol there's too many judgemental people in this world who hate you for simply being yourself
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Keep being yourself, they may hate but who cares? Im rooting for ya, keep going 🌼
@@smrithings same applies to me as well. Being sensitive is totally okay☺️but i don't give a damn about what they think, cuz it's my life im the one who is supposed to live and make the best of it
Then screw those people dude. Stay true to yourself always
This is exactly why you must be yourself because since everyone is judgemental anyways whether you're at your best or worst be best
@Layane barbosa frrr
"Many complain of their looks, but none of their brains" - The Hunchback of Notre Dame
@Comical Realm Animations Exactly! I noticed that, also none worry about their inner beauty, which is more important.
@@Jackkenway people sacrifice their intelligence for looks and it manifests as narcissism and social complexes. I'm with you on that.
This is inaccurate. I complain about the way my brain operates. I also focus more of my thoughts on being beautiful inside than focusing on my outer appearance.
@@Jackkenway just be careful not to be so incredibly smart that you develop a superiority complex that makes people wanna ostracize you.
Looks don't last! The inner person does. Twilight Zone has a great episode about these grown kids putting these masks on their dying father gave them. Ugly masks. Their faces had become just like the hideous masks when they took off the masks after he died. They were not nice people. So the father wanted them to look like who they really were on the inside.
Thanks!
Yoooooooo
Interesting Fact: Good looks attracts the eyes, but a good personality attracts the heart.
Thanks for sharing this!
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Why did i waste my time on this
@@yln5825 lol
Thank you Psych2Go. Your videos are so helpful, being a man with depression, anxiety, low confidence and body issues is super hard . You help breakdown those issues people have and help people think in a new perspective. It is helping me at least get a different view. Thank you so much. Hope you have a good day .
I suggest working out if you dont. If you're able to dedicate time to it you can become naturally confident instead of relying finding things that give you superficial confidence.
Happy to hear that the content are digestible, and helpful! You have a wonderful day too!
Many people will love you for who you are, others will hate you for the same reason.
Just stay true to yourself
you guys posted this while i was feeling self conscious when getting ready to go somewhere
There is no absolute and true number when it comes to attractiveness. There are no real fives, eights or threes. Having a realistic and grounded understanding of what attractiveness is and the role it plays in your life can have a big impact on your mental health. 😄😄😄
Technically there are beauty standards but most of them are unrealistic, but there are attractive personality traits which is the main thing!
@@violetskiy854 I think social media promoted beauty standards in the worng way
@@aspiretoinspire9679 they really did :( that's why social media affects so many kids and teens, like me. they feel like they have to meet a certain criteria in order to be pretty
@@smrithings Social media can then hurt your body image by constantly exposing yourself to the ideal body type, leading to constant comparison of yourself to unrealistic standards. Additionally, photoshop and filters are readily available to users playing into the unrealistic body image.
@@aspiretoinspire9679 i've become very insecure because of it. people tell me i'm pretty but i see something else :( it's hard
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone else's inability to see your worth" -Something I saw on a whiteboard one time.
Your a fraud 😬
@@astalavista5328 Okay. If you think so....then okay.
@@thechancellor- I don't think so I know so as you posted the exact same comment on the last video
Thanks ❤️
The truth is everyone is beautiful.
Society puts this unrealistic standards that woman should be unrealistically skinny which lend to a lot of eating disorders.
And that men shouldn’t cry and need to act “manly” and never show their vulnerable side which lend to a lot of men committing suicide.
Nah, there's some people out there so ugly that it hurts to look at or even be around them.
Yeah man it seriously sucks... I'm a guy that can share my feelings really effectively but that's viewed as a weakness as people can take advantage
It's sad and ridiculous... sometimes
@@simonfrancis9009 distance yourself from people like that
@@nood1le where do you think ugliness comes from? Try to think about it.
Good job new VO! And shout out to Amanda too!
When i notice that someone is staring at me, i immediately think that somethins is wrong with me face :v
Bro are you also suffering from porn addiction
0:53 watching this after my hair being completely ruined at the salon hits hard man
I loved this video so much!
I relate to all 6 of them : ) . These signs made me feel happy
This confirms that I am just as fucked up as I think I am.
I used to have a bright personality before I went to college and learned that people are hateful and don’t deserve an ounce of kindness that I would’ve given them in high school
merry christmas everyone 🖤
thank you for uploading lol 🖤
Merry Christmas
me when I look at myself in the mirror: I'm gorgeous.
me when I look at myself in pictures: I'm hideous.
Can you please make video on 'Being Ignored'?
Your voice is so calming.
Hahaha I love the way she says certain.
@Psych2Go I have 2 topics I think would be interesting for you to cover. One thing that should have awareness spread about is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, it really was a turning point seeing that there was a description for what i was going through, and it made me feel less alone and hopeless. Another topic is messy parental relationships, where both sides are trying their hardest but it just isn’t going right, and is messy. I really need help with my messy relationship as my life and choices are restricted by my parents because they disagree with my beliefs and I can’t get the experiences i need to learn, and the things i believe and are part of me conflict with my parents beliefs, for a good example being bi and my parents believing you have to be born gay or else it is a sin or I am doing it because it being ‘popular’ influenced me, but she is still trying to work it out, and does her best, just sees what i see as impossible. It makes everything messy. Please consider making a video on what to do in these types of relationships, if you can either have a message towards parents or kids about these types of situations, it would help many lives, including my own. Love the content, you help me greatly every video even if it doesn’t relate to me, it educates me. Thank you
Thanks for sharing this Ryan! It sounds like something we can dive deeper into, but we don't. have the resources at the moment to talk about it, because it's an area we don't know much about too. Do you have some suggestions for videos you are currently watching on UA-cam?
@@Psych2go I don’t really have any videos for it, but I saw alot just searching Rejection Sensitive Disorder. I mostly just knew it by having it, which was being afraid of judgement even if it doesn’t matter what the person thinks, even to me. As an example I showed my friend a song and it was a bit out there compared to what he listens to and cracked a joke about it, but the next day I couldn’t listen to the song cuz i felt dumb about it. I have trouble in social interactions and contradictory to some things I found I like showing people stuff I did and having social interactions, I just come out feeling like I screwed up or made a fool of myself because I just didn’t know what to do. I felt stressed in rooms full of people, so classrooms weren’t fun, I could do work alone by a pond or at a park, but in a classroom I felt watched and judged just being there because I’m quiet and people make comments and remarks on not knowing what I have, implying I was a school threat, making me feel the entire school rejected me, when I am a very I don’t care I do me type guy. Little remarks will affect me more than they should and having a joke not land just makes me even more quiet, shy, and awkward. I am only quiet cuz people dont talk to me, or people who do are there to make fun of me, make a purposely short awkward interaction, or I just have trouble holding a conversation with them cuz I don’t like small talk. I felt like I was going insane over every little thing and I didn’t understand what to do causing frustration as well. That’s the most of it, the little joke pass offs of judgement have alot more effect than people seem to realize, and I really felt alone in it because of that, I have a crippling fear of overreacting leading to me under representing any problems I’m in greatly, and afraid of the judgement I didn’t really tell anyone much of this, only my online friends who I always look forward to talking to because they make me feel understood, the fear of being seen as dramatic, overreacting, that your emotions aren’t a valid excuse, and being asked ‘well whats so bad’ or ‘what is actually wrong’ adds stress because I personally just wanted to get out of every situation i could and sort it out online where im more comfortable, people understood my issue but my parents though I was overreacting and my emotions aren’t a valid excuse for slowing down in school, but I couldn’t do my work in the room full of people, but I couldn’t get them to understand that. That is all I’ve got actually now, wanted to add that your videos are phenomenal, love all the animation styles and you help alot of people
That was alot more than i thought it was-
I completely agree, I’ve always found genuine people to be the most attractive.,
I'm loving this new voiceover, and the animation is adorable 💜🥺
Thank you; I think I was needing this today, and especially when having trouble sleeping and being sleep deprived due to anxiety makes it hard to feel confident in myself.
Thank you so much for your positive feedback :) We're happy to help
This is a great reminder for me everyday of my life 💯🙏🏾
In jesus name we pray...amen.
The moment I heard the 2nd point, I knew it's so not me xD
Extraordinary person reading this, you are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life! You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness and gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever! Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly ✨❤️ - Nat
@Nathalie Lazo You have no idea how much I needed to hear that! Your kindness and positivity is contagious, thank you from the bottom of my heart. ❤
Thank you ❤️ ❤️
Perfectly worded. It's a tad fluffy but you're a girl so...👍
@@chase4562 It's perfectly worded, period.
Not sure what are you trying to say, but you're a guy so...
ok but what am i gonna do about my bad math grades those actually do matter a lot, no matter what i do xD
Being around the one that loves/cares/stands up for you brings that best out of that person
Thank you for this video! I have had this problem all my life and I am 40 yrs old now!! I love your channel I'm so happy for all this information!!! God bless you 🙂
Sometimes I like myself, sometimes I just can't. And I always get worried about what people think of me, it feels awful.
I am stunned to admit that all of these things apply to me. ?! And I am 75! What a beautiful surprise! Thank you so very much. 🙋♀️🇺🇸🤗
i’m like a person who’s like: damn i’m ugly and look like shit, and yet people at both work and school constantly tell my i’m pretty or ask for my snap. at this point i’m telling myself that those people just feel bad for me and are lying
I stopped being sweet and warm to others, because I only end up being taken advantage of when I had that trait.
For me, being attractive means catching attention, If a person's style catches my attention I would definetely try to know them better
some ppl say I'm super attractive and others says I'm ugly behind my back 🙂
The one's that say you're ugly are jealous of your beauty 💅
The new VO is cute!!
“You have a bright and uplifting personality.”
Me, a pessimistic introvert: WELP
Everytime I feel ugly and unattractive, I know I just need to get a new haircut. So off to my barber, I'd go. And voila, instant confidence boost! Doesn't matter if others find it attractive or not. I'm happy with the cut, and that's all the opinion I need.👍🏽
your voice is so sweet
Awesome music and soothing voice!!
This video so nice it made me cry a little bit
tysm this video made me feel a bit better about myself!
1:46
"There's a difference between confident and cocky." Yeah, I wrote that in 2015.
LESS GO 0/6 IM SOO BEAUTIFUL WOO
No matter what, please keep on loving yourself with care and patient! In the end of the day, you only have yourself ❤️i love ya
Due to my bad eyesight i cant even see if someone is staring at me or at someone else behind me😐
Thankyou so much for this i really needed this . have a great day 😌
Glad to help :) How many signs did you resonate with?
Ik I'm not the only one who thinks they need a pod cast on Spotify
Like come on we need one
THE ANIMATION IS THE BEST 🌸❤
Thank you :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go
Sure ! ^^
Keep going ! :)
Ahh, her voice... Feels motherly... So soothing 😄💖🌸✨
Thank you :) Would you like to listen to more of this voiceover in our future videos?
@@Psych2go ofc... Please.... While the previous voice still feels like asmr to the ears this new voice felt different & motherly to me, she has a warmth in her voice, really enjoyed 😄💖🌸✨
They can take turns voice-overing the vids 😄💖
Something I’ve learned is: Stay healthy (gym and eating habits), cleanliness, dress in comfortable basic clothing.
That new cut was fly btw
Sense of humor goes a very long way for me!
So that's why I adore Izzy Moonbow so much.
She is:
True to herself
Says her opinions
Makes everyone happy
Has her own style
And has really pretty hair
Of course, not a fictional crush, just a favorite character.
@@pirupami9746 the my little pony character in my profile picture!
@@pirupami9746 ah i didnt even watch all of gen 4 but i know pretty much everything about it
@@pirupami9746 i know. I just meant i didnt watch all episodes or every spinoff lol
People say such wonderful things about me, but I still feel kind of awful about myself.
I don't know why.
awww, thank u for this
Thanks for that. Now I don't think I am ugly I believe it
Just like a lot of comments have said, society is a messy place I’ve viewed myself poorly much like I feel most people do at some point but, in terms of this video I related to several. I’ve been told all these things like your pretty and beautiful, but I don’t think that. Yeah I’m never going to be some super model but I honor the good in people. Its a scary world and it’s surprising how a simple glance can actually have such a effect. Never take what you are for granted. I appreciate the video its made me think about how I view myself haha, in a good way. So thank you.
“Or are they looking at those beautiful eyes of yours?”
*laughs in black eye color*
These videos make me confidence
I got zero signs but,
that video was sweet. i'm gonna try to improve about those things
Brilliant video.
I consider myself ugly, but often realize i look even worse than i think.
Victoire and I are attractive af
Slayyy....... Queen 👸👸👸👸👸👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
I really (really) like the new voice!
Love the video presentation this channel is so soft i love the chill time we pass by watching the videos
Emilly's voice is very calming
Nope, I have Avoidant Personality Disorder and avoid almost all contact with people..But
I still enjoy watching these videos to see how the rest of the world behaves.
Me too 🐿️
Awesome as always. Thanks.💞😁😇
Awww the last one 😭😭
This video had the opposite effect on me lol
LOVE THIS VIDEO!!
I'm very aware of how good I look. As a matter of fact I have to keep myself from getting conceited.
I don’t know how to be myself. I feel dull and like I don’t have a personality because I don’t know who I am or how to express it. Any interaction I have with strangers is executed through anxiety and fear of judgement. It’s a permanent mask that goes on as soon as I walk out the door. I’m tired of it and I just want to learn to be completely comfortable in my own skin.
Hi y'all! Take good care of yourselves!
Be kind to your body:🧼🛁🪥🧴🩹
Dress warm and comfy:🧦👘
Get your vitamins:🍎🥝🍇🍑🫐
Get you minerals and fiber:🥦🌽🥔🥕🍅
Drink plenty of water:🥤🥤🥤🥤🥤
Treat yourself to something you enjoy:🎮🎳🧩🛹🎧
Express yourself:🎨🎸📸📝
Make sure to take relaxing rests:🛏️💤
🌈You matter! You are valid! You are important! You are valuable! Take care!🏳️🌈🏳⚧
Positive vibes coming from you 👍
This video came at the right moment.
Psych2go: Be yourself.
Social chamaleons: *chuckles*
I have all of these things!
Good for you 👍
I can believe it. Especially if that avatar is a rendering of you.
Must not be an accurate video, then.
@@nood1le It is accurate.
@@nood1le Drinas right...tis accurate.
Thank you for making great videos. Keep up the amazing content
Me When others judge me for what I wear: so, you have chosen.....death
Beautifull video by the way
Love this
0:54 "goorimng?"
Your videos really help me
wow i’ve never realised how unattractive i must come across to others haha
I was literally just taking a series of selfies and I got a notification for this video lmfao
I was really like "Do I look weird?" When the notification came lmfao 💞
Stop it. Jusss stop it. That's not entirely healthy to do consistently. Give yourself a break or you'll never be perfect enough for yourself. I got this way and ended being more narcissistic and even using steroids
@@chase4562 It's not that bad lmfao I haven't taken selfies in a long time and I hadn't seen myself on a camera in a bit. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for being concerned though! I appreciate it.
_ah, this helps a lot. you see, i'm non-binary who uses she as one of the pronouns, i've identified as a girl for the rest of my life, and since i used to identify as a girl only, i used to have long hair. my mom told me days ago that today, exactly, _*_today_*_ , a hairdresser would come to my house, and i wanted short hair with bangs that could cover my eyes, kinda like the alt hairstyle you can see in tiktok and pinterest. the thing is, my sister wanted the same hairstyle as me, the only difference being that she didn't want bangs. when she heard about what i want, she called me copycat (she meant it as a joke but it still made me feel kinda bad). when the hairdresser cut her hair, she looked so good. i got jealous. when it was my turn, i didn't want to tell the hairdresser what i wanted because my confidence crashed down. he only lowered the volume on my hair. i still don't feel like myself. that haircut was what would've made me happy with myself. even my mom thought it wouldn't really look good on me, but she obviously didn't say it because it was my choice._
_and of course, my family will compliment my sister more because she's prettier, it always happens._
_i'm sorry for my bad english._
Don't worry your English is very good. I hope you will find the courage to be more yourself cause it is what makes you beautiful
@@lisa80 _Thank you_
You have good English. You should get that short haircut soon, maybe in another style. You and your sister are siblings, so you would both look good with the same haircut anyway! you can change the style of the short hair whenever you want, just do it
Lol watching this to feel better after my "friends" told me I was horrible in every way 😍
are they really your friends then?
That's a enemy not a friend very 🐍 I hope you find better friends much love ❤️
I relate to almost all of them, thank you for making me feel better 😁
Glad to hear that :) Which points do you resonate with the most?
@@Psych2go the uplifting and bright personality (although sometimes I have struggles), I am pretty true to myself, I stay true to my style, I give my opinion, I see some people staring at me (my crush too 🙂)
I am gay, I live in algeria so it's not easy to be gay and I have a crush, who I suspect is but I'm scared to tell him because we're good friends and everything, I don't want to ruin my image, because I'm seen as a very good person. I appreciate your videos, they helped me through depression and other things 😁
Thank you for making this content 🤗
You always add in new things into each video, nonstop if I do say so myself.
Impressive, but don't you think it's best to take a brake, and what I mean is that we've passed over the halfway mark of the end of the month meaning.... It's almost the end of the year. ☃️❄️🎉
You know that everybody's got a limit on how much they can take a a certain point. 😉
Only #2 I can relate to
I’ve been threw so much shit pretending to be someone else or harassed when I try to be myself. That I don’t know who I am and I have a really low self esteem and want to change how I look but are too scared to.
Awww! This really gave me and my bestie a confidence boost! :))
I don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me with any expression other than disgust in my entire life.
⭐️ *5 Powerful Ways To Become Your Best Self:*
1. Try new things.
You can’t let yourself become complacent. Surprise yourself by pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone. Doing so will give your ingenuity and innovative side a boost. Plus, you will have discovered something new about yourself -- perhaps a hidden talent or an ability to learn something you didn’t think you were capable of.
2. Pursue your dreams.
Most people on their deathbeds say their biggest regret was not living their life to the fullest and actually pursuing their dreams… Instead, most of them lived a life pursuing other peoples dreams (like their parents) and never end up being their own authentic self… Don’t wait until you’re on your deathbeds. Do it now.
3. Sustain your motivation.
We all have days when we wake up just not feeling it. Those days when our brains won’t get going - we’d rather do anything besides working. But despite being low on energy or inspiration, you have to find a way to keep moving forward. Remember, progress is incremental. You have to find ways to keep that fire in your belly; to keep nurturing that deep desire to achieve.
4. Create good habits.
Habits shape our life. But remember when developing a habit it takes time and repetition, and should be done slowly. Trying to change too many things at once will feel overwhelming and daunting. The goal is to make incremental changes to your lifestyle that eventually become a way of life. Remember that even small habits can have a powerful cumulative effect.
5. Focus on self-care.
Never spread yourself too thin. Many times we focus too much on filling other peoples cups that we forget to fill our own… Don’t forget, you can’t be the best for others if you can’t be the best for yourself.
If you’ve read this far and resonate with this post… Save it to remind yourself everyday and give it a thumbs up so others can see it and apply it as well!
- Just an Alchemist, sending you lots of love 💜