I so believe everything in life happens in your best interest, in the long run! We want to ttc this year (like wish we could right now), but I haven’t ovulated since having Brio. W/ my last baby I did everything I can to get my cycle regulated & get pregnant, but this time I’m really just putting it in God’s hands and like, hey if this happens it happens when it’s supposed to. I’m not forcing it. By this point in postpartum I’ve been pregnant every time or finding out I’m pregnant so it’s weird to not be in that position and to be in control of that this time. But sending you baby dust,, babes 💗💗✨✨✨
Honestly I would wait until you both feel absolutely more than 💯 certain you are done having babies before doing anything permanent. I thought I was absolutely done after having my surprise baby, and had my tubes tied. Shortly after, I was hit with horrible regret. It didn't get less or go away. Ultimately I ended up having to save up money to get my tubal reversed and I had my reversal baby in 2018. I feel absolutely 💯 certain we are done now, but when you know you are done, you don't get emotional or sad about no more babies. You feel total peace. So make sure you have that before doing anything permanent.
Praying for you.I was here for your first journey and saw how hard it was on you.Sending good vibes and wishes your way.I was born January 11 1970.I was my mom's first and we almost didn't make it to the hospital,I was almost a car baby 😮.So Happy Birthday to your little guy 🎉❤.
I'm glad to see you made a decision. I couldn't have been an easy one. My husband got his snip done last April, the day it happened. i was really upset and angry at him for making the decision for us, while we agreed earlier that 2 children were enough, but my heart is bigger to have more, but that feeling passed, the anger, for acceptance. And now.... i am in the 2 week wait, for surrogacy baby, for 2 lovely men....😂❤ It's, however, with my own egg and one of the intended parents' swimmers. 😊
I highly recommend reading spirit babies by Walter mackichen. I know you're a spiritual person and it's a book how babies choose parents and what can prevent parents from conceiving.
I think it’s better to try than having that regret the rest of your life. I said no more babies after I had my 3rd girl but then after my grandpa passed I decided one more try for that boy! & we both had mc at the same time and that’s when I followed you! But we tried and got our boy! 4 is tough but I wouldn’t change a thing. But I’m set on no more babies lol but my husband wants more. He’s crazy! But can not wait for whatever path you take ❤
That’s so exciting! Are you planning to share the journey like you were previously or keep it private? Also, I respect your choice of the one more cycle, but I also feel like putting that amount of pressure on yourself to succeed, so to speak, can really be scary and could set you up for some self loathing with feelings of failure. Atleast, that’s how it would make ME feel.
I’m not really sure how much I’ll share to be honest.. it’s so vulnerable and I’ll just see how I’m feeling in the moment and go with that. I definitely feel the pressure of it being one more time but I genuinely feel content if it doesn’t happen. I want it too but I can also accept if it doesn’t 💜
I found you when you started this ttc journey. Know that if for no other reason, you have helped me with my ttc journey. We have been trying since June to get pregnant with #2, and still no luck. I got pregnant with #1 on the first try. This has been absolutely killing me for 8 months and you sharing your journey has helped me, at least a little. So thank you. 🤍
Thank you so much for sharing this with me 🥹💜 I’m praying so hard it happens for you soon!! Sometimes it’s so hard to go through and share but hearing that it’s helping you literally makes my day. It can be a lonely place so I’m happy we can connect and be there for each other 🥹💜💜
I so believe everything in life happens in your best interest, in the long run! We want to ttc this year (like wish we could right now), but I haven’t ovulated since having Brio. W/ my last baby I did everything I can to get my cycle regulated & get pregnant, but this time I’m really just putting it in God’s hands and like, hey if this happens it happens when it’s supposed to. I’m not forcing it. By this point in postpartum I’ve been pregnant every time or finding out I’m pregnant so it’s weird to not be in that position and to be in control of that this time. But sending you baby dust,, babes 💗💗✨✨✨
Honestly I would wait until you both feel absolutely more than 💯 certain you are done having babies before doing anything permanent. I thought I was absolutely done after having my surprise baby, and had my tubes tied. Shortly after, I was hit with horrible regret. It didn't get less or go away.
Ultimately I ended up having to save up money to get my tubal reversed and I had my reversal baby in 2018. I feel absolutely 💯 certain we are done now, but when you know you are done, you don't get emotional or sad about no more babies. You feel total peace. So make sure you have that before doing anything permanent.
Thank you for sharing this!!! I think your point is so important and I will definitely take it into consideration for sure! ♥️
Praying for you.I was here for your first journey and saw how hard it was on you.Sending good vibes and wishes your way.I was born January 11 1970.I was my mom's first and we almost didn't make it to the hospital,I was almost a car baby 😮.So Happy Birthday to your little guy 🎉❤.
Thank you!!! Happy birthday as well ♥️♥️♥️
i'm a firm believer that your babies chose you, and what's meant to be will be! that's how I got through our fertility journey
Agree 100000% and that’s what gives me that peace 🥰
I'm glad to see you made a decision. I couldn't have been an easy one.
My husband got his snip done last April, the day it happened. i was really upset and angry at him for making the decision for us, while we agreed earlier that 2 children were enough, but my heart is bigger to have more, but that feeling passed, the anger, for acceptance.
And now.... i am in the 2 week wait, for surrogacy baby, for 2 lovely men....😂❤
It's, however, with my own egg and one of the intended parents' swimmers. 😊
Wow that’s amazing!! 💜
Wishing you peace with whatever comes next for you and your family🤍
Thank you 🥰💜
Praying for you ✨️
Thank you ♥️♥️
I highly recommend reading spirit babies by Walter mackichen. I know you're a spiritual person and it's a book how babies choose parents and what can prevent parents from conceiving.
I think it’s better to try than having that regret the rest of your life. I said no more babies after I had my 3rd girl but then after my grandpa passed I decided one more try for that boy! & we both had mc at the same time and that’s when I followed you! But we tried and got our boy! 4 is tough but I wouldn’t change a thing. But I’m set on no more babies lol but my husband wants more. He’s crazy! But can not wait for whatever path you take ❤
Awww that’s so amazing 🥹 congratulations!! I’m so sorry for your loss too ♥️ I’m trusting whatever unfolds for us, thank you for the sweet words 🥰💜
That’s so exciting! Are you planning to share the journey like you were previously or keep it private? Also, I respect your choice of the one more cycle, but I also feel like putting that amount of pressure on yourself to succeed, so to speak, can really be scary and could set you up for some self loathing with feelings of failure. Atleast, that’s how it would make ME feel.
I’m not really sure how much I’ll share to be honest.. it’s so vulnerable and I’ll just see how I’m feeling in the moment and go with that. I definitely feel the pressure of it being one more time but I genuinely feel content if it doesn’t happen. I want it too but I can also accept if it doesn’t 💜
I found you when you started this ttc journey. Know that if for no other reason, you have helped me with my ttc journey. We have been trying since June to get pregnant with #2, and still no luck. I got pregnant with #1 on the first try. This has been absolutely killing me for 8 months and you sharing your journey has helped me, at least a little. So thank you. 🤍
Thank you so much for sharing this with me 🥹💜 I’m praying so hard it happens for you soon!! Sometimes it’s so hard to go through and share but hearing that it’s helping you literally makes my day. It can be a lonely place so I’m happy we can connect and be there for each other 🥹💜💜