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nobody says "have a great day" the way Jerry does it, every time he says it I've got the feeling that he knows how f... difficult it is to allow myself to have a great day
Thanks Maria Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional helpful recovery information. Also, Please sign up for the upcoming workshop “Getting Your Family of Origin Out of You” Workshop Date: February 6, Saturday Time: 1pm EST - 5pm EST Zoom www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/events [Even if you are not able to attend, if you sign up for this workshop, I will send you your own copy of the full workshop and the workshop notes]
Intentionally grieve the loss of love and acceptance ( that fix ) imagine standing alone and strong. Letting the earth and ground holding you up. You are behind you. It’s a very strong emotional place. Identify things that give you pleasure without others. What do you enjoy doing? Alone. Think about if everyone left you what would you chose to do. Work at being or standing alone while with others. Be an island. Have bridges and ferries but be an alone. We are all islands. He is so good. Listen to him. My comment is just for myself as notes.
The sharks can sniff out any loneliness like smelling one drop of blood in the water; so then they devour us and happily swim away; why? because the sharks are attracted to lonely people. Why? Because they know that we will be less likely to judge and reject them, so they can succeed with using us. We have to be our own best advocate.
1. Find fear and deal with fear; Loneliness is the result of unresolved childhood issues. Neediness and overfusion/enmeshment= abandonment ; Stand alone/Give up for neediness & love & approval/self differentiation/practice non neediness =true connection; Self abandonment is root of all AC issues. Learn connectedness with ourselves. Then can connect with others. Build Emotional backbone=be alone and be ok. 2. Build ability to go without love and acceptance 3. Learn how you react to learn about yourself and that relationship. *Intentionally grieve the loss of love and acceptance/approval. Standing alone and be supported by you and earth under you. Staying connected and being yourself. Identify ways to please and pleasure to yourself without others. 4. What we do without anyone vs with others- take inventory. 5. Stand alone while working with others. Be an island(self) but with bridges(connections).
My family made me realise a very long time ago that the best way is to be alone. I don't know love because I haven't experienced it but am very happy by myself. People who pretended to love me (my family of origin didn't do that) just wanted something from me.
I knew my family didn’t approve of me, but thought surly to God they love me. I’m family. Once I realized my family doesn’t love me, I struggled, but it helped to remind myself nothing has changed but my awareness. That helped me realize I don’t need love or acceptance from a constant presence and that my friends know how to love so treat me with love. As my friend just said to me the other day, “Oooo, Alicia, I love you so much, you just don’t know.” Just because people society says should love and accept you don’t doesn’t make you unlovable. Love me some bridges to my beautiful island refuge.
For us to feel loved we first must love ourselves. Check out Margaret Paul's book "Inner Bonding" it might help. Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional helpful recovery information. Also, Please sign up for the upcoming workshop “Getting Your Family of Origin Out of You” Workshop Date: February 6, Saturday Time: 1pm EST - 5pm EST Zoom www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/events [Even if you are not able to attend, if you sign up for this workshop, I will send you your own copy of the full workshop and the workshop notes]
I reached out to my sisters one last time yesterday and they're not going to change ever. I'm the scapegoat and they attack like wolves if I show any weakness
It was the last Buddah teaching, that every man is an island. And one of the main yoga poses is called mountain, when the person who practise yoga is invited to feel the support of the earth standing on their feet, and look at the horizon, imagening that they are a strong mountain. Aren't those beautiful metaphors for what Jerry described in this video.
I found this the most helpful video I’ve seen (I’ve seen a few). The simple guided imagery has already helped me feel more able and more secure, so less likely to look to others to validate me. Thank you, your transformation is amazing by the way, good on you.
I have shared this video more than any other. It has put things into perspective for me in a way that nothing else has. Through deep inner work I have developed self acceptance, self respect and self love. It feels glorious. Thank you, Mr. Wise. You are very wise.
Abandonment is not a feeling. Serious neglect is real. And you will be blamed and shunned for your condition. That's how suicide happens. I hope humanity evolves beyond the need for "families" and gender.
It seems that that change is slowly happening. The inaquality in men and woman is very clear to see now. In our incomes, the way a men is hold to a much much lower standard. And how he has to act tough almost like a emtionless being. And how woman are called crazy for showing emotions. Limiting both sexes of being themselves
Thank you, Jerry, for all your brilliant insight, and ability to help people like me, to understand the whole situation of having been born into a toxic family.
You are so welcome! I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021 “Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom Sign up on website to get info on workshops www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/event-details/overcoming-guilt-and-shame-through-family-of-origin-work-workshop Sign up now for early bird price I also have three other workshops for rent or sale on my website: • Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop • Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop • Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional
You are very welcome Thank you for your kind words Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional helpful recovery information. Also, I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021 “Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom Sign up on website to get info on workshops www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/event-details/overcoming-guilt-and-shame-through-family-of-origin-work-workshop Sign up now for early bird price I also have three other workshops for rent or sale on my website: • Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop • Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop • Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
You're a good man! I,m so glad I found you and thank you for being here and posting all your videos. This is a very helpful, thought provoking channel. I,m going to watch as much as I can!
@@judemaleski4853 The context of this matters. if you no longer let anyone into your life without filters, you enjoy time alone and your close relationships are nurturing than this is a good place to be in. If it's out of avoidance, not knowing how to truly connect with others then this could be another form of reactivity. A healthy self is a connected self.
@@jerrywise thank you again 🙏. I really appreciate the fact you take time out to reply to me individually as you must be an incredibly busy man. That is a good answer to ponder on. Bless you.
I agree that depression in part is deficit of pleasure and it's also unfinished grieving, perhaps in a larger part Great "island" metaphor. Totally agree I listen to them over and over again for the content but also your soothing manner and voice it's kind of like ASMR 🌝
You are very welcome “Standing Strong as an Adult Child of the Narcissist” Workshop Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC July 17th, 2021 Saturday, 1-5pm Eastern time On Zoom Topics: The Illusions of the Narcissist The Trauma of Adult Children of Narcissists Living in the War Zone 7 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You Were Raised by a Narcissist 10 Ways Children of Narcissists Love Differently Healing Your Inner Parts and Inner Bonding Resisting Self-hate, Self-shaming, Self-rejection, Self-abandonment Cutting the Emotional Umbilical Cord: Going No Contact or Low Contact with Toxic Parents Superpowers All Adult Children of Narcissists Have And more… Lead by Jerry Wise Founder of Jerry Wise Relationship Systems and You-tubber of over 250 videos. Q & A Role Plays Volunteer participation You will receive the recorded workshop You will receive the notes for the workshop www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/events
I would have done anything to get love mixed with abandoned fears and trauma i lived n live in fear no security and now i am learning to trust i wont be put on street but still now sober so afraid of people
Feeling Good- The book you recommended Jerry, is really helpful. I'm taking it today to read in a local huge public garden that I bought a membership to last Sunday. I read it there last week and God surprised me with a deer showing up behind me to nibble on leaves (a rare occurrence.) I so enjoy seeing the Mule deer. Such a special highlight of the day. I didn't feel as lonely enjoying that beautiful place with a book to guide my thoughts more positively. I hope your video encourages others to buy that book. Its available used on the internet.
I have felt lonely since the age of 3. I'm 76 now, and there is not e left accept my husband of 81 years old. Statistics say he will leave 1st. I think about that every day.
Coming home after work tonight, 9pm. I have a 30 minute ride home. 2 inches of new snow...no empathy. Such as glad you made it home safely, good your home - nothing. I am alone in this marriage for the last 2 years. 9 years.total. I am going to grieve the loss of love and acceptance. My narcissist husband is emotionally unavailable. I am getting used to no communication because it only opens up the opportunity for him to jab at me.......tiresome!!!
Thanks for sharing a part of your story. You don't sound happy. Maybe for your own sanity and health, plan an escape for your self. Maybe for filing divorce you need evidence of abuse. Record a few conversations where he verbally and emotionally attacts you. Inform someone you can trust. Save as much money as you can. File for divorce and than pack your bags and leave. Run and never look back
I can never sustain a relationship even with my own adult child . I just had a get together with my 1st boyfriend I had when I was 4 yrs old after 50 years of not seeing each other I was so hoping for a spark ⚡️ some connection but I didn’t feel any . I feel so lost & alone . I spend most of my time with my dog and cat . But still want more.....
Could the neediness actually be internal desire to be alone (we really don't trust) since it drives others away? As in the "I love you. Go away" message. I now see that I've been given that message, and have given that message. :/
How dont I feel hungry when I am hungry? How do I not feel alone when I am alone? (Theeefore not attracting to me the narcisists) I just dont understand it!! Please, help
Good questions Maria Write to me and I will send you a reading list, not all feelings are what they appear to be. jerrywise5@gmail.com Thank you for watching.
Hello sir ....how are you ??? I really do need help right now I'm in the shelter due to the narcs abuse etc....i just need help so that i can take career and life to the next level ...i will be wating for your request promply.......its a long story...thank you sir
Mr Wise, why do you not answer our questions, the point of following and listening to you is also to get to know what you are all about, not personal but things that I feel I need to no in order to be able to follow you comfortably. So why to you not answer my questions. I will wait for your response, otherwise I will not follow you anymore. It essential for me to follow a person who has the values as me.
Hi it is simply a matter of time. I cannot respond to every posting I am sorry. Did you have a specific question that I could help you with? There are so many posts per day I cannot possibly get to all of them. I want to thank you for watching.
Finally get your family OUT OF YOU & be the true self you were never allowed to be 👇
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nobody says "have a great day" the way Jerry does it, every time he says it I've got the feeling that he knows how f... difficult it is to allow myself to have a great day
Thanks Maria
Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional helpful recovery information.
Also,
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Date: February 6, Saturday
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Going without love is not enough. You have to learn to provide everything for yourself with no assistance or training or preparation.
Absolutely! I am learning how to do this.
Been doing it for years. Didn’t realize how bitter the lack of love had made me, though. Learning how to be ok without that too.
You’re missing a word: Aporoval
Dad is my narc bully; I deserve better than him for a father; I am not in contact with him!
Intentionally grieve the loss of love and acceptance ( that fix )
imagine standing alone and strong. Letting the earth and ground holding you up.
You are behind you. It’s a very strong emotional place.
Identify things that give you pleasure without others. What do you enjoy doing? Alone.
Think about if everyone left you what would you chose to do.
Work at being or standing alone while with others. Be an island. Have bridges and ferries but be an alone. We are all islands.
He is so good. Listen to him. My comment is just for myself as notes.
The sharks can sniff out any loneliness like smelling one drop of blood in the water; so then they devour us and happily swim away; why? because the sharks are attracted to lonely people. Why? Because they know that we will be less likely to judge and reject them, so they can succeed with using us. We have to be our own best advocate.
Well said.I met a few sharks in my life.
It turned me to a shark doing any desperate thing when drinking to get it. Agreeing and doing thingd i should not . The worst feeling ever.
Thank you for the brilliant analogy.
Yes sociopaths, psychopaths prey on the vulnerable.
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1. Find fear and deal with fear;
Loneliness is the result of unresolved childhood issues.
Neediness and overfusion/enmeshment= abandonment ;
Stand alone/Give up for neediness & love & approval/self differentiation/practice non neediness =true connection;
Self abandonment is root of all AC issues. Learn connectedness with ourselves. Then can connect with others. Build Emotional backbone=be alone and be ok.
2. Build ability to go without love and acceptance
3. Learn how you react to learn about yourself and that relationship.
*Intentionally grieve the loss of love and acceptance/approval. Standing alone and be supported by you and earth under you. Staying connected and being yourself. Identify ways to please and pleasure to yourself without others.
4. What we do without anyone vs with others- take inventory.
5. Stand alone while working with others. Be an island(self) but with bridges(connections).
Thank you Jerry. I've spent my whole life going from one shrink to another. You are truly a God send 🙏🏾
My family made me realise a very long time ago that the best way is to be alone. I don't know love because I haven't experienced it but am very happy by myself. People who pretended to love me (my family of origin didn't do that) just wanted something from me.
I knew my family didn’t approve of me, but thought surly to God they love me. I’m family. Once I realized my family doesn’t love me, I struggled, but it helped to remind myself nothing has changed but my awareness. That helped me realize I don’t need love or acceptance from a constant presence and that my friends know how to love so treat me with love. As my friend just said to me the other day, “Oooo, Alicia, I love you so much, you just don’t know.” Just because people society says should love and accept you don’t doesn’t make you unlovable. Love me some bridges to my beautiful island refuge.
For us to feel loved we first must love ourselves. Check out Margaret Paul's book "Inner Bonding" it might help.
Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional helpful recovery information.
Also,
Please sign up for the upcoming workshop
“Getting Your Family of Origin Out of You”
Workshop
Date: February 6, Saturday
Time: 1pm EST - 5pm EST
Zoom
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/events
[Even if you are not able to attend, if you sign up for this workshop, I will send you your own copy of the full workshop and the workshop notes]
This man is a legend.
Oh my
Thank you for your kind words
I reached out to my sisters one last time yesterday and they're not going to change ever. I'm the scapegoat and they attack like wolves if I show any weakness
Don't show weakness and NEVER EVER EVER give them any personal info about yourself again!!
And keep your distance!!
Jerry is Wise!
Thank you, I'm glad you like my work
This is the best explanation I’ve heard . Thank you Jerry for your commitment to help us heal our heart. You are so wise!
It was the last Buddah teaching, that every man is an island. And one of the main yoga poses is called mountain, when the person who practise yoga is invited to feel the support of the earth standing on their feet, and look at the horizon, imagening that they are a strong mountain. Aren't those beautiful metaphors for what Jerry described in this video.
I found this the most helpful video I’ve seen (I’ve seen a few). The simple guided imagery has already helped me feel more able and more secure, so less likely to look to others to validate me. Thank you, your transformation is amazing by the way, good on you.
I have shared this video more than any other. It has put things into perspective for me in a way that nothing else has. Through deep inner work I have developed self acceptance, self respect and self love. It feels glorious. Thank you, Mr. Wise. You are very wise.
So many priceless gems of wisdom here -- so helpful, thank you!
Abandonment is not a feeling. Serious neglect is real. And you will be blamed and shunned for your condition. That's how suicide happens. I hope humanity evolves beyond the need for "families" and gender.
Just because you have gender issues don't put that out there that gender is a hindrance to this world. Come on now you know that is nonsense.
It seems that that change is slowly happening. The inaquality in men and woman is very clear to see now. In our incomes, the way a men is hold to a much much lower standard. And how he has to act tough almost like a emtionless being. And how woman are called crazy for showing emotions. Limiting both sexes of being themselves
Sorry to hear about the neglect, you can heal if you run to Abba Father, our God who loves us more than any human ever could.
Thank you, Jerry, for all your brilliant insight, and ability to help people like me, to understand the whole situation of having been born into a toxic family.
Glad you find it helpful. Thank you for watching!
Yeah. But I've been alone and lonely for so long. It's exhausting.
Jerry Wise, this one is so good, I had to watch it again. Oldie, but goodie.
Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching!
I'm saving this video and will listen to you over and over again. ❤🙏🏻👍🏻
I’m glad you found it helpful 😊🤍
You’re truly a lifesaver. Thank you for putting all these great explanations online. Really appreciate it.
You are so welcome!
I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021
“Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work
It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom
Sign up on website to get info on workshops
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/event-details/overcoming-guilt-and-shame-through-family-of-origin-work-workshop
Sign up now for early bird price
I also have three other workshops for rent or sale on my website:
• Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop
• Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop
• Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional
Jerry, your work is brilliant and you live up to your last name.
"THANK YOU!" for sharing.
You are very welcome
Thank you for your kind words
Please join as a paid member for $1.99/month on my UA-cam channel, click JOIN and support the free videos on my UA-cam channel, also you will get notifications of upcoming events and additional helpful recovery information.
Also,
I have another workshop coming up in April 10, 2021
“Overcoming Shame and Guilt with Family-of-origin Work
It will be April 10th Saturday 1-5pm EST on Zoom
Sign up on website to get info on workshops
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/event-details/overcoming-guilt-and-shame-through-family-of-origin-work-workshop
Sign up now for early bird price
I also have three other workshops for rent or sale on my website:
• Introduction to Self-Differentiation-Workshop
• Reducing Your Reactivity-Workshop
• Getting Your Family-of-Origin Out of You-Workshop
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
Jerry you are simply awesome..WooHoo..
You're a good man! I,m so glad I found you and thank you for being here and posting all your videos. This is a very helpful, thought provoking channel. I,m going to watch as much as I can!
Thank you again, this really resonates. I am off to a monastery today 🤗
Glad it resonated Jude ❤️
What if I enjoy being by myself so much I don’t want to be around people much?
@@judemaleski4853 The context of this matters. if you no longer let anyone into your life without filters, you enjoy time alone and your close relationships are nurturing than this is a good place to be in. If it's out of avoidance, not knowing how to truly connect with others then this could be another form of reactivity. A healthy self is a connected self.
@@jerrywise thank you again 🙏. I really appreciate the fact you take time out to reply to me individually as you must be an incredibly busy man. That is a good answer to ponder on. Bless you.
This is such a great video with so much insight. Learned a lot listening to this.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Amazing video. Thank You for this information . Very powerful for me
I agree that depression in part is deficit of pleasure and it's also unfinished grieving, perhaps in a larger part
Great "island" metaphor. Totally agree
I listen to them over and over again for the content but also your soothing manner and voice it's kind of like ASMR 🌝
Thank you for watching Michele
Wonderful presentation, as always. Thank you, Jerry.
could not stop listening to this....very hepful
thank you for the truth that you tell us.
Thank you very much for your wonderful videos...💕
You are so welcome!
Thanks Jerry.
You are very welcome
“Standing Strong as an Adult Child of the Narcissist”
Workshop
Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC
July 17th, 2021 Saturday, 1-5pm Eastern time
On Zoom
Topics:
The Illusions of the Narcissist
The Trauma of Adult Children of Narcissists
Living in the War Zone
7 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You Were Raised by a Narcissist
10 Ways Children of Narcissists Love Differently
Healing Your Inner Parts and Inner Bonding
Resisting Self-hate, Self-shaming, Self-rejection, Self-abandonment
Cutting the Emotional Umbilical Cord: Going No Contact or Low Contact with Toxic Parents
Superpowers All Adult Children of Narcissists Have
And more…
Lead by Jerry Wise Founder of Jerry Wise Relationship Systems and You-tubber of over 250 videos.
Q & A
Role Plays
Volunteer participation
You will receive the recorded workshop
You will receive the notes for the workshop
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/events
Great wisdom, thank you
Glad it was helpful!
I would have done anything to get love mixed with abandoned fears and trauma i lived n live in fear no security and now i am learning to trust i wont be put on street but still now sober so afraid of people
Feeling Good- The book you recommended Jerry, is really helpful. I'm taking it today to read in a local huge public garden that I bought a membership to last Sunday. I read it there last week and God surprised me with a deer showing up behind me to nibble on leaves (a rare occurrence.) I so enjoy seeing the Mule deer. Such a special highlight of the day. I didn't feel as lonely enjoying that beautiful place with a book to guide my thoughts more positively. I hope your video encourages others to buy that book. Its available used on the internet.
I am going to purchase this book as well.
It will help you to survive.
Hvala ti Jerry! Thank you from my heart!
I have felt lonely since the age of 3. I'm 76 now, and there is not e left accept my husband of 81 years old. Statistics say he will leave 1st. I think about that every day.
One of those videos that I didn’t want to end. Such helpful info.
Like I say all the time, I can totally relate to all of your videos. I am trying to integrate your Family Systems approach with IFS approach.
Thank you Roxana, thank you for your support! ❤️
Thankyou for your guidance and support 🙏
Coming home after work tonight, 9pm. I have a 30 minute ride home. 2 inches of new snow...no empathy. Such as glad you made it home safely, good your home - nothing. I am alone in this marriage for the last 2 years. 9 years.total. I am going to grieve the loss of love and acceptance. My narcissist husband is emotionally unavailable. I am getting used to no communication because it only opens up the opportunity for him to jab at me.......tiresome!!!
Thanks for sharing a part of your story. You don't sound happy. Maybe for your own sanity and health, plan an escape for your self. Maybe for filing divorce you need evidence of abuse. Record a few conversations where he verbally and emotionally attacts you. Inform someone you can trust. Save as much money as you can. File for divorce and than pack your bags and leave. Run and never look back
Thank you :)
I can never sustain a relationship even with my own adult child . I just had a get together with my 1st boyfriend I had when I was 4 yrs old after 50 years of not seeing each other I was so hoping for a spark ⚡️ some connection but I didn’t feel any . I feel so lost & alone . I spend most of my time with my dog and cat . But still want more.....
Fantastic 💖💖
Thanks Jerry 🙏🏼
Thank you
Hello Jerry. Good to see you.
Thanks, that was valiable info. Much abliged🌹
I can stand alone but still fear if I dont please others I will be rejected
Standing alone often means others will reject us
Da Bearsss.. my hometown
Could the neediness actually be internal desire to be alone (we really don't trust) since it drives others away? As in the "I love you. Go away" message. I now see that I've been given that message, and have given that message. :/
How dont I feel hungry when I am hungry?
How do I not feel alone when I am alone? (Theeefore not attracting to me the narcisists)
I just dont understand it!! Please, help
Good questions Maria
Write to me and I will send you a reading list, not all feelings are what they appear to be.
jerrywise5@gmail.com
Thank you for watching.
Thank u for sharing what is so difficult 2 face +own. Self?? Its as u say. Uck
Hello sir ....how are you ??? I really do need help right now I'm in the shelter due to the narcs abuse etc....i just need help so that i can take career and life to the next level ...i will be wating for your request promply.......its a long story...thank you sir
You can contact me at jerrywise5@gmail.com
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Mr Wise, why do you not answer our questions, the point of following and listening to you is also to get to know what you are all about, not personal but things that I feel I need to no in order to be able to follow you comfortably. So why to you not answer my questions. I will wait for your response, otherwise I will not follow you anymore. It essential for me to follow a person who has the values as me.
Hi it is simply a matter of time. I cannot respond to every posting I am sorry. Did you have a specific question that I could help you with? There are so many posts per day I cannot possibly get to all of them. I want to thank you for watching.
Also you could send it directly to jerrywise5@gmail.com, this would also get my attention.
ok I appreciate this. thank you, I will send my questions. my importantly and basic question is, are you a real christian???
are you a real christian, that is my most important christian, and thank you for answering.
CUTE GIRLS how would that make a difference?
Thank you