My Father was stuck in scammer madness, I want to share his story

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  • @ScammingScammers
    @ScammingScammers  2 роки тому +49

    Just a reminder, all the scammer encounter stories are verified, often the victim or victim's family sends us documentation and proof which we can not share here as it contains their personal details. With that being said, a lot of the victims who come to us ask to remain anonymous, which is why we do not post their photos, personal names, locations etc. Please be respectful to the victims. If you were the victim of a crime where you lost money to someone you've never met, would you want your photo, personal info or loved ones info on a UA-cam channel for the world to go after you? NO, so please stop writing disgusting comments about you wanting to "see" the victim. If you don't like the content, unfollow the channel, simple. In this case the victim is deceased and the family asked we do not publish his photo's or personal details. Be respectful or find another place to be. We've spent nearly a decade helping victims, we don't need to "prove" anything to heartless doubters. We respect victims and their families enough not to post and plaster their personal details here. Many of these stories and the backstories can be found on our page but when it comes to keeping a victim safe, we will never plaster their photos here for your amusement. Period.

    • @vickibragg2473
      @vickibragg2473 2 роки тому +4

      😭

    • @newgabe09
      @newgabe09 Рік тому +2

      Well said. There are other well done exposé sites re romance scams but I'm sometimes sorry for the victims who appear on them as the comments section usually insults the hell out of them.

    • @thisperson5294
      @thisperson5294 Рік тому +2

      ​@@newgabe09 Absolutely. People come just to jeer. One time, the victim came on and tried to argue back, but they were vile to her.

  • @sharonweaver5137
    @sharonweaver5137 3 роки тому +142

    That is the saddest story I've ever heard l am 72 years old n l was scammed like this gentleman. I was totally under his control and l wouldn't listen to anyone either. Finally my son had a intervention with other family members. I had my phone taken away and my reaction was l wanted to commit suicide. Thank god l got counseling n l am doing good . I send my prayers to that woman n her family. SCAMMERS DONT CARE ABOUT ANYONE JUST THE MONEY.!!! 😭😭😭😭

    • @JakeSVanHfan
      @JakeSVanHfan 3 роки тому +12

      I am glad you were able to escape the clutches of these assholes. They may get away with the scam now but as they get older tables can and turn on them. They just don't know it yet.

    • @debbiekent4986
      @debbiekent4986 3 роки тому +7

      Amen

    • @peerdousakip1402
      @peerdousakip1402 3 роки тому +7

      Always tell someone about your online romeo. IT may be your son, niece or nephew who will knock some sense in us.

    • @LightnLife3
      @LightnLife3 3 роки тому +8

      I'm thankful to God for your son's intervention. So glad you are okay.

    • @karenobana4255
      @karenobana4255 3 роки тому +10

      I have a friend who is sure that the two 20-something beauties who contacted him out of the blue are going to be moving in with him any day now, as soon as he sends them more money for plane tickets, suitcases, and god only knows what else. He’s almost 70. I’ve tried talking to him and have offered to show him that he’s being scammed by some thug from Nigeria. That was about a month ago and my friend no longer speaks to me. God bless your son - he sounds like a good man and I hope you know how blessed you are to have him.

  • @debbiekent4986
    @debbiekent4986 3 роки тому +76

    I'm not married my husband passed away, Thank God I know about this, Thank you Jesus

    • @AnnaCN78456
      @AnnaCN78456 3 роки тому +7

      God bless you be careful please 💖💖💖

    • @jeng8401
      @jeng8401 2 роки тому

      Widows are a big target for scammers. They know they aren't used to being alone and will let their guard down if it means they think they have a new love and marriage. And then suck them dry until they have nothing.

  • @Jenny010132
    @Jenny010132 2 роки тому +17

    These scammers are pure unadulterated EVIL.

    • @Starscream2588
      @Starscream2588 6 місяців тому

      That they are & when we confront them Like I did on facebook. They tell me to go to hell for all they care. I told them I am not the one stealing money from people. Plus when they don't get what they want. They turn very, very nasty. I wouldn't waste my time with even one. let them in.

  • @grant7345
    @grant7345 3 роки тому +56

    the Police in Ghana must be receiving money from these scammers to protect them, I am sure of that, same in Nigeria

    • @ScammingScammers
      @ScammingScammers  3 роки тому +20

      Yes absolutely, the corruption runs deep

    • @StellaFl
      @StellaFl 3 роки тому +7

      Plus, they'd rather have them scamming westerners than killing each other in the streets of Accra and Lagos. It's a win-win situation for those governments.

    • @Lea941
      @Lea941 3 роки тому +5

      @@ScammingScammers actually what they are doing is a HATE crime. On many of the stories when the scammers are talking, I hear a common theme, they hate white people and are getting revenge

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 3 роки тому +1

      @@Lea941 yes they hate wat they do some hate yes but most are stuck in this life they can be beat or killed if tried to leave

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 3 роки тому +2

      This is so sad my goodness how could people b so cruel they dont Care one scammer on one of these shows on youtube they said they pray for the people they scam but I'm sure they laugh on how much they have took god bless you beth for telling your tragic story

  • @LightnLife3
    @LightnLife3 3 роки тому +32

    Choked up. This is the most devastating and tragic scamming story I've ever heard. Lord, have mercy. I can't imagine the pain this poor man's family went through and is going through. God be with them, and may they find justice, peace, and closure.

    • @PungiFungi
      @PungiFungi 2 роки тому +1

      I am not choked up. I am LIVID. These scammers do not care who they destroy. They have no conscience. They think because we live in America that everybody is swimming in money and they are entitled to take it.

  • @GradKat
    @GradKat 2 роки тому +26

    I think Western governments should stop sending aid to these countries, until THEIR governments do more to tackle this problem. Scamming in Nigeria is blatant - admired, even.

    • @JewishKeto
      @JewishKeto 8 місяців тому

      Yea and there are plenty of other ways to send money if you legit know someone there who needs money

    • @rubym357
      @rubym357 7 місяців тому

      Any aid we give to any country (including 1st world European ones) is about 1% of our GDP. It's negligible and does nothing. Nigeria and Ghana are resource rich nations, both in oil and Ghana also has gold mining. There is NO REASON why these nations shouldn't be an African version of Dubai. The problem, the world won't confront the ripple effects of slavery and colonization. Both Ghana and Nigeria were British colonies, They extracted resources (including kidnapping people) and not developing the colonies for the native population who lived there. Instead, they cultivated an elite class exploiting their tribal system which turned into political factions in time for independence in the 1960s and then they went to war. You can see how complex these problems are, and Nigeria has Islamist terrorism in the poorly developed north with drug traffickers in the coastal south making things worse. Scamming is just part of organized crime, and bad behavior is rewarded more than problem solving because it's easier and it's the little guy who usually fits the bill.

  • @annaamalia7189
    @annaamalia7189 3 роки тому +50

    I got physically sick listen to this. May the scammers rut in hell what can I say.? Don't sent money.
    Thanks daughter sharing this story of your dad this happen to many men and women. The criminals know the can't be held responsible for their vicious acts. Thanks for posting.
    It's called addiction ..to a fairy tale. Fight people fight. No response is the best response.

    • @BEEGm2w
      @BEEGm2w 2 роки тому

      Crying as I am typing 😢💔

  • @sekenamcmurren2217
    @sekenamcmurren2217 3 роки тому +55

    Tragic.. These bastard scammers are truly evil, my deepest condolences to the victims daughter & family.😣 Thank you for narrating this story William.💐💔

    • @denisespencer6550
      @denisespencer6550 Рік тому

      I know. I was nearly scammed 3 years ago.
      These people are absolute scumbags and they're also murderers.
      People kill themselves out of shame

  • @helensmith2839
    @helensmith2839 3 роки тому +39

    Scammers literally have no soul.

    • @gabrieleröllke5661
      @gabrieleröllke5661 3 роки тому +3

      And fake God-fearing...

    • @gabrieleröllke5661
      @gabrieleröllke5661 3 роки тому +2

      They have a soul but if they do scam over and over again they cross borders and then their souls are gone.... like murders....

    • @angiedixon8017
      @angiedixon8017 3 роки тому

      Sold it to the devil

    • @Salimadu
      @Salimadu 2 роки тому +1

      @@Stephany-x4k in this case the scammers killed this man.

    • @Starscream2588
      @Starscream2588 6 місяців тому

      They start as young as 10 years old scamming.

  • @jeanblattner3070
    @jeanblattner3070 3 роки тому +34

    This is the saddest story I have ever listened to, my heart breaks for this family and I hope by telling it they gain some peace of mind by helping others. May their dad RIP and the family heal. I am sure the heart break of this must be horrible, but they tried their best to stop it. Scammers are heartless and and the officials in these countries should be ashamed of themselves when they tell families there is nothing they can do. They are choosing not to do anything. Thank you to SSA for all you do to highlight these scammers and educate people by telling these stories and helping us who come for help. This is a terrible tragedy, but one that really tells how bad scammers really are.

    • @denisespencer6550
      @denisespencer6550 Рік тому

      These people are absolute scumbags and they're also murderers

  • @fortunatastabile2362
    @fortunatastabile2362 2 роки тому +4

    If this was a made for TV movie, I would have said it's totally unbelievable. But I know you verify the facts and this is absolutely a true story. What a terrible tragedy to this man and his family.

  • @rizayap9469
    @rizayap9469 3 роки тому +27

    Such a heartbreaking story.This is how scammers manipulate their victims and try to isolate them from their families.😢😢😢

  • @phetsamysengsiri1779
    @phetsamysengsiri1779 3 роки тому +31

    Thank you, my family member had been scammed on romance but she felt so emotionally heartbroken. It took her awhile to shake it off it can happen to anybody.

  • @skyserene0152
    @skyserene0152 3 роки тому +27

    My emotions over this story are all over the place, it's the saddest story I've ever heard, we hear lots of stories but this one will never leave me. The family did everything they could do, i hope they can rest knowing this. Much love to them 🥰

  • @lolaschwify
    @lolaschwify Рік тому +1

    Herregud så tragiskt !, jag finner inga ord ! Så hemskt jag fick tårar i ögonen när jag hör detta. Dessa bedragare har inget samvete och ingen själ i kroppen. Mina tankar går till anhöriga. ❤

  • @nancihost3787
    @nancihost3787 3 роки тому +19

    This is horrendous story. I am so very sorry for the man's family. I am so sorry for your pain.

  • @trueromancescamvi
    @trueromancescamvi Рік тому +2

    😭😭😭Oh My! This is one of the worse Romance Scam Stories I have heard; My heart goes out to this family🙏 What goes around, comes around.... He did not get away, his reward is coming!...

  • @cmstacy
    @cmstacy 3 роки тому +41

    What a heartbreaking story. It brought tears to my eyes. I only recently came across scambaiting videos and have learned quite a bit about the scams and how it is operated. I thank you for informing me and others about these situations. Keep up the great work. TFS

  • @joeygrey9878
    @joeygrey9878 2 роки тому +14

    This is beyond heartbreaking. Can anything be done besides file a police report! Come on....
    This family is so wonderful. They did everything they could. We need some new international laws targeting these monstrous scammers.

    • @denisespencer6550
      @denisespencer6550 Рік тому +1

      Well said

    • @Drakkar2992
      @Drakkar2992 Рік тому +1

      These leeches keep the economies of their home countries going, just like the scam call centers in India do. The corruption level is enormous and nothing is done about this. They gladly look away if they get a small portion of the scammed profits. Scam bosses in India pay the police to not interrupt their "business". All scammers are heartless monsters.

  • @laurencampbell5064
    @laurencampbell5064 2 роки тому +4

    this is the most depraved thing, to think of that 23 year old man with their mom's diamond necklace. jesus.

  • @lindacurtis3513
    @lindacurtis3513 Рік тому +2

    I am so sorry for what happened to your father .The scmmers are abundant...as a 72 year old woman i get baombarded with friend requests and comments .It angers me that it seems they can do this without any repercussions . I pray your father is resting in peace next to his true love Condolences to you and your family ..❤

  • @Chaseniceness
    @Chaseniceness 3 роки тому +10

    That is one of the worst scammer stories I have heard.
    So glad he had you. It was tough to deal with your dad having a go at you.
    I heard Western Union have banned payments abroad.

    • @dianachin4849
      @dianachin4849 3 роки тому

      I also think that gift cards should also be banned. What do you think?

  • @dianalovescolors
    @dianalovescolors 3 роки тому +44

    Please talk to your parents about scams BEFORE they have time to get mixed up in one. Ask them to tell their friends about scams. ALL of them! In an age where so many seniors are on line they need to know how to protect themselves.

  • @katarina1852
    @katarina1852 3 роки тому +5

    Something similar happened to my mother’s elderly neighbor who had been widowed for many years. The scammers had her brainwashed for over four years. She was in love with someone named “Craig” who was supposedly in his 50’s. Mom’s neighbor was in her 80’s. She ended up sending all her savings, took out a second mortgage on her house and sent that money, became unable to pay water and electricity bills, and could no longer afford her monthly medications. She died from the complications brought on from missing her necessary medication (heart and blood pressure meds). No one could convince her it was a scam…her sister, her nieces, my mom, the bank, etc. She had no children. Very tragic story. These scammers are emotional terrorists.

  • @Poobaldy559
    @Poobaldy559 2 роки тому +1

    This is the saddest story yet! I actually got choked up listening to this

  • @annsam2111
    @annsam2111 3 роки тому +19

    I pray that God repays them for their deeds. These nasty scammers are so evil. Poor man 😢😢

  • @eunicemauldin7492
    @eunicemauldin7492 3 роки тому +18

    This is the most sorrowful SCAMMING story I have ever heard. My heart goes out to this woman and her family.
    This is EVIL in its purest form. I can just see this SCAMMER laughing and dancing. God is watching all he is doing and his wrath will be upon this man.
    The biggest evil is to use someone's love in their spirit.
    I was scammed too...I lost a lot of money by my standard of living. I am still not out of the woods. One day I will tell you my story.
    Something has got to be done about this. This cannot happen to someone else. There is no closer for a family when this happens. I know...my mom died a few yrs ago...thats a whole other story...but I know how they feel and quite a bit of what they have gone thru.
    My heart breaks for them.
    Thanks for your story...your dad's heart was in the right place..he just didn't realize the truth. It's not his fault.
    Thank y'all for telling their story...there has to be a way to stop this.
    I love your channel and love y'all for all you do...
    This has made me cry...it was so sad for this family..and myself as well.
    These people cannot be allowed to take lives like this..their is no justice, for the love of money is the root of all evil.
    Take care...

    • @dianachin4849
      @dianachin4849 3 роки тому +1

      It's the scammer's fault for being dishonest in the first place

    • @critical_thinker73
      @critical_thinker73 3 роки тому +1

      Why did God not step in and stop the scammer?

  • @rosemariemcgowan6388
    @rosemariemcgowan6388 3 роки тому +16

    Sad part is he could be speaking to a young lad or anyone!! Sometimes I think Internet was a bad idea x

  • @peerdousakip1402
    @peerdousakip1402 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you very much for sharing this story.
    I have learn to be wary after this. My 63 year old friend sold her apartment in Singapore which was worth $280,000 and gave all the money to this scammer who promised to be her husband. Now she is living at the airport.

  • @b.irenebedard2359
    @b.irenebedard2359 3 роки тому +9

    This story of an elderly man who had all the needs in life of family, home and future. This is the ultimate of sadness when someone this man had not even met in person can manipulate someone to give all they have. It cannot say it too many times how these scammers are heartless vultures! Sometimes very innovative and detail oriented who respond daily to personal questions and seem sincere, but thier objective is to get someone hooked and squeeze money for their cause. They have no conscious or guilt.

  • @tquestel
    @tquestel 3 роки тому +6

    My mum is 84 and has lost her house a and every cent. And no longer speaks to any of her family. And yes, her thinking is crazy with these despots dabbling in her head every day. Now she just waits and wait s for him to get to Australia. She was actually stopped at the airport by the federal police, when she tried to surprise her lover by leaving for America. Now she has very little money because she's renting a house, but does things like bus two mangoes instead of just one for herself in case he gets into Australia in the middle of the night. It's madness

    • @LightnLife3
      @LightnLife3 3 роки тому +3

      I'm so sorry. That's incredibly sad.

  • @bethpoler2973
    @bethpoler2973 3 роки тому +14

    Amazing daughter, son & son-n-law,staying close to their father....Please don't blame yourself.Scammers have no shame.So many its hard to keep up with all the various ways they come up with to steal from innocent people..........I recently started learning about Scam's just a 2.5 yrs. ago. Plus beware of money mules,makes me 🤒🤮💔😢.........
    I cried after this video,Im so,so,sorry for this family's loss,😢🙏🕊⚘......

  • @blackestknight1.0
    @blackestknight1.0 3 роки тому +8

    And this is why I keep on emphasizing on why it's important to check on your friends and family. This is So sad.

    • @EuleneWages4644
      @EuleneWages4644 3 роки тому +1

      Yes I've got young friends this has happened to

  • @teresahammonds7039
    @teresahammonds7039 3 роки тому +9

    That's a sad story . I'll keep this person in my prayers . I don't understand how people can be so cruel it's sad. And yes I got angry too

  • @nickyjersey8895
    @nickyjersey8895 3 роки тому +9

    I listened to every single one of these videos but I must of missed this one. This is the most SADDEST and most heartbreaking one I've heard. I hope her family has done some healing and may her father rest in peace. These people are nothing but dirtbags and they WILL get their karma one day. ❤❤

  • @racheljeffs1518
    @racheljeffs1518 3 роки тому +20

    I'd got tears in my eyes listening to this,these scammers or the lowest of the low scum bags .I hope that one day they all get their comeuppance.

  • @uyoebyik
    @uyoebyik 3 роки тому +13

    It seems like an addiction similar to gambling and love ìsss the big win they're chasing

  • @kathymartin3527
    @kathymartin3527 10 місяців тому +1

    I cant imagine the frustration this family went through

  • @marymcmullen5150
    @marymcmullen5150 2 роки тому +3

    Rest in Peace, dear man. I think the whole of Society should get involved in stoping these scammers. What if we all remain alert and play their game. If we all rise up in the hondreds, they will get the message and the authorities also.

  • @CoffeeBeanWitch
    @CoffeeBeanWitch 3 роки тому +6

    There is a special kind of hell for people that exploit folk like this. I can only pray for Karma on the scammers. They live for the material life but I hope one day what they do to others will come back three fold on them.

  • @mellel5594
    @mellel5594 3 роки тому +4

    I have listened to many, many romance scam stories, and this is by far the saddest.

  • @sm3296
    @sm3296 3 роки тому +5

    Omg this is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for this family. It’s as bad as drug addiction.

  • @felicitywillboughby6901
    @felicitywillboughby6901 3 роки тому +6

    My goodness gracious!. My heart goes out to this daughter and her family. These scammer things have no place in society. I feel such disdain for these criminals.

  • @denisebreshears7166
    @denisebreshears7166 Рік тому +1

    I can’t believe how much the story sounds just like my dad right now we are going through the same exact thing he lost everything his credit cards, all his good credit, a car and RV and he’s pretty close to losing his home and he still believes these people this womanis my dad 78 and this woman’s 54 my age he believes she’s still sending him $20,000 but every day there’s just an excuse and then 65,000 was supposed to come but the IRS had to hold of it. It’s all a bunch of lies, lies, and more lies. I am so sorry I totally understand your struggles because we’re going through the same exact thing my dad to Vietnam vet as well this madness it just seems like it’s never going to end. My mom passed away last year and we don’t know what else to do we’re at our end we’re at our wits end, it’s never gonna stop

  • @blair2018
    @blair2018 Рік тому +1

    this hurt to listen to. her father was addicted to this. im an alcoholic and i understand pushing people away that love you, isolating and totally ruining my life to feed my addiction. although i can't understand HIS addiction to all of this, i understand what he felt. i am so broken at how he passed and that his life ended in such a painful way.

  • @AnnaCN78456
    @AnnaCN78456 3 роки тому +4

    I cried with this story… please be careful out there! God bless this family and give them strength.

  • @mildredpierce4506
    @mildredpierce4506 Рік тому +1

    I always wonder about the people who suggest that their family member try online dating and then that family member gets scammed. I know they have to feel horrible.

  • @z.h.a.t8964
    @z.h.a.t8964 2 роки тому +1

    One of the saddest scam stories I've ever heard. I'm so sorry for the family of this man.

  • @bamu8328
    @bamu8328 3 роки тому +13

    So very, very sad. It's time for people to recognize that online scams can lead to mental illness, specifically a delusional disorder. It's very, very real, brought on by acute loneliness, depression, grief, denial, and trauma. Imagine the pain of realizing you've been tricked and lied to. You will hold on with dear life to that delusion rather than face the truth. It's time.

  • @callmebailey
    @callmebailey 2 роки тому +2

    Wow this one really touched me! Thanks for finding the strength to share!!!

  • @monicarathbun5433
    @monicarathbun5433 3 роки тому +13

    How absolutely heartbreaking 😭

  • @BEEGm2w
    @BEEGm2w 2 роки тому +1

    This was the most heartbreaking scammer story I have ever heard 😢💔there is a special place down there for those scammers.. It might take a while, but he'll get there.. I am so heartbroken for the family. What loneliness can do to people.. I have been living on my own for a long time now and never considered anything online dating.. And after this sad story I am so sure I never will.. 😥

  • @janetbrown6409
    @janetbrown6409 3 роки тому +2

    This is so sad. Such callous people in the world. The poor scammed mam and his family. X

  • @hellabarnett5564
    @hellabarnett5564 3 роки тому +12

    How very sad, deepest condolences to Beth

  • @elliebakalova1239
    @elliebakalova1239 3 роки тому +4

    Oh dear, that truly was heartbreaking. I'm sorry your family had to go through this, I'm sorry your father fell for it. It's unbelievable how they can get through to vulnerable and well-meaning people.

  • @djs2182
    @djs2182 2 роки тому +2

    Wow…this is the saddest one yet 🥺 That poor family

  • @LittleKitty22
    @LittleKitty22 3 роки тому +10

    Gosh, this story is shocking even to me and I've been through hell myself (not with romance scammers)! I can only hope that the family, and the man's soul, find peace somehow! I am truly lost for words!

  • @barbaramcnerney9166
    @barbaramcnerney9166 3 роки тому +9

    This is just 💔. The limit to which these scammers can go is obviously sky plus +. My heart goes out to his daughter Beth and Her Family. May the happy memories of Your Parents replace the indescribable events of Your life that You have endured. God Bless. 💖 💐 💝 🌹 ❤

  • @lindapringpuangkeo4661
    @lindapringpuangkeo4661 3 роки тому +23

    I wish elders would understand handsome hunks dont hunt and hotties dont go on dating sites. It is better to find someone more mature. more your age gap then this hot male model or sexy chick that is at least 15-20 years younger.

    • @JDOGFTW
      @JDOGFTW 3 роки тому +7

      Good point. I went on a latin website. Then these hotties started contacting me. I was skeptical. Because on sites like hinge or tinder i barely got noticed. Im learning slowly. Hot woman dont have problems finding attention.

    • @shy_sorai_vlogs
      @shy_sorai_vlogs 3 роки тому +3

      Yep. This is sad, but it wouldn't have gone so far without pics of a pretty model.

    • @Itried20takennames
      @Itried20takennames 3 роки тому +4

      90% plus of seniors know this…my parents are mid-80s, very Internet knowledgeable and would laugh at any model suddenly chasing them as much as if a Nigerian prince heard they were a trust-worthy person who could help them in a great business deal. These stories are the tragic minority. But 50% of us have some degree of dementia by the same age, and before the symptoms are full blown (can’t correctly name year) - there can be a decline in judgement, especially who to trust.

  • @susansstudio267
    @susansstudio267 3 роки тому +2

    This is the saddest story I’ve seen yet. Stop the scammers anyway you can.

  • @gingers8457
    @gingers8457 3 роки тому +12

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Beth

  • @yanickbernadeau26
    @yanickbernadeau26 3 роки тому +8

    Wow, I think we need also to warn our young children as well, it's so 😥

  • @hannahw4769
    @hannahw4769 3 роки тому +8

    That is so sad. This people are evil.

  • @darlenelavigne8106
    @darlenelavigne8106 Рік тому +1

    I am so sorry about your dad...Your dad didn't deserve any of this...The only thing he had left was his life and at the end they took that too ..Just because he had a heart of gold.. He was a war hearo.And made it back safely. And the scammers took that. At the end..All he wanted was to be loved again by a new wife..He was thinking .that she was all he had .So he had to help her..I was crying while you was telling his story..When you said that they told him think she would die just like his other wife...😢That riley hit me hard..how cold can someone be...He work hard all his life. and served his country And someone to do this is so heart breaking..I must have listened to over 100 of thes videos. But this one is the saddest.I am so sorry that they took him away from you..Thank you for your dad service...RIP

  • @magewong4782
    @magewong4782 3 роки тому +8

    So sorry to hear this,thanks for sharing 🌹

  • @maureenhuddleston2857
    @maureenhuddleston2857 3 роки тому +6

    Sorry about your Dad!😢 My condolences! 😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @laurajames9855
    @laurajames9855 3 роки тому +6

    I am so sorry for your loss and what happened to your dad God bless you and your family

  • @sueknoll8567
    @sueknoll8567 3 роки тому +20

    So sorry this happened to this family, these scams are relatively new and there isn't much of a plan for a way to combat them once they start with a person.

  • @patricegraham8136
    @patricegraham8136 3 роки тому +3

    I'm at a lost for words just when I thought the last story I listened to was shocking.this is so sad 😢

  • @earth-warrior
    @earth-warrior 3 роки тому +3

    This is so SO sad. After a background in fraud I help people realise they are talking to scammers, and no I dont charge before anyone asks. I have ONE rule of thumb tho… IF YOUR GUT INSTINCT IS TELLING YOU THAT THINGS AREN’T RIGHT… I’m 99.9% sure YOUR TALKING TO A SCAMMER. Listen to that little voice you try to block out.♥️

  • @susanaf2286
    @susanaf2286 3 роки тому +6

    Wow..Such a sad story 😭 Thanks for your story 🙏

  • @pineappleballs7593
    @pineappleballs7593 3 роки тому +30

    Damn, bet they wish they never got him a laptop in the first place. Wish they had put some site access restrictions on there like child friendly or individually block money transfer sites etc. Anyway, the story is heart breaking and a lesson and a half. Condolences.

    • @marciathehooligan9967
      @marciathehooligan9967 Рік тому

      Site restrictions. THAT is a great idea and you are the first person whose mentioned this!
      Wow! Great idea!

  • @janananabeenthere
    @janananabeenthere 3 роки тому +3

    Ohhhhh, ohhh my poor darling!
    How awful is that!??
    Terrible terrible awful!

  • @sherry3242
    @sherry3242 3 роки тому +4

    Wow, no words. Truly hearbreaking.

  • @B.H.56
    @B.H.56 3 роки тому +3

    This is my worst fear as I get older, that my mind will go and I will be victimized.

  • @MsBarbara.651
    @MsBarbara.651 3 роки тому +3

    This is so sad. Scammers are disgusting.

  • @debbiekent4986
    @debbiekent4986 3 роки тому +7

    I'm so sorry that happened to you dad

  • @agnetakubik6654
    @agnetakubik6654 2 роки тому +1

    This is the saddest story i ever heard of ! May this gentleman rest in peace ! My prayers go to his family. I also pray God to punish these heartless scammers.

  • @malcolmhartley6458
    @malcolmhartley6458 3 роки тому +3

    The isolation of the victim is a tough thing to break thru. Don't ever say it CAN'T happen to you!😣

    • @dianachin4849
      @dianachin4849 3 роки тому +1

      The scams that I fell for were
      1) romance
      2) bitcoin
      3) job scams.
      I still feel ashamed up to this day. Scammers don't care and they are heartless. They're not interested in love, they just want our money.
      Never talk about money in relationships. If they refuse to video chat, block them immediately

  • @suzmariesquires5065
    @suzmariesquires5065 3 роки тому +5

    So sad made me cry sending hugs and prayers

  • @aileenbell2248
    @aileenbell2248 3 роки тому +7

    That’s so sad 😞 these scammers don’t care at all and they steal peoples money and their lives and they should be held accountable but it’s not possible.. sorry he lost his life over these scammers it’s just so sad 😞

  • @estermcskimming359
    @estermcskimming359 3 роки тому +4

    I’m sorry it happen to your dad
    Scammer is no soul it happen to me they are evil

  • @agnetakubik6654
    @agnetakubik6654 2 роки тому +1

    Poor man! It's a very sad story. May he rest in peace.

  • @annaamalia7189
    @annaamalia7189 3 роки тому +11

    This is not new
    It's been around like forever
    Emotional and mental manipulation , isolation. If that doesn't work blackmail and threats are used.. No response is the best response.

  • @Barbsspace
    @Barbsspace 3 роки тому +5

    What a devastating story!!

  • @MonicaTanAnLeng
    @MonicaTanAnLeng Рік тому

    Poor man and his family. May he Rest In Peace and his family to heal from this as well.

  • @dianamarie4351
    @dianamarie4351 3 роки тому +2

    So sorry to Beth and her family. How heartbreaking to be thrown away by your father/grandfather for some woman. I imagine see felt it was a betrayal to her mother as well.

  • @Aashka_The_Mystic
    @Aashka_The_Mystic 10 місяців тому +1

    Wow, the end is incredibly sad.😞

  • @karenlove7442
    @karenlove7442 Рік тому +1

    So sad !!! Be aware they still scamming people

  • @Megan-1017
    @Megan-1017 11 місяців тому +1

    This story makes me sad and pisses me off. What a evil soulless person

  • @KM-nq7ez
    @KM-nq7ez 3 роки тому +9

    This is heartbreaking.

  • @nathaliemargueritte4561
    @nathaliemargueritte4561 Рік тому +1

    I'm in state of shock after hearing this story...😢😢😢

  • @TamTam-vc8es
    @TamTam-vc8es 2 роки тому +1

    I’m livid and sad for this man all at the same time. May he rest in peace with his “true” love, and may his family find peace as well. 🙏🏽♥️

  • @celesteharmer2580
    @celesteharmer2580 3 роки тому +5

    This is so sad. Many prayers to the family. ❤

  • @AnnaCN78456
    @AnnaCN78456 3 роки тому +3

    I pray for divine justice. To this family you are in mu prayers! You did everything you could and more to save your dad.
    Im so sorry this was the outcome.
    I pray for your heart to be comforted.

  • @rosemarcella3514
    @rosemarcella3514 3 роки тому +2

    Sad story.
    It's not only money that was wasted but even the life of the victim himself.
    Most scammed people really felt depressed even the family members. What is worst is neglecting your own family just to give in to the demands of scammers believing that they are legit.
    By the way, my heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family of the victim.

  • @mightymouse1005
    @mightymouse1005 Рік тому

    When 99 percent of an older person's life is attention from strangers, its easy to manipulate them and isolate them. Its critical for them to be included in family activities and have things to look forward to.

  • @evgeniaboubouli5387
    @evgeniaboubouli5387 3 роки тому +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss and your devastating story.

  • @Cinx2
    @Cinx2 3 роки тому +2

    That is by far the sickest, saddest story I heard.

    • @MrBrandonStar
      @MrBrandonStar 3 роки тому

      That scumbag scam artist manipulated that poor old man. The worst part about it is that the scammer doesn’t even care at all!!!!