7 Signs Someone is Repulsed By You
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- Опубліковано 3 січ 2021
- Are you afraid that no matter what you do, others might still dislike you, or worse, feel disgusted or repulsed by you? Disgust shares many similarities with hatred, contempt, and dislike, but it shouldn’t be confused for mere disinterest. So how can you tell when other people are emotionally disgusted by you? Here are 7 Signs Someone is Repulsed By You:
Credits
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animation: Susan King
UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
Reference:
Dwiggins, J. R., & Lewandowski Jr., G. W. (2015). Does Hard Work Pay Off? The Influence of Perceived Effort on Romantic Attraction. Interpersona, 9(2), 184-199.
Eickmeier, K., Hoffman, L., & Banse, R. (2019). The 5-Factor Disgust Scale: Development and Validation of a Comprehensive Measure of Disgust Propensity. European Journal of Psychological Assessment, 35(3), 403-413.
Karinen, A. K., & Chapman, H. A. (2019). Cognitive and Personality Correlates of Trait Disgust and Their Relationship to Condemnation of Nonpurity Moral Transgressions. Emotion, 19(5), 889-902.
Yoder, A. M., Widen, S. C., & Russell, J. A. (2016). The word disgust may refer to more than one emotion. Emotion, 16(3), 301-308.
Miceli, M., & Castelfranchi, C. (2018). Contempt and Disgust: The Emotions of Disrespect. Journal for the Theory of Social Behaviour, 48(2),205-229.
8. They have a restraining order on you
Don't you hate it when it happens
@@Che_Yo yes I HATE that💀
Would love to get one of those. Too bad we li e together...
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9. They often call the police on you
1. They keep their distance from you
2. They give you the cold shoulder
3. They're always in a hurry to leave
4. They never accept your invitations
5. They pretend to be distracted
6. They don't share personal details
7. Their expression changes when your around
What if there is no reason for it? What if I barley even talk or see them?....
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@@dylanhills2330 This means that they’re not repulsed but have other underlying issues. It’s not your fault that they react this way. Just focus on the people who love you no matter what ❤️
“When your intentions are pure, you don’t lose anyone, they lose you.” ✨
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo. My, oh my, how humble!
Thanks for the quote :)
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo sarcasm 😄it's sarcasm
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo Your username doesn't lie. You're cringy as hell, tone down your superiority complex.
@@danielm.4346 normally if young people seem ‘arrogant’ they’re aggressively lying to themselves to overcome childhood trauma in attempts to regain the self confidence they were born with but stripped of by the world.
This tactic is called ‘fake it till you make it’ and its actually recommended by therapists.
Not a lot of young people actually need to be humbled but instead encouraged when taking care of their mental bodies.
What’s being humble mean to you?
Repulsed until they need something from you.
Yup
Amen and awoman.
@@linkdude64 shut up
Yup
People can’t be repulsed by me if I don’t go around people in the first place
Yes
Oh people actually like this comment
"Yeah, this is big brain time."
Can’t be repulsed if nobody is there to be repulsed B)
@Pencil. Why don't you get your nose up a little higher?
Therapist: don't jump to conclusions
Psytogo: sign they are repulsed by yo
yes, this is not a nice video.
This is bad psychology... some of these could indicate a lot of other things!
@@silencedxdesire I agree. Now some paranoid people watching this video will think the person they have in mind is repulsed by them. 🤦🏾♀️
@@silencedxdesire that’s stated in the video😂
Psych2Go*
Let's be honest. If someone does not tell you their issue they have with you in a mature way...are they even worth it. I have been around a lot of people (extrovert here) and chose people wisely to hang with because my time is precious. So guys don't waist it on people who do not deserve it 😊
I can be very extroverted, but am mostly an introvert. I agree with you on not wasting your time. Had an ex like this once- had to read her mind. That happens enough and you really don't care what she thinks or what is bothering her if she does not have words for it. Convinced it was a passive-aggro tactic.
Hi, summ:
1. They keep their distance from you 1:11
2. They give you the cold shoulder 1:34
3. They're always in hurry to leave 2:04
4. They never accept your invitations 2:33
5. They pretend to be distracted 3:01
6. They dont share personal details 3:28
7. Their expression change when you're around 3:56
Thanks from the past
Lol hello fellow time traveler
Nani?!??
NAAAANI?!
How is this comment posted befire the video it self
When your crush does all these things the feeling
I don't think I've been repulsed by anyone, I'm just not into them.
same
shall I go sleep? I am tired
Sudden Repulsion Syndrome is a thing.
there's only one person i'm repulsed by and her name is Emilia Mansfield
Me having a keen nose case me to be repulsed by smelly persons
I've spent most of my life having people I care about being upset or avoidant of me without telling me what's actually wrong, so yeah, it's hard not to believe everyone secretly dislikes me
@@ABSYTC I mean I've talked to the ones who gave me the cold shoulder like that before, we're not on good terms to say the least so it's hard for me not to think things will go just as badly with the others
They are being passive-aggressive with you.
It's so difficult to really learn how to let go of someone who wants nothing to do for us, regardless of their reasons. Life is too short to chase people. It's more fun to hang out with pets and the outdoors, anyway.
"They are always in a hurry to leave"
Sometimes I am just too anxious to start a conversation so I leave not because I am disgusted. Get that
@dianaxaxo! Relax.
@@danielm.4346 Gee thanks, never tried that before.
@@user-hs1lv1kh3s . I did mean well.
and then people feel like you are ignoring them.
so they start to distance,
it's a cycle
Yes, i know how you feel👍
I have totally done almost all of these things to a person 😶 they couldn't get the hint, I feel bad but I was just so uncomfortable and annoyed 😭😭
Same-
Worse when they take it as you are playing hard to get so they try even harder
Good thing i have never been the clingy type, i think it would be nice if you would have just told them in a mature way.
Same. I’ve done it to some and I’ve had it done to me as well. It’s a human reaction. You can’t always control how you act even if you try ur best to be respectful.
Always feel like I’ll die early if i don’t let it out… i wanted to be nice, but this person I’m dealing with now…acting so damm pity omg
I like how they had to mention that at the end or some of us would get worried, lol.
Most of the people I may have repulsed weren't the type of people I wanted around anyway! They offered NOTHING conducive or positive to my life anyway! They avoided me because they may have sensed that I was the one truly repulsed by them and therefore openly displayed that repulsion towards them!
Healthy boundaries prevent repulsion. Sharing too much personal stuff, asking advice too much, giving unsolicited advice, asking too many questions, gossiping, using “you should” statements - all signs of unhealthy boundaries. To attract joyful people to you, be joyful and have strong boundaries.
I normally agree with this channel, however in this case, these signs simply mean social anxiety for me. I behave this same way towards people only because I’m anxious when I am around them.
Yes me too!!!
Well, it may just be me, but when I'm talking to someone I don't know (I have social phobia) I just don't talk much and in a lower tone, look around but never at their face, have anxious tics (I can't stop "tapping" the floor with my left foot, I play with my hands, I bite my nails, etc)... but when I'm around *that* person I don't pay attention to them, I ignore them if they do something, I leave them on read, never talk to them unless I really need it, etc. I think it's pretty obvious (in my experience) when someone is anxious about you or they're repulsed by you.
Maybe for you but i find this to be dead on. This is exactly how i feel when i’m around someone who’s done wrong by me and i make every effort to cut them off but they just keep coming around.
Don't worry about failures,
Worry about the chances
You miss when you don't even try
-Shazistic
Well there's a thing called demoralisation. See You are right in the case You have a balanced psyche but it may turn nightmarish and perhaps traumatizing if You are not balanced but still pushing Yourself.
if people are disgusted by me honestly that's understandable, have a good day
Mood
Great way of thinking
I’m sorry but how did you comment this 8 YEARS AGO??????
@@jasondean9340 time travel, got sick of 2021 yfm
@@mikudayoooooo I see
Literally about to cry myself to sleep then I get this. Thank you
@Aisha M . Well, I'm glad that you found something in there to help you feel better.
I'm glad you feel better.
No problem :) We hope this video helps!
@@Psych2go stfu psycho2go
Fun fact about repulsion: Arousal can overcome our instinct to be disgusted and repulsed.
Whaaaaaat?
kimochii
Yup, as a person with OCD i can confirm this
Seduce the enemy
@@Bigguybigguybigguybigguy HA
*Recommended: 7 Signs Someone is Repulsed by You*
Is-is youtube trying to tell me something?
Uh oh! Did you relate to any of these signs?
Yes, it's trying to tell you that it's a good time to contemplate everyday psychology 😃 And maybe ponder if you've ever been "at the other side" of the scenario 😁
@@KxNOxUTA ✨🌟⛄️🧚♀️💁♂️💗💖
Yep it's official.
I'm repulsed by my brother.
Worse part is...
HE NEVER GETS THE HINT!
people say people like me, then them and everyone else does this
I see. Who doesn't love Whiskey? :D
I simp only for wiskey
do i have permission to hug the whiskey
@@metra8604 yes, only if you drink me
@@Psych2go lmao
Hey time travelers! I'm also a time traveler
Hi there.
What year are you from?
Wth
Nice can u tell us when the fu.. is the quarantine is over
Holy...
I usually act cold because I don’t like talking to other humans
Same. Dogs are much nice. As a kid, I actually talked quite often to dogs and even monkeys. I don't remember this incident but my mom told me I was once talking to a monkey and the monkey was intently listening too! My mom pulled me away quickly from fear! XD!
PS: I say I don't like to talk but I just told a stranger a small story from my life. Talking to people on the internet is much easier cause you can find relatable people plus I don't feel weird sharing stuff here.
@@arpitkumar4525 yep. talking on the internet is just _so_ much easier. because you can kinda just forget everything bad that happened. you can make friends easier as you know that you both have the same interests. actually, 2 of my friends are my friends because i found them that way. you don't have to worry about talking to people. i could go on and on.
I dislike most people. They did things to me first and act like Victims.
wow so edgy
@@arpitkumar4525 hold on where are you finding monkeys?
One of my former employers was indeed repulsed by me haha. She showed each of these signs on a daily basis, and she was pretty civil to most of the other employees. But I remained positive and polite, so I feel okay knowing I tried my best. And now I’m at a place of employment that respects me and treats me so much better! You can’t please everybody 🤷🏻♀️
Ok lemme explain. All these "time travelers" actually found the link of this video when it was "unlisted". And the only way to find a unlisted video is by someone sending you the link or finding it somewhere.
I've seen a lot of confused ppl in the comment section xD
Ohhhh okay, thank you (I understand now lol)
@@shiningcontrast7876 ur welcome 😂😂
It feels like every one is repulsive against me so I love to be alone
I unintentionally do all these things to someone I really dislike. He still can't seem to pick it up.
i find that title a bit harsh bug maybe it’s because i feel concerned 😔
Did you relate to any of the signs?
It's realistic and a normal part of life. It's even an important feedback system. :3 So do not let yourself be repulsed by it :D In a sense, it's your friend in finding really valuable relationships and ways of communication!
@@KxNOxUTA True
Don't worry, this video is very negative and these signs don't necessarily mean someone is repulsed by you. Never jump to conclusions because we can never truly know what another person is thinking/feeling without asking.
The feeling of too much familiarity with a partner might negatively impact our attraction towards them👍
Yeah, like my ex wife's slutty past. Made me feel special .
But when they need you they suddenly like you again and think you haven't realized that you know that they have been avoiding you.
Be yourself and be honest about it.
Usually when they aren't interested, it's more so a reflection of them, not you! So if they're standoffish towards you, either they're dealing with social anxiety, or simply put, you might've said or done something to repel away from you
Ive been told im disgusting basically my whole life in school, in a daily basis and this has affected me a lot years after I graduated from school, this brings back some bad memories
Time to make some changes.
I'm sorry you had to go through that, I've been there.
Thank you for awakening my anxiety and tendency to overthink interactions
What about person who is sooo insecure that she is sending all of those signals but doesn't mean it this way.. I'm talking about myself, I sort of act like this around one person but I actually like him, I just can't help it, I'm scared that he will feel uncomfortable when I come closer, that he will see all of my imperfection and sometimes I avoid meeting him because i don't know how to talk to him, I always end up being cold or distant, my answers and question are so basic and simple that they don't give him enough space to continue.. sometimes I think I can see he is frustrated by it or just sad, because he just wanted to talk... I'm not saying that this video isn't right but there are some rare cases (for example like me) in which these signs are not ment this way.. we (or just I) can't show what we feel or what we want to say and we end up sending this awful signs 😅😥
Wow
@@smithbob2168 🤣🤣
I can kinda relate to this. I had a traumatic experience with men when I was young, so I act very cold to any man that shows interest in me. I can feel it or sense it right away too, so I’ll act friendly at first, but the moment a guy starts asking personal or obvious questions to see if I’m single, my whole attitude changes and I find them disgusting.
For the few men that I crush on (cuz I’m still a girl and hormones suck), I stay completely away from them out of fear. I don’t want them to like me back, so I talk very little, ignore them, look uninterested, or walk away when I notice them come in my direction. I’m tempted to get a ring and just put it on my finger so men will think I’m married.
I get it. Anxiety can change the way I behave around all different people. I have a lot of unintentional masks that I wear throughout life. It sucks because it usually pushes people out of my life rather than drawing them in but, 47 years of being wired that way has taken it's toll. The drugs don't help, the therapy don't help. I just put one foot in front of the other every day without direction. I make this shit up as I go.
Why is this video 22 seconds old but all the comments are 7 to 3 months old what the fuck
because this channel likes to private and reschedule their videos
They probably have paid subscription
Patreon grants early access.
@@RedRoseSeptember22 i have seen at least 3 videos get reposted over a year after they were originally uploaded and i dont support their patreon
Magic :D
i really love these videos ❤ i just wanted to point out that i do a lot of these things around most ppl and that's just bc i have social anxiety disorder
i *keep physical distance* bc i'm paranoid abt tripping over someone or invading their space
i always seem *in a hurry to leave* bc i dont want to be in a social situation for long enough for it too get uncomfortable or overstaying my welcome
i *never accept accept invitations* bc i'll think i was invited out of pity or that i would make it awkward for everyone else or bc the ppl themselves or amount of ppl (even if its only 1 or 2) scares me
a lot of the time, i *pretend to be distracted* bc i'm so SO scared of making eye contact, i get insecure about what to do with my body during a conversation, & i don't want to seem creepily focused on them
irl i definitely *don't share personal details* bc i don't want to appear self-centered or only talking abt me, or freak ppl out
idk this is just me and my SA but everyone has a different experience :)
It sounds like I have social anxiety disorder, always knew I had social anxiety but that sounds like you describing me, especially the part about not sharing personal information.
If people keep their distance that means they're disgusted?
Have you heard of social distancing?
Through these videos, I shall become psychology perfect in every way. You cannot stop me.
Seriously though, these videos are very insightful and help me stay self aware. I love getting that little "click feeling in my head when I hear something that I feel or do and research it further. I don't dare self diagnose, that's dangerous, but being able to glimpse at a feeling or act in a new way helps keep my feet grounded. Thank you P2G.
Yup. All 7 resonate.
“Lockdown” has been an eye opener for me.
It’s me again lol:
1. Thy keep their distance from you
2. They give you the cold shoulder
3. They’re always in a hurry to leave
4. They never accept your invitations
5. They pretend to be distracted
6. They don’t share their personal details
7. Their expressions change when you’re around
Byeeeee 🏃
Thanks for the list. Did you relate to any of these points?
@@Psych2go . This wasn't addressed to me, but maybe you shouldn't ask such a question, because it might be like grinding salt into the wound.
@@danielm.4346 what the f-
@@danielm.4346 ;-;
@@Psych2go yeah most of them actually except 4, I never really invited people out. It was a long time ago though, such doesnt hurt anymore
Title: 7 Signs Someone is Repulsed By You
Me who does not know the meaning of Repulsed: Lets Watch This Video!
(Yes I know I am Dumb)
• Chøerry • wait are you the person i see in LavenderDuckii's community posts\videos o.o
how was this two months ago-
i wanna time travel too ;-;
@Chøerry. Don't put yourself down like this.
@@grapekork101 I think u have to be a paid subscriber for that lol
Your channel is so peaceful ☁︎
What an interesting and delicate topic! Thank you!
Excellent and nice video.
Thanks for making this video about my entire social life.
you have the best videos, thank you
Thanks for these videos
I appreciate the message you told us at the end of the video
Great video!
Sometimes I'm repulsed by someone's actions that are morally wrong. That's not a sign of prejudice. People can be disgusted by cheating or prostitution and rightly so.
Like being disgusted by the democrat party.
Not all my old kindergarten friends doing this to me and only now 8 years later finding out they all hated me :|
Always love your content
Nice work
I was repulsed by someone. It was a horrible feeling.
I love this channel.
I feel so bad I do these things with my crush IM JUST SOCIALLY AWKWARD 😭😭
this video really helped me just now. Thank u!!!
Glad this video helped you!
Imagine if that person is your crush. What an awful feeling?!
These videos help me realize what I do is right or wrong and/or become better or realize what types of people are in this world
Love what you do!
We got time travelers here. A lot of them.
KEEP THIS AT 69 LIKES!!
What do you mean by that
Wait.... HOW COULD THIS HAPPENED?
@@amatteroflogic see time stamp on many of the comments
Exactly, I can see several months old comments here, although the video is uploaded few minutes ago😰
oh shit u fr
Experienced repulsed people, and being repulsed by others. Been a social person since high school to experience both. People that were ‘repulsive’ to me, weren’t very social people, lack conversation. I come across situations it’s just them not me
Most people are repulsed by me. No one actively dislikes me and it's never anything anyone can put their finger on, but once they meet me in person, they get weird vibes and need to get away from me. For example, I go to the gym and it's pretty crowded people have a tendency of giving me the side-eye and immediately moving to another free bench as soon as one opens up. Or I join a local social group online and we get on just fine on screen, but as soon as I meet them in person, people don't want to talk or stand near me and I end up getting silently removed from the group. The check out lady at the grocery store who was happy and smiling at other people suddenly becomes reserved and apprehensive. I'm a tiny woman. I don't smell or look weird, and no one can tell me what did I do, it's just I have an aura that makes people uneasy. It's pretty damn lonely.
Much needed video. I always wondered why people never came to my birthday party or my Halloween party....and Christmas party... anyway great video :)
I’m sorry!! I would come to your parties:)
Thanks for the help guys. :)
No problem. Glad this video helped you in some way
I remember I used to go to a church where people behaved this way towards me and I never understood. Then, I was advised to tell everyone I was going on a missions trip with that I have autism. All of a sudden, people wanted to talk to me and interact with me and learn all about me and it freaked me out. I didn't know how to handle all the sudden friendliness after the constant cold shoulder. I wasn't even aware that people didn't like me. I just always felt confused around them. I learned later on that is what these behaviors mean and it crushed me because I thought everyone was my friend. Never been so wrong in all my days. Don't have that problem now. Lots of social skills training and continued emotional intelligence and body language education makes a world of difference.
Susananimations went all out for this video. Amazing work!
Thanks :D Glad you like it. Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go Most definitely. It's very unique
Thank you 🤗
hmm.... ok this was one I can relate to. especially the one where people are closed off or secretive. its so odd really. but all good. at least I know not to waste my time. keep up the excellent work psych2go
This reminds me of a toxic thought of mine that I had today, remembering the things teenage boys said to me when I was a teenager..That I'm just unattractive for guys in real life, that they are disgusted about thinking of dating me, that I'm just not dating material for them, so I shoul never ask myself if someone might be interested in me or even hope for it, that dating and romance isn't for me, if someone gives me attention it's just because of my body and not my soul and they probably chase any person who is female. I should be thankful for what I have and enjoy my family as long as I can, at least I have a sister and parents who care for me and make me feel loved
TY! ♡
sometimes its either they odnt like u OR they have social anxiety
The ones who have done this to me have all been themselves repulsive - physically, intellectually and most importantly their total lack of humility
Thanks for the spanish subtitules it helps me so much
No problem :D
I know a former friend of mine who needed to watch this...........otherwise he wouldn't be a former friend anymore. :(
I feel your pain. :(
😔
Now wondering if I might unintentionally be sending out signals to be misread like this 😐
I'm afraid I might be doing this to my friend who just want to check up on me this quarantine. I love her, she's my friend, but I just don't want to talk to anyone while I'm a sad depressing mess
its ok, and its okay to let her know how you're doing, so you can get through this without feeling bad for her. I'm sure she'll understand 😊
@@octoviam2431. You're nice!
@@danielm.4346 🙏🏼💜
The sad thing is, they are disgusted by you even tho u didn't even done wrong to them
You know, in high school every girl I tried to be friends with did this to me (also female) and I thought it was just my anxiety. I'm not even bad, gross, or ugly and I don't think I was annoying. Never understood why but I made a lot guy friends and some are life long. Within in recent years, I've learned through my guy friends that a few of the girls where really just jealous of me for multiple different reasons. It's sad and it at the time it was really upsetting that I couldn't make friends as well. But, I'm happy with my friends now and realized that you can not make everyone happy. There will always be someone who dislikes you but that's okay. It's life and we move on :)
pure heart does it all
Because of my social anxiety I constantly believe that everyone I meet is disgusted by me
At least my dogs aren’t repulsed by me...
Brilliant
Hi Pysch2Go. Will you do videos with chinese subtitles in the near future? I wanted to show my mum the fearful avoidant attachment style as I believe she and I have it and she speaks very limited English! Thank you ❤️
hehe this relate to my trauma .. because of my ocd i started to believe i am very repulsive to everyone and now i have very low self esteem. but my ocd got worse and i got socially disturbing and embarassing things so i always felt like i deserve to die. can you do a video on what to do if you have really bad self esteem for this stuff. i always feel the need to justify myself and prove i am not that bad even though i didn't do illegal stuff or at least on purpose basically :/
I'm a jack of all trades type and I'm interested in everything and I've had a lot of time to myself over the years so I have a lot of hobbies as well and it seems everywhere I go all I get is repulsion, I try to keep to myself and I try not to open up but things get out and people really end up treating me like I'm some sort of alien most of the time and yes this video helped me a little bit thank you very much.
They avoid seeing the person for years.
I do all of these things not because I'm repulsed but because I have anxiety
At first if felt guilty being repulsive towards 2 people who always claims I'm depressed or sad secretly I KEPT ON TELLING THEM I AM FINE WHICH I REALLY AM but they kept on forcing me that I'm I got so irritated so I acted this way towards them I blocked them on social media until I completely never interacted with them at all. BY STARTING IT I STARTED TO STAY AWAY AND CONFRONT NEGATIVE PEOPLE AND HOW NEGATIVE THEY MAKE ME FEEL, if they don't listen I let them feel how it is or delete them completely from my life, It is the ART OF REJECTING WHAT IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU, you can't eat something toxic when you know it is.
Preach!
Sounds like social distancing!
Honestly.. this is all me towards narcissists.
Hey!
I have a video request, I would love it if you would make a video on paraphillias.
I am very much interested in them and I want to know about them, but most ways
of learning about them are boringg!
This woman always used to approach me at a particular event and she gave me the creeps. She seemed to just push herself on me. I could not get away from her fast enough. I didn't know her but she wanted to know me - we were not friends, that's for sure. She just did not get the hit. So pay attention to the video, where they say, people are trying to back away. This means they do not like you, and do not want to get to know you. Not everyone are meant to be friends. Stop pushing it, it's creepy.
The video I was looking for...
i love that this was recommended to me
The question is why do they have a problem with you?
8. They sneer at you from a distance, and shout, "Hey, thanks for writing the song 'Creep.' I never thought you were interesting enough to write an autobiography."