Going Deeper w Wells Adams - It’s a Girl, Bachelor Weddings, and Joe vs. Sophie | Viall Files
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
- Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! Today we are joined by Wells Adams and Natalie Joy to talk about Joe and Serena’s wedding, Nick and Natalie’s gender reveal, parenting techniques and chores. We also touch on recent pop culture headlines such as Joe and Sophie’s divorce, Tom Sandoval saving the day, and Bethenny Frankel channeling Oprah and Diane Sawyer during her interview with Rachel. We then have a Texting Office Hours caller who successfully slid into a podcaster’s DMs but needs help taking it to the next step - now that they’ve agreed they want to meet up in his city, what’s the best way to do it?
“Is it lonely in your ivory tower of perfection? You’ve never sharted a little bit?”
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Love Wells! Bring him back regularly please!!!
Loved the conversation with Wells! It was just so organic. I appreciate too when someone isn’t afraid to disagree with Nick’s advice lol and the shart stories had me laughing!!
Totally understand what Nick is saying about wanting to instill a work ethic in his daughter… and you can give kids “chores” at a surprisingly young age. My husband and I follow some Montessori-ish principles and toddlers actually LOVE to help - my 3 y/o started helping me empty the dishwasher somewhere between 18-24m; he also helps wipe up his messes, picks up his toys, helps me cook, turns on the robot vacuum (his favorite “chore”) etc. Letting kids help out around the house (even if it takes longer) really helps to provide them a sense of purpose and accomplishment. Don’t do for them what they can do for themselves. 🙂
As someone who had to figure out household duties on their own as an adult, I fully intend on using the Montessori methods and teaching my children to be independent and capable!
@@Cayliente same! I did my own laundry and occasionally helped vacuum and whatnot when I was a kid, but I pretty much had to figure everything else out when I became an adult. My husband and I have 2 sons and we both feel even more compelled to normalize everyone in the household pitching in (since boys, in general, haven’t always been held to the same standards as girls when it came to domestic duties). My boys will definitely grow up knowing how to cook and clean and garden, etc and they’ll also be exposed to a variety of other tasks, like auto maintenance (changing tires, changing oil, etc), DIY home repair/maintenance/upgrades, etc.
@@piscis31985 Love this! My husband was raised to know how to do all of those things and he’s an amazing cook because his family encouraged his interest in it. So luckily he’s all on board for how I wanna raise kids haha
I think more than chores just helping around the house. My boys are 3 and they know how to help set the table, put their dirty dishes away, they walk the trash bins with me to the street, they help load dishes and laundry, they fold their clothes and help sort and put away, help me cook meals… it’s not about forcing them to do things but to enjoy doing things with you. I have never forced these tasks on my kids but they find enjoyment in helping around the house.
Children can help but it needs to be age appropriate.
Natalie has been cracking me up lately 😂 didn’t realize how funny she is
Me too. I love pregnant Natalie.
Omg Natalie’s pickle story had me dying from laughter. Buy a jar gripper!
Never a dull moment with Wells!! I needed all this laugh today 😊
Nick if you look more into the Montessori philosophy, getting kids involved with chores from the very beginning is actually really beneficial to them feeling like helpful and productive parts of the family. Having kids do 'chores' or just learning household things is controversial for some but I think its so beneficial for kids to learn these skills not just for the family but also to be able to do them on their own when they leave home. My son is almost 18 months and he LOVES helping with laundry. He takes clothes out of the dryer and puts them back in. He loves taking his dirty clothes and putting them in the hamper. He also likes trying to help unload the dishwasher. That one is a little harder since there are unsafe things in there. But once they can walk and climb a bit you can get them what is called a learning tower that is basically a stable ladder that they can climb into and be at counter hight so they can watch you cook and eventually help chop things with kid safe knives and what not. So getting them involved in the ways they want to be involved, not as a punishment, but just as a way to teach them and actually practically get stuff done with them around is really helpful and fun. You will soon find it is sometimes impossible to get chores done with a toddler so the more you can get them involved and teach them to clean up their own messes, the better!
Yes…& then around the age of 7 on…”helping” around the house loses its charm…just wait lol
What a fun episode with Wells, love his openness. U guys slayed it!👏
I was doing chores at age 6…good to hear you are going to raise kids who help around the house 👏👏
I’ve never laughed so hard listening to a podcast. You three together are too good!
Great show- love Wells. One complaint though, could you please make a camera angle so that we, your audience, could see the TV screen in front of Nick?!
Agree!❤
Or a screen overlay!
Just call him up and say I love you -nick. 😂 delivery and timing was perfect lmao.
Pickle jar (or any jar) - stick a butter knife up the side of the lid and turn it just to break the vacuum seal and the lid twists right off (no hole in lid necessary)
Nick and Natalie, my 1 year old helps me do laundry, helps clean up spills, put his toys away and would love to do more if I let him! I think it’s great for them to learn independence and responsibility early and it’s fun for them :)
Easiest way to open a jar. You put a butter knife to the SIDES of the you don’t have to stab it. You just loosen the jar lid/ loosen the cap. Works 10000% of the time. You can open it easily once the cap is loosened by the butter knife
NOT the gravity ick 😂
Laughed so hard at Wells and his shart story!!!
Wells talking about the season with dean/Kristina/d-lo. Best season ever on BIP
To break the seal on a pickle (or any) jar, take a butter knife or something similar and slide it between the lid and glass until an air hole is made. You will hear the pressure release. And then the lid will unscrew easily. Much easier than using all your might to open it. 🙂
Giggling a table knife between the jar glass and the lid, even just a little releases the pressure and makes the lid easier to open. Just a tip if you don't want to stab the lid 😊
Exactly, works so easy
Since Wells brought up the Amber Heard & Johnny Depp Netflix doc, I'm surprised he didn't bring up how many times Nick Viall's podcast clips were featured on that!
I'd love to hear more surgery stories from Natalie!
Simple “chores” for littles are super easy to implement. Just have them do every day things like brushing their teeth, making their bed, etc. You can do sticker charts to ear prizes if you want or we let our kids pick like a fun place to go. Don’t overthink it! Your kids will be fine. :)
Great show, Wells is always an awesome guest…but PLEASE DO NOT open a jar the way he told you to, lol…THE BEST WAY TO OPEN A JAR (that will not injure you!) is- tap the lid of the jar on the edge of a countertop!! works EVERY time! - just thought I’d share 😉
I think Nick told her to try that
My 5 year old has a chore board, and gets $1 for each chore. He also has a behavior chart for both discipline and rewards. He knows he can earn toys by either being good, and making "green" choices, and Mom and Dad will buy the toy, or he can earn the money to buy his own toy. We try to instill the value of money with him, so he knows it means something.
LOL at Nick giving Wells VIP treatment and Wells taking it all as a diss
For pickle jars I bang the side of the lid on the counter first and it opens easier
I totally was craving a pickle, thanks to this!
Nick, I like your attitude about fathering this child you will be having. I generally love children but cannot stand spoiled brats. We live in a crazy , dangerous world and we do not need more spoiled children on this planet.
Take a beer bottle open and slightly lift the edge of the pickle jar which as wells said will let the negative pressure out and then u can twist the jar open (beer bottle opener on a can opener works great)
Yes, works great! As a female without much strength, I’ve been using either a bottle opener or just a thin handle of a spoon or fork wedged under the lip of the bottle for years, to release the vacuum seal. How do people not know this little trick???
love island didn't rip off paradise, i can see why wells thinks that since love island uk started a year after bip, but love island uk was built off of celebrity love island in 2005
omg i love genevieve !!! im so excited for her to get more comfortable and share more of her personality !!
AGREED I don’t understand the hate in the comments I think she’s a great addition
Does anyone know who the podcaster is that the caller asked about???
Putting a metal lid under hot water expands it and it will open easily.
If even half of the world’s population put as much thought into instilling certain values in raising their children as Nick has many of our societal problems would be solved.
Google how to open tight jars. A good way is to use a large wooden spoon and tap the lid all over. Firm fairly strong taps. Opens up after a few taps.
Nick is having way more anxiety about this baby than Natalie is and that's WILD
It's expected given their personalities.
They’ve always said he’s the drama queen in their relationship
omg does Wells have the crispy R’s?
Love and Logic strategy is amazing
Comments about Sophie and Joe’s breakup alarmed me. No breakup is just casually mutual when children are involved. The best breakup is still traumatizing for children and tends to effect their own future relationships.
Next time google how to open a jar with a spoon. I do this whenever my husband isn't home and it's sooo easy haha. Please don't break the jar and risk eating glass hahaha
I open it by breaking the seal with a full knife. Also, if you put on washing gloves 🧤 you can usually open most jars, since they grip really good to the lid 👍🏼
Def!! I use a grippy thing to open jars as well. Releasing the air from the lid is certainty the way to go for those really stubborn jars.@@earthlygoddess17
I really don't understand the hate on Oprah and Dwayne Johnson. They have money but not all the money in the world. Nothing wrong with saying, "let's band together to support. I'm donating $X toward this."
Wait my child’s birth certificate has my maiden name .. we’ve been married and we’re before child!
All is Well ! When some people were around the big Movie Stars , that get dominant. Where you come from, taverns, Dancers, Gamblers, does it dominate you ? Why are people from other Countries differentiated ? Belligerent is Military War Fare, Contentious is arguing and quarreling . The bad guy, no talking to it ! Variety is the Big Screen !
The birth certificate will have your maiden name no matter what so it really doesn’t matter
Natalie is a bit chatty
EARLY GANG STAND UP🙋🏻♀️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️💯💯💯💯💯💯
I knew you were having a girl! Your pregnancy reminds me of mine when I was pregnant!
Yeah I also predicted them having a girl
Male infertility is a very real thing, something that isn’t spoken about nearly as much as it is for females. So the comment “it has nothing to do with you” is extremely hurtful for many more people than you may think
With all respect, I don’t think Genevieve is the right addition to the show
I disagree. She's smart and has a nice speaking voice.
@@administratoradministrator9705 i agrée ! i think she seems really sweet and has some good thoughts !
Not a fan of Genevieve
I disagree! I quite like her
I guess Natalie is one of those pregnant women who hold her belly the whole time. Also, please pull the wrinkles out of the carpets LOL
What a bizarre thing to say. Get a hobby