These Parenting Styles Determine A Child's Happiness In Life...
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- Опубліковано 5 чер 2024
- Welcome to a brand-new Family Edition of The Tony Robbins Podcast! Join Tony Robbins, his wife Sage Robbins, and their dear friend and podcast host turned surrogate, Mary B., for an intimate, at-home conversation on the topic of CONSCIOUS PARENTING.
In honor of Mother's Day 2024, Tony takes the interviewer's seat and talks to both Sage and Mary about the principles, strategies, tools, and learnings derived from their own journey as mothers. This enlightening conversation transcends traditional notions of parenting, as the trio explores the complexities of modern family dynamics. From blended families, stepparents, same-sex relationships, and co-parenting arrangements, Tony, Sage, and Mary discuss tips for how to make it work on the evolving landscape that is parenthood today.
One of the highlights of this conversation is their working definition of MODERN CONSCIOUS PARENTING -- the shift from stress and fear-based parenting to an empowering and integrative awareness-based parenting.
The family discuss the helpfulness of evolving from high-resistance parenting towards a more mindful, self-reflecting, and self-aware approach. By prioritizing both presence and connection, they explain how parents can create an environment that nurtures the growth of beautiful little human beings - an inside out job. The three also emphasize the significance of our language choices around children, advocating for curiosity over fury and mindfulness over fear. They also share personal anecdotes from their own experiences as parents, highlighting the impact of screen and other stimulus on children's emotional development, creativity, imagination and worldview.
This episode offers invaluable insights for parents, prospective parents, and anyone interested in creating meaningful connections within their families. By embracing conscious parenting practices, Tony, Sage, and Mary invite listeners to embark on a journey of personal growth, self-discovery, and lasting harmony.
Join us as we explore the transformative power of intentional parenting and discover how a slight shift in our focus can lead to profound changes with children and within ourselves!
SHOW NOTES:
00:00:00 Intro
00:03:58 What is “Conscious Parenting”
00:06:52 Most parents are in survival
00:08:16 Genomic imprinting and intention for parents-to-be
00:11:23 Sage explains their modern family arrangement
00:13:44 Library Story - the impact of language on kids
00:17:44 Fiji happiness we can all model
00:17:49 Who’s afraid of the dark? (And why)
00:22:43 Kids want to watch movies over and over and…
00:24:05 Rudolph Steiner, Waldorf dolls, passive toys/active kids
00:25:56 Mary B’s galloping on straws story
00:27:09 Children’s autonomy and decision making
00:31:05 Magda Gerber’s respectful parenting
00:31:40 How to handle kids’ big waves of emotion
00:33:14 Mary B’s Parenting Hack: Broccoli or Mac-N-Cheese Game
00:35:47 Esther Perel’s 7 Verbs that shape Intimacy
00:37:44 A wave has a beginning and an end
00:38:28 Dadda Tony Story: Context is everything
00:41:15 Read the Room
00:44:18 Disneyland Dads and dynamics of parenting partners
00:46:55 Card of the Week: Don’t cave to her demands!
00:49:20 Becoming parents later in life
00:52:44 Daddy/Father and Mommy/Mother
00:57:41 Tony’s disappearing thumb
00:59:40 Profound Knowledge: Set each other up to win
01:00:48 Mary B on The Terrible Twos
01:02:48 Sage on How To Apologize (after I trip her, or bump her, or…)
01:05:15 Captain and Co-Captain
01:06:44 Dial-in affection aggression (because they’re so cute!)
01:08:25 Giving hierarchy to elders and combatting The Pleaser
01:12:12 Tony’s Summary: Conscious Parenting Principles
01:15:20 Sage’s Summary: The Dance of Parenting
DELETED SCENES AND OUTTAKES:
01:21:20 #1 Story of Tony’s 64th Birthday dinner, The Super Silly Tango on the potty, Polaroid pictures, and our ancestors
01:25:09 #2 Center yourself first. Especially when “stuff came out of her mouth”
01:32:03 #3 More on last night
01:33:26 #4 Led Zepplin and becoming our parents
01:33:55 #5 Babytalk, bright lights and big screens
01:34:44 #6 The Noticing Game
01:35:52 #7 “Dadda’s a nakey baby!”
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Thank you for leading the way. Congratulations on your bright shining star!
I’ve been somewhere in between unconscious and conscious parenting. Seeing you all get behind conscious parenting like this is really helping me make the shift
God has a way of putting things in front of you right at the time you need it. Thank you for this. I needed to hear this. I’m about to go apologize to my son and have a conversation with him letting him know that I hear him. Thank you again.
Thank you!
Agreed! I was praying for help the morning of the day this podcast came out
I feel such a sense of safety and love listening to your conversations. Thank you for sharing your experiences parenting together, I don’t have children but I do have a lot of maternal love inside me and this conversation shows me how I can move thru the world with love and from the perspective of intention. Love you Tony, Sage and Mary B! 💕
This is amazing! How you guys address the importance of parenting, the influence we have on our children and the message we want to leave for them is a great subject to talk about. Always nice hearing this from big entrepreneurs!
I'm not A Mom but So Belive my Beautiful Nieces And Nephews are like my Children. I spent 100% with my Beautiful Niece as her Surregrate Mom so special watching Her Grow Up and seeing Is A Privalage to me.
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It's always inspiring and pleasure to listen to perspective of such intelligent people - thank you for keeping us inspired
Hello , nice to see you again. Very much needed video about parenting. Thank you Tony for enlightening my life.
This podcast is a great mothers day gift, thank you!
Thank you Tony, Sage and Mary!!❤️❤️❤️
I don’t have kids but I learned so many great lessons from this podcast!🙏🙌🔥
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I resonate with a lot of the things Mary contributes - little kids behave and feel a lot like the animals I care for - and one thing I really remember from when I was very little - and I do remember scenes that must have been at between 2-3 years old because of the setting - all these people who wanted to kiss me because I had these cute blond locks. And I was scared by their energy, and they had scratchy beards, and it felt too close, and some of them smelled or gave soppy kisses, and then I would cry, and mom would tell at me for being such a bad child (and embarrassing her, I now know), and it was a horrible experience. I have actually heard mothers comment "Well, she patted the dog, but she didn't even look at the child, what a weird person...", and they didn't even realize how weiry their own child looked of yet another person invading their space. Thank you, Mary, for protecting your child in the name of all of us when we were young...
Parents do the best they can do at any level with what they have to use. Parenting isn't a Olympic sport or feel like it is. I do parenting my way with my kids and thankfully they are successful in all they do and grateful that I have grandkids so I know my parenting was good and even with challenges we still have a incredible bond. Again, I am grateful that I have the energy that I'm a young grandmother that has the energy to run around with then now and enjoy them now. 😊
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Thank you Tony, Sage and Mary . Happy Mother’s Day to you both amazing mom’s. God bless ! I have to share this with my daughters. I have 3 beautiful daughters and 2 granddaughters from my first born. This will certainly help her 🙏❤
You both are amazing and I love your perspective. I have always believed in a more positive parenting approach and I worked in daycare for years and truly believe that children absorb all of our energy so we must be conscious of the energy we send out to them. They are little reflections of us in so many ways. Great information and love you guys!
God bless you all ❤ mad respect, being so selfless that youd pursue pregnancy even thru allowing another woman to carry your child 🥰
Wow, thanks for sharing this valuable insight! Parenting styles play such a crucial role in shaping a child's happiness and success in life. It's important to strive for a balance and create a loving and supportive environment for our kids. 🌟👨👩👧👦 #ParentingGoals
Great stuff!
🎉This is amazing for me because I recently wanted to ask if you're considering teaching us about parenting now... I'm a new mum and have been longing to hear from you in that area
Thank you for sharing 👍😊🙏
Thank you for sharing!
Thanks for watching!
its good to see that you know whst the importance of thr relationship between parents and there kids.
the impact, ramifications, trust, bond all of that .
should i believe what comes out ur mouth
Parenting is the hardest job on the planet! Eating more carbohydrates and less fat is the easiest way to have the most energy to be the best parent you can be! Carbs FTW!! 💪💪💪
Fascinating
I would like his book on the holy grail of investment to come out in the Spanish version
Yes, please, create a parenting program
Thank you all❤️
thank you🙂
You're welcome 😊
Team could you compile a book or guide based on conscious parenting, using the games and tips covered in this podcast?
Thanks you I love you
Very good
How do you incorporate this with teenagers when we haven’t necessarily been doing these things years prior?
Lol im the same way, in that i can pick up on people's energy hella fast & i notice even the slightest shift in someone's mood ha im very empathic & i feel emotions like 10X more intensely than other people lol socializing drains me pretty bad, & i can only withstand so much socializing/being out in public (like the grocery stores)before i end up in a panic attack if theres too many people at the store/mall ect lol even to the point where ive straight up abandoned my cart & whatever i was gonna buy & just had 2 get out of the store cuz of too many people like in the aisles i hate when u cant get around ppl & everyone is in everyones way & ppl just stop & chat with their damn neighbor! Lol 🙄👌💯😂🤦♀️
Mr Mahavoric I´m a great fan
I see Tonys wife first time.
Hola, alguien sabe cómo hago para escuchar en castellano? Gracias
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Тони ❤
Дата вашего рождения в сумме такая же как и у меня.
Мне бы очень хотелось познакомиться с вами лично!
Ну хотя бы перевод на русский вашего видео. ❤. Благодарю Вас! У вас замечательная семья❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
What moral code do you teach your children?
I wonder how Sage dealt with her feelings for the years she struggled with her fertility seeing others around her become pregnant and have children?
Que pena não ser tradução em português
Go to settings in this video, then auto translate and then Potuguês.
1:31:00
Hello my friend
Hello, my friend. How are you?
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Does Mary Beth who I think carried your baby live with you both full time? And if so… why?
I doubt it, cuz shes married lol 😅
Well they don’t seem to be shy about the fact they are in a thrupple. I think the reason WHY is because when you’re so powerful and rich you think basic human principles don’t apply to you or your family anymore.
This is so bizarre
I love Tony and his teachings, but yes - this was unexpected. I am very confused.