He Could Not Stay Here! ~ Abandoned Home of a Loving French Family

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  • Опубліковано 12 лют 2022
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    In 1960, the freshly married couple Maurice and Janette bought a charming dwelling in a picturesque French town. For them it was not just a house, this was their home, where their memories were shared, love was made, and happiness was created. This was the place where their son Juul was born, Juul was unlike other children, he was born with a mental illness, but his loving and determined parents brought him up in the most normal way, and give him all the love they got. Unfortunately for Juul when his parents passed away he was not able to care for himself and was placed in a mental asylum, he still owns the house to this day but is unable to care for it. Today we will explore their legacy and uncover the story of their lost home.
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    Filmed by Lesley
    Edited by ES Forgotten (Danny) @ES.Forgotten
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  • @kellysvetkoff
    @kellysvetkoff 2 роки тому +81

    That kid who own's that house is probably better off living in a group home because not all mental asylum's are safe. I lived in two group home's in my life, is now living on my own since I was taught how to live by myself. The two group home's helped me, kept me safe. The staff was amazing I was happy there at the time.

    • @helengren9349
      @helengren9349 2 роки тому +2

      Agree with you! 🙌 Maybe he is not that bad as for mentalilness & nowadys, there are alternative ways to help persons with mental disabilities live their lives on their own with help of some personal carers...👍

    • @kellysvetkoff
      @kellysvetkoff 2 роки тому +9

      @@helengren9349 Thank you because not alot of people care, understand thing's I go through. I had been bullied by my adoptive father, adoptive brother but the two group homes saved me from harm from them. You are right about what you said. I gave you're comment a like.😊

    • @cateeadens5545
      @cateeadens5545 2 роки тому

      Save the apostrophe!

    • @kellysvetkoff
      @kellysvetkoff 2 роки тому +7

      @@cateeadens5545 Don't tell me how to write my word's please. I don't need people correcting me.🙄

    • @miaknig3130
      @miaknig3130 2 роки тому +7

      @@cateeadens5545 youtube is global and not everyone speaks English, and less speak English as a primary language. If it isn't ESL, perhaps someone who lived in group homes had bigger worries than remembering correct punctuation. It seems like people who are usually better at English, read more than those who aren't as good. Again, that could be the result of not having the time to read as much, for people who had to start working at a young age or had more important stuff going on.

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine8757 2 роки тому +80

    A lovely home. I wish the son could have stayed in his home with a carer. When his parents were alive all the furnishings and yard were taken care of with love. A very sad story about a loving family and their abandoned home.

  • @pollarbear6492
    @pollarbear6492 2 роки тому +186

    Can’t compliment you enough on how you respect everything of the people that used to live in all these places ! My extreme compliments to you sir !

    • @user-ju5hq3qh3l
      @user-ju5hq3qh3l 2 роки тому +5

      Ребята Вы супер,почему дома брошены.жилье ведь такое дорогое.Продать нельзя а жит?

    • @tejaahkhamis7424
      @tejaahkhamis7424 Рік тому

      😄😄😄🙋‍♀🙋‍♀🙋‍♀💪💪👍👍

  • @evabojtos1978
    @evabojtos1978 2 роки тому +3

    Hovà tünt a csalàd ? Gyerekek ,rokonok? Senki nincsen örökös ? Ennyit èrnek a tàrgyak ,mindent itt hagyunk vègül ! Köszönöm ,hogy időutazhatok veled ! Szèp munka ,àldàs ,egèszsèg !

  • @reeseni7620
    @reeseni7620 2 роки тому +47

    Someone should show Juul this so he can always look at his home when the memories come rushing in

    • @shelitaalbury9681
      @shelitaalbury9681 2 роки тому +6

      Is that child still alive if he was born in 1960 he should be about 60 years old now someone should let him know that he has a beautiful mansion and take him to it

    • @user-nb4ne5mu8f
      @user-nb4ne5mu8f Рік тому

      @@shelitaalbury9681 he is mentally ill and in a mental asylum since his parents both passed away. He owns this home but is unable to care for it.

    • @hazeltreeretreat9035
      @hazeltreeretreat9035 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@shelitaalbury9681yes thats good idea . Is anyone local to help let me know plse

  • @DeborahScotts153
    @DeborahScotts153 2 роки тому +96

    The items in the box at 19:10 are knife rests. They were used to rest cutlery on, in between courses (when the same set of cutlery was used for various courses), to save the table cloth from being soiled. 💙

  • @melissa7745
    @melissa7745 2 роки тому +15

    Out of all the urban explorers, the Bros of Decay find the best homes and tell a most wonderful story about what discoverys they find. Good job guys ,keep it up.

  • @debbieschultz9768
    @debbieschultz9768 2 роки тому +42

    That home is beautiful with the furniture and drapes and beautifully decorated. It’s a shame someone couldn’t care for their son and keep him in his home. 😢

    • @anadiliarestrepo6548
      @anadiliarestrepo6548 2 роки тому

      Me encanta todos tus videos me hace sentir que yo estoy en esa época es algo que sorprende felicitaciones

    • @anadiliarestrepo6548
      @anadiliarestrepo6548 2 роки тому

      Me da nostalgia escuchar todas estás historias

    • @tygerlily1700
      @tygerlily1700 2 роки тому

      🙏❤🕊

    • @jbanana1776
      @jbanana1776 2 роки тому +1

      That was my thought! Perhaps things are different in European countries than in the U.S. .

  • @garygrondin3982
    @garygrondin3982 7 днів тому

    Your minute of silence to them was amazing, thank you.

  • @donnapowers6523
    @donnapowers6523 2 роки тому +97

    Hello from the Great State of Ohio - USA! I can’t even imagine what their son must have gone through to lose his parents. Any individual who has developmental disabilities may find it difficult to adjust from moving out of his house - let alone losing his loving parents. My heart hurts for him. You are truly a compassionate and caring person Lesley. Thank you for being respectful to this family.

    • @MontanaKat1912
      @MontanaKat1912 2 роки тому +17

      I was born with a learning disability. I've lost both of my parents. My mom 7 years ago and my dad 5 years ago. When my mom was on hospice, and she was worried about me. I'm doing great. I do work, I drive, I bought a house last year. I do get help from my caseworker. So sad to watch this. What a beautiful home.

    • @TheAnonyy
      @TheAnonyy 2 роки тому +7

      It's same situation for autistic who have at the worst end. My. Friend son is autistic he would have to go into state care when she is gone if no one in the family want to care for him as he can't live alone. It's sad but it happens

    • @carpdude73
      @carpdude73 2 роки тому +6

      My wife and son work at a peer modeling autistic school in central Ohio. There are many stories like this that no one knows about so it is great that people like Leslie can shed at least a little light on one story.

    • @ariesrobdiamond1794
      @ariesrobdiamond1794 2 роки тому +6

      I'm feeling very sad for their son.

    • @ildikoconstantin5467
      @ildikoconstantin5467 2 роки тому +3

      Foarte trist povestea,îmi pare foarte rău că el a rămas singur 😭

  • @luvmyrecords
    @luvmyrecords 2 роки тому +4

    Poor guy - it seems a shame that nobody is looking out for him, and that the house isn't being sold so that he can have the assets for his care and needs. Thank you for your respect and care.

  • @annmargaret6992
    @annmargaret6992 2 роки тому +9

    Dear Lad, I thank you Son for your love of people and history. I am 99 yrs old. I have mental illness in my family and it is terrible. It is a shame some lawyers could sell this home and lands for the son . again Lad thank you Lad for your respect and love of this sweet family. God Bless you Son!

  • @lindaelick6067
    @lindaelick6067 2 роки тому +18

    Unless France used them as brooms, the stick with the feathers is called a feather duster and used as such. Such a very sad story of the people who lived there, it’s a shame it appears they had no other family. Depending on the year Juul was born he could be 57 to 60 years old now. Stories like this just break my heart, having to leave the only home he’s ever known to live in an asylum of some sort is so sad. The video was amazing though, with great respect and feeling to their legacy.

  • @ramona_rami5643
    @ramona_rami5643 2 роки тому +11

    Couples used to have a life time marriage ,back in the day and do anything for their families; the story of this beautiful family is really admirable and touching;how lovely the furniture,the tapistry and the wallpapers are! Thank you for this special exploration!

  • @janiebrossmann1178
    @janiebrossmann1178 2 роки тому +15

    So heartbreaking to hear about these types of tragedies 💔 😔 I just wish that there was some type of estate sale and the house would be sold and the money would be donated to the mental institution where the son is currently living. 🙏

  • @douglaslee7776
    @douglaslee7776 2 роки тому +17

    This place looks to be livable with only moderate repairs and cleaning. Thanks for your continued respect for property and persons as you explore.

  • @tracywarbritton2811
    @tracywarbritton2811 2 роки тому +7

    Heartbreaking story.

  • @cindyhazelton9683
    @cindyhazelton9683 2 роки тому +13

    The house was lovely. However, I can not comprehend in any way why people would go through stuff and leave the incredible piles on the floor or furniture being flipped.. .maybe they have to look for money and jewelry but in my mind..they need to be drop kicked where they stand for all the destruction they cause.
    I'm looking forward to your next video and the feather broom was for dusting..probably for Walls, the top of door ways and ceilings. Shorter handled feather dusters were for table and bureau tops..things that could be easily reached.

  • @kathleenodriscoll3203
    @kathleenodriscoll3203 2 роки тому +14

    You have great respect for people's homes and you're careful with everything it was a beautiful house and as you said there's a lot of love in the home with their special son , may his parents rest in peace.❤🙏🙏🙏🌹

  • @ellietobe
    @ellietobe 2 роки тому +12

    Don’t people write wills? It is so strange that there are so many beautiful abandoned homes there. People with a handicapped child should always have a will not only for property but for the care of their children should something happen to them. Certainly they must have had some family or friends or even an agency to leave the child and the home to. The sale of the house would help to pay for the care of the child. An insurance policy could have paid for the son to be well cared for instead of in the care of some government agency. It is just amazing that these homes are just left abandoned for decades with no resolution!
    The people who lived in this home knew how to decorate and had an appreciation for art. What a shame.

    • @susanfuller9942
      @susanfuller9942 2 роки тому +1

      I have raised my totally disabled Autistic daughter for 48 years and when I pass away my son and his wife will care for her. Here in the US, my daughter cannot own or inherit any real property or she would not be able to receive any financial living expense from the Government. She would be forced to sell mine and her home and live off of that money until it ran out.

    • @kathleenstanley6751
      @kathleenstanley6751 2 роки тому +1

      I'm so sorry you have this government rule to live by. Your daughter should be able to inherit and receive living expenses from the government. You are, undoubtedly, not a very wealthy person who dodges taxes and owns multiple homes and yachts with bank accounts in the Cayman's. Those folks don't need assistance and it is those folks who make the rules for every one of us so that we will always be less-off than them. Best of luck to you and your family.

    • @ellietobe
      @ellietobe 2 роки тому

      @@kathleenstanley6751 A mentally handicapped person certainly can inherit property in the US. One issue would be that the income from the inheritance may effect the child’s social security benefits. Mentally disabled children receive income from the government if they live on their own or if they live with parents that have an income that is under a certain amount. That amount varies according to the amount of property owned and/or any additional income from stocks etc. If the child inherits a large sum it could effect their social security benefits. These benefits are not a lot of money but enough for a person to live on with the other government assistance programs available.
      In the US disabled children with no income or low income receive disability/social security money monthly. There are also many other services provided. Obviously, a severely handicapped person would need a caretaker to help oversee their care and any inheritance, should the parents die. This caretaker can be appointed by the parents in a will.
      As in any civilized country a mentally disabled person or minor child has to have a caretaker to help them handle their daily care and finances depending on the level of disability. There are many mentally handicapped people who are able to live on their own and handle their own expenses. A minor child or adult that is severely mentally handicapped and cannot handle their own finances would need an appointed guardian to help handle any inheritance but the property would still belong to the child who inherits. If the parents do not leave a will appointing that guardian then the state has to do it as the instance in this video. I would assume that in most cases parents would much prefer deciding their child’s future over having the government do it.
      Any will has an executor to handle the dispensing of the possessions of the deceased. The appointed executor is usually in charge of making sure that a severely handicapped person’s inheritance is properly dispensed. Many times parents will choose a lawyer to do it. If the estate is too small to pay for a lawyer or executor to care for the finances then the parents can appoint a guardian for their child to oversee the care.
      The guardian would help take care of the over site of the inheritance and the care of the child. It is up to the parents to put their desires in their will. If there are no arrangements made by the parents ahead of their death then the state is forced to get involved.
      A child whose parents leave no will or income would be taken care of by government agencies and, yes, any property would be sold to help pay for the care of their child. This is why it is so important for parents, such as those referred to in this video, to make a will ahead of time. No one knows when an accident may happen. Even if the children have no handicap; parents should have a legal and binding will that states exactly who they want to care for their children and the division of the property. If there is no will then the state steps in and handles it in court. If there is a family member that wants the children there may be no problem but if their is a family squabble about who gets the children then it can get messy. It is important to see to such arrangements ahead of time.
      Disabled people with no additional income from the parents are pretty well taken care of in the U.S. by government agencies. If someone does not want their property to go to their disabled child upon their death they can leave it to someone else. It would seem that if they are not now paying for the care of their child then they probably will not leave any inheritance to that child that would take away their government benefits. Is that fair? Someone is paying for the care of that child. It is up to each person to decide.

    • @susanfuller9942
      @susanfuller9942 2 роки тому

      @@kathleenstanley6751 Government does get in the way sometimes, but Sarah and I are comfortable and happy. It does gall me that people like Jeff Bezos does not pay income tax and continues to pollute our fragile earth with his phallic machine, just for 30 seconds above the earth. Think of all the people on this earth he could save from hunger and disease with all the millions spent on his colossal ego.

  • @judyh.6956
    @judyh.6956 Рік тому +2

    I love the respect he shows for the homes he tours and the people who lived in them. And it’s wonderful to listen to him weave the story of their lives as he guides us through the home. Also, his accent is adorable.❤

  • @TamaraM72
    @TamaraM72 3 місяці тому

    Sweet Lesley I loved your moment of silence! I’ve never seen you do that before and it was truly lovely. No one else could do what you do how you do it! Your respect for the places and families is so beautiful. Love you so much my dear! 🥰♥️🇺🇸

  • @donnabradshaw3307
    @donnabradshaw3307 2 роки тому +47

    Sad but beautifully told. I’m surprised the state doesn’t take it. You are getting better and better at these videos. Keep it up. Love you all.💚🍀♥️♥️

    • @lissanne9769
      @lissanne9769 2 роки тому +1

      I'm not trying to be a troll. Could you explain your comment "You are getting better and better at these videos "? What's better?

    • @donnabradshaw3307
      @donnabradshaw3307 2 роки тому +3

      What I meant was when he first started doing his videos he jumped around too much with camera was hard to see things. Now he is great.

    • @janetshaffer423
      @janetshaffer423 2 роки тому +5

      I always loved his respectdul behavior...How he is speaking about the current owners parents and grandparents....Its lovely and a poignant reminder how short life is!

    • @ranisrikumar5735
      @ranisrikumar5735 Рік тому +1

      True, wonder the state doesn’t take such properties! Even the house of their parents’ eventually abandoned.. sad to see

  • @esthermarcen7587
    @esthermarcen7587 2 роки тому +9

    the box with the little shiny rectangular flower thing is a tool for putting to rest cutlery when you set a table for guests and you dress the table for an elegant meal. you put that and the guest can put their forks etc to rest there while they are chatting or whatever and is more elegant than if you put them on the dish, also resting there is not mistaken that you did finish the meal as if they were left on the dish. that is an old way, in some European countries

    • @melissapekarek3283
      @melissapekarek3283 2 роки тому +1

      This is fascinating. Thank you. Lovely idea, it's a shame it didn't catch on in the US.

  • @charlottebarbour1944
    @charlottebarbour1944 2 роки тому +6

    If the govt is taking care of the son that they would be allowed to sell the property. But every country has different laws. Another beautiful video. Thank you.

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 2 роки тому

      I suspect the house was built on the grandparents land and now the aunts and uncles are battling it out. It happens more often than you would think. Everybody trusts their parents' word and then the parents don't bother making a will.

  • @user-fh9ln1oo3v
    @user-fh9ln1oo3v 2 роки тому +7

    Спасибо за замечательный фильм, красивый дом, сразу видно, что здесь жила прекрасная семья

  • @hunhun23
    @hunhun23 2 роки тому +8

    IT IS SO SAD THAT NO ONE IS GOING IN THERE TO CARE FOR THE PLACE

  • @lindacaboni6523
    @lindacaboni6523 2 роки тому +5

    Grazie x la tua dolcezza nel raccontare questa triste storia. In questa casa resterà x sempre l'amore di mamma e papà x il loro dolce figlio. Nel cuore di Jul ci sarà la forza e l'amore dei suoi amati genitori. Grazie ragazzi siete grandi e sempre rispettosi educati e gentili.

  • @careyh38
    @careyh38 2 роки тому +15

    Wauw! The house is beautifully decorated . The rooster crowing at the beginning of the video was funny. Our neighbors have a rooster 🐓.
    Great respect for the family and sad story. Their son played accordion 🪗

  • @michaelpatterson5811
    @michaelpatterson5811 2 роки тому +7

    Your total respect for someone else's property shines out, Lesley, as always. Thank you for that. Your respectful pause in the bedroom was quite special.
    The little glass blocks in a box on the dresser in the Dining Room are cutlery rests - the French used to use just one set of cutlery throughout a meal, and these were used to kep the tablecloth clean ('gardez vos couverts!' the waitress may still tell you in small rural restaurants).

  • @carlahelin5203
    @carlahelin5203 2 роки тому +11

    Love the respect given to the parents with a moment of silence. So sad for their grown child.

  • @kathsmith4924
    @kathsmith4924 2 роки тому +8

    I’m sure the parents would have hoped there son took over all they worked for in there lives so sad 😞 it looks like someone has already been in and ransacked the property

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 2 роки тому +1

      I suspect the house was built on the grandparents land and everyone is squabbling over it.

  • @donnavaughn5393
    @donnavaughn5393 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks you my friend see you soon

  • @lynncorvillion7557
    @lynncorvillion7557 2 роки тому +9

    Beautiful house! But I feel sorry for the son! Gorgeous antiques there. Some of the wood pieces are really pretty! Thank so much for show us this💜

  • @maryroche5633
    @maryroche5633 11 місяців тому +3

    You are so kind and reverent in every video. This was a great one, sharing their lives with us is an honor.

  • @joyceguidry4099
    @joyceguidry4099 4 місяці тому

    The table should have a table cloth on it. So I think somebody staged the table. I love how much you respect the family.

  • @nannyofmany8315
    @nannyofmany8315 2 роки тому +6

    So beautiful. What an amazing home. So sad. The boy is alive presume. So nothing can be done to sell the house or anything like that. Tragic that it must just be left rather than being used to home a new family. Much impressed by the property. Struck by the lack of vandalism too. Wonderful.
    Wouldn’t it be great if you could find out what will happen to the property. I absolutely love it!! 🤗💜😁

  • @lesliegrossman916
    @lesliegrossman916 2 роки тому +4

    ONCE YOU DESTROY YOUR LUNGS YOU WILL HAVE NO WAY TO RESTORE THEM. YOU NEED THE BEST MASKS OUT THERE. WOW AS YOU SAY . WE ALL CARE ABOUT YOU SO ... YOU ARE BEING RECKLESS. ..... SPORES ARE NOT VISIBLE THAT FLOAT AROUND AND YOU BREATH IN . WE WANT YOU TO LIVE A LONG TIME AND FIND A WAY TO USE YOUR CARING IN MANY YEARS .TRUST ME I AM OLD AND I BET OTHERS FEEL THE SAME. SO GET AFTER LESLEY. ABOUT THIS. IF YOU THINK THE SAME WAY!!

  • @user-hj5bo8pl3t
    @user-hj5bo8pl3t 2 роки тому +4

    Я из России С Кавказа Сердце щемит от жалости что нет у парня поддержки нет человека который помог бы ему жить в доме среди воспоминаний и вещей его родителей Вам спасибо за прекрасный рассказ и отношение к памяти когда то живших с ув

  • @carrieg.4995
    @carrieg.4995 2 роки тому +1

    Those little items with the flowers, in the box in the dining area, were knife rests used on the table.

  • @babelynmababao8564
    @babelynmababao8564 2 роки тому +2

    Sometimes leslie you made me cry

  • @Chereese0808
    @Chereese0808 2 роки тому +4

    Beautiful home.
    The artwork is amazing.
    Such a sad story.
    The son may not still understand where his parents went.
    I hope he was able to understand that it was a tragic accident.
    Thanks for the tour.
    Your respect for others property is admired.
    Bless your kind heart for taking a moment of silence.
    That's very sweet of you.
    Bless your big heart. 💗

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Рік тому

      That’s nice to hear. Hi Chereese how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @vicentaportero3604
    @vicentaportero3604 2 роки тому +4

    Bros decay ermosa mansión Équipo saludos megusta asta la próxima.🙋🇪🇸🎥😘😘

  • @loubowen8082
    @loubowen8082 2 роки тому +4

    Place card holder for the guest for a dinner party

  • @marilyndenler1370
    @marilyndenler1370 2 роки тому +1

    I live in the state of Minnesota, US and back in the day they took photos of area farms, and if you saw yours in the local newspaper you could go to the newspaper and you’d receive a glossy 8”x10” photo of your farm. My grandparents had theirs displayed in the living room for years. Also, the large tapestry that you said was two women ? I believe was a man on the left and the woman on the right . Leslie, this was a charming home at one time with some lovely pieces of furniture. Thank you for making this video … oh, just want to add my parents were 2 weeks shy of their 70th wedding anniversary when my dad died. My mom had two brothers and three sisters and all celebrated sixty or more years of marriage except her younger brother who died before he and his wife were married that long. Hope you are enjoying your trip in the US!

  • @aquatadevore9335
    @aquatadevore9335 2 роки тому +3

    Those blackberries outside of the garage look delicious, I'd be picking a basket full for jam and a pie 😋

    • @lindatimmons3675
      @lindatimmons3675 2 роки тому +1

      Aquata DeVore.....
      I didn't see blackberries, I need to watch again.

    • @aquatadevore9335
      @aquatadevore9335 2 роки тому

      @@lindatimmons3675 They're literally right when Leslie walks out of the garage into the driveway and I could just barely see a few clusters of them in the bushes, but they weren't all ripe though, about half of them are ripe but the other ones are red

  • @ritafoster8625
    @ritafoster8625 2 роки тому +9

    Too bad he doesn't have aunts or uncles that could help him sell the place. So sad

    • @helengren9349
      @helengren9349 2 роки тому

      It is better if they continued to look after him in his home, instead of selling it...

  • @gloriacgiraldog4644
    @gloriacgiraldog4644 2 роки тому +17

    Que lástima que nadie se hiciera cargo de Juul, y sus cuidadores pudieran vivir con el en esta casa y evitar que el tiempos los años acaben con la casa
    Los muebles son hermosos y el gallo canta lindo
    Me gustan tus videos Leslie, por el respeto que le das a todas las pertenencias de personas, que alguna vez vivieron allí
    Saludos desde Colombia 💁🇨🇴🇨🇴🇨🇴
    Olvidé decirte que muero por un mueble de secretaria, aqui en mi pais, no los conocen

    • @Chereese0808
      @Chereese0808 2 роки тому +2

      Look on ebay for a secretary desk.
      You should be able to find many there, but I'm not sure.

    • @movingpicutres99
      @movingpicutres99 2 роки тому

      11.25 Figurines (little statues) not puppets.

    • @movingpicutres99
      @movingpicutres99 2 роки тому

      12.47 lampshade. Rome.

    • @movingpicutres99
      @movingpicutres99 2 роки тому

      13.57 not accountancy desk. Secretary desk. Drop leaf writing table.

  • @MistressElviraa
    @MistressElviraa Рік тому

    Beautiful story I hope the couple’s beloved son is able to see this video and is living a good life. The photo of him playing the instrument is beautiful. H

  • @priscylaoliveira7321
    @priscylaoliveira7321 2 роки тому +4

    This couple deserves my respect...fifty years of marriage...I'm 37 and even though I'm old I can't imagine myself sleeping and waking up next to the same person every single day...😅

  • @kristineguetschow9134
    @kristineguetschow9134 2 роки тому +38

    Surely Jules’ parents were aware of the fact that their son was incapable of maintaining the family homestead. Why, then, would they not arrange for the sale of the property after their deaths and for the proper care of their son in a facility? Instead, Jules is made to leave his home and is put in a mental asylum. The tragedy here is not so much in the abandonment of the homestead, but is in the forced living arrangements made for Jules after the death of his parents.

    • @MissPresley69
      @MissPresley69 2 роки тому +3

      Truth be spoken. I also don't believe that he was "born" with a mental illness. Dysfunctions in a family are often not recognised, until they show up in mental illnesses of the children.

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 2 роки тому +2

      It says so much if people don't put their affairs in order before they die. Sort of reminds me of the fella in Australia who abducted the little girl. His mother had died and obviously he couldn't cope either. Sad all around.

    • @Iam-me
      @Iam-me 2 роки тому

      Need to create trustee if you ve disable kid

    • @elimac5613
      @elimac5613 2 роки тому +3

      As a resident of France, I can assure everyone that it is likely that the son would have been made a ward of the state by his parents before their death. The house will only be disposed of once it is established that NO other relatives have a claim on it. France has very established inheritance laws and the process of sorting this out can take many years. The French state does not sell homes to pay for the care of those too old or incapable of looking after themselves. It should also be noted that whilst the house has been left, french neighbours and friends would be pretty unhappy to see someone looking about this house, no matter how respectful the presenter appears!

    • @MariaGonzalez-wg4fm
      @MariaGonzalez-wg4fm 2 роки тому +3

      Can somebody help juul ?, try to arrange visits to his home this video it's heartbreaking 💔😭 just hope someone can come forward & help him!🙏🏻

  • @watchshout9663
    @watchshout9663 Рік тому

    Im from the Philippines I like watching your videos abandoned houses and I realize how people living in year 1950s,1960s, to 1970s and I feel awful if I seeing the old things reminds of my grandma sewing clothes good luck and more videos to come

  • @irenevmabini
    @irenevmabini 11 місяців тому

    Nobody will take care of the house and if Juls is mentally ill then it doesn't matter to him. They just have to sell the property. I also pray for Juls and his parents in heaven. I feel that they are goid people.
    Another amazing document Leslie. Love this. Stay safe & healthy. 💖🙏

  • @mariaorellana867
    @mariaorellana867 2 роки тому +4

    Saludos desde Honduras y New Jersey.
    Me gusta la manera de entrar en cada habitación con respeto por las personas que la habitaron. Todo abandonado a su suerte, cada Cosa cada Rincón todo lo vivido alli y a quedado en el olvido. Una recomendación amigo una nevera con tantos años sin uso, nunca se abre es muy peligroso por las bacteria que ahí se Forman, y lo peor sin mascarilla. Bonito video.

  • @brandonwalker1623
    @brandonwalker1623 2 роки тому +2

    The picture on the lamp shade is of the Uffizi Gallery in Florence.

  • @DesertStarTheJku
    @DesertStarTheJku 2 роки тому +5

    🥺 So sad

    • @irmaguadaluperiveraalfaro4672
      @irmaguadaluperiveraalfaro4672 2 роки тому

      bonito documental me metí tanto en el que me creí estar en esa 🏡 casa desde Guatemala Centro América saludos

  • @kayunderwood8598
    @kayunderwood8598 2 роки тому +6

    Such a sad story. Appears to have been a beautiful and warm welcoming home.
    What you call an accountancy desk we (U.S.A.) call a secretary. Also, the feather broom, lol, it was a feather duster. Love the delicacy with which you handle these abandon places. Looking forward to next week's video!!!!

  • @annettechaw3203
    @annettechaw3203 4 місяці тому

    This video made me cry ...i really feel so so sorry..esp for JULES...

  • @froggieredcliffe8097
    @froggieredcliffe8097 11 місяців тому

    I don't know why, but the slippers made me cry. French people must be very respectful of each other. in other countries abandoned homes would be trashed !

  • @glenyshanlon5112
    @glenyshanlon5112 Рік тому

    Very sad there was no other family to take care of the son its heartbreaking 💔 that he had to be put into a home God bless 🙏 all the family. 🙏

  • @annsmith4739
    @annsmith4739 2 роки тому +4

    Great place sad story,thank you Lesley lv Ann uk 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️

  • @zaidasalazar9987
    @zaidasalazar9987 2 роки тому +5

    Me encanto, gracias,aunque no tiene subtitulos-
    Saludos desde Venezuela

  • @surrealistful
    @surrealistful 2 роки тому

    I just hope you never lose your accent; but if you do, your charm will always remain.

  • @sangmasantana1522
    @sangmasantana1522 Рік тому

    The house is still in good condition
    Beautiful furnitures n painting s ...hope someone could live here😌
    .

  • @lesliegrossman916
    @lesliegrossman916 2 роки тому +3

    SOME OF THIS LOOKS IN PERFECT ORDER WOW. AND YES THIS ONE IS A SAD ONE. .. I WONDER WHY FAMILY DOES NOT . DO ANYTHING WITH THESE AMAZING PLACES.

    • @TheAnonyy
      @TheAnonyy 2 роки тому

      Probably taxes! That roof would be expensive to deal with it's obviously started before they died May not had enough to fix it the plaster upstairs mostly fallen away

  • @colleenasteevesbos6975
    @colleenasteevesbos6975 2 роки тому +4

    Beautiful documentary on such a sad story. It’s a shame the the state didn’t sell the home and bank the money for their son. This way the home could be saved and remain beautiful.

  • @happierguppypuppy
    @happierguppypuppy 2 роки тому +2

    Those little flowered holders at 19:10 kind of remind me of chopstick rests to keep the tips of chopsticks and the tablecloth clean while in use. I din't see any other Asian influence in the house though. Maybe they were a gift.

  • @Sabrina-hu1bs
    @Sabrina-hu1bs 2 роки тому +3

    Такой дом красивый как жалко что хозяев нету грустно становится 🙇‍♀️ .Спасибо 💯👍👍👏👏👏

  • @emoji5005
    @emoji5005 2 роки тому +8

    What a wonderful family,thank you for sharing their story. Much love from USA

  • @reginaduncan3714
    @reginaduncan3714 2 роки тому +1

    I love this house , 😢 can’t the family or the state sell this house for there son for his care . What a sad story

  • @squirrel-P998
    @squirrel-P998 Рік тому

    I feel sorry for Joule, how is he now? I sympathized with him that he did not live in the house his parents had built for him so sad
    The house is very beautiful ... he should be able to live and have someone take care of him.;(

  • @ssm9451
    @ssm9451 19 днів тому

    Thank you Lesley. This place is amazing.

  • @elianeradoux2825
    @elianeradoux2825 2 роки тому +1

    Quel beau commentaire.
    Merci pour le respect que vous avez eu dans la visite de cette maison j'ai était très touché. Bonne continuation.

  • @elizabethengquist4185
    @elizabethengquist4185 2 роки тому +3

    I hate that vandals have come in and the deterioration.

  • @KaiqueNask
    @KaiqueNask 2 роки тому +4

    The respectful and enthusiastic way that you go through the house is admirable - shows how great and professional this channel is. I love it!

  • @kathyg7056
    @kathyg7056 2 роки тому +3

    I think you have the bedrooms switched. Judging by the things in the rooms, the room with pink wallpaper would be where his mother slept.

  • @julielevesque1675
    @julielevesque1675 Рік тому

    I wish I could go with you before you make the films. I could teach you so much about arts, time periods, dating antiques, "religous" traditions, social traditions and even medicines and herbs. I love what you do and how you do it, but you have so much to learn! So much missed for lack of more detailed knowledge.

  • @JaKaiMS
    @JaKaiMS 2 роки тому +5

    I mostly enjoy these type of vids for the decoration and architecture, but I honestly have a hard time watching any other channel after finding this one. They just never have such amazing respect and obvious passion for the places and there always seems to be a gimic of sorts. I will keep eagerly waiting for more of these beautiful vids.

  • @froggieredcliffe8097
    @froggieredcliffe8097 11 місяців тому

    Hi Lesley, this is another sad story. You do a great tribute to the Families that you document. Thank you

  • @carmengalindopelaez9159
    @carmengalindopelaez9159 2 роки тому +6

    Como siempre precioso video. Que triste ver la decadencia en estas casas que en otro tiempo se decoration con tanto gusto. Como en la mayoría de las casa que nos enseñas ya han sido saqueada y es una verdadera lástima.
    Un saludo

  • @tammywilloughby8013
    @tammywilloughby8013 Місяць тому

    I don't understand why the state doesn't step in and sell everything. If he is mentally unstable, than the money can go in an account to take care of him better and things he may need..so sad..God Bless him😥💜🙏

  • @traceysuggers2201
    @traceysuggers2201 Рік тому

    That is such a shame but look how beautiful it is, and like I say, I think someone comes in there and cleans it for him

  • @rusnahjalani8535
    @rusnahjalani8535 2 роки тому

    With lots of love and gratitude...
    From North Borneo Sabah Malaysia
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @christinelaurent165
    @christinelaurent165 2 роки тому

    Very sad story... I hope the son have found a very pleasant refuge, with plenty of very nice people to take care of him...

  • @ruthbeck2050
    @ruthbeck2050 2 роки тому +3

    This place was beautiful to bad their son wasn't able to keep it up. I wish him the best life can offer him. Parts of the house looks like it has been vandalized. Really enjoyed seeing it, thank you so much. Be careful Leslie don't want anything to happen to you as I love your videos.

  • @user-em3fm8li5c
    @user-em3fm8li5c 2 роки тому +13

    Жизнь штука не предсказуемая. Грустная история. Есть дом, есть хозяин, но дом обречен на умирание. Спасибо, что посвятили нас в эту историю. Всем здоровья. С любовью из России.💯👍💯👍🙏🙏🙏😇❤🇷🇺🇷🇺🇷🇺

    • @deliatellez4247
      @deliatellez4247 Рік тому +1

      Con cariño y mucho amor para Russia 🇷🇺 la Madre patria, Viva Russia 🇷🇺 VIVA PUTIN

    • @user-em3fm8li5c
      @user-em3fm8li5c Рік тому

      @@deliatellez4247 💞🌞🙏🙏🙏😇

    • @user-fw4yg8nd5d
      @user-fw4yg8nd5d Рік тому

      Рассказ ведётся на английском , что понять можно ? .
      Или можно русский перевод настроит субтитров ?

  • @alexandravatavuk3796
    @alexandravatavuk3796 2 роки тому +4

    You are brilliant. Very good at what you do, and good looking too! Love from 🇺🇸

  • @aceofheartstv5891
    @aceofheartstv5891 2 роки тому

    Wow!, you really not scared going inside this 60yrs abandoned house..Furniture are still intact...but scared to touch..

  • @debigrimes1127
    @debigrimes1127 2 роки тому

    you will have a wonderful relationship. you are so amazing ..have been married 30 yrs .be honest and kind .that's all it takes

  • @brucesumter4327
    @brucesumter4327 2 роки тому +2

    wow so cool old house i still got landline for my compture nets also still used tge lneline too ty for showing this video

  • @anafabiano9019
    @anafabiano9019 2 роки тому +3

    A Wonderful video as always!
    Gratitude!🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼🥰🥰

  • @marystonge1
    @marystonge1 2 роки тому +2

    You really honor these families with showing such respect to their homes. Thank you so much for doing these videos.

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Рік тому

      Same here!
      Hello Mary how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @gachagachajen
    @gachagachajen 2 роки тому +1

    I greatly appreciate the care you take with everything you touch, no matter how dilapidated it is. You appreciate that the items and home once belonged to someone and you respect that and I respect and appreciate you for that. Thank you for sharing these wonderful places with the world.

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Рік тому

      Same here he did a great Job.
      Hello Jen how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @fatimanascimento3915
    @fatimanascimento3915 2 роки тому +2

    Oi boa tarde que casa linda que tragedia na vida do rapaz

  • @murielbarker4311
    @murielbarker4311 2 роки тому

    Get some gardeners in that garden they would sort it out in no time hope this house can be sold as the son can no longer live there as his much loved parents are no longer here to care for him it's a really beautiful house that would not take long to bring back to life again Thanks for a beautiful video and the moment of silence for the parents

  • @donnadeandean2720
    @donnadeandean2720 Рік тому

    I am new to your channel. I love it. Your a very good tour guide of castles. I admire how you respect and take care of the items of the people who lost their homes. I will be following you, here from California. I once visited France and Europe. Where my ancestors came from many years ago. I love old buildings and homes. Exciting how people lived back in the day. Thank you for sharing. Sure beats the news channels. 🥰😇

  • @nesasyahirah4928
    @nesasyahirah4928 2 роки тому +3

    My godness beautiful finding abandoned house…i always admired all the stunning caste/house that u bring to us Lesly…

    • @jmitterii2
      @jmitterii2 2 роки тому +1

      This one isn't "really" abandoned. It's just not occupied by the currently mentally incapacitated person.
      I don't know... glad he risks it for us... to watch.. but... this one is breaking and entering... and that's a felony in the US. I wouldn't do it LOL!

  • @marcellaallard6282
    @marcellaallard6282 Рік тому

    I love this house so sad they died being older and died together makes it even sadder for the son love your channel

  • @anunciaveamonteserrano2641
    @anunciaveamonteserrano2641 2 роки тому +2

    Me he suscrito,me gusta tu trabajo y yo creo que esa casa ya estaba vandalizada.
    Saludos desde España 🇪🇦

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Рік тому

      That sound sweet I like his handwork as well. Hi there hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @flowers1969
    @flowers1969 2 роки тому +1

    It's exactly keeped clean and really looked after beautiful