these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings , tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please don't report me.
three reasons why japanese doesn't make good friends: first, they makes zero efforts to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak japanese they laugh at our accents and they don't forgive bad pronounciations secondly, they refuse to show their feelings no matter how polite, kind and respectful we are. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle (in fact it's only when they get drunk, it's pathetic) and thirdly, they love to criticize the others in their back. they judge them without knowing them, they don't give us any chance. they don't tell our mistakes, how can we improve ourselves. i like japan, for what it has naturally, but i do not get why its locals are so well seen in the world.
Can you do singaporean women or men date please??? 🙏🙏🙏 As I'm from Singapore. I can't wait to watch the "you know you're dating a Singaporean when" on the future. See how Singaporean reacts to foreign dating..... I'm waiting..... That's the highly recommended, thanks.
I can relate to this. I asked a Japanese girl out once and she asked if she could invite her friend. So I had to scramble to find someone to go with me. LOL. It all turned out okay in the end since we got married and have two kids.
@@mermaidmylife many germans are dressed very practical, so it doesn't mattter if they're going on a short hike spontaniously, as they're alreasy wearing sports clothing and/or a softshell jacket anyway XD
I vouch for that. Not only that, they're also independent and hardworking! Been dating a Japanese girl for almost a year now and booyy how lucky I am..
Kinda weird that this video didn't spell it out directly, but in Japanese culture public displays of affection is frowned upon , especially kissing, which is almost never done. Also, the _kokuhaku_ (confession of romantic feelings) is an important concept in Japanese dating culture. In my experience, physical intimacy usually comes after the _kokuhaku_ so that both parties know explicitly that they are dating. Avoiding uncertainty and awkward misunderstandings is highly valued in Japanese culture.
Japanese women find it difficult to turn down men who ask them out of a date - perhaps especially foreign men - so you'll have to observe them carefully to determine if they are genuinely interested in you. For the same reason, even if she agrees to go out on a date, it's not necessarily a sign that she has a romantic interest in you. That said Japanese women don't have the same notion of casual dating that is prevalent in the West, so they will probably be taking any dates after your first pretty seriously. So, understanding this, foreign guys should also take them seriously. As a Western male, I was repeatedly surprised at how rapidly Japanese women's conception of the seriousness of our relationship progressed.
@@reginaldhouse7731 If that's all you're looking for and you have means, you might be better off with Japan's version of a sugar baby because the expectations will be clear on both sides. There are sugar dating services in Japan that help to make introductions. But if you are dating normally, I think the key is just to be very clear on your first date about your intentions (e.g., not marriage minded, just looking for a playmate to share good times). A minority of women will still take you up on the offer. The problem is that a good number of those, if they (come to) like you, will still become serious about your relationship alarmingly quickly. But at least you will be able to tell them that you did not deceive them as to your intentions; that they deluded themselves. That makes breaking it off somewhat easier. And if you cut things off, be kind so you don't give foreign men in general a bad reputation. So, the good news is that you will likely have a much better chance of getting that first date than you would in your home country. The bad news is that, if you are honest about your intentions, a high proportion will not want to proceed any further. And then you'll still have to be cautious about the remainder trying to convert you into the marrying type and then becoming distraught if/when they fail. Good luck!
I love Chinese egg and rice. Haven't tried the Japanese one. But I love Japanese sushi and fishes. Is the Japanese version nice?? I have to try it one day.
Yess Soo true ikr. It was Soo akward and embarassing for the poor guy. That was the second time he was trying to show his affection but he kept getting rejected.
Love the internal monologue during their spontaneous date. it really shows the cultural difference in communication between Asia and non-Asian people. Whereas, Asians tend to withdraw their feelings, non-Asians will wear their hearts on their sleeves.
Hey everyone! Finally the Covid situation in Canada has improved and as we go to Stage 3 we figured it was a good window of time to go back to our favourite series. Hope you enjoyed!
Thank you! Love it! A true but hilarious video! Stay safe Marina. Glad that the situation is getting better. I'm so glad that you did Japanese woman version. I loved the Japanese man one a few years ago too. Any plan for YKYD a Filipino MAN???
Last time I spoke with 3 foreigners living in Japan they just gave me 1 funny tip. If a girl proposes or more or less insists on going to karaoke with you... If you into her, doesn't matter if you like singing or not, you say: YES! Supposedly, karaoke bars at not just for singing.
Oh my god, I just recently found this channel and it's my favourite rabbithole. I start with one video, and now it's 3 AM and I could still go on and on. Thank you for this amazing content!
One definitely has to take their time when dating a Japanese woman. Don't expect a kiss or even a hug sometimes on the first date. However the good things comes to those who wait to patience is a virtue.
My gf is Japanese, I can relate to all except for the group date, also, after watching this video, I’m not sure if my success with Japanese is because I was too fast, or too slow but I was never rejected a kiss before from a Japanese woman 😅. And as a good Argentinian, I used to play the spontaneous card a lot! Little I know it can cause so much stress for them! 🤣
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings , tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please don't report me.
I am half Russian and I can say that all shown here applies 100% to Russian girls that had rather traditional upbringing. There are not many of them these days. I think less than 5%.
Funny thing is, that I live in Toronto, I have a Japanese Girlfriend, and I took her to the same spot where the video starts when we started dating haha
"The Japanese show there affection in a less expressive way. Big romantic words and I love you's are not thrown around freely." FYI for quite a while the best way to say "I love you" in Japanese was "the moon tonight is beautiful". Keep that in mind.
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings , tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please don't report me.
Dating a woman from Eastern Civilization (if you are a Western man) is very hard. Success is built on mistakes and misunderstanding over time. There has to be a very strong desire to the understand the other person and much patience. It is not a good idea to even start this kind of relationship if you want someone like you.
My wife of 40 years is Chinese from the Philippines and I met her in the US. On our dates, it took a while for her to let me hold her hand. We got along very well and spoke every night for hours. I didn't realize until later that in her culture, a woman didn't hold hands or kiss unless she really liked the guy. After our first kiss, she asked me later on the phone if I wanted to date exclusively and 10 minutes later we were engaged. I was in love with her at first sight. She was way beyond the "city girls" i had been dating.
I literally can relate to this video because living in Japan for so many years, has made me see how Japanese women are and this video is speaking truth!
You should never, ever, ever be "spontaneous" for dates. Always tell them where, ya'll are going, when you'll meet, and exactly what you're going to do. If you want her opinion, that's fine, just ask her and plan in advance. Otherwise we'll just panic.
@@AttaBek1422 unless you go out with a literal stranger you have never ever known before and you have no contract with anyone,the chances of it are very slim
I have to say that this video was great fun to watch! The insightfulness and the approach to how Japanese women handle their emotions compared to Western society is very interesting and we really enjoyed watching this video. You are making some excellent high quality content so please keep it up and we look forward to seeing more of your videos in the future!
The cultural differences are so funny! Actually the concept of group dates sounds a safer way to get to know people, maybe more countries should adopt this
I feel like girls all over the world want you to take the lead in what to do on a date. From Morocco, to china, to cuba, to denmark, that has been my experience dating.
As a girl I'm ashamed to admit it but you're right. Maybe due to education, I'm always afraid that what I suggest will not be the taste of my partner. A guy might be very rude if what you planned is not what he wants to do. So it's better to let him choose.
Thank you for this new one! I had been expecting it for a long time. They may not be very straight forward about their feelings in the beginning but you can lead her and once she's on track, she'll be the sweetest girl you can be with.
It's because specific words that have a different contextual meaning is not going to be leaky translated it's going to be translated in context like in the video it said "Lucky Dress" for Kawaii
I don't think that eastern woman wants a Latino mommy's boy. She spent time to prepare for a date. Hiking... Is he blind? or just selfish? She will be with a man whom she doesn't need to ask or explain herself. A man makes decisions on a date to show her what he is, is he interested.
@@anasmith5683 I understand what you're saying, and I think you're probably an Asian yourself when you are giving so many details about that, but this is a bit exaggerated as a situation, so it will be much smoother in real life with those two I believe...Of course the hiking thing was TOO much, but only for the video purposes, I don't think that anyone could do that if he saw his date in a dress.. I don't say they would be the PERFECT couple, but definitely a very very cute one 😊
@@purplezone6693 I'm Russian in the US. I see how the two worlds interact. Western men want equality in private relationships = treat you as a friend+sleep with you. Equality is for coworkers and friends, not for a woman who will be pregnant from you and nurse your kids. If I was preparing for a date (I do not go for a date with everybody who invites me) and I see that guy even don't try to be a gentleman -> Thanks -Next. There is just one place next to me and it's not for a male (they are not men yet in my mind) who didn't notice my efforts or wanna split a bill. I will accept the western "equality" approach in private relationship when men will make kids as women do. I don't expect my coworkers or male friends to pay for me. I don't need male friends btw, I have girls.
@@anasmith5683 I now see clearly the cultural gap you are facing...the Eastern and Western cultures are sooo much different in many ways...Btw if you're looking for this strong and old school male it would be better not to search in the US, or for him to be a balkan or an eastern guy who lives in the States too. Btw I believe strongly in equality especially in relationships but not the "hardcore" one like in US..i think you know what i mean.. but thats subjective and it also depends on the environment that you grow up in. These are awesome conversations and can be pretty long, so obviously we can't discuss it from here.. I really hope for you to find what you're looking for, and God may be with you girl!! ;)
Alright. I'm a 29 year-old non-white Canadian, married to a Japanese woman the same age. Been living in Japan(Tokyo) since 2015 and speak intermediate level Japanese(enough to communicate and describe my opinions and do interviews.) I have "dated" a few Japanese girls including one-night stands(one night love as its called here) and notice the word in quotation marks. Dating is taken loosely here in Tokyo. I can give a few points. They are great and not so great sometimes. 1. You HAVE to differentiate between a westernized/English-loving Japanese girl and a traditional one who is more into her own Japanese sub-culture. Don't think even for a second being a foreigner is somehow going to get you a Japanese girl as it will in the other Asian countries like Phillipians, Thailand, and China. Japan is a different beast. 2. If you think the Japanese girls in this video are cute, you ain't seen shit yet. The hottest Japanese girls usually speak little to no English and date exclusively Japanese men. This goes for the majority of S.Korea as well. 3. The man to deciding is CRITICAL. DO NOT approach dating a Japanese girl with a western approach for the actual date itself as in going out to eat and not deciding things beforehand. Japanese girls HATE deciding what to do and where to go and they hate men who can't decide EVEN more. She will ghost you after that date. Have that shit timed to the half-hour increments. Be a man, and decide shit for her. Even food choices sometimes. Suggest things to her and take the lead whenever you can. Make the date easy for her to enjoy. 4. Approach conversation differently. Most Japanese girls will not tell you how they feel and why should they? I find it quite awkward being asked how they feel about the experience in a "yes or no" type fashion. The conversation is more of a collaboration rather than "discussion, back and forth debate" or information-sharing conversation. Learn the differences. And watch your body language. It says a lot. 5. Don't converse with them logically, rather, share your experiences and take on things and she will join in on whatever they find interesting to talk about. They are quite intelligent but don't expect a lot of knowledge-based conversation as they will find it dull. Reminds them of an authority figure who they do not like. no one likes a "know-it-all". I can answer questions based on mine and other guy's experiences.
How do Japanese women view non white westerners? More specifically Hispanics? There are all the stereotypes of them being obsessed with white people, just want to know how true this is?
That's why I prefer dating in Germany. Much more straightforward and relaxed. Plus the women will ask you out and be upfront instead of relying on cues. At least more than in the US or Japan.
Lollll dying😂😂 It was Soo funny when the Japanese girl and her bf went on a date to the "Gachon" and he was all confused and didn't know what was up when she bought her friends. He felt sooo weird. And when he couldn't decide what they should do and the Japanese girl was annoyed but trying to remain calm.
I loved this video! And I love that the japanese woman be friendly because not everything in the world is your boyfriend. I liked that they are so organized, we the mexicans could learn something of them. I think it's beautiful that she's reseved with her feelings and her way of showing affection because so you have to show love every day, and you have to be relaxed. I really like that they're very healthy with her food this is amazing, I have to learn something about this xD. At last, I don't know woman more beautiful than the japanese. :)
Yayyy!! Finally Japanese woman!! This was Soo nice and Romantic. X💕 Thank you soo much Marina for making the dating a Japanese woman video, I'm soo excited and happy about this!! Japanese men and women are Soo kind and sweet ppl and I really wanted to get know even more about their cultures. Have a lovely day. Take care. :)
three reasons why japanese doesn't make good friends: first, they makes zero efforts to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak japanese they laugh at our accents and they don't forgive bad pronounciations secondly, they refuse to show their feelings no matter how polite, kind and respectful we are. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle (in fact it's only when they get drunk, it's pathetic) and thirdly, they love to criticize the others in their back. they judge them without knowing them, they don't give us any chance. they don't tell our mistakes, how can we improve ourselves. i like japan, for what it has naturally, but i do not get why its locals are so well seen in the world.
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings , tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please don't report me.
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings , tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please don't report me.
bravo you just discourage us to go in japan. japanese shouldn't be surprised or saddened that less and less gaijin come to japan one day. because of their culture.
In our culture, we don't say "I love you" too. We were taught that love is to be proven by action not words. Body languages or actions matter more than words. At least, that's what we believe.
@@ナホゆか but why? Having Mexican parents they always told me that finding the right girl isn’t always easy and that I would have to be the one who makes the first move XD
emmmm, I feel like this one more relatable to me than the one with "Chinese woman". BTW, I'm living in Oslo and I feel like the scandinavian dating culture is soooo different from Asian. I'm kinda looking forward to seeing some videos about couples from different culture.
Amazing how a young Spanish man goes on a date with a young Japanese Woman [who is learning how to speak English] in today's new Dating Beyond Borders video. 👍🏿😀🙌🏿
Drinker more like. Every Scottish woman I knew could knock back a pint like an English Rugby Player, but better and with more balls! And very Scottish Nationalist too.
That’s so relatable. I can’t express my love to someone directly 😂😣 one time I went out with a Latino man and I said “you are kind, thank you”,but he said” don’t say kind and thank you ~”. I thought it was the best way to express my appreciations for him because it was our first date . We still keep in touch together and I really like him but don’t know what is the appropriate words to express my love and make him happy 😣maybe I should just say I love him. why is it difficult for me 😂
I was waiting for the remark about how cheating is super super common in Japan. But I guess you guys dont wanna ruin it for the people with the rose-tinted glasses :D
@@mojewjewjew4420 its for multiple reasons. Japan may be super modern with technology, but their society standards are still stuck in the 50s. I suppose some key points are: society expects you to get married in your 20s, so some people may end up in a marriage due to social pressure, not because they're marrying the love of their lives. So they just cheat. Japanese people also don't really talk about their problems due to fear of making the other person feel uncomfortable. Sexual frustrations? Not spending enough quality time? Yeah, nah, easier to just cheat than talk it out. Also, traditional roles are expected during marriage. So women are the caretakers while husbands are the financial providers spending lots and lots of overtime in the office etc. This makes it super easy to cheat without anyone ever knowing. the wife can do it while her husband is at work. and the husband can do it after work claiming he had to work overtime. Also, there's love hotels everywhere that are cheap and you can rent them by the hour. I'm not saying every single person cheats or that true faithful love doesn't exist in japan, but the "cheating culture" is big there.
From what I have seen Japanese can be a lot more formal. There is lots of implied stuff in the west but confessions seem to be a thing in Japan (expressing in words that you like them and want to date them), despite all the reading of atmosphere that you have to do
I had a Japanese girlfriend, I like her habits, I love her very much, I lived with her for about 3 years. Everything was amazing and wonderful, I'm fine with everything, but the problem was just eating and drinking because I belong to a Muslim family, Finally she went back to Japan. I still miss him a lot ..
I didn’t want to be all “aww she’s so cute!” but... DANGIT she is! 😅 Oh man but as soon I saw that natto... poor guy 😂 I’m living in Korea right now - I forget, have you done videos for those?
been with a Japanese woman and there's some truth to the statement. Remember hearing I think I'm paranoid by Garbage? she was near identical to the lyrics.
In all The Dating Beyond Borders videos, this is one of the most wholesome ones. There was no bar scene in this one unlike the other videos I’ve watched.
_Goukon_ is arranged and prepared beforehand between groups of friends. It is not something what a girl would easily propose to do to a guy she just met. She would be shy to even say that word. It is a party with equal numbers of male and female participants to provide an opportunity to find a GF/BF and form couples. It's not like just the "Can-I-bring-my-friend-with-me?" thing that many girls in many countries do when they are not interested in the guy very much, it's a prearranged match-making event.
Agree on the date planning. You can't be spontaneous unless u understand them enough to make safe bets - also sucks wearing incorrect clothes. So glad I'm female too - Japan has some serious double-edged tilt for relationships + the men r less willing to follow it. So thats y im glad
I dated a Japanese woman once. She was very strict on no PDA what so ever. However she was very affectionate in private. Actually, I think she said, I love you more than any other woman I ever dated. She was also very aggressive romantically. Maybe because she lived in the United States a few years prior to me meeting her, idk?
The Japanese woman was really attractive and sweet. The guy deciding to take her on a hike was a seriously boneheaded move, considering how she was dressed. Poor Chandler is in serious horndog mode (he'll take anybody). Hope he finds happiness.
I love japan culture. I always wanted to get to know more from them, dating a japanese woman is on my mind, quite a few nationalities may be a match with mine.....
1:22 that dude is lit 🔥! He knows how to own his shit “I’ve got some hot girls for you...” How can his friends not show up just a millisecond after that text?
Wow as a Japanese girl, I’m only eligible for a few. Maybe I am more like American 😂 I hope not everybody expects these traits for Japanese women. They are kind of conservative Japanese women.
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these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings ,
tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're
not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please
don't report me.
@@maegalroammis6020 i think so to this can be and Japan is very far i prefer africa
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three reasons why japanese doesn't make good friends:
first, they makes zero efforts to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak japanese they laugh at our accents and they don't forgive bad pronounciations
secondly, they refuse to show their feelings no matter how polite, kind and respectful we are. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle (in fact it's only when they get drunk, it's pathetic)
and thirdly, they love to criticize the others in their back. they judge them without knowing them, they don't give us any chance. they don't tell our mistakes, how can we improve ourselves.
i like japan, for what it has naturally, but i do not get why its locals are so well seen in the world.
Can you do singaporean women or men date please??? 🙏🙏🙏 As I'm from Singapore. I can't wait to watch the "you know you're dating a Singaporean when" on the future. See how Singaporean reacts to foreign dating..... I'm waiting..... That's the highly recommended, thanks.
I can relate to this. I asked a Japanese girl out once and she asked if she could invite her friend. So I had to scramble to find someone to go with me. LOL. It all turned out okay in the end since we got married and have two kids.
What a nice plot twist!
so funny the way you mentioned it!
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
i'm also want to live the dream don pool
Bless you
Me, a Japanese watching this right after eating a bowl of rice with an egg and natto: oh man this is so stereotyped........wait Nani!!?
Ikr. A lot of japanese people don't even really like natto all that much, (too sticky and slimy...)
kucimiao yeah i know i also don't love it because it's stinky and sticky! but it's bloody healthy!!
could you tell me what is wrong in this video?
@Rodrigo Santos Valeriano yeah these are the best combination!
@@LucasHenrique-it2io i felt that it was off course exaggerated but correct overall
Okay, I feel like most guys wouldn't insist on a hike if they saw the girl they're going on a date with, wearing a dress. But hey, what do I know
Canadians man
German guys do!
@@mermaidmylife Strange. A German also commented this above "Definitely not me either. I am German, we love our lists and schedules."
April Ü Every person is different. But what I wrote is based on my experience living in Germany for 7 years.
@@mermaidmylife many germans are dressed very practical, so it doesn't mattter if they're going on a short hike spontaniously, as they're alreasy wearing sports clothing and/or a softshell jacket anyway XD
What I got from this is Japanese women are naturally adorable.
I vouch for that. Not only that, they're also independent and hardworking! Been dating a Japanese girl for almost a year now and booyy how lucky I am..
Can confirm
Heeey why only Japanese :D
Meh hate girls who are easy to get and dont communicate emotions.
Vale Lu because white girls are already everywhere
Kinda weird that this video didn't spell it out directly, but in Japanese culture public displays of affection is frowned upon , especially kissing, which is almost never done. Also, the _kokuhaku_ (confession of romantic feelings) is an important concept in Japanese dating culture. In my experience, physical intimacy usually comes after the _kokuhaku_ so that both parties know explicitly that they are dating. Avoiding uncertainty and awkward misunderstandings is highly valued in Japanese culture.
Kokuhaku is not an important part of dating in Japan these days, especially if you are a foreigner.
@Blackwolf I should charge you for dry cleaning for making me staining my shirt with coffee. Was expecting that, that was funny.
that's why it's not a good idea to date these people.
women like them are a waste of time.
Wow i love Japan more and more
2:46 I wouldn’t like that spontaneous change of plans either.
Must be the South American way of dating XD
Definitely not me either. I am German, we love our lists and schedules.
Nobody would do that.. it’s selfish. No matter what the nationality.
@@gewglesux Not in Latin America
@@aristotleofathens6806 Really?
I'd be super mad if someone changes plans abruptly, it is rude asf.
You can't date a Brazilian then - or any Latino for that matter. We are spontaneous as fuck!
Agreed.
Yes yes
it sounds like you need to be in control. Which is your prerogative, but you shouldn't insult people for being more laid back
In conclusion: dating other cultures doesnt for serious and long term plans.
I'm Japanese woman. I had been waiting for this!!!! Thank you 🙏🏻
スキマスイッチかと思って笑いましたww
rida Pit 笑っていただけて嬉しいです😂
Japanese are kind sweet people, love to Japanese people. ♥️♥️♥️ Btw I also love the language and songs I enjoy listening to the songs a lot.
Cansu Taraneh Yasemin Mustafa i deeply appreciate it😊😊
Rida Pit You're welcome 😊
Japanese women find it difficult to turn down men who ask them out of a date - perhaps especially foreign men - so you'll have to observe them carefully to determine if they are genuinely interested in you. For the same reason, even if she agrees to go out on a date, it's not necessarily a sign that she has a romantic interest in you. That said Japanese women don't have the same notion of casual dating that is prevalent in the West, so they will probably be taking any dates after your first pretty seriously. So, understanding this, foreign guys should also take them seriously. As a Western male, I was repeatedly surprised at how rapidly Japanese women's conception of the seriousness of our relationship progressed.
So where do you find Japanese women who are open to causal dates, one night stands, and...dare I say...an open relationship?
@@reginaldhouse7731 If that's all you're looking for and you have means, you might be better off with Japan's version of a sugar baby because the expectations will be clear on both sides. There are sugar dating services in Japan that help to make introductions. But if you are dating normally, I think the key is just to be very clear on your first date about your intentions (e.g., not marriage minded, just looking for a playmate to share good times). A minority of women will still take you up on the offer. The problem is that a good number of those, if they (come to) like you, will still become serious about your relationship alarmingly quickly. But at least you will be able to tell them that you did not deceive them as to your intentions; that they deluded themselves. That makes breaking it off somewhat easier. And if you cut things off, be kind so you don't give foreign men in general a bad reputation.
So, the good news is that you will likely have a much better chance of getting that first date than you would in your home country. The bad news is that, if you are honest about your intentions, a high proportion will not want to proceed any further. And then you'll still have to be cautious about the remainder trying to convert you into the marrying type and then becoming distraught if/when they fail. Good luck!
@@reginaldhouse7731 Osaka
it's just impossible to befriend a japanese.
@@gallaxian I don't think hardly any countries in eastern Asia are that open to casual. Not even ones like Thailand.
As a Japanese woman, I’m having so much fun reading the comments😂😂
@Quenny Lekiavil You’re awful. Leave her alone.
@@chandagrinne4771
I reported "Daernil Bianul" for hate speech.
If that's how Japanese girls are, and is relatable. I must say..They're very cute. Very bubbly..Naturally..
As a weirdo man I'd ask, everything is realistic in the video? I assume partially yes
@david hacckerman Then clearly you have never looked in a mirror if the goukon is the stupidest thing you have ever seen .
You know you’re dating a japanese woman when there is subtitles
I thought when everything is censored hahaha lol jk
@@marloyorkrodriguez9975 wtf 😂😂😂
Lol
Yes! : )
How does someone go from pancakes to a hike in the spirit or being “spontaneous”? Any person in their right mind would be pissed lol
Right? I'd be mad as hell.
I know right especially if I was promised fluffy Japanese pancakes and hype myself about it.
She was very polite about it. I would speak up.
Right? I came with an appetite, not sunblock and boots.
Que hueva debe ser salir contigo xd
Not related but I LOVED the japanese girl's outfits!! That pink dress is DIVINE 😍😍😍
It is so related.
Ikr I need it so much 😂
Right! Could not help but keep thinking about that dress. I want one like that
Married a Japanese woman. The raw egg and rice is so true. Luckily she doesn't like Natto!
That must be Japanese raw egg. I wouldn't eat raw egg in any other country.
My japanese wife and i love natto
I love Chinese egg and rice. Haven't tried the Japanese one. But I love Japanese sushi and fishes. Is the Japanese version nice?? I have to try it one day.
I am Dominican and we do egg over rice as well. So delicious!
@@jsprite123 why
Do dating a South Korean woman or man next.
Guaranteed 1M< views if they do dating a Korean guy 😂
@@siavashpurfallah3552 just watch the kdrama emergency land in your heart
That will be so interesting
Hey, whats wrong with dating a north korean woman?? Ah, right....
please
That slow-mo on the kiss was hilarious! Her change of expression was priceless.
Yess Soo true ikr. It was Soo akward and embarassing for the poor guy. That was the second time he was trying to show his affection but he kept getting rejected.
I learned my lesson... takes time.
Yes!! 😂
Do you know the name of the anime?
@@taraaa3708 Count your blessings and be glad for living in a place where none of such things occur!
Love the internal monologue during their spontaneous date. it really shows the cultural difference in communication between Asia and non-Asian people. Whereas, Asians tend to withdraw their feelings, non-Asians will wear their hearts on their sleeves.
Hey everyone! Finally the Covid situation in Canada has improved and as we go to Stage 3 we figured it was a good window of time to go back to our favourite series. Hope you enjoyed!
Thank you! Love it! A true but hilarious video! Stay safe Marina. Glad that the situation is getting better. I'm so glad that you did Japanese woman version. I loved the Japanese man one a few years ago too. Any plan for YKYD a Filipino MAN???
Dating Filipino guy next please🙏
@@ilovenoodles7483 This one has strangely been a tough one to cast but am in the process!
@@DatingBeyondBorders
Awwh, thanks for working on it and replying back to me! I'll be praying for you. It'll all work out. Thank you soo much! 🙏🏼👍🏼
I'm so happy!!! 😍 SPASIBO!!! 💕
Last time I spoke with 3 foreigners living in Japan they just gave me 1 funny tip. If a girl proposes or more or less insists on going to karaoke with you... If you into her, doesn't matter if you like singing or not, you say: YES!
Supposedly, karaoke bars at not just for singing.
Oh my god, I just recently found this channel and it's my favourite rabbithole. I start with one video, and now it's 3 AM and I could still go on and on. Thank you for this amazing content!
Weebs: "Ah yes...a very informative video indeed"
LOL! It can't be helped.
Lol
🤣
Lol
the way how the girl says she loves him...it's kinda cute
One definitely has to take their time when dating a Japanese woman. Don't expect a kiss or even a hug sometimes on the first date. However the good things comes to those who wait to patience is a virtue.
My gf is Japanese, I can relate to all except for the group date, also, after watching this video, I’m not sure if my success with Japanese is because I was too fast, or too slow but I was never rejected a kiss before from a Japanese woman 😅. And as a good Argentinian, I used to play the spontaneous card a lot! Little I know it can cause so much stress for them! 🤣
Tell us how you two met, if you don't mind
moral of story: women like them are a waste of time. no affection, no humanity, only rigidity... not a good idea to marry them or befriend them
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings ,
tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're
not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please
don't report me.
Aww.. their accent is very cute
Quite possibly...kawaii??
I am half Russian and I can say that all shown here applies 100% to Russian girls that had rather traditional upbringing. There are not many of them these days. I think less than 5%.
A Russian girl’s blood runs cold as ice.
No, you’re wrong. Soviet women were taught to be direct and rough
@@whoareyou7399 ?
Funny thing is, that I live in Toronto, I have a Japanese Girlfriend, and I took her to the same spot where the video starts when we started dating haha
Sok szerencsét a japán hölggyel ;)
japaese in foreign countries>the ones in japan
@@MeWagadogu koszonom :D
"The Japanese show there affection in a less expressive way. Big romantic words and I love you's are not thrown around freely."
FYI for quite a while the best way to say "I love you" in Japanese was "the moon tonight is beautiful". Keep that in mind.
I laughed out loud when he invited his friends immediately as soon as he realized to be a group of his friends in the beginning.
lol, "dude, I have some hot girls for you", what a pimp!
THIS channel is solid gold. I'M never disappointed when i click on one of your vids.
Married to a Japanese woman and all of these are spot on!
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings ,
tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're
not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please
don't report me.
Dating a woman from Eastern Civilization (if you are a Western man) is very hard. Success is built on mistakes and misunderstanding over time. There has to be a very strong desire to the understand the other person and much patience. It is not a good idea to even start this kind of relationship if you want someone like you.
My wife of 40 years is Chinese from the Philippines and I met her in the US. On our dates, it took a while for her to let me hold her hand. We got along very well and spoke every night for hours. I didn't realize until later that in her culture, a woman didn't hold hands or kiss unless she really liked the guy. After our first kiss, she asked me later on the phone if I wanted to date exclusively and 10 minutes later we were engaged. I was in love with her at first sight. She was way beyond the "city girls" i had been dating.
this has noything to,do with the video!
I literally can relate to this video because living in Japan for so many years, has made me see how Japanese women are and this video is speaking truth!
You should never, ever, ever be "spontaneous" for dates. Always tell them where, ya'll are going, when you'll meet, and exactly what you're going to do. If you want her opinion, that's fine, just ask her and plan in advance. Otherwise we'll just panic.
You should never, ever, date a japanese.
So, you have litterallly no agency of your own? Lmao
@@γιουργια Mate you’ll never know when a ‘spontaneous date’ turns into an abduction case, or worse.
@@AttaBek1422 unless you go out with a literal stranger you have never ever known before and you have no contract with anyone,the chances of it are very slim
@@γιουργιαGirls don't like spontaneous guys, they like guys who have a plan for everything. Spontaneity is a female trait
I have to say that this video was great fun to watch! The insightfulness and the approach to how Japanese women handle their emotions compared to Western society is very interesting and we really enjoyed watching this video. You are making some excellent high quality content so please keep it up and we look forward to seeing more of your videos in the future!
The cultural differences are so funny! Actually the concept of group dates sounds a safer way to get to know people, maybe more countries should adopt this
I feel like girls all over the world want you to take the lead in what to do on a date. From Morocco, to china, to cuba, to denmark, that has been my experience dating.
They won't admit it, but you have to figure out that that's what you should do
As a girl I'm ashamed to admit it but you're right. Maybe due to education, I'm always afraid that what I suggest will not be the taste of my partner. A guy might be very rude if what you planned is not what he wants to do. So it's better to let him choose.
Not necessarily in Northern Europe, Iceland in particular.
It's because women are complicated in mind, and men are thinking simpler...But women have better ideas so they better decide first
Often I will give two or three options so my date can contribute to the decision making.
Thank you for this new one! I had been expecting it for a long time. They may not be very straight forward about their feelings in the beginning but you can lead her and once she's on track, she'll be the sweetest girl you can be with.
2:20 people don’t even bother translating “kawaii” any more.
For real 😂😂
It's 可愛い in Japanese btw
It's because specific words that have a different contextual meaning is not going to be leaky translated it's going to be translated in context like in the video it said "Lucky Dress" for Kawaii
Not surprising
Do you always have to get father's ok to marry India daughter
I want to marry India girl, anyone know how I can find girl
This could be a sooo adorable couple in real life😁
I don't think that eastern woman wants a Latino mommy's boy. She spent time to prepare for a date. Hiking... Is he blind? or just selfish? She will be with a man whom she doesn't need to ask or explain herself. A man makes decisions on a date to show her what he is, is he interested.
@@anasmith5683 I understand what you're saying, and I think you're probably an Asian yourself when you are giving so many details about that, but this is a bit exaggerated as a situation, so it will be much smoother in real life with those two I believe...Of course the hiking thing was TOO much, but only for the video purposes, I don't think that anyone could do that if he saw his date in a dress.. I don't say they would be the PERFECT couple, but definitely a very very cute one 😊
@@purplezone6693 I'm Russian in the US. I see how the two worlds interact. Western men want equality in private relationships = treat you as a friend+sleep with you. Equality is for coworkers and friends, not for a woman who will be pregnant from you and nurse your kids. If I was preparing for a date (I do not go for a date with everybody who invites me) and I see that guy even don't try to be a gentleman -> Thanks -Next. There is just one place next to me and it's not for a male (they are not men yet in my mind) who didn't notice my efforts or wanna split a bill. I will accept the western "equality" approach in private relationship when men will make kids as women do. I don't expect my coworkers or male friends to pay for me. I don't need male friends btw, I have girls.
@@anasmith5683 I now see clearly the cultural gap you are facing...the Eastern and Western cultures are sooo much different in many ways...Btw if you're looking for this strong and old school male it would be better not to search in the US, or for him to be a balkan or an eastern guy who lives in the States too.
Btw I believe strongly in equality especially in relationships but not the "hardcore" one like in US..i think you know what i mean.. but thats subjective and it also depends on the environment that you grow up in.
These are awesome conversations and can be pretty long, so obviously we can't discuss it from here..
I really hope for you to find what you're looking for, and God may be with you girl!! ;)
@@purplezone6693 Thanks. I don't look for anybody lol. Guys are just around me.
Alright. I'm a 29 year-old non-white Canadian, married to a Japanese woman the same age. Been living in Japan(Tokyo) since 2015 and speak intermediate level Japanese(enough to communicate and describe my opinions and do interviews.) I have "dated" a few Japanese girls including one-night stands(one night love as its called here) and notice the word in quotation marks. Dating is taken loosely here in Tokyo. I can give a few points. They are great and not so great sometimes.
1. You HAVE to differentiate between a westernized/English-loving Japanese girl and a traditional one who is more into her own Japanese sub-culture. Don't think even for a second being a foreigner is somehow going to get you a Japanese girl as it will in the other Asian countries like Phillipians, Thailand, and China. Japan is a different beast.
2. If you think the Japanese girls in this video are cute, you ain't seen shit yet. The hottest Japanese girls usually speak little to no English and date exclusively Japanese men. This goes for the majority of S.Korea as well.
3. The man to deciding is CRITICAL. DO NOT approach dating a Japanese girl with a western approach for the actual date itself as in going out to eat and not deciding things beforehand. Japanese girls HATE deciding what to do and where to go and they hate men who can't decide EVEN more. She will ghost you after that date. Have that shit timed to the half-hour increments. Be a man, and decide shit for her. Even food choices sometimes. Suggest things to her and take the lead whenever you can. Make the date easy for her to enjoy.
4. Approach conversation differently. Most Japanese girls will not tell you how they feel and why should they? I find it quite awkward being asked how they feel about the experience in a "yes or no" type fashion.
The conversation is more of a collaboration rather than "discussion, back and forth debate" or information-sharing conversation. Learn the differences. And watch your body language. It says a lot.
5. Don't converse with them logically, rather, share your experiences and take on things and she will join in on whatever they find interesting to talk about. They are quite intelligent but don't expect a lot of knowledge-based conversation as they will find it dull. Reminds them of an authority figure who they do not like. no one likes a "know-it-all".
I can answer questions based on mine and other guy's experiences.
What's a good example for number 4? That's throwing me off
How do Japanese women view non white westerners? More specifically Hispanics? There are all the stereotypes of them being obsessed with white people, just want to know how true this is?
That's why I prefer dating in Germany. Much more straightforward and relaxed. Plus the women will ask you out and be upfront instead of relying on cues. At least more than in the US or Japan.
@ShiningWizard31 That was a really insightful eassy! Thank you for that lol
sounds like a lot of work for something that could end up being trash
9:18 “21 is a little on the younger side. So I’ll go 20!” Lolol he sounds just like me!!!
Her accent is soooo sweet! I didn't know Japanese people had such pretty accent when speaking english. :)
Lollll dying😂😂 It was Soo funny when the Japanese girl and her bf went on a date to the "Gachon" and he was all confused and didn't know what was up when she bought her friends. He felt sooo weird. And when he couldn't decide what they should do and the Japanese girl was annoyed but trying to remain calm.
That Sailor Moon T-shirt put me back to 1997 when I first saw that anime on RTL 2 german television.
Dude, felt the same! Seeing that t-shirt is like a journey back to the 90s
I loved this video! And I love that the japanese woman be friendly because not everything in the world is your boyfriend. I liked that they are so organized, we the mexicans could learn something of them. I think it's beautiful that she's reseved with her feelings and her way of showing affection because so you have to show love every day, and you have to be relaxed. I really like that they're very healthy with her food this is amazing, I have to learn something about this xD. At last, I don't know woman more beautiful than the japanese. :)
Yayyy!! Finally Japanese woman!! This was Soo nice and Romantic. X💕 Thank you soo much Marina for making the dating a Japanese woman video, I'm soo excited and happy about this!! Japanese men and women are Soo kind and sweet ppl and I really wanted to get know even more about their cultures. Have a lovely day. Take care. :)
You are very welcome, Cansu! Glad you liked 😄
three reasons why japanese doesn't make good friends:
first, they makes zero efforts to speak other languages and anyway when we try to speak japanese they laugh at our accents and they don't forgive bad pronounciations
secondly, they refuse to show their feelings no matter how polite, kind and respectful we are. just because they refuse to put us in their friendship circle (in fact it's only when they get drunk, it's pathetic)
and thirdly, they love to criticize the others in their back. they judge them without knowing them, they don't give us any chance. they don't tell our mistakes, how can we improve ourselves.
i like japan, for what it has naturally, but i do not get why its locals are so well seen in the world.
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings ,
tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're
not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please
don't report me.
these girls are all the same: cold , no feelings ,
tatemae all the time , manipulative... Just date other girls from worlwide. if you're
not agree please explain yourselves with positive arguments. please
don't report me.
bravo you just discourage us to go in japan. japanese shouldn't be surprised or saddened that less and less gaijin come to japan one day. because of their culture.
In our culture, we don't say "I love you" too. We were taught that love is to be proven by action not words. Body languages or actions matter more than words. At least, that's what we believe.
Where are you from? :)
True!! That's what my Japanese mom taught me as well. You see that from animé and films.
@@anniahn4552 where are you from?
@@ナホゆか but why? Having Mexican parents they always told me that finding the right girl isn’t always easy and that I would have to be the one who makes the first move XD
Next: You know you're dating someone with Covid when....
When They sneeze repeatedly
They fart loudly to cover up their cough.
🤣🤣
...you test positive for Covid.
All your dates are in the hospital....
Oh my gosh....that is so bad and inappropriate but I get the point. We are in straaaaange times! 😬😅
Hahaha!!! This is sooo true! My fiancée is Japanese and all I can say this is on point!!! Hilarious!
emmmm, I feel like this one more relatable to me than the one with "Chinese woman". BTW, I'm living in Oslo and I feel like the scandinavian dating culture is soooo different from Asian. I'm kinda looking forward to seeing some videos about couples from different culture.
Also love the duality of the dating Japanese men vs dating Japanese women videos. Each one is paired up with a passionate South American person.
6:29 - “He stuck the chopsticks in the rice, bad manners”
6:42 - *Literally does the exact same damn thing*
Amazing how a young Spanish man goes on a date with a young Japanese Woman [who is learning how to speak English] in today's new Dating Beyond Borders video. 👍🏿😀🙌🏿
The whole point of these videos is people from two different cultures. They never show people from the same culture.
@@chrisucl OK, I see. Thanks for the reply. : )
Canadian-pakistani, married a japanese girl in Yokohama. The video is accurate.
Please do dating a scottish woman!
when she's a good archer
Drinker more like. Every Scottish woman I knew could knock back a pint like an English Rugby Player, but better and with more balls! And very Scottish Nationalist too.
Love Scotland 🏴 I left a very special woman there..
Arrr arrr arrr ...........
Next should be "You Know You're Dating a South Korean Woman When...
Most def. It is applicable to me right now. Let's see it!
@Quentin Lecuva Just keep your phone charged always. If you don't pick up your phone few times - consider you broke up.
I Want To See That Also
Михаил Родной
How did you know that?It's so true
You know you're dating a north korean when ... You both ... Are still in north korea
Thank you. Now i feel like i can understand my nonexistent japanese gf more
That’s so relatable. I can’t express my love to someone directly 😂😣 one time I went out with a Latino man and I said “you are kind, thank you”,but he said” don’t say kind and thank you ~”. I thought it was the best way to express my appreciations for him because it was our first date . We still keep in touch together and I really like him but don’t know what is the appropriate words to express my love and make him happy 😣maybe I should just say I love him. why is it difficult for me 😂
What ever happened?
BRUH what happened PLEASE let us know !!!
Give him kisses and hugs and compliment him works XD
I was waiting for the remark about how cheating is super super common in Japan. But I guess you guys dont wanna ruin it for the people with the rose-tinted glasses :D
@master DOGE you missed my point. It's on a WHOLE another level in Japan.
@@faliandra7659 How so?
@@mojewjewjew4420 its for multiple reasons. Japan may be super modern with technology, but their society standards are still stuck in the 50s. I suppose some key points are: society expects you to get married in your 20s, so some people may end up in a marriage due to social pressure, not because they're marrying the love of their lives. So they just cheat. Japanese people also don't really talk about their problems due to fear of making the other person feel uncomfortable. Sexual frustrations? Not spending enough quality time? Yeah, nah, easier to just cheat than talk it out. Also, traditional roles are expected during marriage. So women are the caretakers while husbands are the financial providers spending lots and lots of overtime in the office etc. This makes it super easy to cheat without anyone ever knowing. the wife can do it while her husband is at work. and the husband can do it after work claiming he had to work overtime. Also, there's love hotels everywhere that are cheap and you can rent them by the hour. I'm not saying every single person cheats or that true faithful love doesn't exist in japan, but the "cheating culture" is big there.
@@faliandra7659 This sounds wrong but i have heard of such behaviours in other countries too like india so i wouldnt narrow it down only to japanese.
@@mojewjewjew4420 cheating on spouses is the original pandemic...regardless of culture
Wow, I lived with several Japanese women and men in our college dorm, and this is spot on
From what I have seen Japanese can be a lot more formal. There is lots of implied stuff in the west but confessions seem to be a thing in Japan (expressing in words that you like them and want to date them), despite all the reading of atmosphere that you have to do
I'm so glad this series is back! Amazing video!
I had a Japanese girlfriend, I like her habits, I love her very much, I lived with her for about 3 years. Everything was amazing and wonderful,
I'm fine with everything, but the problem was just eating and drinking because I belong to a Muslim family,
Finally she went back to Japan.
I still miss him a lot ..
Man as a japanese i can say one do NOT try kissing japanese man or girlfriend in public anything close to love is considered filthy😂
I've been waiting for this!!! I'm Japanese woman living in a foreign country, and I really miss NATTO!!!
I’ve waited 5 years for this video to finally come out!! Thank you Maria! My favorite would is the Dating a Russian Woman one
That is the funniest video of this series "You know you're dating.." 😂
This is what i was waiting for xD
I didn’t want to be all “aww she’s so cute!” but... DANGIT she is! 😅 Oh man but as soon I saw that natto... poor guy 😂
I’m living in Korea right now - I forget, have you done videos for those?
been with a Japanese woman and there's some truth to the statement. Remember hearing I think I'm paranoid by Garbage? she was near identical to the lyrics.
In all The Dating Beyond Borders videos, this is one of the most wholesome ones. There was no bar scene in this one unlike the other videos I’ve watched.
"Mattie I have some hot girls for you."
That was the best MVP move I've ever seen.
_Goukon_ is arranged and prepared beforehand between groups of friends. It is not something what a girl would easily propose to do to a guy she just met. She would be shy to even say that word. It is a party with equal numbers of male and female participants to provide an opportunity to find a GF/BF and form couples. It's not like just the "Can-I-bring-my-friend-with-me?" thing that many girls in many countries do when they are not interested in the guy very much, it's a prearranged match-making event.
Honestly this was the most touching. 😍😍
Good to know for me as a German - mainly communicating directly - that japanese people communicate indirectly..
Agree on the date planning. You can't be spontaneous unless u understand them enough to make safe bets - also sucks wearing incorrect clothes.
So glad I'm female too - Japan has some serious double-edged tilt for relationships + the men r less willing to follow it. So thats y im glad
I dated a Japanese woman once. She was very strict on no PDA what so ever. However she was very affectionate in private. Actually, I think she said, I love you more than any other woman I ever dated. She was also very aggressive romantically. Maybe because she lived in the United States a few years prior to me meeting her, idk?
The Japanese woman was really attractive and sweet. The guy deciding to take her on a hike was a seriously boneheaded move, considering how she was dressed.
Poor Chandler is in serious horndog mode (he'll take anybody). Hope he finds happiness.
no way
Ok that "Goukon" concept is pure genius I have to remember that one
YESSS WATCHING THIS WITH MY BREAKFAST!! Whoa organized group dates!!
Same 😄
I love japan culture. I always wanted to get to know more from them, dating a japanese woman is on my mind, quite a few nationalities may be a match with mine.....
U guys should upload more regularly💕
6:43 she stuck the chopsticks in the rice too 🤣
The moment when he tried to kiss her OMG I can't so cringy and cute at the same time :D :D :D :D
Sure sounds good why not))
I just started to date a Japanese girl and I relate so much to all these things.
I'm glad Covid has improved in Canada, hopefully it will all end soon. Yayy, that's a positive sign things are improving!! :) Love to Canada. ♥️♥️🌺
2:35 That "Sure" sounded more like "I'm not going out with this dude anymore" 😂
Since you have covered a Filipina already, how about dating a Filipino? I'd be glad to see it sometime.
Please no way
I dated a Japanese girl. Number one priority for her was beer. Second was more beer. Finish with beer.
What they don’t know is the extreme change that apparently ensues when you get married
I concur.
I find that frightening. There isn't a single soul that says otherwise.
Please make a video about dating a Bangladeshi Woman or dating a Bangladeshi Man. Would love to see that on your channel!
Lol I'm half Japanese and at the begging I was like I'm definitely not gonna act like her...but then I acted soooooo much like her😂😭😭
Bruh that’s cute but crazy thing is we should like go out
7:19 That scratched LP sound is dope, and right on the dot 😂
You know you're dating Japanese woman if there's a censored when you look at her
Lmao
😂
you mean a pixelated area...
The amount of likes this comment has says something very interesting about our society. I knew I wasn't alone lol.
LOL 😂
1:22 that dude is lit 🔥! He knows how to own his shit “I’ve got some hot girls for you...” How can his friends not show up just a millisecond after that text?
Wow as a Japanese girl, I’m only eligible for a few. Maybe I am more like American 😂 I hope not everybody expects these traits for Japanese women. They are kind of conservative Japanese women.
How would you describe yourself than ?
The Japanese girl is gorgeous!! Also the pink dress she wore was so beautiful! 🌸🌸
“You know you’re dating a South Korean woman when...” please, we need this video.