Why Do Conservative Men lnsist On Making Themselves Unlovable?
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As a straight white guy, if 95% of movies dont paint me as a gigachad, the west will fall.
Truth 👊
Vaush brought up Dune being about a white guy rising to power as a joke but my dad actually called the new dune movie woke because the actress cast for the planetologist is a black woman.
@@diverguy3556 Stand strong 💪
@@devinnie7572 my father is cool. We watched it together and where like: yeah that was cool. Great to see such an high quality adaption. Cant wait for the sequel!
No. If 💯% of the movies don't, the west will implode.
Blaming Disney for being unfuckable is a skill issue.
Is the skill issue not finding Disney fuckable? Or feeling like Disney should be fuckable in the first place? Or (to get a little bad faith) that Disney needs to work on it's fuckability skill?
@@dawildbear Yes
@Piratewaffl43 You're preaching to the choir over here.
Tell it to Elon Musk. He's like what Donald Trump would be if Donald Trump's money wasn't faker than his real hair but...all the money in the world and yet, even still, that asshole's ultimate power fantasy is just having a family that loves him.
@@dawildbear Disney owns pixar.. pixar makes pixar moms
It makes women have unrealistic expectations of men.
Every woman is expecting to meet a man who 7 ft tall and is being chased by villagers screaming "kill the beast!!"
Seen on a poster in a protest in Pakistan:
“Men of quality do not fear equality.”
neither do women, the ones that don't want to be treated equally get left behind
@@painunending4610 I believe equality too! if she gets sucker punched and lumped she should get up and square off with the assaulter.
"Privileged men do not fear equality."
Meanwhile men who are struggling get beaten down further to the point they have no hope.
Just humans really
Love it
27:21 I love these guys who who think women from non white, non Westernized countries like china, Philippines, Thailand, and Latin America are all "subservient" and "non-combative" towards men because it's clear as day that none of them have ever spoken to any of these women irl.
The average woman from my country would whoop this guy's ass for being annoying
Yup, agreed, lol. Japanese women traditionally control the family's purse strings, for example, and it's the men who are given "an allowance" by the wife. A lot of Asian women are far from the demure, subservient stereotype, and I've know more than one American guy (speaking mostly from an overseas military perspective) who ended up miserable and divorced because of Westernized misconceptions of "easy" Asian women.
I mean people complaining about women being combative and non-subservient online typically haven't spoken to many women irl full stop. Though I'm still trying to work out why women don't want to talk to them, that's not entirely clear to me. Wait...
Bro has never seen a latinoamerican family. It's mostly matriarchical families
When you see far-right lunatics speak on any subject, you end up learning how much they live in a bubble and don't pay attention to the real world.
"I can't believe that I can't get a girlfriend by acting like a Stephen Crowder wannabe."
"What do you mean women hate it when I say their small minds are being corrupted by disney princesses and feminism? That's like, facts though!"
That won’t work EITHER!
Whining about women being corrupted by Disney and feminism isn't a sign of being "built different."
Sure it is.
Being built terribly 😅
Dude's built soft and squidgy. Like a bag of milk, soy milk!
@@JamesMorgan-ne8qu I don't think they make bags of soy milk 🤔
Also soy milk is superior to real milk 😎
@@Nerobyrne
Rat milk is my favourite!
@@Nerobyrne Severely lacking in structural probity.
White men complaining about not being celebrated always strikes me as similar to a kid crying about not getting presents at their sibling’s birthday party lol
That part
I'm having a difficult time understanding the crisis of men. Im not invalidating it but i just don't understand how you're in crisis in a world created by you & for you.
I think it's because your analysis is incomplete. Patriarchy requires there to be winners and losers, capitalism requires there to be many more losers than winners. So young men are suffering under modern capitalism and feeling the judgement of the patriarchy for being a loser.
Mind you patriarchy wasn't something intentionally created by most of these young men, they are victims of it too. And many many women also participate in the creation and reinforcement of patriarchal systems
That being said, obviously these guys have issues and are increasinglya threated to modern society. But if you want to understand them then that's a good starting point.
@justr6982 dude, most women aren't participating in the creation of something that works against them and seeks to destroy them, especially not with most men whining about how feminist most women are so don't even try blaming women for this 1. There might be a few bimbos over there, especially in the right wing government but largely, no. Women didn't create that monstrosity & they're not upholding it, that's all men.
@bodhisattva2348 that's really not true. Feminist literature has long outlined the various ways that women also participate in reinforcing the patriarchy in their day to day lives
Regardless, you failed to respond to all the other points I made to help you understand the current crisis
Lived in Thailand for the last 13 years.
Foreigners can’t legally own guns in Thailand. If you get one illegally and are caught you’re looking at jail time in a prison systems that makes prisons in the west look like holiday resorts.
If you come to Thailand looking for a submissive wife there’s a good chance you’ll be disappointed. The women who seem really into you might be bad news and the ordinary women want to be treated like you’d treat a woman anywhere and if you treat them like servants you’ll end up as one of the many bitter angry expats permanently attached to a barstool complaining about how a Thai woman did him wrong.
Let’s be real, it’s about the ladyboys and the underage prostitution
Vietnamese co-worker told me his wife lets him think he's in charge....lol
maybe he is looking to buy a young wife.
Those men are here too, not just on the barstool.....I dumped a guy who wanted to complain about his Vietnamese wife who took him to the cleaners in divorce. Told him this date sucks and to get a therapist 🤷🏾♀️ no fun
Yup. On top, Thai people loathe arrogant fratboy types like that guy in the video.
Passport bros do not understand what women in other countries want. "Traditional wife" does not mean the same things in other pats of the world as it does in America. For example, these prized traditional Slavic women will not become stay-at-home-wives. In Eastern Europe there is a long and very deep-rooted tradition of women working and you see this with Ukrainian refugees, for example. One of the first questions I encounter is "how can I get work here". These women do not want to and will not stay at home to fulfil some American passport bro's housewife fantasy.
Disney programming have actually left women feeling like they have to get married in order to be happy, so it's the opposite.
What Disney princess since Cinderella has done that???
He’s a Beast looking for his low maintenance Beauty in a castle full of automation lol
@@stardust3176little mermaid, beauty and the beast, tangle
rather odd no one mentions Brave. Sis and i tend to relate to that one, being aro and ace respectively.
Or to trust their first love implicitly, drastically improving their odds of marrying an abuser?
If "unwifable" is a commonly used term in your personal lexicon, it may *just* be you, and not them that needs personal reflection.
Studies show 99.99% of men who use the term "unwifable" are terminally unhusbandable.
The title of this very video calls men unlovable, why is it instantly problematic to direct thay same energy at certain women the same way it's levied at certain men? With it being only specific men and specific women in both cases
Unwifable used in the way this guy used it was just plain stupid lol. I’m surprised you don’t see how silly it is.
@@HollowPurpleSeb261 Reading comprehension is important, that said, the title of the video asks; "Why do conservative men insist on making themselves unlovable?"
IMHO, aside from reading comprehension, insistent self victimization, women objectification, blind theocratic cuckoldry, socially alienating racism up to and including nationalist xenophobic zealotry, I for the life of me, can't fathom why conservative men aren't experiencing world war Z levels of pussy tsunaming them into placidity, but here we are. ;P
@Elnewperuguy23 unlovable and unmarriable are two different things. Unlovable means no one wants to be around you because you're objectively horrible. Unmarriable means "I'm going to insult you because I wouldn't personally marry you" and it's a really stupid insult when you actually think about it
It's actually funny that Musk retweeted this. It should be a lesson that if he's feeling this way its probably because all the money is the world still won't make women genuinely like you. Elon just sucks and that should be telling to every man who can see this and read between the lines.
E-Lawn has blown past “divorced dad energy”
😂😂😂
Women are also protective of themselves these days(now that they can say no) so the minute women sense control issues, (most of their issues)they're gone.
When I think of a woman who is a Disney princess, I think of a woman who thinks she should marry a guy after being with them for a few days.
Married at first sight vibes
This guy is so young, the only disney princess he's aware of is the last decade of frozen, Moana, and brave, where the princesses take care of themselves.
@@jimjam762yeah people never watch or hear about media that was produced before they were born.
@@jimjam762 I think even Frozen has a princess with a love interest after about a few days right? In Enchanted too, they parodied the "love at first sight" thing but them made it worse with a slubby second love interest, who they also barely knew. The guy in the video might like that message actually (women are stupid going for the prince and should lower their standards).
@@realGBx64well sure, he should, but it's like he's willfully ignorant of the fact that diz was full blown trad pap until like yesterday. Back as a lad I hated on diz chix because they were square, trad lamers I had no interest in pursuing. The vast bulk of it should be right in his steamboat willy wheelhouse.
lol, yeah dude knows nothing of Thailand.
Two things;
1) Foreigners are not allowed to own property in Thailand
2) Thailand has very strict regulations around firearms. Obviously you could buy one illegally but they actually have laws over there around guns. Go figure.
Happily you can now buy marijuanna in Thailand so.... basically don't shit on Thailand. In many ways, socially, they are VERY far ahead of the US. They're also quite accepting of gay and trans people in Thailand.
Having a Thai partner I've explored this issue a lot. There is still quite a lot of discrimination against lady boys and LGBT in Thailand, its not a total safe haven that some people think.
The main difference between there and the conservative west, is that Thais never frame LGBT as some sort of sign of degeneracy or societal collapse. Even the most conservative homophobic Thais just look at the LGBT community and think "gross", but they don't frame it as the end of the world. Bigotry exists, but it's not hysterical
@@DougWIngate
This kind of different cultural reactionary beliefs is something I've talked to people about but they tend to get confused and think I'm whitewashing when I am really just highlighting some nuances. Like for example, trans people have been historically normalized in places like Thailand, Pakistan and some parts of India. Even relatively recently places like Iran, certainly no bastion of progressive beliefs, has pushed to normalize trans women. This isn't because these places are liberal or ahead of the curve or whatever, it's because they have different traditional belief systems that they've internalized compared to more Western™️©️®️ cultures.
thailand is so ahead socially that they will literally put you in prison for talking bad about royalty.
@@realGBx64well it was the same in Germany until 2018. Not even royalty, just about any head of state... Not really a defining characteristic is it
@@Mysterio2243 Nobody ever went to prison in Germany for bad-mouthing a head of state since 1949. Yeah, the law still existed but it wasn't enforced because it was a remnant from the Empire that we forgot to repeal.
Its so much easier to get laid when you actually view women as people and care about their wellbeing.
That must be why conservatives are more active than leftists.
I can easily say that doesn't change date ability.....but it helps ig😂
Damn that sounds hard though.
Or resolving your internalized homophobia.
You can also just pay for it
Bro revealed that the actual problem is his personality and disgusting politics within 5 seconds.
"Society doesn't celebrate me". The structure of society itself celebrates you, my guy.
Christian: society doesn't celebrate us anymore in the 2024th year of our lord
By “celebrate” they mean literally 1950s social standards with modern white pride parades
@@jordanchen23 society doesn't **exclusively** celebrate us anymore in the 2024th year of our lord.
We literally just celebrated Easter Sunday but because trans visibility day was declared to be on the same day, _by a practicing Christian,_ conservatives are now trying to gin this up into a culture war scandal.
What does "the structure of society celebrates you" even mean?
@@hagoryopi2101 It means your job application won't be tossed for having a name that doesn't sound very Caucasian, among other things.
If you want a Chick, stop spending all your efforts impressing Dudes.
This is the one. This is the real point.
❤
The amount of people crying about a white genocide is utterly insane to me
The irony is the “genocide” is because of the things the older generation of white men did.
White replacement theory is a helluva drug.
@@arcturionblade1077i wish we would be replaced, what a bunch of whiny bihthes we are,but it seems like were here to stay, all lonely at the tippy top of wealth and priviledge😢
It is wild! I remember that shite when it was fringe, nazzy on Geraldo crap back in the 80's, and I was kinda shocked when it actually percolated up to the "mainstream" with the arrival of djt. It turns out that belief in it was the common thread betwixt diverse groups of Jan6ers. Now we have one issue congresspeeps.
Gee it's like they have something weighing down on their conscience or something
What's up little white dudes, what have your kind did of so wrong that you fear retribution 🤔
We all know the REAL reason why these incels aren’t interested in the women in their age bracket. We all know which age bracket they would prefer to be dating.
Fr. Like, bro literally said “moving to Thailand” so… Biggest self report I’ve ever seen
This is the truest and realest reason why
@@dimentio1030 Hey, hey, moving to Thailand doesn't have to mean that. He could just be going to chase after trans girls!
@@spikem5950That's true, but we have Trans women here in the States. Of course nobody likes a chaser . Why would we export our trash to another country? That's very mean.
They all follow in the footsteps of their Messiah - Matthew Walsh.
I'm gay, so take whatever I say with a grain of salt, but I think it's a desire for a self-fulfilling prophecy. Nihilism is easy because you don't have to do anything. Hope takes effort and therefore hard.
Likely some truth in this. I watch redpill and incel content for insight on things like this and it does seem like the people making the content Hope for rejections. The harsher the better so that their viewpoint looks stronger. I recently saw a really bad one where the guy opens with an insult and when she responds negatively he just spams incel lingo. He even said "you're height mogging me because I'm short"
@@donalddarko5807 Take pity on these men because they have given up on themselves. Look down on them because they have chosen the easy way out.
Exactly so. I have the same theory about anti-electorialists, too. If everything is hopeless and pointless, you don't need to try and thus risk potential disappointment or failure.
It's funny that the Philosopher who coined the term Nihilism believed that Nihilists were weak, and that it was something that needed to be overcome.
Why wouldn't you do the easiest thing
Funny thing is people find nihilism quite attractive lol
Yeah I would rather not be with someone who's only with me for economic reasons. Like seriously how fucking bleak is that.
That’s what it ultimately boils down to
I agree in general.
But if you drill down far enough, everyone who is with you is there for a set of qualities that you offer.
Someone with no money but a good looks and personality can find a partner on that basis.
However if a female wants stability and a family, financial resources become a top priority.
If you can’t get everything you want from a single person, you have to prioritize.
@@darkstar4494 Well no it's not based on a set of qualities you offer but more like their idea of you is what they want.
Because what it boils down to is our beliefs about things, not the things themselves. They don't make you happy, you're happy when you're around them because of whatever beliefs you have.
i just wanna be with someone who shares the same interests i have; like geeky stuff.
Also aint mysogynist hates 'gold diggers', but then hates it when women arent tradwives lmao
The most privileged group with every social advantage complaining that they’re the real victims.
I'm convinced it's a kink at this point.
Reason why I suspect no takes them seriously
Exactly
Didn’t even occur to him that he’s unhusbandable.
Here's a question Where did Conservatives get the idea Misogyny is sexy? Watching Andrew Tate or Charlie Kirk?
it's almost like there's pic-mes but they want to be picked by other men
Some misogynistic behavior can be sexy in context. This goes for both men and women.
I know for a fact there’s certain things women could say/do that would be considered misandrist that gets my blood rushing. 😅
Personally, i think it’s pretty gay to bully women tho
@@ApolloCalrissian Brother, that has nothing to do with misandry or misogyny, you just have closeted BDSM kink.
Yes.
I don't think tate is available for comment, but kirk will tell you, "it's the (insert minority) fault!"
Walked past a homeless guy yesterday. Asked him how he was, made sure he was okay, and he promptly went on to claim if he was black, brown, yellow etc he wouldn't be in this position. So I didn't help him because he was an obnoxious racist. Same vibes here. Equivalent of playing the most privileged race card in existence.
How the hell is conservative talking points reaching the homeless
He probably thought that stuff before he was homeless. In that way, he was already disadvantaged.
@@MrMerve-tl9myThe conservatives been peddling these talking points for decades, of course they've filtered down to the homeless. That, and this guy might have been exposed early on through parents and the like.
Hate to break it to you but this is 90% of the lower class.
@@wabbajack2 Yeah, racism is a self-debuff.
Suspiciously nice kitchen for someone who is complaining so much
ok come on its his mom''s.
Dude lives in his dad's house, that's why it's so easy to be a libertarian.
hired cleaning help doesnt cost much in usa because of illegal immigration.
“Hire based on that metric” means “not automatically assuming the white male candidate is the most qualified.”
Which major corporations *actually* assume the white male candidate is the most qualified? Has there ever been evidence of this happening on a major level, in a consistent manner? Not just evidence of statistical disparity, but evidence of deliberate intent?
@@hagoryopi2101it's basic psychology 101. Innate bias exists and are constantly having to be combated. It's not company policy. Companies are made of people with biases.
@@SammScripted Where are these biases coming from? Most people don't subscribe to racial supremacy, and implying a significant cultural problem based on the stark minority of people who are actually racist doesn't add up.
Using Psych 101 to argue "people are just racist," is like using Econ 101 to argue "capitalism is just good." Simplicity isn't necessarily wrong, just really incomplete.
@@hagoryopi2101except it does add up. If you are going to dismiss wider data for averages (the way we address most social issues), then demand a name of a company, knowing that for this subject you cant get a aingle name of a single company, then it kinda looks dishonest. What kind of person would ignore phyc 101 and then pretend the other person was saying “phyc 101 is an argument that some people are just racist. Like bro the layers of fallacy you are leaning on to pretend to have any contention is wild.
@@SammScripted it supposedly being basic psychology is not evidence.
I never needed a man for money. I was a single mom. I instead want kindness, compassion, humor, commonalities, and some electricity.
Slipping the electric bill in at the end, eh?
J/k :p
I read electricity as...in "😮💦🍑". I think think she's referring to passion.
Unfortunately a lot of men are practically bankrupt in those departments. And the funny thing is, it's not like the whingy guys who don't have money will compensate by having the other traits in spades.. No, it's always just Fs across the board.
@@jordanchen23 the conditioning is real. Only what's needed is hippy-dippy love, not MRA patriarchal nonsense.
But alas; the conditioning is real, and the conditions are real... like our sociopathic economic system that trains and reinforces such behavior 😞
@@christophergreen6595 I know you think you made sense just now, but what are you on about?
Using the word 'unwifeable' makes me feel creeped out in a whole new way.
Studies show 99.99% of men who use the term "unwifable" are terminally unhusbandable.
I'm proudly that if it means conservative men stay away from me
Just as gross as “wife-y” 🤢
If women talking about husband material doesn't make you feel the same, it might just be you take issue with men having standards
You just know he assumes that every woman's ultimate goal in life is to be a wife. Really wrecked their world
If you use the term "unwifeable", then you are a miserable person and would most likely be an abusive partner.
A woman can be abusive too can
Aren’t white men (most conservatives are white let’s be serious) already in the most privileged position when it comes to dating? Statistically they do better than other groups on dating apps
Yeah, but he's single and unwilling to put in effort, so society is collapsing.
It's our inherent buety 😘 call it 'privilege' : I call it swag 😎
@@MikeGeorgeC0619yeahhh😎😎
@@MikeGeorgeC0619 Call It whatever you want but the point is why is everybody complaining
You'll notice however that the white dudes getting laid aren't conservatives
If these guys put a tenth of the effort they put into complaining about women into actually improving themselves and making themselves more appealing to women, they would probably all have girlfriends by now.
Not to mention acting on economic anxiety to advocate for better policy instead of voting for conservatives.
In that case, it's a combination of hatred towards minorities (whether innate or due to FOX news brainwashing) outweighing their "economic anxiety", and that many of them consider themselves to be less "working class" and more "temporarily embarrassed millionaires). @@samiamrg7
That's because their hatred towards minorities (stemming from FOX news brainwashing) outweights it, and the fact that many of them don't consider themselves working class, but "temporarily embarrassed millionaires". @@samiamrg7
@@samiamrg7 They keep voting for the people who make their economic anxiety worse because they hate women, poc and queer people so much.
"...making themselves more appealing to women..." Not possible. The personality configuration you're looking at isn't a surface thing. It's the core of who they are. Women are selecting them out of gene pool. They're not going to get over it.
Most of what they complain about was unironically because of white men from the older generations
I know a guy who is overweight and earns average but has a great wife just by being charismatic and smart. So these people are really delusional about "impossible standards" for guys
Really solved all problems with "I know a guy." Critical thinking has been lost😢
@cointomato9768 Well it is hard to produce data showing that women have impossible standards. Though just showing basic marriage statistics indicate that they have possible standards.
I’ve tried explaining this nicely to some people and they don’t believe it. Real women in real life do date guys that aren’t Chads. All you have to do is look around at real people to see that. Not people on the internet, people in real life. Women like men who are clean. They like men who are funny. They like men that don’t creep on them. They may prefer some physical attributes but they are statistically more likely to be willing to date people that do not meet their physical preferences.
The problem with these guys is not that they are short or fat or that they don’t make enough money. The problem is that they are short, fat raging misogynists who don’t make money. There is no need for women to lower their standards enough to date someone that hates them even if that misogynist is lonely and just wants to be loved.
@cointomato9768 except literally everyone knows married people. That's like saying gay people are an impossible anomaly even though we all have a gay cousin. We're literally all here today because a man met a woman's standards. Gen Alpha exists and therefore Gen Z women have very possible standards
@@cointomato9768The fact that we are all alive today is proof that women's standards are not impossible.
"Reactionary women who want to be treated like property don't like whiners" love it.
I already knew these type of guys are not dating anyone but hearing it from them makes me so happy.
😂
When they go to this feminism and Disney crap stuff, they immediately cut themselves off from a lot of women. I think they honestly believe women are robots and they want to be subjugated by men. Where did they get this notion from though?
I think the more interesting question is how they somehow manage to remain stalwart in that belief even when it's constantly proven wrong to their face.
@antonioscendrategattico2302 not only wrong, but disadvantageous to harp on
@@antonioscendrategattico2302If that were true there wouldn't be any opposition would there? All the revenge pron and hybristophile studies don't lie.
Exactly. I don't hang round women who like Disney they scare me
@@painunending4610Curious Why?
Isn't "Disney princess programming" where they were pretty much helpless, it was up to the big strapping prince to save them what these guys want? Or do they mean modern 'Disney princesses' who have some modicum of ability and character development?
Ive read Strapon-Prince insteadof strapping and my visual imagination part of my brain is in shambles rn
He's a conservative so the girls He's after grew up on modern Disney princesses. Girls who grew up watching Frozen and Brave are probably too old for him. So probably Moana viewers is his age bracket.
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He probably means modern ones like Merida, Moana, Raya and Mulan.
@@Jasonsmith-sr1keMulan isn't really modern tho, her movie came out in 1998
Best comment about this I have seen....When one is used to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
They just do not like having competition.
Wait hes AGAINST disney princess programming? I thought he wanted a trad wife who takes the subservient feminine role and whose goal is to marry the handsome prince. Doesnt he WANT that?
No its the modern Disney "liberated females" they fear
@@JeanAlexander-dg6kh they also don't like the modern Disney where black people get to do stuff
I think he does want that. There's a whole hate movement against the new Snow White actress because she, gasp, pointed out that the film is dated in regards to gender stereotypes.
No, because they have "expectations" and "dreams" and god forbid women have that
I'd wager it's just his imagery of every girl's dream which naturally means he disapproves of it.
All this "high standards" crap is not from real life, it's from consuming anxiety content ragebait crap.
4:00 almost like these dudes talk out of both sides of their mouth so they can complain about women no matter what they do
Women do the same. It’s called Schrödinger’s feminism.
@bluchu22 give me an example of that
Its funny how half the things he complained about is caused by capitalisms design and therefore perpetuated by his own ideology.
It’s all these divorce court dads and incels giving relationship advice. Try asking people who are happily married or partnered for relationship advice
Who is happily married? I mean ...
@@someonesomeone25 me :)
@@nofooku Congratulations
What would your advice be for someone who goes to the gym, works a job around 45k, lives at home until he can find a house and whose friends all got married, and he's on his lonesome. I know something is wrong. I just can't place it.
A recurring theme is the notion that men are lacking rolemodels, the idea is basically stating that in 50% of the worlds population (male) there arent rolemodels, or enough, and god forbid the other 50% (females) could be rolemodelling as well. It's a place where divorce court dads and incels are giving relationship advice, they're listening to and asked for.
What I'm really lacking, while algorithms are throwing things at men's way, is personal responsiblity, stop eating off every hand that tries to feed you, and pick the non shitstained ones. Ask some of the happily partnered men, go to a grocery shop and realize the men walking strollers doesn't have a specific angular jaw, there are lots of incredible men and women out there who are rolemodellig. Pick your pieces, work on yourself and set moral goals
women are waking up and don't want to settle for some man who won't fix himself.
The dude bitching about Disney princess shit has no idea that he is, in fact, Gaston.
He's even wearing red! Oh my gosh!
All I can think of is the meme about the "drowning" dude, who actually just sits down in knee-deep water.
This is why I find women on Grindr looking for cool bi guys
Bi's really are built different
You smell like a communist, bröder
@@atillanandorfuri3343 a hole is a goal, so is the pole
It's sad that people are so delusional its crazy. Be a good person. Show empathy and respect. As a default.
Why is it so hard to be nice?
So the whole trend of Singledom en mass comes from just Conservativism?
if you're attractive enough then yeah being nice is enough but if you're average then you need to have money
@@JuliAuditore Literally just going outside disproves this delusional claim. That's good news!
@@absolutechadd8895 If a guy is really attarctive the fact that he's poor isn't going to affect his chances of getting a partner but if an average guy is poor he will have an extremely difficult time. This is what I've seen and read.
Some of these people are just gone man. If they start with "well, not if they're ______ and ____" ignore them, like every woman is smart to do. :|
The average male conservative has never properly implemented the axiom of learning how to pick one's battles. Primarily, and this is a HUGE tell for someone's politics I've found, the average male conservative feels that it's more important to show that they're CORRECT about something, anything, than it is to get along and preserve harmony. They literally have no heuristic for letting the other guy win a game or two so that he'll feel better. It's insane.
They’re usually wrong too
there is no conservative male who is average
All 3 of my daughters loved Disney princesses. Now they play D&D with me.
On the plus side, if you're a normal, well-adjusted guy with basic levels of empathy and emotional stability, guys like this are really cutting down the amount of competition you have in the dating arena.
Nah not really. There are significantly more women attracted to Musk than me
Women are about the same amount of rational as men.
@@JoshSweetvaleyou're not wrong at all, humans are absolute clowns tbh
@@painunending4610 weird. every woman I know hates that guy.
@@RaspberryHugs weird. I didn't ask
Absolutely no right winger has ever watched Dune and been like "Maybe Paul Atreides was a bad guy", they do not have that level of introspection. So it's still a great movie to cite to tell them to shut up.
You are braindead.
Simple answer, they stopped seeing people as people.
“Go drive your cyber truck across a river” should be used a common response to Elon glazers
It‘s called self sabotage
Self-inflicted misery. Self-fulfilling prophecy. Etc., etc.
The Disney Princess thing is Jordon Petersons "Frozen is reprehensible propaganda" crap ie. the Princess in it (Elsa) doesn't need a man to come save her 😂
Edit: the Queen, whatever 🥱
Which is funny because Elsa is a queen, Anna is the princess.
"The singularly powerful Ice Sorceress doesn't need a powerless man to save her REEEEEEEEEEEE"
I really don’t know what Peterson was expecting given that The Ice Queen (Elsa) in the original Hans Christian Andersen story, which Frozen is loosely based on, also doesn’t have a man to save her. Worse, in the original story, a girl named Gerda embarks on an adventure to rescue her boyfriend after he was kidnapped by the Ice Queen. The story is literally about a female adventurer going to save a male damsel in distress.
@@SarastistheSerpentYes one of my favorite stories ever.
@@SarastistheSerpent They don't read or watch anything other than Disney or superhero films. Disney = Western culture to them.
It's like when they were crying about Halle Bailey playing Ariel, assuming Ariel has always been named that and was always White American and always had red hair.
I always laugh when the "passport bros" learn the hard way that their "non-western" wife is only in it for the US citizenship and as soon as they get it they're gone.
It’s also funny when they realize that the girls they’re wifing up in these “third-world” countries are often the most “non-traditional” i.e. hookers.
I'm so grateful I grew up in the 1980s before the Internet was a thing, and didn't end up with terminal brainworms from being on incel/mgtow/retvrn fora.
Hey, I grew up when the internet was a thing and I'm not a brain worms riddled incel.
But I do watch Vaush so I might not be better off.
@@spikem5950 Right beside you brother. Into the pit!
Yeah, believe me, LOTS of older guys in that boat who grew up in the eighties. The good thing was we were still wearing pastels. Gives some perspective.
Being lovable is connected to love and empathy (connection / community). Conservatism is a belief based on an almost narcissistic form of individuality (human being in a vacuum).To keep that delusion valid they cannot be / become lovable. If they would the house of cards (full control over others and reality) would fall apart.
I'm lovable and I HATE communities. Although I do have connections
@painunending4610 So you don't imagine your life to be happening in a vacuum free from the influence of others and circumstances. Sounds quite sane to me. ;) Have a nice day!
@@MarcelGraumans I am not part of any community yes
@@painunending4610 lol you're so dumb
They lack awareness and common sense. That is why they hear a woman say, "I like guys over 6 feet." They take it literally as in she doesn't find anyone under 6 foot to be attractive, and will not date them. What it actually means is 'tall guys are kind of hot, because being next to someone tall makes me feel really safe, but if you make me feel safe I would still like you even if you were way shorter, and also there is like ten other things that I also find attractive.' That is way to complex for them.
The funny part to me, is I have met maybe 1 girl in my entire life that really did the 'Disney Princess' bit. I have not met another since. Hilariously she was conservative, a pick me, and totally insufferable after the first date. The very thing incels and nazi's love.
Part of Musk's fall is exacerbated by his continued attempts to claw money out of companies that he might have been involved in as a vc investor.
"In Thailand, strict regulations govern firearms. Individuals must obtain authorization for the possession, manufacturing, and use of firearms. Carrying guns in public areas without a license is strictly prohibited, with limited exceptions for emergencies and certain officials."
"Crimes involving firearms are not unheard of and reported in the news every week, but this has led the punishments to be extremely harsh, and even firing in self-defence almost always results in harsh fines and years of jail time."
- The Siam Legal Institute
My artistic, moody, gen-x, "soy boy" husband is the best man ever. Chads suck. Be a man who wants to be with women because he LOVES women. I actually hang out with my husband like I do my friends. We actually have shit in common. We like the same art and want to watch the same things, we enjoy the same music and dancing. Guys like the one in this video are self-pitying chads. They KNOW they have nothing to offer well developed, emotionally mature women who are self aware. Seriously, the gentler men are where it Is at.
The guy in this video is a Chad? Based
Anyway, when you hear women talk about their exes, this type of men is never who they're referring to, that says all you need to know
Thanks for speaking for all women everywhere! Very insightful 👍
@@HollowPurpleSeb261 yeah, women never have sh*tty ahole exes... What?
and im a skinny out of shape twig who also has a girlfriend as well. as long as ya dont whine and bitch about stuff and instead focus on being likeable, you'll go far
Its not Disney’s fault women don’t want you.
Guy: the economy sucks
Everyone: how so?
Guy: you just hate me because I’m white!!!
the economy DOESNT suck apparently
You left out , while wearing 1000 bucks of maga crap .
They are such victims 😂
Moana Disney Princess Programming.
“You”
“The guy she tells you not to worry about” (It’s literally the Pacific Ocean.)
no, the guy who you need to worry about is maoi. you seen how big that mf is? he's wide. and his tattoos are sentient
@@papiderpy and is also animated and not real
Thailand is crawling with these guys. Its horrible.
only the certain towns. those towns are places where normal thailand people dont go. party cities
Crawling is the right word
I think its more naturally unlovable men become sexually frustrated and are more likely to turn to incel content because the alternative (accepting you have flaws and changing them) is far more difficult and harder to admit to yourself than someone telling you women are the issue. Its sad.
There’s the natural inclination to only want the result, rather than enjoy the process. Transforming yourself can be enjoyable, but you have to reconfigure the mind. That is hard because the entire structure of society tells you to be unapologetic, selfish and opportunistic
so you figured out why women are single - their personalities are faulty.
I thought a good partner would accept your flaws
Somewhere else in this tread an ex-junkie claimed he had relationships while using. Pretty big flaw to most people but some people accepted it
@@NotShowingOff 'the entire structure of society tells you to unapologetic, selfish and opportunistic'
Do we live in the same society?
@@painunending4610 Love can be a strong binding agent. But you wouldnt get with someone who is a clear junkie, but if they become that after you fall in love with them, it can be hard to let go. That and you can always find people on your level, so junkies find other people with issues. Sure, everyone has little to medium flaws, but if you dont bathe yourself properly, dont seem to take care of yourself or try in livfe, why would you expect someone else to want to take that journey with you? Ofcourse you wouldnt. Theres a difference between character quirks that may not be societal ideals and flaws that make you hard to get along with or be attracted to.
I moved to Thailand because I got an offer to go to college there. I met a local girl (Same age as me) and we've been together for 3 years. I genuinely don't know if I would be considered a "Passport Bro" because my intentions were just to get a bachelor's degree and to live in a different country first and foremost
I wouldn't consider you a passport bro, because passport bros go over to other countries *solely* to find a (subservient) wife. You went to Thailand for college and naturally met a woman.
Passport bros are the incel men who counted get a “bitch” in their eyes and moved specifically to get a “bitch” ur a dude who went to get an education abroad and that’s so based! I might wanna do that someday. So no bro, ur cool
Bi guy here, I’ve found that women are in my experience very straightforward with their intentions. If they are interested and you ask they will tell you if they lime you or not, which is kinda within expectations since most of them are human beings who aren’t trying to play emotional 3d chess their personal lives.
When women's survivability and livelihood depended on a man they were privileged by holding potential mates hostage. Now that women can provide survivability on their own, they have to find a personality to barter partnership with.
You admitted that womens survival and livelyhood depended on men, but then you go on to say they were privileged?! How in the world does that make sense
@@TheCoctorthe comment is hard to read but given the context of the sentence that’s not what they said.
@@MrMerve-tl9my „when womens survivabilty and livelihood depended on a man they were priviledged…“
I know context is important, but i repeated what he said almost word for word
@@TheCoctor they are saying men were in a position of power over the woman because women could not easily leave without finances, thus resulting in the man holding a woman hostage. It’s just a poorly structured sentence. Probably not proof read
@@MrMerve-tl9my ooooooohh. My bad bro😅
Women’s social ques are often too subtle for me to pick up on, but then again, I am borderline autistic, so that’s more of a “me” problem.
Nah, women just need to speak up
too subtleness is part of patriarchal dating, internalized patriarchy by women. i guess you could always marry asian country prostitute.
to them you can autistly directly discuss partnership without needing to be coy. as in you give something they want and they give something you want.
Yeah join the club, from personal experience its Far easier to hook up with other guys than with women when you're neurodivergent.
@@hughmungus2760If a woman wants to not take communication seriously, then that's their individual choice.
@@PinocchioDreadwe do. we literally do. im direct. i use no uncertain terms when i want to be left alone or want to be spoken to a certain way. people are just relentless
I like to picture this guy smiling as he watches his wife churn butter. Then his look of confusion as she turns to him and hands him a straw hat. "You're looking kinda pale, better keep covered or you'll never survive to the end of the week!"
"Ok, thanks...What?"
"Well, it's going to be hot and sunny this week, but you'll need to be out there 12 hours a day if you hope to get that fence done around the north pasture before the yearlings are put out. Oh, and that rain in March flooded all the drainage ditches, gotta dig those out, too. Come up to the house if you run out of water! Love ya!"
Yeah...I don't think he'd like this fantasy in real life.
he should just say what we're hearing, "I WANT MY MOMMY!". lololol
i say this to girls explicitly like vaush says and they still dont like me ?
He doesn't want his mommy. He hates his mommy, and all women by extension.
Every time these conservative Whinebros open their mouths, all I can hear is the baby mario crying sound from Yoshi's Island.
I feel like being a princess waiting for a Prince and a feminist are mutually exclusive opposites. Also, as a middle aged white dude, I've had no problem finding jobs... Or women. These people just suck.
problem is they're not but the way feminism is represented in media (along with special and extreme radfems) cause people to believe that feminism means women do what men have done. feminism is just the people wanting a woman to have a choice in whether they become a disney princess or provider. a super tradwife with heavy conservative values can be a feminist if she thinks the next woman can choose how they want to live and believes its okay
My jawdropped when he said "Thailand" lmaooo such a big fucking self report
My best guess is it’s to further reinforce their persecution complex. They have to always be the strongest and the most attacked at the same time.
The enemy is both strong and weak
If you try and fail then you failed because you suck. If you never try at all you can blame everyone for never giving you a chance.
Being the strongest is a status symbol. And being the most attacked is supposed to generate sympathy. So it's a play for both their strength AND that people should see them as sympathetic for fighting alone. So hard. So tough. So much struggle. But they do it, not because they have to but because they BELIEVE in something. (racism, misogyny, fascism)
Conservatives are having less trouble with dating and marriage than progressives and liberals. This is very well documented.
and then chase drags a Bible onto whatever lol to take it to the next level. Religion is ALL about being gods top dog but made weak by built in sin nature. Bc the woman failed him and chomped an apple.
I do want to get a maga Bible though just for the meme. I tried to figure out where to get one and the search engine returned zero results lmao except for the scams.
I've always been entertained "guys" like him...or guys like Ben Shapiro and Charlie Kirk who are CLEARLY not-hetero, and think they look like Clint friggin Eastwood.
I remember, when i was like 14 or 15 and heard the "robot wife thing" for the first time from a red pill yter , that was the moment i realized that nothing the right says is of any value or will ever help me even remotely getting with girls.
After that it was pretty fast that i jumped off the far-right pipeline that so many of my contemporaries fell for.
So i guess i have to thank him today for being so unhinged mask of.
2:33
>"Disney Princess Programming"
The conservative hatred of Disney is so bizarre to me. 10-15 years ago, it was Liberals that weren't fans of Disney because a lot of their old movies reinforced conservative gender roles and most of them failed the bechdel test (old Disney movies usually ended with the women in them entering a relationship/getting married).
Seeing the perception of Disney take a complete 180 and the conservative/'red pill' crowd getting angry at Disney, a company that has always reinforced conformity, just feels super weird.
The culture is abandoning us = the food is seasoned and the dancing doesn’t suck
You can afford food?
@@AbhorrentArcana you cant? Skill issue
@@nathanmcguire932 dammit
Honestly, i hate the whole spicy stuff. Idk in america now instead of actually seasoning something they just put fkin hot sauce on everything. Why'd you have to make fun of the mayo stuff- at least it was edible back then.
It's so they have something to complain about
They want to be the lone wolf bad ass like Tyler Durden, Lou Bloom, Officer K, Daniel Plainview and to a lesser extent Anton Chigurh.
The only problem is they’re not those guys but they try to be so fucking hard. They’re products of their environment. They like to think they’re some rough and tuff alphas but they’re just consumers who’ve gotten high on their own supply.
Jfc Anton Chigurh is on that list now?
@@ss-ds2dn yup
I've never been to an isekai-themed wedding, but I *have* had to endure a fucking Disney Princess wedding.
"Unwifeable" is like a red flag made out of other red flags
Imagine being the richest man on earth and still being unf-able
At 3:49, by "Disney princess programing" I think they mean that women are put on a pedestal and see the world as revolving around them ... which is ironically a conservative, patriarchal societal world view. Conservative expectations create the very society they are unhappy with.
The incel’s economic complaints in this video aren’t even good. “The economy is bad” is such a 0 IQ vague complaint that it shouldn’t be taken seriously. And complaining about not being able to own a house is silly because the move away from home ownership is because America’s home ownership model is unsustainable.
I say this as a guy who recently went from around 300lbs to 250 (and dropping) the amount of women who would date me, or go out with me, has not changed significantly at all. And my appearance has changed dramatically, I'm about 6'1 and carry my weight pretty well (I've put on a lot of muscle) and even when I was a big fat guy I still got women who were way above my (metaphorical) punching weight. Were there shallow girls who said they wouldn't date a fat guy? Absolutely. Did I get skipped by a lot of women on dating sites? Absolutely. Was I pulling super models? Absolutely not. But I still dated many very lovely looking gals.
But I would bet my house on a woman accepting me over a guy accepting a girl who weighed as much as me. Fellas, here's the tip, Expect Nothing. Have Fun. Make them laugh/smile. Seriously, that's it, that's the secret. Too shallow? Swim in a deeper pool. Expects a $150 first date? Skip. Total bitch? Ditch. There's millions of them, move on.
" I'm 6'1" "
All you coulda said man
@@painunending4610 There are poverty stricken, wheel chair bound uglies with dwarfism who are with Lovely Ladies. But they don't spend their time whining on the internet about how they deserve only the hottest Babes, while offering nothing in return - because society told them so. Be loving and kind and devoted and loyal....and you can get the best of the best. Be an entitled superficial sh*t ...and keep wondering how all the Deep sexy women avoid you for lacking character...and all the superficial ones ditch you for lack of looks and money.
You cannot expect women to look for your inner Beauty, if you have no inner Beauty. And if you are superficial, you Need to become what superficial women crave: sexy and rich.
@@painunending4610 this is why you are permanently losing. this guy literally explains if you got a few things going on for you there are women willing to overlook even being 300 pounds. you latch onto one detail and pretend the rest is irrelevant.
As a 6’1 muscular black man, I’ve never so much as held a woman’s hand before. Let alone have someone consider me attractive enough to enter a relationship with. It’s not like I don’t put effort into myself. I definitely do, I have a stable job that I love, I try to be confident in myself, and I work out semi-regularly. Not even because I necessarily wanted to be in a relationship, but because it’s nice to improve. It’s worked out well from what I can tell too. I’ve been called handsome, funny, kind, all the qualities that would be considered “attractive” by most people’s standards. But women just aren’t interested in dating me. I don’t blame them or anything, but to say that it doesn’t get to me sometimes would be a lie. It just… kinda hurts seeing people around me being in happy fulfilled relationships and I can’t seem to do the same.
I dont know any women who operate under the 'I'm a Disney princess' model...
Little girls yes! Women? Nope
@@katzensindweich3505 Hmmmm how about grown up girls?
@@katzensindweich3505 Suddenly our upbringing has no impact on our adult psyche?
Are we really doing the "group we don't like - because they're wrong most of the time - gets something at least somewhat right for once, but since they're the other tribe we have to object regardless"?
@@szeddezs I know tons of girls who celebrate or have celebrated their Disney heroines. I just don't know any women who do. You do?
People forget that DEI includes: anyone from a rural area, anyone who was disadvantaged by low income, and anyone with neurodivergence or other learning disabilities. It isn’t only about race.
The opposite, for universities jews were allowed to hide in the white category to avoid getting slapped down for being overrepressented by 10k % through nepotism.
I used to kind of be in the incel sphere, but it was a superficial way to vent my frustrations with getting dates. But that was before I met my now ex-girlfriend. I cleaned up my language, started grooming and dressing with purpose, and attended local get-togethers, and found someone I ended up dating for about a year.
She was an avid Luna Oi watcher which essentially made her have typical tankie beliefs. I'm more of a soc-dem type, so when she went on her "scientific socialism" rants and relayed Vietnamese state propaganda on our dates, I knew I could do better. That and a few other reasons are why I made the decision to end the relationship.
Now that I know I attract women, I understand what usually makes for a good interaction. It basically involves learning social skills I never got when I was younger. Most guys out there are definitely capable of attracting women. It's just that some will have an easier time learning the ropes than others, and that's not a bad thing.
Tankie women??? Where is this?
@@user-lz2ee4ch2n Well, she was a music major at my university. Maybe start in that direction.
You cannot make a person attracted to you. They either are or aren't
I never could afford to finically support anyone except myself. Guess what? I got a wife who loves and supports my son and I. Maybe cause I have a personality and bring more to the table than just money.
If anything regading dune...he was the fulcrum between men and women, I think you can read it, that the ultimate being is man and women, but it wasn't proper to use those words at the time the book was written.
The first book literally ends with Jessica telling Chani that (paraphrased) “history will remember us, not the wives, they will not call us concubines but queens abs mothers” and if you’ve seen part two you’ll know why that line is important in the end.
I thought the ultimate being in dune was becoming a giant man-worm demigod?
@@hughmungus2760 that’s supposedly in the latter books & it’s Paul’s son who becomes that.
As someone who had a reactionary phase as a teenager, I 100% sign off on reactionary politics being like 90% just various forms of insecurity and self-hatred.
3:32 average Disney princess >> average Isekai male lead
YES