Can I marry a Non Hijabi Woman? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem

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  • @Clips-pq7ij
    @Clips-pq7ij Місяць тому +501

    The heaviest french accent I've ever heard

    • @jeremyemilio9378
      @jeremyemilio9378 29 днів тому +6

      Yeah😂

    • @Tanjirokamado_19
      @Tanjirokamado_19 27 днів тому +26

      I prefer french accent english than indian accent english 😂

    • @jeremyemilio9378
      @jeremyemilio9378 27 днів тому

      @@Tanjirokamado_19 you mean the bhenchodterimaakichut accent?🤣

    • @Dunno683
      @Dunno683 21 день тому +3

      ? You must not have heard many french people buddy. That was standard

    • @user-dn1tx6dj7y
      @user-dn1tx6dj7y 17 днів тому

      ​@@Tanjirokamado_19 the french accent is better than the Arabic accent, Indian accent. In the west, arabic accent is not considered nice, the french accent is

  • @tahirballikaya213
    @tahirballikaya213 28 днів тому +157

    It's simple. If it bothers you that she is not wearing the hijab, it will continue to bother you after you marry her so don't.

    • @Killer-Bee0047
      @Killer-Bee0047 23 дні тому +2

      💯

    • @AliSidTex
      @AliSidTex 18 днів тому +2

      This is so true.

    • @PhoenixLive_YT
      @PhoenixLive_YT 17 днів тому +7

      Actually it will bother EVEN MORE because married men gets jealous when their wife shares her beauty with other men.

    • @auntiesemite9295
      @auntiesemite9295 3 дні тому

      Who are the other two people Allah doesn't look at?

  • @PietPieter-k8r
    @PietPieter-k8r 19 днів тому +22

    Many women who dont cover their heads have more hijab than those who do cover their heads.
    Some who dont cover their heads are dressed modestly for the rest of their bodies whereas many "hijabis" wear tight clothing revealing their curves and bodies.
    Also some of the first group have hayya and lower their voice whereas the fake hijabis with their headscarves talk to men and have loud voices. So we should see hijab as a total package and not headscarve only.
    I would rather marry a woman who is shy and dresses modestly without headscarve than a fake hijabi who reveals her whole body.
    The first woman only needs to add her headscarf and that will be easy. As for the second one the change would not be easy since her inner hijab and behavior is rotten, no shame etc so thats way harder to change.

    • @Nt-qv9bt
      @Nt-qv9bt 11 днів тому +3

      This should have more likes. Only comment I’ve seen with common sense on here. “The first one only needs to put a head scarf on, the second one has a lot more work to do”.

    • @cintiacafe4904
      @cintiacafe4904 7 днів тому

      ​@@Nt-qv9bt but Hijab is not only about a headscarf

    • @hk19478
      @hk19478 4 дні тому

      💯 👏

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 4 дні тому +3

      This is literally what I have been saying this whole time, thank you for restoring my faith in the men of our Muslim community. At least there are some intelligent ones out there. I cover my body modestly and practice everything else but struggle with hijab due to illness, I still sometimes try to wear it but because of my illness sometimes I can’t do it properly. But these men call me a “s1ut” or a wh0re. Just because I don’t cover my head properly, even though I wear very lose modest clothing, and at least lower my voice etc. They judge me without even knowing my story and how I am none of that. I wish people had your mindset.

    • @PietPieter-k8r
      @PietPieter-k8r 4 дні тому +2

      @maariyah1668 The ˹true˺ servants of the Most Compassionate are those who walk on the earth humbly, and when the foolish address them ˹improperly˺, they only respond with "salam". (25:63)

  • @unsaali4201
    @unsaali4201 28 днів тому +316

    I am a Muslim girl, I do cover but it disgusts me how Muslim men consider themselves obliged to do character assassination of non-hijabi woman as if she is bad, I have seen some Hijabi girls in my life who are literally worst, there was a girl in my class who was hijabi and she had a bf and she even flexed about her encounter with him which was little physical, and my jaw dropped, I told her we are Muslims, how can u do that but she looked at me as if I have said something cringe, and I have seen some non-Hijabi women who are not into friendship with non-mehram and keep themselves away from such things, so making this whole assumption about someone that hijabi women is good and non-hijabi is bad is just too vile, there are women out there in my own relatives who don't show themselves in front of non-mehram but u will find many bad behaviors among them like back biting, jealousy etc etc

    • @sadique7359
      @sadique7359 28 днів тому +19

      Exactly , but after marriage she must cover.
      I have seen lot of girl who wears hijab in relationship with boys

    • @Casey-sl1bh
      @Casey-sl1bh 27 днів тому +14

      Allah knows best, as a Muslim man revert i too find this distressing and honestly confusing. Insha’Allah, we should focus on ourself and love ourself and search for someone who too loves themselves and loves Allah. Salaam

    • @Tanjirokamado_19
      @Tanjirokamado_19 27 днів тому

      True.. many hijabi girl i know as well cant imagine how bad they r.. .

    • @sajidabdullah8555
      @sajidabdullah8555 27 днів тому +6

      May Allah save and forgive all of us.

    • @moralisoppression2837
      @moralisoppression2837 27 днів тому +33

      Stupid comparison, both are not practicing modesty.

  • @Hamzaalberta8335
    @Hamzaalberta8335 29 днів тому +148

    Brothers a practicing Hijabi is ideal but don't judge a women based on her clothing these days. Hijab doesn't tell you the whole picture.

    • @usaif2761
      @usaif2761 27 днів тому +19

      Whatever but hijab is must if you believe Islam

    • @imtiazhasnat8166
      @imtiazhasnat8166 26 днів тому +4

      @@usaif2761 whatever you say delulu peep

    • @CondolentPizza8
      @CondolentPizza8 25 днів тому

      @@usaif2761You can still wear a hijab and still be an asshole. Hijab doesn’t determine a good in person.

    • @imtiazhasnat8166
      @imtiazhasnat8166 25 днів тому

      @onlygaming6698 ur perceptive is shaped by exterior observation and based on that you 'saying' she is mostly bad is not right. Based on your observation, it seems u deem the life of female lesser and their sins much higher than any big ones(irrespective of gender)

    • @shal.
      @shal. 24 дні тому +1

      @hamzaalberta8335, "never judge a book from its cover".

  • @jayanplayz
    @jayanplayz 27 днів тому +41

    dont ignore this please, you'll need this on the Day of Judgement.
    complete your daily Dhikr, recite these:

    Subhanallah 3x
    Astagfirullah 3x
    Alhamdulillah 3×
    Allahu Akbar 3x
    La illaha ilallah 3×
    Allahuma ajirni Min'an Naar 7×
    Allahuma inni as'aluka Al Jannah wa Audoobika Min'an Naar 12x
    Allahumma inni as'aluka husnal khatimah 3×
    Allahumagh fir lil Muslimina Wal Muslimat Wal Muminina Wal muminat x3
    May Allah (S.W.T.) grant us Jannat-al-Firdous
    Ameen

    • @Thakur__RAJPUT__55
      @Thakur__RAJPUT__55 26 днів тому

      🦶☪️🤲🏿💩

    • @Mad48g
      @Mad48g 3 дні тому +1

      may Allah Bless you and reward you with Jannatel Firdous InshaAllah you get the same deed that i did because of you may Allah Bless you and our Muslim Brothers and Muslim Sisters may grant you Jannatel Firdous and our Muslim Brothers and Muslim Sisters may Allah forgive and cover your sins and our Muslim Brothers and Muslim Sisters Ameen

    • @sname4410
      @sname4410 19 годин тому

      @@Mad48g Ameen

    • @Mad48g
      @Mad48g 14 годин тому

      @@sname4410 Amen

  • @BeHumbleAndLessArrogant
    @BeHumbleAndLessArrogant Місяць тому +14

    Brothers who are willing to marry women of the book, shouldn't object too much. She could always put a Hijab later on and improve her relationship with Allah. But a wearing a Hijabi in the west, is especially a good sign. There's obviously more to it then that though.

  • @SatoriLeclair
    @SatoriLeclair 24 дні тому +47

    I am a hijabi and I believe all Muslim women should wear hijab but Muslim men talking like this about them makes me disgusted, just so you all know(Muslim men who talks bad about women who don’t wear hijab) you have no right to say anything like this to anyone, you are not god to judge your words are so bad that when I get effected by it

    • @Xuja-r3x
      @Xuja-r3x 17 днів тому +9

      But a woman who is not wearing hijab is disobeying her lord and is sinning publicly so a man should avoid marrying someone like that

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 17 днів тому +5

      It’s sad because I had and still have an illness, which causes me to not be able to wear it properly and all these men accuse me of being a bad mulsim even though I practice everything else. They run their mouths without even knowing my full story. But to them I am a dirty bad woman. I hope Allah shows them how it feels to have my illness and be judged unjustly like this. I still try but it’s not good enough for them, even though it physically and mentally affects me. Please pray for me and my illness to go away, then I can wear it properly.

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 17 днів тому +7

      @@Xuja-r3xand labelling her as “destined for hell” and giving her bad labels is also haram, which sheikh also said. Stop categorising all women who don’t wear hijab in one and judging her whole personality when you don’t even know the story to why she doesn’t OR can’t wear it yet. I can’t wear it properly due to illness but yes thanks so much for encouraging people to shun and abandon us. I’ll leave it in the hands of Allah to deal with all of you, who are so insensitive about our illness and judge us based off of struggling to wear a cloth on our head properly, even though when i try it causes physical damage.

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 13 днів тому +3

      @@Xuja-r3x then simply don't marry her and be quiet

    • @SatoriLeclair
      @SatoriLeclair 12 днів тому

      @@Xuja-r3x he should but he shouldn’t talk bad about her, we don’t have the right for that, I also don’t like satanic people but I don’t say anything bad or good about them because I’m no person to talk about them, Allah is the judge and the creator he have all the rights for he is their creator, I’m just another creation so I just don’t talk about them

  • @ashaulmiah5688
    @ashaulmiah5688 Місяць тому +43

    Of course you can marry a non hijabi woman and the full thing. Same goes for women can marry a man thats clean shaven!

    • @lalallaaaaa
      @lalallaaaaa Місяць тому +14

      comparing two different things that isnt apple to apple. hijab is mandatory and beard is sunnah. you mixed things up lol

    • @ashaulmiah5688
      @ashaulmiah5688 Місяць тому +8

      @@lalallaaaaa whomever you are, these things are part of the Islamic rituals. As far as I know, I do my research in regards to the beards. Some people and even scholars say its Wajib lol. If it's a sunnah, it means you can shave it as it's not compulsory, yet people say its a sin. Surely they got that information from somewhere, so which is it then? Lol facts please

    • @khalidnoor7735
      @khalidnoor7735 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@ashaulmiah5688The beard isn't comparable to the Hijab lol. Hijab is serious bro she is uncovered. There isn't even a difference of opinion on Hijab other than feet vs no feet and ofcourse some saying she should have hijab. Beard has a variety of opinions even a few heavy weight scholars saying shaving is makruh not haram I.e in shafiqi fish. It is a terrible comparison in all honesty

    • @ashaulmiah5688
      @ashaulmiah5688 Місяць тому +1

      @@khalidnoor7735 Well then Muslims can't lie and say there's no compulsion in Islam, because there is compulsion. In regards to beards and hijabs, there is rulings behind it. After all it's about covering private parts. I never heard anyone say shaving is Makruh, where's the evidence?

    • @hasnain9654
      @hasnain9654 26 днів тому +3

      ​@@lalallaaaaa who told u kid that beard is sunnah...
      There is consensus among scholars and whole Muslim Ummah, 4 Imams, and hadiths that Beard is Fard to keep and shaving it is sinful.. Read rulings properly bro

  • @2000ku
    @2000ku Місяць тому +68

    The topic is being made such a big deal when there are many hijabi women who are committing other major sins like backbiting, disobeying their husbands, etc. Many non-hijabi women are very devout and well-mannered, principled, and behave better than many hijabi ones.
    I am not justifying not to wear the hijab but it is important to look at both sides and the social context rather than just a plain black and white ruling as Islam is also a religion of intelligence, mercy and understanding. Maybe one day Allah will guide her to wear the hijab if she is not currently doing so as it did take a while before the Hijab ruling came into place as it is not easy for everyone.

    • @khalidnoor7735
      @khalidnoor7735 Місяць тому

      if a non hijab was devout she'd put on the hijab, just cause there are hijab doing bad things is not an argument. Not wearing the hijab is just as bad, why are you kidding yourself?

    • @moralisoppression2837
      @moralisoppression2837 27 днів тому +7

      Women who are not practicing modesty are not chaste. Literally shaitan that give temptation to everyone to sin.

    • @user-us7el6ss2l
      @user-us7el6ss2l 18 днів тому +4

      @@moralisoppression2837 Modesty is not just physical

    • @faouri.
      @faouri. 17 днів тому +6

      @@user-us7el6ss2l Exactly but if they're hijabi you know one aspect is met, then thats when you see her character. But if she is not Hijabi you are missing a part of modesty. Both need to be met

    • @Xuja-r3x
      @Xuja-r3x 17 днів тому +4

      But a woman who is not wearing hijab is disobeying her lord and is sinning publicly so a man should avoid marrying someone like that

  • @raf1717
    @raf1717 24 дні тому +9

    Wow I love the ending part.. he was like being a good Muslim doesn’t give you the permission to be judgy.

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 4 дні тому

      Yh sadly 90% of the Muslim men in this comment section blocked that part out and are calling non-hijabis names like “s1ut”. I’m starting to lose faith in Muslim men. I struggle with illness that makes me not wear it properly sometimes and they judge my whole character, calls me names etc. Words can’t describe how disgusted I am at all the men here and ashamed. I am embarrassed for them, imagine if a new convert reads all of this. It’s so pathetic. They only listened to the first half of this video and ignored how sheikh said not to character assassinate, which is exactly what they are doing.

  • @SK-iy3vi
    @SK-iy3vi 28 днів тому +136

    My friend married a hijab and she turned out to be narcissistic. So don't be fooled by a piece of cloth, make sure you find a good person.

    • @tahirballikaya213
      @tahirballikaya213 28 днів тому +25

      It's like saying "I married a person who was praying. Don't be fooled by a few minutes of worship. Find a "good" person.

    • @imtiazhasnat8166
      @imtiazhasnat8166 26 днів тому +6

      @@tahirballikaya213 sorry to hear you didn't find a 'good' one

    • @allofit3547
      @allofit3547 24 дні тому +10

      @@SK-iy3vi my wife wears the hijab and she’s Amazing!

    • @srvntofAllah987
      @srvntofAllah987 23 дні тому +20

      So what? Does this justify that it's ok to not wear hijab?

    • @imtiazhasnat8166
      @imtiazhasnat8166 23 дні тому

      @@srvntofAllah987 same goes for you. Don't get involved every time it's bout a girl's hijab not for other godly sins. you so hell bent towards girls. what's ur parent teach you?

  • @masum26845
    @masum26845 15 днів тому +4

    A man with beard might not have that much deen but A man of deen will have beard.
    Same here. A hijabi or niqabi might not have that much Deen but a girl that's deeni will wear hijab or niqab

  • @farzanaaniq658
    @farzanaaniq658 Місяць тому +120

    My brother who asked this question marry a hijabi

    • @Halal_Chad007
      @Halal_Chad007 Місяць тому +1

      Didn't get you

    • @mba849
      @mba849 Місяць тому +24

      ​@@Halal_Chad007He's telling the dude who asked the question to marry a hijabi.

    • @wotizit
      @wotizit Місяць тому

      ​@@mba849where do I find her

    • @sanafareed1503
      @sanafareed1503 Місяць тому +2

      Alhamdulillah!!indeed Allah plans the best ❤

    • @farzanaaniq658
      @farzanaaniq658 Місяць тому

      @@mba849 yes you got me ☺️

  • @Hqmzlch
    @Hqmzlch 9 днів тому

    Thanks for subtitles ❤

  • @miniguppy
    @miniguppy 2 дні тому +1

    I rewatched the video 3times just to catch the french accent

  • @Jirenblack98
    @Jirenblack98 Місяць тому +50

    Yeah, I wouldn’t.

    • @servantofthetruth8203
      @servantofthetruth8203 Місяць тому +4

      🎯💯

    • @mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856
      @mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856 Місяць тому

      Good and hope you don’t shave your beard or have qaza haircut or wear jewellery or have trousers hang below your ankles or wear tight clothing brother

    • @Afridarbaz
      @Afridarbaz Місяць тому

      ​@@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856so don't marry those men

    • @hutao.h1258
      @hutao.h1258 17 днів тому +2

      who asked?

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 17 днів тому +2

      No one asked

  • @TheAerosid
    @TheAerosid Місяць тому +34

    There are some difficulties to wear the hijab in France due to some prevailing laws.

    • @Afridarbaz
      @Afridarbaz Місяць тому

      Yeah getting half naked is easy and totally nude in nude beach

    • @LM-wu4hx
      @LM-wu4hx Місяць тому +7

      People who say that are liars or they give up too soon. Yes, it’s not as easy as in other western countries, but the one who wants to wear it will find no difficulty in it.

    • @BeHumbleAndLessArrogant
      @BeHumbleAndLessArrogant Місяць тому

      Rule vs Exception

    • @Tima_sama10
      @Tima_sama10 Місяць тому +2

      i have many friends there and even family they still wear their hijabs if you want you can

    • @imtiazhasnat8166
      @imtiazhasnat8166 26 днів тому

      @@LM-wu4hx like your mum who started wearing after she stop working 9 to 7 ?

  • @SanaKhan-jm8vs
    @SanaKhan-jm8vs 29 днів тому +4

    Allahummaghfir lil muslimina wal muslimat wal muminina wal muminat al any minhum wal amwaat

  • @wxhl9498
    @wxhl9498 4 дні тому +1

    Just to add for the men, if you want a woman who wears hijab, marry a woman who wears the hijab.
    Don’t marry a woman who doesn’t and force her. Hijab is worn for Allah , not cuz the husband forced them (forcing is not allowed in Islam)

  • @TheOnlyReligionOfMonotheism
    @TheOnlyReligionOfMonotheism 21 день тому +5

    Lä iläha illä Llah

  • @iddrisuibrahim7600
    @iddrisuibrahim7600 Місяць тому +8

    Maa Shaa Allah.
    I've been educated.

  • @ashiasumbai5147
    @ashiasumbai5147 Місяць тому +1

    MashAllah Alhamdulillah for everything Aameen 🤲🤲♥️❤

  • @d.s6803
    @d.s6803 15 днів тому +4

    "don't judge a book by its cover"

    • @JeeyaW371
      @JeeyaW371 12 днів тому

      But not wearing is not just a cover ,but its also a sin

    • @d.s6803
      @d.s6803 6 днів тому

      @JeeyaW371 💯

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 4 дні тому

      @@JeeyaW371 and what has that got to do with not judging someone by their cover? Don’t judge someone’s whole character based off of one sin, which is something many of you men in this comment section are doing. I can’t wear it properly due to illness but you all call me a s1ut and judge my whole character even though I practice everything else and dress modestly. How is this right? Why act so prideful and act like you know the future of that woman just by looking at her? Is hell written on her fourhead? You could be promised hell and she could be promised heaven, you never know. You never even knew I had an illness before I told you but I’m sure if you just saw me with my hijab not on properly because of this, then you would think bad of my WHOLE character and judge me. You are no one to judge, you can advise but stop judging. Sheikh literally said this was a sin but you have all conveniently forgotten this part of the video. May Allah guide all of you.

  • @Mohamadzada05
    @Mohamadzada05 Місяць тому +1

    May allah bless us with you shekh ❤

  • @isma9232
    @isma9232 21 день тому

    Jazak Allahu khayran ❤

  • @Chad123-g3d
    @Chad123-g3d 27 днів тому +3

    A woman with a hijab is the best wife ever trust me guys 😂😂 look at the character too folks dont be naive

  • @mehrinafroz7660
    @mehrinafroz7660 15 днів тому +9

    It's so funny. I wear modest western clothes but no hijab, but this means i am characterless, according to some me at least, even though i never had any romantic relationship. But the funny part is, almost 80% of hijabi girls i met had boyfriends, went on dates. One regular burka wearing 16 year old girl in my sister's class even had a bit physical relationship with her own uncle!!! she wasn't molested, she actually liked the guy!!! And her uncle has a fiancee who he's going to marry soon and she still liked him!! The uncle in question is very hujur type with beard and panjabi but clearly disloyal. Moral of the story, don't be tricked by a garment.

    • @mehrinafroz7660
      @mehrinafroz7660 13 днів тому

      Wow, you conveniently ignored the fact in my story the girl was committing jina with a hujur type grown man with a fiancee, like he has no responsibility to be a man of good character. Technically the man is committing a bigger crime as he is committing jina and cheating on his fiancee but you only see the young girl's fault.

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 13 днів тому

      @@Jirenblack98 men are leaders and guides of women. This is more telling of the state of men in general. Weak men create hard times.

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 13 днів тому

      @@Jirenblack98 it’s the responsibility of the men

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 13 днів тому

      @@Jirenblack98 lol nice shifting of blame

    • @mehrinafroz7660
      @mehrinafroz7660 13 днів тому

      Do these girls have relationships with each other? No, they have relationships with men. So be equally disappointed with both of the gender, let men take some of the responsibilities too.

  • @NKJ4K
    @NKJ4K День тому +1

    There are some ignorant people in the comment section trying to ruin the picture of hijabi women, they are wayyyyy better than a non hijabi women whether they like it or not.
    Fear Allah in yourself those words may Land you in hellfire

  • @dr.maazasif5424
    @dr.maazasif5424 15 днів тому +6

    In my humble opinion;
    If a woman doesn't fear الله enough to cover her aura, she may not fear الله in other aspects of life too. It may lead to her contradiction with husband's future decisions for his family; Discord.
    So for a practicing Muslim male, he better choose a like-minded girl (and vice versa). Bcz Hijab is a major aspect of deen, not a minor one that can be ignored.

    • @pepper2240
      @pepper2240 13 днів тому

      Sure don't marry her, who is forcing you. There are plenty of other good men out there waiting for her.

    • @AudibleQuran
      @AudibleQuran 13 днів тому

      Good opinion; But I've seen more hijabis commiting zina widespread rather than girls who don't wear the hijab because the girls with hijab tends to think that they have the validation to do everything.

    • @StayFocusOnYourFaith
      @StayFocusOnYourFaith 12 днів тому

      In Islam it’s forbidden to give his opinion !!!!

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 11 днів тому

      @@pepper2240 Good men domt wait oit for wmn exposig their beauty with no shame, Thtas the difference

  • @fatimatuzzohora
    @fatimatuzzohora 4 дні тому

    Sheikh explained this very intelligently😂❤

  • @sabihunt3382
    @sabihunt3382 18 днів тому

    Alhamdulillah!

  • @HilalAhmed-cs1ct
    @HilalAhmed-cs1ct 28 днів тому

    Jazakallah Khairan

  • @Musa31344
    @Musa31344 Місяць тому +45

    Please pray that my wife will wear hijab

    • @ArfaAlam-nt9kq
      @ArfaAlam-nt9kq 29 днів тому +5

      Insha Allah bro just explain him lovingly calmly cuz allah likes calmness love and peace

    • @Musa31344
      @Musa31344 28 днів тому +3

      @@ArfaAlam-nt9kq she's a turkish woman many TURKISH muslim girls don't wear hijab

    • @ArfaAlam-nt9kq
      @ArfaAlam-nt9kq 28 днів тому +1

      @@Musa31344 it's doesn't matter where she belongs from the reality is that she is muslim and believe in Allah so needs to follow Quran and Allah's things you make her understand calmly but never force because allah said never force hijab on women

    • @Musa31344
      @Musa31344 27 днів тому +1

      @@ArfaAlam-nt9kq I would never force her she is stubborn but its ultimately her choice

    • @ArfaAlam-nt9kq
      @ArfaAlam-nt9kq 27 днів тому

      @@Musa31344 yeah

  • @cardboardbox191
    @cardboardbox191 6 днів тому +1

    Some people are quick to judge. I''ll assume a man needs to at least try to grow a beard to be a good man I'll accept that just to save time. There's a condition that makes people hairless.

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 4 дні тому

      Exactly, and I have a condition on my head that makes it hard to constantly wear hijab, I do everything else and try to cover my head a lot but struggle due to my illness. I am a virgin and I try to follow everything else in Islam. However, these men judge me and call me names like “s1ut” in the comment section. This is making me slowly lose faith in the men of our Muslim community. How are they so closed minded? They are literally ignoring the second half of the video and character assassinating all non-hijabis. They haven’t even met me but label me such insulting names. They don’t even know my story and why I can’t wear it properly and how I can’t even control this.

  • @maariyah1668
    @maariyah1668 4 дні тому +1

    All the men in the comments ignoring sheikh when he said to not character assassinate non-hijabis. You all clearly blocked that part out and only listened to the beginning didn’t you? Labelling me horrible names, even though I’m trying to wear hijab but am struggling due to my illness. You insult me, label me as a bad Muslim. Even though I practice everything else but struggle due to my illness to wear hijab properly. You don’t even know my story but you label me as this dirty woman even though I am a virgin and went to an all girls school my whole life. May Allah guide all of you. I trust Allah to teach and deal with all of you horrible men in the comments, insulting a person with illness calling her dirty. But you call me these names because my scarf is not on right? Ignoring and sinning just like sheikh told you not to. May Allah guide you all.

    • @anasbundegji
      @anasbundegji 3 дні тому +1

      @maariyah1668 so in general you're right. only allah knows your situation and i as a man feel ashamed for every man who judges women by her look. some of the most beautiful women have their beauty in their heart, rather than showing it by their appearance. but you shouldnt say, "I have lost faith of most men in the Muslim community." because the muslims are 2 billion. There are idiots everywhere and it doesnt have to do with religion. Yeah so the statement is very general and i think you should separate the reality from some people who type their opinion under a video. May Allah guide us all to the right path.

    • @maariyah1668
      @maariyah1668 3 дні тому

      @@anasbundegji you are right, I should not generalise. I’ll keep the mentality that there are good muslim men out there. May Allah bless you.

  • @Mad48g
    @Mad48g 3 дні тому

    Assalamu aleykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh Seikh assim and my Muslim Brothers may Allah bless all Muslim Brothers and Muslim Sisters and grant our Muslim Brothers and Muslim Sisters Jannatel Firdous and may Allah forgive and cover our Muslim Brothers and Muslim Sisters sins Ameen

  • @hussainsdomain
    @hussainsdomain Місяць тому +40

    the french accent 💀

    • @wotizit
      @wotizit Місяць тому +5

      Oui oui akh

    • @toshio-tamura
      @toshio-tamura Місяць тому +4

      I love it when their is diversity! Imagine everyone having the same voice? all man voice 1 and all girls voice 2? Alhamdullillah this diversity I love it

    • @shal.
      @shal. 24 дні тому +1

      @hussainsdomain, am French too and i recognized this "non effort accent" 😂.

    • @Adri-242
      @Adri-242 21 день тому

      Hahaha I am French too, made me chuckle a lot hahaha 😆😂

    • @Adri-242
      @Adri-242 21 день тому

      ​@@shal. Hahaha pareil 🤣😂😂

  • @hanaelabrim6267
    @hanaelabrim6267 2 дні тому +1

    Tbh I think people shouldnot follow this Cheikh religiously his opinions are usually very much his own opinion, I suggest people should read quran learn thesunnah and make conclusion by their own logic like these Cheikhs didn't invest Islam
    So asking him is almost like jumping god and mohamed just to get information from a random man
    Sorry no offence to him personally he is probably a good person

  • @TheOnlyReligionOfMonotheism
    @TheOnlyReligionOfMonotheism 21 день тому +1

    innä liLlähi wä innä iläyhi raji'ün

  • @Azothoth827
    @Azothoth827 Місяць тому +4

    As far as i know Alot of muslimas do wear hijab after marriage but better discuss this with her if she is willing to or not before marriage,

    • @elkapitan75
      @elkapitan75 Місяць тому

      ... In the presence of her mahram of course.

    • @Azothoth827
      @Azothoth827 Місяць тому

      @@elkapitan75 yes and only few glances not actaul gaze

  • @mohammedmiah7554
    @mohammedmiah7554 18 днів тому +1

    People are so stupid in the comments. There are many Muslims that don’t pray that are really nice people, would you marry them? Not wearing Hijab is a sin so just accept that you will be judged for not wearing the uniform of a Muslim. Also if you’re married to someone and they died sinning would that not bother you?

  • @Yusuf-Mohammed
    @Yusuf-Mohammed 7 днів тому +1

    Brothers chose a good woman as your wife dont go after looks

  • @babyfaceassassin4431
    @babyfaceassassin4431 12 днів тому

    For people who are learning about islam from youtube there are 100s of scholars some new some old so knowledgable some not so much and some of them are very very Good scholars, but when you listen to them they are so so so Stricted, if you make smallest mistake you will goto hell fire, Love marriage absolute haram no place in hell, thats why i prefer scholars like Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem who describes issues as they are and not make big drama of them

  • @mzs114
    @mzs114 22 дні тому

    Some are crying in the comments about getting judged, lol, get over it, people ofc judge you for whether you can be a better spouse. 😂

  • @Karuan
    @Karuan 16 днів тому

    not sheikh roasting the man for his accent😭

  • @babyshark8022
    @babyshark8022 5 днів тому +1

    What if she wears a hijab and does all the other bad deeds. Or what if he has a beard and judges Muslim women and does all the bad deeds himself?
    Will that make them a good person and worthy of marrying you?!
    Think of it yourself....

  • @TheOnlyReligionOfMonotheism
    @TheOnlyReligionOfMonotheism 21 день тому +1

    La xawlä wa lä quwattä illä biLläh

  • @jamalacha4276
    @jamalacha4276 26 днів тому +2

    Your are not a Muslim if you don't follow Quran alone

    • @user-us7el6ss2l
      @user-us7el6ss2l 18 днів тому

      @onlygaming6698 I think he was referring to Quranists

  • @Cherries2249
    @Cherries2249 15 днів тому

    I'm curious to know what ppl mean when they say "hijab" because do they only mean the head scarf or the full abaya/burqa as well? Because I wear the hijab and cover my hair, neck and chest properly and have worn it since age 11, but I don't wear the abaya as my dresses don't go all the way to my feet

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 11 днів тому

      the hijab means the abya. no scholar has said otherwise. y coensus the least 9s the abya

  • @nas3861
    @nas3861 21 день тому

    People especially in France have the word dayouth very easy they don’t even know the meaning of it.

    • @StayFocusOnYourFaith
      @StayFocusOnYourFaith 12 днів тому

      To much dayouth here. Trust me that’s why we know this word

  • @RafsanTalukder2021
    @RafsanTalukder2021 24 дні тому

    In my country, you can't marry before 23 but allowed to live together relationship 😢

  • @8noisyddawgs270
    @8noisyddawgs270 4 дні тому

    jazakAllah

  • @Mad48g
    @Mad48g 3 дні тому

    Allahhuma salli ala Muhammadin wa ala ali muhammad kama sallayta ala Ibrahima wa ali Ibrahim innaka hamidum majid 10x-10000000x
    Allahuma barik ala Muhammadin wa ala ali Muhammad Kama barakta ala Ibrahima wa ala ali Ibrahim innaka hamidum majid 10x - 100000000xAllahhuma salli ala Muhammadin wa ala ali muhammad kama sallayta ala Ibrahima wa ali Ibrahim innaka hamidum majid 10x-10000000x
    Allahuma barik ala Muhammadin wa ala ali Muhammad Kama barakta ala Ibrahima wa ala ali Ibrahim innaka hamidum majid 10x - 100000000x

  • @smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69
    @smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69 19 днів тому

    Oh yea the part where he talks about non hijabi women will 100% land on tiktok 😂

  • @FaayidhaIdah
    @FaayidhaIdah Місяць тому +27

    I know ppl who do thousands of selawats a day but don't wear hijab. Don't judge

    • @lazz1927
      @lazz1927 Місяць тому +45

      It is a sin to not wear hijab, period.

    • @Moore321
      @Moore321 Місяць тому +6

      Ye but this goes make it right. Even if they pray every day and night for 200 years it's still bad

    • @FaayidhaIdah
      @FaayidhaIdah Місяць тому +10

      @@lazz1927 sure it is. But its not a sin that is not worth marrying. And lets not pretend you are sinless.

    • @FaayidhaIdah
      @FaayidhaIdah Місяць тому

      @@Moore321 it is. My point is, not to judge. Some hijabis, are just hijabis for outer garment. In reality, they curse n use the F word and more. The be busy memorizing Rihanna lyrics than the Quran. Im a sister myself. I know other sisters who r like tt. Ofcourse not all. Jz simply don't judge. Tts all.. and in my honest opinion, according to my experience, i wld trust a non hijabi sis than a hijabi. Allah knows best

    • @Afridarbaz
      @Afridarbaz Місяць тому +17

      ​@@FaayidhaIdah openly sinning is also a sin

  • @mc-vn6bs
    @mc-vn6bs 23 дні тому +1

  • @Haiderabid980
    @Haiderabid980 Місяць тому +14

    I'm new muslim what is ejaab?

    • @syedaummekulsum5154
      @syedaummekulsum5154 Місяць тому +1

      run for ur lifeeeee lmao

    • @kortojoz
      @kortojoz Місяць тому +13

      The headcovering that muslim women must wear to conceal awrah

    • @Haiderabid980
      @Haiderabid980 Місяць тому +3

      @@kortojoz thanks

    • @ultrazanark3526
      @ultrazanark3526 Місяць тому +21

      @@syedaummekulsum5154not because you chose to follow your wills and desires as a god that you should refrain other people from leaving a meaningful life worshipping the one who created them

    • @syedaummekulsum5154
      @syedaummekulsum5154 Місяць тому

      @@ultrazanark3526 you worship muhammad and a puppet named allah . and its my opinion and if dont want to follow it dont follow it . its funny muslim are talking about not following their desiers when your ideal muhammad married his sons wife out f lust purely.
      stay delusional.

  • @LilLion1818
    @LilLion1818 27 днів тому +1

    Interesting

  • @FarhanAhmad-ll6no
    @FarhanAhmad-ll6no 10 днів тому

    That thuu had me 🤣

  • @safinhh8312
    @safinhh8312 18 днів тому

    What if she says she is planning to wear it because i do understand that girls can’t always go straight to niqabi

  • @unsaali4201
    @unsaali4201 28 днів тому +11

    I am Muslim girl, I don't want to get married to man who doesn't lower his gaze and or doesn't refrain from looking at non-mehram women, but the truth about muslim men is no such men exist, they keep on talking about Hijabi wives but won't hesitate checking out other women who are not their wives, so I have made promise to myself that I won't ever get married because no man fulfills this demand of wife to not look at other woman, I pray to ALLAH everyday that plz keep me single forever, never want to get married because Muslim men never fail to disappoint

    • @Odoxon7522
      @Odoxon7522 28 днів тому

      Who broke your heart

    • @unsaali4201
      @unsaali4201 28 днів тому +3

      @@Odoxon7522 is that not true though? If u r a Muslim man, then ask yourself, do u lower your gaze or refrain yourself from looking at other women??

    • @Odoxon7522
      @Odoxon7522 28 днів тому +6

      @@unsaali4201 The claim that more than 500 million Muslim men are not lowering their gaze and are constantly looking at women is simply incorrect. How was this conclusion reached? How many men did you observe or speak to in order to substantiate such a claim? What evidence is there to support the assertion that every Muslim man looks at women and that none of them ever lowers their gaze?
      Even if we accept this assumption momentarily, I would argue that it is an unsound basis to criticize all Muslim men for the following reasons. Firstly, Islam teaches that God forgives all sins. If a man, recognizing his weakness, acknowledges that looking at women is a mistake and actively tries to avoid it, this is better than a man who looks without any intention of refraining. Secondly, no one, including yourself, is perfect. In a marriage, can you guarantee that you will always satisfy your husband, prepare the best food, obey him, always dress modestly, or never cause frustration? Just as you cannot promise perfection, it is unreasonable to demand it from others.
      Furthermore, unintentional actions should not be confused with intentional wrongdoing. For instance, if a man unintentionally notices a woman while walking on the street and then quickly looks away, the initial glance-which was not deliberate-is not considered sinful in Islam. This type of jealousy over unintentional actions is irrational and will make you miserable in the long run.

    • @tahirballikaya213
      @tahirballikaya213 28 днів тому +2

      that's just sad. A life void of love, intimacy, cheering of children... Sounds very sad...

    • @unsaali4201
      @unsaali4201 28 днів тому +6

      @@tahirballikaya213 I have seen women in my life who are miserable just because of their husbands, so I would better be without children and intimacy rather than being abused

  • @nopenonam3
    @nopenonam3 Місяць тому +1

    French lessons 😂😂

  • @aarh2885
    @aarh2885 17 днів тому +1

    enough of hijab stories focus on men

  • @bhag628
    @bhag628 27 днів тому +1

    The tradition of hijab being mandatory originates with the ancient Assyrians. Assyrian women wore veils as a sign of piety and modesty, whereas prostitutes and non-Assyrian women were forbidden to do so. It’s not an Islamic idea, it’s just a tradition that has been a part of every religion in that region from the ancient pagans, Zoroastrians, Jews to Muslims. The Hajj was also a pagan ritual first established by ancient Yemenites, as is the mythological being known as a Djinn. This is all just ancient traditions that originate in pagan times, there’s really no need to take it so seriously in 2024. To worry about such minutia in the face of so many larger and more consequential problems is utterly silly.

  • @dexnacorn7807
    @dexnacorn7807 23 дні тому

    OH NO HE'S FRENCH

  • @Greeninsideall
    @Greeninsideall 19 днів тому

    It's ok even if she walks wearing bikini as long as it is halal

  • @cocomine8897
    @cocomine8897 18 днів тому +1

    Indeed, do not judge a book by its cover.

    • @StayFocusOnYourFaith
      @StayFocusOnYourFaith 12 днів тому

      In Islam we do.
      Learn your religion

    • @cocomine8897
      @cocomine8897 11 днів тому

      @StayFocusOnYourFaith
      Where did Allah or prophet Muhammad said that you can judge others freely?

  • @Ihteshamit
    @Ihteshamit 15 днів тому

    Doesn’t matter.

  • @habibiz9085
    @habibiz9085 Місяць тому +1

    My brother, you have to have basic standards that need to be fulfilled by a woman you want to marry, and one of them has to be HIJAB.
    That is one of the priorities.

    • @SSSyhh
      @SSSyhh 29 днів тому +1

      Source that states Hijab is required for marriage?

  • @Abubakrsiddiq-d8u
    @Abubakrsiddiq-d8u Місяць тому

    when and how can we ask doubts

  • @murik73000
    @murik73000 16 днів тому +1

    I have been withheld from my children for 833 days, hijabi women took them away. Being hijabi doesn't make you a good person, being non hijabi doesn't make you a bad person. It's character that truly matters. An atheist told me that even he would not do such a horrible thing as taking away someone's kids by force.

  • @Deccani
    @Deccani 26 днів тому

    Didn’t answer about hijabi with makeup

  • @unsaali4201
    @unsaali4201 28 днів тому

    why are Muslim men allowed to marry jews and christian women though, weren't they be called out on day of judgement?

    • @tahirballikaya213
      @tahirballikaya213 28 днів тому +5

      Because avoiding zina is a very important goal of Islam. It's better to marry a christian rather than doing zina. And Islam considers different circumstances. There might be times or places when muslim men can't find a muslimah to marry..

    • @worldwidemoon22999
      @worldwidemoon22999 14 днів тому

      ​@tahirballikaya213 wouldn't the same go for muslim women? they have the same needs as men

  • @lifeuu
    @lifeuu 18 днів тому

    This guy needs to stop talking. Not everyone with a mouth should talk. The first part of what he said was ok but after that. Wahhabi mode kicked in.

  • @Qvs-d1f
    @Qvs-d1f 18 днів тому +1

    What a dumb question!

  • @MuttakinMugdho-vd7ib
    @MuttakinMugdho-vd7ib 14 днів тому

    5:44

  • @michaelthompson3102
    @michaelthompson3102 Місяць тому +1

    Does the woman get a say in this...? France is a muslim country now??

    • @saracentiano
      @saracentiano Місяць тому +11

      Ofcourse. She may not choose to marry a guy who is not okay to marry her and may choose to marry someone who is okay with her. Kind of like what humanity does really.

    • @wotizit
      @wotizit Місяць тому +2

      ​@@saracentianothank u gym bro, and yes France will be insha Allah

    • @user-us7el6ss2l
      @user-us7el6ss2l 18 днів тому

      Great replacement aaah

  • @SunG-f7i
    @SunG-f7i 28 днів тому

    Hijabi is changed i hzve my own design 😂😂ghat will be protected no one will allowd tl wear it same like me wighour permission
    Im the orginal real profet dho been crowned with design znd bevn weared
    Also evils hax tryed to steal rhe design the failed

  • @nas3861
    @nas3861 21 день тому

    lol dire que les femmes en France mettent beaucoup de maquillage, faut arrêter de côtoyer les filles de Twitter et sors rencontrer de vraies femmes !

    • @StayFocusOnYourFaith
      @StayFocusOnYourFaith 12 днів тому

      C’est interdit de rencontrer des vraies femmes au cas où tu n’es pas au courant.
      L’islam c’est pas mac Donald tu viens pas comme tu es.
      Apprends ton dine et vite parce que la c’est compliqué

    • @nas3861
      @nas3861 11 днів тому

      @ oula !! Monsieur/ madame parfait(e) ! en un seul commentaire tu me juges déjà de ne pas connaître ma religion wow !
      Je connais très bien ma religion, je m’efforce de l’appliquer du mieux que je peux dans un pays où l’islam n’est pas le bienvenu. J’ai simplement répondu qu’il ne fallait pas généraliser en disant que les femmes musulmanes en France se maquillent bcp. Et quand je dis sors rencontrer de vraies femmes, ça ne veut pas dire les aborder/ sortir avec.
      Ne t’inquiète pas, je connais très bien ma religion الحمد لله

  • @ruggedheart
    @ruggedheart 8 днів тому

    Yeh log kitna nayalak hai 😂

  • @besthouseadventuresstar5032
    @besthouseadventuresstar5032 23 дні тому +1

    🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🥖🥖🥖🥖

  • @ameen2154
    @ameen2154 22 дні тому

    So basically, hijab isn't obligatory but it's recomended not to marry a woman who doesn't wear it.

  • @johnchristie7013
    @johnchristie7013 21 день тому +1

    It’s only a piece of cloth!

  • @KryztoferKurchatov-k5l
    @KryztoferKurchatov-k5l 19 днів тому +2

    Stupidity. Date a women who actually cares about you and marry her. Not for following these stupid rules. I am married to a Muslim woman who supports me at all costs, I love her and she loves me so badly and as per you she is a sinner and will go to hell for this crap? Stop literally taking in Quran's words. Update the religion both Christianity and Islam.

  • @tasmiahmasih3863
    @tasmiahmasih3863 Місяць тому +1

    Stay away from nonhijabis as it shows they think for themselves and will not obey you blindly like a good woman should

    • @Islam_in_east
      @Islam_in_east  Місяць тому +52

      Obey you blindly? No person should obey any other person blindly. Except for Prophet PBUH.

    • @GojksHoi-ur4di
      @GojksHoi-ur4di Місяць тому +2

      @@Islam_in_eastbut wife must obey husband in everything except what is haram. And most of daily requests are halal

    • @AmEeR-bw4oo
      @AmEeR-bw4oo Місяць тому +11

      Did you even listen to what sheikh Aasim said?

    • @MankingJr
      @MankingJr Місяць тому +31

      No woman should obey their husband blindly, they aren't slaves but complete human beings with their own thoughts.

    • @urmomisms
      @urmomisms Місяць тому

      @@GojksHoi-ur4dimay you never get a spouse until you fix your head.

  • @karupt422
    @karupt422 27 днів тому +1

    This sheikh is quite arrogant