Who did Buffy love more: Spike or Angel?

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  • @Chelbelle1983
    @Chelbelle1983 9 років тому +130

    She loved them both. Angel in that teenage first love way and Spike in that mature, respectful with a deep friendship way.

    • @joycehackett5867
      @joycehackett5867 6 років тому

      Zach Kabia No way at all!

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights 6 років тому +5

      She loves them both in different ways.

    • @JohnCena-hk7um
      @JohnCena-hk7um 6 років тому +9

      @Zach Kabia She picked spike over angel in the season finale and again in the comics. Her and spike are together in the comics now and happy. Angel was mad but he's letting them be

    • @JohnCena-hk7um
      @JohnCena-hk7um 6 років тому +5

      @Zach Kabia Wrong in the comics she has a choice and she picks spike. They're happy and together, plus she said she did mean it.

  • @zaladaneifyable
    @zaladaneifyable 9 років тому +206

    she chose Spike in the final episode. she wanted him by her side and sent Angel back to L.A. Spike was the one who changed and fought for her until the end. And of course the best character!

    • @randumo24
      @randumo24 6 років тому +10

      Lol, and right before he died they made it perfectly clear that she never loved him and that he knew it.

    • @swagsukeuchiha7599
      @swagsukeuchiha7599 6 років тому +20

      randumo24 you do realize in the comics, she chose spike right?

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights 6 років тому +5

      I never bought that she didn't love it's a Bangel and OTP myth. People can and do love more than one person in the course of a lifetime or in a Buffy's technically two or three of them.

    • @LUKERs1196
      @LUKERs1196 6 років тому +6

      Buffys truest love was Angel, she loved him the most, then came Riley and no matter how perfect he seemed to her capable of fighting, being human and loving her, she just couldn't love him as much as she loved Angel and its the same with Spike but if its the question who loved her the most, Spike did.

    • @nyikomaswanganyi5983
      @nyikomaswanganyi5983 6 років тому +18

      @@LUKERs1196 in the current comics she is with Spike and loves him. The comics are also written and over seen by Joss Whedon-the guy who created the characters.
      She chose Spike its settled.

  • @Pancake3225
    @Pancake3225 Рік тому +8

    I truly believe when Buffy wrapped her fingers around Spike’s and told him she loved him, that was the moment her love for Spike finally surpassed her love for Angel.

  • @fenixjpb
    @fenixjpb 10 років тому +98

    Spuffy FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @АннаЕрмоголаева
    @АннаЕрмоголаева 3 роки тому +19

    Buffy loved Angel when she was a young girl and it was her first love and first relationship. But Buffy fell in love with Spike later. They went the Hard way together, they grew as a couple and trust each other so much. Spike showed and proved his love unsouless and with soul and became a better man for her. She love him at the end.

  • @joselinaduran3972
    @joselinaduran3972 5 років тому +35

    shes in love with spike more, angel was more of the high school honey.....spike was such a complex character, who was in love with buffy prior before she did and really had to prove it to her, he was the man for her other than riley or angel , he went through hell to get his soul back and fought by her side more than once, protected her family....and lets not forget angel fell in love with cordeila..who they also had a true love story fighting side by side

    • @91mercedez
      @91mercedez 4 роки тому

      No she wasn't she loved angel more even in the finale when her and angel wherre talking she told him she does think far ahead and he siad he is not getting any older meaning down the road somewhere they will be back togeather but anyway she loved angel more look at all her other relationships if you think about it no man matched up to angel cause both their love was pure i think buffy cared very deeply for spike but she was not in love with him

    • @markdire1513
      @markdire1513 4 роки тому +8

      @@91mercedez I guess you don't have social skills to recognize said signs that are seen in Buffy/Spike love.
      Buffy was in love with Spike since half of season 6, just she couldn't admit it. Buffy when ever saw spike with others like when on Xander's wedding she told Spike that making her jealous working, same after he slept with Anya Buffy told him didn't take long for you. Buffy was obviously hurt what she saw on camera and everybody noticed.
      Buffy came for Spike in basement and forcing Xander to give him place to stay,
      Entire season 7 from episode 7 was Buffy not giving up on Spike and they becomed close with Buffy cutting Giles or Wood of completely for trying to kill Spike and she said several times Spike is only one who watches her back
      It was love
      She cared for Spike even when their memories were erased by Willow protecting him first. By episode Dead things they holding hands over doors to Spike's crypt. You don't do things like that if you're not in love etc.. and looks on their faces tell more than they ever could in season 6 and 7
      She never acted in any way like that with Angel. Angel was just highschool crush and he was forced in Buffy finale although it was obvious he didn't have place there and they are too different.It was just make to give some for lame bangels fans

    • @91mercedez
      @91mercedez 4 роки тому +1

      @@markdire1513 She cared she was not in love with him you can care about somebody deeply and still not be in love with them the same for me i have a ex boyfriend who we where on and off for 8 years he is also my bestfriend and we still love each other deeply even if we where to get into new relationships we qould still go back to each other and on the other hand theres is another guy who is my friend who tried to push something on to us and yes me and him where having sex and it was on a deep level but i could not love him even if i tried i cared very deeply for him and still do i would do anything for that guy but love is not one of them even tho he loves me but as i got older i knew either guy i could not be with

    • @giuliasole9878
      @giuliasole9878 2 роки тому

      @@91mercedez e a noi che ce ne fott?

  • @minatodroger7890
    @minatodroger7890 9 років тому +70

    I hear they are together in the comics now and angel ain't too pleased.

    • @kaylynowens2981
      @kaylynowens2981 9 років тому +13

      They are and Angel isn't too pleased, but he said he won't get in their way. I think it shocked him more to hear that they're actually dating and not just sleeping together. He also told Willow he doesn't think they can be happy together, but so far they're fine.

    • @minatodroger7890
      @minatodroger7890 9 років тому +4

      Poor Angel guy never catches a break it seems. Perhaps its time he just moved on from Buffy then. She seems to have.

    • @yeasurejan6260
      @yeasurejan6260 4 роки тому +6

      Minato D Roger he moved on from Buffy pretty quickly..

  • @lindatodd6864
    @lindatodd6864 6 років тому +38

    Spike I think she loved Spike more

  • @kaylynowens2981
    @kaylynowens2981 9 років тому +145

    James is completely right, they did reunite in the comics. It took a while, but now they're dating and living together, so she obviously loves Spike more. She had a choice to be with Angel, and she passed it up for Spike. Angel isn't too happy about it, but he's said he won't get in their way. It's weird yet awesome looking at the comics and seeing Spuffy together and knowing there's more then just sex. Then again, I'm a total Spuffy shipper, so I love every second of it.

    • @himbolad
      @himbolad 8 років тому +12

      I will never view the comics as cannon

    • @JessicaLawson1990
      @JessicaLawson1990 8 років тому +14

      Zack Morris but they are. I understand people who don't want to read them but you can't deny their validity

    • @m.a.____c.5892
      @m.a.____c.5892 7 років тому +5

      she stayed with him only 'cause she was mad at Angel. You can't be serious come on!

    • @afrinsana919
      @afrinsana919 6 років тому +6

      Kaylyn Owens me too
      Angel has pushed buffy away from the very beginning so he never deserved buffy.

    • @helio2361
      @helio2361 6 років тому +3

      There's the issue where angel would lose his soul like that one time, cause the curse is he can't be 'too happy' so it's too dangerous to be with buffy.

  • @martinjackson4393
    @martinjackson4393 8 років тому +28

    you have first love then you have true love

  • @lep2525
    @lep2525 5 років тому +12

    Spike.

  • @mjparadero7046
    @mjparadero7046 3 роки тому +20

    Spuffy forever ♾

  • @josephinamorales1061
    @josephinamorales1061 8 років тому +30

    Buffy and spike

  • @yeasurejan6260
    @yeasurejan6260 4 роки тому +19

    She loved Spike, he loved her more than Angel ever did and he proved that to her. Angel only loved Buffy when he had a soul, Spike fought for his soul because he loved Buffy and wanted to be the man he thought she deserved.

  • @swagsukeuchiha7599
    @swagsukeuchiha7599 6 років тому +48

    Joss wheddon ships buffy and spike. In the comics, buffy makes the choice to be w spike

    • @psychotropicfan
      @psychotropicfan 4 роки тому +1

      Broken up by S12

    • @swagsukeuchiha7599
      @swagsukeuchiha7599 4 роки тому +3

      @@psychotropicfan-shrugs- fine be a party pooper.

    • @denizen8358
      @denizen8358 3 роки тому

      He can ship them but doesn’t mean she loves him more

    • @steffnic13
      @steffnic13 3 роки тому +3

      Broken up between S11 and S12, but she keeps the door open for Spike and tells Angel she will help him get Illyria back. She loves them both deeply, but Angel actually is a far more destructive BF to her when all is said and done. Spike lifts her up and eventually vice versa.

  • @ДарьяД-щ1у
    @ДарьяД-щ1у 3 роки тому +12

    Only Spuffy🖤

  • @alluretxff8753
    @alluretxff8753 3 роки тому +15

    she definitely loved both of them the same. maybe more angel, because he was her first love and first time but i’m honestly not quite sure. off topic but the better choice would be spike. even without a soul he was able to love her and care about her, seeing her through some of her darkest times and still being there. angel without a soul couldn’t even do that, after the curse he began to be this disgusting and insane man to buffy. with a soul both love her, but spikes love for her never genuinely changed with or without a soul.

    • @artsyhyd
      @artsyhyd Рік тому +2

      Rite, Spike was there for her til the end, Angel on the other hand was a no show, he didn’t protect Buffy, maybe bcos he was so busy with Cordellia 🤣 When Sarah M Gellar said she thinks Buffy would choose Angel bcos hes what? Her first love? It’s appaling! Most first love doesn’t last Sarah! 😆

  • @johnjames6980
    @johnjames6980 2 роки тому +3

    Spike was her best friend (even more than Willow). So that's who she loved the best.

  • @RocelynA23
    @RocelynA23 9 років тому +11

    *Furiously typing finding comic books* ^__^ aha

  • @Miss9830
    @Miss9830 11 місяців тому +1

    Bangel forever! If Buffy and Angel could be intimate this wouldnt be even a discussion....

  • @kylahsmith1947
    @kylahsmith1947 8 років тому +84

    This is a very good question but also did spike or angel love Buffy more? Spike and Buffy belong together because Angel was only able to love Buffy with a soul and without a soul wanted to kill her but Spike was able to love Buffy with a soul and without

    • @c.k-da-kxnghere
      @c.k-da-kxnghere 7 років тому +10

      Kylah Smith he also tried to rape her without a soul. So....yea

    • @LUKERs1196
      @LUKERs1196 6 років тому +4

      Buffy loved Angel more, Spike loved Buffy more than Angel

  • @nobodysXghost
    @nobodysXghost 5 років тому +34

    come on everyone, angel was dull as hell, was totally unrealistic and fake in an in-genuine way, and spike was hotter.
    spike:
    -sexier
    -a sense of humor
    -genuine humanity
    -not as dull as a doorknob
    -more passionately in love with her

  • @plahmenoire8915
    @plahmenoire8915 7 років тому +23

    I watched Buffy from the first episode and I just dont see Buffy and angels relationship more than just her first taste of love.

  • @rebeccabrown1563
    @rebeccabrown1563 Рік тому +2

    I'd say Spike I truly believe she was in love with both of them but in season 2 Buffy killed Angelus to save the world but in season 7 Buffy refused to kill Spike to save the world and ran to Spike when she found out Giles was stalling her. But Buffy loved them both equally in her own way.

  • @Spuffygirl14
    @Spuffygirl14 9 років тому +34

    James I'm her mature love.

  • @melissamiller3597
    @melissamiller3597 7 років тому +4

    I hope they have a long healthy relationship and that they actually have a chance to have a family and they can fight together they can do things together at this is what I really want a lot of people want this we talked about it all the time

  • @9jay10
    @9jay10 3 роки тому +3

    Obviously Riley, he definitely had a personality

    • @em12837
      @em12837 3 роки тому

      I hate Riley. So. Damn. Much.

    • @9jay10
      @9jay10 3 роки тому +2

      I hope it’s clear that my original comment was sarcasm

  • @serpentsepia6638
    @serpentsepia6638 3 роки тому +4

    Buffy can have sex with Spike without Spike losing his soul and turning evil and kill her friends. So, there's that.

  • @artsyhyd
    @artsyhyd Рік тому +1

    Spike sacrificed his life for Buffy, he is so worthy of her love, where was Angel during the doomsday anyway, he didn’t protect her. However Sarah M Gellar could have just said that Buffy wouldn’t end up with any of them bcos they’re vamps, Buffy ended up marrying a normal human guy, and live a peaceful and happy life with him and their children til old age, bcos Buffy deserves a peaceful life after what happened during her teenage yrs and Uni life 😆

  • @amayarice2229
    @amayarice2229 10 місяців тому

    BANGEL 4 EVER

  • @matthewmann8969
    @matthewmann8969 9 років тому +8

    Buff loved them both for different reasons she loved Angel because of his more mysterious brooding self as well as Angel being the first vampire with a soul that she had encountered but unfortunately not known to them till later any moment Angel experiences with true happiness he will revert back into the Pure Evil Angelus losing his Soul in the process due to the gypsies cursing him towards all the crimes he has commited. With Spike it was because Summers was in a dark place and Spike brought out more fighting in her and they where better at sparring with each other not just with physical blows but verbal blows as well Spike would help keep her on her toes even before he got his soul back even though part of it was due to the chips in his brains influence it was shown in flashback with him arguing with Drusilla that he loved Buffy even prior to getting the chip in his head. With Angel it was one extreme to another due to the curse invoked on his person with Spike it was more middle ground because Spike did not need a Human Soul to love. At first she would have choose Angel but after a while she saw that she was a better match for Spike I believe but I think she still loves Angel and always will but she is not in love with him. I think the Demon With The Angelic face is a better partner for Cordelia or Faith.

    • @Sarah-ud9ce
      @Sarah-ud9ce 7 років тому

      Zach Kabia exactly even spike says she doesnt love him she forces herself to say it just before he gets killed in the finale

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights 6 років тому

      matthew mann
      Not Faith it's not that kind of love between them they're too similar. The direction the comics seem to be setting him up make sense to me.

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights 6 років тому +2

      Sara
      I always read Spike's statement as a combination of 'now she tells me when I have to die' exasperation, not believing due to insecurity, Rick esque making it easier for her to leave and a sentiment best expressed by Martin Fry 'no I won't be told there's a crock of gold at the end of the 🌈, all the pleasure and pain, sunshine and rain might make this love grow' he's protecting himself.

  • @chuckbatman5
    @chuckbatman5 8 років тому +5

    It's weird hearing him without the accent

  • @MrsESsmich
    @MrsESsmich 10 років тому +14

    "I have loved him more than anything I will ever love in this world"
    'Nough said

    • @Spuffygirl14
      @Spuffygirl14 9 років тому +17

      +MrsESsmich Did you notice Buffy said LOVED not LOVE? She doesn't know in that statement the future LOVE she might feel is going to be more than she felt for Angel. I don't think that means much in the long run. PAST TENSE

    • @AltFaithy
      @AltFaithy 7 років тому +2

      Allison Scott, HAVE LOVED seems pretty much like PRESENT PERFECT though 😅

    • @MichelleZB
      @MichelleZB 7 років тому +5

      Sure, and when you say that at 22 you mean it forever.

    • @nobodysXghost
      @nobodysXghost 5 років тому +1

      @@MichelleZB 21 actually.

    • @cmm5542
      @cmm5542 2 роки тому

      @@MichelleZB My dad did. And most other long-term married couples I know that all married in their 20s like everyone did in their generation. If someone is unable to tell whether or not they love somebody for real at 20, that's pretty immature in my book and maybe this person is too 'young' to vote or have an adult job or anything else requiring the responsible judgement we are legally deemed to possess at 18.

  • @jamespayne80
    @jamespayne80 8 років тому +2

    Honestly I say the love was different with each. Im sych a fan Angels love was connection while Spikes was grown if u know what I mean!!!

  • @machristopheruy8684
    @machristopheruy8684 4 роки тому +1

    Spike was a Dench chap!

  • @Lady_JUNSU
    @Lady_JUNSU 4 роки тому +3

    Mature love 😂

  • @PaliSvapna
    @PaliSvapna 4 роки тому +3

    Spikes redemption is more than Angelios roof Angle had his forced apon him Spike went in search of his he chooses as a demon to find his soul

  • @С.СаЯнаТ
    @С.СаЯнаТ 3 місяці тому

    Spikе 😍

  • @forthelove77
    @forthelove77 10 років тому +24

    Like SMG:"I'm an Angel girl," :)

    • @poohbearinpalmdale
      @poohbearinpalmdale 10 років тому +7

      That Buffy loved spike more than Angel, I'm sorry not in cannon. To quote David Boreanaz "Angel&Buffy's love is eternal." Bangel forever!!!! But to make it clear, Buffy loves Angel, more than she'll love anything in this world. To quote SMG "I'm an Angel girl," Always!❤️

    • @forthelove77
      @forthelove77 10 років тому +4

      poohbearinpalmdale She should be with the one she'll love more then anything in this life, Angel. SMG adores Bangel :)

    • @Ororo84
      @Ororo84 9 років тому +10

      forthelove77 sorry but David Boreanaz is Cangel: David Boreanaz- Buffy’s pretty much out of the picture. They’ve played their storyline and that’s just the past. Buffy’s just the past.There’s no more story there for those two. Buffy isn’t Angel’s priority anymore. In Season 1 and 2 of our show, she was always in the back of his mind, well, now it’s all about the baby and Buffy is just, well, she’s just a person he used to know. Angel was better with Cordelia” “If you actually saw these two characters [Buffy and Angel] get back together, it would be so different…it probably wouldn’t even work.” I understand him, with Buffy his character acted like a twilight vampire, but after he broke up with her he became a real hero,

    • @forthelove77
      @forthelove77 9 років тому +1

      poohbearinpalmdale Love there little Birthday wishes to each other. saw 200th episode of Bones yesterday can't believe I've been watching Mr Boreanaz for 18 seasons LEGEND:)

    • @Spuffygirl14
      @Spuffygirl14 9 років тому +16

      +forthelove77 Joss is for Spuffy all the way! Trumps actor opinions!

  • @anthonyscherbring3785
    @anthonyscherbring3785 3 роки тому +1

    I'm not Team Angel or Team Spike. I'm Team Willow🤣

  • @danielmartinezmayoral6959
    @danielmartinezmayoral6959 4 роки тому +3

    Both, let me explain
    - Angel was youthful love, a relationship that was not broken due to lack of it or infidelities, which cannot be maintained because basically there is the curse but it is still there and will continue forever.
    - Spike the love that is established step by step, we see him being his enemy, ally, lover, in short something step by step.
    If in choosen he says that sometimes he thinks about a future with angel, it is because he never had a relationship in its fullness with him but he also has feelings for spike
    Angel leaves and does not participate in chooses in the battle because he is no longer part of the series, it would be absurd to put a guy who has his own series and give him prominence.
    The episode the girl in question is great because we already see a friendship, camaraderie between angel and spike and making Buffy be with another is a way to close the great triangle but the comics have destroyed it, putting those vignettes of her doing a threesome is degrading .
    If Sarah had been in the girl in question then the episode would have been great
    in fact both angel and spike have moments where they tell her about her heart.
    The problem with the triangle is that they make Angel jealous (when it was he who left her for her good) and Spike as a fool

  • @kotonohakatsura6930
    @kotonohakatsura6930 5 років тому +2

    considering the ending of the comic books I think she goes for both of then at the same time keeping her options open. AND apparently both of them are totally fine with it so whatever. ^^

  • @himbolad
    @himbolad 8 років тому +12

    Angel..... Any true fan would say. Even if they like spike and buffy together more. Angel and Buffy are soulmates

    • @Cliohna
      @Cliohna 6 років тому +1

      "Any true fan would say."
      Case of the "I want to throw a knockout argument at others who don't agree with me, so no one can counter my argument". Well...LAME. It is other things that make you a true fan, but not this. And no, Angel and Buffy are *not* soulmates, neither are Spike and Buffy...or both of them are. That's my take. And you have yours, that's fine.

  • @dearone2017
    @dearone2017 8 років тому +21

    I May be a hardcore spuffy shipper. lets be honest she loved angel more than anything in this world. She will never love anyone that much

    • @kylahsmith1947
      @kylahsmith1947 8 років тому +13

      Queen Bonnie she dates spike in the comics though and moves in with him

    • @kotonohakatsura6930
      @kotonohakatsura6930 5 років тому

      @@kylahsmith1947 she moves in with him? oh my gosh. didn´t know that.

  • @FavioRiveros
    @FavioRiveros 9 років тому +12

    I hate the comic books! I´m stick with Angel´s ending, that shit was epic!

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights 6 років тому +1

      FavioRiveros
      That's your choice and kinda your loss. The first Angel and Faith comic series is epic. The IDW after the fall isn't bad either and features Angel being very heroic although the art style's not great. I stayed away from them for years

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights 6 років тому +1

      FavioRiveros
      Because of the events of series eight but have come back to them recently and I'm glad. I'm not going to try and convince you about series ten and eleven of Buffy but IMO they rock.

  • @maiteignacia29
    @maiteignacia29 4 роки тому +2

    ANGEL 🥰❤

  • @bernice5494
    @bernice5494 8 років тому +3

    Bangel all the way!

  • @ashleya.7481
    @ashleya.7481 3 роки тому +1

    I hate that they made spike a love interest for buffy...Buffy and Angel had one of the purest and most beautiful love story of forbidden love if angel didn't lose his soul at the slightest bit of happiness with buffy they would have still been together

    • @cmm5542
      @cmm5542 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely agree with you. It was so unnecessary. Why couldn't Angel have done the same trials Spike did and get his soul permanently attached? Then he could have been with Buffy. Why was he never even given the chance?
      I also hate the prevalent idea of 'Spike's the best, so he should be with Buffy.' Spike actually is my favourite character, but I realize that is my personal taste and preference. And I'm quite aware Angel is still a great guy too! The question is which of them is right for Buffy - and which of them is BUFFY right for? Buffy was a much better girlfriend to Angel than she ever was to Spike, and while Spike's devotion to Buffy could be beautiful, it didn't start out that way. Angel began his story devoted to Buffy and that never changed. Even as Angelus, Buffy remained the centre of his universe, just in an evil way. Spike hated Buffy and wished she would just disappear, and then all of a sudden he's desperately in love with her? Really nonsensical. Where is the continuity editor? 😁
      Also, I have a hard time with accepting the depth of 'devoted' relationships between people who have lightly rejected past relationships that were apparently equally devoted for no reason. Spike loved Dru. She'd always cheated and come back, and he'd always taken her back. (I wouldn't consider that a healthy relationship in most circumstances, but Drusilla was insane and not morally responsible for her actions. She needed Spike and he was understanding of that and faithful to her.) She came back to him, wanting to recover what they had, and he offers to kill her for Buffy? (That is the one scene where I cannot bear my Spike's behaviour or make ANY excuses for him.) How would this send any message to Buffy other than that even a hundred years of devotion from Spike cannot be trusted; he still could turn on you? And for Buffy herself, how could Spike ever really believe she loved him if she just 'forgot' Angel after the love they had shared? I can't see a relationship built on emotional if not ACTUAL infidelity resulting in fidelity between Buffy and Spike, if you get what I mean.

  • @mando8000
    @mando8000 2 роки тому +1

    Angel obviously

  • @Love-kv1ys
    @Love-kv1ys 5 років тому +4

    It's an easy question. She loved Angel more. Spike was more so physical and solace. Real love is far from just physical. She had the chemistry with Angel

    • @Moonlight-yx5sg
      @Moonlight-yx5sg 5 років тому +8

      She didn’t, it’s a bond.
      Yes, angel was her first love but doesn’t mean she loved in that way, Buffy even said that in the finale.
      Buffy said it was just physical with her and Spike because she was in denial and lying to herself cause she couldn’t accept that she could love someone like Spike. If you carefully watch the episodes with her and spike you can see she loved him. If it was just physical Buffy would have killed Spike a long time ago, but instead she kept saving his life and didn’t want him to die. There was also a prophecy told by a psychic to Spike “one day she’ll tell you.” Which implies that Buffy loves him and she’ll tell him one day when she’s ready. Buffy was going to let herself die along
      With spike if he hadn’t kept telling her to leave.

    • @cmm5542
      @cmm5542 2 роки тому

      Well, I agree with you. There's no evidence in the show that Buffy ever felt or WANTED to feel any connection with Spike other than the physical, which means nothing. Fans insist there had to be something real underneath to justify them ending up together, but it's never actually THERE! Buffy never cares about Spike's well-being or discussed the deep questions of her life with him or even does sweet romantic date-y stuff (which is kind of how you get to know if the relationship will work) like she did with Angel. Those two had a real relationship, even if it was a bit soppy for my taste. Buffy and Spike is never a relationship at all. He's her devoted slave, and she sees him as variously a weapon, punching bag, or sex toy to be used. There is no real emotional or supportive relationship connection about that. It's completely unhealthy, even in Season 7 where Buffy isn't actively beating him up. It's still only just about what she can get from Spike, not loving Spike for himself like Buffy did with Angel. Buffy never even considered the kind of person Spike actually was, and it doesn't seem to have occurred to her that is kind of necessary to know before just jumping into bed with someone.

  • @jimbob8543
    @jimbob8543 5 років тому +2

    It's obvious she loved angel more imo

    • @jimbob8543
      @jimbob8543 4 роки тому

      @Jaime Bee stop following me u weirdo I'll post what I want on what I want when I want,,,get a life And watch something else I think you're a bit obsessed tbh

  • @ihh619
    @ihh619 3 роки тому +1

    I've always hated Spuffy. It was toxic and dark and that's something I've always hated, in real life and on screen. Spike never made her happy. he had isolated her from her friends and made her feel cheap and worthless and she had treated him like that too. The bathroom scene should be enough for them to not be together. It doesn't matter to me that Spike has a soul now because he's barely different than he was before. He's still the same obsessive jerk. I love relationship I can say is beautiful. Bangel was pure and beautiful and Briley had those moments too but Spuffy? Nope, it can't compare. I don't count the comic books because to me it's not part of the show. The writers and the cast made it a story, not the comic books.

  • @rachelellencrowther9289
    @rachelellencrowther9289 2 роки тому

    Team Angel buffy loves Angel more

  • @denizen8358
    @denizen8358 3 роки тому +1

    They pretty much confirmed in the finale that she never really loved him and then in Angel the series they made the point again that she never loved spike because he wasn’t Angel. Even if she had ended up with spike it’s only because her and Angel could never be together the way they wanted due to his curse

    • @JosephABernal
      @JosephABernal 3 роки тому +2

      They pretty much confirmed she did

    • @alluretxff8753
      @alluretxff8753 3 роки тому +1

      are u sure? i feel like in the finale he said no you don’t to let go of her and help aid in her letting go of him because he knew he had to die right then and there to save the world. in angel it was more of both angel and spike realizing that buffy had moved on. not fully moved on, but was moving forward in her life and it wasn’t about them anymore.

    • @SybillT
      @SybillT 3 роки тому +5

      The Season 7 DVD extra commentary for the series finale has Joss talking about the direction he gave Sarah and James for that last scene:
      To Sarah: "Love him when you tell him you love him."
      To James: "Love her when you tell her she doesn't."

    • @cmm5542
      @cmm5542 2 роки тому

      Even if she loved Spike in the end, it would only be as a 'consolation prize' since she couldn't be with Angel. If it wasn't for the curse Angel would never have left Buffy. They would have still been together when Spike came back to town and got chipped, and he would never have even had an opportunity to develop an interest in Buffy. Maybe he would have actually followed through on his initial interest in Willow, which I would have really liked, and we would have gotten to see more of him and Angel arguing and Buffy being totally exasperated by it. Fun times! 😁

  • @randumo24
    @randumo24 6 років тому +3

    As far as the TV show goes, they make it very clear in the final episode if you pay attention that Buffy never loved Spike. So, it's a pretty easy question. Buffy loved Angel with all her heart and always did with circumstances keeping them apart, while she never loved Spike.

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights 6 років тому +11

      randumo24
      Bangel shippers say that but I never believed it. Buffy will always love Angel in some way but that doesn't mean they'll drift off into the sunset together she's outgrown him, they've lived apart from years and events in the comics reveal to her how flawed he is even with a soul and she finally takes him off the pedestal. It's first love you never forget but it's a rare instance where it lasts. Spike is flawed too but Buffy always knew that and he tries to overcome the worst of who he is. Spuffy is the love that you grow into

    • @sesskag17
      @sesskag17 6 років тому +16

      Josh said Buffy meant it when she said she loved him.

    • @kotonohakatsura6930
      @kotonohakatsura6930 5 років тому +4

      @@sesskag17 yes!! I don´t know why ppl forget this.

    • @nads274
      @nads274 3 роки тому +1

      Wrong...do ur research

    • @randumo24
      @randumo24 3 роки тому +1

      @@nads274 Not wrong. She didn't during the TV series. Whatever happens later on in the comics is not relevant to the TV series.

  • @bernice5494
    @bernice5494 8 років тому +4

    Bangel all the way!