moving across the country alone taught me this about life.

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • Moving across the country alone makes you feel a lot of things...but most importantly, leaving your comfort zone, taking changes, and evolving into the best version of yourself. Even if you're not moving across the country alone, I hope this provides some inspiration to make a change, big or small.
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  • @BeBeBraveSpirit
    @BeBeBraveSpirit 2 роки тому +30

    Love that quote, “Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” And since none of us can pause time or rewind, we have to live as much as possible (in a healthy way) so we can say we tried at least.

  • @SirenaChicago
    @SirenaChicago 2 роки тому +22

    Thank you for sharing your story. And please always remember it's never to late to take that leap! At 43 years old I found myself divorced and an empty nester. My son left to college and I decide to move to Santa Monica best decision of my life. I look back and it would of been so easy to stay in my comfy condo in the city, but my mind, spirit and soul said take that chance on bet on YOURSELF!

    • @MichaelMartello
      @MichaelMartello  2 роки тому +2

      yesss never too late! So happy for you

    • @larryjones9773
      @larryjones9773 Рік тому +2

      I'm moving to California alone, in two years. I'm 62 now. Most likely I'll end up in Sacramento.

  • @benengebelidaglarolsambile6795

    never delay anything, never delay life!

  • @Barefootforestwanderer
    @Barefootforestwanderer Місяць тому

    Beautiful!!! I’ve got a favorite cousin that lives in So. Cal …. “Everything you want is on the other side of fear” LOVE THAT!

  • @QuiqueSaldivar
    @QuiqueSaldivar 2 роки тому +18

    Beautiful video, and very relatable. You made me remember when I decided to move to LA 16 years ago from TX, I came here with fears but mostly with a lot of excitement, coming to the unknown might be scary, but in retrospect, the recap of 16 years with up and downs has been worth it, I have accomplished things that I have never imagined, and again, I decided to do another jump to get out of my comfort zone and start writing my next chapter

    • @MichaelMartello
      @MichaelMartello  2 роки тому

      Thanks Enrique! Glad you’re continuing to “jump” 😊

    • @34antwaun
      @34antwaun Рік тому

      Thanks for sharing bro. I’m currently in the process of moving to LA from GA. Fear is a major test

  • @sleimaneljamal
    @sleimaneljamal 2 роки тому +9

    Dude your positivity and optimism is so refreshing! Keep it up Michael! Thanks for all this amazing content shot beautifully as always!

  • @afeitadodisfruton
    @afeitadodisfruton 2 роки тому +6

    My friend , I moved from Spain to Utah 13 years ago and I was able to overcome that fear that you're talking about.Faith and fear can't live together and I discovered that back at the time.Also this is a good remainder of how ephemeral and impermanent life is.
    Thanks for your videos !

  • @Burnie007
    @Burnie007 Рік тому +4

    I’m sitting in bed rewatching this video and sobbing. I’ve been trying to manifest moving to LA for months now and I think I may have found the opportunity to make it a reality 😭 Thanks you Michael for all your travel videos and positive vibes

  • @lasouthbay8800
    @lasouthbay8800 2 роки тому +5

    Love this. I moved here from Connecticut 4 years ago. The drive across the country had me thinking it was nerve wracking and exciting and scary and more. And i absolutely love it here. LA is not for everyone of course but i think it’s such an amazing place to live. The cultures, the weather, the vibes, the food. No regrets. Cheers to your journey!

  • @JolceBoi
    @JolceBoi 7 місяців тому +1

    Love this video! The message is so true! 🙌🏼 Thank you

  • @DanielOliveira-cs6be
    @DanielOliveira-cs6be Рік тому

    I resonated with the part of childhood being like the good parts of a tv series. Really appreciate this vid. I just moved from CA to the South this week.

  • @raybashford1519
    @raybashford1519 2 роки тому +3

    Absolutely beautiful video Michael, plus loved the tandem skydive. You are living and loving your best life ever. Love the journey!!!

  • @monsoleil5053
    @monsoleil5053 2 роки тому +2

    I started writing a Novel, but then the dreams I had as a young girl of becoming an Actress, dancer, singer…called to me again.
    So I decided to turn it into my first screenplay. We moved out of California in 2018, when we were in a mindset of lack-
    We are ready to go back home now. Our time here in Colorado was good. It needed to happen in order for us to have our spiritual awakening apart from western religion. Now we feel refreshed and ready to create new dreams-
    We take the beauty wherever we go- Yes! We are the creators of our life! So dream big and create! Nothing is impossible!
    Love your content 🤙🏻🌞🌊

  • @coopigeon619
    @coopigeon619 Рік тому +2

    I think the universe wanted me to find this video. California looks really beautiful. I think I was meant to find this video as a sign a to let me know I'm doing the right thing. I'm very nervous about playing it and going through with my first cross country move and it's really a dive into the unknown for me. I'm 30 years old, playing in a move from Iowa to California. I'm in the planning stages right now and doing research but seeing this video lets me know it's possible to get out of your comfort zone and have fun with life. So that's what I want to do. Before my mom passed, she always had a dream of leaving Iowa and maybe moving to Florida but given how Florida is politically and with who I am it wouldn't work so I figured California would be a great place to go live the next chapter of my life. I don't see myself living in Iowa forever because I'm not really super happy here. I'm thankful for my family and friends and I love them all dearly but I'm ready for something new and a new environment. Thanks for this video, beautifully shot and edited. And seeing you happy doing your own thing gives me hope I can do the same in my own way. Thanks man, you're an inspiration. 🦈🔥🦈🔥🦈🔥🔥🤘

  • @cassball7
    @cassball7 Рік тому

    Moving from Brooklyn to SoCal for school in the fall. I am scared but this helps a lot. I plan to visit many of the spots you did. Thanks for all of your hard work!

  • @willbaker2718
    @willbaker2718 2 роки тому +2

    One of the best motivational videos I’ve ever seen

  • @oneofakind2359
    @oneofakind2359 2 роки тому +4

    Wow you really inspiring rn fam !!! I’m moving to SoCal soon but I’m struggling to get there cause I’m stacking up but man I really appreciate this cause I needed this 🔥

  • @ny2phillyholloway592
    @ny2phillyholloway592 2 роки тому +2

    Michael, this was beautiful!!! You've got youth and health. Take a bite of that apple and smell the flowers. Keep leaping forward and continued blessings!!!🍎💚

  • @micheleg.4553
    @micheleg.4553 2 роки тому +3

    It's never too late!

  • @KWPS
    @KWPS 2 роки тому +1

    Very Brave, thank you for sharing, reminding and inspiring us. “Never give up, never surrender.”

  • @makaylamurray9475
    @makaylamurray9475 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your video! I was looking for something to inspire me, as I'm in the very beginning of my journey, moving from Wisconsin to Alabama. This video makes me less afraid, and speechless!

  • @edmarf4457
    @edmarf4457 2 роки тому +5

    Very inspiring Mike, I’m so proud of you❤️

  • @blinktea8789
    @blinktea8789 Рік тому +1

    This is terrific. I'm sitting here sobbing. Thank you.

  • @JamesandElliesAdventures
    @JamesandElliesAdventures 2 роки тому +2

    We love your videos Michael! Been following for 2.5 months now recently came to LA 5 weeks ago hoping we might numb into you on a hike but we didn’t 🥺 we’re from 🇬🇧 we’d love to move to the west coast we loved LA so much! Keep up the great work dude 💙

  • @sarabertoldo8116
    @sarabertoldo8116 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos so much! Thank you for sharing all of this, It is the same feeling I had moving from Europe to the US on my own and now after debating where to go next, your videos make me want to move to Cali already!

  • @Arthurfiji
    @Arthurfiji 2 роки тому +2

    Dude I'm 21 and this helps me so much! Love how you explain fear and anxiety and risks. Because I'm constantly thinking of what my next move is how I'm gonna do it and what if it doesn't work out and it's driving me nuts lol, feels almost like Iost but not at the same time but like you said life has to have lows before highs, I think you said it a little different but same concept! Thank you Sir, also when I move to LA I hope you're still there and we get to meet!

  • @jer2263
    @jer2263 Рік тому

    One day I had enough.. In July of 2009, I found some random guy on Craigslist who was offering a room for rent, packed my bags and moved to LA. I was there for a year before having to move back to the midwest. It was very difficult moving without knowing anyone, but looking back it was one of the more interesting times in my life. 13 years later, I am thinking of packing up and giving it another try. The conditioning of failure (as we get older) makes it even more difficult, but as they always say.. life is too short.
    Here's to hoping next time is different.
    Great video!

  • @tamoghna8
    @tamoghna8 Рік тому +1

    i love your videos and all the positivity that you are spreading in this beautiful world. thank you so much. ❤

  • @atennisn
    @atennisn 2 роки тому +4

    I love this! I bookmarked it - for when I need a motivational moment!

  • @maryannemartello2301
    @maryannemartello2301 2 роки тому +2

    Wow just wow, amazing! Keep going!! I am your number ONE fan, ❤️❤️

  • @rosemarielin4927
    @rosemarielin4927 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. Makes me braver for moving on and looking fwd to what’s to come

  • @LionofEpirus33
    @LionofEpirus33 Рік тому +1

    Respect Brother

  • @sethdavis1690
    @sethdavis1690 Рік тому +1

    This was beautifully done. The way you articulated the feelings of not being present in your own life was touching and very relatable. Definitely inspired me to continue on my journey of moving cross country and re-establishing an interesting storyline for my life

  • @donnalane5716
    @donnalane5716 Рік тому

    You are living the Dream! My Dream! NEVER give e! NEVER stop! Keep living to the Fullest! I'm so Happy for You! So Proud of You!

  • @jpadicecoffee9812
    @jpadicecoffee9812 Рік тому

    "things comes to those who know how to wait" . Enjoyed this well made video, just seems natural. Lots to do as I get older and new outdoor adventures just happens on its own..

  • @johnmartello8048
    @johnmartello8048 2 роки тому +2

    Great video Michael. I love the original thinking and philosophy.

  • @tatianabuchanan3627
    @tatianabuchanan3627 10 місяців тому +1

    Please someone comment in 6 months so I can come back to this when my anxiety is up! Thank you for this video! ✨

  • @wenkoffs
    @wenkoffs Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much for making this video. I recently decided to quit my horrible freelancing gig and pursue a career path I’ve been dreaming about my whole life ❤

  • @jenniferpurslow2131
    @jenniferpurslow2131 2 роки тому +2

    Michael, What a beautiful video. Well done.

  • @Grateful4lifee
    @Grateful4lifee 2 роки тому +1

    Love your youtube channel! Keep doing what you’re doing! 😊

  • @focusedfreebird
    @focusedfreebird Рік тому +1

    Hey there young man....20s go fast....enjoy your 30s and 40s.....because once you past 50...time does fly....but every day is a blessing!! Enjoy every day! We are fragile creatures....

  • @gabbyalexis3211
    @gabbyalexis3211 Рік тому

    I’m moving to California in a few weeks and this made my heart so happy

  • @elenawang1129
    @elenawang1129 7 днів тому

    I needed this

  • @googleuser5956
    @googleuser5956 2 роки тому +1

    Love your channel man keep going 🙏🏽🔥

  • @cbo208
    @cbo208 Рік тому

    Love this video, very inspiring!

  • @huntersucato8210
    @huntersucato8210 2 роки тому +2

    I love your videos I am one of the first subscribers!

  • @dimitrovajunkie
    @dimitrovajunkie 2 роки тому +1

    Hard to top Big Sur. It is by far the most spectacular, most grandly beautiful place in California I have been (okay, Yosemite too). I can see how it must have lured you to the Golden state.

  • @Beh0ldas0n
    @Beh0ldas0n Рік тому +1

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @RoLa8
    @RoLa8 2 роки тому +2

    MICHAEL!!
    It’s the 28th August 2022 today…I see what you did there ;-)

  • @DiogoNeves
    @DiogoNeves 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks

    • @MichaelMartello
      @MichaelMartello  2 роки тому +1

      Hey thanks so much Diogo!!

    • @DiogoNeves
      @DiogoNeves 2 роки тому

      @@MichaelMartello I’ll be trying to be your neighbour in the near future 😊 hopefully with my startup otherwise I’ll be applying to tech jobs there too
      How do you find the tech scene there compared to NYC (FYI I’m near London)

  • @whatsonhermindblog123
    @whatsonhermindblog123 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dellafrantz1571
    @dellafrantz1571 Рік тому

    💯💯💜💓

  • @gridley
    @gridley 2 роки тому

    Your dad has a NYC accent (or dialect) but you don't. Another UA-camr originally from NYC too, Kenneth Chin (aka Action Kid) has a noticeable dialect. While he re-located to Florida, you've chosen California. Your videos are skillfully edited (like this one), similar to a PBS documentary, whereas his work is live-broadcast-type videos. He moved to the Miami area influenced by tax-political reasons, whereas you moved to LA for other reasons (certainly not due to its taxes). There's another major UA-camr also formerly based in NYC now going to Texas for job-taxes-political reasons.