I noticed when friendships feel more like cliques, they don't tend to last. When you are so focused on "not letting others in" and "pushing away from certain groups", you find that you are slowly tearing your own friendships apart.
tysm !! I rlly needed this, esp since I've been having some friendship troubles lately and have been dwelling in failed friendships :/ it's good to know that i'm not alone, ur vids are so comforting 🤍🤍
Great video. Agreed...platonic friendships are polygamous. It's like being in a harem. There is a pecking order that is constantly shifting. You never know where you stand. It's like a workplace relationship where you're only valued for the work you did today. This is why family relationships are more valuable than romantic or platonic relationships. Family relationships are technically friendships because all relationships are intentional, and some families are broken up and they don't talk to each other. Family friendships are usually more loyal, stable, and long lasting. The blood connection of your family represents a physical bond. A legal contract. There is more societal pressure to support your family friendships, than there is to support your romantic or platonic relationships. All levels of government will legally recognize a family friendship. This societal pressure helps to keep family friendships alive. Basically you need to have a family in order to have a real friend. This is why there is so much pressure to have children, because then you have a friend for life.
Hi Lindsiann! Wow, what a deep, thoughtful video. You really hit the nail on the head here. We can all relate to this anxiety. Thank you and God bless. I have definitely learned to be patient and admire those long-standing friendships. Happy New Year!
I love this channel 💞 ....Same here, I was shy throughout my growing up years, and had very little to hardly any friends, and still same now. However I have learned that God protects us from people that don't deserve us... because we offer quality and true long lasting love and unconditionally. So though at times I have felt left out, cancelled, shut out, or not valued, and uninvited....I realize that God's keepsaking me from anyone that can't hurt my heart or my feelings and in the meantime my relationship with God has grown stronger, and I'm better. Someday people will notice that we were unique and special and they missed out on establishing a real strong bond and amazing relationship with people like us Lindsiann 💞🧡
i had a friend that i have been friends since hs and recently early this year i broke up with that friend because i wasn’t feeling the same way in our friendship, i forgot the name but it happens and because i didn’t want to suddenly ghost them, i sent my final message towards her
Never do that, just put the friendship on hold. It will come back on its own time. I don’t judge if I haven’t seen someone in a few years. I just remember the good time and move on.
I want to get into filming so can u tell me wher you edit your videos? I really like how some of your vlogs are edited and i kinda want to do the same.
It’s sucha relief to realise that we all feel the same types of shi
I noticed when friendships feel more like cliques, they don't tend to last. When you are so focused on "not letting others in" and "pushing away from certain groups", you find that you are slowly tearing your own friendships apart.
This was much needed. Level of monogamous sacrifice for a non commitment relationship is such a heavy burden.
This video is soooo needed, friendship from this aspect is not talked about enough
tysm !! I rlly needed this, esp since I've been having some friendship troubles lately and have been dwelling in failed friendships :/
it's good to know that i'm not alone, ur vids are so comforting
🤍🤍
You hit the nail on the head on so many things I’ve been overthinking!!
YOU NAIL YOUR VIDEOS EVERYTIMEEE. ILYY.
Great video. Agreed...platonic friendships are polygamous. It's like being in a harem. There is a pecking order that is constantly shifting. You never know where you stand. It's like a workplace relationship where you're only valued for the work you did today. This is why family relationships are more valuable than romantic or platonic relationships. Family relationships are technically friendships because all relationships are intentional, and some families are broken up and they don't talk to each other. Family friendships are usually more loyal, stable, and long lasting. The blood connection of your family represents a physical bond. A legal contract. There is more societal pressure to support your family friendships, than there is to support your romantic or platonic relationships. All levels of government will legally recognize a family friendship. This societal pressure helps to keep family friendships alive. Basically you need to have a family in order to have a real friend. This is why there is so much pressure to have children, because then you have a friend for life.
You're in tune with your emotion. Acting weird is weird. This video impresses me.
im so glad this feeling is not an original experience and that we can all relate :') this video helped me a lot, love u girl ❤️🩹
this is EXACTLY what i needed & how i feel!
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!
i needed this and needed to hear this
thank you for this because I've had to deal with this twice and never got the closure as to why they left me :(
Hi Lindsiann! Wow, what a deep, thoughtful video. You really hit the nail on the head here. We can all relate to this anxiety. Thank you and God bless. I have definitely learned to be patient and admire those long-standing friendships. Happy New Year!
I love this channel 💞 ....Same here, I was shy throughout my growing up years, and had very little to hardly any friends, and still same now. However I have learned that God protects us from people that don't deserve us... because we offer quality and true long lasting love and unconditionally. So though at times I have felt left out, cancelled, shut out, or not valued, and uninvited....I realize that God's keepsaking me from anyone that can't hurt my heart or my feelings and in the meantime my relationship with God has grown stronger, and I'm better. Someday people will notice that we were unique and special and they missed out on establishing a real strong bond and amazing relationship with people like us Lindsiann 💞🧡
thank you for sharing! this something i been thinking about a lot. i definitely felt like that in during elementary and high school
9:18 girl eating a bun in a park. such a mood, lol
You ate this up 👏
love ur videoes!!!
i had a friend that i have been friends since hs and recently early this year i broke up with that friend because i wasn’t feeling the same way in our friendship, i forgot the name but it happens and because i didn’t want to suddenly ghost them, i sent my final message towards her
Never do that, just put the friendship on hold. It will come back on its own time. I don’t judge if I haven’t seen someone in a few years. I just remember the good time and move on.
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Merry Christmas I hope the Christmas brings you lot of goodies dear , may god bless you for the new year 🎉🙏🏻🙏🏿🫶🏽
I want to get into filming so can u tell me wher you edit your videos? I really like how some of your vlogs are edited and i kinda want to do the same.
You are overthinking friendships.