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  • Опубліковано 22 лис 2024

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 роки тому +13

    Do not forget to subscribe to our UA-cam channel.. Click here to subscribe -- ua-cam.com/users/switchtvkenya

    • @jacintasimu3762
      @jacintasimu3762 3 роки тому

      Mutemi zulu u are above this generation. Wakwitu

  • @MaggieKahbuu
    @MaggieKahbuu 3 роки тому +126

    This man is a gift of our time.

  • @ajalahupfront
    @ajalahupfront 3 роки тому +27

    When Benjamin laughs it comes from deep down and his laughter lights up the whole room.

  • @dorrismakena6380
    @dorrismakena6380 3 роки тому +12

    Kila siku nilikuwa nahisi nahitaji kuolewa b4 am 24 but since I started listening to Mr Zulu huh it's success first for me...his advice has changed my mindset aloooooot

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 3 роки тому +2

      Me too,,I was planning to get married next month at 23years. His videos have really helped me and I've changed my mind completely yesterday

  • @ireanriyaitah9319
    @ireanriyaitah9319 3 роки тому +22

    Mwikali is so lively.....she fits this show 💯.Zulu is my favorite....the chemistry of this two is amazing.Best show ever

  • @hottest1
    @hottest1 3 роки тому +22

    Watching this bright passionate man full of wisdom, Zulu talks the reality of life

  • @reginalangat5194
    @reginalangat5194 3 роки тому +12

    Benjamin Zulu you are a blessing to this generation for sure.

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy 3 роки тому +153

    "If the relationship is not happier than your single life, go back to single life "

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 3 роки тому +1

      Not happier but happy like your single life. You shouldn't expect a relationship to make you happier

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 3 роки тому

      💯

    • @idahanubi6745
      @idahanubi6745 3 роки тому +1

      If 9o ooh

    • @idahanubi6745
      @idahanubi6745 3 роки тому +1

      @@melmel7011 the one iii

    • @idahanubi6745
      @idahanubi6745 3 роки тому +1

      @@melmel7011 pió

  • @techienomadiso8970
    @techienomadiso8970 3 роки тому +12

    The wisdom in this man is on another level. Wow!

  • @yasnyne
    @yasnyne 3 роки тому +51

    Daddy Benjamin, I wish you can sprees all your blessings to all African countries. At least this channel should be in all African countries, families, children , teenagers, adults, elders need to know of your existence because you can make a difference in their lives as you have made in many lives and relationships by changing mind settings. Thank you so much to your parents for creating you. You were born to do this work, you are truly blessed. Thank you ☺️

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 3 роки тому +6

      Very true am above 40 and am learning alot. But thank God he has his own show now

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 3 роки тому

      @@hellenwanjiku167 when is his show?
      He has really transformed the whole of Africa. Much love from 🇺🇬

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 3 роки тому

      @@pamellanuwarinda7554 😀

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 3 роки тому +1

      @@pamellanuwarinda7554 just Google Benjamin zulu show

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 3 роки тому

      @@hellenwanjiku167 Thank you

  • @jacklinemuchoki4237
    @jacklinemuchoki4237 3 роки тому +40

    It is true long distance relationships are not for immature people. I'm in one and silence is not allowed. You have to always communicate to make it work. 👌So long as you both communicate well, you'll be good.

    • @raelmumo396
      @raelmumo396 3 роки тому +2

      Communication is everything.

    • @judynjerisilvanus6573
      @judynjerisilvanus6573 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah am wedding on may have been in two years long distance rship it worked

    • @jacklinemuchoki4237
      @jacklinemuchoki4237 3 роки тому +3

      @@judynjerisilvanus6573 woow amazing, congratulations on your big day 🎉🎉💃💃

  • @queenlyne2363
    @queenlyne2363 3 роки тому +25

    Keep your partner from worrying...this got me thinking 🤔.

  • @blessedmercy3036
    @blessedmercy3036 3 роки тому +19

    Benjamin... I now have the wisdom. May the lord bring me my king

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 3 роки тому +15

    I love how Benjamin says "My girl". It sounds so sweet!😁
    Long distance communication is the mother of all communication🙆‍♀️ Please discuss it💯

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness 3 роки тому +3

    Mwikali has a great voice. I can listen to her for 24hours

  • @shadrackolepesi273
    @shadrackolepesi273 3 роки тому +21

    Very interesting this man Zulu has all the wisdom

  • @viviandorcas9125
    @viviandorcas9125 3 роки тому +7

    I can relate to what Benjamin Zulu is saying
    Preach truth brother👐

  • @thayu2821
    @thayu2821 3 роки тому +21

    Honestly this was the smoothest😁 transition of hosts. I enjoyed Joyce and I totally still enjoy your hosting Mwikali.

  • @keziahmwangi9920
    @keziahmwangi9920 3 роки тому +6

    Aki mwikali your laughter is everything😂😂. The kind that makes others laugh too even when they haven't heard the joke.

  • @presidentofkenya6896
    @presidentofkenya6896 3 роки тому +12

    Mwikali's laughter timestamps: 2:57, 3:42, 8:04, 14:29, 17:55, 23:46, 27:36, and the biggest of them all 30:37

  • @herlifeshow5453
    @herlifeshow5453 3 роки тому +1

    Zulu, you are really an asset on our continent Africa. I really love this show. Greetings from Ghana

  • @monic1594
    @monic1594 3 роки тому +2

    I love how Mwikali says, "That's what's up!" anytime Benjamin hits a 'jackpot'.
    Her laughter is contagious too.

  • @castormuthoka
    @castormuthoka 3 роки тому +12

    This man is always on point.

  • @nompumelelonsibande6856
    @nompumelelonsibande6856 3 роки тому +14

    “I waited long enough to be sure with what I wanted. So you are not behind you are right on time.”😊

  • @yvonnemonde1307
    @yvonnemonde1307 3 роки тому

    Changing one relationship at a time! Thank you Mwikali and Benjamin Zulu; we appreciate y'all and the much needed message!

  • @katekay5595
    @katekay5595 3 роки тому +107

    If you can not trust me with your phone, I can not trust you with my life 🤔

    • @rhodahj7121
      @rhodahj7121 3 роки тому +2

      Point taken

    • @paulyneMercyPaula
      @paulyneMercyPaula 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely 👌

    • @jakobo2824
      @jakobo2824 3 роки тому

      Nkt

    • @katekay5595
      @katekay5595 3 роки тому +1

      @@jakobo2824 what with NKT😏 I just quoted what Zulu said 🙄

    • @jakobo2824
      @jakobo2824 3 роки тому +4

      @@katekay5595 is your life equivalent to a phone..??? that response wasn't for malicious intent it's just that you shouldn't value your life with a phone. It's stupid. And that's exactly the thing that destroys relationships. You give way too much priority to things that don't really matter

  • @sherryshazala7123
    @sherryshazala7123 3 роки тому +9

    Mwikali smile ,laughters melts my heart ❤. Benjamin is always on point. Hio number hulala st/room 😂😂😂🔥👌🙏

  • @n.m6249
    @n.m6249 2 роки тому

    Love him to bits, he is the Sthembiso Zondo of Kenya. South Africans especially Zulus will know what I mean

  • @racquellek
    @racquellek 3 роки тому +7

    why is he so smart....just facts ontop of facts
    if you cant trust me with your phone then i cant trust you with my life period

  • @JumaTrojanHorse
    @JumaTrojanHorse 3 роки тому +5

    Benjamin Zulu: What a gem! 💎

  • @zanelebuthelezi8732
    @zanelebuthelezi8732 3 роки тому +11

    This also goes to relationships too its destroys it before marriage

  • @peoplevoices5307
    @peoplevoices5307 3 роки тому +7

    Benjamin Zulu,..live long my guy ❤️

  • @nnekynathan
    @nnekynathan 3 роки тому +2

    Love it when Benjamin is on set. I have never clicked soo fast.

  • @vunenenthani6640
    @vunenenthani6640 3 роки тому +4

    Benjamin is killing us with this suit aaah my Gad!! 😍❤️

  • @Brayn778
    @Brayn778 3 роки тому +1

    Mwikali has a great voice, thnks benja am a victim of hiding phone

  • @ivywamurwa6149
    @ivywamurwa6149 3 роки тому +4

    Yesss can we please talk about long-distance relationships

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 3 роки тому +5

    U looking good benja, u too mwikali I'll never miss ua show guys u inspire alot

  • @MultiKasuku
    @MultiKasuku 3 роки тому

    I have cracked it -- the details are in the business phone -- very smart

  • @maggiedoublenofficial981
    @maggiedoublenofficial981 3 роки тому +7

    Waah..you call somebody to hear them breath!🙆‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣 ZULU n MWIKALI u will kill me! Waah that just finished me...otherwise learning a lot from ZULU

  • @joyceruthi8438
    @joyceruthi8438 3 роки тому +4

    The topic today is a wow factor. love your show guys.

  • @natashaprossy4276
    @natashaprossy4276 3 роки тому +5

    Long live Benjamin. Much love from dubai💖💖💖

  • @robertkorir2490
    @robertkorir2490 3 роки тому +5

    Wow! What an amazing talks... indeed assumption and lack of communication are the number one relationship killers.we all perceive diffidently.we've lived different lives,we have different views...true love is born from understanding.
    ~Robert korir.

  • @jemfridahanangwe1152
    @jemfridahanangwe1152 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you Mr Zulu I just like this and av forwarded it to my Hun 😘 to watch it.

  • @tetelomampe3064
    @tetelomampe3064 3 роки тому +3

    I don't know Benjamin zulu personally.. and I don't think I will ever meet him but hey this guy has become my life coach

    • @julietkasungwa6535
      @julietkasungwa6535 3 роки тому +1

      He was always present in my school years and I can tell you He is the best mentor.

  • @valerieesther5549
    @valerieesther5549 3 роки тому +1

    I love you Zulu, God bless you and grow you. Shouter please "maturity" "courtesy" and "secrecy! "

  • @stephenvodasalano4945
    @stephenvodasalano4945 3 роки тому +1

    This guy is the best BENJAMIN ZULU 👏👏👍👍

  • @teckie__songsofworship6680
    @teckie__songsofworship6680 3 роки тому +14

    Wapi likes za Mr.Zulu he is gifted with wisdom and he really inspire the world

  • @zingimazongs274
    @zingimazongs274 3 роки тому +11

    Ahhh Zulu... We're calling each other to breathe on the phone😂😂😂😂 that finished me

    • @lucynyamai6854
      @lucynyamai6854 3 роки тому

      Yea when in a bad mood you breathe your silence and let it be...

  • @brianmoiro2821
    @brianmoiro2821 3 роки тому

    Benjamin i love the way u argue indeed you have changed

  • @ciaraferguson7732
    @ciaraferguson7732 3 роки тому +1

    You and preaching today sir. Facts 💯💯💯

  • @abibena4364
    @abibena4364 3 роки тому +4

    Benjamin is teaching us the meaning of genuine communication in relationships

  • @enrietanyongesa8322
    @enrietanyongesa8322 3 роки тому +3

    Mwikali looking good dear..The shoes eeeish

  • @carolinekariuki9621
    @carolinekariuki9621 3 роки тому +2

    Your have must be lucky to have you Bz wisdom on another level teach us more

    • @lornananjala9413
      @lornananjala9413 3 роки тому

      a partner will password on the phone they are cheating have experience from my relationship

  • @winsomemorgan-mansour805
    @winsomemorgan-mansour805 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for your words of wisdom and understanding it's and eye opening.

  • @puriekaiereetuh3545
    @puriekaiereetuh3545 3 роки тому +1

    Aaaah now u r talking Benjamin.....wow..this is amazing.....

  • @blandinamnyinga8318
    @blandinamnyinga8318 3 роки тому +9

    Zulu,call me so I can breath🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Ben this man😂😂😂😂😂😂am diying heyyyyy, how I love this Man frm🇹🇿🤣🤣🤣

  • @wanyinavybes421
    @wanyinavybes421 3 роки тому

    Great topic😎 Zulu please discuss Privacy & Confidentiality some time. There are laws that exist to safeguard that at all levels. Hi ujinga ya people possessing others is unacceptable.

  • @raelnzulu143
    @raelnzulu143 3 роки тому +8

    Mm, at least am tuning one on one today, exited to be here 😀 👂# wisdom tips.

  • @lilianasaba9846
    @lilianasaba9846 3 роки тому +4

    I must watch everything I have been missing.

  • @mustang_wanjau
    @mustang_wanjau 3 роки тому +7

    My mentor is the best @Benjaminzuluke

  • @evelynekebenei9266
    @evelynekebenei9266 3 роки тому +1

    Mwakali laughter gives me confidence

  • @pwrhb
    @pwrhb 3 роки тому

    Benjamin is on fire, yes🔥lakini hii kicheko ya mwikali😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥eish

  • @ireanriyaitah9319
    @ireanriyaitah9319 3 роки тому +4

    Ya long-distance relationship ikuje...infact long-distance marriages...I can't wait

  • @pasilisajerono7409
    @pasilisajerono7409 3 роки тому

    Thanks for the teaching Benjamin and Joyce.

  • @shemmosoti2808
    @shemmosoti2808 3 роки тому +35

    Have never understood how someone u call the love of ua life, someone who sees u nakedness, someone u call the father/ mother of ua child but u can not touch one's phone, very unfortunate

  • @n.m6249
    @n.m6249 2 роки тому

    Mmmmh you can be happy without marriage, some women are too needy. 👍🏿🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @alicewagula4079
    @alicewagula4079 3 роки тому

    Benjamin you are really good man ...

  • @suzanne6922
    @suzanne6922 3 роки тому +7

    I remember my partner changing the password to a new one 🙄😏

  • @susanwangui4181
    @susanwangui4181 3 роки тому +10

    😂🤣🤣🤣 can't wait for long distance relationship topic

  • @ciaraferguson7732
    @ciaraferguson7732 3 роки тому +4

    He needs to give this advice to all the Bahamian man💯😫😩

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 3 роки тому +1

      The Bahiamian had a good teacher Dr. Myles Munroe,,,,,check out his teachings please. I am a Kenyan I started watching his clips last year and I've also learned alot

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 3 роки тому

      I count the Bahamas lucky for having him,,,

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 роки тому

      It is so sad that doctor miles munroe passed away. May his soul rest in peace

  • @brianmoiro2821
    @brianmoiro2821 3 роки тому

    You have changed me and my view to relationship

  • @carolkomen5305
    @carolkomen5305 3 роки тому

    Am loving this show, more wiser

  • @blandinamnyinga8318
    @blandinamnyinga8318 3 роки тому +47

    I don't have time snooping on my hubby's phone,as a wife I can know what goes on behind my back without checking his phone.

    • @stepmum2451
      @stepmum2451 3 роки тому +1

      no u cant

    • @blandinamnyinga8318
      @blandinamnyinga8318 3 роки тому +2

      @@stepmum2451 believe me there are so many ways of knowing that without bothering yourself with his phone.

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 3 роки тому +1

      True u can know something is going on without the phone. May be someone may involve it for more evidences but u get to know even without a phone

    • @luminous3015
      @luminous3015 3 роки тому +2

      Thank u ..my dear u're a confident woman

    • @rahab1918
      @rahab1918 3 роки тому +1

      Very true am sure by now my husband thinks am a witch or something 😂😂

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness 3 роки тому +16

    I like how Mwikali doesn’t speak a lot of Swahili.

  • @ironscape7465
    @ironscape7465 3 роки тому +2

    Stay true to your partner.

  • @farhiyaali4844
    @farhiyaali4844 3 роки тому +3

    Benjamin Zul😘 Always talking senses. Enjoying your shows big time.

  • @claircherutoolinyo9977
    @claircherutoolinyo9977 3 роки тому

    Benja chukua my hi five😍😍 umeweza mbaya

  • @joycemwangi9452
    @joycemwangi9452 3 роки тому +4

    High maturity hapa

  • @alooaaa22
    @alooaaa22 3 роки тому +1

    Wow this is amazing, learning a lot thank you!

  • @winsomemorgan-mansour805
    @winsomemorgan-mansour805 3 роки тому +3

    I like your talk, my husband what ever change he get him always and is phone some time 12:00am to 2:00am and if I say anything to my husband about is phone he get upset and said it's is phone.

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 3 роки тому +9

    Uganda 🇺🇬 representative

  • @C_Sonnie
    @C_Sonnie 3 роки тому +3

    Mwikali always hilarious

  • @dorcaskyai8250
    @dorcaskyai8250 3 роки тому +1

    I never pick my husband's calls. That's kiddish. Pure and simple

  • @irenewambui4201
    @irenewambui4201 3 роки тому

    Nice topic,,,have learn a lot ,,,,,

  • @avrilnanjala1041
    @avrilnanjala1041 3 роки тому

    This is amazing thanks Benjamin and mwikali

  • @pirimwangi8730
    @pirimwangi8730 3 роки тому +2

    Akk Benjamin UV made my day....

  • @missreche
    @missreche 3 роки тому

    I love Zulu advices

  • @akiaflorence2472
    @akiaflorence2472 3 роки тому +1

    Much love from Uganda walai I complain to my boyfriend about communicating every day and sometimes using voice notes but he is not taking it serious and we are on a long distance relationship 😔😔😔

  • @melmel7011
    @melmel7011 3 роки тому +1

    Wow she is gorgeous

  • @evalineakinyiouko8586
    @evalineakinyiouko8586 3 роки тому

    This Wonderful!

  • @tytypartridge3135
    @tytypartridge3135 3 місяці тому

    If I’m already thinking about looking at your phone then something is already up!!

  • @miriamkariuki969
    @miriamkariuki969 3 роки тому

    Dyscalculia - difficulties in number Sense. It's real.

  • @beingkeemie26
    @beingkeemie26 3 роки тому +21

    I just have respect for his wife... How can you marry psychologist? 😂😂😂.

  • @nicktush1083
    @nicktush1083 3 роки тому

    This talk is exactly what going on in my r/ship,my wife does so and I'm damn confused....

  • @lucynyamai6854
    @lucynyamai6854 3 роки тому

    Those ladies who hit on this one man Benjamin Zulu are daring heee... Hee. Unless they go indirect Benjamin can chew them in broad day light. Benja we hukua na chills around admirers of female kind?

  • @boundililian2220
    @boundililian2220 3 роки тому

    I love this show

  • @roseshiku1045
    @roseshiku1045 3 роки тому +13

    Kikuyu men need to hear this

  • @annewachira4317
    @annewachira4317 3 роки тому

    Zulu....A wise man!

  • @careensimiyu1255
    @careensimiyu1255 3 роки тому

    "Breath on the phone",,,🤣🤣🤣

  • @ojlyttle5887
    @ojlyttle5887 3 роки тому +2

    Benjamin 😭😭😭 if you do NOTHING... your woman will find SOMETHING if you give her your pin