Navigating Identity: A Korean Adoptee's Journey with Nathan Nowack - Ep 174

"I...sometimes I forget that I'm Asian unless I see myself in a mirror." -- Nathan Nowack
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EPISODE SUMMARY:
In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the pleasure of speaking with Nathan Nowack, a Korean adoptee, professional photographer, and co-host of The Janchi Show. Nathan shared his adoption story, having been adopted from Korea at just five and a half months old and raised in a predominantly white community in Oklahoma. He reflected on his childhood, noting the lack of cultural representation and the challenges of navigating his Asian identity in a world that often sees him as different.
We discussed the complexities of transracial adoption, including the impact of his parents' approach to race and culture. Nathan emphasized the importance of understanding and acknowledging one's racial identity, especially in a society that often overlooks these nuances. He shared his experiences with microaggressions and the emotional toll they can take on adoptees, highlighting the need for greater awareness and sensitivity.
Nathan also spoke about his involvement with KAAN (Korean American Adoptee Adoptive Family Network) and how connecting with other adoptees has been instrumental in his healing journey. He described the sense of community he found there and the importance of sharing diverse adoption stories, acknowledging that each experience is unique.
As a father of three multiple-ethnicity children, Nathan is committed to helping them understand their cultural heritage. He shared how he incorporates Asian traditions and celebrations into their lives, ensuring they have a strong sense of identity.
This conversation was rich with insights into the complexities of adoption, identity, and community. I hope listeners find Nathan's story as inspiring and enlightening as I did. Be sure to check out The Janchi Show and connect with Nathan on Instagram for more of his journey and perspectives. Thank you for joining us, and I look forward to our next episode!
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RESOURCES:
Nathan’s information:
Find Nathan on Instagram: / nnowack
Check out Nathan’s Podcast: www.janchishow.com and / janchishow
Find out more about KAAN: www.wearekaan.org and / wearekaan
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TIME STAMPS:
00:01:26 - Nathan's Adoption Background
Nathan shares his story as a Korean adoptee.
00:02:50 - Cultural Representation
Discussion on the lack of Asian culture in Nathan's upbringing.
00:03:50 - Transracial Adoption Insights
Nathan reflects on his parents' understanding of race.
00:05:32 - Colorblind Mentality
Exploration of the melting pot approach to race.
00:06:52 - Experiencing Microaggressions
Nathan discusses microaggressions and their impact.
00:08:38 - Finding Community
The importance of connecting with other adoptees.
00:09:18 - Involvement with KAN
Nathan explains his role in the Korean American Adoptee Network.
00:11:41 - Healing Through Stories
Connecting with other adoptees aids Nathan's healing.
00:13:44 - Reunion with Siblings
Nathan shares his reunion with biological siblings.
00:15:17 - Language Barriers
Challenges in communicating with his siblings.
00:16:37 - Sibling Trauma
Exploration of trauma experienced by Nathan's siblings.
00:17:45 - Parenting Mixed-Race Kids
Nathan discusses raising his diverse children.
00:19:15 - Cultural Education
Incorporating Asian culture into his children's lives.
00:20:37 - Food as Connection
Nathan's love for food and its cultural significance.
00:21:50 - Living Through His Kids
Reflections on identity through his children's experiences.
00:22:45 - Closing Thoughts
Nathan expresses gratitude and shares ways to connect.