Perfectly said ! She's a stunner, goes to prove cheating is never because you're lacking something and it's all about the selfish persons desire for something new.
The majority of women, not all, dominant the relationship,she's wearing the pants, lyfting the weights,driving the truck, the bus,the strong voice , the queen boss, controling the money, the decision maker .The other woman , the prostitute fills that empty void..filling that void for decades, that will never change not in this life.
You can clearly tell the problem was always Jason. He did Jordan bad and it’s like a domino effect with everyone else he’s gotten serious with. He’ll get what’s coming to him. Proud Jena got out of that toxic environment. Good on her
I'm not defending Jason at all but I find it weird that so many people just scream that he's the one in the wrong when we know absolutely nothing about their relationship other than what she's spouting out. If you all don't know her personally then I suggest you stop acting like you do..
@@12Djpedro Right. You would would think these women who pursue these high value men in music, sports & entertainment would already know that 99.9% of these men will NOT be faithful to you. WHO DOES NOT KNOW THIS!? Yet these women betray themselves FIRST by making themselves available to these men in order benefit and live a certain life style, only to be delusional in thinking that they have beat out the competition bcus of their dime a dozen beauty & good p*ssy. When they finally realize that they were only chosen bcus they were the most gullible & tolerant of the bs, they then want to cry foul. She has to take responsibility for her part also in her own betrayal. If not, this will be a repeat pattern in all of her relationships.
Because she's beautiful?.. really?.. of course no women should be cheated on.. but Your beauty standard does not trump your personality.. she doesn't deserve this because of how beautiful she is.. how absurd.. this is the regular old mill American modern women that kevin Samuel talks about..
What else does she bring to the table other than physical appearance? Probably nothing. And she’s not too far off from hitting the wall and her looks will start to decline.
And how exactly do we know how she is personally? Maybe she's crazy, maybe she's a cheater as well, maybe she's controlling.. we don't know her and yet she plays the victim.. in every relationship both people usually play a role in the downfall of the relationship.
These responses are 🤌🏼 Nice job men 👏🏼 👏🏼 Her being pretty has nothing to do with the kind of person she is. If she was a good person she wouldn’t have had a baby with a man who obviously didn’t want her.
Good for her!!!! Bravo, she put her child and herself first and beyond found her self worth, unlike other women who just stay for the money and the bulls**t! Now that’s knowing what you deserve and what you are worth as a woman and partner and having the drive, respect for herself, strength and courage to not look the other way.
@@flyandshy00 it’s not about child support it’s about self worth and knowing you are better than being treated like sh*t. A woman shouldn’t have to get pregnant to keep a man or his money, it’s called drive honey, and doing what you as a mother have to do for your child, family and your own values.
@@flyandshy00 By law?? Stop. A woman MUST pursue legal action to obtain child support. The "law" does not continuously look at the records of every woman who gave birth, follow up with their relationships and if it learns the relationship has ended. Gives them child support. Let's use our brain. Also, I know women divorced and single. Who did not pursue and does not get child support.
@@flyandshy00 ONLY if SHE chooses to sue. or she was on welfare!! If you get welfare, the State automatically sues the fathers. Otherwise,it actually doesn't pose a problem! My mom NEVER got on welfare nor did she sue my Dad for being an abuse alcoholic. She did it all on her own! Obviously that's what Jena is doing. Just because it's the norm with these clout chasing good for nothings to use babies as a cash cow, doesn't mean ALL women are like that!! I have friends that had babies with celebrities and NEVER took a penny from them. It's ACTUALLY a thing believe it or not. Not everyone is a THOT!
I have been married for 30 years to a wonderful man. You are correct never settle. I have so many women my age that are single because their husbands cheated. You are worth way more then that. You keep doing the right thing and then the right man will come along, loving you and your son.
But it is better like that if he treats you well you better don’t investigate his whereabouts because I am pretty sure you will find out. No man Can stay with same woman for 30 years without try someone new. I were in the same position you were for 27 years and one day one little mistake changed everything
@@jessjhons5260 If a man is looking for a polygamous relationship, that is a discussion he needs to have with his wife and they must be in agreement with it. He should not be deceitful, even risking her life, with stds by cheating behind her back.
@@DandMProduction its sad men always die alone. They have no friends, no support system noone to talk to in their 70’s and 80’s. Women have circle of girlfriends and family until their 90. Poor men. It’s sad for them.
Exactly, because I was thinking the same thing, because she is a gorgeous woman, so it goes to show that some men are not contented with what they have. Surely have wondering eyes.
It’s never only about looks when it comes to cheating. Most men need to stop trying to force themselves to be monogamous 😭 I hope she finds someone who treats her right.
Correction. No matter how you look, bm will make you a single mom as that’s what they statistically do best. She would be married with a responsible dad if she would’ve gotten involved with a man from another culture who value the family unit.
I'm with you girl. The headaches and stress will keep you from being the Mom you ought to be for that gorgeous Baby Boy. You won't give him 100% if you have to focus on a grown man and his bad habits. A peace of mind I`ll choose. And stay off social media. That's where all the devils are.
Its never ok to be in a relationship where ur not treated as an equal... No matter who u are with or what they are capable of providing u.. Self respect must come first in all relationships.
This is true as well ,very much so. It was said she was after money any clout. Well true or not maker you truly in it for no arteria motive but whatever reason you're in the relationship for or not don't sit and stay around where you're not being respected or treated well get out
Dating a man with that much fame and money rarely ever leads to equal treatment. He was dating Jordan Sparks when she was the famous one and he was just up and coming. She was there when he broke his neck and wasn't well known and then he got famous and switched up. He dumped her like it was nothing! That is the kind of person he is. So why was Jena expecting to be different? If he was that big headed whilst dating a person who started out with more fame and money than him. What made her think he would treat her well? I'm not buying the whole "I didn't date him for his fame act" Jena is gorgeous and fit as f**.... she could get a regular guy but most of these women want men with fame and money. She knew he was unfaithful so why have baby with him if the relationship wasn't working?
Thank you for clapping back at the haters! I am a single mom and have been judged for it. Not all relationships work and it is better to stand up and be single then in a relationship that is miserable. Good for her!
Because shes gorgeous.. ?..do you know anything about what sort of person she is?.. like really?.. if you would.. I promise you.. you will never ask her to marry you.. but will always want sex from her..
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What else does she have to offer other than physical appearance? When her looks starts to fade what will she do? Get surgery and start to look clownish.
She's drop dead gorgeous, seems well behaved, has a healthy mentality, was faithful, cares about her child and he still cheated. Goes to show a rich man with no morals and no self control will always "exercise his options", no matter what.
Goes to show that cheating really doesn't always have to do with he worth of the one getting cheated on. Its whatever hangups the cheater has. I mean look at this woman! One of the most beautiful women ever and still got cheated on. Her beauty probably boosted his ego and was like "i can get her, i can get anyone."
My Heart goes out to Her. Unfortunately Her Dream of what was Supposed to be didn’t add up to Reality. He did Jordin Sparks the same. After He had an Accident almost died couldn’t walk. She Nursed Him for Years and No Wedding. Him and Tristan T, Safari from the same Island. Also All Unfaithful Guys.
If you choose to sleep around that's your choice, I just don't under why these men will chase a women and enter a relationship too. Tristan would try so hard to get back with Khloe when he knew rightly he was still running the streets. maybe its their egos. they think they are special
These women and these men only want sex. There relationship is only base on sex . The Kardashians also look for men with these type of behavior. Is all about how many times a day they can give sex. It could be possible that she pick the next man with this same pattern
Goes to show it doesn’t matter who the woman is or how beautiful, if he ain’t ready he ain’t ready! When he is ready beauty, or brains or none of that matters it’s the one that captures his heart. That’s the only time he will leave the streets. The sad part is they leave a trail of broken hearts! Hope she finds true happiness and appreciation!
the sad part is when he ready , he'll be old and used up. with his reputation no one in their right mind will wanna or should f*** with that. some men are so broken that even if they find the one that captures their heart they'll still prefer to be just another number on the statistics.
He has willfully chosen not be ready, ever!!!! Being ready is a choice, and it has nothing to do with e certain moment when it hits you!!!Jason has taken full advantage of being rich The only way I see him being loyal is if he was broke 😂😂😂
The person who commented that is the real bastard. And as for Jason I’m disappointed in him it’s good thing Jordin broke up with him because she would’ve been the to get cheated on multiple times.
Yeah, but stop planning babies if he don’t marry you first. Does not mean he won’t cheat ( of course), but these type of men don’t want marriage-so in the end it would save your time because you would at least see that he’s not the least bit serious. These men talk a good game, but if they won’t marry you first, then they don’t deserve your womb.
@@radioog6945 nobody is referring to cheating, we’re talking about the assets and money she’d have access to because of him cheating, if she were to get a divorce she would be able to get alimony.
It truly amazes how any sane healthy minded person could listen to Cynthia g for an extended period of time. And it's even more astonishing how someone could recommend her. Do yourself a favor, and actually consume healthy enriching content online instead of consuming hate from a broken woman who has a track of record of poor decisions and poor ethics.
Khloe needs to do this! Seriously. It's heartbreaking to see women allow themselves to be disrespected in a relationship they never wanted for themselves. Everyone deserves to have their standards met.
Since women have the choice, I wish this girl exercised her to be pickier of the man she got involved with. This guy was an asshole to Jordan Sparks and that should have been red flag to any future woman who meets him. When a man is damaged not even a good woman cam fix him. Girls go for a man that is constantly working on himself; seeks professional help when he has a problem and takes accountability for his actions
@@bxi1547 many men act good and kind until they get a woman pregnant after they get a woman pregnant they show their real face so don't judge these women because no one wants to become a single mother , they have a reason why they dump these men
She may not have chosen to be a single mom, but when you decide to make a baby with someone who has chosen NOT to commit to you, that speaks volume. Most of the time, women see the signs. They just ignore them hoping the man will change once the child is born. Ladies, take notes. This happens too often. If a man won't commit, and you want marriage, don't give him a child.
I'd say he played her and used her kindness as weakness - she thought it was real - he played her and her child - no woman in there right man wants what he did or didn't give her/ them - she was expecting a different outcome and realised too late than she stepped up and he could not match her - he's simply not the one and fully played her good intentions and heart ♡
I hope u or your daughters don't eat your words back. So what happens if u get pregnant while satisfying your sexual needs and waiting on being married? Start getting used to this situation, it's going to be more common in the US since some states are anti abortion. Why do we continue to slut shame women but not hold men accountable too?
@@alexzandria6803 ….Her courage to leave, walk away from Jason, a celebrity, who is DISRESPECTING her! Unfortunately, she will be judged by many for leaving!! Obviously, the girl has self-love & respect….for herself!!#dorightwoman😉
@@jacyhamm9296 But if she had self love and respected herself wouldn’t she demand marriage before giving a man a child? She made herself a baby momma by getting pregnant by a dude that wouldn’t commit to her. That doesn’t strike me as strong or as self love or as self respect. It screams desperate, weak, will do anything to try to keep a man.
@@alexzandria6803 ….and then there’s self reflection and self forgiveness. There’s a cliche that states “don’t let your wounds turn you into the person you are not“. Okay, she decided to conceive a child out of wedlock. Not the best decision, however, it happened and other unfortunate things occurred in her relationship with Jason. I am sure she has (is) experiencing pain for this failed relationship. The appearance of being weak & desperate? Okay. Just remember, don’t judge a book by its cover. We have strong women who had babies out of wedlock, left the relationship due to non commitment, etc. Only to move on, leave and find true, everlasting love 💕 Hint: Cierra and Russell Wilson🥰
When you pick and get picked based on your looks, expect for your relationship not to last. Looks don’t hold a relationship together and the man wants to use you like the rest of the women he uses for sex. It’s unfortunate for her, but she knew Jason wasn’t dating her beyond her looks. We have to pick significant others who value our souls and not our bodies
@Day she’s a “preference” and she knows that. One has to stop and think, if he had this history with other women, what makes his relationship with me different. If this man is adored by sooo many women, and all the women he actually engages with look like her or of that type, he wants nothing with her but her physical body. It’s not about her not being able to be pretty, but what the burden of using your pretty privilege means. Nothing comes without a price.
So Jason is a misogynistic, disrespectful, narcissistic scumbag, and you are turning around and blaming the woman? It sounds like you are hateful because she is beautiful. Start calling out the men for the scum that they are and stop trying to bring women down because they are beautiful.
@@ntswakimokone5256 it doesn’t have anything to do with being a woman and everything to do with colorism, pretty privilege, and toxic masculinity. Many people are just being used. Think about what I’m saying instead of having an emotional reaction.
He won’t ever appreciate any female if he can’t even treat a gorgeous let alone intellectual to the fullest degree mother of his child he won’t ever top that once she’s gone she’s gone forever and the next one won’t be dumb enough to treat her as such -
Sounds like Jena is a keeper. It's a damn shame when a man doesn't realize a good woman when she's right beside him. As the saying goes: "You don't know what you've _truly_ had/missed; until it's gone." 🤷🏾♂️
Women must take accountability for our actions and the men we sleep with...planning to have a baby before a commitment means you chose to be a single mom...we praise her but not Jordan Sparks...
With her looks she probably thought he wouldn’t do that to her. Except that he got what he wanted out of her and even got a baby…….. NEXT! Thats all he wanted.
I’m glad she put herself and her child first over pleasing a worthless partner! I hope her story will be a cautionary tale for young women to stop having babies and sacrificing your womb for men who don’t deserve it. At least say “I do” first and then wait a little while before making a permanent commitment like having a child. You don’t want to be stuck in single motherhood and receiving no child support while the father is out there “living his best life” without a care in the world😞
Mad respect for Ms. Jenna Frumes. This is the first time I've heard of her - but she got my attention with her words of unapologetic truth and no BS. Hats off to her and other strong , beautiful women!
I also think sometimes women rush into getting kids with someone without really assessing whether the person is fit for a family. its very important not to rush sometimes. I dont know but to each there on. Its also very good to do a background check have a conversation with that individual as to whether you want to start a family. I think that can be very helpful as well. Rather than getting a kid only to realize that, that person from the very beginning did not want to have a family.
You go girl put your worth first and if he wants to cheat & be lier then honestly that's his loss I'm single because I choose to be I never want to feel another heartache because I was being cheated and herd my ex say I love you to another women who wasn't his mom or sisters know your worth ladies& gents
Is it his loss?.. is it thou?.. single baby mamas are wanted by a vast majority of men.. value is still obtained.. I'm glad she left.. a women should leave but don't be deluded and thinking this is good thing.. its not.. its adverse times ahead for her.. you could say this if there was no child.. but there is.. stop this bs echo chamber you women are creating. 'Bitch you fucked up, it's gona be tough, handle that".. there is no acknowledgement from any of these comments for her poor decisions. Where is the 'i know you made some poor decisions, but...
She shoulda learned from what Jordin Sparks went through, Jordin took care of him and he dissed her. Jenna saw a chance with a celeb and took it. You can sense a no good man from a distance, women just gotta stop thinking they can change a man or go through certain lengths to keep one.
I literally could NEVER stand him for some reason. I never knew why but he always irritated me. But I LOVE the way she worded everything bc there really is so much hate and disrespect towards not just single parents but single MOTHERS! You never know if the same will happen to you bc single moms didn’t expect that to be their reality. You never know the reason they’re in that situations. And while it is ideal to have both parents in the household sometimes it really is best for the toxic ones to not be in the picture or in the household
We humans are stranger than fiction. I've seen non-famous everyday men who engage in the same antics. The day does arrive when they do settle down. Unfortunately, it's after they're way past their prime. They are worn out physically & mentally. I've often wondered what the conversations are like with them & if you can look into their eyes & see the reflection of regret from all the time, energy & love they wasted🤔
There's nothing in those eyes, nothing but emptiness..trust me, speaking from experience...and how about waisting innocent lives of their partners and children? It's such a shame...
I feel like they only settle because they are old not because they want to but they dont have any other choice, because the rich ones go after the young ones n use their money to get them. But yeah i think there is usually no regret with these people just bitterness because no One wants to be with them anymore but if they could they would still keep doing the same shit until the day they die
Being a single parent is nothing no one aspires to be. Relationships don't always work out. If you have one person putting everything towards it and the one only wants to take the benefits then it ain't gonna work. I love how others seem to know what is best for you. Maybe people need to mind their own business.
Aint that like every celebrity’s life. Cheating or be cheated. Thats why all these break ups and divorces. Its nothing new. Same thing happens to normal people
Sadly if a man wants to cheat, nothing will stop him. Not even good looks. There is men who won't even cheat on a not very attractive female because they are not that type of guy.
no shade as I am a gay man myself, but DAMN I thought she was gonna call him out on cheating a bunch with MEN! Am I the only one who's gaydar goes OFF with Jason!?!?!
This isn't surprising Jason Derulo alway seem like a player always treated his girlfriend like shit I'm proud of Jenna for knowing her worth I wish her all the best, and happiness🙏🏽💕.
I dealt with that myself. I have seven children all grown now and I went out got a good paying job bought my second home raised my children with no child support. Was there ever guilt on his part yes later in life he regretted the way he treated me and his kids. I forgave him that was the Godly thing to do so he could Rest In Peace.
I know that’s right girl! No body has to tolerate being disrespected and cheated on. …and I don’t care how much he apologizes, don’t take him back. You deserve better.
Wow...so glad she stood up for herself! It's crazy how a baby can change your way of thinking & what you're willing to accept in a relationship. I know love isn't about looks, but if she can be cheated on then we should all worry!
She cooked for him and a lot more.. but when a guy has no self-control and wants his cake and eat it too. She did the right thing to walk. He wanted her to pretend all good while he went screw whoever, cause he got money.
Did she say, she "doesn't " receive child support??? 🤔 Now this is making me give Jason the side eye. It was an issue with Jordan and he explained it away. It's an issue now with his baby momma who apparently he doesn't pay child support. Every door that opens, isn't always a door to go through...then down the line when they get older, all you hear about is their story of reflecting! Crazy
This is for the ladies from other cultures and ethnicities: leave BM alone. They won’t give you a better treatment because you are “their preference.” They will treat you the same or worse he treated women from his own race. They will still make you a statistic. Find a man who has a CULTURAL inclination and raised to value family. They will love you and your children and always stay by your side.
“Your child is a bastard” just cracked me up. Because it’s true yes but it just sounds so funny telling someone their kid is a bastard so openly, in case the person didn’t already know. I laughed so much I cried then when the voiceover said “your child is a bastard” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙂
It's sickening that another woman will call her a wh@r* and her child a bastard, like how dare you?! Women who think they're better simply because they're married have no notion of what being a woman is really about. Stand tall Jena!
Show me a girl with morals and ethnics that’s not easily manipulated by the rapper persona that will not open their legs to these men because they have money and looking for a check…. I’ll wait
This is what the manosphere fails to understand. Too busy blaming women all the time. Most women aspire to be married and try to make their relationships work but a lot of men are not emotionally mature enough to handle commitment. And that's PART of the reason why the rate of single motherhood is increasing.
Hats up to you Jena for standing up to your worth. Proud of women like you, who don't just put up with men "Just Because".
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Kevin Samuels would disagree
@@barbeedoll122 who?
My sentiments exactly 💯
@@barbeedoll122 oh well..Too bad he can't 🤷
Perfectly said ! She's a stunner, goes to prove cheating is never because you're lacking something and it's all about the selfish persons desire for something new.
Well said!
He was an azzhole also to joridin sparks 😢
Absolutely
The majority of women, not all, dominant the relationship,she's wearing the pants, lyfting the weights,driving the truck, the bus,the strong voice , the queen boss, controling the money, the decision maker .The other woman , the prostitute fills that empty void..filling that void for decades, that will never change not in this life.
@@sarossamitha8094 get out of here with that incel bs
You can clearly tell the problem was always Jason. He did Jordan bad and it’s like a domino effect with everyone else he’s gotten serious with. He’ll get what’s coming to him. Proud Jena got out of that toxic environment. Good on her
The man is a millionaire with thousands of women wanting to be with him, what did you think was going to happen?
Hello Can we friends really ?
@@12Djpedro You can be surrounded by people and still be alone.
I'm not defending Jason at all but I find it weird that so many people just scream that he's the one in the wrong when we know absolutely nothing about their relationship other than what she's spouting out. If you all don't know her personally then I suggest you stop acting like you do..
@@12Djpedro Right. You would would think these women who pursue these high value men in music, sports & entertainment would already know that 99.9% of these men will NOT be faithful to you. WHO DOES NOT KNOW THIS!? Yet these women betray themselves FIRST by making themselves available to these men in order benefit and live a certain life style, only to be delusional in thinking that they have beat out the competition bcus of their dime a dozen beauty & good p*ssy. When they finally realize that they were only chosen bcus they were the most gullible & tolerant of the bs, they then want to cry foul. She has to take responsibility for her part also in her own betrayal. If not, this will be a repeat pattern in all of her relationships.
Wow shes beautiful. She doesn’t need to deal with that. The baby is adorable. People don’t call the girl names. Spread love not hate
Because she's beautiful?.. really?.. of course no women should be cheated on.. but Your beauty standard does not trump your personality.. she doesn't deserve this because of how beautiful she is.. how absurd.. this is the regular old mill American modern women that kevin Samuel talks about..
What else does she bring to the table other than physical appearance? Probably nothing. And she’s not too far off from hitting the wall and her looks will start to decline.
And how exactly do we know how she is personally? Maybe she's crazy, maybe she's a cheater as well, maybe she's controlling.. we don't know her and yet she plays the victim.. in every relationship both people usually play a role in the downfall of the relationship.
@@warriorclass1040 Exactly
These responses are 🤌🏼 Nice job men 👏🏼 👏🏼 Her being pretty has nothing to do with the kind of person she is. If she was a good person she wouldn’t have had a baby with a man who obviously didn’t want her.
Good for her!!!! Bravo, she put her child and herself first and beyond found her self worth, unlike other women who just stay for the money and the bulls**t! Now that’s knowing what you deserve and what you are worth as a woman and partner and having the drive, respect for herself, strength and courage to not look the other way.
Well, by the law, she will get child support. That's why women get pregnant before the wedding - to be set for at least 18 years.
@@flyandshy00 it’s not about child support it’s about self worth and knowing you are better than being treated like sh*t. A woman shouldn’t have to get pregnant to keep a man or his money, it’s called drive honey, and doing what you as a mother have to do for your child, family and your own values.
@@flyandshy00 By law?? Stop. A woman MUST pursue legal action to obtain child support. The "law" does not continuously look at the records of every woman who gave birth, follow up with their relationships and if it learns the relationship has ended. Gives them child support. Let's use our brain. Also, I know women divorced and single. Who did not pursue and does not get child support.
@@flyandshy00that’s fucking bullshit no one inspires to be a single mom to be set for life.
@@flyandshy00 ONLY if SHE chooses to sue. or she was on welfare!! If you get welfare, the State automatically sues the fathers. Otherwise,it actually doesn't pose a problem! My mom NEVER got on welfare nor did she sue my Dad for being an abuse alcoholic. She did it all on her own! Obviously that's what Jena is doing. Just because it's the norm with these clout chasing good for nothings to use babies as a cash cow, doesn't mean ALL women are like that!! I have friends that had babies with celebrities and NEVER took a penny from them. It's ACTUALLY a thing believe it or not. Not everyone is a THOT!
The way this woman stands up for herself is phenomenal💜
I have been married for 30 years to a wonderful man. You are correct never settle. I have so many women my age that are single because their husbands cheated. You are worth way more then that. You keep doing the right thing and then the right man will come along, loving you and your son.
For sure yours cheated too. Al men do. The difference is some don’t get caught
But it is better like that if he treats you well you better don’t investigate his whereabouts because I am pretty sure you will find out. No man Can stay with same woman for 30 years without try someone new. I were in the same position you were for 27 years and one day one little mistake changed everything
Good for you and I pray all the best for you !!!!! Not all men cheat
@@jessjhons5260 If a man is looking for a polygamous relationship, that is a discussion he needs to have with his wife and they must be in agreement with it. He should not be deceitful, even risking her life, with stds by cheating behind her back.
@@jessjhons5260 all men don't cheat. Go to therapy
He's a man of that culture where they value being a player, hurting women, and having babymamas.
He treated Jordan sparks horrible,
Guess who's going to die alone?
@@DandMProduction its sad men always die alone. They have no friends, no support system noone to talk to in their 70’s and 80’s. Women have circle of girlfriends and family until their 90. Poor men. It’s sad for them.
@@ker_possible especially black men
As a black woman i agree, that's why i need a white man yes.
This goes to show, no matter what you look like, a man can still cheat on you. Ladies be careful of the partners you choose to build a family with.
Men only interested in you for the beauty then she. He gets you he believes he can have anyone else.
Nicely said 👌
Exactly, because I was thinking the same thing, because she is a gorgeous woman, so it goes to show that some men are not contented with what they have. Surely have wondering eyes.
It’s never only about looks when it comes to cheating. Most men need to stop trying to
force themselves to be monogamous 😭 I hope she finds someone who treats her right.
Correction. No matter how you look, bm will make you a single mom as that’s what they statistically do best. She would be married with a responsible dad if she would’ve gotten involved with a man from another culture who value the family unit.
I'm with you girl. The headaches and stress will keep you from being the Mom you ought to be for that gorgeous Baby Boy. You won't give him 100% if you have to focus on a grown man and his bad habits. A peace of mind I`ll choose. And stay off social media. That's where all the devils are.
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True
Last thing I want on this earth is a headache from anyone
Yup!!! But that’s not a grown man, that’s a man-child. He needs to grow up.
👏 👏 👏 👏 well said
Love this comment!!! 💯
I'm not surprised he did the same thing with Jordan Sparks it's hard to break bad habits and bad behavior
Yes he did!
Never liked him. Too damn full of himself
That was my 1st thought when I saw this!!
@@rosamondmaylor5558 He's a Virgo. All Virgo men are full of themselves
@@incognitame141 Damn that hurt. 😞
She did the right thing by choosing to walk away when he continued to disrespect her.
Its never ok to be in a relationship where ur not treated as an equal... No matter who u are with or what they are capable of providing u..
Self respect must come first in all relationships.
This is true as well ,very much so. It was said she was after money any clout. Well true or not maker you truly in it for no arteria motive but whatever reason you're in the relationship for or not don't sit and stay around where you're not being respected or treated well get out
Dating a man with that much fame and money rarely ever leads to equal treatment. He was dating Jordan Sparks when she was the famous one and he was just up and coming. She was there when he broke his neck and wasn't well known and then he got famous and switched up. He dumped her like it was nothing! That is the kind of person he is. So why was Jena expecting to be different? If he was that big headed whilst dating a person who started out with more fame and money than him. What made her think he would treat her well? I'm not buying the whole "I didn't date him for his fame act"
Jena is gorgeous and fit as f**.... she could get a regular guy but most of these women want men with fame and money. She knew he was unfaithful so why have baby with him if the relationship wasn't working?
He is lost in the sauce. Fidelity is and probably never was on his radar. Too much ego!
Thank you for clapping back at the haters! I am a single mom and have been judged for it. Not all relationships work and it is better to stand up and be single then in a relationship that is miserable. Good for her!
exactly
Facts
She is absolutely gorgeous! She deserves better and to be happy!
Because shes gorgeous.. ?..do you know anything about what sort of person she is?.. like really?.. if you would.. I promise you.. you will never ask her to marry you.. but will always want sex from her..
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What else does she have to offer other than physical appearance? When her looks starts to fade what will she do? Get surgery and start to look clownish.
Good Lord y'all blew her comment way out of proportion
@@bxi1547 the poster didn’t say, “she is so gorgeous that she doesn’t deserve to be cheated on.” You are reaching way too far here. 🤣
She's drop dead gorgeous, seems well behaved, has a healthy mentality, was faithful, cares about her child and he still cheated.
Goes to show a rich man with no morals and no self control will always "exercise his options", no matter what.
Well said
Because man at that level will never be monogamous.
The poor guys do it too 😅
Facts!
Goes to show that cheating really doesn't always have to do with he worth of the one getting cheated on. Its whatever hangups the cheater has. I mean look at this woman! One of the most beautiful women ever and still got cheated on. Her beauty probably boosted his ego and was like "i can get her, i can get anyone."
Duh that’s so 2002 we know that
Also I’m agreeing with you 100% correct
Yes, that’s how men think when you got beauty it boost their ego then they feel they can now have everyone.
@@ajjajk omg they r all delusional
I never looked at it like that, but u make sense.
My Heart goes out to Her. Unfortunately Her Dream of what was Supposed to be didn’t add up to Reality. He did Jordin Sparks the same. After He had an Accident almost died couldn’t walk. She Nursed Him for Years and No Wedding. Him and Tristan T, Safari from the same Island. Also All Unfaithful Guys.
If you choose to sleep around that's your choice, I just don't under why these men will chase a women and enter a relationship too. Tristan would try so hard to get back with Khloe when he knew rightly he was still running the streets. maybe its their egos. they think they are special
Is he Caribbean born as they do this trend with women, treat them like objects, pick them up, use them and drop them.
And now jordin is happy Married and have a child
You got that right ✅️ 👏 👌 💯 😏
These women and these men only want sex. There relationship is only base on sex . The Kardashians also look for men with these type of behavior. Is all about how many times a day they can give sex. It could be possible that she pick the next man with this same pattern
Goes to show it doesn’t matter who the woman is or how beautiful, if he ain’t ready he ain’t ready! When he is ready beauty, or brains or none of that matters it’s the one that captures his heart. That’s the only time he will leave the streets. The sad part is they leave a trail of broken hearts! Hope she finds true happiness and appreciation!
the sad part is when he ready , he'll be old and used up. with his reputation no one in their right mind will wanna or should f*** with that. some men are so broken that even if they find the one that captures their heart they'll still prefer to be just another number on the statistics.
Wow, great words spoken
He has willfully chosen not be ready, ever!!!! Being ready is a choice, and it has nothing to do with e certain moment when it hits you!!!Jason has taken full advantage of being rich The only way I see him being loyal is if he was broke 😂😂😂
She's now gained a fan. So much depth in everything she wrote. Blessings to her 🙏
The whole quote she stated is so close to the hell I been thru with my son's dad.
I’m actually surprised JD doesn’t have multiple baby mommas
Hmmmm….as yet!!
He actually does 😏
The person who commented that is the real bastard. And as for Jason I’m disappointed in him it’s good thing Jordin broke up with him because she would’ve been the to get cheated on multiple times.
She probably did get cheated on by him.
He cheated on her too
I thought they broke up because people were pressuring him into marrying her and that they were always arguing.
Yeah, but stop planning babies if he don’t marry you first. Does not mean he won’t cheat ( of course), but these type of men don’t want marriage-so in the end it would save your time because you would at least see that he’s not the least bit serious. These men talk a good game, but if they won’t marry you first, then they don’t deserve your womb.
AMEN
honey, marriage does not guarantee anything!
That's so easy to say. They planned on both. Being married, literally saves you from nothing.
Ummm she woulda got married and he woulda still been cheating
@@radioog6945 nobody is referring to cheating, we’re talking about the assets and money she’d have access to because of him cheating, if she were to get a divorce she would be able to get alimony.
He did say years back on The Wendy Williams Show that he couldn't be committed to one woman. She probably should have watched that episode 🤦🏿♀️
Bravo 👏🏽. I’m glad she was able to express herself in such a sincere way. Wishing her & her baby all the luck & happiness in the world.
He left her a 28 year old single mom. These woman don’t get it. Someone send her a link to Cynthia g
It truly amazes how any sane healthy minded person could listen to Cynthia g for an extended period of time. And it's even more astonishing how someone could recommend her. Do yourself a favor, and actually consume healthy enriching content online instead of consuming hate from a broken woman who has a track of record of poor decisions and poor ethics.
@@MayISpeak the preferences always get treated terribly then want the sympathy of black women. Nope 😂 not our fight
@@tye1939 THese people make me sick!
How sad it didn’t work out ☹️ Their son is so precious. I hope she finds happiness and peace.
Khloe needs to do this! Seriously. It's heartbreaking to see women allow themselves to be disrespected in a relationship they never wanted for themselves. Everyone deserves to have their standards met.
A zebra never changes it’s stripes
It’s only a blessing! She will get a better man!!! 💜
Hello Can we secret friends ?
That's so sad. I thought they were going to make it.
Well said Jenna! Do what is best for you
Since women have the choice, I wish this girl exercised her to be pickier of the man she got involved with. This guy was an asshole to Jordan Sparks and that should have been red flag to any future woman who meets him.
When a man is damaged not even a good woman cam fix him. Girls go for a man that is constantly working on himself; seeks professional help when he has a problem and takes accountability for his actions
I’m glad she called him out. No woman chooses to raise a child on their own.
Yeah they just choose to be with the wrong guys while rejecting the guys who are worth a damn. That’s why good men have no sympathy for these women.
@@bxi1547 many men act good and kind until they get a woman pregnant after they get a woman pregnant they show their real face so don't judge these women because no one wants to become a single mother , they have a reason why they dump these men
These internet trolls are awful ... what is it any of their business to judge her for being a single mom and calling her names ... wtf ...
She is one of the most physically beautiful human beings that I have ever seen.
She was his preference at the time now she's just another baby mama...
That's what BM.do
@@shawnlove4502 they sure do 😫
She may not have chosen to be a single mom, but when you decide to make a baby with someone who has chosen NOT to commit to you, that speaks volume. Most of the time, women see the signs. They just ignore them hoping the man will change once the child is born.
Ladies, take notes. This happens too often. If a man won't commit, and you want marriage, don't give him a child.
I'd say he played her and used her kindness as weakness - she thought it was real - he played her and her child - no woman in there right man wants what he did or didn't give her/ them - she was expecting a different outcome and realised too late than she stepped up and he could not match her - he's simply not the one and fully played her good intentions and heart ♡
You can’t help but hope and dream don’t blame the woman the man is horrible please
This is sounding very victim-blamey
The child is both yours not what you are saying give him a child as if you don't need it. Some men just change so be careful how you generalize them
I hope u or your daughters don't eat your words back. So what happens if u get pregnant while satisfying your sexual needs and waiting on being married? Start getting used to this situation, it's going to be more common in the US since some states are anti abortion. Why do we continue to slut shame women but not hold men accountable too?
She a strong woman 💪💯
What makes her strong?
@@alexzandria6803 ….Her courage to leave, walk away from Jason, a celebrity, who is DISRESPECTING her! Unfortunately, she will be judged by many for leaving!! Obviously, the girl has self-love & respect….for herself!!#dorightwoman😉
@@jacyhamm9296 But if she had self love and respected herself wouldn’t she demand marriage before giving a man a child? She made herself a baby momma by getting pregnant by a dude that wouldn’t commit to her. That doesn’t strike me as strong or as self love or as self respect. It screams desperate, weak, will do anything to try to keep a man.
@@alexzandria6803 ….and then there’s self reflection and self forgiveness. There’s a cliche that states “don’t let your wounds turn you into the person you are not“. Okay, she decided to conceive a child out of wedlock. Not the best decision, however, it happened and other unfortunate things occurred in her relationship with Jason. I am sure she has (is) experiencing pain for this failed relationship. The appearance of being weak & desperate? Okay. Just remember, don’t judge a book by its cover. We have strong women who had babies out of wedlock, left the relationship due to non commitment, etc. Only to move on, leave and find true, everlasting love 💕 Hint: Cierra and Russell Wilson🥰
So sad shes so beautiful aswell as the baby
He should pay child support!!!
When you pick and get picked based on your looks, expect for your relationship not to last. Looks don’t hold a relationship together and the man wants to use you like the rest of the women he uses for sex. It’s unfortunate for her, but she knew Jason wasn’t dating her beyond her looks. We have to pick significant others who value our souls and not our bodies
@Day she’s a “preference” and she knows that. One has to stop and think, if he had this history with other women, what makes his relationship with me different. If this man is adored by sooo many women, and all the women he actually engages with look like her or of that type, he wants nothing with her but her physical body. It’s not about her not being able to be pretty, but what the burden of using your pretty privilege means. Nothing comes without a price.
@@SMGyal wow and this is coming from a woman , I'm done with yall
Someone is low key hating, but giving it off as advice. Self love is always a good look. Jason is a cornball.
So Jason is a misogynistic, disrespectful, narcissistic scumbag, and you are turning around and blaming the woman? It sounds like you are hateful because she is beautiful. Start calling out the men for the scum that they are and stop trying to bring women down because they are beautiful.
@@ntswakimokone5256 it doesn’t have anything to do with being a woman and everything to do with colorism, pretty privilege, and toxic masculinity. Many people are just being used. Think about what I’m saying instead of having an emotional reaction.
He won’t ever appreciate any female if he can’t even treat a gorgeous let alone intellectual to the fullest degree mother of his child he won’t ever top that once she’s gone she’s gone forever and the next one won’t be dumb enough to treat her as such -
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Facts. No woman will ever be good enough.
Jason probably thinks that he’s all that and can cheat whenever he wants cause he “feels” everyone wants him.
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Yes, alot of Thems⬅️ want him and he wants Thems⬅️ too. 🤔🎯
Yea, he is gross and doesn’t deserve a good woman
Maybe Women don’t satisfy him. He needs something else
He seems corny asf tbh
So he is the problem. Ladies, BEWARE!
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Should have thought about all of this before having the kid, he was cheating before. A child is not going to stop or heal his behavior.
Sounds like Jena is a keeper. It's a damn shame when a man doesn't realize a good woman when she's right beside him. As the saying goes: "You don't know what you've _truly_ had/missed; until it's gone." 🤷🏾♂️
How low and disgusting has society become, when an adult calls a baby a bastard?
Low class individual.
Women must take accountability for our actions and the men we sleep with...planning to have a baby before a commitment means you chose to be a single mom...we praise her but not Jordan Sparks...
Thrash
Thank you!!!!
because this about jenna and Jason..hell,they have a baby..who the hell mentioned jordan from yrs ago?!
You go girl, woman power, I am very proud of you! I wish more women would do the same!
He’s like a child man who has no control, she can now move on to a real man.
👏👏👏👏👏 He never deserved her.
Its hard being in a relationshp,with a complete egomanic like J.Derulo...!? What did you expect?
With her looks she probably thought he wouldn’t do that to her. Except that he got what he wanted out of her and even got a baby…….. NEXT!
Thats all he wanted.
I’m glad she put herself and her child first over pleasing a worthless partner! I hope her story will be a cautionary tale for young women to stop having babies and sacrificing your womb for men who don’t deserve it. At least say “I do” first and then wait a little while before making a permanent commitment like having a child. You don’t want to be stuck in single motherhood and receiving no child support while the father is out there “living his best life” without a care in the world😞
Mad respect for Ms. Jenna Frumes. This is the first time I've heard of her - but she got my attention with her words of unapologetic truth and no BS. Hats off to her and other strong , beautiful women!
I also think sometimes women rush into getting kids with someone without really assessing whether the person is fit for a family. its very important not to rush sometimes. I dont know but to each there on. Its also very good to do a background check have a conversation with that individual as to whether you want to start a family. I think that can be very helpful as well. Rather than getting a kid only to realize that, that person from the very beginning did not want to have a family.
Men also rush, it works both ways
@@auroraborealiseme2698 i agree with you
You go girl put your worth first and if he wants to cheat & be lier then honestly that's his loss I'm single because I choose to be I never want to feel another heartache because I was being cheated and herd my ex say I love you to another women who wasn't his mom or sisters know your worth ladies& gents
Is it his loss?.. is it thou?.. single baby mamas are wanted by a vast majority of men.. value is still obtained.. I'm glad she left.. a women should leave but don't be deluded and thinking this is good thing.. its not.. its adverse times ahead for her.. you could say this if there was no child.. but there is.. stop this bs echo chamber you women are creating. 'Bitch you fucked up, it's gona be tough, handle that".. there is no acknowledgement from any of these comments for her poor decisions. Where is the 'i know you made some poor decisions, but...
She shoulda learned from what Jordin Sparks went through, Jordin took care of him and he dissed her. Jenna saw a chance with a celeb and took it. You can sense a no good man from a distance, women just gotta stop thinking they can change a man or go through certain lengths to keep one.
I literally could NEVER stand him for some reason. I never knew why but he always irritated me.
But I LOVE the way she worded everything bc there really is so much hate and disrespect towards not just single parents but single MOTHERS! You never know if the same will happen to you bc single moms didn’t expect that to be their reality. You never know the reason they’re in that situations. And while it is ideal to have both parents in the household sometimes it really is best for the toxic ones to not be in the picture or in the household
We humans are stranger than fiction. I've seen non-famous everyday men who engage in the same antics. The day does arrive when they do settle down. Unfortunately, it's after they're way past their prime. They are worn out physically & mentally. I've often wondered what the conversations are like with them & if you can look into their eyes & see the reflection of regret from all the time, energy & love they wasted🤔
There's nothing in those eyes, nothing but emptiness..trust me, speaking from experience...and how about waisting innocent lives of their partners and children? It's such a shame...
I feel like they only settle because they are old not because they want to but they dont have any other choice, because the rich ones go after the young ones n use their money to get them. But yeah i think there is usually no regret with these people just bitterness because no One wants to be with them anymore but if they could they would still keep doing the same shit until the day they die
Being a single parent is nothing no one aspires to be. Relationships don't always work out. If you have one person putting everything towards it and the one only wants to take the benefits then it ain't gonna work.
I love how others seem to know what is best for you. Maybe people need to mind their own business.
Aint that like every celebrity’s life. Cheating or be cheated. Thats why all these break ups and divorces. Its nothing new. Same thing happens to normal people
Dating Jason and expecting marriage is like asking Future to leave the streets when he is the streets
My thoughts exactly. Expecting these industry men to be faithful is hilarious to me. 😂😫
LOL that's so true. Perfect analogy
I always thought he was playin for the other team tbh lol. Good for her and I hope she keeps that energy because he won't change.
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he could be . who the hell knows.
I believe it as well.
If he cheated on her then he’s an idiot because she’s stunning
Yup! He won’t find anyone to replace her or Jordan. Just a douchebag who plays and devalues women. He does not deserve any woman at all.
🎶Pretty taught me ugly lessons 🎶
Guys will cheat regardless
@@msgtz2721 There are good men out there. This guy, NOPE. But good men do exist.
Sadly if a man wants to cheat, nothing will stop him. Not even good looks. There is men who won't even cheat on a not very attractive female because they are not that type of guy.
Jena is so beautiful and you can tell Jason is too caught up in the fame and Tiktok hype to want to settle down for something serious.
He gives off big loser energy ... no offense.
@@tsebomahao4229 true
@@tsebomahao4229 You’re just mad he wouldn’t give you a second look 😂
@@bxi1547 lol the feeling is mutual.
no shade as I am a gay man myself, but DAMN I thought she was gonna call him out on cheating a bunch with MEN! Am I the only one who's gaydar goes OFF with Jason!?!?!
Nope. We all see it.
Girl speak your truth !!!
This isn't surprising Jason Derulo alway seem like a player always treated his girlfriend like shit I'm proud of Jenna for knowing her worth I wish her all the best, and happiness🙏🏽💕.
Praying for you and baby boy Jena❤️ God has better for you🙏🏽
Judge: Do you have anything to say about this?
Jason: “JASON DERULO”
Judge: Get him out of here
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Omg I said it in his voice and everything lol
You are such beautiful and intelligent woman, you can do anything you want!!! The best of luck!!! Wait the man of your life it’s yet to come!!!!
Another famous person thinking they're above having a real woman and true love and being a solid father & mentor to them both ♡♡♤
sounds about right!!!!! Black men of culture,.....even the preferences are seeing the truth!
Yep!!
BM just aren't good men
This !
AMEN Girl!!!! PREACH🥳🙏💘
I'm proud of her 🥲 She seems like a great person and mother 💕
I dealt with that myself. I have seven children all grown now and I went out got a good paying job bought my second home raised my children with no child support.
Was there ever guilt on his part yes later in life he regretted the way he treated me and his kids. I forgave him that was the Godly thing to do so he could Rest In Peace.
I'm glad she spoke up. People can be disrespectful online
Yup, turn the other cheek and move on to genuine love peace and happiness for you and your child.
I know that’s right girl! No body has to tolerate being disrespected and cheated on.
…and I don’t care how much he apologizes, don’t take him back. You deserve better.
Wow...so glad she stood up for herself! It's crazy how a baby can change your way of thinking & what you're willing to accept in a relationship. I know love isn't about looks, but if she can be cheated on then we should all worry!
She cooked for him and a lot more.. but when a guy has no self-control and wants his cake and eat it too. She did the right thing to walk. He wanted her to pretend all good while he went screw whoever, cause he got money.
No surprised 🙄he's a player
Did she say, she "doesn't " receive child support??? 🤔 Now this is making me give Jason the side eye. It was an issue with Jordan and he explained it away. It's an issue now with his baby momma who apparently he doesn't pay child support. Every door that opens, isn't always a door to go through...then down the line when they get older, all you hear about is their story of reflecting! Crazy
“It was never about money or dating someone famous” 😂 at what point do people like this stop lying to themselves?
I tell ya….Jordan Sparks dodged a “HUGE BULLET”…. Nothing like nothing self worth. Beautiful Blessings 🙏🏽❤️🌹
This is for the ladies from other cultures and ethnicities: leave BM alone. They won’t give you a better treatment because you are “their preference.” They will treat you the same or worse he treated women from his own race. They will still make you a statistic. Find a man who has a CULTURAL inclination and raised to value family. They will love you and your children and always stay by your side.
Hell I think black women should also leave them alone
@@Hadda23 yep!!!!
She spoke out for all the single mothers out there that i feel exactly like this 😢 sending love to all the mommies ❤️
Well you thought you was the chosen one and now you see how it feel.
I love Jena’s response.
I feel like it was obvs he cheated after he did the same to Jordin Sparks......
He repulses me at this point.
“Your child is a bastard” just cracked me up. Because it’s true yes but it just sounds so funny telling someone their kid is a bastard so openly, in case the person didn’t already know.
I laughed so much I cried then when the voiceover said “your child is a bastard” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙂
It's sickening that another woman will call her a wh@r* and her child a bastard, like how dare you?! Women who think they're better simply because they're married have no notion of what being a woman is really about. Stand tall Jena!
You are grounded and a fantastic mom. Forget the haters!
Sad but proves that beauty isn't everything 😳
So classy of her to respond the way she did to the troll commenting about her and her baby. 👏
“She raised the allegations while clapping back at a hater” 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 this sounds ridiculous while Jena is articulately sharing her hurt and frustration
Show me one BM who hasn’t cheated
Show me a girl with morals and ethnics that’s not easily manipulated by the rapper persona that will not open their legs to these men because they have money and looking for a check…. I’ll wait
Especially in the industry
he did the same with jordin sparks.
This is what the manosphere fails to understand. Too busy blaming women all the time. Most women aspire to be married and try to make their relationships work but a lot of men are not emotionally mature enough to handle commitment. And that's PART of the reason why the rate of single motherhood is increasing.