My sister was stalked and abused by a man who she was merely friendly to. She isolated herself and we didn’t know about what was happening until she broke down mentally
I was stalked by an ex and I went to the police, women's aid, my gp, my work, no one took me seriously, I had to deal with it alone, til a friend helped me escape. I had to block him on everything, change my phone number, block all his friends so he couldnt find my new address. It was awful.
Going through it now. Where on earth does this end. The legal system is backwards. Feels like the restraining order is against me more than him. I’m so exhausted.
Same here by a group of women on social media. Over 4 years it's been going on, now this American guy has joined in with them. He's posting on UA-cam because I blocked him after saying something inappropriate, he went on the attack, threatening he is going to share stuff I told him in complete confidence. I'm having to flee my home of 36 years because of these online narcissistic stalkers and I can only take a suitcase of clothes. These people have caused a lot of damage . Police did nothing despite the evidence I gave them that I was stalked in person. Someone has slipped up tonight, with something he said, in another malicuous UA-cam video. Two others shared lies and information that this American man gave them. DON'T TRUST ANYONE 😢
I can relate, and I find it very upsetting to hear conversations that these offenders now need to be protected. Because why? Because they are in denial? No absolutely not. If anything, I think outing this story has made it a bit more comfortable for victims to come out, so all credits for richard gadd in being so open and honest about what a struggle it is to handle a situation like this. If she didn't want to be know, then she shouldnt have come on shows raging about how she is the real life martha. She is more than happy bathing in the attention she craves so dearly.
@@sofiemarbais371 that last sentence sums them up perfectly. Mine keeps purposefully breaching orders because he can’t get me to react, he literally sees being arrested as a form of attention. He breached the RO to tell me where the police can find him. And I have to report him and give him that “attention” because otherwise he’ll see the lack of arrest as a sign that I want him back in my life. He did the same to his other ex. He’s been arrested something silly like 17 times now. They really don’t care what the attention is for, as long as it’s huge and dramatic and makes them relevant in some way.
3:42 women are stalked so many times and they often end up murdered by their stalker, because police does not do anything unless he is violent. So no, women are not supported.
SHES NOT CURRENTLY SPEAKING IN THIS VIEDO AT ALL THIS MORNING NOR A GUEST THIS MORNING!! they used the title as click bait to get views and that’s messed up!! ITS ON TONIGHT.
she is speaking out, on piers morgan tonight at 8pm, they are discussing the interview that is coming tonight, so it's not click bait, it's only a matter of time before she is on this show
If a man was the stalker then no one would be platforming him like this. This is exactly why men don't come forward when similar things happen to them.
I thought the show was a pretty average overly embellished drama about 2 people with low self esteem who are easily manipulated and vulnerable to abuse, and who need therapy. The most shocking part was the abuse and criminal behaviour of the narcissist Darrien - he really does need tracking down because if true, he is a very dangerous man. Everyone is talking about this show as if it’s the greatest psychological thriller of all time. Seriously, it’s not that deep.
She will only get more interviews you watch. People like serial killers get interviewed and showcased over our tv screens and the public watch these shows ! Im interested in what she has to say.
Through the whole story what convinces me the most that Richard is telling the truth and that’s the fact he laid himself bare. He was more critical about himself than he was the crazy Scot person.
My partner is also a victim of a french version of real life reindeer. This woman is crazy and narcisstic and already gone to court 4 times. Not only that she has to harm the child they have together to get his attention. Truly horrific to live through it
The fact that there are people who defend a woman who lied blatanly and clearly in the whole interview and allegedly did all these horrible things to someone else and even said she doesn't want Richard to show any proof and not come out with information and proof and they still find a way to defend her and empathize with her and portray her as the poor one and even criticize him and shift the blame to him for many things is really really beyond me, really blows my mind. If that was a man instead of a woman, NOBODY would even THINK for a second about empathizing with him let alone say it out loud, nobody would be defending him or trying to understand him or say that he's being exploited or anything. He'd probably be checked from A to Z very quickly and be locked up even before he would be able to give an interview and completely picked apart on every platform and every chance that people get. There would be a worldwide discussion about toxic masculinity, patriarchy, abusive male behaviour, power structures a d what not, there would be 28 talk shows about it and what else not and everyone would agree that that is absolutely insane and horrible that he did that and nobody would doubt it even a second that he's guilty of what he's being accused, everyone would want him to be checked fully and locked up as fast as possible. But since it's a woman, people suddenly have compassion with her mental state, defend her and portray her as the poor thing that should just be helped and not face consequences for her deeds and behaviour, poor woman. If you watch the interview and just pay attention from beginning to end, you CLEARLY KNOW that she is lying right through the whole thing, she is lying without a doubt, everything about her is telling it clearly. She even calls netflix and the others lyers, then says again they're not lying and then again claim they lie BUT has NO proof herself whatsoever, no arguments whatsoever and DOESN'T want him to show proof or come out anything against her, even though she claims they're lying. She even admitted to many of the things she's being depicted and portrayed as unknowingly and the whole interview is FULL of contradictions, changes in story, change in details, full of lies, full of distractions from her, full of useless information from her to distract, full of proof that she is for sure guilty of something, 100%. And even she chose herself to go to Piers Morgan and speak about it volunteraly and she clearly said she doesn't want him to come out with any kind of proof that he has to prove it's right, she immediately answered with "NO!" When Piers asked her if he should show the proof because she deny everything. So she is clearly, clearly lying and is guilty of at least some, if not all these things. But since a woman is the stalker and a man the victim, who cares, we should just leave her alone right? The double standards and hypocrisy nowadays are absolutely baffling. Sent frum my iPhon
The guy says, when asked if a stalker can be rehabilitated, that if they are mentally ill they can be with meds. What a sweeping generalization and not always true. I guess he's a hammer and everyone with a mental illness is a nail.
Seems it’s how people get real famous ….. traumatised by some important person in the biz and then wella fame comes knocking somehow as long as don’t out them
Hi. Im from the USA.. can someone plz tell me who the person was that she interviewed with other than Piers? Sorry.. the accent got me. And is there a link? Thank you
Do you mean Cat Deeley, ? The female co-presnter on this morning? I think she is from Newcastle in the North of England but I'm Irish so not 100% certain
Gonna be blunly honest here. Gadd didn't out her. He was just naive to think the tiktok detectives would just let the story be. I can understand feeling attacked and its all very complicated. She has a right to reply.
@@nicolewarner2360 people on tiktok had suspicions and then yea she outed herself. Like i say though she has a right to reply of she feels attacked. It's very complicated.
@@nicolewarner2360 agree....she jumped online as soon as any speculation started and outed herself. Then denied it was her on Piers Morgan. Said she had a lawyer boyfriend (for 5 years) and they are looking at suing everyone. rather poignantly sad really
As far as im aware this story isnt real and they have exploited somebody with either special needs or mental health problems and this person is now forced to speak out publicly so has lost their right to a private life due to this exxagageration.
Its a dramatisation of real life with richard gadd himself that not everything is true (to make the story more watchable and sellable, mental health is a massive problem and help should have been available. Maybe the money gadd made can be put onto helping others.
Sorry to hear that, there were definitely episodes that were NOT easy to watch (and parts that can be super triggering, especially for those who have had similar experiences). I really appreciate that there were trigger warnings in the series, however, especially since by leaving these parts out of the series would leave the story incomplete. I also enjoyed watching the "Psychology in Seattle"s video series on this, helping bring to light the reality and nuances of difficult situations like Richard experienced. If anyone is interested in that, it is a very enlightening series to watch on Dr. Honda Kirk's channel.
@@vanessamartin9243evidence? He self admittedly went to see the guy week in week out, and he didn’t report it to the police, BOTH of which were his prerogative and neither is forced, so it was by definition his choice. Absolutely no evidence of abuse other than his word just like most of the Martha situation. When a woman does this they are rightfully scolded for making accusations with no evidence, but he’s doing it and he’s a hero. He wanted to be famous, he followed her home and peeped through her windows, and just by the footage of him doing comedy he’s clearly a freak. He’s milked and fabricated most of this to be famous.
How are you entertaining this woman and being so casual about this when speaking! He ruined his life it’s REAL not some entertainment and shows how no one does care about the victim when there’s ways to get attention and morbid curiosity takes over
Not watched it.. Seems there's one series after another nearly all the same.. As soon they finishes there's another up on there.. We used to get these special series around Bank Holidays Easter and Christmas and New Years Eve and New Year's day.
You should really look into a show before making just a generalized statement. We have never gotten a show that depicts stalking and trauma in this way
MISLEADING TITLE. MARTHA’S NOT SPEAKING OUT HERE. SHE’S NOT EVEN A GUEST ON THIS SHOW (NOT YELLING. I HAVE EYESIGHT PROBLEMS)
Isn't it on tonight at 20:00?
I agree! Shame on you ITV! Bring back Phil!
Thanks for letting me know.
Now I won't bother watching this.
Wish I had seen this prior. Got me excited for nothing 😂
ITS LIVE TONIGHT 5MINUTES AND IT STARTS ON PIERS CHANNEL
Platforming this woman is WRONG.
na
My sister was stalked and abused by a man who she was merely friendly to. She isolated herself and we didn’t know about what was happening until she broke down mentally
Disgusting behaviour from piers and his team to even entertain this woman. It would be a completely different story if it was a male stalker.
I don't think he will entertain her, more likely he will use her to entertain us.
@@juricadogan3870 regardless, they're giving her a platform to speak on.
ITS LIVE TONIGHT 5MINUTES AND IT STARTS ON PIERS CHANNEL
It wouldn't. Piers literally interviews serial killers...
100%
I was stalked by an ex and I went to the police, women's aid, my gp, my work, no one took me seriously, I had to deal with it alone, til a friend helped me escape. I had to block him on everything, change my phone number, block all his friends so he couldnt find my new address. It was awful.
Going through it now. Where on earth does this end. The legal system is backwards. Feels like the restraining order is against me more than him. I’m so exhausted.
Same here by a group of women on social media. Over 4 years it's been going on, now this American guy has joined in with them. He's posting on UA-cam because I blocked him after saying something inappropriate, he went on the attack, threatening he is going to share stuff I told him in complete confidence. I'm having to flee my home of 36 years because of these online narcissistic stalkers and I can only take a suitcase of clothes. These people have caused a lot of damage . Police did nothing despite the evidence I gave them that I was stalked in person. Someone has slipped up tonight, with something he said, in another malicuous UA-cam video. Two others shared lies and information that this American man gave them. DON'T TRUST ANYONE 😢
I can relate, and I find it very upsetting to hear conversations that these offenders now need to be protected. Because why? Because they are in denial? No absolutely not. If anything, I think outing this story has made it a bit more comfortable for victims to come out, so all credits for richard gadd in being so open and honest about what a struggle it is to handle a situation like this. If she didn't want to be know, then she shouldnt have come on shows raging about how she is the real life martha. She is more than happy bathing in the attention she craves so dearly.
@@sofiemarbais371 that last sentence sums them up perfectly. Mine keeps purposefully breaching orders because he can’t get me to react, he literally sees being arrested as a form of attention. He breached the RO to tell me where the police can find him. And I have to report him and give him that “attention” because otherwise he’ll see the lack of arrest as a sign that I want him back in my life. He did the same to his other ex. He’s been arrested something silly like 17 times now. They really don’t care what the attention is for, as long as it’s huge and dramatic and makes them relevant in some way.
Martha’s standing on business.
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❤ richard gadd he inspired me to talk about my trauma
Yeah I opened up about it a few years ago and I'm 37. It's very very hard. But, we got this!
@mikehhammond420 weak and soft for a man, man up 😂😂
That’s so amazing
Support the victim, unless its a man.
Lit
3:42 women are stalked so many times and they often end up murdered by their stalker, because police does not do anything unless he is violent. So no, women are not supported.
@@vietumy7024 ok? how often are male stalkers welcomed onto a tv panel to talk about and make fun of there victim more?
SHES NOT CURRENTLY SPEAKING IN THIS VIEDO AT ALL THIS MORNING NOR A GUEST THIS MORNING!! they used the title as click bait to get views and that’s messed up!! ITS ON TONIGHT.
How u know this?
she is speaking out, on piers morgan tonight at 8pm, they are discussing the interview that is coming tonight, so it's not click bait, it's only a matter of time before she is on this show
@@jjay0307 8pm in what time zone? srry im not too familiar with these talk shows
8pm uk time
ITS LIVE TONIGHT 5MINUTES AND IT STARTS ON PIERS CHANNEL
It's so horrible for him. He's releaving trauma- it's cruel x
Aye that horrible he makes a series about it 😂 he’ll be licking his lips now
@@andrewinglis6456 artist does what he does with his trauma. he creates
Yeah it's $$$OOOOO cruel
If a man was the stalker then no one would be platforming him like this. This is exactly why men don't come forward when similar things happen to them.
She's pure evil. Stick her in jail.
I thought the show was a pretty average overly embellished drama about 2 people with low self esteem who are easily manipulated and vulnerable to abuse, and who need therapy. The most shocking part was the abuse and criminal behaviour of the narcissist Darrien - he really does need tracking down because if true, he is a very dangerous man. Everyone is talking about this show as if it’s the greatest psychological thriller of all time. Seriously, it’s not that deep.
Evil
Woman! Stalking is the worst invasion of your life!
She will only get more interviews you watch. People like serial killers get interviewed and showcased over our tv screens and the public watch these shows ! Im interested in what she has to say.
Through the whole story what convinces me the most that Richard is telling the truth and that’s the fact he laid himself bare. He was more critical about himself than he was the crazy Scot person.
My partner is also a victim of a french version of real life reindeer. This woman is crazy and narcisstic and already gone to court 4 times. Not only that she has to harm the child they have together to get his attention. Truly horrific to live through it
Baby Reindeer's Real-Life Martha Speaks Out | This Morning .... I think the missed off " on Piers Morgan"🤣😂 Come on This Morning
The fact that there are people who defend a woman who lied blatanly and clearly in the whole interview and allegedly did all these horrible things to someone else and even said she doesn't want Richard to show any proof and not come out with information and proof and they still find a way to defend her and empathize with her and portray her as the poor one and even criticize him and shift the blame to him for many things is really really beyond me, really blows my mind.
If that was a man instead of a woman, NOBODY would even THINK for a second about empathizing with him let alone say it out loud, nobody would be defending him or trying to understand him or say that he's being exploited or anything. He'd probably be checked from A to Z very quickly and be locked up even before he would be able to give an interview and completely picked apart on every platform and every chance that people get. There would be a worldwide discussion about toxic masculinity, patriarchy, abusive male behaviour, power structures a d what not, there would be 28 talk shows about it and what else not and everyone would agree that that is absolutely insane and horrible that he did that and nobody would doubt it even a second that he's guilty of what he's being accused, everyone would want him to be checked fully and locked up as fast as possible.
But since it's a woman, people suddenly have compassion with her mental state, defend her and portray her as the poor thing that should just be helped and not face consequences for her deeds and behaviour, poor woman.
If you watch the interview and just pay attention from beginning to end, you CLEARLY KNOW that she is lying right through the whole thing, she is lying without a doubt, everything about her is telling it clearly. She even calls netflix and the others lyers, then says again they're not lying and then again claim they lie BUT has NO proof herself whatsoever, no arguments whatsoever and DOESN'T want him to show proof or come out anything against her, even though she claims they're lying. She even admitted to many of the things she's being depicted and portrayed as unknowingly and the whole interview is FULL of contradictions, changes in story, change in details, full of lies, full of distractions from her, full of useless information from her to distract, full of proof that she is for sure guilty of something, 100%. And even she chose herself to go to Piers Morgan and speak about it volunteraly and she clearly said she doesn't want him to come out with any kind of proof that he has to prove it's right, she immediately answered with "NO!" When Piers asked her if he should show the proof because she deny everything. So she is clearly, clearly lying and is guilty of at least some, if not all these things. But since a woman is the stalker and a man the victim, who cares, we should just leave her alone right?
The double standards and hypocrisy nowadays are absolutely baffling.
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If this was a man who stalked a woman, there would be no talk about his mental health concerns.
She wasn’t forced to reply….sent from my I phone
lol, I see what you did there....sent from my I phone
Are we really talking about this woman because the most important thing is this lady needs help
The guy says, when asked if a stalker can be rehabilitated, that if they are mentally ill they can be with meds. What a sweeping generalization and not always true. I guess he's a hammer and everyone with a mental illness is a nail.
Joker got stalked by Harley Quinn in Joker 2
Typical mainstream BS! Never mind the stalker! Concentrate on the ra pist! They all know who that producer is!
Exactly. Get everyone obsessed with her so they don’t bother the r p st
Seems it’s how people get real famous ….. traumatised by some important person in the biz and then wella fame comes knocking somehow as long as don’t out them
It's currently his word against hers, while most allegations can be proven.
Yeah misleading headline ive wasted my time listening to this
Thank to all I read comments first. Sick of click bait.
What a click bait title, move on people, nothing to see here!
ALERT! CLICK BAIT VID. BACK OFF NA
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Wonderful movie and excellent actors.
Hi. Im from the USA.. can someone plz tell me who the person was that she interviewed with other than Piers? Sorry.. the accent got me. And is there a link? Thank you
Do you mean Cat Deeley, ? The female co-presnter on this morning? I think she is from Newcastle in the North of England but I'm Irish so not 100% certain
I think she has spoken with a newspaper called The Record or the Daily Record
Cat deeley is from Birmingham not Newcastle am a brummy myself
It was said she did an interview with the daily record in Scotland , I think that and the Piers interview is the only ones she has done
Gonna be blunly honest here. Gadd didn't out her. He was just naive to think the tiktok detectives would just let the story be.
I can understand feeling attacked and its all very complicated. She has a right to reply.
She outed herself. I don't actually think anyone would have found out about her real identity if she hadn't spoken out about it.
@@nicolewarner2360 people on tiktok had suspicions and then yea she outed herself. Like i say though she has a right to reply of she feels attacked. It's very complicated.
@@nicolewarner2360 agree....she jumped online as soon as any speculation started and outed herself. Then denied it was her on Piers Morgan. Said she had a lawyer boyfriend (for 5 years) and they are looking at suing everyone. rather poignantly sad really
Yall are trying to get views desperately
I mean, according to the show, he followed her home first..
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and she denied that...interesting interview. Surprised Piers did not ri[ her a new one as he usually does. He really held back
Clickbait title! 😡
ITS LIVE TONIGHT 5MINUTES AND IT STARTS ON PIERS CHANNEL
@@krabbypatty2913what's his channel
As far as im aware this story isnt real and they have exploited somebody with either special needs or mental health problems and this person is now forced to speak out publicly so has lost their right to a private life due to this exxagageration.
How do you know all of that?
Its a dramatisation of real life with richard gadd himself that not everything is true (to make the story more watchable and sellable, mental health is a massive problem and help should have been available. Maybe the money gadd made can be put onto helping others.
Misleading title
Cat dealy is a fantastic interviewer and I’m so happy to see her with this job.
Of all the people Dr Sohom Das is chosen to give his opinion.
What's wrong with him giving his opinion?
Pierce Morgan is just gross.
I didn't like it! The beginning was interesting, but when the r@pe and druGs took place on the series it turned me off completely.
You know it was based on his real experience.
@@vanessamartin9243fabricated
So sorry that the real world inconvenienced you
Sorry to hear that, there were definitely episodes that were NOT easy to watch (and parts that can be super triggering, especially for those who have had similar experiences). I really appreciate that there were trigger warnings in the series, however, especially since by leaving these parts out of the series would leave the story incomplete.
I also enjoyed watching the "Psychology in Seattle"s video series on this, helping bring to light the reality and nuances of difficult situations like Richard experienced. If anyone is interested in that, it is a very enlightening series to watch on Dr. Honda Kirk's channel.
@@vanessamartin9243evidence? He self admittedly went to see the guy week in week out, and he didn’t report it to the police, BOTH of which were his prerogative and neither is forced, so it was by definition his choice.
Absolutely no evidence of abuse other than his word just like most of the Martha situation. When a woman does this they are rightfully scolded for making accusations with no evidence, but he’s doing it and he’s a hero.
He wanted to be famous, he followed her home and peeped through her windows, and just by the footage of him doing comedy he’s clearly a freak. He’s milked and fabricated most of this to be famous.
Stop giving this stalker air time
Clickbait. No Martha here.
Downvote for the shameless Clickbait
Dr Das is fit
you need a trip to specsavers
I agree he is lovely
Dr. Das lol I recognize you from DEADBUG's channel!
Click bait
If it was a man that was Martha would be outrage but If it was a man be different story
How are you entertaining this woman and being so casual about this when speaking! He ruined his life it’s REAL not some entertainment and shows how no one does care about the victim when there’s ways to get attention and morbid curiosity takes over
Piers is nxt!
so when she commits suicide who will be held to account ?
If anyone will take their own life, it will be one of her victims! She has stalked and harassed many people.
It’s Emma Watson
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Not watched it.. Seems there's one series after another nearly all the same.. As soon they finishes there's another up on there.. We used to get these special series around Bank Holidays Easter and Christmas and New Years Eve and New Year's day.
You should really look into a show before making just a generalized statement. We have never gotten a show that depicts stalking and trauma in this way
What else is the same as this?
This show is not like anything else you will have seen. Seriously, give it a try.
I have no sympathy for her. mental deases isn't an excuse to torture anothers.
This isn’t pierce go away
It's minds u abit like trainspotting scenario
Click BAIT
Drink water
Do people watch this inane drivel?
Click bait