It's not over. Wheat Waffles is missing the Godmaxx box. God may actually send you a non-ugly female if you repent and go the marriage by sacrament route. There is a large population of women desperate to find a Godmaxx'ed man.
@@rafaelpais970 I have a girlfriend ...maybe I'm speaking of a light Tyrone viewpoint but if you think it's already over, go on and focus on your hobbies and passions ...better be happy doing what you like than recovering from a rejection like a man...
I’m proud to say I’ve achieved a tier well above Sub 5, Normie and Chad. A tier that puts the typical 3 to absolute shame: The Morbie. Also known as the Morbius Male, Morbies completely dominate the competition. With a body count and dating record of over a morbillion, the Morbie can charm any girl with the utterance of these magic words: “it’s Morbin time”.
I realize this post is probably a joke, but for the ones that are serious. You guys are starting to sound like these crazy pronoun leftists identifying as they them theirs. and ze zem zer. I just want to you acknowledge the irony.
You don't understand 2 things: 1) This is a video about "what you should do in your dating life," not "what you should do in your overall life." 2) Saying to have a fulfilling life outside of dating, within this context, is nothing more than the nicest, most diplomatic way to say "you cannot date, likely won't ever date, so don't even try because your odds are highest when it's blind, random chance."
This beats all the "being alpha is a mindset" and vague self improvement advice the RP gives you. I think this might be the most comprehensive, practical and down to earth guide, an actual PLAN. Although it's not perfect it's not full proof, it's infinitely better than no plan at all. Thanks Wheat.
Buy my alpha mindset book now! Invest in my crypto coins even though I'm a low inhib dating guru and know absolutely nothing. Buy it all now! The only thing this video is selling to us are straight facts and an actual plan of action.
"Improve Social Circle" should be a step for most normies and chads. If you don't have enough high-quality women in your periphery, then you should at least try to become friendly with guys (of a similar tier) who do. The women in your circle don't need to be single or straight, as they will try to introduce you to their female friends. It's a form of networking. Acquire new male friends -> meet their gfs / women that they interact with -> meet female friends of those women.
@@BenjaminBotwe1999 yes i am close with my male friends gf. in fact someone in our friend circle actually started dating a guys gf's best friend as she put in a good word for him lol. if you cant trust your friends around your gf then why are you friends in the first place? true friendship is all about trust and loyalty and having each others backs and having the bro code. yes some ppl are snakes in the world but why hang out with those kinds of ppl?
how do you think this shit works lmao like people just come and say "hurr durr well meet new people bottom text" meet them where? most people already have friends and dont want a randok stranger approaching them, it isnt that simple especially for us in small towns
It didnt take me long to figure out that dating was not for me (Sub5 who is South Asian and 5'5''). I am into religion and now I am a monk living in a monastery and I am happy with it.
I have watched all your video and came to the concusion that all three "pills" have marred: Looks are the most important thing - Support that 100% in this day and age. (Black pill) Game/ Charisma is not only needed for getting into a relationship but to keep it! (Red pill) And last but not least... You need a little luck in life! Right place, right time. (Blue pill)
This was 100 times better than the generic red-pill advice of getting money, getting ripped and "holding frame". It all boils down to looks. First and foremost, you need to evaluate whether or not you're a sub5, normie, chad-lite, or chad. All your realistic dating options flow from there. Great vid!
It does not all boils down to looks even the video itself covers this by mentioning daygame and stuff. Looks help a lot, but you'll still have a hard time if you're a good looking potato, and even ugly guys can reach way above their league by having good game. I've seen this is practice many times. You have to improve wherever you can.
How does one know what they are if they feel they could be either a sub 5 or Normy. Purchase the Fiverr service? I think I am the lowest tier Normy. A 5.
I have been married for 15 years. I met my wife in philosophy class in Uni where I debated the professor as a first year in front of 200 students. She came up to me and we started to talk. This was in 2007. Back in the day, these dating apps and overcomlpication of dating did not exist. I find it very interesting how dating has evolved, and I think this channel gives the necessary advice for young men to be able to navigate in this moral abyss. You guys are the true heroes of this age, society and the manipulated dating life raises such obstacles in front of young people with good will that no other generation had to face. The wretched dragon has grown too many heads, and you can only slay it with the mighty sword of sharp reason. Stay strong, keep a clear mind, work on yourselves, don't give up hope, and free your princess. Help will come. I follow this channel with great interest, thanks for the quality of work you are putting in for the benefit of everyone.
Im married for 12 years. Met my wife back in 08. Back then i use them confident and cocky approach and other PUA shit. I still used them now for light flirting. I only realized after these years that it was effective because i'm decent looking.
@@ImMakEiTNasty Speak for yourself. There are STILL alot of nice women out there. But they aren't 7 plus so you don't want them. Everything comes with a PRICE. The more in demand a woman is. The less reason she has to be nice. The same way most very goodlooking men are complete bastards. When you get something EASY. You seldom appreciate it. You guys never stop to think about that.
My father keeps asking me when i will have a girlfriend, as a 5'4 normie never! Every time i tink about this i come to the conclusion of eighter he is completely not awere of this generation or he just likes to remember me what kinde of a failure i am. Your understanding comment had me thinking about this again and i wish he had your insight a little bit and leave me alone.
I seriously almost spit my drink when he said “do you have money?” LOL, that means it’s already game over for 90% of the guys who are falling into that box.
@@Neucher as difficult as that may sound, it's accurate, having 200k on the side will definitely boost your game, and even sub 5 guys can satiate their needs with escorts if they have money
@@friedrichschnobel4000 Face doesn't even compete anymore. I think he deleted himself. The other guys just have a completely different style. Tails doesn't even talk. Incel TV talks but he doesn't use diagrams; but you've got to hand it to the guy, he just shows you a burning car and makes you listen to him because his words are so damned poignant. Incel TV is also the most loyal to the blackpill. He's not a little red or a little black. He's totally blackpilled.
FEET/INCHES TO CM: 5 feet 5 in 65 in 165.1 cm 1.65 m 5 feet 6 in 66 in 167.64 cm 1.68 m 5 feet 7 in 67 in 170.18 cm 1.7 m 5 feet 8 in 68 in 172.72 cm 1.73 m 5 feet 9 in 69 in 175.26 cm 1.75 m 5 feet 10 in 70 in 177.8 cm 1.78 m 5 feet 11 in 71 in 180.34 cm 1.8 m 6 feet 72 in 182.88 cm 1.83 m 6 feet 1 in 73 in 185.42 cm 1.85 m 6 feet 2 in 74 in 187.96 cm 1.88 m 6 feet 3 in 75 in 190.5 cm 1.91 m Just in case anybody doesnt have a clue of wtf is 5.6, as I did cuz im from Spain lol.
Find life fulfillment outside of dating is the road I knew I would have to go down many years ago. For anyone who has just found out this reality, I promise it will get easier. You will have to go through the five stages of grief because accepting the reality that dating for you is over is going to be a life-changing realisation that will have you grieve but the pain will pass and it will get better.
It's not over for many people, it's just very ineffective. I occasionally sat in dating websites for the last 20 years, and I got some fun from it, but it was worth it only in terms of fun experience, not sex counter. There are better, faster and cheaper options. And yeah, getting so little responses made me think someone has it all, and I was right. I knew a guy who boasted he banged 200 women in 5 years of something like that. Now pay 100$ for each, and you get 20k for that. Also keep in mind he didn't bang only 7-10. You can definitely earn those money in that time and even more. But if that what you want, or you want relationships. Males want recognition from females more than anything to feel high in value. Sex is actually pretty cheap and affordable. It's realizing how low your sex market value is what jagging and keeps hooked pursuing women, hoping to prove otherwise, and it was a mistake. It's discouraging, as it's something we were given, being not equal, and is hard to fix. Especially since you live in illusions till 15 or 20, and then reality hits you in the face, that you're useless and not needed by women.
never date where you work. Warm approach applies to the situation: local area or community families that know each other, local village neighbours, Father's friends daughter, etc.
I think the best attitude towards dating is to forget about it, if you are blackpilled and believe that 99 percent of women will not be the one for you, then you can easily go through life not giving a shit about trying to please women in any way, u can actually just be yourself. I think this is more important than being in a relationship, being yourself and feeling free and invincible. I think thats what blackpill can get you. Yes, a 99 percent loss of hope, but a 999 % increase in your quality of life.
Females of any species are designed to choose the best possible males, which benefits their children. Our descendants will become taller and more attractive on average because of them.
You are right, but there's a problem: since women began to put height above all else, including intelligence, we are seeing new gen becoming taller, indeed, but dumber and dumber... 😂
@@fender1000100 nah most men nowadays gymmaxx and go above and beyond what they need to do in order to secure 🐱, boomers never had to exert this much effort to get a partner.
@@jokerpilled2535 You have to be kidding the number of guys who are in shape out there Is pathetic. I'm 57 and still have a 6 pack. It can get embarrassing. If I go shirtless. I will mog most of the men out there young enough to be my grandsons. And have girls they should be getting smiling at me. Because they don't realise how old I am looking like I do Too many young men today are lazy and can't put the game console down long enough to do anything else. They are either too skinny or too fat. Then wonder why the guys in shape are cleaning house. It's nature. Women want fit virile men. Not string beans or Johnny fat boys. When you are in top shape. Everything will look its best. Your face, your posture and your presence. A woman once told me one of the biggest turn ons is a guy with a good shoulder to waist differential. Women notice this IMMEDIATELY. And it can often make up for a lack of facial looks. This is how alot of average looking black guys get women out of their league. BODY GAME. I've been using it for 30 years. If you have the right proportions. You can be 5 8" and still get alot of women wanting you.
The problem with warm approach is if it goes south in any way, you jeopardize the environment that made the connection possible. You can only use the warm approach if you literally do not care about your circle.
Nah that is not true at all. It only is a problem if you are asking out literally every women in your circle. If you ask at one and get turned down, most women will vault that and not torpedo you. Most decent looking women have the "you shoot your shot" attitude as long as you are not creepy.
.. gdamn.. i feel for the young guys out there… i’m 48… and luckily, dodged all of this bullshit that has been created via dating aps/social media/etc…when i look back at my dating history, there is NO chance i would have been as successful, had i grown up in this day and age… best of luck to u guys… and .. great video…
Has a sub 5 myself I recommend finding fulfillment outside of dating Find hobbies and passion Doing stuff you like will make you feel better and positive and if women ever notice you they’ll feel that energy coming from you although that doesn’t mean anything but being good around people makes you better than an angry incel
What he fails to mention in the video is that almost everything a girlfriend can give you can be had with a supportive group of close friends. A successful relationship is also a commitment and requires many sacrifices that will make you uncomfortable and it takes away a lot of your freedom. Blackpillers present women like some prize which you must acquire to be a real man but in reality, being in a relationship is more like having a really close friend that you also get to fuck. It's really not necessary for a happy life, this is true for many chads too, that's why so many of them only focus on hookups. Sex is nice, but it shouldn't be your life goal. If you lack supportive friends then this is the first thing you should focus on
There is a 4th reason why warm approaches are good: A person in your friend network has a reputation to uphold This will cause her to practice self-restraint in how she treats you. She is less likely to behave in an exploitative way, because this will damage her own reputation.
that's 2 edged sword. she may refuse interaction or sex precisely to retain her reputation. and she will definitely will not open herself because of fear that her secrets will spread around. Also exploiting a man will not damage her reputation at all because it will look like you are totally OK with being exploited
@@deltaxcd also if she does have a good reputation and has decent looks, all it’s going to take is for her to say one bad thing about you (true or not) and a bunch of peoples perception about you is changed
Great flow chart. "Travel the world where dating (was) easier" is NO longer 10x better. It requires a stealth snip, pretending to put a ring on it, and fleeing before the screws get turned. The short time bar girls are low quality and it's a sausage fest. Higher value ladies are only seeking fans online and often have a husband. The first trip is often brings a false hope. Disappointment sets in quick when the lack of English, demands of extended family, and being a sugar daddy sinks in deep. Peace.
I wouldn't want to make those trips "cold" not these days. Pre internet, pre smart phones, OK. If you carry yourself well and pick your spots there is potential. Back before they scrubbed the internet there were sites where guys would blog about their trips. Oh the stories! Macau, superstar level, if you know you know. Now you get shaky video footage but it doesn't tell the story.
In the Phil and been here years, and mostly agree, but I think it's not quite that dire (yet), although it's very true about having to support the family/friends of the girl.
You probably should only go to the Philippines if looking to date, it is quite easier and the girls speak English. I just did 5 months in SEA. I agree, you need to have guts to live there long term and marry there. I would not want to do this. It is fun and adventurous for a short time, but go there and get out.
@@Fighter4Street Tried that. Huge mistake as I was naive and that was years ago. They just want the green card to send money home "utang na loob" like an OFW. Met many such asawa couples. All cold bedrooms after the babies arrive. Only good for short time P4P, and that's gotten very expensive with all the neighboring competition. I wish I had better news.
An incredibly well done video, pure logic in action. I’d only add that settling for your looksmatch or even a point or two below might not be as bad as some of you think (assuming you’re at least 5-6): Undamaged normie tier girls > promiscuous attractive girls
Every guy should be going for his looks match. And this is the unspoken PROBLEM for most average guys. They are trying to punch above their weight. And of course most FAIL... You all complain the so-called stacies only want the so-called chads. WELL YEAH! They want their looks match. It's only NORMAL. If you are an average guy you get with an average woman. If you are below average you get with a below average woman. If you are above average you get with an above average woman. This isn't ROCKET SCIENCE. Water rises to its own level. There are always exceptions of course. Due to MONEY or a quirk in a man or womans personality and life experiences. That might make them buck the trend. But generally. Things go as they're supposed to.
"normie tier girls" - someone here still believes in them unicorns. Your typical "normie tier girl next door" has body count in triple digits, she is likely more promiscuous than attractive girls.
The question is i have is, if Im outearning her, outproducing her, cook/clean/etc self sufficient. I bring food, house, cars, etc. ... and she's below me or same level in looks, what is she bringing? There is no point dating western women. Theyre leaches. And even the average ones are very frequently damaged. A girl 6 in looks, can easily get ran through by Chads - and have alpha widow mindset because of it. Convinced she wasnt just used for a night; not even the sidepiece - below the sidepiece. But she got the "experience" and will resent a man better than her - in every way better than her - for not being the 10/10 guys she thinks she deserves.
@@APsupportsTerrorism Ideally, she should bring her femininity, companionship and sex. I’m not a chad by any means, but from my (limited) experience, it’s much less of a headache and more sustainable to be with your looksmatch or a point below
I wish there was a personalitymaxxing blue box. For nuerodivergent people , overcoming their weaknesses gives them an edge. They just have to have the potential to do it. EX: ADHD , anxiety , autism , dark triad etc....
Can you personalitymaxx? A sperg can learn to mask better but masking results in being awkward and exhausted. Eventually you burn out trying to be NT. It's possible to improve as a non-NT but you'll never really be a NT normie.
It's challenging to generalize a large system with high levels of confident results falling in the mean...this is certainly a well designed hypothesis and while it may not capture the outcomes for an entire population it could be argued reasonably that applying the strategy would (and should) capture a positive outcome for a large pool of test subjects, so nice job and cheers
Yeah, he should add a bit of disclaimers into such videos. I mean it's obvious, that there are outliers and it's a simplification, but it would make it harder to attack.
Imho, that's the best general solutions that a guy, especially normie, may try until he's failed at those or doesn't like the results this strategy provides
well at lest he said that his theory is for neurotypical as of youa re not you are likely not even going to like those women who woud like you if you are considered a chad or looksmax by his recipe
If you just want a casual fun and are not good looking, there is nothing wrong with paying for casual fun. The game guys hate on it because they know it is a far superior system to their pickup artistry nonsense (also they lose out on sales for their dumb courses) . Making more money is far easier and more effecient for non-Chads than the pickup nonsense
It’s not that easy for me. It’s illegal in the US and most girls who do this stuff aren’t the type of girls I want. I’ve heard of scams like them not looking like the photos or worse and undercover police stories. Plus it’s not really the same as having someone who’s actually into it
Valid, aso be careful about who you share this info with. If your buds don't make a lot of money they will become jealous little b**ches saying dumb crap like I don't believe in that yada yada or some dumb. No, you just broke and can't afford to pay the game.
@@KurokamiNajimi well yeah weed was illegal in the all USA for a long time and people went out of their way to buy it and smoke it. You’ll also run into the scam/fake photo thing on dating apps. I’ve had hookers who were into it when I saw them, but yes most won’t be. Once you do it several times it’s a 1-2-3 step process with guaranteed results for time you do it
@@Thiccness_Is_Delicious Than why don't just lay into your grave? In that perspective all life is waste of time because at the end we all meet the same fate.
Money is cope. You can never be certain you were her first flr starters. You can have all the money in the world but a Chad can walk up to you one day and say 'I have been inside your wife'.
Why anyone would want to jump through all of these hoops just to get a girl that will leave you in 10 years any way is beyond me. Meanwhile they just have to exist and not be obese...
@@deantrail6789 Not necessarily, I had to look up that acronym. But yikes, that seems really toxic (from what I read on Wikipedia). Some people may dislike/avoid dating for other reasons. So no, hard disagree on that.
Best thing a "sub 5" or "short guy" or whatever can do is become funny or famous. Being short and ugly doesn't prevent you from making money, learning a skill or making people laugh. Keep up the good work kings
@@alblunt9306 You're right. If you're sub 5 you need to work harder than anyone you know in order to have a chance. When you achieve a family then you need to put a lot of effort into your childs development
I'm from Europe, I get 0 match on tinder usually or maybe once every 2 month, but it's probably an error because they never respond. I went to Singapore for a few days for work, I tried tinder here just to see, I put the range to the max and I got multiples matches every single day, from Malaysian, Indonesian, Thai and Filipino women. I know they wanted me to get them out of their misery, but I think it's a great deal. It's a transaction.
Idk why these videos are so interesting to me as I've been married for 6 years but they are. In the terms I've learned from your videos I'll state that when I was single, I was a normie with a bit of looksmaxxing, I had a lot of success with online because it was fresh and new due to having just came out, but my primary dating strategy was warm approaches as I was in college and participated in a lot of different groups as well as having friend groups from the dorms. However I met my now wife with a cold approach at a camping event with an interstate Christian organization. So my path diverged from this chart some. Taking in the fact that I'm far from neurotypical I actually skipped a lot of steps, because I was dirt broke all through college and I actually dropped out and didn't moneymaxx. Feels really funny to say it in these "blackpill" terms.
Marriages last 7 to 9 years the seven-year itch comes for the woman that's when she cheats check her phone it's always in her phone bro do not marry do not have children do not cohabitate every second of every day a woman is looking to upgrade to a bigger and better deal until the day she takes her last breath
Married boy here too. Red pill and black pill made become more social person. BLack pill made me feel good for not being single. I could imagine how terribe the dating scene can be.
@@TuscanBrick well right away sold my soul to be a state worker at a prison, then I joined the army, then I worked for Satan himself (federal government at yet another prison), and after tiring from negative authoritarian environments I took hard labor jobs that paid well, and now finally I'm working on removing my self from the employee pool for good as a first generation farmer. Trying to become self sustaining and all that jazz. It's going well. Got 3 kids, some dairy goats and some chickens on some land just outside my hometown of all places I thought I'd never be.
@@BandoDNC That's awesome, what sort of Christian camp did you meet your wife at? This is how my Aunt and Uncle met before they died and they had a great marriage.
An additional note about going abroad. It's not only that standards for men are lower, but women in those countries are much less likely to be damaged. In America, maybe 1 out of every 500 women is marriage material. In SEA where casual sex is frowned upon, you can start out with a pool of around half the women not being damaged. If you "settle" for a 4/10 or 5/10 woman that's a good wife, it'll definitely be better than even if you're able to get a 7/10 American woman with a body count of 300.
Social Circle is HUGELY understated in dating self help, but is often underplayed for other options such as online dating / day game, which are far far far less effective. I've slept with women in my social circles in the past just based on proximity, nothing else. You go out with your friends, you get to know each to other, party/get drunk and end up hooking up just by nature of "I trust him and he is normal looking and a normal person and I'm horny now".
This strategy works for high tier normies and up only, as a sub5/low tier normie I've spent plenty of time around women in warm environments and nothing ever happens. You get to watch other people hook up and it makes you sick.
@@Krelian4400 Don't let it make you feel sick. It is what it is, she not interested. Don't hate on him, don't hate on her. Drop that hate, envy and jealousy, those things don't bring you anything good, just makes you a toxic loser. Keep your spirit up, be happy, and don't let things make you feel bad.
Damn, was that a little shade thrown at Hamza? Lol. Also, you don’t have to be Sub5 to find life fulfillment outside of dating. Normies and Chads will find that is also the best option for happiness by and large! Women are like Wild Horses, and unless you are fully equipped to tame her, not only with your physical aesthetics but Mentally and financially, I suggest you stay out of LTR’s and just date casually!
@@father5946 He is correct in doing so. WW are severely OVERRATED. And if they were ignored more. Their egos would come crashing back down to earth. But you can't do it can you. So the GAMES will continue.
This is actually very accurate. I fell into the Chad > Relationship category and came to the same conclusion a while back. I ran out of girls in my social circles and started just going to coffeeshops to hit on girls, or work on things (software engineer) Worked well. Solid flowchart!
@@DennisDuda I am 7/10 and around Six Feet (Tall in my country). Had attention from plenty of girl. The reason I watch these kind of videos is I am a socially inept lonely guy with zero friend. This is the type of place I like to hang out in.
@@DennisDuda because believe it or not being a chad doesn't automatically give you dating success. there's plenty of low-quality women out there, and high-quality women are even rarer than chads.
Sub 5 here. I tried finding fulfilment outside happiness. It does temporarily. But when the pain of loneliness hits, it hurts alot physically and mentally. But this is the reality for a sub 5. I would say, sub 5s should learn to swallow the fact that loneliness, pain and misery will be permanently be a major part of our lives.
Why don’t you move to a Muslim country where things will be easier? I assume you are an Arab living in a western country? You are lucky in a way because a European sub 5 may not want to go abroad to say Thailand and marry a Thai girl with a different culture ethnicity etc. But you can go to a country with the same people and religion as you that you speak the language of and understand etc. And you could money maxx them. Also standards will be way less high in say Iraq. And you can work online
Surgery is also an option btw. So basically focus on moneymaxxing and geomaxxing Make an online business, then relocate to a poorer country with a similar people eg Iraq Egypt etc, get surgery in Turkey to max your looks using the money you make , I think surgery will always be able to bring you to normie tier unless you have a severe facial deformity or are under 5’6” But if you are that short then move to a country where 5’6” is average height Like Malaysia
@@punishedgloyperstormtroope8098 avg height is less on those countries but there is no concept of dating in 3Rd world countries...they prefer arrange marriage within the same ethnicity
@@punishedgloyperstormtroope8098 europe is a shithole. Full of Western women who are feminists. I am not from Europe and neither am I Arab. Im an Asian from an Asian country which happens to be one of the richest nations in the world too. Unfortunately, women here in my country have consumed the feminist crap from the West too.
I feel like the worth of game, fashion, a good body, a career, ambition, etc., has plummeted so much in the last few years. After having no results over and over, when I used to have results before, it makes me feel quite pessimistic, and even antagonistic towards the idea of women liking me after e.g. "moneymaxxing".
Take a peak into r/blantantmisogyny, there's entire threads around wheat waffles and how much they hate him and his content. They are mad people are catching on and being to plot data based around it. (Also being able to provide strategies around how to go about the vast majority of situation in an easily digestable format.)
I swear reddit feminists are the worst. They are so narrow minded, they don't even want to watch 2 videos of this channel fully without prejudice. They see blackpill and incel, and think school shooters. Or hate. I bet most of the hate from people in these communities is because no amount of attention is given to their problems. They can easily talk to 10 guys at once, without a sweat, and think we are really doing something wrong to not be getting the same attention. But average to below average men are left in the dust, to fend for themselves. Nobody gives a fuck, and you are shamed for believing the blackpill and trying to looksmax.
@@BlackHole-qv5no Ladies are not interested for men to know the truth of blackpill, who will provide with money, beta-orbit, and simp? If all men know the truth, they will fill up gyms to the fullest, empty iHerb and Vitacost online shops, dress to impress, then choice will be hard to make. yet so far competition among men is more or less acceptable. We see a lot of obese, lazy, ugly men on the streets, teenage boys are smoking and drinking alcohol, having no idea that it stops height growth. In my city it is enough for a man to wear a Zara shirt, belt, jeans get some Tom Ford perfume and ladies will get melted in front of him.
I am guy from SEA. About 7/10 and around Six Feet. I often got attention from women in school. But I just wanted to marry a good virgin girl who had a selfless heart and could love me for who I am. Unfortunately such relationship is impossible in such day and age. So I have given up on dating. Instead I focusing on pursuing my goals and passion.
On Reddit there have been recent threads on r/Tinder and r/Hinge and r/Swiperhelper from bluepilled Indian guys who are like "Hey has anyone else noticed that things are different? I haven't changed in fact I've gotten better photos! But I'm getting nothing. Anyone else having issues?". It's popping up more and more because things are basically open in America/Europe and ppl are trying to date again. But ofc the typical(but not TOO typical) Reddit respsonses were popping up like "Bro you look great! Idk what's happening!" or "If HE can't get matches then we're all doomed!". Hahah so funny...But in reality the reality is forcing its way onto Reddit because here were numerous comments mentioning 'blackpill' and 'jbw'. And even though the replies would be like "what's that?", the explanations were NOT getting downvoted. Which is good.
This video is the best male improvement I have seen. Should get over million views. Great work. Your content has really come of age. Approaching 100k subs, congrads on your success.
So that's why. The fact I have autism and not much money makes me useless even when I'm above average, and I should give up. I kind of expected that tho I hoped I was wrong.
This is very good advice, I live on an island of 20k people, mode of which are elder because it's very expensive here. My only options are interns which cycle out every year, and forces me to be stuck I'm short term relationships, which is why I stopped dating them because I want a long term. So I've been money maxing by learning new skills, but I'm 35years old, so feel like I should let go of hope at this point most of the time.
Going abroad in poorer country to find someone who likes your money is one of the worst advice one could give. Like, go abroad if you have the means to do it regardless, but going abroad with this expectation is sad and potentially dangerous
This is the only time in history where a man would expect that a woman would not want to be with him because of his resources. What is this like me for me generation didn't even make sense. That is the big problem in the old times you had to actually produce in order to get a chance to have someone.
Two things that are overlooked when it comes to physical attraction: 1. Your voice 2. Your skeleton Let me explain point 2. The average wrist size of a man is indicative of his overall bone thickness and his natural musculature. The average wrist size of a man is 7.25 inches. A man with 8 inch wrists doesn't need to have muscles. He will naturally be huge. Even if he is short. He will be a tank. A man with 6 inch wrists will always look like a teenager at best even if he goes to the gym and packs on muscle. If he is tall he will ALWAYS look lanky no matter what. I believe height is not the biggest factor but very often those who are shorter will tend to have a smaller build. i.e majority of shortcels are also framecels/wristcels. My father and I are of the same height, we look similar facially, I am in much better shape, but he mogs me because his voice is very deep and he has a much thicker build (his wrists are probably about average.) I see so many people on the daily as part of my work and many couples. Vast majority of these men are not regular gym goers. Why would they be when they are naturally big-bodied and masculine? The difference between a big cut guy and a big out of shape guy is minimal it really is of little consequence. Even the men with pot-bellies seem to be doing fine. Only if very obese and gross will this become a hindrance in your dating life.
I have a 6 inchs wrist and 5'9, but with broad shoulders and a above average neck (17 inchs). People in society don't see me as a teenager and it's clear to me because of the way that i'am treated.
A more suitable word to replace skeleton is silloutte. You actually don't even need to be physically fit in order to have a silloutte that is attractive to women. The sad reality is that you could be 5'9 and in tremendous physical shape, but your silloutte might still not command presence. While on the contrary, a 6'1 washed up out of shape ex high school football player guy who cant do 2 pulls or run 1 lap can in many cases have a silloutte that attracts women. It truly is amazing how much broad shoulders, and a thick neck matter.
I don't believe in giving up. At this time, I've tried my luck a lot but I'm not a neurotypical so I can waive rejections off. I also had successful one day stands and a relationship.
Thank you so much for thist video. I've spent the last few years of my life juggling the possibilities I had in my mind without being able to form a clear picture and you just laid it all out in such a rational and well structured way it's scary. Also, considering money and neurotype in the picture is such a fundamental part of the process that's often left out.
I mean I kinda did, not necessarily over im at a point of just enjoying hobbies as sub 5 because I didn't meet the criteria in terms of money, looks, asperger and sub5.
Big fan and congrats on another thorough, well explained video which I’m sure will be a hit! Just a quick thing I noticed which I disagree on. The box concerning “are you neurotypical?” At 2:14 you’ve mentioned people with personality disorders and learning difficulties being sent back to the sub-5 path. If you look at personality disorders and what they entail, specifically the cluster B category like your ASPDS, BPDS, HPDS, then by default this should theoretically give those inflicted with them an advantage over neurotypicals. Hear me out, cluster bs are known to have many negative traits as well as some positive which help out massively in attracting and dating. 2 specific traits are superficial charm and lack of/no remorse. This is massively helps those with attraction and dating as a whole as they are often seen as innately witty and charming. This is especially more clear when paired when dark triad traits like narcissism and Machiavellianism. Maybe trying to achieve high functionality for those inflicted with these disorders may be a better approach as opposed to setting them back a tier. This doesn’t apply to everyone with cluster b PDs, however it is a norm to have these traits. Plus, some folks with ADHD, when utilised correctly may come across as “fun” or “happy go-lucky” which also helps as attractors in dating. Food for thought I guess. Being neurotypical is often overrated and seen as plain and boring. Almost NPC like and imo those disordered folks “just have that something about them”.
What would you say about not having a "normal" character/personality? For example I'm very logical, goal oriented, introverted and tend to ignore small talk (INTJ if you know anything about MBTI).
Seems a bit niche mate if you ask me. Girls wanna be entertained and want to have a fun time when with you. Sadly, being extroverted would be ideal. Unless you go for a sort of opposites attract and go for a girl whose extroverted and so on. When you’re dating your in competition with other dudes and your girlfriends friends boyfriends so beats me.
True stuff! Think Russell Brand might be an exceptional case. I believe depending on how it’s utilised things like ADHD and personality disorders might actually give you an upper hand; at least in the short term side of dating/ONS.
For sure! You can develop a persona which can help but personas are fake and are seen as masks. Your personality is more or less set in stone and will soon show as true in the long run. You can only keep up a facade for so long unless you got some Split personality action going on.
I watch these for entertainment but I realized a long time ago that taking advice from anyone on how to be attractive is not going to help. Everyone knows getting in shape, staying clean cut, and eating healthy will make you more attractive. Everyone knows if you are successful or have money you’ll have more confidence… nofap is one thing that can help that people doubt works because they are too lazy to try it for a week or 2 but other than that, everyone knows how to be more attractive. I gained a lot more attention from girls once I stopped putting other guys on a pedestal and thinking they are better than me… the moment you take advice from someone else like this, you become a beta male, but once you think you are more valuable than other men, you realize you wouldn’t want to take advice from someone who is below you in value. I put nobody on a pedestal, I don’t care how famous, rich, etc they are.
@@ishidacoolp that’s why I think it is weak to pay to be rated by a guy. You could always get rated by women for free. It’s gay to have a guy rate you. I’m straight and don’t care if men are attracted to me.
Great video Wheat, thumbs up! As someone who has met exactly 22 different girls from various Online Dating Apps such as Tinder, Lovoo and Bumble, I can only give you guys one solid advice: be direct and take them home at least during the second date. If you wait too long, it's basically over, especially for those Online Dating App girls who just use those apps for plain fun and hookups. Don't be dumb like me and take them to bars or fancy restaurants where you talk to them. They are NOT interested in those activities at all. They just want a quick hookup and that's it. None of them was interested in a stable long term relationship because they could find this through their friends or in their daily life. There is no need to use Apps for this. Trust me, it's just a waste of time and money. Meet them for the first date in a park, have a short walk and drink a coffee etc. Then, you should definitely start analyzing their behavior. If they aren't flirty or if you think that they aren't interested in more (e.g. they don't ask much and just respond) just tell them that you need to go and move on. It's a waste of time if they aren't interested in more than just plain friendship. Another thing to have in mind is the fact that you're instantly out of their mind if you are too timid or too "shy". And shy doesn't mean that you aren't able to talk to them, it means that you aren't initiating physical contact e.g. kissing them or touching them. That's the best advice I can give you if you want success with Online Dating. They don't want a nice dude, who is polite, well dressed and has a nice job + treats them well and not just like a random call girl. They are just interested in a good hookup and that's it. That was my biggest mistake. I didn't want to be needy and never flirted or initiated physical contact during my first date. Biggest mistake of my life. I could have taken at least 10 of them home, maybe even more if I would have been more direct.
I agree. I dated this one beautiful girl who went out on four dates with me and I never touched her. No wonder she put me in friend zone eventually. In fact, she hated me for not touching her
I’m a normie however I just don’t care anymore about getting women. I’ve accepted the fact that I’m not attractive enough to attract most women nowadays. I’m just focusing on improving myself in other areas of my life that will be more profitable in the long run.
guys don't think you will never ever get a girl just cuz you don't look average or above, it really matters how you handle it (I mean if you will just sit there and cry or get your ass up and be confident af) cuz I know people that look extremely handsome, however don't get bitches in comparison to myself who has a girlfriend as an overweight guy. The important difference is my appearance in front of girls
Guys whatever situation you’re in stop being a victim yall can do it men have to suffer and get over their problems you’re built to defeat the problems it’s in your DNA don’t loose hope and try your fucking hardest
I like that the video got to the same conclusion I did 12 years ago with "find interest elsewhere." What a time saver you took that path first! Thank you!
Don't buy into all this stupid Internet Bulls**t. I am not really good looking, rather Sub5 than normal, got all kinds of psychological Issues and don't have any real Money. Just some Basic income, and sometimes not even that. And still I dated a lot of Women over the last 15 Years, had almost always a Girlfriend, most of them were hot as f**k. Also i am in a relationship for the last 5 Years that working out very good. Hitting the Gym ist generally a good advice, don't do steroids and stop watching idiotic UA-cam content. Go out in to the Park.
yep, I agree on travel maxxing. I traveled a lot over the years and got the most attention from girls in general (18-40 abroad, 3-8 in rating) while abroad. I spent most time in Eastern Europe and learning some of the local language makes you stand out from the average foreigner. I met many english teachers or other girls that had a good knowledge of English in even more remote regions there lol I consider myself normie though. Smaller cities are better for dating than capitals though bc they are used to foreigners there.
I think the 200k + 25k surplus a year should change to 2mill + own a home fully paid off and 200k surplus a year to be realistic. I've never met a girl in the west who was impressed by a mere 200k with a 20k surplus a year, that shit is like mandatory.
You should check out Jacked and Stacked channel too. He's more positive and works on solutions and improvement. Not just the doomer type of black pill.
Max out your looks and travel abroad, sure, especially if you’re between tiers. But the most important long term thing you can do (both to get a mate and for your own personal benefit and happiness) is to become successful and build wealth. Most average women will date a Chad but literally any woman (even the 10’s) would marry Bezos or Musk. Success and wealth is the only thing that truly transcends looks in dating.
I dont think relocating to a larger city is better for finding a girlfriend/wife. Women in bigger cities tend to be more hypergamic and less traditional than the ones in smaller places
I hope ya all understand that this is insane ... No reason to bother with all this. Live life the best you can, it's enough. There are so many things that can fulfill you, truly, there is no reason to be bothered with all this. As long as you exercise regularly and eat healthily you are ok. If women don't care about you then that is fine as well.
I think Wheat forgot to mention one very important thing that applies to his entire chart: LUCK. I believe there is a bit of fate when it comes to dating overall. You can put in all the effort in the world but be in the wrong place at the wrong time and it won't work out (at least at that moment in time). I also think that this chart is a bit too idealistic. It's great to have all these detailed plans laid out, but people's lives and circumstances are so complex that no two people of the same looks tier and intentions can follow the exact same chart path. You can be sent all over the chart regardless what you look like
You left out the option of 'dating average-below average women'. As a 5'5" 'normie' who isn't rich, I can still make a date a week off dating apps, get laid an average of 1-2 times a month, and have relationships if I choose. The thing is, that these will exclusively be overweight and/or single moms and/or over 35 years old. Just because you can't get pretty thin 20-somethings doesn't mean you have to be alone for your entire life.
"Find life fulfilment outside of dating" = It's over
DATING.
It's not over. Wheat Waffles is missing the Godmaxx box. God may actually send you a non-ugly female if you repent and go the marriage by sacrament route. There is a large population of women desperate to find a Godmaxx'ed man.
Never loose hope
@@dedasalmeida9047 There is no hope for any of us.
@@rafaelpais970 I have a girlfriend ...maybe I'm speaking of a light Tyrone viewpoint but if you think it's already over, go on and focus on your hobbies and passions ...better be happy doing what you like than recovering from a rejection like a man...
Women who wanna date: "Just go on tinder"
Men who wanna date: "Just go to SEA" 🤡
I’m proud to say I’ve achieved a tier well above Sub 5, Normie and Chad. A tier that puts the typical 3 to absolute shame: The Morbie. Also known as the Morbius Male, Morbies completely dominate the competition. With a body count and dating record of over a morbillion, the Morbie can charm any girl with the utterance of these magic words: “it’s Morbin time”.
You bad movie shitposters make me proud. You're big guys, all of you.
mighty morbin lady slayers
I realize this post is probably a joke, but for the ones that are serious. You guys are starting to sound like these crazy pronoun leftists identifying as they them theirs. and ze zem zer. I just want to you acknowledge the irony.
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@@FedeArgentina if you don't know about the Morbius memes you won't get it
You forgot to say, If you travel where dating is easier you must stay there and don't bring the girl to where you are at a disadvantage.
The girl will have to stay near their parents when they gets old. It's how it works in those countries.
This. I've seen this way too many times. The guys bring these girls over and they are gone the moment they no longer need him to stay there.
Have a fulfilling life outside of dating is something you should do regardless of what category you are in.
If u dont do so, u gonna regret watchin these kind of videos
Honestly it still Sounds Like the best Option for me
Cope.
Hobbies/career etc are just a pathetic cope for people who can't slay😂
@@behindyou529you won't have a good relationship if all you are into is that person
You don't understand 2 things: 1) This is a video about "what you should do in your dating life," not "what you should do in your overall life." 2) Saying to have a fulfilling life outside of dating, within this context, is nothing more than the nicest, most diplomatic way to say "you cannot date, likely won't ever date, so don't even try because your odds are highest when it's blind, random chance."
This beats all the "being alpha is a mindset" and vague self improvement advice the RP gives you. I think this might be the most comprehensive, practical and down to earth guide, an actual PLAN. Although it's not perfect it's not full proof, it's infinitely better than no plan at all. Thanks Wheat.
Buy my alpha mindset book now! Invest in my crypto coins even though I'm a low inhib dating guru and know absolutely nothing. Buy it all now! The only thing this video is selling to us are straight facts and an actual plan of action.
*fool proof
What about AMS?
The alpha mindset is not accepted by others when it comes from men without the looks to back it up.
@@zimdollar3229 based and goated
"Improve Social Circle" should be a step for most normies and chads.
If you don't have enough high-quality women in your periphery, then you should at least try to become friendly with guys (of a similar tier) who do. The women in your circle don't need to be single or straight, as they will try to introduce you to their female friends.
It's a form of networking. Acquire new male friends -> meet their gfs / women that they interact with -> meet female friends of those women.
Fuck
Jfl if you think male friends will let u around their gf
easier said than done. most men have no friends irl
@@BenjaminBotwe1999 yes i am close with my male friends gf. in fact someone in our friend circle actually started dating a guys gf's best friend as she put in a good word for him lol. if you cant trust your friends around your gf then why are you friends in the first place? true friendship is all about trust and loyalty and having each others backs and having the bro code. yes some ppl are snakes in the world but why hang out with those kinds of ppl?
how do you think this shit works lmao
like people just come and say "hurr durr well meet new people bottom text" meet them where? most people already have friends and dont want a randok stranger approaching them, it isnt that simple especially for us in small towns
sub5 is living life at max difficulty
It didnt take me long to figure out that dating was not for me (Sub5 who is South Asian and 5'5''). I am into religion and now I am a monk living in a monastery and I am happy with it.
King Shit keep at it you'll always be a monk not a sub 5 🤝
@@eric6rock Yes brother. As the Buddha says, attachment leads to suffering. I am trying to let go of my attachments.
@@kiribertiefandango9807 🙏
God reveres the piety.
@@isaacfaith9369 Thanks (even though Buddhism is a non-theistic religion).
Women dating strategy : Just exist!
Men dating strategy : this video!
love your channel name. Very apt and amusing.
Women's dating strategy is finding a good match out of a sea filled with shit.
I mean, if you're a woman over 35, you start to summon the hoe_math "not people" sticker pretty quick.
😭😭
Everybody gangsta till Wheat Waffles busts out the flow chart
I have watched all your video and came to the concusion that all three "pills" have marred:
Looks are the most important thing - Support that 100% in this day and age. (Black pill)
Game/ Charisma is not only needed for getting into a relationship but to keep it! (Red pill)
And last but not least... You need a little luck in life! Right place, right time. (Blue pill)
You don't need any luck or timing if youre a chad. Create a tinder account anywhere and you'll get 100+ weekly options everywhere
@@NinjaKiller999 So what? Who gives a fuck if other people get 100 matches a day? Don´t let envy poisen your mind.
@@NinjaKiller999 learn to use photoshop damn it and use decent camera. any shmuck can be a gigachad today.
@@NinjaKiller999 Lets be honest, Chad won at the game when he was conceived. He won the lottery right then and there.
@@centralintelligenceagency9003 stop idolising ur chad god lol and focus on urself
This was 100 times better than the generic red-pill advice of getting money, getting ripped and "holding frame". It all boils down to looks. First and foremost, you need to evaluate whether or not you're a sub5, normie, chad-lite, or chad. All your realistic dating options flow from there. Great vid!
Frame is cope though. Nobody can act like tony soprano 24/7.
It does not all boils down to looks even the video itself covers this by mentioning daygame and stuff.
Looks help a lot, but you'll still have a hard time if you're a good looking potato, and even ugly guys can reach way above their league by having good game. I've seen this is practice many times.
You have to improve wherever you can.
How does one know what they are if they feel they could be either a sub 5 or Normy. Purchase the Fiverr service? I think I am the lowest tier Normy. A 5.
@@lucasbrant9856 cope
Never heard of Chad kite before
I have been married for 15 years. I met my wife in philosophy class in Uni where I debated the professor as a first year in front of 200 students. She came up to me and we started to talk. This was in 2007. Back in the day, these dating apps and overcomlpication of dating did not exist. I find it very interesting how dating has evolved, and I think this channel gives the necessary advice for young men to be able to navigate in this moral abyss. You guys are the true heroes of this age, society and the manipulated dating life raises such obstacles in front of young people with good will that no other generation had to face. The wretched dragon has grown too many heads, and you can only slay it with the mighty sword of sharp reason. Stay strong, keep a clear mind, work on yourselves, don't give up hope, and free your princess. Help will come. I follow this channel with great interest, thanks for the quality of work you are putting in for the benefit of everyone.
It hasn't evolved, it's devolved.
There’s no sword big enough to slay this dragon. It’s over
Im married for 12 years. Met my wife back in 08. Back then i use them confident and cocky approach and other PUA shit. I still used them now for light flirting. I only realized after these years that it was effective because i'm decent looking.
@@ImMakEiTNasty
Speak for yourself. There are STILL alot of nice women out there. But they aren't 7 plus so you don't want them. Everything comes with a PRICE. The more in demand a woman is. The less reason she has to be nice. The same way most very goodlooking men are complete bastards. When you get something EASY. You seldom appreciate it. You guys never stop to think about that.
My father keeps asking me when i will have a girlfriend, as a 5'4 normie never! Every time i tink about this i come to the conclusion of eighter he is completely not awere of this generation or he just likes to remember me what kinde of a failure i am. Your understanding comment had me thinking about this again and i wish he had your insight a little bit and leave me alone.
I seriously almost spit my drink when he said “do you have money?” LOL, that means it’s already game over for 90% of the guys who are falling into that box.
What do you mean ? Just have 200k on the side bro 🤡
@@Neucher as difficult as that may sound, it's accurate, having 200k on the side will definitely boost your game, and even sub 5 guys can satiate their needs with escorts if they have money
@@mattllaves 200k on side with 30k average yearly income in the country - you will be like 50 by that time
Hard to swallow but honest
This is such a well brilliant done video. Wheaty is definitely the best black pill content creator right now
He has dethroned LMS, IncelTV and Tails.
@@friedrichschnobel4000 I love his approach. He's realistic, honest and offers solutions also.
@@friedrichschnobel4000
Face doesn't even compete anymore. I think he deleted himself. The other guys just have a completely different style. Tails doesn't even talk. Incel TV talks but he doesn't use diagrams; but you've got to hand it to the guy, he just shows you a burning car and makes you listen to him because his words are so damned poignant. Incel TV is also the most loyal to the blackpill. He's not a little red or a little black. He's totally blackpilled.
No lord bog is the best blackpiller youtuber
@@tomy6078 ill check him out. I relate to wheaty alot though.
FEET/INCHES TO CM:
5 feet 5 in 65 in 165.1 cm 1.65 m
5 feet 6 in 66 in 167.64 cm 1.68 m
5 feet 7 in 67 in 170.18 cm 1.7 m
5 feet 8 in 68 in 172.72 cm 1.73 m
5 feet 9 in 69 in 175.26 cm 1.75 m
5 feet 10 in 70 in 177.8 cm 1.78 m
5 feet 11 in 71 in 180.34 cm 1.8 m
6 feet 72 in 182.88 cm 1.83 m
6 feet 1 in 73 in 185.42 cm 1.85 m
6 feet 2 in 74 in 187.96 cm 1.88 m
6 feet 3 in 75 in 190.5 cm 1.91 m
Just in case anybody doesnt have a clue of wtf is 5.6, as I did cuz im from Spain lol.
This table is bruuuutaaal if you are 5'4 and below LMAO
@@wamxfl1p653 so according to blackpill if u 5,4 or blw u fuckd bro hahaha
Lol, I thought I was 5'7, but um actually 5'9. Thank god.
@@oimctv3642 gotcha my guy
@@oimctv3642 i thought i was 5'5 but I'm actually 5'7-8 and I'm so happy to find out lol😂
Find life fulfillment outside of dating is the road I knew I would have to go down many years ago. For anyone who has just found out this reality, I promise it will get easier. You will have to go through the five stages of grief because accepting the reality that dating for you is over is going to be a life-changing realisation that will have you grieve but the pain will pass and it will get better.
There are always escorts to provide the occasional relief right?
It's not over for many people, it's just very ineffective.
I occasionally sat in dating websites for the last 20 years, and I got some fun from it, but it was worth it only in terms of fun experience, not sex counter. There are better, faster and cheaper options. And yeah, getting so little responses made me think someone has it all, and I was right.
I knew a guy who boasted he banged 200 women in 5 years of something like that. Now pay 100$ for each, and you get 20k for that. Also keep in mind he didn't bang only 7-10. You can definitely earn those money in that time and even more. But if that what you want, or you want relationships.
Males want recognition from females more than anything to feel high in value. Sex is actually pretty cheap and affordable. It's realizing how low your sex market value is what jagging and keeps hooked pursuing women, hoping to prove otherwise, and it was a mistake.
It's discouraging, as it's something we were given, being not equal, and is hard to fix. Especially since you live in illusions till 15 or 20, and then reality hits you in the face, that you're useless and not needed by women.
never date where you work. Warm approach applies to the situation: local area or community families that know each other, local village neighbours, Father's friends daughter, etc.
I think the best attitude towards dating is to forget about it, if you are blackpilled and believe that 99 percent of women will not be the one for you, then you can easily go through life not giving a shit about trying to please women in any way, u can actually just be yourself. I think this is more important than being in a relationship, being yourself and feeling free and invincible. I think thats what blackpill can get you. Yes, a 99 percent loss of hope, but a 999 % increase in your quality of life.
But what about coochie
Because people feel lonely without a partner, I guess.
@@yolenda_loves_to_sing ua-cam.com/video/bKISTUr_vig/v-deo.html
@AtheJbaka Stop killing people my man let them cope.
@AtheJbaka the one u cant access
Females of any species are designed to choose the best possible males, which benefits their children. Our descendants will become taller and more attractive on average because of them.
Precisely Males are disposable natural selection doesn't care if most males die virgins. BRUTAL
You are right, but there's a problem: since women began to put height above all else, including intelligence, we are seeing new gen becoming taller, indeed, but dumber and dumber... 😂
@@graig578 of course
@@marmotacascuda4440 humans should become dumber so other animals can actually survive
Based. The next generations will be better looking and taller. I am already even noticing this. I can't hate them for it.
I couldn’t help but laugh during this video, its so mathematical but yet so accurate.
Women have turned dating into rocket science.
@@jokerpilled2535
No men just got LAZY.
@@fender1000100 nah most men nowadays gymmaxx and go above and beyond what they need to do in order to secure 🐱, boomers never had to exert this much effort to get a partner.
@@jokerpilled2535
You have to be kidding the number of guys who are in shape out there Is pathetic. I'm 57 and still have a 6 pack. It can get embarrassing. If I go shirtless. I will mog most of the men out there young enough to be my grandsons. And have girls they should be getting smiling at me. Because they don't realise how old I am looking like I do
Too many young men today are lazy and can't put the game console down long enough to do anything else. They are either too skinny or too fat. Then wonder why the guys in shape are cleaning house.
It's nature. Women want fit virile men. Not string beans or Johnny fat boys.
When you are in top shape. Everything will look its best. Your face, your posture and your presence.
A woman once told me one of the biggest turn ons is a guy with a good shoulder to waist differential. Women notice this IMMEDIATELY. And it can often make up for a lack of facial looks. This is how alot of average looking black guys get women out of their league. BODY GAME. I've been using it for 30 years. If you have the right proportions. You can be 5 8" and still get alot of women wanting you.
@@jokerpilled2535 fr
The problem with warm approach is if it goes south in any way, you jeopardize the environment that made the connection possible.
You can only use the warm approach if you literally do not care about your circle.
Nah that is not true at all. It only is a problem if you are asking out literally every women in your circle. If you ask at one and get turned down, most women will vault that and not torpedo you. Most decent looking women have the "you shoot your shot" attitude as long as you are not creepy.
.. gdamn.. i feel for the young guys out there… i’m 48… and luckily, dodged all of this bullshit that has been created via dating aps/social media/etc…when i look back at my dating history, there is NO chance i would have been as successful, had i grown up in this day and age… best of luck to u guys… and .. great video…
Same here, although I'm a little younger (just turned 40), but I'm just old enough to remember when it still wasn't so bad.
thank you cosmo
Has a sub 5 myself I recommend finding fulfillment outside of dating
Find hobbies and passion
Doing stuff you like will make you feel better and positive and if women ever notice you they’ll feel that energy coming from you although that doesn’t mean anything but being good around people makes you better than an angry incel
This tbh. Maintaining your dignity is huge
I just yugimax
Pain Uchila cope
@@Pennywise467 but it’s a healthy way of coping tho. Better than being angry on the internet like a fool
What he fails to mention in the video is that almost everything a girlfriend can give you can be had with a supportive group of close friends. A successful relationship is also a commitment and requires many sacrifices that will make you uncomfortable and it takes away a lot of your freedom. Blackpillers present women like some prize which you must acquire to be a real man but in reality, being in a relationship is more like having a really close friend that you also get to fuck. It's really not necessary for a happy life, this is true for many chads too, that's why so many of them only focus on hookups.
Sex is nice, but it shouldn't be your life goal. If you lack supportive friends then this is the first thing you should focus on
I knew where I was before I watched this video and the chart has put me exactly where I thought I would be. Good video.
There is a 4th reason why warm approaches are good: A person in your friend network has a reputation to uphold This will cause her to practice self-restraint in how she treats you. She is less likely to behave in an exploitative way, because this will damage her own reputation.
that's 2 edged sword. she may refuse interaction or sex precisely to retain her reputation. and she will definitely will not open herself because of fear that her secrets will spread around.
Also exploiting a man will not damage her reputation at all because it will look like you are totally OK with being exploited
@@deltaxcd also if she does have a good reputation and has decent looks, all it’s going to take is for her to say one bad thing about you (true or not) and a bunch of peoples perception about you is changed
@@ImMakEiTNasty Good point
Great flow chart. "Travel the world where dating (was) easier" is NO longer 10x better. It requires a stealth snip, pretending to put a ring on it, and fleeing before the screws get turned. The short time bar girls are low quality and it's a sausage fest. Higher value ladies are only seeking fans online and often have a husband. The first trip is often brings a false hope. Disappointment sets in quick when the lack of English, demands of extended family, and being a sugar daddy sinks in deep. Peace.
I wouldn't want to make those trips "cold" not these days. Pre internet, pre smart phones, OK.
If you carry yourself well and pick your spots there is potential.
Back before they scrubbed the internet there were sites where guys would blog about their trips. Oh the stories! Macau, superstar level, if you know you know. Now you get shaky video footage but it doesn't tell the story.
In the Phil and been here years, and mostly agree, but I think it's not quite that dire (yet), although it's very true about having to support the family/friends of the girl.
You probably should only go to the Philippines if looking to date, it is quite easier and the girls speak English. I just did 5 months in SEA. I agree, you need to have guts to live there long term and marry there. I would not want to do this. It is fun and adventurous for a short time, but go there and get out.
@@Fighter4Street Tried that. Huge mistake as I was naive and that was years ago. They just want the green card to send money home "utang na loob" like an OFW. Met many such asawa couples. All cold bedrooms after the babies arrive. Only good for short time P4P, and that's gotten very expensive with all the neighboring competition. I wish I had better news.
Glad you made it a point to mention neurotypical vs neurodivergent. People sleep on that
An incredibly well done video, pure logic in action.
I’d only add that settling for your looksmatch or even a point or two below might not be as bad as some of you think (assuming you’re at least 5-6):
Undamaged normie tier girls > promiscuous attractive girls
Every guy should be going for his looks match. And this is the unspoken PROBLEM for most average guys. They are trying to punch above their weight. And of course most FAIL...
You all complain the so-called stacies only want the so-called chads. WELL YEAH! They want their looks match. It's only NORMAL.
If you are an average guy you get with an average woman. If you are below average you get with a below average woman. If you are above average you get with an above average woman.
This isn't ROCKET SCIENCE. Water rises to its own level. There are always exceptions of course. Due to MONEY or a quirk in a man or womans personality and life experiences.
That might make them buck the trend. But generally. Things go as they're supposed to.
"normie tier girls" - someone here still believes in them unicorns. Your typical "normie tier girl next door" has body count in triple digits, she is likely more promiscuous than attractive girls.
Yeah, that's a very valid point.
The question is i have is, if Im outearning her, outproducing her, cook/clean/etc self sufficient. I bring food, house, cars, etc.
... and she's below me or same level in looks, what is she bringing?
There is no point dating western women. Theyre leaches. And even the average ones are very frequently damaged. A girl 6 in looks, can easily get ran through by Chads - and have alpha widow mindset because of it.
Convinced she wasnt just used for a night; not even the sidepiece - below the sidepiece. But she got the "experience" and will resent a man better than her - in every way better than her - for not being the 10/10 guys she thinks she deserves.
@@APsupportsTerrorism Ideally, she should bring her femininity, companionship and sex. I’m not a chad by any means, but from my (limited) experience, it’s much less of a headache and more sustainable to be with your looksmatch or a point below
I wish there was a personalitymaxxing blue box. For nuerodivergent people , overcoming their weaknesses gives them an edge. They just have to have the potential to do it. EX: ADHD , anxiety , autism , dark triad etc....
dark triad is a plus when dating women
@@Ri-hr4uy depends on the type of girl, usually works great on the dumb ones.
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Dark triad is a plus when dating women if you are a chad
@@tochukwuifeanacho3843 it still doesn't hurt your chances as some normie
Can you personalitymaxx? A sperg can learn to mask better but masking results in being awkward and exhausted. Eventually you burn out trying to be NT. It's possible to improve as a non-NT but you'll never really be a NT normie.
Being short absolutely decimates us lol. Takes me from a high end normie to a sub 5.
Don't fret, you can date midgets.
same here, got money, good job, face and body 6/7 and still 5'6" is killing me. Only geomaxxing left but it is coping
@@karolak9983 Nah, you can do midgetmaxxing.
Move to Thailand
Same, I'm exactly 5'6 but my facial attractiveness is chad tier so I guess that knocks me down to normie tier.
It's challenging to generalize a large system with high levels of confident results falling in the mean...this is certainly a well designed hypothesis and while it may not capture the outcomes for an entire population it could be argued reasonably that applying the strategy would (and should) capture a positive outcome for a large pool of test subjects, so nice job and cheers
Yeah, he should add a bit of disclaimers into such videos. I mean it's obvious, that there are outliers and it's a simplification, but it would make it harder to attack.
Imho, that's the best general solutions that a guy, especially normie, may try until he's failed at those or doesn't like the results this strategy provides
@@sevdev9844 this is such a good way tho i found a perfect place for myself in the normie category without looksmaxxing so this helped alot
sub 5 trust fund babies become giga chads with looks maxxing plust connections. This paradigm does not apply to them.
well at lest he said that his theory is for neurotypical as of youa re not you are likely not even going to like those women who woud like you if you are considered a chad or looksmax by his recipe
If you just want a casual fun and are not good looking, there is nothing wrong with paying for casual fun. The game guys hate on it because they know it is a far superior system to their pickup artistry nonsense (also they lose out on sales for their dumb courses) . Making more money is far easier and more effecient for non-Chads than the pickup nonsense
It’s not that easy for me. It’s illegal in the US and most girls who do this stuff aren’t the type of girls I want. I’ve heard of scams like them not looking like the photos or worse and undercover police stories. Plus it’s not really the same as having someone who’s actually into it
Valid, aso be careful about who you share this info with. If your buds don't make a lot of money they will become jealous little b**ches saying dumb crap like I don't believe in that yada yada or some dumb. No, you just broke and can't afford to pay the game.
@@KurokamiNajimi well yeah weed was illegal in the all USA for a long time and people went out of their way to buy it and smoke it. You’ll also run into the scam/fake photo thing on dating apps. I’ve had hookers who were into it when I saw them, but yes most won’t be. Once you do it several times it’s a 1-2-3 step process with guaranteed results for time you do it
That's a waste of time and resources in fact it's all a waste of time and resources.
@@Thiccness_Is_Delicious Than why don't just lay into your grave? In that perspective all life is waste of time because at the end we all meet the same fate.
You should make a board game out of this 😆
I would buy it! LOL
You get to choose to play as sub 5, normie or Chad😂
@@RAIMSTER That sounds fun! But everyone would choose Chad then, haha!
@@yolenda_loves_to_sing nah boys love playing on insane difficulty mode in videogames, I’d play as sub 5😂
When younger I was a normie with learning difficulties. However that learning difficulty was completely hidden, by becoming a millionaire.
Money is cope. You can never be certain you were her first flr starters. You can have all the money in the world but a Chad can walk up to you one day and say 'I have been inside your wife'.
LOL
What's your job?
That makes so much sense Trump
Why anyone would want to jump through all of these hoops just to get a girl that will leave you in 10 years any way is beyond me. Meanwhile they just have to exist and not be obese...
Sub 5 category recommend pursuing hobbies instead of women
I miss the Sigma option: "Are you looking for a relationship?" -> "No" -> "Do you want to casually date?" -> "No" -> "Discard this flow chart"
Isn't that just MGTOW?
@@deantrail6789 Not necessarily, I had to look up that acronym. But yikes, that seems really toxic (from what I read on Wikipedia). Some people may dislike/avoid dating for other reasons. So no, hard disagree on that.
"You need to find fulfillment outside of dating" 😆
Sub 5 category recommends it.
Best thing a "sub 5" or "short guy" or whatever can do is become funny or famous. Being short and ugly doesn't prevent you from making money, learning a skill or making people laugh. Keep up the good work kings
For most men looks will have huge effect on social development inclusiveness and career advancement.
@@alblunt9306 You're right. If you're sub 5 you need to work harder than anyone you know in order to have a chance. When you achieve a family then you need to put a lot of effort into your childs development
Good lucking getting on the 1%, lmao
Exactly, sub-5 guys can also get girls if they are really good at something like music or sports and become popular.
Love the honesty and realness. Everybody deserves to win at life.
no one 'deserves' anything. no one is entitled to anything. that mindset is what will enslave us all
If they work or outsmart for it yes.
People who work hard and earn success deserve to win at life.
@@jt1559 well, you're definitely NOT winning at writing a coherent sentence
@@jt1559 reality is hardly ever fair, especially these days.
I'm from Europe, I get 0 match on tinder usually or maybe once every 2 month, but it's probably an error because they never respond.
I went to Singapore for a few days for work, I tried tinder here just to see, I put the range to the max and I got multiples matches every single day, from Malaysian, Indonesian, Thai and Filipino women. I know they wanted me to get them out of their misery, but I think it's a great deal. It's a transaction.
How to win dating game 100% guaranteed win
Step 1: don't
Idk why these videos are so interesting to me as I've been married for 6 years but they are. In the terms I've learned from your videos I'll state that when I was single, I was a normie with a bit of looksmaxxing, I had a lot of success with online because it was fresh and new due to having just came out, but my primary dating strategy was warm approaches as I was in college and participated in a lot of different groups as well as having friend groups from the dorms. However I met my now wife with a cold approach at a camping event with an interstate Christian organization. So my path diverged from this chart some. Taking in the fact that I'm far from neurotypical I actually skipped a lot of steps, because I was dirt broke all through college and I actually dropped out and didn't moneymaxx. Feels really funny to say it in these "blackpill" terms.
Marriages last 7 to 9 years the seven-year itch comes for the woman that's when she cheats check her phone it's always in her phone bro do not marry do not have children do not cohabitate every second of every day a woman is looking to upgrade to a bigger and better deal until the day she takes her last breath
Married boy here too. Red pill and black pill made become more social person. BLack pill made me feel good for not being single. I could imagine how terribe the dating scene can be.
@@TuscanBrick well right away sold my soul to be a state worker at a prison, then I joined the army, then I worked for Satan himself (federal government at yet another prison), and after tiring from negative authoritarian environments I took hard labor jobs that paid well, and now finally I'm working on removing my self from the employee pool for good as a first generation farmer. Trying to become self sustaining and all that jazz. It's going well. Got 3 kids, some dairy goats and some chickens on some land just outside my hometown of all places I thought I'd never be.
@@neutralmilkbaby oh yea I have some friends going through the Ringer still. Glad I exited that market with gains when I did lol
@@BandoDNC That's awesome, what sort of Christian camp did you meet your wife at? This is how my Aunt and Uncle met before they died and they had a great marriage.
An additional note about going abroad. It's not only that standards for men are lower, but women in those countries are much less likely to be damaged. In America, maybe 1 out of every 500 women is marriage material. In SEA where casual sex is frowned upon, you can start out with a pool of around half the women not being damaged. If you "settle" for a 4/10 or 5/10 woman that's a good wife, it'll definitely be better than even if you're able to get a 7/10 American woman with a body count of 300.
You left out the SE Asian men. Their options is “you’re screwed”.
Social Circle is HUGELY understated in dating self help, but is often underplayed for other options such as online dating / day game, which are far far far less effective. I've slept with women in my social circles in the past just based on proximity, nothing else. You go out with your friends, you get to know each to other, party/get drunk and end up hooking up just by nature of "I trust him and he is normal looking and a normal person and I'm horny now".
This is very true, you can't get women if you aren't around women. Lots of average guys get girls just because they know a lot of them.
What's the point of that. You may aswell go with a prostitute.
This strategy works for high tier normies and up only, as a sub5/low tier normie I've spent plenty of time around women in warm environments and nothing ever happens. You get to watch other people hook up and it makes you sick.
@@Krelian4400 Don't let it make you feel sick. It is what it is, she not interested. Don't hate on him, don't hate on her. Drop that hate, envy and jealousy, those things don't bring you anything good, just makes you a toxic loser. Keep your spirit up, be happy, and don't let things make you feel bad.
@@fred.flintstone4099 Or use the anger to motivate yourself to improve. That's what I'm going with.
Damn, was that a little shade thrown at Hamza? Lol.
Also, you don’t have to be Sub5 to find life fulfillment outside of dating. Normies and Chads will find that is also the best option for happiness by and large!
Women are like Wild Horses, and unless you are fully equipped to tame her, not only with your physical aesthetics but Mentally and financially, I suggest you stay out of LTR’s and just date casually!
Hamza openly trashes WW all the time so I don't blame Wheat for dishing it back
@@father5946 they’re cool but they throw shade time to time
@@father5946
He is correct in doing so. WW are severely OVERRATED. And if they were ignored more. Their egos would come crashing back down to earth. But you can't do it can you. So the GAMES will continue.
Looks like his "Just be Adonis, bro" schtick isn't working so well if he had to run of to SE Asia and geomaxx. lol
This is actually very accurate. I fell into the Chad > Relationship category and came to the same conclusion a while back. I ran out of girls in my social circles and started just going to coffeeshops to hit on girls, or work on things (software engineer)
Worked well. Solid flowchart!
Then why do you watch these kind of videos?
@@DennisDuda why not? It can be an interesting topic. I don't need any of this advice but still like the face aesthetic theories
@@DennisDuda to make you seethe
@@DennisDuda
I am 7/10 and around Six Feet (Tall in my country). Had attention from plenty of girl. The reason I watch these kind of videos is I am a socially inept lonely guy with zero friend. This is the type of place I like to hang out in.
@@DennisDuda because believe it or not being a chad doesn't automatically give you dating success. there's plenty of low-quality women out there, and high-quality women are even rarer than chads.
I like how dating got so bad, we gotta have flow charts , graphs , probability equations blah blah blah
Sub 5 here. I tried finding fulfilment outside happiness. It does temporarily. But when the pain of loneliness hits, it hurts alot physically and mentally. But this is the reality for a sub 5. I would say, sub 5s should learn to swallow the fact that loneliness, pain and misery will be permanently be a major part of our lives.
Why don’t you move to a Muslim country where things will be easier?
I assume you are an Arab living in a western country?
You are lucky in a way because a European sub 5 may not want to go abroad to say Thailand and marry a Thai girl with a different culture ethnicity etc.
But you can go to a country with the same people and religion as you that you speak the language of and understand etc.
And you could money maxx them.
Also standards will be way less high in say Iraq.
And you can work online
Religion is good to find fulfilment
Also find a hobby and craft
Surgery is also an option btw.
So basically focus on moneymaxxing and geomaxxing
Make an online business, then relocate to a poorer country with a similar people eg Iraq Egypt etc, get surgery in Turkey to max your looks using the money you make ,
I think surgery will always be able to bring you to normie tier unless you have a severe facial deformity or are under 5’6”
But if you are that short then move to a country where 5’6” is average height
Like Malaysia
@@punishedgloyperstormtroope8098 avg height is less on those countries but there is no concept of dating in 3Rd world countries...they prefer arrange marriage within the same ethnicity
@@punishedgloyperstormtroope8098 europe is a shithole. Full of Western women who are feminists. I am not from Europe and neither am I Arab. Im an Asian from an Asian country which happens to be one of the richest nations in the world too. Unfortunately, women here in my country have consumed the feminist crap from the West too.
2:56 I can't be the only one who was expecting "kys" as action box
I feel like the worth of game, fashion, a good body, a career, ambition, etc., has plummeted so much in the last few years. After having no results over and over, when I used to have results before, it makes me feel quite pessimistic, and even antagonistic towards the idea of women liking me after e.g. "moneymaxxing".
All these hoops we gotta jump through when a woman just picks up her phone and opens Tinder 🤣🤣🤣
Another option:
- Are you very feminine? Transmaxx
Just go see escorts jfl
@@xy1011 No such a thing as "having a romantic relationship with an escort"
just transmaxx because transactional sex with an escort isn't the same as having a romantic relationship. Like I said jfl
@@xy1011 Not sure if you guys get it, transmaxx means transitioning to female
Take a peak into r/blantantmisogyny, there's entire threads around wheat waffles and how much they hate him and his content. They are mad people are catching on and being to plot data based around it. (Also being able to provide strategies around how to go about the vast majority of situation in an easily digestable format.)
I swear reddit feminists are the worst. They are so narrow minded, they don't even want to watch 2 videos of this channel fully without prejudice.
They see blackpill and incel, and think school shooters. Or hate. I bet most of the hate from people in these communities is because no amount of attention is given to their problems.
They can easily talk to 10 guys at once, without a sweat, and think we are really doing something wrong to not be getting the same attention. But average to below average men are left in the dust, to fend for themselves. Nobody gives a fuck, and you are shamed for believing the blackpill and trying to looksmax.
Looked into it. Boring.
It seems to not exist
@@sevdev9844 It is literally just a circlejerk for women getting mad at guys and things like redpill and blackpill.
@@BlackHole-qv5no Ladies are not interested for men to know the truth of blackpill, who will provide with money, beta-orbit, and simp? If all men know the truth, they will fill up gyms to the fullest, empty iHerb and Vitacost online shops, dress to impress, then choice will be hard to make. yet so far competition among men is more or less acceptable. We see a lot of obese, lazy, ugly men on the streets, teenage boys are smoking and drinking alcohol, having no idea that it stops height growth. In my city it is enough for a man to wear a Zara shirt, belt, jeans get some Tom Ford perfume and ladies will get melted in front of him.
6'3" neurotypical "normie"...still avoiding dating at all. Life is peaceful and drama free 😎
Same, I'll have 0 problems with dating once I set my sights on that, currently I'm busy making loads of dinero.
bro dating is avoiding you
I am guy from SEA. About 7/10 and around Six Feet. I often got attention from women in school. But I just wanted to marry a good virgin girl who had a selfless heart and could love me for who I am. Unfortunately such relationship is impossible in such day and age. So I have given up on dating. Instead I focusing on pursuing my goals and passion.
Are u Filipino or Indonesian
You need to get into a religious organization or social circle or something. No girl is gonna be a virgin if she's not religion
people gotta stop hating on this guy, cause personally wheat waffles i fuckingggg love the way you chart everything and explain it so creatively!
On Reddit there have been recent threads on r/Tinder and r/Hinge and r/Swiperhelper from bluepilled Indian guys who are like "Hey has anyone else noticed that things are different? I haven't changed in fact I've gotten better photos! But I'm getting nothing. Anyone else having issues?". It's popping up more and more because things are basically open in America/Europe and ppl are trying to date again. But ofc the typical(but not TOO typical) Reddit respsonses were popping up like "Bro you look great! Idk what's happening!" or "If HE can't get matches then we're all doomed!". Hahah so funny...But in reality the reality is forcing its way onto Reddit because here were numerous comments mentioning 'blackpill' and 'jbw'. And even though the replies would be like "what's that?", the explanations were NOT getting downvoted. Which is good.
This video is the best male improvement I have seen. Should get over million views. Great work. Your content has really come of age. Approaching 100k subs, congrads on your success.
So that's why. The fact I have autism and not much money makes me useless even when I'm above average, and I should give up. I kind of expected that tho I hoped I was wrong.
People will say this is over analyzing but in reality he’s just putting the options that would occur in someone’s mind into a visual format.
This is very good advice, I live on an island of 20k people, mode of which are elder because it's very expensive here. My only options are interns which cycle out every year, and forces me to be stuck I'm short term relationships, which is why I stopped dating them because I want a long term. So I've been money maxing by learning new skills, but I'm 35years old, so feel like I should let go of hope at this point most of the time.
7:10 now we are talking!
Every single man needs to watch this video!!!
Going abroad in poorer country to find someone who likes your money is one of the worst advice one could give.
Like, go abroad if you have the means to do it regardless, but going abroad with this expectation is sad and potentially dangerous
This is the only time in history where a man would expect that a woman would not want to be with him because of his resources.
What is this like me for me generation didn't even make sense. That is the big problem in the old times you had to actually produce in order to get a chance to have someone.
Two things that are overlooked when it comes to physical attraction:
1. Your voice
2. Your skeleton
Let me explain point 2.
The average wrist size of a man is indicative of his overall bone thickness and his natural musculature.
The average wrist size of a man is 7.25 inches.
A man with 8 inch wrists doesn't need to have muscles. He will naturally be huge. Even if he is short. He will be a tank.
A man with 6 inch wrists will always look like a teenager at best even if he goes to the gym and packs on muscle. If he is tall he will ALWAYS look lanky no matter what.
I believe height is not the biggest factor but very often those who are shorter will tend to have a smaller build. i.e majority of shortcels are also framecels/wristcels.
My father and I are of the same height, we look similar facially, I am in much better shape, but he mogs me because his voice is very deep and he has a much thicker build (his wrists are probably about average.)
I see so many people on the daily as part of my work and many couples. Vast majority of these men are not regular gym goers. Why would they be when they are naturally big-bodied and masculine? The difference between a big cut guy and a big out of shape guy is minimal it really is of little consequence. Even the men with pot-bellies seem to be doing fine. Only if very obese and gross will this become a hindrance in your dating life.
not always. I have relatively small wrists, but have broad shoulders
@@carousel9325 I'm the same with broad shoulders, and a bigger ribcage, but my wrists are relatively small.
Brutal
I have a 6 inchs wrist and 5'9, but with broad shoulders and a above average neck (17 inchs). People in society don't see me as a teenager and it's clear to me because of the way that i'am treated.
A more suitable word to replace skeleton is silloutte. You actually don't even need to be physically fit in order to have a silloutte that is attractive to women. The sad reality is that you could be 5'9 and in tremendous physical shape, but your silloutte might still not command presence. While on the contrary, a 6'1 washed up out of shape ex high school football player guy who cant do 2 pulls or run 1 lap can in many cases have a silloutte that attracts women. It truly is amazing how much broad shoulders, and a thick neck matter.
I don't believe in giving up. At this time, I've tried my luck a lot but I'm not a neurotypical so I can waive rejections off. I also had successful one day stands and a relationship.
Thank you so much for thist video. I've spent the last few years of my life juggling the possibilities I had in my mind without being able to form a clear picture and you just laid it all out in such a rational and well structured way it's scary. Also, considering money and neurotype in the picture is such a fundamental part of the process that's often left out.
I'm a normie who's not neurotypical, (makes it harder but I can do it 💪). Wish me luck everyone.
3:00 is brutal. I feel so bad for the people that will pursue this path.
Only WW knows how to be brutal like that.
Hi guys! 🙂 I study philosophy.
What is it? Would be better to name it so we don't have to look it up? Surgery or focusing on other things?
lol I wonder how many guys fall into the "It's Over" blue box in the bottom-left.
I mean I kinda did, not necessarily over im at a point of just enjoying hobbies as sub 5 because I didn't meet the criteria in terms of money, looks, asperger and sub5.
who else ended up in the ‘find life fulfilment outside of dating’ box?
Big fan and congrats on another thorough, well explained video which I’m sure will be a hit!
Just a quick thing I noticed which I disagree on. The box concerning “are you neurotypical?” At 2:14 you’ve mentioned people with personality disorders and learning difficulties being sent back to the sub-5 path. If you look at personality disorders and what they entail, specifically the cluster B category like your ASPDS, BPDS, HPDS, then by default this should theoretically give those inflicted with them an advantage over neurotypicals. Hear me out, cluster bs are known to have many negative traits as well as some positive which help out massively in attracting and dating. 2 specific traits are superficial charm and lack of/no remorse. This is massively helps those with attraction and dating as a whole as they are often seen as innately witty and charming. This is especially more clear when paired when dark triad traits like narcissism and Machiavellianism. Maybe trying to achieve high functionality for those inflicted with these disorders may be a better approach as opposed to setting them back a tier. This doesn’t apply to everyone with cluster b PDs, however it is a norm to have these traits.
Plus, some folks with ADHD, when utilised correctly may come across as “fun” or “happy go-lucky” which also helps as attractors in dating. Food for thought I guess.
Being neurotypical is often overrated and seen as plain and boring. Almost NPC like and imo those disordered folks “just have that something about them”.
What would you say about not having a "normal" character/personality? For example I'm very logical, goal oriented, introverted and tend to ignore small talk (INTJ if you know anything about MBTI).
Seems a bit niche mate if you ask me. Girls wanna be entertained and want to have a fun time when with you. Sadly, being extroverted would be ideal. Unless you go for a sort of opposites attract and go for a girl whose extroverted and so on. When you’re dating your in competition with other dudes and your girlfriends friends boyfriends so beats me.
Russel Brand is labelled as one of the charming men and he has ADHD. Food for thought.
True stuff! Think Russell Brand might be an exceptional case. I believe depending on how it’s utilised things like ADHD and personality disorders might actually give you an upper hand; at least in the short term side of dating/ONS.
For sure! You can develop a persona which can help but personas are fake and are seen as masks. Your personality is more or less set in stone and will soon show as true in the long run. You can only keep up a facade for so long unless you got some Split personality action going on.
I watch these for entertainment but I realized a long time ago that taking advice from anyone on how to be attractive is not going to help. Everyone knows getting in shape, staying clean cut, and eating healthy will make you more attractive. Everyone knows if you are successful or have money you’ll have more confidence… nofap is one thing that can help that people doubt works because they are too lazy to try it for a week or 2 but other than that, everyone knows how to be more attractive. I gained a lot more attention from girls once I stopped putting other guys on a pedestal and thinking they are better than me… the moment you take advice from someone else like this, you become a beta male, but once you think you are more valuable than other men, you realize you wouldn’t want to take advice from someone who is below you in value. I put nobody on a pedestal, I don’t care how famous, rich, etc they are.
mindset...how you view the world
You spoke a lot truth in this.
@@ishidacoolp that’s why I think it is weak to pay to be rated by a guy. You could always get rated by women for free. It’s gay to have a guy rate you. I’m straight and don’t care if men are attracted to me.
Damn. This kid is a real professor.
Great video Wheat, thumbs up!
As someone who has met exactly 22 different girls from various Online Dating Apps such as Tinder, Lovoo and Bumble, I can only give you guys one solid advice: be direct and take them home at least during the second date. If you wait too long, it's basically over, especially for those Online Dating App girls who just use those apps for plain fun and hookups. Don't be dumb like me and take them to bars or fancy restaurants where you talk to them. They are NOT interested in those activities at all. They just want a quick hookup and that's it.
None of them was interested in a stable long term relationship because they could find this through their friends or in their daily life. There is no need to use Apps for this.
Trust me, it's just a waste of time and money. Meet them for the first date in a park, have a short walk and drink a coffee etc. Then, you should definitely start analyzing their behavior. If they aren't flirty or if you think that they aren't interested in more (e.g. they don't ask much and just respond) just tell them that you need to go and move on. It's a waste of time if they aren't interested in more than just plain friendship. Another thing to have in mind is the fact that you're instantly out of their mind if you are too timid or too "shy". And shy doesn't mean that you aren't able to talk to them, it means that you aren't initiating physical contact e.g. kissing them or touching them.
That's the best advice I can give you if you want success with Online Dating. They don't want a nice dude, who is polite, well dressed and has a nice job + treats them well and not just like a random call girl. They are just interested in a good hookup and that's it. That was my biggest mistake. I didn't want to be needy and never flirted or initiated physical contact during my first date. Biggest mistake of my life. I could have taken at least 10 of them home, maybe even more if I would have been more direct.
I agree. I dated this one beautiful girl who went out on four dates with me and I never touched her. No wonder she put me in friend zone eventually. In fact, she hated me for not touching her
I’m a normie however I just don’t care anymore about getting women. I’ve accepted the fact that I’m not attractive enough to attract most women nowadays. I’m just focusing on improving myself in other areas of my life that will be more profitable in the long run.
guys don't think you will never ever get a girl just cuz you don't look average or above, it really matters how you handle it (I mean if you will just sit there and cry or get your ass up and be confident af) cuz I know people that look extremely handsome, however don't get bitches in comparison to myself who has a girlfriend as an overweight guy.
The important difference is my appearance in front of girls
I'm a poor sub5 manlet, I guess I'll see you guys at the next WoW expansion and at the next Comic-Con. 🤡🔫
Cool bro😎😎😎👍👍
Most of us here are probably normies or sub 5s I think we need a video on how to be satisfied on other areas of life and give up on dating
"Are You Neurotypical?" - As a "Normie" with Asperger's, I agree that this part of the flow chart is accurate.
Guys whatever situation you’re in stop being a victim yall can do it men have to suffer and get over their problems you’re built to defeat the problems it’s in your DNA don’t loose hope and try your fucking hardest
I like that the video got to the same conclusion I did 12 years ago with "find interest elsewhere." What a time saver you took that path first! Thank you!
Don't buy into all this stupid Internet Bulls**t.
I am not really good looking, rather Sub5 than normal, got all kinds of psychological Issues and don't have any real Money.
Just some Basic income, and sometimes not even that.
And still I dated a lot of Women over the last 15 Years, had almost always a Girlfriend, most of them were hot as f**k.
Also i am in a relationship for the last 5 Years that working out very good.
Hitting the Gym ist generally a good advice, don't do steroids and stop watching idiotic UA-cam content.
Go out in to the Park.
how tall are you
Dude, there is always an exception. You're always going to be that one in a million. Stop trying to set up into a trap for the sub5
yep, I agree on travel maxxing. I traveled a lot over the years and got the most attention from girls in general (18-40 abroad, 3-8 in rating) while abroad. I spent most time in Eastern Europe and learning some of the local language makes you stand out from the average foreigner. I met many english teachers or other girls that had a good knowledge of English in even more remote regions there lol I consider myself normie though. Smaller cities are better for dating than capitals though bc they are used to foreigners there.
This is definitely a video i needed right now… thanks wheat waffles.
I think the 200k + 25k surplus a year should change to 2mill + own a home fully paid off and 200k surplus a year to be realistic. I've never met a girl in the west who was impressed by a mere 200k with a 20k surplus a year, that shit is like mandatory.
They need to do a black version of this. It would be completely different.
Reality, I couldn't care less.....if it's meant to be it will be....if she likes me for being me great....if not...oh well....I don't give a sh*t.
Damn straight! The only thing I really care about (besides relatives) is science. "Break the cycle, rise above, focus on science!"
i like these type of blackpill videos which is not hopeless shows there is possibilities and hope, thanks wheat
You should check out Jacked and Stacked channel too. He's more positive and works on solutions and improvement. Not just the doomer type of black pill.
@@ishidacoolp sure man i will check it out
Max out your looks and travel abroad, sure, especially if you’re between tiers. But the most important long term thing you can do (both to get a mate and for your own personal benefit and happiness) is to become successful and build wealth. Most average women will date a Chad but literally any woman (even the 10’s) would marry Bezos or Musk. Success and wealth is the only thing that truly transcends looks in dating.
This is awful advice.
Looked maxed and save $75,000 a year.
Nothing... I enjoy my life. It is what it is.
My man really made an rpg skill chart for dating
I dont think relocating to a larger city is better for finding a girlfriend/wife. Women in bigger cities tend to be more hypergamic and less traditional than the ones in smaller places
Man this guy is spitting facts .
I hope ya all understand that this is insane ... No reason to bother with all this. Live life the best you can, it's enough. There are so many things that can fulfill you, truly, there is no reason to be bothered with all this. As long as you exercise regularly and eat healthily you are ok. If women don't care about you then that is fine as well.
I think Wheat forgot to mention one very important thing that applies to his entire chart: LUCK. I believe there is a bit of fate when it comes to dating overall. You can put in all the effort in the world but be in the wrong place at the wrong time and it won't work out (at least at that moment in time).
I also think that this chart is a bit too idealistic. It's great to have all these detailed plans laid out, but people's lives and circumstances are so complex that no two people of the same looks tier and intentions can follow the exact same chart path. You can be sent all over the chart regardless what you look like
You left out the option of 'dating average-below average women'. As a 5'5" 'normie' who isn't rich, I can still make a date a week off dating apps, get laid an average of 1-2 times a month, and have relationships if I choose. The thing is, that these will exclusively be overweight and/or single moms and/or over 35 years old. Just because you can't get pretty thin 20-somethings doesn't mean you have to be alone for your entire life.
If i ever get rich ill donate you 1m dollars , the truth bombs in this channel are gold