Humans are very competitive creatures. Theyll always compare themselves with you, it dont matter what they believe though because everyone meets the same fate.
True if u focus more on others than yourself u will be miserable and full of regrets if u focus on yourself less distractions u will be happy that’s how god made u if we never compare to anyone ever again we will be happy there’s someone I know who’s 23 her mum would not let her date I got angry then I think to myself why get angry over if if it don’t affect my life it will only affect your life if u let it affect u
Suffering is subjective. At least in my experience, the people I know who have suffered a lot want to relate on those issues and dont downplay peoples issues, even if they seem like they arent a big deal in comparison. They can also be pretty wise if they came out the other end better off, it was probably through their own effort. Many people crack under the weight, and end up being drug addicts or something, but im sure those people are pretty interesting to listen to as well. Its normally the people who downplay other peoples suffering that want to play the pity olympics, most people I meet are very sympathetic. Everyones issues deserve to be addressed with patience and empathy.
I remember commenting this on one of your other videos something along the lines of people telling us that we should just not complain and make the best of our situations because "there's always someone who has it worse" which is a stupid thing to say since a lot of the small shit we go through in our lives is what builds up to the worser shit that a person can go through like my family situation for instance. My mom is an angry bitch who will pop off at the drop of a dime it seems, yells at everyone over her own damn mistakes that she's made over the past 20 years which one is being a shit parent who didn't teach or prepare us for anything so we basically had to just fumble around and figure shit out for ourselves, and some of us like myself with much less success then others. But why should I complain right? I still have a roof over my head, a place to sleep, and food to eat, AGAIN! if you can ignore the fighting EVERY GODDAMN DAY! psychically and verbally. On some ocassions I have seen my mom hit my autistic younger brother with a ratchet, threatening to end his life, and of course the whole knife and throwing objects incidents against me, but i shouldn't complain because somewhere somehow someone is out on the streets homeless with nothing to eat..... HEY! at least i'm not facing that, but I will say this, our last altercation where I wound up calling the police do to her making yet ANOTHER knife threat, they actually took her side and I only recently found out that they had convinced her to try to kick me out. Go figure, guess that explains the eviction notice that i was served the following day that she thankfully cancled do to my stepdad chewing her out. This shit can happen to anyone under the right circumstances of accumlulated shitty events, and it doesn't even have to be to the intensity of mines, all that has to happen is you have a mom who puts food on the table and keeps a roof over your head but teaches you nothing and becomes disinchanted with you when you legally become an "adult" then you can find your ass right out there under a bridge like the adult who was facing psychical abuse every day and decided to just run away or got abandoned to foster care only to be kicked to the streets when he/she turns into an adult. That is the crucial element here. Your life doesn't have to be the classic psychically or mentally abusive story that you here about in true crime for it to be bad, all that has to happen is your parents just neglect or handicap you for most of your life and when you turn into an adult and they just decide they don't wanna see you anymore for whatever reason then they can legally have you out on the streets essentially punishing you for the act of being born, that right there is what's caused me to understand just how evil reproduction truly is.
My narcissistic parents have done this to me all my teen years.. like when I tell you the trauma bond wears off when I was 24.. then my narc mom’s voice was in my head.. for a good two years.. now I feel like the Beast from Beauty and the Beast.. meeting someone who’s trying to humble me. Now you understand how I’ve been feeling for 29 damn years on this ghetto piss of a planet. I feel like I’m living in the twilight zone.. like Barbie: Life in the Dreamhouse in real life since 2020 it’s a web series made in 2012.. and all my childhood traumas I dealt with are on the show as far as narcissists go.. I’m highly intuitive and have spoken things into existence.. nowadays I just feel empty and don’t care for love or a relationship or marriage.. words are curses.. why do you think they call it spelling? I found my journal from the 2010’s which I will make a video on.. the stuff I wrote then mate.. it’s so eerie. I wrote in one I hope to die by 30 or a bit older which is next year. At least I made it on a billboard in Times Square in 2023 as something others can see by.. I’m now Raquelle from Barbie as a human. 😊
Im starting to develop courage by coming forth more with my neurodivergance. And thats ashame your mother had such a wickedly bad attitude. Sounds like your father isn't much better, but at least he's trying somewhat.
Hey ive watched lots of your videos: i know its tempting but try not to "blame" your mother /mum too much. Its all genetic, nothing to do with sun/diet and such, despite what the internet might try to tell you. In my family, we all have undeveloped chins/jaws (all my aunts and first cousins have the same trait). The women are penalized for it, but of course not as much as the boys/men are when it comes to attracting the oppositte sex. If youre going to blame your mum, blame her for believing in fairy tales and things like "true love"etc. Dont balme her for sunlight/diet, etc because it really isnt that important. Trust me, i live in a rich countru with rich sunrises, we all have the same cursed genes despite our relatively good diets
We’re all victims in this hell hole
No one is alone in this 🙏
This life is a living hell
Humans are very competitive creatures. Theyll always compare themselves with you, it dont matter what they believe though because everyone meets the same fate.
It’s okay to compare yourself with your former self, or “ residual self image” 😁😁😁
Watching your videos helps me get through my meaningless shit days and existence so cheers tho
Therapy ..... one of many latest lolcows ....
True if u focus more on others than yourself u will be miserable and full of regrets if u focus on yourself less distractions u will be happy that’s how god made u if we never compare to anyone ever again we will be happy there’s someone I know who’s 23 her mum would not let her date I got angry then I think to myself why get angry over if if it don’t affect my life it will only affect your life if u let it affect u
Suffering is subjective. At least in my experience, the people I know who have suffered a lot want to relate on those issues and dont downplay peoples issues, even if they seem like they arent a big deal in comparison. They can also be pretty wise if they came out the other end better off, it was probably through their own effort. Many people crack under the weight, and end up being drug addicts or something, but im sure those people are pretty interesting to listen to as well. Its normally the people who downplay other peoples suffering that want to play the pity olympics, most people I meet are very sympathetic. Everyones issues deserve to be addressed with patience and empathy.
I remember commenting this on one of your other videos something along the lines of people telling us that we should just not complain and make the best of our situations because "there's always someone who has it worse" which is a stupid thing to say since a lot of the small shit we go through in our lives is what builds up to the worser shit that a person can go through like my family situation for instance.
My mom is an angry bitch who will pop off at the drop of a dime it seems, yells at everyone over her own damn mistakes that she's made over the past 20 years which one is being a shit parent who didn't teach or prepare us for anything so we basically had to just fumble around and figure shit out for ourselves, and some of us like myself with much less success then others. But why should I complain right? I still have a roof over my head, a place to sleep, and food to eat, AGAIN! if you can ignore the fighting EVERY GODDAMN DAY! psychically and verbally.
On some ocassions I have seen my mom hit my autistic younger brother with a ratchet, threatening to end his life, and of course the whole knife and throwing objects incidents against me, but i shouldn't complain because somewhere somehow someone is out on the streets homeless with nothing to eat..... HEY! at least i'm not facing that, but I will say this, our last altercation where I wound up calling the police do to her making yet ANOTHER knife threat, they actually took her side and I only recently found out that they had convinced her to try to kick me out. Go figure, guess that explains the eviction notice that i was served the following day that she thankfully cancled do to my stepdad chewing her out.
This shit can happen to anyone under the right circumstances of accumlulated shitty events, and it doesn't even have to be to the intensity of mines, all that has to happen is you have a mom who puts food on the table and keeps a roof over your head but teaches you nothing and becomes disinchanted with you when you legally become an "adult" then you can find your ass right out there under a bridge like the adult who was facing psychical abuse every day and decided to just run away or got abandoned to foster care only to be kicked to the streets when he/she turns into an adult. That is the crucial element here. Your life doesn't have to be the classic psychically or mentally abusive story that you here about in true crime for it to be bad, all that has to happen is your parents just neglect or handicap you for most of your life and when you turn into an adult and they just decide they don't wanna see you anymore for whatever reason then they can legally have you out on the streets essentially punishing you for the act of being born, that right there is what's caused me to understand just how evil reproduction truly is.
My narcissistic parents have done this to me all my teen years.. like when I tell you the trauma bond wears off when I was 24.. then my narc mom’s voice was in my head.. for a good two years.. now I feel like the Beast from Beauty and the Beast.. meeting someone who’s trying to humble me. Now you understand how I’ve been feeling for 29 damn years on this ghetto piss of a planet. I feel like I’m living in the twilight zone.. like Barbie: Life in the Dreamhouse in real life since 2020 it’s a web series made in 2012.. and all my childhood traumas I dealt with are on the show as far as narcissists go.. I’m highly intuitive and have spoken things into existence.. nowadays I just feel empty and don’t care for love or a relationship or marriage.. words are curses.. why do you think they call it spelling? I found my journal from the 2010’s which I will make a video on.. the stuff I wrote then mate.. it’s so eerie. I wrote in one I hope to die by 30 or a bit older which is next year. At least I made it on a billboard in Times Square in 2023 as something others can see by.. I’m now Raquelle from Barbie as a human. 😊
Greetings 😊
Please can I join your discord I relate so much to your viewpoints and id love to have a community I can relate to in this lonely world
It's called tomprice2891 feel free to join
@@thechelsearantman6717 it won't let me join without an invite link
@@charlotte8369 really? I put in my discord name
Watch “ how to stop giving a f**k “ by farfromweak
Im starting to develop courage by coming forth more with my neurodivergance. And thats ashame your mother had such a wickedly bad attitude. Sounds like your father isn't much better, but at least he's trying somewhat.
Hey ive watched lots of your videos: i know its tempting but try not to "blame" your mother /mum too much. Its all genetic, nothing to do with sun/diet and such, despite what the internet might try to tell you. In my family, we all have undeveloped chins/jaws (all my aunts and first cousins have the same trait). The women are penalized for it, but of course not as much as the boys/men are when it comes to attracting the oppositte sex. If youre going to blame your mum, blame her for believing in fairy tales and things like "true love"etc. Dont balme her for sunlight/diet, etc because it really isnt that important. Trust me, i live in a rich countru with rich sunrises, we all have the same cursed genes despite our relatively good diets
yes same as you parents that never teached me anything very negative and weird parents.
Same lol
My parents were useless
I think you are very handsome by the way
Thanks
You're either a victim or a victimizer. We didn't even choose to be born
Some if not all can act as both. 😶😶😶