Their Biggest Mistake Was Thinking You Wouldn’t Walk Away

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  • @Moodymuse60
    @Moodymuse60 2 місяці тому +66

    Love this ❤

  • @BlessingsMwale-j8e
    @BlessingsMwale-j8e 2 місяці тому +85

    Silence is golden don't engage, don't react, don't respond and Walk away that's real power you deserve better 🏃🏃🏃 self love ❤❤❤

  • @devikalama9021
    @devikalama9021 Місяць тому +58

    That is exactly why I feel animals are far better than humans at least they are true about their feelings and loyalty.

  • @GraceBilella
    @GraceBilella 2 місяці тому +45

    Shame on them. Their loss. The pain is already all around me.💔

  • @mandie144
    @mandie144 Місяць тому +50

    These videos have helped me so much. I spent month's... years watching videos on narcs.. this is like the icing on the cake. All the info I have learned is being cemented now.

    • @sandie4870
      @sandie4870 Місяць тому +1

      Yesss❗️👍🏽😉

  • @iliastsagaris1822
    @iliastsagaris1822 2 місяці тому +37

    protect your soul... nothing more important

  • @lilfairycupcake
    @lilfairycupcake 2 місяці тому +56

    ive walked away so many times over the past 20yrs, there's nobody left. when they no longer know nothing about you, your life, it drives them crazy.

    • @niojackson938
      @niojackson938 Місяць тому +3

      That is deep . 🙏🏾 Thanks . I needed that

    • @TimmyWilcher
      @TimmyWilcher Місяць тому

      @@lilfairycupcake who's thoa

  • @wyzer9
    @wyzer9 2 місяці тому +42

    I follow a couple of these "joker-vational" channels. This is one of the best, imo. Excellent sound quality, great pacing, awesome words! Thank you for what you do. 🙏

  • @markusschaffer9712
    @markusschaffer9712 Місяць тому +11

    Walking away from drama,manipulation and fakery is top tier self care.
    Watch them squirm and backpedal like crazy.

  • @Karabas1984
    @Karabas1984 2 місяці тому +37

    every single word is 100% is what i m going thru. but when i m done there is no way back.

  • @tristasikes2206
    @tristasikes2206 2 місяці тому +127

    God blessed me with the gift of discernment and I've honed it. I see peoples truest colors without much time with them. I see them and I have them pegged almost instantly and make no mistake I will walk away without hesitation. And it may hurt but I will heal because I walk away with God as he lives inside me and heals me and makes me that much stronger. 💯

    • @reachlove6779
      @reachlove6779 2 місяці тому +5

    • @VladSWG
      @VladSWG 2 місяці тому

      Your Gad is too busy giving children cancer and looking away when someone is getting hurt kid.

    • @dianemckenna4078
      @dianemckenna4078 2 місяці тому +2

      😢❤😈😈😈1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣💯♋💐TY Linda. You R a true blessing ✝️🙏🏼☮Game 🔛

    • @OriontheChosen
      @OriontheChosen 2 місяці тому +8

      Yes it takes time to grow discernment but it's priceless when perfected

    • @tristasikes2206
      @tristasikes2206 2 місяці тому

      @@MntAthena we all are given this gift we just have to hone it practice it. We always have an option God allows us a choice but faith we must trust in the Good lord . I promise you we all have this blessing we just have to work on it. Please dear Lord help them find their way through such fog let them find you and feel you around them shine your grace and light upon them for they are in true need of you and your guidance to find their way show them there is always another way . Lord please take away their pain their torment for they need your guidance please clear their path take their right hand and help them find the path you created just for them. Help them find a way to heal from the hell they have been in for it changes us as you know especially with each trip there and back again. Help them know they truly are never alone this I pray to you in love for them. In Jesus name I pray Amen 🙏 🙌

  • @grisselday905
    @grisselday905 2 місяці тому +29

    Thank you! I can't wait to get through this and reach the other side; it is painful!

  • @sue7621
    @sue7621 Місяць тому +10

    I would rather adjust my life to your absence
    Than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect!
    ❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏🌎

    • @Jgp4xzdmqnmil
      @Jgp4xzdmqnmil Місяць тому

      That is brilliant. Ill share it with some people. Its such excellent advice. Thank you. ❤

  • @sabinetorres5539
    @sabinetorres5539 2 місяці тому +22

    best speech ever, so far. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Roddy_Zeh
    @Roddy_Zeh 2 місяці тому +20

    It's the most powerful weapon we have. When they give you crap, give 'em your absence. 🗿

  • @nataliejohnson6910
    @nataliejohnson6910 2 місяці тому +11

    ❤ that’s what he did to me take my kindness for weakness, time is the master 🙏🏾

  • @MrTheDank
    @MrTheDank Місяць тому +4

    Stay strong everyone, God is one, the Truth will set you free.

  • @kathpercy7941
    @kathpercy7941 Місяць тому +4

    After over 3 decades in an abusive marriage on every level all the betrayal
    his adultery I walked away the smear campaign is brutal but it’s never too late 🙏💕

  • @LisachildOTMH
    @LisachildOTMH 2 місяці тому +3

    Love your delivery, and tone. I walked away from a narcissist mother, siblings and son 5 years ago in my 50’s and I didn’t think I ever would. It’s true what you say freer than I’ve ever been and my mental health has healed. I’m not weak but can’t believe how much I let them all bully me, scapegoat me and use me, but no more they can jog right on..

  • @VictoriaValenciano-d9r
    @VictoriaValenciano-d9r 2 місяці тому +12

    True facts 💯

  • @Westindiangyal1111
    @Westindiangyal1111 Місяць тому +4

    1000% accurate. I have onky known this person for a few months, but it did not take me long to figure out who i was dealing with. He taught he could trap me with sex, and could use me because i am a giver and have a good soul. He told me was in tears and on the verge of a breakdown. He still owes me money he borrowed to pay his rent. I have only gotten back some. I recently reached out to ask when i would receive the rest and he told me he was sick, sonething with his heart. He has never given me anything, nor have i asked for anything from him. The universe detached me from him and he could not believe it.

  • @lauries608
    @lauries608 Місяць тому +5

    Thank God I found you. Just when I thought I might give up..but I won't...I won't...

  • @trevingodbolt-ep3pg
    @trevingodbolt-ep3pg 2 місяці тому +7

    I love this is a powerful message you speaking facts 💯

  • @BlitzenSpeaks
    @BlitzenSpeaks Місяць тому +1

    You are so spot on, 100% on target, you must be a psychiatrist who specializes in helping people recover from Narcissistic Abuse.
    I've watched several of your videos today, and you are hitting bullseyes with every word!!!
    Keep up the great work!!!

  • @theafricanphilosopherqueen3032
    @theafricanphilosopherqueen3032 Місяць тому +10

    The joker is literally using his voice to helpi us to liberate ourselves from toxic people and relationships...kudos❤

  • @stephanniecaleb9293
    @stephanniecaleb9293 2 місяці тому +5

    💯 he thought I wouldn't walk away but if you mis treat me I'm not sticking around.i hope he is happy now.

  • @elizabethmoreiradonza790
    @elizabethmoreiradonza790 2 місяці тому +8

    Excellent text. Perfect. Thank you.

  • @grisselday905
    @grisselday905 2 місяці тому +8

    Well said and done Joker!

  • @roxy7255
    @roxy7255 Місяць тому +1

    Loving this content. He constantly talked to his ex wife (no kids) I set my boundary he agreed to stop all contact. Months later I find out he never stopped and he says it’s my problem if I need to be around someone I can trust 😂 I slammed that door so shut blocked on every platform.

  • @sparklyautisticrat
    @sparklyautisticrat Місяць тому +1

    Kindness is really tough in a world that rewards the ruthless! The ones who kept taking without giving a damn is my favorite. I can definitely relate! I love this! I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor!

  • @geannasowers3125
    @geannasowers3125 2 місяці тому +14

    Yup, guess again, you never know? Nope, that is why I am a loner.

  • @irynabarrett8096
    @irynabarrett8096 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for positive energy and amazing support you gave me ❤🎉

  • @pamelaarcher2478
    @pamelaarcher2478 2 місяці тому +6

    Wen its your children it's a tragety😢

  • @grisselday905
    @grisselday905 2 місяці тому +5

    That's what he said, "It was my attitude" that caused the separation! He neglected to mention what HE did to cause it. 😂

  • @zenaashworth4950
    @zenaashworth4950 Місяць тому +1

    I walked away no going back
    Thank god amen❤

  • @MarcellaVasquez-rn7re
    @MarcellaVasquez-rn7re Місяць тому +4

    They not my friends. Don't need they approval. Trust no 1!

  • @Kosmic.Divine
    @Kosmic.Divine 2 місяці тому +6

    Magnificent 💯 I ❤ Joker

  • @gabrielaraimondo2430
    @gabrielaraimondo2430 5 днів тому

    It's incredible how many people are Narcisists!😢
    You love them and then you end up hating them😢 and then you forgive and heal and you couldn't care less!😊
    But it is painful to know so many pple are like that!
    How many mothers don't educate these men and women!😢 they don't have values and God in their lives!😢 Sad...

  • @karenmalone6316
    @karenmalone6316 2 місяці тому +2

    Yes so true amen no they will never replace me yes I love this thank you yes im smart they thought they had me but no I got my power now and they lost me I didn't lose them

    • @karenmalone6316
      @karenmalone6316 2 місяці тому

      They are never coming back to me im free I got my peace yes I walk away 8 years of there game but no more yes I got my power they will never get me back yes they are going thur hell now im still standing amen

  • @Sarah_sunshine14
    @Sarah_sunshine14 2 місяці тому +1

    Bang on the nail…as you always are…Thankyou 🙏🏻

  • @cathysisneros4076
    @cathysisneros4076 27 днів тому

    They lied, they cheated, they laughed at you and they thought because you cared for them and showed them your love they saw you as weak. When you cut them off and disappeared they accused you of punishing them. So they guilt trip you to make you feel sorry for them and give them another chance. Only when you've had enough will you build the strength to walk away from them. I thank God he showed me the painful truth and walked with me away and never looked back, never to hurt me again. ❤

  • @Chris-s7h9v
    @Chris-s7h9v Місяць тому +1

    Amen hallelujah to that

  • @Nerd_Gamer_Buddy
    @Nerd_Gamer_Buddy 16 годин тому

    these videos give me the closure that i needed! and teach me that i dont have to do anything to destroy others
    im learning so much about improving myself!

  • @slicaltimistic1
    @slicaltimistic1 Місяць тому +2

    This is one joker I'll shake his hands! Not even batman won't say something like this.. And this is not funny at all. That is exactly what went down at the job. What he said is 100% Fact!!! I enjoy this.

  • @akhilasanjeev7735
    @akhilasanjeev7735 2 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou Joker. I got to listen to your speech rightly when I am experiencing the same situation

  • @nadiaconseillant8616
    @nadiaconseillant8616 2 місяці тому +14

    The biggest mistake was choosing me

    • @PrestonFleming-nb2jq
      @PrestonFleming-nb2jq 21 день тому +1

      Facts😂

    • @nadiaconseillant8616
      @nadiaconseillant8616 20 днів тому +1

      @PrestonFleming-nb2jq that's true they should have never chose me. The first shall be last and the Last shall be first. I am The Last, the Biggest, The baddest, The Last Band in the Carnival Festival, the one If you DON'T HAVE GOD IN YOU , YOU CAN'T STAND. WE are the Mother ship from JEHOVAH. Any weaklings lose my number. That's why we are Last. We Are the GRAND FINALE. THERE ARE NO CLOWNS OVER HERE. And THEY WILL SAY BLESSED IS SHE WHO COMES IN THE NAME OF the LORD JEHOVAH AND HIS SON JESUS CHRIST. We are the anointed who stand Firm in God to do his Will. Don't you see the mother ship pass overhead.. Majestic is He who comes in His name Selah

    • @shannonrussell6436
      @shannonrussell6436 20 днів тому +2

      The biggest mistake was losing me!

    • @nadiaconseillant8616
      @nadiaconseillant8616 20 днів тому

      @shannonrussell6436 for the men true. I don't deal with women

    • @nadiaconseillant8616
      @nadiaconseillant8616 20 днів тому

      I deal with no woman. I'm not a Lesbian. The biggest mistake was choosing me. IDC if those men lose me. They don't deserve me

  • @IvyPhillips-p3c
    @IvyPhillips-p3c 2 місяці тому +3

    Exactly that's what I did. Hopefully they understand.

  • @brownmut5518
    @brownmut5518 Місяць тому

    Yes they called my bluff and regretted it. All I need is my wife and children and im good. I don't miss the outsiders as much as they regret mistaking my kindness for weakness. Almost 10 years on and they still call once inva while and I turn down every invitation and end conversations immediately. I know i don't miss them as much as they regret disrespecting my wife and i.

  • @IvyPhillips-p3c
    @IvyPhillips-p3c 2 місяці тому +7

    Right on joker

  • @beccys1937
    @beccys1937 Місяць тому

    Thank you. Its so hard to walk away, so difficult..especially from someone you just started to trust 😢

  • @dannyburlison8737
    @dannyburlison8737 2 місяці тому +34

    normal people don't think like a monster.

    • @spartanguitar117
      @spartanguitar117 Місяць тому +5

      Pain can turn angels into demons

    • @theriddick1888
      @theriddick1888 Місяць тому +3

      It's all in your interpretation of what a monster is.

    • @D.S-b5f
      @D.S-b5f Місяць тому +1

      Sometimes you have to become a monster to protect yourself and your loved ones. Sometimes the monster is the salvation.

    • @AnthonyZ94
      @AnthonyZ94 6 днів тому

      If this sounds like a monster, then you’ve never been around them.

  • @magdanavarro90
    @magdanavarro90 Місяць тому +2

    When we walk away, it gives us power.

  • @marciaannmyers9644
    @marciaannmyers9644 Місяць тому

    Oh yeah so true! Trust isn't handed out. Must be EARNED!!

  • @karmao2024
    @karmao2024 2 місяці тому +2

    ❤ Absolutely 💯 facts ❤

  • @MamaSharon-re1ky
    @MamaSharon-re1ky 2 місяці тому +3

    Until lion's have their own historians talles of the Hunt shall always glorify the hunter ❤ appreciate

  • @GeorgiaGeneroso
    @GeorgiaGeneroso Місяць тому +1

    I'm on my way to leaving the people I've been working for morr than 9 years. And yes, I'm reclaiming my life.👊

  • @TrevonNeblett
    @TrevonNeblett Місяць тому +1

    People r so wicked sometimes walking away is the best u can ever do

  • @hanenetrabelsi4010
    @hanenetrabelsi4010 Місяць тому +2

    God remove them from our life 🙏🙏

  • @devantejackson5085
    @devantejackson5085 Місяць тому +1

    I'm SERIOUSLY Starting to Understand And Relate to "The JOKER"🃏 MORE Than "BATMAN"🦇 Now 😞.
    My Childhood Was A Lie 🤥.
    Fan Of "The Joker"🃏 MORE Than
    "BATMAN"🦇 Now 😞.

    • @KenKaniff-dw4jw
      @KenKaniff-dw4jw Місяць тому

      Everything in life is the exact opposite of what we are told

  • @eugenestati3085
    @eugenestati3085 2 місяці тому +2

    thank you. your videos helped me alot, i see clear now

  • @TheRealIsrael676
    @TheRealIsrael676 2 місяці тому +5

    Mentally im already gone. Physically im still here

  • @SonyaDee-c2m
    @SonyaDee-c2m Місяць тому

    Such a Blessing!!!

  • @transcendentsacredcourage
    @transcendentsacredcourage Місяць тому

    Once I walk, it's over. I'm never returning. Whether or not they miss me is of no consequence.

  • @zenmasterjack3873
    @zenmasterjack3873 Місяць тому +2

    Joker went 3rd person perspective on us for a second 12:58

  • @sofialopez4763
    @sofialopez4763 Місяць тому +1

    Wow ❤ this saying facts of life i so agree with u

  • @michaelmartello6202
    @michaelmartello6202 Місяць тому

    Subbed. This made me feel alot stronger than iam. Thankyou

  • @SlayinTruth
    @SlayinTruth Місяць тому

    Mannnnnnn oh man this is the one‼️‼️ I’m so glad to have found this page.

  • @TienLam-t6b
    @TienLam-t6b 11 днів тому +1

    Amen 🙏 ✝️🙏 Amen..

  • @James-o5f4z
    @James-o5f4z 29 днів тому +1

    It has taken me years to accumulate what I have and they can't take it away from me simply because all they want is what I have and I have news for them they won't get a a simple fine from me

  • @VictoriaValenciano-d9r
    @VictoriaValenciano-d9r 2 місяці тому +2

    Absolutely ❤❤❤❤

  • @judithjakubowski2352
    @judithjakubowski2352 Місяць тому

    I needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @douglasdolmus9471
    @douglasdolmus9471 Місяць тому

    I don't even trust myself anymore. I betrayed myself for letting them hurt, disrespect me. I will ONLY trust God.

    • @KenKaniff-dw4jw
      @KenKaniff-dw4jw Місяць тому +1

      There are good people. There really is. Don't go thru life with the mindset of everyone bad. Stay away from toxicity and negative people. Stay around those who are helpful and there for you at your worst time.

  • @IvyPhillips-p3c
    @IvyPhillips-p3c 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm never going back. I'm out I'm gone see ya.

  • @VictoriaValenciano-d9r
    @VictoriaValenciano-d9r 2 місяці тому +4

    Yup when there is to many red flags

  • @Askrelive
    @Askrelive Місяць тому

    I love this, need this. So codependent. ♥️🙏🏻

  • @CrystalMorningdove
    @CrystalMorningdove Місяць тому +1

    I'm so glad I found your channel 🙏💜💜💜💜

  • @carenkurdjinian5413
    @carenkurdjinian5413 2 місяці тому +1

    Free Ways - Principal Of Built - Is 2 -Enter and Exit …..EveryBody Uses Freeways….. Leave It Work - The Flaw …….🌞

  • @MarcellaVasquez-rn7re
    @MarcellaVasquez-rn7re Місяць тому

    Thank You Jehovah!

  • @VIP-n2c
    @VIP-n2c 19 днів тому

    I know Satan is so beautiful and perfect that he will never ask anybody to do his will for him for real, somebody someday will of his or her own freewill choice will take it upon himself to do his work for him, why should he have to, he’s too perfect , somebody’s bound to one day but he not going to ask anybody to do it for him he’s too perfect and beautiful, so go on, is anybody going do it for him? You can’t expect him to do anything, he’s too perfect.

  • @jolee3430
    @jolee3430 Місяць тому

    Excellent insightful information ❤

  • @marcoilardi1532
    @marcoilardi1532 Місяць тому

    Thank. You. Brother and brother. I love. To. See you in the future for sure ❤😊❤. Best wishes for you all ways

  • @VictoriaValenciano-d9r
    @VictoriaValenciano-d9r 2 місяці тому +1

    Sham on them their loss the pain is already with me 💔💔💔💔😢

  • @Newworldcoming
    @Newworldcoming Місяць тому +2

    This is pretty accurate honestly

  • @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776
    @poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 Місяць тому +2

    So true!!!

  • @marciaannmyers9644
    @marciaannmyers9644 Місяць тому

    I love all these joker videos! They are so so true!

  • @gillianmir6387
    @gillianmir6387 Місяць тому

    Brilliant!! Thank you

  • @gypsywolf2600
    @gypsywolf2600 Місяць тому

    listnening to this is only reassuring what ive been doing my whole life to those that cross that line, treating kindness for a weakness. Dont mind me i love when they give me reasons to walk away an leave you in wonder an disarray. They are not worth my freedom in this one life i have. My sanity, happiness an peace in this world is far more important.

  • @norm2760
    @norm2760 15 днів тому

    After what I have learned about society I will eventually walk away and no one will ever see my face again...

  • @Dakingkoda
    @Dakingkoda Місяць тому +1

    When the world turns on you sometimes you think like a monster but thank god i have jesus christ in my life otherwise it wouldnt be to pretty 😊

  • @leannewalsh5339
    @leannewalsh5339 Місяць тому

    Thankyou 🎉

  • @IvyPhillips-p3c
    @IvyPhillips-p3c 2 місяці тому +3

    They r really loosing. Actually they lost.

  • @claraperry8718
    @claraperry8718 Місяць тому

    He tried to break me.. he tried to strip it all away of who I was. I had to escape and now I'm trying to get my peace back but it is still painful for me :(

    • @KenKaniff-dw4jw
      @KenKaniff-dw4jw Місяць тому

      It will be and will be for a long time. But those are just scars. Like he said we all have them. They are not bad, they show we survived

  • @Farzadmirdamadii
    @Farzadmirdamadii Місяць тому

    Be strong like Diamond which is the hardest known substance in the whole world...

  • @dianadiem6950
    @dianadiem6950 Місяць тому +1

    ONFIRE AWESOME ❤

  • @WhiskyGravy
    @WhiskyGravy Місяць тому

    "It takes guts to be kind in a world ruled by the ruthless." Truer words were never uttered on the Internet.
    Um.... can i please get a t-shirt w thi-- fuck it, imma get it tattooed.
    Thanks.

  • @dijanalucijanic934
    @dijanalucijanic934 Місяць тому

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @mitchelldouglas9616
    @mitchelldouglas9616 8 днів тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @kubleikahn3639
    @kubleikahn3639 Місяць тому

    After a few videos...feels like a brainvirus. Adaptet to most of us in a few points. Sneaked in and find a path to think like you more an more. Like a genuis evil horoskope.
    I like it 😇

  • @godsowncookies
    @godsowncookies 4 дні тому

    God also blessed me with another upgrade thank you god thank you too you are most awesome overall. 🃏

  • @ZeDoyle
    @ZeDoyle 2 місяці тому +2

    Fantastic ❤🎉