@@bugra320 it does. Most married people met naturally. At work, through friends, at parties. You just have to go outside and do things. Do things for the intentions of having fun not to find someone. The person will come when you focus on yourself
Dating apps are lame. Majority are for hookups which if that's what you are looking for, that's fine. Large number of people don't develop long term relationships from it. People move on after 1-3 dates, constantly looking for the next shiny thing. Before the whole dating app culture, there's more time spent to know someone and the people I know who had long term relationships or married are the ones who dated for a while (only one on one) and then let the relationship grow. It's not instant matching, text for a few days, have a couple meetups, and then the one appears. Just not organic. Dating culture today is exhausting.
I know dating is hard but I rather not meet someone online. I feel like I've met enough people in person who are very off. So imagine someone online not connected to anyone you know? That's 100x worse.
After 30+ years of meeting a BONKLOAD of individuals over those decades, I cannot honestly say that more than 1-3% of them were ethical, sane, inspiring, awesome people. It's unfortunate, but that's how it is (or whatever... how it WAS). I'm not even talking about dating specifically, either. Just people; everyone en-masse. Narrowing that disaster down to "females I'd like to date who are within a 60-120 mile radius" is clearly as close to the number known as "0" as one could imagine. :)
AI luring people into a date is 🤢. Dating apps are a thing of the past though. Especially Bumble. Kicking regular people off for getting falsely reported after rejecting someone. Yet tons of bots & scammers get to have profiles. Weird times.
^^^ nailed it. There are more bots on Bumble than there are in Steeeaaar Wahorrrz. #LOL L: "I would just as soon date a Wookie!" H: "I can arrange that."
AI could help "solve" dating fatigue?? If anything, I think AI will exacerbate it. AI already makes job hunting and resumes, applicant tracking software (ATS) etc. an already miserable process even more miserable.
Too many people saying they were looking for relationships are on there just to hook up. Nothing wrong with that, just be honest instead of leading people on for that.
Internet Dating was cool from 2008-2016 because they were still somewhat "taboo" then. Then once the apps came it got destroyed. Time to go back to meeting people in person! The apps now are nothing but glorified casino slot machines that make you addicted to swiping.
This approach does not work it's been ruined by countless scammers to begin with for years at this point you might as well search for in person dating agency to do the work
You do realize those single moms didn’t have kids by themselves right!?!? There’s also a bunch of deadbeat dads out there trying to link up with single childless women.
Because its freaking hard to a regular guy to get matches let alone dates. When you do get matches, the girl usually stops responding or doesn't respond at all. Women are the issue here imo
Online dating was so passive. I would match with someone and they would never respond. And Ppl do not know how to conversate. No one wants to make the 1st move; so you’re stuck in small talk until you get bored
How do I date IRL when I'm stuck in the suburbs of Texas? Fyi there's no nightlife or 3rd places here. And the dating pool is a puddle since everyone is either a boomer or family with young kids.
A friend of mine was telling me about his experiences with Bumble and Tinder and so forth. Half joking around, he requested his data from one of 'em--you know, all the "swipes", clicks, views, matches... whatever. He was bloody well SHOCKED to see that he'd "swiped" something to the tune of 30,000+ images (or accounts or whatever) over the years. And obviously, there were the "no thank yous" as well. I'm certain you can guess as to how many legitimate matches he told me he'd experienced. Stay classy, humanity. ;)
Most dating apps are just away for women to boost their ego. They just sign up to read the compliments and rarely bother responding. The only legit ones are the ones where women and men both have to pay to join. If the woman is paying for the service it means shes genuinely wanting to meet someone. The ones that charge men and allow women to use it for free are mainly used by women that need a confidence boost or they are just bored and killing time.
@@tajr.2650 Ummm actually there are videos all over UA-cam of women admitting to using dating apps solely for validation with no intent of meeting anyone on there. But nice try.
Yeah the dating apps and websites have data to support your claim as well with women only picking 2% of their potential matches and men picking over 60% of their potential matches. I'm glad I met my wife the old fashioned way.. Dating these days seems impossible
I experienced dating app fatigue a few years ago. People are always recommending me dating apps, people who havent used tinder themselves. I wanna know how to meet girls in person while stuck in the Texas suburbs with no money
the only promise that AI has in dating is the ability of brutal truth in assisting in match making, not based on what BS the AI can spin out, but in setting up the match based on real data. People would give up their privacy to the AI dating app, sort of how everyone already has with Instagram and Gmail.
The AI app is ridiculous, it's just going to waste people's time with these socially awkward people using AI to formulate responses and then when they go to meet the person in real life, the jig is up and the other person will be so disappointed 🙄
I don’t believe in love to me my mind thinks scientifically of what I want in someone for both financial and who’s best for having future kids with. Not what I want emotionally. But I also don’t want kids since they have become a burden financially and have enough nieces and nephews to enjoy.
Speed Dating wouldn't work for people who have a bad memory like myself. I'd also be too nervous and might get one sentence out before having to move on 😂
It's quite an interesting topic, isn't it? The world of dating apps has really transformed how we meet and interact with potential partners. It's fascinating to think about how technology impacts our social lives and the way we connect with others. Discussing dating app fatigue opens up a lot of meaningful conversations about finding balance in our digital and personal lives. It's always good to step back and reflect on how these tools are serving us in our journey to find meaningful connections. 🌟✨👫📱💖
People are full of 💩 on those apps.
A metric throng of the accounts are just that: ACCOUNTS. Bots, A.I., forgeries, fakes, flakes, phonies, and total boolsheet, LOL!
@@Novastar.SaberCombat I just got scammed by a tinder chick
😂😂😂
I love being single! No headaches !
Same. No more nightmares from your ex leaving you
@ the girl always texting other guys
@@MrWallace484 She was and then she came back a year later 😂
ive pretty much given up on dating now. today's dating culture sucks and so do the people.
Yep
COPE
holy crap, what a great idea. Where'd you come up with that stunning piece of original thought.🤦♂ @@zacharygreen2895
fax
Get an arranged marriage. Or become a passport bro and visit the Philippines.
Never used one and never will, I’d much rather be patient and wait and see what happens naturally
I totally agree
Same
Said the incel
It won't happen naturally
@@bugra320 it does. Most married people met naturally. At work, through friends, at parties. You just have to go outside and do things. Do things for the intentions of having fun not to find someone. The person will come when you focus on yourself
It's ironic that a dating app ad showed up right after I clicked this video.
No it’s how it works. The other day I had to intervene with a neighbor having a mental meltdown…now IM getting mental health ads on MY phone😂
Dating apps are lame. Majority are for hookups which if that's what you are looking for, that's fine. Large number of people don't develop long term relationships from it. People move on after 1-3 dates, constantly looking for the next shiny thing. Before the whole dating app culture, there's more time spent to know someone and the people I know who had long term relationships or married are the ones who dated for a while (only one on one) and then let the relationship grow. It's not instant matching, text for a few days, have a couple meetups, and then the one appears. Just not organic. Dating culture today is exhausting.
"It's been a decade of swiping...."
Got tired of finding a ton of married people on apps for singles.
Those apps are nothing but bots
AI flirting? The world is doomed.
I know dating is hard but I rather not meet someone online. I feel like I've met enough people in person who are very off. So imagine someone online not connected to anyone you know? That's 100x worse.
After 30+ years of meeting a BONKLOAD of individuals over those decades, I cannot honestly say that more than 1-3% of them were ethical, sane, inspiring, awesome people. It's unfortunate, but that's how it is (or whatever... how it WAS). I'm not even talking about dating specifically, either. Just people; everyone en-masse. Narrowing that disaster down to "females I'd like to date who are within a 60-120 mile radius" is clearly as close to the number known as "0" as one could imagine. :)
Meeting person is where it's at! Sooo much better!
You’re a woman right?
They want someone who will move them out of mama’s basement but they have nothing to offer themselves.
Apparently the Match group is being sued at the moment.
AI luring people into a date is 🤢. Dating apps are a thing of the past though. Especially Bumble. Kicking regular people off for getting falsely reported after rejecting someone. Yet tons of bots & scammers get to have profiles. Weird times.
^^^ nailed it. There are more bots on Bumble than there are in Steeeaaar Wahorrrz. #LOL
L: "I would just as soon date a Wookie!"
H: "I can arrange that."
AI could help "solve" dating fatigue?? If anything, I think AI will exacerbate it.
AI already makes job hunting and resumes, applicant tracking software (ATS) etc. an already miserable process even more miserable.
Too many people saying they were looking for relationships are on there just to hook up. Nothing wrong with that, just be honest instead of leading people on for that.
An arsenal of the illusion of options in your phone does not help one's relationship.
Internet Dating was cool from 2008-2016 because they were still somewhat "taboo" then. Then once the apps came it got destroyed. Time to go back to meeting people in person! The apps now are nothing but glorified casino slot machines that make you addicted to swiping.
Cause it's not organic. That's why.
This approach does not work it's been ruined by countless scammers to begin with for years at this point you might as well search for in person dating agency to do the work
Using Ai to have ur convos b/c ur too shy SMH. That's only gon make ur dating/social anxiety worse
The juice isn't worth the squeeze.😂
Whats the bad news on being single...
it's getting expensive lol
@@mohamethsecklolll
@@mohamethseckLol
@@mohamethseck relationships are too expensive
Sounds like all of this generation's gals are worn out and finally ready to find their kids a stepdad.
Well I avoid women with kids
@@Xane_Dragon good. Teach them that hoeing around isn't the same as women's lib.
You do realize those single moms didn’t have kids by themselves right!?!? There’s also a bunch of deadbeat dads out there trying to link up with single childless women.
Nawwww. Wishful thinking. We out here DECENTERING men. Y’all need to go work on yourselves. ✌🏽
Western women are a complete joke 🤣
Majority of the dating apps freaking sucks. Better to play video games or working out at the gym.
Those don't mix you have to pick one.
I do both
Dating apps are like dumpster diving. The book called The Dating App Confessions by Logan Tindell is funny.
Because its freaking hard to a regular guy to get matches let alone dates. When you do get matches, the girl usually stops responding or doesn't respond at all. Women are the issue here imo
Nope. The guys say this but as soon as a good woman comes in your life you’ll play her and go chase bad women
It happens to women too tho. On bumble, the woman has to make the first move. They’ll match with a guy and message him and then he won’t respond
Easier to get laid than ever before. Stop tryna save these women; smash ‘em and pass ‘em on to the next bro
Its soooo many men in relationships on there looking for a quick score lol
Online dating was so passive. I would match with someone and they would never respond. And Ppl do not know how to conversate. No one wants to make the 1st move; so you’re stuck in small talk until you get bored
This AI crap is disgusting. Dehumanizing
Dating in person sucks, but online dating was worse. Ppl are either only looking for hookups, or they come with A LOT of baggage or both
How do I date IRL when I'm stuck in the suburbs of Texas? Fyi there's no nightlife or 3rd places here. And the dating pool is a puddle since everyone is either a boomer or family with young kids.
A friend of mine was telling me about his experiences with Bumble and Tinder and so forth. Half joking around, he requested his data from one of 'em--you know, all the "swipes", clicks, views, matches... whatever. He was bloody well SHOCKED to see that he'd "swiped" something to the tune of 30,000+ images (or accounts or whatever) over the years. And obviously, there were the "no thank yous" as well. I'm certain you can guess as to how many legitimate matches he told me he'd experienced.
Stay classy, humanity. ;)
Most dating apps are just away for women to boost their ego. They just sign up to read the compliments and rarely bother responding. The only legit ones are the ones where women and men both have to pay to join. If the woman is paying for the service it means shes genuinely wanting to meet someone. The ones that charge men and allow women to use it for free are mainly used by women that need a confidence boost or they are just bored and killing time.
We have plenty of friends to hang out with. Who are you kidding? Ego is a YOU problem. 😂
@@tajr.2650 Ummm actually there are videos all over UA-cam of women admitting to using dating apps solely for validation with no intent of meeting anyone on there. But nice try.
@@Xylophone8 nope
Yeah the dating apps and websites have data to support your claim as well with women only picking 2% of their potential matches and men picking over 60% of their potential matches. I'm glad I met my wife the old fashioned way.. Dating these days seems impossible
Keep telling yourself that. Lots of us would not be caught dead on a dating app.
I experienced dating app fatigue a few years ago. People are always recommending me dating apps, people who havent used tinder themselves.
I wanna know how to meet girls in person while stuck in the Texas suburbs with no money
Online dating sux
Oh finally discovered they are just as crummy as on-line dating from the 90's .
Yeah one night stands get really lame after awhile.
Online dating and phone apps are pretty much the same thing. The Internet. It’s a jungle out there.
Lower your expectations and standards, I don’t know how many below average guys I know who expect to wind up with a supermodel.
the only promise that AI has in dating is the ability of brutal truth in assisting in match making, not based on what BS the AI can spin out, but in setting up the match based on real data. People would give up their privacy to the AI dating app, sort of how everyone already has with Instagram and Gmail.
The AI app is ridiculous, it's just going to waste people's time with these socially awkward people using AI to formulate responses and then when they go to meet the person in real life, the jig is up and the other person will be so disappointed 🙄
I don’t believe in love to me my mind thinks scientifically of what I want in someone for both financial and who’s best for having future kids with. Not what I want emotionally. But I also don’t want kids since they have become a burden financially and have enough nieces and nephews to enjoy.
Speed Dating wouldn't work for people who have a bad memory like myself. I'd also be too nervous and might get one sentence out before having to move on 😂
Any person relying on AI is certainly going to be awkward AF in person. AI is not going to help them there.
Simple just ask AI how not to be awkward 🤷♂️ ChatGPT
If your looking for love dating apps isn't the way to go.
I'd rather be single 😂😂😂
Why fatigue you may ask? That’s because dating apps are all exactly alike! It’s because of all the women!!
It's quite an interesting topic, isn't it? The world of dating apps has really transformed how we meet and interact with potential partners. It's fascinating to think about how technology impacts our social lives and the way we connect with others. Discussing dating app fatigue opens up a lot of meaningful conversations about finding balance in our digital and personal lives. It's always good to step back and reflect on how these tools are serving us in our journey to find meaningful connections. 🌟✨👫📱💖
I don’t have to watch this video to know that you people are out of touch.
I have zero idea what a dating app. I met my girlfriend of 3 years in person face to face which seems like a dead concept in our society