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КОМЕНТАРІ • 260

  • @josephdesiderio2020
    @josephdesiderio2020 7 років тому +29

    I've been a huge fan of your work, but this is now my most favorite video of you. It is so refreshing to see a true, compassionate human being behind the actor. Lots of love and respect for you!

  • @scuttle89
    @scuttle89 7 років тому +42

    This is amazing. You'be gone through so much just in the time I've known you and you've become so open and brave in sharing and helping. Can't think of anyone better to make Impulse help this city with ❤️

  • @TheSammigirl13
    @TheSammigirl13 7 років тому +5

    Why can I only like this once?! This amazing, as are you Kayden. This shows not only bravery but also a depth of character that too few possess. I wish more people could stand and own what life has thrown at them. Being HIV+ is absolutely NOT something to be ashamed of, it's just another piece of your puzzle. Stay strong, Kayden, you're a beautiful human.

  • @DavidStuartChemsex
    @DavidStuartChemsex 7 років тому +41

    I love you so much Mr G. Your pride, your truth, your generosity. Your kindness. Your journey.
    I'll be here.

  • @charlieleeblue5747
    @charlieleeblue5747 7 років тому +3

    This is the third time I watch this video, and the third time tears flow down my face because you mean so much to me now that you opened up. I was off PrEP for three months, but since I watched your video the first time- I made an appointment and am now back on PrEP. I want to thank you so much! I wish I could give you a really long hug! Your courage means the world to me.
    Much love for you buddyboy,
    Charlie Blue

  • @connerhabib6656
    @connerhabib6656 7 років тому +55

    Kayden, your voice and clarity make us all stronger. This is beautiful and it's a gift to both gay and porn communities. Thank you. Thank you.

    • @VictoryRRR
      @VictoryRRR 7 років тому +5

      10xrule 1 He's free to post whatever he wants on UA-cam. If you don't like it then piss off.

    • @10xrule16
      @10xrule16 7 років тому +1

      Old Drakey Drake shut the fuck up!

  • @tigerste
    @tigerste 6 років тому +3

    Could see this was very emotional for you Kayden, you have my respect and admiration. I hope almost a year on the judgment has waned and you're getting the support you need! Stay strong x

  • @SecretPricey
    @SecretPricey 7 років тому +4

    You're amazing. It's so powerful to hear such an intimate story as yours, especially when your career is at such a high point. Congratulations on your Prowler btw. There needs to be more voices like yours in the world. This video will help so many people.

  • @heiskevpurrr
    @heiskevpurrr 5 років тому +4

    I appreciate you, this isn’t a easy topic AT ALL....and I commend you for your bravery, the strength you have. I just wanna say THANK YOU I’m a relatable fan.

  • @mikewhite4560
    @mikewhite4560 2 роки тому +3

    Live by the SWORD, die by the SWORD...

  • @shippoujesus
    @shippoujesus 7 років тому +2

    You are such an amazing and brave person. I can't believe the strength you have to pick up your broken pieces and help others. From now on, I'm your fan.
    I send you a big hug from Argentina. ❤

  • @10703TR
    @10703TR 7 років тому +3

    "Take care of yourself. You'll be fine." Heartfelt advice and true. I am also a member of the club. Thank you for your courage.

  • @gregghierholzer
    @gregghierholzer 2 роки тому +1

    I sent you a comment on Twitter, and Here I am starting at the beginning for me but long ago history for you. This was very moving to watch. I am glad that you did the vid. I am not HIV anything hell I almost feel like a nun, compared to some of the stories I hear. But like you said it only takes one time. But again I am glad that you did this video. You are a very beautiful man; inside and out.

  • @johngower2086
    @johngower2086 Рік тому

    Talk about taking a mental blow and flipping the script. Thank you for this and, now - - years later, you have become a major source of helpful information about sexual health. What a guy! With greatest respect writing from the USA.

  • @petermills542
    @petermills542 2 роки тому +1

    I just read a very good interview with Kayden . He talks a lot about how he has always had low self- esteem & bad depressions.
    It is a sobering thought that such an attractive person can feel that way. Thankfully through therapy he feels a much more balanced person now. I wish him all the very best.
    He seems a great, very genuine guy X ❤

  • @wilv79
    @wilv79 7 років тому +2

    TY for this Kayden, I'm sure it'll help someone. I know it would've definitely made things easier for me when I found out I was positive.

  • @Giane19h
    @Giane19h 7 років тому +1

    i really wanna thank you for this video its been a long time sense I saw someone so honest and what happening with him and giving real advice for others without wanting anything back I felt like you were talking from your heart and you really made my think about a lot .

  • @michaelrobson3156
    @michaelrobson3156 Рік тому

    I deeply admire your attitude Kayden, and send you all my love. Wished every one living with HIV had the same vision and came out about it. It would be of great help to destigmatize

  • @theglamazonjerrica4130
    @theglamazonjerrica4130 7 років тому

    Much love ❤️. It's been 3.5 years for me and so nice to hear somebody talk about this in a vet humanizing way. Stay strong brother and glad to know the club has you fighting the fight with us.

  • @clarawagner2031
    @clarawagner2031 7 років тому +1

    Going to a party and having unprotected sex with unknown people is like playing russian roulette. At least you are making it public. It could help many others. You are brave.

  • @juansecplaistoo8622
    @juansecplaistoo8622 5 років тому +1

    Very glad that you had made this vid. If people have been unkind or critical, it's far too easy to take them seriously, bullying is like that. But, rest assured, you get big kudos for being brave enough to tell your truth to the world.

  • @richardhughes9838
    @richardhughes9838 7 років тому +11

    I commend you for your honest and positivity. You don't change as a person and I'm sure your a great guy who has a great positive attitude towards life.
    I can't think of a better person to help those who need to seek the professional help Impulse can give.
    Don't let anyone stop you being you.

  • @DrewHerbertlung
    @DrewHerbertlung 7 років тому +1

    I applaud you for coming out about your status and being honest. I have followed your work since the beginning. Thank you for sharing your journey. If you need to talk with someone, I am here for you.

  • @estelianetroya9047
    @estelianetroya9047 7 років тому

    I am watching you from Venezuela, it means your message is traveling across the world and is very scaring the way those ilnesses like HVI or VPH are increasing on population, most of them young guys, so, be strong, be smart, don't make the same mistakes again cause yes, just like you said, it takes only a minute, a party, a moment to change your life that way. You'll be fine, God gives strong fights to the stronguest fighters.
    Bless

  • @blackmahn
    @blackmahn 7 років тому

    Thank you for your openness and honesty. So needed as it helps get more people tested as it continues to normalize HIV positive statuses.

  • @marcusliangcheechong6397
    @marcusliangcheechong6397 7 років тому

    kayden. you are honest and brave guy. your story really inspired me. I diagnosed almost three month now and with medication I stay in healthy live,change my lifestyle. being positive really make a big change of my life to live more stronger and face the reality

  • @pyropower
    @pyropower 7 років тому +31

    Thanks for sharing. HIV stigmatisation is real and sharing stories help.

  • @hambvart
    @hambvart 7 років тому +27

    Still many guys would dream of you as their partner.

    • @10xrule16
      @10xrule16 7 років тому +2

      HIV Partner no fucking way...

    • @petermills542
      @petermills542 5 років тому +2

      @@10xrule16. What then if your partner became HIV positive for instance ?
      ( personally I find your flippancy completely wide of the mark having just watched Kayden,s moving & intelligent clarity about his experience )

  • @alexderavin1
    @alexderavin1 7 років тому

    really really appreciate that you had the courage to come out - stands like this give a face to the disease and help fight the stigma. thanks!

  • @inextao
    @inextao 7 років тому

    You are an amazingly brave person! I always thought there was something heavy inside you, a touch of sadness, something like that. Thank you for sharing that! Wishing you all the best from Russia. Hope you are having a wonderful life! London Impulse is so lucky to have you!

  • @iftheskyweregreen
    @iftheskyweregreen 7 років тому

    This was very brave. It speaks to you're character. Frankly, this kind of strength and authenticity. In my humble opinion, it only proves how lovable you are.

  • @bobby1985ify
    @bobby1985ify 7 років тому +1

    thank you for your honesty and bravery for telling us your status i know it wasnt easy im still a big fan of yours 😙💋 big big hugs stay strong

  • @critifur
    @critifur 7 років тому

    Good of you to open up about this, to lessen stigma, to warn about unprotected sex, for so many reasons. You have been and are still one of my favorite performers since the first time I saw you. Best wishes to you, and continued good health.

  • @zkcmalik
    @zkcmalik 6 років тому +3

    Your story serves as a lesson and inspiration to everyone. Hugs buddy. You are adorable. Everything that you do. Your honesty and transparency. Bucket list is to meet you in person one day. Kia kaha :)

  • @cmsanchez705
    @cmsanchez705 7 років тому +5

    You are so brave .
    I am so happy for you and for putting away all the stigmas around it.

  • @Godi894
    @Godi894 7 років тому +2

    I loved it! Thanks for sharing, I wish I would be as brave as you...what a great message!

  • @ajdefault01
    @ajdefault01 7 років тому

    Dear Kayden - I admire your work, on and off screen, and you yourself even more after hearing you talk about this imortant issue. Thank you for sharing your thoughts - Allan

  • @odiaz25
    @odiaz25 7 років тому

    Thanks for sharing with us your experience! You are one if my favorite actors because outside the set you have a lot of charisma.

  • @ImAdamNotAdz
    @ImAdamNotAdz 7 років тому

    This is very brave of you man, stigmatisation is rife and these stories and sharing helps so much! Well done x

  • @nefialvarez1478
    @nefialvarez1478 7 років тому +5

    thank​ you for sharing! that was so powerful and honest !! love you!

  • @dinno64952001
    @dinno64952001 7 років тому

    dude, just wanna let you know that you're not alone. you have supports from family, friends ! love you n hugs. please stay strong, for hopes are always there for those who have faith.

  • @DennyBoyXo
    @DennyBoyXo 7 років тому

    I've had a scare last December, but turns out that I was negative when I got tested. Although I am negative, I take being "safe" very seriously. Not bash anyone who's living with it by any means. You people are BRAVE! My love, and respect goes to everyone who is living with this. Hope for some sort of cure, if there even is one, but I doubt it.

  • @David-pt8ge
    @David-pt8ge 7 років тому

    I've been positive for 14 years. It's been a ride. Bad and good. But I feel resilient and having gone through the party scene and come out the other end, a little jaded, but relatively in one piece. Thanks for sharing.

  • @kseo88
    @kseo88 7 років тому +1

    You're brave as hell to post this video man. Super inspiring stuff. I hope you take care of yourself!

  • @danndulin5306
    @danndulin5306 7 років тому

    Jolly good for you! Proud of your honesty and straightforwardness. You are terrific.

  • @daleylad7298
    @daleylad7298 7 років тому +3

    You're very brave! You should thank yourself for doing this. All the best x

  • @christopherluvspeter666
    @christopherluvspeter666 6 років тому +6

    I love you Kayden. You are such a beautiful soul. You have my support always. Love you. ❤❤❤💋

  • @michaelclarke549
    @michaelclarke549 7 років тому

    ...thanks for this vid, Kayden. Amazingly honest, brave, strong and open. Always thought you were an awesome guy and this vid confirms that. Take good care...

  • @FAMILYDAD10
    @FAMILYDAD10 7 років тому

    Mr. Kayden Gray I thgt wat u said was wonderful. Tht had to super cathartic. I look up to you. I wish that every gay man could hear this. As I was listening to you, I kept thinking if only more porn actors would speak out whether they are positive or negative. Our gay men hve come to glamourize bare backing and not realizing you guys have to be tested. I personally feel if they told their fans what and what not to do, it would be very impactful. Not all will listen but some will.

  • @ryder0356
    @ryder0356 7 років тому +1

    all the love in the world to Kayden Gray with this announcement, we support you, we love you, we admire your bravery, and thank you so much so sharing your story and message with us. it is so important to be visible and honest in this community and this is just a stunning example of that. thank you again

  • @stephendepaoli3813
    @stephendepaoli3813 7 років тому +1

    Not an easy video to make. Well done & thank you. For those who continue to preach while living in their own glass houses, maybe they will learn a thing or two from this video. We all learn from our mistakes - I believe we learn more without judgement. Stay strong & know that you have the support of many. Cheers!

  • @TremblingLeaves
    @TremblingLeaves 7 років тому +1

    I'm very proud of you. You are courageous; I find you inspiring. I hope you find all the love and happiness you ever wanted surrounded by people who care, love, adore and respect you.

  • @Abel-w3n
    @Abel-w3n 3 місяці тому

    ure such a Big inspiration bby , life is harrdd AF but its beautiful- ure a great person, thanks for share ur good vibes and part of Ur life with US ♥♥♥

  • @donaldbryson7941
    @donaldbryson7941 7 років тому

    Congestion Kayden, I know it has to be hard for you. But you are not alone and there are several people who will be helped by your courage

  • @SiriusGrifindor-yd4to
    @SiriusGrifindor-yd4to Рік тому

    Hope you're fine Kayden literally my gay fave since little and literally hope you're healing and becoming undetectable,stay gay,and 'original''pure'gay

  • @aoriwacanoco
    @aoriwacanoco 7 років тому +1

    Hey friend. I honestly still don't know u for ur work but for this news that has gone around the world with a somewhat yellowish tint. In my opinion you're a very brave man to assume before the public that you're HIV +. That's why I admire ur determination to the world. U count on our support. Greetings from Venezuela..!

  • @ianyang9298
    @ianyang9298 7 років тому

    I LOVE YOU. ❤️You are a very strong man and you deserve to live your life happily. Be strong, and be safe!

  • @topcat2023
    @topcat2023 7 років тому +1

    So brave of you to share this. Hats off to you. But so important to get the stigma of being positive. The message is clear, end the stigma and everyone get tested. Know your status.

  • @santiagoospina7991
    @santiagoospina7991 7 років тому +3

    Es de mucha valentía reconocer que tienes está enfermedad, quizás no leas este mensaje ya que está en español de todas formas mucha fuerza y mis mas sinceros y buenos deseos para ti, eres humano y es de humanos equivocarse y es de humanos reconocer las consecuencias que se dan a lo largo de nuestras vidas. fuerzas guapo 💓

  • @SergeyKiper
    @SergeyKiper 7 років тому +1

    Strong video. Not everyone can admit this. I do not know what to write in such situations. But in any case, I'm with you, although we are in different countries. I'm sure that everything will be fine. And I hope that your video will help other people who are facing HIV. #WeAreTogether!

  • @jamiete-whau595
    @jamiete-whau595 7 років тому +1

    Aww kayden that is so sad. 😭😓 Don't worry you can overcome this Hun. 😘😘 Just keep soldiering on.

  • @ferdinandportland8563
    @ferdinandportland8563 7 років тому +1

    I love you even more my friend!! Thanks for sharing! Stay happy and strong no matter what. :)

  • @JessyAsanti
    @JessyAsanti 7 років тому +1

    Hey,
    I condragulate you!
    Thanks for sharing your story and also your experience BUT also for all the work you do! I can’t commend you enough. You are, to me, a true hero. I hope your video will empower and help other people.
    I wish you the best and please keep on educating the world.
    Kisses, J.

  • @Aikawadesuka
    @Aikawadesuka 7 років тому +10

    You're my crush 😔 I don't have words to say. Thanks for sharing! Get well soon keep it up. 💕 Stay cute please! 😳

  • @rodebiencapuyan815
    @rodebiencapuyan815 7 років тому

    Your so brave to open up about being an HIV positive. Much love and support to you.

  • @GuruishMike
    @GuruishMike 7 років тому +2

    Glad you didn't disappear.

  • @darrencrews7840
    @darrencrews7840 7 років тому +2

    A very emotional video and thank you for sharing and opening up about something so personal. I remember when I seroconverted (though at the time I just thought it was a random, bad illness). I was extremely weak and had black grit like substance in my mouth. I did go in to hospital as it was a routine Oncology appointment (I was diagnosed with cancer 2 years prior to being diagnosed with HIV). They could see how unwell I was but all they did for me was give me Corsodyl mouthwash, and so I remained undiagnosed for a further 6 months. After my HIV diagnosis I went through the same withdrawal and feelings of shame for a few months after. That was just over 5 years ago for me. After going through cancer and living with HIV I am a much stronger person than I was before. I still fear rejection and worry about the stigma surrounding HIV which is why I am not very open about it. I can understand the bravery it must have taken you to open up about your status, thank you for doing so, and let's hope this has a positive impact on many others.

  • @giorgiocolleoni5661
    @giorgiocolleoni5661 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks a lot. I appreciated your message.

  • @markbrakspear3814
    @markbrakspear3814 7 років тому +3

    Amazing. Thank you. That was really honest - you are really brave. x

  • @hazel_eyed_deb1516
    @hazel_eyed_deb1516 7 років тому

    Hey Sweetie ... You already know how I feel about this video and what it is about and that it doesn't change the fact that you are a caring, loving and sweet person. The people who are negative towards you are afraid because they don't understand or don't want to understand the disease and that today you can live a long life if you take the proper precautions, as you have. And as for your work ... the studios that hire you wouldn't if they thought that you were a danger to the other models, they understand the situation. Please don't let the negativity of the few out way the way your supporters and loved ones feel about you. XXXXXXX

  • @jonjonwp
    @jonjonwp 6 років тому +1

    I'm sure love for you spreads all over the world. I respect and admire you.

  • @michaelglockner91
    @michaelglockner91 7 років тому +4

    Hello Kayden, that was incredible. I am a gay man who has had HIV since 2005 and it has turned into AIDS in 2011. I have 16 UA-cam videos under my full name Michael Glockner on HIV/AIDS on life, how to eat, and what I have done to survive. I hope you can take the time to watch them, it will help and I enjoy helping people all over the world to fight this disease. Keep your spirit up, as you said, the dust does settle and then you can move forward with hope. Love you, Michael Glockner

  • @Betterthingswecanachieve
    @Betterthingswecanachieve 7 років тому +1

    I think this video is going to help a lot of people and you should be very proud of yourself.

  • @stevensmith8214
    @stevensmith8214 4 роки тому +1

    What a brave soldier

  • @erroljoe
    @erroljoe 6 років тому

    Hola Mr. Great Personality! After watching several adult vids of you ( which I loved hahaa) I was curious to the person behind that face. And I was immedialty impressed: Brave! Then, ofcousre i watched the rest of your channel, and I think u can be a good "+ role model" in the LGBT community. You have a great openminded, caring and insprirational personality ( besides being a super funny sexy man !) Big hugs & keep up the good work from another happy + guy.

  • @vishnushankar7232
    @vishnushankar7232 5 років тому +1

    If only I found such people in my life, I'd keep them happy as much as I can, keeping them away from the protesters..........

  • @owen-qg2cs
    @owen-qg2cs 6 років тому +1

    Saludos des de colombiaaaa eres mi actor favorito 🇨🇴😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @dariovalenciaalpizar1634
    @dariovalenciaalpizar1634 3 роки тому +1

    Kayden keep it up you are a very good person and brave i admire you a lot

  • @VladimirVillanes
    @VladimirVillanes 4 роки тому +1

    I still love you Kayden! This doesn't define you.

  • @ddhsd
    @ddhsd 7 років тому +6

    I have been an avid fan and blogger of Gay Porn for years and this is about the most impactfull statement I have seen from an industry veteran
    So many in this business are positive yet scared to admit it while remaining active performers
    That you one of the biggest names in Euro porn has taken this public stance is so much braver than most fans could possibly be aware
    Much respect

  • @JesusRodriguez-fd5vv
    @JesusRodriguez-fd5vv 7 років тому +1

    i love ur video, kind of difficult to watch it but really good! thanks for sharing. love u bro!

  • @joshuaodonnell874
    @joshuaodonnell874 7 років тому

    I would just like to say a simple thank you for you inspirational video you did about your status. Hopefully it stops the fires of stigma. it's funnily enough I went through the same thing in the same way you contracted the disease. You've inspired me to look on the positive side of life and to keep going on no matter what. Just thought I would let you know my appreciation and thanks. ✌✌✌✌✌✌

  • @fgg250
    @fgg250 7 років тому

    Text please. I want a translation and understand what it says

  • @hamzanafty1212
    @hamzanafty1212 7 років тому

    thanks kayden for sharing this with us #Respect #BeStrong 💜💜💜

  • @ИванСоколов-к1л
    @ИванСоколов-к1л 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for your courage, Kayden. 🙏I have been living with HIV for almost 21 years. I'm Russian. the stigma is very high here. And it's not easy for me here, but I'm trying to survive. Life is one! Tell me, please, what are the names of your drugs?

  • @master3d234
    @master3d234 7 років тому

    Kayden i have been a fan off yours from day 1, Just amazing words you touched alot people heart's Kayden you always have my support Always 3 Xxx Always stay posative Kayden

  • @trevortrevortsr2
    @trevortrevortsr2 6 років тому

    An important message that took courage to make - Kayden all our best wishes x

  • @Whatupdoq
    @Whatupdoq Рік тому

    I’m 16 and I am already joining the club I literally am up at 2 in the morning and I just figured out today (same day I got really bad symptoms out of no where) this video is very comforting and I would much rather hear this before I face telling my parents who were just telling me I was disgusting for having my first time less than a year ago
    I don’t know how I’m supposed to tell my friend’s hiv is literally a joke at our school
    I was gonna wait till after I tested with the free test but my mouth hurt to bad so I told her this morning and she told me to “get the fuck out of her room” so I don’t know what’s gonna happen 🤷‍♂️

  • @kimakotrotman6860
    @kimakotrotman6860 3 роки тому +1

    This is a GOOD thing.

  • @fabianofkb8089
    @fabianofkb8089 6 років тому

    You rock, Kayden! Stay strong 💪

  • @everardolongoria
    @everardolongoria 7 років тому

    awesome video!! so sorry to hear what you are going through but I'm glad at how positive you try to look at things!! you're a very special person! just liked and subscribed and I'm looking forward to more of your videos, much love!! xoxo

  • @tomyoko
    @tomyoko 7 років тому

    Thanks for sharing that. I really appreciate it. To me, what's underneath the dust that settled is very strong and beautiful :)

  • @Jackychivilchez
    @Jackychivilchez 7 років тому

    Hola kayden :)Que valiente eres,mucha fuerzaTe mando mi admiración y mis buenos deseos para ti.Abrazo! :)

  • @davidwhittemore1771
    @davidwhittemore1771 7 років тому

    Love this. Thanks for sharing your story and bringing light to an important issue.

  • @akizuki9402035
    @akizuki9402035 7 років тому

    You are so good to forthcoming for this , I love you forever

  • @GRQJOYEUX
    @GRQJOYEUX 7 років тому +1

    I kiss you on your beautiful heart. It was such a candid statement.

  • @jingarosm
    @jingarosm 5 років тому

    Quite sad to hear it. Take care, Kayden and I wish you a 100 % effective treatment

  • @igabambrowicz531
    @igabambrowicz531 7 років тому

    Bardzo odważne wyznanie. Z pewnością pomożesz nim wielu osobom :) pozdrawiam Cię gorąco Z Jarocina

    • @KaydenGray
      @KaydenGray  7 років тому

      IGA CIESIELSKA Dziekuje 🙂❤️

  • @federicoconcas3275
    @federicoconcas3275 6 років тому

    Thank you so much for sharing awareness

  • @freddiesalone
    @freddiesalone 7 років тому

    Fun fact: The music at the end of the video is the instrumental of a song called Telemiscommunications. Don't let people on the internet define you, sort out your own reality.