“We can’t pay you but you’ll get exposure”

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 12 лип 2024
  • Support my music by becoming a patron at patreon.com/mmmanastasy
    ________________________________________________________________________
    To all my fellow artists that receive requests to do their job for free and feel bad saying no.
    Respect yourself, your craft and passion, time and effort you’ve put into this, and make a very clear distinction between those who offer you an unpaid performance that will indeed help you out in the long run VS cheap, inconsiderate, and greedy people who just want to take advantage of you.
    Let's share and put an end to this.
    If you liked it, please give it a 👍🏻 & follow - I appreciate it
    Cheers!
    Xx
    Anastasiia
    mmm_anastasy
    Anastasiiamazurok.com

КОМЕНТАРІ • 4,1 тис.

  • @MmmAnastasy
    @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +156

    Thank you for landing on my channel!
    Another video about this: ua-cam.com/video/WdK3iTNHQMU/v-deo.html
    Follow me on instagram.com/mmm_anastasy
    For exclusive daily violin videos, practice tips, merchandise, and behind-the-scenes, check out Patreon.com/mmmanastasy
    More about me at anastasiiamazurok.com
    Have a wonderful day and remember to be kind to people.
    - Anastasiia

    • @jocelyns5331
      @jocelyns5331 3 роки тому +1

      A pleasure, to be sure...
      வணக்கம்

    • @serpentine1983
      @serpentine1983 3 роки тому +1

      Tell them the same thing... "Hey, organize our orchestra event, lots of people will come, they'll know you organized it and might get hired by them in the future!"....

    • @workingproleinc.676
      @workingproleinc.676 3 роки тому +2

      You should have round the end up
      With Joker make up!
      _If you are good in something never do it for free_ 😌🤣🤣

    • @funk3nst3in
      @funk3nst3in 3 роки тому

      I would have to say that this is by far the first and most polyglot channel i have seen in a while... And thats saying enough on its own

    • @leonardofranzinribeiro4220
      @leonardofranzinribeiro4220 3 роки тому

      Looks like you were blessed by the UA-cam algorythm! Or maybe you have something genuinely amazing hidden here and now we know.

  • @tigermunky
    @tigermunky 3 роки тому +1934

    I had a restaurant ask me to design their menu and entire company branding...for free. They gave me the same shit; that they couldn't pay me, but that it would be good for my 'portfolio'.
    I responded telling them that I would do it, but that I would expect free meals every day, since this would be good for their chef's 'portfolio'.
    The fuckers never messaged me back.

    • @Marewig
      @Marewig 3 роки тому +98

      That's gold! 😂😂😂

    • @ultrasound914
      @ultrasound914 3 роки тому +121

      SMH they wouldn't give da man's a free meal for free work I swear people these days straight evil.

    • @angrydoodle8919
      @angrydoodle8919 3 роки тому +35

      Free meals everyday. Exactly what a comrade needs

    • @IrradioMan
      @IrradioMan 3 роки тому +64

      i would have said the same thing. "i'll recommend your restaurant to all my friends if i can eat here for free!"

    • @kezziekz
      @kezziekz 3 роки тому +2

      HAHAHAHHHAHA

  • @Dubb1000
    @Dubb1000 3 роки тому +675

    Even as a hitman, I can still relate to this.

    • @kvnndvn
      @kvnndvn 3 роки тому +48

      Do you offer midweek discounts lol?

    • @ed1659
      @ed1659 3 роки тому +47

      Can i get 3 for a price of 2?

    • @noone3272
      @noone3272 3 роки тому +4

      Hitman?🙄🙄😈

    • @nyxmiloq4167
      @nyxmiloq4167 3 роки тому +22

      Now hold the duck up

    • @mthmoon8724
      @mthmoon8724 3 роки тому +44

      So imagine this situaition. I hire you and then you do The job. And I pay u with exposure, like telling who you are and what you do.
      So now People will be always coming after you.

  • @demarcdegasol
    @demarcdegasol 3 роки тому +383

    “You might get exposure”
    Yes as in exposed to the elements because I won’t be able to afford a roof over my head.

    • @jimg1787
      @jimg1787 3 роки тому

      Aww you beat me to it. haha well played sir.

    • @dylanduke1075
      @dylanduke1075 3 роки тому

      gold

  • @matthiasbraul
    @matthiasbraul 3 роки тому +536

    The dislikes are probably from those people who don't want to pay.

    • @terrorazeing
      @terrorazeing 3 роки тому +17

      ....And from those shallow-minded people who simply can't get why it matters to any artists. All, or at least, most of them would surely take this as something "egoistical" on the part of the artist - which is not. And for sure it's just their own pathetic way of justifying their selfish reasons on why they want to hire an artist free of charge.

    • @RH-yy8ff
      @RH-yy8ff 3 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @dionfolaa8102
      @dionfolaa8102 3 роки тому +1

      shamless beggers

    • @PointnShootMovies
      @PointnShootMovies 3 роки тому +4

      I kinda wanted to dislike because it randomly got recommended but didn’t cuz I tacitly agreed with the message

    • @hisyamhasbi8257
      @hisyamhasbi8257 3 роки тому

      @Yeshua Is Lord hahaha

  • @Panadanaut
    @Panadanaut 6 років тому +6320

    Like the saying goes "If you are good at something, don't do it for free"

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +506

      good saying :)

    • @andsalomoni
      @andsalomoni 3 роки тому +255

      Unless doing it is worthy [e.g. free lessons to a child who can't pay, playing at a party with friends, etc.]
      Just don't accept to work for free when they are only trying to exploit you.

    • @christianknuchel
      @christianknuchel 3 роки тому +74

      It depends. I think what's important is this: If you do free stuff, do it on your own terms. Whilst there is a lot of corporate investment in free software these days, without enthusiasts pouring work into it the entire movement that brought it into existence wouldn't even have existed to begin with. There's also something to say about free art (and software, of course) in the game development scene as well. The stuff talked about in the video is just blatant insolence, however, and doesn't just touch on issues of art, but goes deeper into the issue of worker exploitation.

    • @PianoCarl
      @PianoCarl 3 роки тому +19

      I believe it goes beyond that. Isn't any work value on several years of hard practicing? Many times people think that playing an instrument in a professional level it is just like a hobby, when actually is a lifetime sacrifice.

    • @ellenorbjornsdottir1166
      @ellenorbjornsdottir1166 3 роки тому +8

      Unless you enjoy doing it for free.

  • @onee
    @onee 3 роки тому +1875

    The worst part is, when something is free, people tend to not see the value in it. And end up complaining about the smallest things.

  • @Ry-ss5dz
    @Ry-ss5dz 3 роки тому +359

    The worst is when you are undervalued by your own family or friends.

    • @MrCamille9999
      @MrCamille9999 3 роки тому +3

      Wdym, you expect your family to pay you when you play something for them?

    • @szentineltorony4745
      @szentineltorony4745 3 роки тому +46

      @@MrCamille9999 no, but it's a common case that artists' families do not understand them nor their passion. "You should get a normal job!", "You shouldn't waste your time with this shit!" and so on.

    • @MrCamille9999
      @MrCamille9999 3 роки тому +2

      @@szentineltorony4745 Oh like that, well my parents are musicians and there are a lot of musicians and people who appreciate music in my family so I guess I never had that issue

    • @szentineltorony4745
      @szentineltorony4745 3 роки тому +7

      @@MrCamille9999 Lucky you. =) I only can imagine what a fine childhood/young adulthood you had. My family is much less... supportive.

    • @MrCamille9999
      @MrCamille9999 3 роки тому +6

      @@szentineltorony4745 Well my teacher was actually my father so it was sometimes a little too much support if you know what I mean ^^ but yeah it's probably better to have parents that are demanding in their support rather than dismissal, hope you're doing good now though!

  • @qarlsson1
    @qarlsson1 3 роки тому +134

    Anyone heard of: "We have a logo design competition!" ... It's a competition so we don't have to pay for anything! The winner gets payed in winning! Yay!

    • @gdoubleu8045
      @gdoubleu8045 3 роки тому +10

      That's one of the worst. Also, whole websites designed around competitions for logos that take advantage of naive students starting out. Arseholes.

    • @TheEnderBand
      @TheEnderBand 3 роки тому +5

      Yay we get a litany of free graphic design work done for free, then we get to act like we are the cool generous ones for picking a winner when the ones getting the prize is actually us! Yay!

    • @pranaytony
      @pranaytony 3 роки тому +1

      That's the most evil thing that I heard right now!

    • @pranaytony
      @pranaytony 3 роки тому +1

      And now this canva, logomakers and all!

    • @swaspc7618
      @swaspc7618 3 роки тому

      All the companies like Fiverr, Upwork, FreeUp, Freelancer... and many more including all the microstock and streaming music are destroying the creative industries, only a few make money because of volume. Perhaps the future will bring some hope with Blockchain with the DAO (Decentralized Autonomous Organization) "owned" and "governed" by the same members.

  • @JB-gc3yi
    @JB-gc3yi 3 роки тому +2876

    "Can you teach my kids for free?" is my absolute favorite.

    • @EnderElohim
      @EnderElohim 3 роки тому +112

      yeah especially when your wife ask that for your kids XD

    • @blanche1935
      @blanche1935 3 роки тому +161

      @@EnderElohim Well, if they are your kids it’s different lol

    • @EnderElohim
      @EnderElohim 3 роки тому +168

      @@blanche1935 yeah you can at least give 80% sale to them XD

    • @verapamil07
      @verapamil07 3 роки тому +9

      You should see it in consulting. They ask over email 10 questions and then they will see when you answer if they would like to work with you. LOL

    • @SampsonAndBeasley
      @SampsonAndBeasley 3 роки тому +21

      “Sure! Your kids won’t have to pay a thing! You’ll be charged for lessons and child care in your next bill however.”

  • @DominiqueRoseASMR
    @DominiqueRoseASMR 3 роки тому +1347

    Honestly, you stated this so politely. More politely than I'm sure any artist wants to 😅

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +284

      I had to. It has more weight when it's polite and to the point.

    • @Cbrunning849
      @Cbrunning849 3 роки тому +12

      I don't think it was that polite but it also wasn't rude or anything. it's just honest. You wouldn't call a restaurant and expect them to cater for free, why people think they can do that with entertainers is ridiculous

    • @Li_Tobler
      @Li_Tobler 3 роки тому +1

      @@Cbrunning849 sorry that I'm random, but you've got such a beautiful name and surname 🤍 they just flow together

    • @jocelyns5331
      @jocelyns5331 3 роки тому

      @@MmmAnastasy வணக்கம்

    • @Cbrunning849
      @Cbrunning849 3 роки тому

      @@Li_Tobler Thanks!

  • @michelguevara151
    @michelguevara151 3 роки тому +55

    as an artist that was told many times over the years , "with everything you can do, why aren't you a millionaire?"
    I usually responded "because people like you think I should work for nothing."

    • @VitinRitsu
      @VitinRitsu 3 роки тому +7

      @@dijonjohn1011 They are easy to work with because they are stupid and don't know their worth. Good for you for taking advantage of other peoples dreams

  • @Poop-nu1so
    @Poop-nu1so 3 роки тому +375

    "Will I get paid for this?"
    "no, but you'll get exposure"
    "for what?"
    "maybe some rich person will notice you and hire you"
    "for money?"
    "no, for more exposure"
    "why?"
    "maybe some even richer person will notice you and hire you"
    "for money this time?"
    "no, but you'll get even more exposure"
    *repeat until artist has starved to death*
    Rich People: "Hey want to sell this dead artist's work for royalities?"
    "Sure, but don't overplay it, don't want it getting too much exposure"

    • @treesaregreen
      @treesaregreen 3 роки тому +9

      top tier comment

    • @Artist_of_Imagination
      @Artist_of_Imagination 3 роки тому +17

      This comment needs to get more _exposure_

    • @romuloprieto2529
      @romuloprieto2529 3 роки тому +6

      Criminally under _exposed_

    • @Milesco
      @Milesco 3 роки тому +6

      @@dijonjohn1011 : Doing free gigs is OK when you're literally _just starting out,_ but after you've been doing it for a few years, you shouldn't be expected to work for free.

    • @tylermoore8218
      @tylermoore8218 2 роки тому

      Sadly this is the case for a lot of composers…

  • @junialter
    @junialter 3 роки тому +6473

    That counts for everybody who's good at something, not only artists.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +881

      Unfortunately, yes.

    • @JustFiddler
      @JustFiddler 3 роки тому +20

      indeed

    • @wayfaringshaman
      @wayfaringshaman 3 роки тому +40

      Yes, you are good at...something. Hope you got the validation you needed.

    • @JackFate76
      @JackFate76 3 роки тому +13

      It is also true if you’re not so good. Or even bad.

    • @crush3146
      @crush3146 3 роки тому +73

      Disagree. They (almost) never ask for a doctor to work without being paid but eventually they'll try to lower the price. And there's a HUGE difference between artists and doctors on how much they earn.

  • @OlivierGomis
    @OlivierGomis 3 роки тому +3819

    I get emails every day from companies managing Facebook pages wanting to repost my videos. Everytime they say this “We can’t pay you but you’ll get exposure”. And the worst thing is they make money of of this.

    • @Wtahc
      @Wtahc 3 роки тому +9

      bowl

    • @KyLe-fn5rd
      @KyLe-fn5rd 3 роки тому +190

      Send a pic of ur butt how's that for exposure

    • @sadouyoucef2189
      @sadouyoucef2189 3 роки тому +19

      @@KyLe-fn5rd lmao good one bro

    • @zfee8328
      @zfee8328 3 роки тому +113

      @@crowmaster9652 Ouch. You never had a skill or value that mattered to the world to be compensated 🤣 great advice for anyone who wants to stay a cheap brokey like yourself

    • @Kyugorn
      @Kyugorn 3 роки тому +38

      Meanwhile, certain video game companies would flaunt around cease and decist orders for fan games in spite of the cases in which they aren't made for profit. Really goes to show how enough greed can make the entire entertainment industry function completely arse-backwards.

  • @JoseCarvajal.
    @JoseCarvajal. 3 роки тому +148

    As a professional photographer I constantly get the same comments and it is a mixture between feeling depressed and disrespected. I hope this video reaches all those people who is directly attacking years of study and hard work. Thanks a lot Anastasiia!

    • @MrFriendlyCsgoContent
      @MrFriendlyCsgoContent 3 роки тому +1

      don't feel depressed, just see it as a good opprotunity to send them a witty remark

    • @happy-pk7ju
      @happy-pk7ju 2 роки тому

      What is exposure?

  • @S3GXY
    @S3GXY 3 роки тому +63

    After 18 years of hard work and dedication i won't even listen to anyone after they say "But we can't pay you". Neither should you.

    • @S3GXY
      @S3GXY 3 роки тому +4

      @@dijonjohn1011 you've got good points but then again sometimes you need value your work and talent first so others can get some idea of how valuable it is for you and how valuable it is for them. Only then the middle ground somewhere between can be reached.

    • @Milesco
      @Milesco 3 роки тому +3

      @@dijonjohn1011 : Superstars don't need exposure. That's what it _means_ to be a superstar. If and when they work for free, it's for charity.

    • @MustacheDLuffy
      @MustacheDLuffy 3 роки тому

      @@dijonjohn1011 What he’s saying is if they don’t want to pay him that it should be okay if he doesn’t accept their request if he doesn’t want it

  • @brainiac31K
    @brainiac31K 3 роки тому +275

    To bank loan officer: I can’t pay you back, but you’ll get wonderful exposure.

    • @Dayvit78
      @Dayvit78 3 роки тому +5

      lol. I'll tell everyone you give loans that can be paid back with exposure. You'll get so many new customers!

    • @rageaxis9777
      @rageaxis9777 3 роки тому

      What a fucking completely stupid comment, false equivalency. you are a fuckwit!

    • @av3ngers17
      @av3ngers17 3 роки тому +4

      @Kelsey damn dude you killed him!

  • @farrex0
    @farrex0 3 роки тому +165

    Isn't it funny how people make fun of artists, of how artists have no money, that if you pursue a career in arts you will die of hunger, but when they need you, suddenly they are the ones that have no money.

    • @Milesco
      @Milesco 3 роки тому +5

      Then again, maybe that's why artists have no money! 😁

    • @Quitarstudent
      @Quitarstudent 3 роки тому +8

      no one really needs artists, in the literal definition of the word, thats why ppl want to undercut their work, they just dont value it, you see how in art industries every day, look at pop music, its recycled shit with no invention, yet they make big money, because its not about actual art or music, its marketing and branding

    • @dylanroll5192
      @dylanroll5192 3 роки тому +4

      @@Quitarstudent Disney and other animations studio will disagree

    • @mrsqueak4837
      @mrsqueak4837 3 роки тому +7

      @@dylanroll5192 Both can exist at the same time. Video games like Fifa and Call of Duty are also just recycled shit to get more money each year, yet there's still amazing games out there that can actually be called ART.

    • @keeganbulter4686
      @keeganbulter4686 3 роки тому +1

      @@dylanroll5192 I'm sure there are more trained violinists than jobs for trained violinists, If they really need you trust me you will get paid for it.

  • @SilverDog237
    @SilverDog237 3 роки тому +15

    As a starting producer, I have one important rule:
    I never record a musician in my studio without paying them.

  • @littleladytoge5306
    @littleladytoge5306 3 роки тому +7

    "Well, if you *truly* love your craft, you would do it for free!"
    Yeah, I love art.
    But you know what else I love?
    Not dying from hunger.

  • @argophontes
    @argophontes 3 роки тому +1910

    "You'll get exposure."
    "Yes, I'll be exposed to being broke."

    • @crowmaster9652
      @crowmaster9652 3 роки тому +3

      being broke isn't news.

    • @filipedias7284
      @filipedias7284 3 роки тому +25

      Exposed to homelessness

    • @gordonilaoa1275
      @gordonilaoa1275 3 роки тому +14

      My music itinerary teacher back in high school was married to an artist. He said being married to another artist made double the chances to stay poor.

    • @sailaab
      @sailaab 3 роки тому

      😅😁👌🏽

    • @maestrobjwa90
      @maestrobjwa90 3 роки тому

      Alright I'll have to steal this bro😂😂😂

  • @guywithknife
    @guywithknife 3 роки тому +320

    Just tell them "exposure is what you die from when you're out in the cold too long"

    • @jokertm6889
      @jokertm6889 3 роки тому +8

      Yo a nice one XD I will try that cause I am going for pro

    • @analogger3058
      @analogger3058 3 роки тому +1

      @@jokertm6889 Best of luck man, don’t give up!

    • @jokertm6889
      @jokertm6889 3 роки тому

      @@analogger3058 thanks man

    • @SamBrickell
      @SamBrickell 3 роки тому +3

      "The last time I tried getting 'exposure' in front of a large gathering I got in a lot of trouble."

  • @Trollioli
    @Trollioli 3 роки тому +78

    "If you're good at something never do it for free" - Laughing Guy

    • @Querens
      @Querens 3 роки тому

      why no, do it sometimes for lulz

    • @mr.commonsense6645
      @mr.commonsense6645 3 роки тому +2

      @@Querens bro can you teach me russian for free?

    • @thomas-hf9yz
      @thomas-hf9yz 3 роки тому

      Михаил Некифоров when you're done teaching him, teach me next..... for free

    • @Querens
      @Querens 3 роки тому +1

      @@thomas-hf9yz I tried but either youtube either other people didn't find my method appropriate and have banned my lesson :(

    • @akiradkcn
      @akiradkcn 3 роки тому

      "Never"

  • @crytkryssus9851
    @crytkryssus9851 3 роки тому +67

    "You'll get exposure."
    "Oh cool, wanna come do my laundry for exposure?"

  • @francischabot1412
    @francischabot1412 3 роки тому +1646

    As an IT guy i like the friend who call you to get news only when his computer doesn't work.

  • @crissvolo6047
    @crissvolo6047 3 роки тому +1888

    This should be posted on the social media wall of every musician

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +112

      yes, it should be

    • @suhail5701
      @suhail5701 3 роки тому +9

      Fully agree

    • @olivierorsola
      @olivierorsola 3 роки тому +35

      And actors also.
      And models.
      And composers.

    • @timflatus
      @timflatus 3 роки тому +1

      I actually think this is what I shall do. Thank you Anastasiia!

    • @leokashian8846
      @leokashian8846 3 роки тому +3

      I would add Photographer to that too.

  • @beelzzebub
    @beelzzebub 3 роки тому +71

    Restaurant: Ok, hope you enjoyed your meal - that’ll be £30
    Me: Ooh, i can’t pay you - but I can tell my friends about your good service?
    Yeah... no. That wouldn’t work, and it shouldn’t work for musicians, designers, coders, or any other product/service...

    • @kezziekz
      @kezziekz 3 роки тому +1

      100%

    • @pranaytony
      @pranaytony 3 роки тому +1

      And there are so many retakes!
      They actually don't know about their companies & lastly blames the Designers!
      Some even say, you did a great design to some xxx company & you are doing nothing to ours,
      When they will understand that business is different from this business.!?
      When they will understand?

    • @jakerockznoodles
      @jakerockznoodles 3 роки тому +1

      Tell that to insta influencers, they really would say that in a restaurant 😂

  • @Henk6772
    @Henk6772 3 роки тому +3

    Fascinated at people who would not work for free, but expect other people to do just that.
    Respect to you lady!

  • @hotjanuary
    @hotjanuary 3 роки тому +906

    Every artist should take a course “asserting your boundaries 101.” This is a very common occurrence with every type of artist. Practice saying a firm “no.” Learn to respect your time, the value of your work, and the cost of maintaining your equipment and resupplying your materials, and don’t let anyone undercut you. Remember: exposure doesn’t pay your bills.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +139

      I wish they had those workshops in conservatories. Lots of conservatories teach how to play but not how to survive in the field.

    • @tabbywarrior
      @tabbywarrior 3 роки тому +9

      @@MmmAnastasy agreed! I'm going into conservatory next year, and I really want to learn how to survive in the field but I don't know how!

    • @davidcheong1
      @davidcheong1 3 роки тому +2

      Sounds like a labour union is starting up!

    • @rabid_si
      @rabid_si 3 роки тому +1

      It exists:
      Mike Monteiro: F*ck You, Pay Me
      ua-cam.com/video/jVkLVRt6c1U/v-deo.html

    • @emanuel_soundtrack
      @emanuel_soundtrack 3 роки тому

      MAny times you cannot say no, principally at the beginning. And principally when people in India compose a symphony for 10 $ or whatever

  • @TheNefastor
    @TheNefastor 3 роки тому +127

    I don't know who you are or why UA-cam suggested this video but I wholeheartedly endorse your message. Everyone has bills to pay and a retirement to plan for, including artists.

  • @june2420111
    @june2420111 3 роки тому +3

    Every recent graduate has heard this. I tried to get a paid job on the hill 11 years ago and this is what I heard from every single thinktank, NGO, or politician's office. I went to work for a big corporation because they at least paid me. People should be paid for their work. Period

  • @toybitszzz
    @toybitszzz 3 роки тому +53

    Yeah I'm a senior cloud engineer with 24 years of experience and earn a very good Salary. Doesn't stop me from getting loads of calls from people (not just friends) saying similar things to what you're saying. Your playing is beautiful and it's not surprising it's taken you 18years to get like this. You deserve to be paid. If you play for an hour too people think they're paying you for an hour. They're not, they're paying you for the 18 years of practice too.

    • @Unfawkable
      @Unfawkable 3 роки тому +8

      Good on you mate, I wouldn't make clouds for free either!

    • @thirien59
      @thirien59 3 роки тому +1

      "saying similar things to what you're saying" as if your time can be wasted on "exposure"

  • @randomrandom450
    @randomrandom450 3 роки тому +624

    If they found you in the first place to ask you to do it for an event, this means you don't need exposure, since the "one who might hire you" is way more likely to find you via the same means they did than through their stupid "exposure" event.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +132

      See, you get my point :)

    • @rainerwahnsinn9585
      @rainerwahnsinn9585 3 роки тому +2

      They will ask 100-1000 musicians and one will say yes, and for sure arriving and hotel will be paid

    • @devonmatthews6443
      @devonmatthews6443 3 роки тому

      @@MmmAnastasy
      100 dollars

    • @devonmatthews6443
      @devonmatthews6443 3 роки тому

      Do ask for alot of money and you will be fine

    • @CoolKoon
      @CoolKoon 3 роки тому +5

      @@rainerwahnsinn9585 Would you work only for having your travel expenses, accommodation and breakfast paid (and nothing else) too?

  • @calebklingerman7902
    @calebklingerman7902 3 роки тому +29

    “People want quality without having to pay for it.” That’s true, and that goes for just about everything

  • @emmanroyhippy6859
    @emmanroyhippy6859 3 роки тому +4

    Most people disregard artist just because they are not labeled as "essential workers". That's sad.
    Freelance Photographer here

  • @DarthMetool
    @DarthMetool 3 роки тому +4

    Still waiting for someone to come along and say "I can only pay you with unlimited power and knowledge."

  • @peopleofthecant
    @peopleofthecant 3 роки тому +822

    I love how respectful you are in this video. You never get cynical, you're just honest.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +134

      Thank you. Not sure if this’ll disappoint you, but this video is 2 years old and my response to these kinds of things have evolved. There’s only so much patience one has when it comes to dealing with these things politely. I still try to stay respectful but it’s hard when you’re being disrespected to your face.

    • @genustinca5565
      @genustinca5565 3 роки тому +33

      haha you are joking right? The video oozes with cynicism and frustration

    • @MisterPotter
      @MisterPotter 3 роки тому +6

      a bit too sarcastic tho

    • @Daveoghscope
      @Daveoghscope 3 роки тому +3

      @@genustinca5565 i smell a simp... But I don't blame him.

    • @justahuman9273
      @justahuman9273 3 роки тому +1

      @@genustinca5565 Exactly! And i am not mad at it 😂 it was so professionally done and the sarcastic friendliness it radiated was so good!

  • @wafflcoptr
    @wafflcoptr 3 роки тому +437

    "It doesn't work like that."
    I absolutely love that response. It leaves no room for disagreement, it's so firm and final, end of discussion.

    • @dustinnabil798
      @dustinnabil798 3 роки тому +23

      She isn't stating an argument, she's stating a fact.

    • @GalactoseGalaxy
      @GalactoseGalaxy 3 роки тому +4

      actually it's really unclear and doesn't add anything to her argument. I agree with her but I have a background with music so I understand where she's coming from. can't say "that's just how it works/not how it works" about anything because obviously someone disagrees and that statement doesn't persuade them or even address the problem

    • @zpaztrik1418
      @zpaztrik1418 3 роки тому

      @@xyanide0101 who's the simp lol

  • @LetsDoItOldSchool
    @LetsDoItOldSchool 3 роки тому +7

    I am an actor I am having the same offers every week. Exposure, good for your CV, free food and drinks. For years, those emails go directly into the bin. It's ridiculous!

    • @PryzmMusic
      @PryzmMusic 3 роки тому +1

      @@dijonjohn1011 "Almost as ridiculous as expecting every art gig to be a paid gig."
      I'm sorry.. what?

  • @rafa1z1
    @rafa1z1 3 роки тому +1

    I love your comment. You just described the fabric of the American society. They want everything for free, but if the shoe is on the other foot they want maximum payment

  • @sushimamba4281
    @sushimamba4281 3 роки тому +45

    As a fellow musician, I can relate. I have had people say such things, especially, "You can do it for the exposure". I always reply, "People die from exposure!"

  • @Tenorgeiger
    @Tenorgeiger 3 роки тому +837

    Them: “But you do it because you love it”
    Me: I chose music as a profession (rather than being a doctor, plumber, policeman etc) because I love music. But I do it every day to earn money. You wouldn’t ask a plumber to mend your sink for free.”

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +159

      This is the most popular argument FOR free entertainment unfortunately. People think if we enjoy it we don’t have a problem doing it for free. Nobody goes on to inquire if doctors love their jobs and hence, nobody questions them charging for their services.

    • @enginerdy
      @enginerdy 3 роки тому +25

      I’m an engineer and I *do* do it because I love it, but people want stuff for free anyway. They don’t have a good reason, they just don’t want to pay for stuff, or want to see how much they can get out of you for as little as possible.
      I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to say “a stake in your product’s earnings sounds very generous* but I have to pay the rent.”
      *it’s actually not generous at all. It’s about the least generous arrangement possible besides free

    • @gummybear8883
      @gummybear8883 3 роки тому +8

      ah what is life but one transaction from one to another. We live just so we could trade "favors" back and forth, hopefully, the things we traded away will in return give us something we want. In the end, we either get what we want or we don't, and then ultimately we all die. What a wonderful life !

    • @ProtoIndoEuropean88
      @ProtoIndoEuropean88 3 роки тому +1

      @@gummybear8883
      Yet you fail to understand what it means to live, you see death as an end, but in truth, it is never an end in itself. What a wonderful ignorance human reason can have

    • @gummybear8883
      @gummybear8883 3 роки тому +11

      @@ProtoIndoEuropean88 oh, please sir enlightenment, please tell me what death really is, because I have no clue. Do any of you know? What does it means to live except to trade favors back and fort? Really think about it, you want love you have to give love, you want to travel ? you have to pay for the cost of traveling, if life is not a series of transactions then what else is it? You want something you have to give something. There is no life without desires, everybody wants something and they will trade anything just to get what they want, in the end they realize they don't really want it that much. Ironic !

  • @kakatuaOfficial
    @kakatuaOfficial 3 роки тому +11

    "If you are good at something, never do it for free." - The Joker

    • @Milesco
      @Milesco 3 роки тому +1

      And that ain't no joke!

  • @tanyaerskine7657
    @tanyaerskine7657 3 роки тому +15

    Same thing happens when people find out that you know how to sew: "I have a sewing project but I'm too busy so would you be interested? Oh, and we're friends, so you'll do it for free, right?"

    • @tanyaerskine7657
      @tanyaerskine7657 3 роки тому +1

      @@dijonjohn1011 have you ever sewn for a friend?

  • @cashglobe
    @cashglobe 3 роки тому +36

    Preach! Imagine asking a business consultant who has worked on business for 18 years, 3 hours per day, to consult you on your new business for FREE! They would hang up the phone. They probably want $400/hour. People need to show musicians more respect. We are not a charity.

    • @cashglobe
      @cashglobe 3 роки тому +2

      @Polite Comments On Current Affairs Watching TV is a hobby, learning an instrument to a professional level is NOT a hobby. It’s a profession, just as valid as any other. Comparing a professional musician to someone who’s watched TV their whole life is idiotic and naive at best.

  • @MoesTube1
    @MoesTube1 3 роки тому +75

    This right here! Also, when you're on a gig and they want you to play overtime for free. That's why I tell people "I'm a violinist" and not "I play the violin" people hear the word "play" and interpret it as not being hard work or something to be given away for free.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +15

      Interesting perspective. I think I’ve actually heard it somewhere before. The word “play” somehow has a different connotation to different people

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +15

      As far as overtime on the gig, I only do gigs with a contract. I put it together and It’s very detailed. It provides rates for every adjustment the client may wish to make on the day of. I’m happy to stay overtime if I can, but they’ve signed the contract stating how much that would cost exactly so I’m protected either way.

    • @robh9079
      @robh9079 3 роки тому +3

      Yep - like in a school teaching scenario; taking a pupil out from an important intellectual class like maths to merely 'play'...

    • @MoesTube1
      @MoesTube1 3 роки тому +5

      @@robh9079 So true. I mean there are times when we get together with friends to play chamber music or we take time from serious practice to improvise or play around with popular stuff but when it comes to professional situations we should be respected. In my mind math, music, literature, art, fitness are all equally important since they are all disciplines that take a lot of time and dedication to develop.

    • @639dida
      @639dida 3 роки тому +5

      True! It's weird for sports events though, they get paid thousands to millions, and they "play" too. I will never, ever understand that...

  • @shadowstrike211
    @shadowstrike211 3 роки тому +2

    Those people who disliked this video wanted you to perform for free

  • @iver1343
    @iver1343 3 роки тому +3

    Same situation here, that happens very often not only to artists, people sometimes expect programmers like me to work for free because we can then add this project to our resume

    • @jakerockznoodles
      @jakerockznoodles 3 роки тому

      Yeah, while as an salaried programmer I don't get as much as the richest of my friends, I don't have to put with this bs either. A fair trade off IMO 😅

  • @tamborvivo
    @tamborvivo 3 роки тому +205

    Dear colleague, thank you so much for taking the time to publicly and directly say what probably all of us professional musicians have to say over and over when face this problem.
    You earned my immediate subscription. Thank you so much!

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +10

      Thanks, fellow colleague. Pleasure!

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +3

      @blue sky it is indeed the problem of all artists

    • @crowmaster9652
      @crowmaster9652 3 роки тому

      @blue sky until something or someone with more noise and talent replaces you.

    • @crowmaster9652
      @crowmaster9652 3 роки тому

      @blue sky Or how about I keep doing what I do best and all that mumbo jumbo bypasses your logic.

  • @catholicchurch2274
    @catholicchurch2274 3 роки тому +56

    i dont know why im being recommended this now, but i totally agree with you

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +10

      Maybe it’s some sort of a signal from above haha
      Thanks!

  • @joaovc2002
    @joaovc2002 3 роки тому +10

    the sassyness is off the charts, and i love that

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +3

      Wouldn't have it any other way :)

    • @sharkb8754
      @sharkb8754 3 роки тому

      @@MmmAnastasy Don't like the word sassyness, if a guy does it, "you are the man" and when its womens turn..

  • @leopoldoastudillo7189
    @leopoldoastudillo7189 3 роки тому +28

    "If you're good at something, never do it for free." JOKER

  • @woodenhoe
    @woodenhoe 3 роки тому +104

    As a technician I can relate, especially those "friends and families" where they're "friends and families" ONLY when they needed your help

    • @Youda00008
      @Youda00008 3 роки тому +4

      _"My Excel is not working, can you fix it?"_

    • @pdorism
      @pdorism 3 роки тому +9

      The most offensive F-Word

    • @123Dunebuggy
      @123Dunebuggy 3 роки тому +1

      Here Here

    • @335637880
      @335637880 3 роки тому

      @@pdorism someone is a ross fan

    • @midnightstorm4290
      @midnightstorm4290 3 роки тому

      Honestly ik this is going to be an unpopular opinion but I would just hellp because I cannot be asked to make enemies. Its more of an effort to make enemies than actually helping someone.

  • @lidu6363
    @lidu6363 3 роки тому +631

    Instead of parents discouraging kids from becoming artists because _they won't make a living,_ we should encourage everyone to give these professionals the rewards they deserve for their work.

    • @runescaperapper87
      @runescaperapper87 3 роки тому +33

      I still don't think that would make art a steady profession for most

    • @Nonononono213
      @Nonononono213 3 роки тому +2

      I like what your saying and i agree. People need to change.

    • @rumelingecristescu6046
      @rumelingecristescu6046 3 роки тому +10

      Not everyone is made to be an artist, most of the people aren't. We need doctors or drivers as much as artists and you don't necessary need to want to do it. For me who I don't have anything to do with art it would be the life of nightmare, never to know if it will wirk or not, if I will make it and how to work on different things. To me, the stability of an 8 hour work is a blessing, and although sometimes I stayed a bit more, I can arrange my life around it. While without a fix program, everything will be insanely unstable, and I can't live like that.

    • @Nonononono213
      @Nonononono213 3 роки тому +15

      @@rumelingecristescu6046 Art is simply possible by having passion and patience. I would not be able to do 8h jobs straight like you do, bless you for doing it too.

    • @davidcheong1
      @davidcheong1 3 роки тому

      Appreciation goes a long way! I like what you said.

  • @lucasduque8289
    @lucasduque8289 3 роки тому +2

    Happens with anything. This guy once wanted me to develop a story to his game and he didn't want to pay me.
    Sometimes people overestimate themselves and think they are big enough that the "exposure" they'd give you or the opportunity to work for them is good enough.

  • @calviny.2146
    @calviny.2146 3 роки тому +1

    I love this video and it's a great lesson for many.
    Thank you for sharing and will definitely keep this in mind.
    People really should have some respect.
    Nowadays so many people expect work that should be and can be paid for without any compensation, along with using the notion that "you're getting exposure".
    I get it if it was someone trying to get their foot in the door, but wow you got 18 Years under your belt!!
    At least when I was playing the Trumpet I didn't have high up-keeping cost.
    But you got the cost to not only maintain, but to live on because that's your career!!

  • @BEASTNYC
    @BEASTNYC 3 роки тому +14

    so they are basically saying - there were never slavery - people were just getting experience.....

  • @grayfox1748
    @grayfox1748 3 роки тому +48

    Worst of all is when they think you only care about money because you expect payment for your work

  • @LopsidedMoz
    @LopsidedMoz 3 роки тому +3

    Artists are always the most unnapreciated in society; its hard to make a career out of it, despite it being hard to do, and nobody is willing to pay for what you do, despite them enjoying your work

  • @IvanMallia
    @IvanMallia 3 роки тому +2

    What's worse, is when they ask you to come over a TV show, but you have to pay because you will be exposed.

    • @Dayvit78
      @Dayvit78 3 роки тому +1

      That's just a scam pure and simple. Any job where you have to pay is by definition a scam.

  • @JM-bb8xi
    @JM-bb8xi 3 роки тому +26

    Its not just artists. Sounds like the musical equivalent of "unpaid internships"

  • @monsieurPessoa
    @monsieurPessoa 3 роки тому +39

    The saddest thing is that you have to explain that :( and some people continue to not understand...

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +10

      It is the saddest thing. Should be obvious.

    • @Danny-Stylish
      @Danny-Stylish 3 роки тому

      Yah explaining something obvious, what a shame.

    • @crowmaster9652
      @crowmaster9652 3 роки тому

      The saddest thing is people will expect money for their watered down talents. When the crickets start to chirp and you find yourself surrounded by cobwebs you'll see how foolish it was to get an art degree.

  • @ronaldomoraes3159
    @ronaldomoraes3159 3 роки тому

    Hi Anastasiia. I saved your video to show to people when somebody try this approach of not paying.
    You are totally right and thanks for posting it.

  • @utkarsh3481
    @utkarsh3481 3 роки тому +281

    I am myself a classically trained musician, and trust me, whatever she said is true. People either don't pay artists, or the amount they pay us is very less. They think artists are like beggars. It requires years of training, and practice to reach a level where one can perform in front of an audience. Again, I am not trying to say that we artists are hungry for money, our real earning is the applause and appreciation that we get from the audience, yet we also require money to pay the bills.

    • @FeVaR
      @FeVaR 3 роки тому +4

      so youre saying artists arent beggars? lol

    • @srami004
      @srami004 3 роки тому

      I hear ya.

    • @utkarsh3481
      @utkarsh3481 3 роки тому +9

      @@FeVaR
      #idiocracy

    • @marlenyayala7321
      @marlenyayala7321 3 роки тому +25

      @@FeVaR you're an uneducated aren't you?

    • @ryanp7782
      @ryanp7782 3 роки тому

      Or really any gigging musician

  • @DrawingwithNoel
    @DrawingwithNoel 3 роки тому +102

    As an artist, I agree. People expect me to draw a large portrait with details and colors. They say to me, take a month's time, but the picture must be ultrarealistic. The reward they offer : you'll get exposure or remember the times when we talked

    • @Andreas-xu8rs
      @Andreas-xu8rs 3 роки тому +15

      As an art dealer, I really hate the art world because of these people. Thinking they can take advantage of emerging artists makes me sick.

    • @gabri-maliikmorrison6467
      @gabri-maliikmorrison6467 3 роки тому +1

      I relate

    • @CoolKoon
      @CoolKoon 3 роки тому +8

      "take a month's time, but the picture must be ultrarealistic" - For free?! Fat chance, fuck them.

    • @DrawingwithNoel
      @DrawingwithNoel 3 роки тому +6

      ​@@CoolKoon I know right. They say : Take as much time you like, but by one month (by their wedding anniversary or some event), to create a 1.5 x 1m ultrarealistic art with multiple people.
      The thought of payment never even crosses their mind. They'll say :
      How can you ask for money from a "friend"? Don't you like to draw?
      You'll get exposure.
      I thought we were close.
      I can share your art on insta

    • @CoolKoon
      @CoolKoon 3 роки тому +8

      @@DrawingwithNoel Shit, that's like a week's worth of (almost non-stop) work? Perhaps even more? The very fact that they've asked you to do it for free means that they probably didn't consider you to be a real friend ever.

  • @planetmischief
    @planetmischief 3 роки тому +1

    It starts with us. When more musicians start saying no to these ridiculous people then we’ll hear it less. No professional should ever work for free!

  • @Jefleopard
    @Jefleopard 3 роки тому

    She’s awesome! Hits the nail on the head. If you work for free people will take advantage. Only give away what you want to.

  • @nimrod7785
    @nimrod7785 3 роки тому +122

    You forgot "We are going to have a partnership for a number of large events after this. Just be on this one for free".

    • @darkhorse640
      @darkhorse640 3 роки тому +15

      simple question if you have large sum of money to make some event why can't you give some to musician..have some respect.

    • @goofyboy2627
      @goofyboy2627 3 роки тому +2

      @@josiahrandolphbaldwin8272 no ♥️

    • @goofyboy2627
      @goofyboy2627 3 роки тому +1

      @@josiahrandolphbaldwin8272 I'm really sorry Joseph but I don't know what that means. Could you explain it to me please?

    • @manubishe
      @manubishe 3 роки тому +2

      Is that taken from pick-up "artist's" guidebook?

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +26

      Oh believe me, I didn't forget that one... If I listed all the bs reasons and offers I have ever been given, you'd still be watching this video.

  • @Pensivata
    @Pensivata 3 роки тому +9

    Here's one "come and play (for free) at my party - its a party - you can enjoy the party too!". I'm a classically trained double bass player - I've also played jazz for 30 years. I hear what you're saying, Anastasiia - respect is the key word.

    • @manubishe
      @manubishe 3 роки тому

      Reminds me of the work in a bar's kitchen - the party, and the people, are out there, but you're in working clothes, and an entirely different mindset.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your support

  • @celticsuave
    @celticsuave 3 роки тому +3

    You are one beautiful woman, with all respect. And yeah, screw exposure. Hopefully artists aren't selling themselves short by falling into this trick. Exposure will NEVER pay your bills!

  • @somerandom7672
    @somerandom7672 3 роки тому +6

    Imagine going to a car dealership and saying 'I have no money, but your car will get exposure.'

    • @AlfaToTheOmega
      @AlfaToTheOmega 3 роки тому +1

      To be fair, famous people like soccer players would actually get paid to drive a certain car for free. And I guess that most artists would play for free at a major event like the World Cup - for exposure. It's just that the kind of people that use the 'exposure' argument tend to overestimate the significance of their event and actually just want to cheap out.

    • @manghariz2211
      @manghariz2211 3 роки тому

      @@AlfaToTheOmega GASP
      You mean my Brother's Birthday isnt as good as an exposure as a World cup
      Blasphemy

  • @suhail5701
    @suhail5701 3 роки тому +136

    I can't agree more! People must have some respect

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +7

      I’ll be here when that happens... *sigh*

  • @salgado1390
    @salgado1390 3 роки тому +9

    It baffles me that this isn't common sense to many. It's not like being a musician or an artist is a hobby, it's a profession and you got to make a living.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 3 роки тому

      Chico, they think its a "gift"

  • @beatsbyb-cleen6097
    @beatsbyb-cleen6097 3 роки тому

    This video is exactly what I needed...
    I'm gonna send it to a loooot of people 😌
    .
    .
    .
    .
    thanks in the name of all the artists🙏

  • @edmundriddle3847
    @edmundriddle3847 3 роки тому +2

    Have been in this profession for twenty years. This does still happen. It’s sickening to me and beyond rude. Don’t ever accept anything apart from money.

  • @alain_sans_c
    @alain_sans_c 3 роки тому +30

    Agree. Digital Era. For most of people nowadays everything must be at disposal for free, and quick, like a click on a mouse...
    They don't even think about all the work behind the music and art in general... It's really sad.

    • @josephhapp9
      @josephhapp9 3 роки тому +1

      Not just this way in the digital era.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +1

      I feel like it’s always been that way, digital era only has brought it to light more

    • @alain_sans_c
      @alain_sans_c 3 роки тому +1

      @@MmmAnastasy Indeed.. You've got a point.

  • @Pierre50mm
    @Pierre50mm 3 роки тому +9

    Absolutely true.
    Same with learning music. Some think they will be musician in 4 months. You want results? Work for it.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +6

      Yes, these two things go hand in hand. If there is an expectation that learning to be good at playing an instrument does not take much, then there is also an expectation that musicians should not hesitate to play for free here and there.

    • @Pierre50mm
      @Pierre50mm 3 роки тому +2

      @@MmmAnastasy
      Anecdote:
      I'm a boomer learning jazz doublebass for 4 years (weekly private lessons). I'm still a... can I say an advanced beginner? Fortunately, I have a good teacher. Sometimes, for fun, I jam with a classical pianist reading a "jazz standard" score. I think I'm slowly initiating her to jazz. She likes it.
      Musicians really deserve wages to match their hard work.

    • @Pierre50mm
      @Pierre50mm 3 роки тому

      @@MmmAnastasy
      If you don't know her, Regina Carter is a talented jazz violonist. Rather rare in jazz, except in gypsie jazz.
      ua-cam.com/video/FReGLY2lLuY/v-deo.html

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому

      @@Pierre50mm thanks for sharing! Will check it out

  • @masamune2984
    @masamune2984 3 роки тому +1

    Exactly! You don’t pay for the event, and then hope you can pay for the artist (or just don’t pay.)
    You pay for the artist SO you can have an event in the first place.

  • @JohnGerighty
    @JohnGerighty 3 роки тому +1

    This is so true. It's particularly annoying when they present it to you as if they are doing you a favour. I have also been asked - by complete strangers - for regular music lessons, on the assumption that they would be free of charge.

  • @P.Whitestrake
    @P.Whitestrake 3 роки тому +250

    I'm not a pro illustrator per se, but when I joined an art club during my junior year in college, I've had my share of dealings with people who asked me to make them an illustration for free in exchange for my "exposure." I put that in quote because I now I know it was bollocks. I did a free character design once for a college friend because they were going to have an event & needed a mascot. I did it, yet no exposure or acknowledgement whatsoever. No mention of me even in the event's facebook page. They only said "thank you" & jogged off. Since then, I refused to do free illustrations for anyone, even my family. Some shrugged me off, but some mocked me for being unsupportive & unfriendly.
    I would, however, give someone one of my drawings for free as birthday presents that's based on my own initiative. I did give some people my drawings/illustrations as birthday presents because I was broke during college. Couldn't afford to buy a girl a dress, drew her in the dress I wanted to buy for her & gave the illustration on her birthday.

    • @milkcreamsweetsweetpig1352
      @milkcreamsweetsweetpig1352 3 роки тому +36

      That last line tho. What a chad.

    • @dasjidjsaidji2132nd
      @dasjidjsaidji2132nd 3 роки тому +5

      sounds awful. like you become as that people but from the other side. you can't draw for your family, really?

    • @PabloGonza69
      @PabloGonza69 3 роки тому +16

      @@dasjidjsaidji2132nd of course he can are you blind??? he'll do it for a price 🤐🤐😬🤣

    • @midnightstorm4290
      @midnightstorm4290 3 роки тому +2

      My sister drew me and gave it to me on my birthday lol

    • @P.Whitestrake
      @P.Whitestrake 3 роки тому +20

      @@dasjidjsaidji2132nd I'll draw for free for anyone, but on my own terms & initiative.
      The thing is, some people in my family & circle of friends never really cared about me until they really needed something from me. Some asked for free because "we're cousins" or "we were classmates in high school." It was a business, not a charity. I was really broke & needed some income for college & daily life.
      I won't be used by anyone for my skills without compensation & for me to be disposed later like a chewing gum, you get me?

  • @kevinrichards1226
    @kevinrichards1226 3 роки тому +58

    I'm an animator and I get this all the time. I usually throw the ball back to them by saying - "Get my a storyboard and a sound break down and I'll see what I can do." None of them ever get back to me when they realize that they're then going to have to work for free.

    • @kevinrichards1226
      @kevinrichards1226 3 роки тому +11

      @@teach-learn4078 i also Dj a little on the side. once i had my decks set up and the guy whose party it was came up to me with a set of his old 78s. (i was playing for free) They were too old to work on my turn tables. He then set up an old wind up gramaphone and suggested I jumped between my technics decks and his ancient machine. Obviously there was no way to hook up the gramaphone to the speaker system. The thing took about a minute to wind up until it was able to work. no way to use it in a proper set. So i suggested that he stand at his gramaphone and play his 78s when he wanted and give me a signal so we could work in tandem. He walked off and got himself a drink.

    • @MrSunrise-
      @MrSunrise- 3 роки тому +7

      Well played!

    • @Milesco
      @Milesco 3 роки тому +2

      @@MrSunrise- : Or _not_ played, as the case may be.

    • @Sangor03-SH
      @Sangor03-SH 3 роки тому

      Im also an animator, maybe i should try this 😏

    • @CoolKoon
      @CoolKoon 3 роки тому +1

      @@kevinrichards1226 " the guy whose party it was came up to me with a set of his old 78s." - Jesus, was he like 70? They've stopped using those shellac disks in like late 50s or so...

  • @gaurav7047
    @gaurav7047 3 роки тому

    People may think this is obvious and any thoughtful person might understand this. But, I am smart and understanding, but still understood only after being told. This is needed. Thanks.

  • @RetroMaticGamer
    @RetroMaticGamer 3 роки тому +4

    "You'll get exposure!" Great, do you know a grocery store that takes exposure-bucks? Because artists gotta eat, too.

  • @Mr35diamonds
    @Mr35diamonds 3 роки тому +230

    The conversation surely then continues like this: “Why won’t you do it for free? You’re an artist, you should be doing it for the art.” , a most hilarious argument.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +81

      Yeah. I do get shamed like that, too. Called “greedy”, “stuck-up” and “too important”. LOL. It’s ridiculous

    • @babyyoda7311
      @babyyoda7311 3 роки тому +2

      because no artist is just an artist, they are also mercenaries like all of us

    • @luciatat4084
      @luciatat4084 3 роки тому +16

      I can’t imagine how can people be so horrible. No one has to do anything for you, no one owes you anything! It’s so offending to ask someone to do something for free for you. I would not even ask a friend to do something for free for me, unless I am in a desperate situation, and even then I would not ask it for free but promise to pay later. If you pay for your food or for your car being repaired, you pay for someone playing the violin for you. It’s that simple.

    • @nikkivanzanen
      @nikkivanzanen 3 роки тому +14

      "I will pursue my art then, in my own time with my own choices. Thank you and good luck at your event! Bye!"

    • @samuelking4723
      @samuelking4723 3 роки тому +9

      Artists gotta eat too

  • @tabbymrp
    @tabbymrp 3 роки тому +16

    Well said!! Like you said, all Artists, not just Musicians.... I draw, sometimes people, acquaintance, not really close friends ask if I can do drawings for them for free. I was like...forget the high cost of drawing materials, they have no respect to my time at all! What makes them to think ARTISTS are all work for free.

    • @elizabethcsicsery-ronay1633
      @elizabethcsicsery-ronay1633 3 роки тому +4

      I'm a translator. You have no idea how many people, friends, etc. who want me to work for free.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +1

      I never hesitate to say no to acquaintances/friends outside of my immediate circle. You shouldn’t either. Those who love you and are truly your friends would never ask. You’d offer it yourself if you so wished.

  • @gauravgarg6338
    @gauravgarg6338 3 роки тому +1

    That's a sad part of today's working culture, every sector wants "Work for free". "You will get a great exposure" has to be exposed.

  • @artbyanoo4262
    @artbyanoo4262 2 роки тому

    That's a great message. Truly agree with you Anastasia. When an artist spend half of his life and time on becoming this great. Then people should be ashamed of asking something like this. Artist pays to learn and he should definitely get paid to contribute to society. That's the deal, and we as a society should respect their talent. God Bless you alot❤️

  • @pollolor15
    @pollolor15 3 роки тому +83

    My family used to own a small and humble candy store and people were always asking for discounts or for donations. There was a time this store was our sole source of income for us and when we told them that we couldn't do any kind of discount or donation then they proceeded to get angry and tell us they wouldn't buy anything there ever again. It's not the same but I think it applies.

    • @W0lfMan26
      @W0lfMan26 3 роки тому +22

      I think it's as relevant; people are asking for free labor and not respecting the time and effort that it takes to establish oneself in the world.

    • @mattsterh7740
      @mattsterh7740 3 роки тому +11

      Thats funny cause they didnt intend on buying things in the first place so who cares if they dont buy from there ever

    • @rocket-explosion4431
      @rocket-explosion4431 3 роки тому +2

      They should feel lucky to have a family owned candy store in their community. That's a special kind of place that isn't on every street. People get on my nerves..

    • @christopherverhoef9112
      @christopherverhoef9112 3 роки тому +1

      "I won't buy anything here ever again!"
      "What do you mean, 'again'? You were asking for stuff for free, you weren't buying anything to begin with."

  • @adamthorntonillustration9281
    @adamthorntonillustration9281 3 роки тому +3

    This is EXACTLY the same in the illustration world! People asking for free or insultingly cheap artwork. Excellent video and notes, Anastasiia. Brava!

  • @joeb564
    @joeb564 3 роки тому

    Definitely agree. considering the time and effort you put in to master your craft.

  • @emilygrace1960
    @emilygrace1960 3 роки тому

    Oh my soul!! Fellow musician here too!! I play classical piano and I do photography as well! I can't begin to tell you how many times this has happened to me too. So unbelievably frustrating. Thank you for doing this video!

  • @Millo1868
    @Millo1868 3 роки тому +40

    This happens to ALL musicians. It's really incredible.

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +8

      Incredible in how horribly spread out it is...

  • @Daymare_
    @Daymare_ 3 роки тому +241

    Imagine spending your whole life in something you like, improving everyday and working hard to do stuff for free like that lmao

    • @przemysawbaca2449
      @przemysawbaca2449 3 роки тому +2

      whole*

    • @Daymare_
      @Daymare_ 3 роки тому +9

      @@przemysawbaca2449ups english.exe is needing an update, thanks

    • @przemysawbaca2449
      @przemysawbaca2449 3 роки тому +5

      @@Daymare_ hah no problem, have a nice day

    • @Daymare_
      @Daymare_ 3 роки тому +4

      @@przemysawbaca2449 you too :)

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +18

      I guess since we enjoy it, we might as well do it for free. That seems to be the logic

  • @michaelsnydermusic
    @michaelsnydermusic 3 роки тому +1

    I think I may just send this video in response to all those requests I get as both a guitarist and a photographer. I even got one to do both at the same wedding!
    Very well said by the way!

  • @TheNewMaxico
    @TheNewMaxico 3 роки тому +9

    every time i think my life is bad, i remember at least im not a professional artist

  • @Interplanetary555
    @Interplanetary555 3 роки тому +78

    "Yes, i would absolutely play at your event"
    Then don`t show up.

    • @brassholio
      @brassholio 3 роки тому +38

      Nah don't do that, it's unprofessional. Flat out tell them to pay or to get lost. You don't wanna get a bad reputation that you don't show up to gigs just because you're being a smart ass.

    • @Interplanetary555
      @Interplanetary555 3 роки тому +6

      @@brassholio I wouldn`t call that being a smart ass. I would call that being mean >:)

    • @RizalBudiLeksono
      @RizalBudiLeksono 3 роки тому +16

      No, don't do that, it kills your reputation

    • @thirien59
      @thirien59 3 роки тому

      best answer ever

    • @thirien59
      @thirien59 3 роки тому +1

      @@brassholio if these people didn't want to pay her for a first gig, they surely wouldn't pay her for another one.

  • @Michael-Oh
    @Michael-Oh 3 роки тому +21

    My rule is to only work for close family and friends for free. Even at that, my family and friends would still pay for my drinks and good times!

    • @MmmAnastasy
      @MmmAnastasy  3 роки тому +11

      Friends and family, of all people, know how much effort and time has gone into getting to where you are professionally. If they love you and are there for you, they’d never me so inconsiderate as to take advantage of you. If my close people are considerate I always offer to play for them first. I’m happy to do so.

    • @EnderElohim
      @EnderElohim 3 роки тому +5

      Or they actually forcefully pay to you because they know :D

    • @EnderElohim
      @EnderElohim 3 роки тому +4

      @@freewheeler8924 yeah one my computer programmer friend/master charge people money when they ask him question because he says they gonna remember better when they pay for it. Than he just buy us lunch with the money he take XD

  • @pranaytony
    @pranaytony 3 роки тому +2

    This happens when creative people think just like a creative person.
    When we want to earn something out of our talents then we need to think like a Businessman!
    Always include money in every matter, they will just fade away!

  • @crest2471
    @crest2471 3 роки тому +1

    Yes. Thank you for bringing this up. I have no clue why UA-cam is recommending this to everyone