spend a reset day with me (i've been a mess & unmotivated...let's get my life together, a vlog)
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- Опубліковано 8 чер 2024
- i have been so unmotivated lately and all around feeling like a mess, but today we are going to fix that! spend a reset day with me! in this nyc vlog we are getting our lives together and resetting to set up my life for success! chat with me about how life has been going lately while we clean, journal, run errands, make dinner, & set up my life for success.
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0:00 - morning errands
1:10 - morning routine
1:42 - let's chat
7:44 - editing
8:36 - cleaning
17:18 - journaling & planning
Hii, usually I am a silent viewer but I wanted to break my silence and tell you how much I love your videos. You have such a chill, nice and wholesome presence and I just love listening to you and what you have to say. Keep going, you got this ❤
7 YEARS???? Holy sht I didn’t know y’all were together for so long 😢 but yes! We need a reset ❤
Girl, I knew you were going through it! I was watching you VLOG and could see it all adding up with your breakup, your job, and the apartment....Long story short, you DON'T OWE strangers on the internet an explanation. I think women are taught to endure and stay strong. Myself as a woman of color I'm supposed to be "magical" 🙄 . Girl, you deserve rest, peace, relaxation and whatever you need. If you need to fall apart and throw yourself a pity party, DO IT! Have streams, banners, all that at your pity party. Breaking up after a long relationship is hard AF. I'm sure there are parts we don't see (smart because no one should know everything about your life). Anyways, after the pity party pack it all away and when your ready grow from it. I am so proud of you! I have 10 years on you and am finally living the life that I want ♥ It might not be going exactly as planned but you are doing it. I saw your vlog when you were at bad cinderella and said this is exactly how I imagined and I literally was like "yassss, sis!" You are truly an inspiring young lady. All of us on UA-cam are cheering for you ♥ ♥
Just remember there will be good days and bad. YOU are doing amazing and things will get better. Go easy on yourself.
I’m so glad you’re in this new season and that you’re embracing it head on! I honestly feel like I’m hanging out with a friend when I watch your videos. Thanks for being so real and relatable 🩷
Sending good vibes and a sense of order and direction…..thanks for sharing, a lot of us can relate ❤…..feel better Alexis (not that you feel bad, but you get it…😃)…..
You need a routine similar to what you had when you were working. Get up the same time everyday, get dressed, pick up your apartment, edit, vlog, dance, etc
Everyone goes through ups and downs you will bounce back 💙💙
Great job working through your tasks and your feelings.
I just found you not too long ago through your monetization video and I saw the vlog before this and it was genuinely comforting how you were going through a funk and seeing you like get it together and get through the funk. It’s comforting becuase I’ve been in a funk the past 3 days and it was motivating and inspiring seeing you just get through it. Thank you for showing this little bits and parts ❤️❤️❤️
Alexis, I discovered your channel a few days ago and I've been binging!! You're my new favourite. You're such a breath of fresh air. I'm sorry you had to go through all that stuff, sometimes life really throws everything at once! Glad you're feeling better, and remember All Things Must Pass. Much love.
In the same boat and trying to figure out direction…. Just before this video I watched another influencer and I was like this girl is always so happy and it seems to me like her only stress is if her skin is breaking out and she needs to take more vitamins into my self. I thought don’t any of these girls think that it’s OK to share when you’re having a weak moment and what normal people go through and hear your video comes and I was like wow I really needed to hear that. I know that I’m not the only one that struggles but kudos to you for putting it out there to inspire others to do the same thing.
Would like to add..
Sometimes when I’m feeling overwhelmed or stressed, I declutter.
Get rid of things that I don’t use or need.
I would probably get rid of the table and stools by your front door and move Bennetts treehouse thing there…
Sometimes less is more ♥️♥️♥️
I watched this to help me feel inspired to do a reset day! I'm feeling the exact same way, can't get my tasks done, scrambling, not planning things well. We're in this together!
You're one of my favourite vloggers! It's been inspiring watching your channel grow as I'm also a new UA-camr. I just love your positive and chill vibes! Good on you for doing all those things for yourself. Keep up the great work!
Weirdly to me you seem to be really together lately. Not saying you weren’t before but you seem to be so much more positive and focused. It’s all about you and finding your way and it’s really interesting to follow you. I really enjoy your vlogs, they are relatable and real, they give me ideas for my own messy 😆 life. So thank you 😘 keep going!
You nailed it. Just when you feel completely unsettled and overwhelmed, something amazing happens and it's just around the corner. I just had this same thing happen over the last two weeks. I ended up redoing my studio space and making another big decision. Today feels like everything is exactly how it is supposed to be. I'm sure you will be sharing your own changes soon as well.
I like using the Focus Keeper app for time management. It’s a timer that will build in breaks and can help you track how long you’re working. It’s called the pomodoro method. You work for 20 min, break for 5 min, then work 20, break, etc. and it can build in a longer break after a few cycles.
You are spoiling us with videos 🤩
Thank you ❤
Loved this. First time finding your channel and I can’t wait to binge watch
I love your vlog! I really enjoy watching your life and your style.
I wonder if you should ask yourself a couple of questions.....do you overcommit yourself so that you can't meet the deadline you set? You want to please people so you say you can get it to them in 2 hours. But if it really takes 4 it's ok to say that, and then get it to them early. You're a people pleaser. Will take time and some uncomfortable-ness to work through that and allow yourself to give a more realistic timeline without beating yourself up. The other thing is do you say yes when you want to say no. Takes a lot of hard work to be able to say No thank you. But I guarantee you it's so freeing to be able to say no. I've walked both these roads.
Anyway, I really enjoy you. Keep moving forward and be well!
I’ve been feeling SO SIMILARLY lately, this vid has def motivated me to get back on track and set up a bright future for this new chapter of my own life. I don’t usually comment but your vids always help me reset, and it feels nice to know we’re all going thru it at times. Cheers to new beginnings!! ♥️🎉
Fabulous video and so grateful you are sharing about this... what a beautiful video. GREAT editing ! I have a friend who owns the Vale House on the Upper West side and I think one day you would be great performing your songs there one day :) Your channel is gorgeous ! This Vlog reminds me of this song called "Unwritten".... all about being in a new place... could be a great audition song.
recently went to nyc and couldn’t stop thinking about it. your videos are so comforting and reaffirming my thoughts about moving there 🌟💙💌
I have felt so messy in the last little bit , thank you for this video. ❤
I'm in the same boat! Literally started watching this video to motivate me to tackle my overwhelming tasks. Happy to report that the dishes are done thanks to this video! Also, goodness, allergies are the worst. I feel ya.
Hi everyone.. enjoy the Memorial Day Weekend.. the unofficial start of summer.. doing a reset is a good idea. We love you Alexis.. you will get thru it. Life can be unmotivated at times, but you always gotta seek and focus on you're passions no matter what. Stay focus, definitely rest to recharge is highly important and much needed. Sorry for the long tangent, but I just love this UA-cam channel.. very very much, and I wish the best to Alexis for the rest of this year 2023 😇🙏
You’ve inspired me to do a massive reset/ refresh this weekend!
Great job! I had a storage thought - if you got rid of the table/bar stool you could put one of those stand alone closet cabinets from Ikea and it would give a lot of storage and I think look cool. Just an idea 😜 . Take care
Self care days are a must for all of us! Thanks for sharing your journey and letting others know it is OK to take care of self! Cleaning is not my favorite but having a clean safe space matter…ugh lol great vlog ❤
this resonates soooo much with me. I think you've inspired my own reset day
you did a good job getting your space all organised and cleaned. We all have days like this where we look around and wonder what happened!! cyclone hit !!🙂
love you even more now tha i know tha you like folklore and evermore ❤ i love your videos and your Chanel!
This makes me feel a lot better as an adhd girlie😗💓 thank you for your authenticity!!!
loving the formatting on this video
i needed this. Im cutting back my hours at work to pursue acting and youtube full time and i need a major reset. Your videos always bring me comfort! xo
I'm here for your distaste in that dog barking.. lol among other things of course but that reaction was priceless.
I feel you so much! I‘m going through a breakup after 8 years and need to start cooking for myself again. Hope your feeling better again. Best wishes
Very timely, Alexis. Thank you! ❤
Out of allllllll of the VLOG type content in the UA-cam world.. yours is the only one who I can say is REAL, AUTHENTIC, and INSPIRING.
I wait for your videos to premier lol and I NEVER do that
You’re awesome. Don’t forget that ♥️
You are an amazing creator!! I am sorry about realationship. That is difficult
wow. exactly what i needed! i went through something similar where a lot of things happened to me that were out of my control, and now i have to completely readjust my life to a whole new reality.
my new reality also includes figuring out how to work from home and keep myself organized and accountable, so not only was this inspiring, but i think i'm actually going to take similar steps to fix it! i definitely need just an entire day or weekend to myself to reorganize.
i absolutely cant wait to see your new notion! i've been falling off track with using mine consistently so i'd love to see how you've made your planning more practical in that way!
thank you so so so much for continuing to be great company and a great inspiration, i hope this reset continues to help you out of your funk! i look forward to the day when we're both doing so much better ⭐
Your new set up seems soo similar to mine now and i also journal lol how fun, when i keep up with it it's great for me, so i hope it works well for you too
Can you talk about how to handle still seeing your ex in your friend group or dance classes? Going through a breakup and you’re handling it with so much class!! ❤️
Hi, If you have separate calendars for each subject, you will need to check all of those calendars each day so activities won't coincide with each other. Won't that add alot of extra time checking each one each day?
I am sending my love xxx You've been through so much recently and I hope you know you're doing amazing 💕💕💕
Your videos make my week better seriously 😳🤍
Also i feel the same, last year my relationship ended and so everything went really weird, but it's fine, things will be better.
Thank you for being human!❤
It really sounds like you’re just in a rut… I find when I’m in similar feelings, I set small goals for myself…. Wake up at so and so time, put all my clothes and shoes away right away.. then build on them, and pretty soon you have a new routine.
Just found your channel. Loved this. I’m sorry for the hard things you’ve been going through. ❤ It does feel so good to clean & then cook a good meal. Everyone’s place gets messy at times. Your cat is so cute.
Hi Alexis happy Saturday night and happy memorial day weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
I have been there many times and I hope all the things you are implementing to get back on track work for you❤ Hang in there it will all fall into place!
Hi Alexis.
You did get thru alot lately and I'm glad you can talk about it. Because that is first step to healing 👍. I think you dealing good with this and going with the changes instead taking it "under the rug". Congrats on that.
I cliking on your videos because I like watching your dealing with life thing.
Yes, this also shall pass. I think this is one (of many) good ways living life. Being aware of that is important.
Some my advices on life is be present, don't stuck in past, memories do fades, learn from life experiences and involve them in your life (people tend to throw that life treasure and I don't get that), be POSITIVE and don't have regrets on something you did (because many times in life in that moments we didn't know better).
This is supporting comment. I'm don't often leave a comment.
Sending your way positive vibes Alexis 😊 and hug 🤗.
Take care and God bless.
And wish you the best in life Alexis ( and to everybody who reading this).
See you in next video 😀.
Happy weekend, Alexis!❤❤
Alexis - you got this! I feel great things coming your way!
I need an entire week to do this!
i always add hash browns to my breakfast normally with some grape jelly or pancake syrup, try it out, also if no pancake or jelly available, with ketchup is good as well 😂
Great insights. Hope you feel more motivated to tackle your days. You have a great presence. Take it one day at a time. You got this.
Btw, what eye tinted cream you uses in the video?
Wonderful and inspiring ❤️
Great vlog, Alexis!
New subbie ❤❤❤ loved the vlog. Better days lie ahead 😊
Lol. I always love seeing what Bennett is going to do
Take care of you❤
Hiya A-Anyday that starts out wit DD’s coffee can’t be so bad anyway, right?…Luv it, just hold up your hands to your ears when any other coffee is mentioned!
Random questio but, have you tried that French yogurt they have at fairway? It’s called La Fermière I’m addicted to it. My favorite is the honey one. It’s so creamy
Amazing
I really think minimalism is the way to go in NYC. 😂
Noooow waaaatching! 💖
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When I think of you I think broccoli and cheddar soup
Okkkk editing?!? Love.
It be like that sometimes
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You have had several life changes this year. It would be helpful if you talked with a psychologist about your feelings to help you reset your life
Hey Alexis, I just watched your video and I must say that it was really informative, very useful and well-made. I loved your videos. I was wondering if I could help you edit your videos and also make highly engaging shorts for you?
I'm faaaaast
I think I need to start a utube channel so I can get myself organized too 😂
Omg… are we experiencing the same thing?? I’ve been feeling the same.
I want to work with you please reply 🥺
Not to be nosey, what is your income? You said you lost your job.
I've come to a conclusion about getting "organized", and using systems for productivity (I'm not the only one nor the first, by far): these are just fancy ways to procrastinate. You feel good about writing down your goals on an app or website, and never actually get to the execution. If you need to write something down to remind yourself it's important, that pretty much means it isn't.
It has helped me a lot to just pick two or three things going around my head and actually *do* them. Also, quit social media. (Don't quit UA-cam tho, we need you!)
Good job. You’ve had a rough start to 2023. Me too. As a lot of people. Know you are enough and be kind to yourself🩵