Minimalist Guide to Simplify Your Life

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  • @ShubhamKumar-rb6ts
    @ShubhamKumar-rb6ts 3 роки тому +128

    Slow living is ❤️
    I'm 18teen I realized too early how owning less is always better.
    Financially independent and living simple life is always beautiful combination.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +34

      To realize this at a young age is such a blessing! I hope that you continue to see benefits from simple living :) thanks for watching

    • @mommysina
      @mommysina 3 роки тому +2

      I am so happy for you.

  • @AskArianne
    @AskArianne 3 роки тому +122

    The best things in life are free and simple. This is a great reminder. I overcomplicate life too much sometimes. Thanks for sharing!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +9

      Simpler the better in my opinion 😁❤ thank you so much for watching Arianne

    • @anashappydays
      @anashappydays 3 роки тому +6

      Totally agree about that 👌

    • @awildandsimplelife
      @awildandsimplelife 3 роки тому +1

      I totally agree! ❤️

  • @Mindaaayroxs
    @Mindaaayroxs 3 роки тому +145

    I felt/feel when she said she’s living by what society wants, what others want your life to look like. I have been living by others expectations for years. Now, I feel others won’t like the “new me.” It’s not new to me because this was who I was always meant to be. No more! Decluttering has helped me so much. I love you channel. I just subscribed a week ago. Love your slow living videos. Inspiring 😇

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +16

      I think it takes courage to live life on your own terms, but have found that the rewards are immeasurable :) I hope that you will pursue the life that feels right for you Mindy. Also, thank you so much for supporting the channel!!

    • @delaynadalton
      @delaynadalton 3 роки тому +11

      I understand this completely. I feel like people are so used to the old me and, the big thing, my negative self talk. I wonder what others might think if I eliminated that and spoke more positively about myself.

    • @Mindaaayroxs
      @Mindaaayroxs 3 роки тому +12

      @@delaynadalton exactly. I’m a very “happy, positive, spontaneous” person and I noticed when I’m alone, I’m calm, relaxed and very collected. The way I have been portraying myself is to entertain other people. To know I’ve been doing that for years saddens me. We can only be honest and true to ourselves. People will love us for the “new” us and if they don’t, there’s billions of other people who will accept us 🙏🏼

    • @emBraceSinghlife
      @emBraceSinghlife 3 роки тому +3

      I also identify with that statement, about living by what society wants. I am realizing the need for a change.

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 роки тому +1

      Welcome to #Freedom

  • @anashappydays
    @anashappydays 3 роки тому +59

    The more I simplified my life the happier I become ❤️ I feel so much lighter and clear minded ❤️

  • @ishanoscopybitch6708
    @ishanoscopybitch6708 3 роки тому +271

    If there's an example of a high quality woman, it's this one right here.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +36

      What a compliment. Thank you so much!

    • @boran.sezenelif
      @boran.sezenelif 3 роки тому +3

      So true and to the point tough! 👏☺️🌺

    • @globalmuffin2
      @globalmuffin2 3 роки тому

      she's beautiful, but extremely boring.

    • @ishanoscopybitch6708
      @ishanoscopybitch6708 3 роки тому +13

      @@globalmuffin2 well it's subjective, you might find her boring, I find her peaceful. :)

    • @faeithhwryd8459
      @faeithhwryd8459 2 роки тому +2

      This makes my heart so happy to read, I feel the same about her 🌸❤️

  • @kellycato253
    @kellycato253 3 роки тому +62

    As a mother of two disabled kids our lives can be very busy with all the therapy visits each week. I was contemplating adding piano lessons to our weekly schedule but I feel like that would create a hectic lifestyle. So thank you for sharing your video and helping me realize that extra curricular activities might not be for our family. I love how calming your videos are. It’s like a mini vacation when I watch them. Thanks for all the work you put into your channel.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +18

      Kelly, I admire you for being able to juggle everything. That truly inspires me! I appreciate you watching these videos. Makes me so happy to hear that they are bringing a calm into your day :) thank you so much

    • @titliworld6687
      @titliworld6687 2 роки тому

      ❤️

  • @DnAMcD
    @DnAMcD 3 роки тому +58

    Meal planning has saved us lots of money and we rarely eat out unless it's pre-planned.
    We're spending about 30-40% less now and it makes cooking and shopping so much less stressful.
    Also feeling lighter and less burdened since stepping away from negative people and those whose values systems are completely opposite to my own.
    Thank you for sharing these tips Sophie.
    As always, it is a pleasure to watch your videos.
    Blessings from Queensland, Australia 🇦🇺

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +6

      30-40% less is really amazing :) I'll have to calculate how much we are actually saving by meal planning. The older I get, the more I just want to give all my energy and love to the handful of people closest to me for sure. Thank you so much for watching and for your lovely comment Amanda

  • @AndyJamerson
    @AndyJamerson 3 роки тому +28

    Mental is a big one for me. Focussing on what you can actually influence is so much easier, rather than trying to evaluate the outside world. Simplyfing what I consume (books, podcasts, UA-cam etc.) and really focussing what serves me or brings me true positive joy helped me a lot to build a strong mindset. Thanks for sharing your tips! Super inspiring.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +4

      You are so right Andy! Something that I have been working on is just staying in my own lane and focusing on my journey. Also, one of my goals for 2021 is to really be careful about what I consume. I recently unfollowed a lot of people on Instagram because I didn't find value in their content. Thank you for your thoughtful comment!

  • @AllThingsAlexa
    @AllThingsAlexa 3 роки тому +43

    I just decluttered TONS of toys and I feel so much better!
    I have been slacking on my meal planning! Thanks for the inspiration.
    Great video as always ❤️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +3

      I just decluttered tons of toys for my dogs too. They didn't seem to mind at all haha :) Thank you so much for watching Alexa!

  • @DeeSimpleSlowLife
    @DeeSimpleSlowLife 3 роки тому +11

    Most times, the complications we face are things that we did on our own. Which means that we can also undo them on our own. 💕🌼 Simplifying life gives true joy. My husband and I also track all of our expenses and it helps manage our money. Thank you for these wonderful tips, Sophie! 🤗

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +3

      I agree! I realized that it's not society's problem, it's my own doing. That's wonderful you guys budget together! I think it's so important as a couple to talk about finances and goals ❤

  • @hanasofy3960
    @hanasofy3960 3 роки тому +28

    Your content is superbe, a perfect micture of wisdom, practical philosophy and aesthetics. Thank you for inspiring us on such a high level. I wish you success and the achievement of all your goals. You clearly deserve it.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +5

      Thank you so much for your kind comment. It really means a lot to me :) so glad you are enjoying my videos

  • @SimplypaperDIY
    @SimplypaperDIY 3 роки тому +24

    I wanted to share something.
    What I wanted from life was to be financially independent and choose the career I love.
    But, the outside noise of "hustle and grind" made me lose sight of what I really wanted. As a result I picked up two side hustles along with studies, and eventually that led to a burnout.
    Along with all these, I was facing some huge problems in my relationships. I was feeling completely empty.
    But then, I realised something. I needed to simplify my life. To cut out extra work I was doing; and to cut off people who were not a good match.
    And, I did that.
    Here came another big challenge. The loneliness that came with my life choices felt unbearable. I started to feel empty once again and was reconsidering whether the outside world was correct or not.
    But then, watching some of your videos made me tune into myself, again.
    Here's what I want to say. When you start simplifying your life / turn towards your minimalism, be prepared to face the after effects of it. And always remind yourself that these after effects are temporary. And you, as a beautiful human being, has the patience to overcome this phase as well.
    Thank you so much for this video. Sending you love and peace ♡

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +5

      Thanks so much for sharing this. You are absolutely right! I think the transition of lifestyle choices can be very challenging for many, myself included. But just want to say, that's so cool you decided to change your life around. 💛

    • @SimplypaperDIY
      @SimplypaperDIY 3 роки тому +2

      @@MalamaLife thank you so much for your kind words! I hope you always find the strength to overcome your challenges ♡

    • @LifewithSarah111
      @LifewithSarah111 Місяць тому

      I resonate with how the work hustle can lead to burnout. In naturopathic medical school and undergrad I worked multiple jobs. I strived hard in my classes. I maintained many friendships. I was on sympathetic overdrive and there came a point in medical school where I decided, or rather did out of burn out, just to let go. Let go of people pleasing, stopped working jobs for money and focused on my studies, stopped emotionally giving all of myself to others, and started allowing others to do things for me. I started to feel lighter, more grateful, and I feel I share myself more authentically. Sometimes I feel lonely and wonder about the friendships I’ve let go of, but it’s not worth the inauthenticity I was feeling. Since I started allowing help in and expressing gratitude, my relationships have felt more balanced.

  • @judykim9369
    @judykim9369 3 роки тому +2

    Whenever I lose my way.... I listen to your vids and I get back on track. I feel less guilty about reaching my goals. They are relaxing too.

  • @Marsolan
    @Marsolan 3 роки тому +14

    Great tips and beautiful camera work. Thank you!! I especially like that you are very respectful to other people choices and do not assume didactic or judgmental tone. You are just sharing your perspective. Love it.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind comment. I want my message to encourage people to live life on their own terms, even if it's not minimalist or slow living :) I appreciate you taking notice. Thanks for watching Marina

  • @gw7615
    @gw7615 3 роки тому +20

    Thank you for making this video. I used to live my live unconsciously which resulted in the mental and material clutters, moments of happiness that are not sustainable. Daily yoga (physical and spiritual) has made me more aware and more sustainable joy now that I'm not depending on external stimuli...still a long way to go but I can see/feel the improvement in my overall well-being. 75% of the time, I now eat what my body needs not what my tongue wants, my body feels good and not sluggish or bloated. Inner Engineering book by Sadhguru is a book I would recommend (the book is better than the audio).

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Still long way to go for me too, but it feels like I'm on the right track 😊 it's amazing that you are making the effort to take care of your physical, mental and spiritual health. I just think it's vital in order to navigate this world. I'll definitely have to check out the book 😊 thank you for sharing

  • @julesjules4185
    @julesjules4185 3 роки тому +4

    I absolutely agree with you! Life can be really easy - but you have to work on your mindset first to recognise it✨

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Yes! you said it so perfectly. It took me a while to even realize this :) Thanks for watching Jules

  • @socalbeauty1516
    @socalbeauty1516 3 роки тому +2

    Whenever I feel overwhelmed and stressed I watch your videos. Helps me a lot

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      I'm so happy to hear that! Many more videos to come 😊👍

  • @Patricia-fi9zo
    @Patricia-fi9zo 3 роки тому +29

    Simplifying life can be so refreshing... you've compiled some very valuable tips and reminded me of the 20/80 rule. Thanks Sophie ❤️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +6

      Thank you so much Patricia. My goal for 2021 is to simplify my life even more :)

    • @Patricia-fi9zo
      @Patricia-fi9zo 3 роки тому +4

      That's so great! I'm also on my journey simplify things where it just suits me better ☺️

  • @nidhi0211
    @nidhi0211 3 роки тому +9

    Beautiful video Sophie

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind comment.

  • @TheHappyblacky
    @TheHappyblacky 3 роки тому +12

    Such a helpful video. I try to build a routine and focus on the most important thing of the day. Prioritise on small wins. Thank you for this beautiful reminder 💚🙏

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Yes! I also love celebrating those small wins too :) aw thank you so much for your lovely comment.

  • @kathleenagre9077
    @kathleenagre9077 3 роки тому +5

    Just started watching your UA-cam channel and I really love your soothing voice and your wonderful wisdom for someone so young. Can't wait to watch all of your segments.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much Kathleen 🥰 I appreciate you watching and supporting my channel.

  • @khinnoenoethaw2776
    @khinnoenoethaw2776 3 роки тому +5

    I genuinely love your channel which is something I’m always looking for. I find it calm and peaceful whenever I watch your videos. Your voice is so soothing as well, btw. This is so amazing ✨❤️❤️❤️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much 🥰 I am so happy to hear that! I can't wait to share more

  • @rooh1905
    @rooh1905 3 роки тому +2

    I really love your channel. Found you a month ago and can't tell you how relaxing it is to listen and comprehend things you say. I feel so soughted after watching your videos. What an inspiring role model you are.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much 🥰that really means a lot to me

  • @clydeoporto
    @clydeoporto 3 роки тому +1

    i love the minimalist, all the videos are worth to watch, the music is awesome.

  • @mhdayarathna4706
    @mhdayarathna4706 3 роки тому +3

    I'm also agree with you.simplify lifestyle make me easy to live anywhere.sophie your calm voice and inspiration is better for your followers.i love your channel.😍

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for supporting the channel. Simple and modest lifestyle feels right to me :)

  • @MissMarissaForman
    @MissMarissaForman Рік тому

    I just want to say, I love your voice. Your videos have become part of my nightly routine. They help me relax and stay motivated to complete my goals. Thank you!

  • @gianninaa.6925
    @gianninaa.6925 3 роки тому +1

    So happy to find your channel. Im gonna try now to be mindful of my life and to just keep what matters most. 💙

  • @tanishamarko9251
    @tanishamarko9251 3 роки тому +2

    i'm 19 year old . in next 6 7 months i'll start my 20s. i'm watching your channel to simplify myself. thank you. i'm realizing less is more.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      I'm so happy to hear that :) Thanks Tanisha

  • @eugeniaferreira3757
    @eugeniaferreira3757 3 роки тому +2

    I love your channel. I started decluterring 3 years ago. Im getting there at my own pace. Been meal planning for 2 years. Best choice I made. Greetings from France ☺

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Eugenia. So happy to hear that :) thank you for supporting the channel

  • @sheelamae.socito
    @sheelamae.socito 3 роки тому +5

    Amazing video. Thank you for sharing. What stand me most, about declutter, that you have already what you need. I hope I can apply this too. Thank you

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      When I stopped buying things, I realized that I had everything already. Thanks so much for watching!

    • @sheelamae.socito
      @sheelamae.socito 3 роки тому +1

      Amen, thank you for this word. Youre right, when in this world most of the time is to acquire more. But the true is we have already what we need. Thank you a great reminder.

  • @Nina21_
    @Nina21_ 3 роки тому +4

    What a wonderful video ❤ every single advice on this list was so valuable & i couldn't agree more ! Thank you Sophie for such high quality content it's so inspiring & comforting 💕

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much Nina :) I appreciate your kind words

  • @irene4865
    @irene4865 3 роки тому +7

    Your videos are so calming and inspiring

    • @EminySanz
      @EminySanz 3 роки тому +2

      True. I will love to visit Greece one day. It will be a dream come true. It seems very beautiful plus Yanny is from there.

    • @irene4865
      @irene4865 3 роки тому +2

      @@EminySanz Greece is indeed a beautiful country and very hospitable as well. I hope you can visit it one day and create wonderful experiences and memories 😇

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +2

      I just loved visiting Greece last year. It felt like a dream. Thank you for watching. Love from Maui

    • @EminySanz
      @EminySanz 3 роки тому +1

      @@irene4865 I hope so too. Its the place that i wish with all my heart to visit one day. Even i feel like making a painting for my house of Greece its so beautiful.

  • @hollyatkinson6763
    @hollyatkinson6763 3 роки тому +4

    Another amazing video. I am so grateful to have found your channel. Your content is my favourite on UA-cam ❤️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Holly. That is so sweet.. I appreciate your comment so much 🥺💕

  • @emmamatos5416
    @emmamatos5416 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much. This is very helpful and inspiring. You are beautiful as well! Also love the pictures of the ocean. Just beautiful!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for your kind comment Emma :) I appreciate it so much.

  • @9kris97126
    @9kris97126 2 роки тому

    I like watching your videos. They’ve actually become some of my favorites. You’ve helped me a lot!

  • @MavenGirlPH
    @MavenGirlPH 3 роки тому +1

    I am truly moved by your channel thank u so much for creating such a good one

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      I'm so happy to hear that. Thank you so much for supporting me

  • @AnnaLefray
    @AnnaLefray 3 роки тому +3

    I resonate so much with what you say! And 2021 will be the year of simplification. I will do the 30-day minimalist challenge and use the Pareto method to simplify my work :) Thank you so much for this video! 😍

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Yes! I want to simplify my life even more in 2021 😊 thanks for watching

  • @estrelabalane3396
    @estrelabalane3396 3 роки тому +3

    Another 👍 content. Practical, simple and helpful. Thank you Sophie. I love all the guides you shared, been practicing some of those the past months too:
    >Digital
    >Relationships
    > Personal Finances
    ...the rest are in working progress 🙂❤️🙏🏻
    Kudos again for this content, Sophie!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Glad you like them! Thank you Estrela 🥰

  • @quaithe7050
    @quaithe7050 3 роки тому

    I saw your videos in my recommendations. The first one was "Boring" life, since then, I haven't stopped watching your videos. I love how slow, relaxing, and simple your videos are! I learned so much new things and new habits coming from you. I am a quiet and serious type of person with whoever I talk to, even my family, cousins, and friends. Sometimes my friends / cousins don't like the way I am and so I stay away from them and make a distance and cut off communications because it's not worth it and I learned that focusing on improving myself and loving myself is much more important than gaining the approval and recognition of some people.
    I also think that living a simple and mediocre life is better than rushing everything because time will come where I can be financially independent and have a simple life. Thank you so much for making high-quality videos! I subscribed to your channel because you inspired me.

  • @divyanegii2831
    @divyanegii2831 Рік тому

    Ur videos has a great impact on me., untangling my mind, simple u keep things.. More focus u can have,
    live mindfully, nowadays social media has bring so much nuisance (good as well) ..
    I feel like when u keep it simple, life seems easy💜 thankyou so much♥

  • @Bussjaeger
    @Bussjaeger 2 роки тому

    I really like your channel. Been surfing around “moderate minimalism” … yours is very realistic w/ touch of inspirations. Thank you for creating this channel. Much appreciated.

  • @ΓεωργίαΦωτιάδου-χ4χ

    from a reason I don΄t know your voice makes me calm and feel better. Keep doing all these helpful videos. Kisses from Rhodes

  • @lorenzoburton3974
    @lorenzoburton3974 3 роки тому +1

    Such a blessing to hear you speak.
    Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @genellicamarcelo7542
    @genellicamarcelo7542 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing again. I almost watched all of your videos and I love all of it! It helps me in so many ways! Keep sharing, Sophi! You are making a difference with someone's life. 🤗

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      aww I really appreciate your support for the channel! so cool that you are enjoying these videos. I can't believe you almost watched all of them 🥰 that's so sweet.

  • @beebsblue
    @beebsblue 3 роки тому +2

    You have inspired me to be more intentional about what I own and what I do 💛✨

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      That is so amazing to hear! Yes let's inspire each other.

  • @UpasanaDevchoudhury
    @UpasanaDevchoudhury 3 роки тому +4

    Loved this video Sophie :) I am also on this journey of simplifying my life and minimalism this past year and I feel so less anxious now and more clarity regarding what I want in my life. I guess decluttering your physical space also creates more mental space to allow only things and people that I want to spend my energy in. Thank you for sharing and being an inspiration in this journey :)

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      That is amazing to hear! I also feel less anxious in my day to day too. It's been nothing but good things from simplifying. I'm so glad I was able to share since it seems like we're on a similar journey 💕

    • @awildandsimplelife
      @awildandsimplelife 3 роки тому

      That's great! I also make videos about slow and simple living in Australia. You can check them out on my youtube channel. 😃

  • @barbarabalogh7779
    @barbarabalogh7779 Рік тому +1

    I liked what you said about relationships. This has always been my challenge. I've been working on putting space between myself and two people who drain me, both of whom are intense personalities.

  • @markblado4282
    @markblado4282 3 роки тому +2

    Great video Sophie!! I agree with everything you’re saying!
    Working with an Excel sheet to figure out your budget is such a good idea! Both of our adult kids are doing that now too. Paying off the high interest debts first, then proceeding to the lower interest debts is crucial to getting financial stability. Seeking help from a financial planner and setting goals provides motivation and satisfaction over successes!
    I like your part about letting go of relationships with people who bring us down. Finding positive people is addition by subtraction. It works!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      This past year, I found connected with some really amazing people in my life (both offline and online) and it has just been the most fulfilling experience. This naturally made me distance myself from toxic people who just wanted to take away my energy and time. I love that you keep things simple Mark! I know we've never met, but you always have positive energy :)

    • @markblado4282
      @markblado4282 3 роки тому

      @@MalamaLife Thank you so much for your kind comments Sophie! The feeling is mutual. I know exactly what you are saying. I get so much from your positivity, optimism, and straight forwardness. I’m very glad we met through IG! Keep up the good work!

  • @TeaWithTez
    @TeaWithTez 3 роки тому +2

    You’re super inspiring! I’m not as minimalist as you but I definitely think twice about more things than I did before I found your channel! Thank you

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      That is so awesome to hear! than you for watching

  • @DaleSteadman
    @DaleSteadman 3 роки тому +1

    Your video is so claiming, you live in paradise.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much 🥰 Hawaii is a dream. Grateful to live here.

  • @ivanfures8540
    @ivanfures8540 3 роки тому

    Your life is almost like mine. By watching (listening) to your videos i realised that. Watched probably more then 20 of your videos and realised you live just like me exept you are on an island. Trying to find words to describe you but… Just listening to your soft voice makes me so calm and thanks for that. It’s good to know that in these materialistic society exists someone like you. I can simply identify myself with you. If I ever want to be in a relationship again it will be with a person similar to you cause you are so easy and calm and by listening to your videos I realised that I want to be with someone like you. Won’t search, won’t push cause i think if it happens it happens and if not then not, what can you do ? Thanks for everything and I hope that girls similar to you still exist in this twisted world. Thank you Sophie! If I ever come to Maui i would really like to meet you in person .

  • @choosetoshine2610
    @choosetoshine2610 3 роки тому +2

    Great content! Your environment exudes serenity. Blessings!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      I feel so blessed 😊❤ thank you so much

  • @nancypadernal-walters2957
    @nancypadernal-walters2957 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this reminder to create the life i deserve and want. Im letting go of people and love ones that have been toxic and use me only for what i can give them or what they can get from me. This includes my own mother- it has been a long many yrs, and i finally decided that enough is enough, i need to just let them all go and focus more on what i’m supposed to be doing in this life! It’s very hard and painful but i have to aknowledge the feelings and move on. Im grateful for this channel, just run into this today after a very excruciating exchange and confrontation of my own mother who is a pathological liar, use deciet and manipualtion to get what she wants. I feel so used and abused for so many years. Thought she will change but i’m just fooling myself, she never cared to nurture our relationship for whatever is left of it, i am done trying. It’s very hard to describe the painful feeling that this has to end, but to save my life ans not succumb to depression and suicide i have to stay away and cut her off my life.

  • @tenzinchophel9235
    @tenzinchophel9235 3 роки тому +2

    I always watch your videos each and everyday ......

  • @analyncabatuan4832
    @analyncabatuan4832 3 роки тому +1

    Found my new fave channel which i feel that i can relate and i hope in the future i can live like the way you lived.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      I am so happy to hear that 😊 thank you so much Analyn! I appreciate you supporting my channel.

  • @seankirchner2378
    @seankirchner2378 3 роки тому +3

    Hi Sophie. More great suggestions to put into practice. Thanks!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks Sean! trying to simplify my life even more for 2021 :)

  • @elyzawakefield9589
    @elyzawakefield9589 3 роки тому +1

    I really admire your lifestyle. So much so that I’ve become a new subscriber. The overall aesthetic of these videos is so calming I’ve started watching them before bed and I look forward to them. At the moment my life is hectic, my physical space is cluttered as well my mental space. But watching u has inspired me to get back to meditation and hopefully soon adapt a slow peaceful way of living. Thank you so much. Please continue documenting your life’s journey bc it’s truly an inspiration

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      I am so happy to hear that you are enjoying my videos! I hope that meditation will introduce the calmness back into your life. Yes :) I will keep going with these videos. I appreciate your support

  • @agentbey
    @agentbey 3 роки тому +1

    Thumbs up on meal planning - time and money saver for sure.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Yes! simple yet effective :)

  • @gregorywong2014
    @gregorywong2014 3 роки тому

    I wish I had known what you have taught me - years ago. You have so much wisdom and intelligence. As a former Economics and Accounting Instructor, I see the genius in you. Mahalo.

  • @MonethSato
    @MonethSato 3 роки тому +1

    I’m here again because I love your voice and I learn so much from your videos ❤️🇵🇭🇯🇵

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much! so happy to hear that :)

  • @jasminsteiper7981
    @jasminsteiper7981 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, you just bring so much calm and happiness in my life just by watching your videos, thank you

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much Jasmin 🥰 so happy to hear that!

  • @eightiesforever3574
    @eightiesforever3574 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for these tips,one forget what is important...I wrote journal when I was in elementary&highschool, and want to write it again but somehow I deley it 😕I believe that is very helpful&important for one's soul... much love xx

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      I love to write, so journaling feels like an escape for me. I hope that you pick up this habit again and see how you like it. Thanks for watching Ivana. Love from Maui

  • @PilgrimKat
    @PilgrimKat 3 роки тому +17

    What a gorgeous intro :) I really agree with you about the first point - all too often I waste time on the 80% less important tasks, and it's definitely taken away from the more important things. I'm in a process of re-evaluating and simplifying my goals, to help me with this. Thanks for another motivating and inspiring video!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +2

      I wrote down my long list of goals for 2021, but definitely need to narrow them down so it's more realistic and achievable :) So happy you enjoyed the intro Kat! I always appreciate your lovely comment.

  • @mimi19823
    @mimi19823 3 роки тому +2

    Love your videos!! So calming! Thanks for sharing ❤️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching Merlin!

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 2 роки тому +2

    #7 Be compassionate; freely forgiving

  • @mahele_
    @mahele_ Рік тому

    Dear Moana thanks for sharing so magic and peace ✨🙏🏾💜

  • @truegritcouture
    @truegritcouture 3 роки тому +2

    Lovely advice, and your videography is always so beautiful Xx thank you! 🌸

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much ❤😁 happy to hear that

  • @janecadousteau3370
    @janecadousteau3370 Рік тому

    I just found your channel today. Very calming and inspiring! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.

  • @juliestyleandstory8934
    @juliestyleandstory8934 Рік тому +1

    Watching again from the Philippines. I super enjoy your videos ❤❤❤❤

  • @drprakriti
    @drprakriti 3 роки тому +1

    your videos are so calming.. i am one of your regular viewer❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for supporting me ❤ it really means a lot.

  • @RavindraJoisa_Official
    @RavindraJoisa_Official 2 роки тому

    True, if you have negative people around you in your family it not worth it to stay, life is too short. But what about their little kids. I know many still continue in the toxic relationship for the same reason.

  • @kurtmeyer9229
    @kurtmeyer9229 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you for your thoughtful, and timely, video. Oddly enough, Covid was one of the best things that has happened to my wife and I. I was forced to work from home for six months and my wife and I got to know each other again, after 30+ years of marriage. When I went back to work in a building, I realized what an unhealthy environment it was emotionally, and how much of my time was spent preoccupied with trying to decipher what a somewhat abusive supervisor's expectations were. I handed him my resignation, keys, and ID three weeks ago and walked out without saying a word.
    I didn't "need" the money. We are fortunate, in that we have sufficient income without continuing to work. Focused now on simplifying, reducing consumption, and turning attention to all of those "one of these days" goals we set aside as we chased the dollar, and the approval of people who do not care about us outside of how much we could advance their career goals. My wife says this is the first time I have ever been fully present.
    Thanks again, and I am now a subscriber.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      That's so incredible to come to that realization and adjust your life accordingly. I also think this year has been a blessing in disguise for many reasons for me personally. Like you mentioned, it really forced me to stop and think about my tracks. So happy for you and your wife that you can spend more quality time together 💕 thank you so much for sharing your story 😊

  • @pickles9440
    @pickles9440 3 роки тому +2

    Would love to see more meal planning. I struggle with this one. Love the piece on relationships. You are wise beyond your years. Also what direction would recommend to start journaling. I always feel that if I am struggling with something that the las thing I want to do is rehash it all on paper. But I keep hearing how beneficial it is.

  • @lieslwise3294
    @lieslwise3294 3 роки тому +1

    Good reminder for me to journal today

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Yes! I love Journaling especially on Sundays 😊💕

  • @aneripatel8007
    @aneripatel8007 3 роки тому +2

    great tips! i would love to see a minimalist pet care/routine video!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thanks for the idea! also, thanks for watching :)

  • @thatsmecristy
    @thatsmecristy 3 роки тому +1

    I love this kind of living. 💞😊 & I'm glad that i found this channel, your vids really inspire me. Thank you, 🇵🇭💗

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you Cristy 😊 I appreciate your support. I am excited to share more videos withyou in 2021

  • @gregorywong2014
    @gregorywong2014 3 роки тому

    I thank you for teaching me what wisdom really is. Mahalo and best wishes for a Healthy and Happy life. You have enlightened me tremendously. Thank you.

  • @AnnaLunaPepito
    @AnnaLunaPepito 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for always inspiring us to really live life its simplest way may be but the best thing we can ever have. 💋

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Simpler the better in my opinion 😁❤ thank you so much for watching. Appreciate your kind words too

  • @ellyzajoycegloria457
    @ellyzajoycegloria457 3 роки тому +1

    Binge watching all your minimalist videos. 🥺😍

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Aww thank you 😁❤ hope it's helpful!

    • @ellyzajoycegloria457
      @ellyzajoycegloria457 3 роки тому +1

      It really is!! ❤️❤️ trying my best to start my minimalist journey✨✨✨

  • @raniwa933
    @raniwa933 3 роки тому +1

    The video is really pretty. I feel like my mind is being cleansed. The video of you meditating on the beach is especially beautiful. I'm going to the end. Merry Christmas!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching. So happy that you enjoyed it! I feel grateful I can live on this beautiful island :)

  • @laraduc8897
    @laraduc8897 2 роки тому

    Tu es mon coup de cœur Sophy :)

  • @abhishekbiswas9741
    @abhishekbiswas9741 3 роки тому +1

    Simple living high thinking was previous thought. At present u need to have self glorification making things complex. Ur observation and lifestyle shown in ur channel, is healthy and pocket friendly. It also enables us to save something for future. Nice suggestion, good video.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I always appreciate you so much!

  • @bethatgirlygal
    @bethatgirlygal 3 роки тому +1

    Just loved all your videos. Awesome. Keep making more videos.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching ❤🥰

  • @stellalee2659
    @stellalee2659 3 роки тому +1

    Another great video 🙂 thank you for your tips Sophie!!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching Stella 😍❤

  • @joan3056
    @joan3056 Рік тому

    Hi Malama, thank u your ur life. You’re a blessing. I’m now starting my journey to minimalism and contentment to simple life. Hope to see u and have coffee talk one of these days.

  • @bahayko.ph-renttoown
    @bahayko.ph-renttoown 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for inspiring me in my everyday life... Love you so much as a person... 🥰

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much 🥰 You are so sweet.

  • @tomjamison3126
    @tomjamison3126 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much! Wonderful, straight-forward advice; and such a beautifully produced and inspiring video!

  • @GraftingTactick
    @GraftingTactick 3 роки тому

    Very quality life mentor. Loved it a lot 💕💕

  • @mindtheleaves9914
    @mindtheleaves9914 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful video! I really like your calm cadence.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much for your kind comment. Appreciate that so much

  • @umeshifernando7
    @umeshifernando7 3 роки тому +1

    This is amazing 🤩 love the msg you’re sharing with the world

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      I am so happy to hear that! I find that living a simple life makes me feel the happiest and more fulfilled.

    • @umeshifernando7
      @umeshifernando7 3 роки тому

      @@MalamaLife I feel the same ever since I found this minimalist lifestyle, thanks to lovely content creators like you 😇

  • @kanmichael
    @kanmichael 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing and inspiring us. You are amazing

  • @heymomva
    @heymomva 3 роки тому +1

    I hope I am not late at the age of 26 to start simplifying things in my life! ❤🤗 Thanks Sophie!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Not at all :) I am much older and I am still learning how to simplify everyday 🥰

  • @alexperoff-investingessent8367
    @alexperoff-investingessent8367 3 роки тому +2

    Oh man, your first part about conforming to societal norms definitely hit home for me. It feels like a constant battle if you're keep up with the Jones, or even just the lifestyle deemed cool by others. It takes effort to go against the grain. I'm definitely a person who likes routine, it has simplified my life in so many ways and can really be applied to many aspects in life. Decluttering on a monthly basis is a great idea and I'll definitely (I swear this time) be doing some decluttering over the holidays. Actually, I have a fun UA-cam video idea about it. Always great content Sophie. Your videos are a much needed calm to an otherwise busy (but immensely satisfying life). Like-287

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      I am excited to see how you tie in decluttering to your finance and philosophy channel :) Cannot wait to see it! It sounds so commonsensical to say that we should live the life that feels right for us, regardless of what our societal norms are, but things get complicated as soon as we add in work, friends, social life, relationships, values and ethics all into the equation. But I agree with you that this life is immensely satisfying :) Thank you so much Alex!

  • @ahana6718
    @ahana6718 3 роки тому +2

    Please dear share your makeup routine with the makeup products you use on a regular basis and also your skin care routine please please dear 💕💕 lots of love ❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment! I am thinking of doing a video on ethical skincare and makeup brands. Stay tuned

  • @LuuGolinski
    @LuuGolinski 3 роки тому +1

    Luckily I never overused my phone like this and try to understand why people around me use it so much. The GPS was also a good example; I've always been making the routes by myself as much as possible. I am astonished how little people are aware of there surroundings using auto-navigation. I find it makes every journey or walk more conscious when I don't use GPS or use it less / in a more active way on bigger travels.
    As for your other points, I totally agree and have made positive experiences with them so far (routines, decluttering, budgeting, journaling...), and still am working on improving my life :)
    Your videos are comfortably calm, grounding, and inspiring!
    If you like to make some (more) videos about how exactly you handle finances or aspects of that, I would be interested by the way :)

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      This is something that I really noticed during my travels. Before GPS, I would find my way around and even discover things on the way there, but I find myself relying too heavily on my GPS now and makes me miss out on the spontaneity. Thank you for your lovely comment!

  • @pabona15
    @pabona15 3 роки тому

    Your videos are so soothing 💜 with great messages.

  • @florante4991
    @florante4991 2 місяці тому

    thank you... your'e a living inspiration :) God bless!!

  • @josedosanjos2200
    @josedosanjos2200 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Sophie ! Greetings from Brazil. That's so beautiful your country.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому

      Thank you! Brazil is so beautiful too

  • @Iamrosyd
    @Iamrosyd 3 роки тому

    I want to say that I heard you mention your husband. In watching your videos I didn’t know you had a husband and I would think it’s easy for you to do all these things bc you live alone. It really made a difference in me bc I have a husband too and I don’t slow live. Thank you for doing these videos. It really helps. I guess it doesn’t matter if you are a family of 1, 2 or 5, you can still simple live mindfully.

  • @StefanieAnna
    @StefanieAnna 3 роки тому +1

    Great suggestions for living an intentional life. I definitely need to work on the technology area, I rely on my phone for everything, including the majority of my entertainment. Definitely need to spend more time away from my phone.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 роки тому +1

      Me too! I was shocked to see how much time I was actually wasting on my phone and it made me want to reevaluate my relationship with it altogether