Hello di It's really nice to see you both together Pls meri help kro..... Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
Well my relationship is of 8 years. Her parents know me my family i am from a village she is about 2km away from my house off course we are intercast. Nowadays she is doing her bachelors last year our field is same i am an international student in australia they don’t like me i mean her parents and they know that we are in relationship her brothers also know that but her brothers are very friendly instead of this that they know, but her mother father are not i know this is not the right time to tell but after few years we are going to tell and i have a fear that they say no to me instead of that i am a well educated/settled in australia our family have enough money as compare to there my father is in UK but they are bhramins so they focus on relatives first that how the boy is, is it good or not and off course relatives say not to me because im intercaste I don’t know what to do next how she will manage i need your help i can handle my family but i don’t thik that they consider me they hate me actually some insident was happend at the school time I don’t know they accept me and I really love her I don’t want to loose her i need your help please guide me. Thx
If you are well settled and educated then eventually the girl’s parents will say yes later when she tells them and convinces them for the same. Just ask her to not disclose your relationship right now since she is studying. When her grad is complete and she has a job then she can tell about your relationship officially and start the process of convincing. Also since the brothers like you they will back her up. Don’t be afraid right now, kya pata kal ko smoothly ho jaye sab aur ap abi se tensn le re ho 😊. Also make sure your family likes the girl too, main to pehle yahi h bcoz she has to come with you.
di i am in same situation samj nai arra h kese bolu they know about my relationship but vo iss bare m baat hi nai krte last tym 18 months phle conversation hua tha tbse ye matter shant hai.. ab samjh nai arra h mere mentor h he is telling me to tell my mom or dad directly jo hoga dekha jayga.. iss samy ghar p shanti h mere bolne c shanti bhaang ho jaygi...bataye kya kru please please
Mam 3 year ka relation hai..intercaste love..hm dono ne bhut try kia faily ko manane ka..but meri side se bilkul b parents ni man rhe ...or meri engagement b kra di...n shadi b....smj ni aara mam m kya kru..qk i cant live without him.....or waise kch kia to family ki tension..plz give me suggestion ...bht depressed hu.... N jisse meri engagement hui h kaine usko b clear kr dia..but wo rista ni tod rha...
Hi...In our case cast and religion is same. Her parents have agreed for the marriage but my parents are not yet convinced due to similar concerns about love marriage as mentioned in video. For last 2 months I have been trying to convince my parents. Now my partner is getting very anxious and wants to do court marriage in the mean time. She says, "lets do this for my peace of mind and we will keep it secret and will not tell anyone. You can then take as much time as u want to convince ur parents". What should I do?
Nai nai nai, don’t marry secretly like this. Kuch bu parents se chhupa ke nai karna. Ap apne partner ko kaho patiently wait kare jab tak dono family sides nai man jati. Aise court marriage karna theek nai h kahi by chance apke ghar pe pata laga to unko bahut ganda shock lagega. Peace of mind kuch nai hota apke partner ko apki position samajhni chahiye aur waif karna chahiye bcoz mainly ladke ki side se ha honi pehle zaruri h bcoz ladki ko apke yaha hi ana h.
Di..mere relationship ko 3 saal 4 mhine hochuke h..lekin he don't priorities me..mera bnda abhi jha job kr rha h toh maine bola mai bhi whi join krleti hu toh usne mna krdia ,usne bola khi aur krle mere sth nhi,or hmara same city me rehte hue bhi long distance h..hum mhino tk nhi milte toh use toh khush hona chahiye na ki iss bhane hum daily milenge,sth me time spend krenge lekin ye toh bilkul opposite reaction tha,or dosto k sth wo kitne ghnte bhi reh skta h lekin jb mujhse milte aata h toh use jldi hoti h jaane ki,or wo bolta h ki wo bht pyar krta h or mere bina nhi reh skta,toh ye kaisa pyar h di? I am very much confused..plz help me🙏❤️
Do you feel k wo aapke paas jb aata to boriyat show krta? Koi interest nai dikhata? I am surprised k 3 saal ho gye agr wo interested nai to saath kiun h ab tk But dear, you need to reconsider it Aap is baare m socho ya phr us se sai se communicate kro Agr wo ye baat nahi smjh raha to mushkil h k wo aage bhi life m apko tang hi kre ga Or apki baat ko importance nai dega Koi hate nai h , koi negativity nai h Situation ko aap smjhti ho to us hisaab se jo behtar lgta wo kro Is baat ko clear kro apne partner k saath Phr agla koi step lena
Ab hm kya kre....q k wo to block unblock yhi krte... hme kch btaiye...hm kis trha ignore kre...q k unke aage kisi ko value abhi b ni de pare... isilye B's puch re
Mam please help 😭 Inter cast relationship hai hmara Humne kha ki unse nhi to kisi se nhi krege sadhi Ghr wale kh rhe h ki beti ko ghr pe nhi rkh skte hum Ya to hum logo ko jhr de de mar de ya fir chup chap jha khte h sadhi krle
Agar humare career fields alag ho toh kya kare? Agar earning utni nai hai and ek partner abhi bhi dependent hai toh parents ko kaise explain kare? Future ke baare mein agar puche toh kaise explain kare?
Apni planning explain karo, ye to ap dono ne plan to kiya hi hoga ki itni salary ati h to ap dono kaise chalaoge kam! Shadi karne se pehle apko ye plan out karlena chahiye. Wahi planning apne parents ko batao tabi to unko confidence ayega ap dono ke rishte pe ki ha chalo dono sambhal lenge tab shadi karenge.
Mam...meri problem ka kuchh solution do....ghar pe btane pe parents bolte h ki nhi krna h saadi.apne mn se..aur apne mn se ki to ghar chhor dena...caste same h to v...thore purane vicharo wale h mere parents...ladki side k sblog raaji hai krane k liye....aur mere paas 2 saal time hai avii sadi krne k liye...kya kru Mai....
Hii dii ....Mai avi study kr rhi hu aur mere kch shaal m job v lg jyega mere partner ko v....aur mujhe ye smj nhi Aata ki Mai Apne parents ko kaisey bolungi Apne partner k bare m ....aur mere parents mere partner ko jante v h but as a best friend......Mai Apne ghr walo ko kaisy bolungi in future aur kya manenge wo meko smj nhi aarha ....????plzz reply ...???
Jab apki padhai khatam ho jaye, tabi apne ghar par bat karna iske bare me aur ladke ko bi yahi kehna, usse pehle mat karna warna parents mana karte h aur idhar udhar shadi karane ki jaldi machate h. Pehle dono jobs me lag jao. Uske bad ek bar ladka apni family me bata de taki idea lag jaye ki apko pasand karte h ki nai, uske bad apne ghar p batana, job lagne k bsd apki bat ki value hogi aur man jayenge 😊 tab tak abi dono apne Career’s banao
parents maan gye but ab unko ye drr h ki log kya kahenge...dusri cast me kyun kiya...pr kbhi mere parents bolte h teri khushi chahiye hme to logon se kya mtlb.....pr fir baad me bol Dete h tune glt kiya hme dhoka diya h....ab btaoo me kya kru kbhi khush kr dete h kbhi logon ka drr deke mujhe dukhi kr dete h😓
Ap pyar se bolte rho hamesha🙂 apke parents man gye h ek step pura hua, make sure ap unki strength bano , kayi bar dar Aur frustration me vo apko aisa suna denge par koi bat nai dil pe mat lena, vo khud dar re h isliye keh re h, ap unki strength bano vo apki banengne😊😊
Di jb family ekdm conservative ho ekdm male dominating where women don't have their say.... Ar parents joint fmly m apne s bde fmly members se influence hte ho... Toh aese me love mrg intercste shadi ki bt kse rkhi jaye ar mnaya jaya?
To kisi male ko hi padko jo apki bat rakh sake. Bhai, cousin, chacha. Anyone close to you. Wahi apki bat rakhe agey to bat ban jayegi. Ab unse kaise bat karni h ye apko plan out karna padega kyunki vo depnd karta h ki apke relations kaise h.
@@upscgyaan6087 fir to apko khud hi sab logo se bat karni padegi himmat karke. Aur ghar ke males se hi karni padegi bcoz apne kaha ki male dominating h. Agar male man jate h to females ko dikkat hogi nai.
@@deepadeshwalg5951 ye to common dialogue h. Thoda time do unko. Apni relationship ps bharosa rakho. Committed rho agar reh sakte ho to. Baki jab bi family me shadi ki bat uthegi tab apni bat rakhna. Wait for the right time
Mam me to govt job k liye prepare krri thi...or mere partner bhi govt job ka try krre the....or unke ghr to kbka pta h....but mene last year dec me hi btaya tha....bht klesh hua tha nhi maane bht kuch sunaya...but ek din mummy ne bola...ki abhi to hm shadi krte nhi 2 saal teri chahe teri psnd ya or khin....apna study pe focus kro...or us ldke ko bolo ki vo b settle ho jaaye.....ab baat ye h last time bhi abroad jaane ki baat thi mere ghr wale kehte ki bhr ni jana yhin kro jo krna...or ab baat ye hui...ki mere partner k mummy papa bolte h....bhr chle jaao (foreign)...or Jo ldki psnd h mtlb me uske ghr walon se kraoo baat to dono sath me jaana.....ab mere partner ki side se thik sb unke parents bol rhe h ...ki hme koi dikkt nhi h...but dono shadi krake chle jaoo....but mere yhn to kuch b ni esa....ab mujhe aaj kl me ghr pe baat krni h ki ese ese krke baat h.....jesa pehle hua tha vese sb hoga....or itni jldi sb hoega....pta ni kese react krenge....plz btaoo me kese krun ghr baat ki bhr jaana h shadi krke jaana h pr.....mere parents yhi bolte h apni badnami hogi sb kya bolenge ki dusre cast me shadi kra di...ye vo....😓😓
Yaha do cheezein complex karri h apka case, ek to love marriage aur dusra foreign jana aur agar ap dono bato ko ek sath apni family ke agey laoge to dikkat karegi kyunki unko dono hi nahi chahiye. Ap pehle ek cheez ke liye convince karo unko patience ke sath abi ap dono me se ek bhi banda settle nai h aur ap log shadi ki bat karoge to. Obviously apke parents mana hi karenge. Ladki ke parents tab tak ha nai bolte jab tak ladka kamane nai lag jata. Ya settled nai hota unki nazar me, agar ap ye bologe ki ladka aur me bahar jane ki soch re h shadi karke to apkd parents to na hi karenge kyunki unke hisab se to kych bi sahi nai h. Na apki job h na ladke ki job h, upar se dono shadi karke bahar jane ki bat karre ho. Kam se kam ek reason do apne parents ko ha karne ka. Ladke ke parents to kahenge hi ki ha karlo kyunki unhe pata h shadi hogi to paisa ayega usse bahar bhej denge dono ko. Par apne parents ko ek reason do shadi karne ka. Jaldbazi nai karo is what I would suggest.
@@literarysublime yes yhi sb hua...or ldke ki side se bol rhe h ki ldki ne stand ni liya ldki me dum ni baat krne ka but esa kuch b nhi h....mene ghr bht smjhaya tb papa ne yhi bola ki ldke ko jaane de pehle hme teri shadi ki jldi ni h...jb vo bhr se aaega tb usi se kra denge but abhi k liye use akele ko jaane de....abhi dekhte h kya bnta h🥺
Mam family kk btane ke bad ekdm se na bol dete or strictly bolte h kar li to sidhe mar jaynge ..meri koi ijjat nhi rahegi or jaldi se dusri shadi karnne ko force karne lagte h to kya kare
@@shammirani6032 man jayenge nai pehle ek bar jayza lelo apne bf se puchke ki hints wagerah deke dekhe ghar pe ki kya kal ko karayenge ki nai. Agar vo bi mana karenge to aur mushkil ho jayegi. Agar vo log cool h isko leke to apko apni family ko manane me asani hogi ye bolke ki ladke ki family apko pasand karti h. Aur ladke wale razi h aur ladke se milwa dena fir smooth ho jayega
@@meghaaggarwal1998 kyunki kuch agrawal ne jainism leliya tha apna dharm. Isliye kayi agrawal ke gotr jain se same ho sakte h. Kayio ke nai bi hote. Family history pe depend karta h.
Hello di It's really nice to see you both together Pls meri help kro..... Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
Hello di It's really nice to see you both together Pls meri help kro..... Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
Hello di It's really nice to see you both together Pls meri help kro..... Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
Jitna ho skte try kro.... situation ko dekho kya hai...but ye v dhyan rakho ki kahi wolog riste na dekhe chup ke.....if u are sure about the boy then.....try harder
@@thesunshine5724 ldke ki trf se koi doubt nhi h relationship bhi 7 year ka h unki fmailly ki ha h but meri family Wale nhi man rhe or reason hai cast😭
Ur video's is very helping for me thank you so so much sister❤️
Hello di
It's really nice to see you both together
Pls meri help kro.....
Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
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Well my relationship is of 8 years. Her parents know me my family i am from a village she is about 2km away from my house off course we are intercast. Nowadays she is doing her bachelors last year our field is same i am an international student in australia they don’t like me i mean her parents and they know that we are in relationship her brothers also know that but her brothers are very friendly instead of this that they know, but her mother father are not i know this is not the right time to tell but after few years we are going to tell and i have a fear that they say no to me instead of that i am a well educated/settled in australia our family have enough money as compare to there my father is in UK but they are bhramins so they focus on relatives first that how the boy is, is it good or not and off course relatives say not to me because im intercaste I don’t know what to do next how she will manage i need your help i can handle my family but i don’t thik that they consider me they hate me actually some insident was happend at the school time I don’t know they accept me and I really love her I don’t want to loose her i need your help please guide me. Thx
If you are well settled and educated then eventually the girl’s parents will say yes later when she tells them and convinces them for the same. Just ask her to not disclose your relationship right now since she is studying. When her grad is complete and she has a job then she can tell about your relationship officially and start the process of convincing. Also since the brothers like you they will back her up.
Don’t be afraid right now, kya pata kal ko smoothly ho jaye sab aur ap abi se tensn le re ho 😊. Also make sure your family likes the girl too, main to pehle yahi h bcoz she has to come with you.
ab apke vlogs ku ni aa rhe
di i am in same situation samj nai arra h kese bolu they know about my relationship but vo iss bare m baat hi nai krte last tym 18 months phle conversation hua tha tbse ye matter shant hai..
ab samjh nai arra h mere mentor h he is telling me to tell my mom or dad directly jo hoga dekha jayga.. iss samy ghar p shanti h mere bolne c shanti bhaang ho jaygi...bataye kya kru please please
Mam 3 year ka relation hai..intercaste love..hm dono ne bhut try kia faily ko manane ka..but meri side se bilkul b parents ni man rhe ...or meri engagement b kra di...n shadi b....smj ni aara mam m kya kru..qk i cant live without him.....or waise kch kia to family ki tension..plz give me suggestion ...bht depressed hu....
N jisse meri engagement hui h kaine usko b clear kr dia..but wo rista ni tod rha...
Hi...In our case cast and religion is same. Her parents have agreed for the marriage but my parents are not yet convinced due to similar concerns about love marriage as mentioned in video. For last 2 months I have been trying to convince my parents. Now my partner is getting very anxious and wants to do court marriage in the mean time. She says, "lets do this for my peace of mind and we will keep it secret and will not tell anyone. You can then take as much time as u want to convince ur parents". What should I do?
Nai nai nai, don’t marry secretly like this. Kuch bu parents se chhupa ke nai karna. Ap apne partner ko kaho patiently wait kare jab tak dono family sides nai man jati. Aise court marriage karna theek nai h kahi by chance apke ghar pe pata laga to unko bahut ganda shock lagega. Peace of mind kuch nai hota apke partner ko apki position samajhni chahiye aur waif karna chahiye bcoz mainly ladke ki side se ha honi pehle zaruri h bcoz ladki ko apke yaha hi ana h.
Di..mere relationship ko 3 saal 4 mhine hochuke h..lekin he don't priorities me..mera bnda abhi jha job kr rha h toh maine bola mai bhi whi join krleti hu toh usne mna krdia ,usne bola khi aur krle mere sth nhi,or hmara same city me rehte hue bhi long distance h..hum mhino tk nhi milte toh use toh khush hona chahiye na ki iss bhane hum daily milenge,sth me time spend krenge lekin ye toh bilkul opposite reaction tha,or dosto k sth wo kitne ghnte bhi reh skta h lekin jb mujhse milte aata h toh use jldi hoti h jaane ki,or wo bolta h ki wo bht pyar krta h or mere bina nhi reh skta,toh ye kaisa pyar h di? I am very much confused..plz help me🙏❤️
Do you feel k wo aapke paas jb aata to boriyat show krta?
Koi interest nai dikhata?
I am surprised k 3 saal ho gye agr wo interested nai to saath kiun h ab tk
But dear, you need to reconsider it
Aap is baare m socho ya phr us se sai se communicate kro
Agr wo ye baat nahi smjh raha to mushkil h k wo aage bhi life m apko tang hi kre ga
Or apki baat ko importance nai dega
Koi hate nai h , koi negativity nai h
Situation ko aap smjhti ho to us hisaab se jo behtar lgta wo kro
Is baat ko clear kro apne partner k saath
Phr agla koi step lena
Apki saari baatein bilkul shi h .yhi sab hua...or apne shi kaha jab wo khud ni effort kr re to hm akele kya krlenge...
Ab hm kya kre....q k wo to block unblock yhi krte... hme kch btaiye...hm kis trha ignore kre...q k unke aage kisi ko value abhi b ni de pare... isilye B's puch re
Bht achi cheeze samjhai apne.. thanks
Mam please help 😭
Inter cast relationship hai hmara
Humne kha ki unse nhi to kisi se nhi krege sadhi
Ghr wale kh rhe h ki beti ko ghr pe nhi rkh skte hum
Ya to hum logo ko jhr de de mar de ya fir chup chap jha khte h sadhi krle
Hi di you are so beautiful I want to ask that the relationship which has no fight or arguments is not a true love ???
Aisa kuch ni h, pyar pyar hota h ladayi ho ya na ho😊
Didu.. Papa mere bht strict... Normlly bolty vo shadi and all ke beech me tumhe bolna hi ni chahiye
Agar humare career fields alag ho toh kya kare? Agar earning utni nai hai and ek partner abhi bhi dependent hai toh parents ko kaise explain kare? Future ke baare mein agar puche toh kaise explain kare?
Apni planning explain karo, ye to ap dono ne plan to kiya hi hoga ki itni salary ati h to ap dono kaise chalaoge kam! Shadi karne se pehle apko ye plan out karlena chahiye. Wahi planning apne parents ko batao tabi to unko confidence ayega ap dono ke rishte pe ki ha chalo dono sambhal lenge tab shadi karenge.
Mam...meri problem ka kuchh solution do....ghar pe btane pe parents bolte h ki nhi krna h saadi.apne mn se..aur apne mn se ki to ghar chhor dena...caste same h to v...thore purane vicharo wale h mere parents...ladki side k sblog raaji hai krane k liye....aur mere paas 2 saal time hai avii sadi krne k liye...kya kru Mai....
Do sal h shadi karne ke liye? Matlab? Agar aisa h to abi se shadi ki bat kyu karre ho ap log? Isse aur dikkat hogi.
Na mai itna ma se close hu papa se yo blkl ni.. Kise bolu fir di.... Ar koi h ni itna close
Hii dii ....Mai avi study kr rhi hu aur mere kch shaal m job v lg jyega mere partner ko v....aur mujhe ye smj nhi Aata ki Mai Apne parents ko kaisey bolungi Apne partner k bare m ....aur mere parents mere partner ko jante v h but as a best friend......Mai Apne ghr walo ko kaisy bolungi in future aur kya manenge wo meko smj nhi aarha ....????plzz reply
...???
Jab apki padhai khatam ho jaye, tabi apne ghar par bat karna iske bare me aur ladke ko bi yahi kehna, usse pehle mat karna warna parents mana karte h aur idhar udhar shadi karane ki jaldi machate h. Pehle dono jobs me lag jao. Uske bad ek bar ladka apni family me bata de taki idea lag jaye ki apko pasand karte h ki nai, uske bad apne ghar p batana, job lagne k bsd apki bat ki value hogi aur man jayenge 😊 tab tak abi dono apne Career’s banao
@@literarysublime But Di prblm ye h ki Mai bolungi ksy aur kya wo manenge....qki mere parents jante h ussy ...
parents maan gye but ab unko ye drr h ki log kya kahenge...dusri cast me kyun kiya...pr kbhi mere parents bolte h teri khushi chahiye hme to logon se kya mtlb.....pr fir baad me bol Dete h tune glt kiya hme dhoka diya h....ab btaoo me kya kru kbhi khush kr dete h kbhi logon ka drr deke mujhe dukhi kr dete h😓
Ap pyar se bolte rho hamesha🙂 apke parents man gye h ek step pura hua, make sure ap unki strength bano , kayi bar dar Aur frustration me vo apko aisa suna denge par koi bat nai dil pe mat lena, vo khud dar re h isliye keh re h, ap unki strength bano vo apki banengne😊😊
Di jb family ekdm conservative ho ekdm male dominating where women don't have their say.... Ar parents joint fmly m apne s bde fmly members se influence hte ho... Toh aese me love mrg intercste shadi ki bt kse rkhi jaye ar mnaya jaya?
To kisi male ko hi padko jo apki bat rakh sake. Bhai, cousin, chacha. Anyone close to you. Wahi apki bat rakhe agey to bat ban jayegi. Ab unse kaise bat karni h ye apko plan out karna padega kyunki vo depnd karta h ki apke relations kaise h.
@@literarysublime koi bhi member aesa nhi hai jo mjhe support krega isme.
@@upscgyaan6087 fir to apko khud hi sab logo se bat karni padegi himmat karke. Aur ghar ke males se hi karni padegi bcoz apne kaha ki male dominating h. Agar male man jate h to females ko dikkat hogi nai.
Mere ghr wale nhi man rhe h....
Inter caste marriage h..
Bs parents society and relatives k chchkr m accept nhi kr rhe h
Try to convince them, baith k manao aur patience rakho, man jayenge!
@@literarysublime
Mam, hm dono government job m h...
Ghr wale bol rhe h ki ya to usko choose kr lo ya hmme kro... 😞
@@deepadeshwalg5951 gharwalo ko kro.....
@@deepadeshwalg5951 ye to common dialogue h. Thoda time do unko. Apni relationship ps bharosa rakho. Committed rho agar reh sakte ho to. Baki jab bi family me shadi ki bat uthegi tab apni bat rakhna. Wait for the right time
Mam me to govt job k liye prepare krri thi...or mere partner bhi govt job ka try krre the....or unke ghr to kbka pta h....but mene last year dec me hi btaya tha....bht klesh hua tha nhi maane bht kuch sunaya...but ek din mummy ne bola...ki abhi to hm shadi krte nhi 2 saal teri chahe teri psnd ya or khin....apna study pe focus kro...or us ldke ko bolo ki vo b settle ho jaaye.....ab baat ye h last time bhi abroad jaane ki baat thi mere ghr wale kehte ki bhr ni jana yhin kro jo krna...or ab baat ye hui...ki mere partner k mummy papa bolte h....bhr chle jaao (foreign)...or Jo ldki psnd h mtlb me uske ghr walon se kraoo baat to dono sath me jaana.....ab mere partner ki side se thik sb unke parents bol rhe h ...ki hme koi dikkt nhi h...but dono shadi krake chle jaoo....but mere yhn to kuch b ni esa....ab mujhe aaj kl me ghr pe baat krni h ki ese ese krke baat h.....jesa pehle hua tha vese sb hoga....or itni jldi sb hoega....pta ni kese react krenge....plz btaoo me kese krun ghr baat ki bhr jaana h shadi krke jaana h pr.....mere parents yhi bolte h apni badnami hogi sb kya bolenge ki dusre cast me shadi kra di...ye vo....😓😓
Yaha do cheezein complex karri h apka case, ek to love marriage aur dusra foreign jana aur agar ap dono bato ko ek sath apni family ke agey laoge to dikkat karegi kyunki unko dono hi nahi chahiye. Ap pehle ek cheez ke liye convince karo unko patience ke sath abi ap dono me se ek bhi banda settle nai h aur ap log shadi ki bat karoge to. Obviously apke parents mana hi karenge. Ladki ke parents tab tak ha nai bolte jab tak ladka kamane nai lag jata. Ya settled nai hota unki nazar me, agar ap ye bologe ki ladka aur me bahar jane ki soch re h shadi karke to apkd parents to na hi karenge kyunki unke hisab se to kych bi sahi nai h. Na apki job h na ladke ki job h, upar se dono shadi karke bahar jane ki bat karre ho. Kam se kam ek reason do apne parents ko ha karne ka. Ladke ke parents to kahenge hi ki ha karlo kyunki unhe pata h shadi hogi to paisa ayega usse bahar bhej denge dono ko. Par apne parents ko ek reason do shadi karne ka. Jaldbazi nai karo is what I would suggest.
@@literarysublime yes yhi sb hua...or ldke ki side se bol rhe h ki ldki ne stand ni liya ldki me dum ni baat krne ka but esa kuch b nhi h....mene ghr bht smjhaya tb papa ne yhi bola ki ldke ko jaane de pehle hme teri shadi ki jldi ni h...jb vo bhr se aaega tb usi se kra denge but abhi k liye use akele ko jaane de....abhi dekhte h kya bnta h🥺
Dii...
Mam family kk btane ke bad ekdm se na bol dete or strictly bolte h kar li to sidhe mar jaynge ..meri koi ijjat nhi rahegi or jaldi se dusri shadi karnne ko force karne lagte h to kya kare
Aur ladke ki family ka kya scene h ? Waha bi aisi h ?
Unke ghar wale man jaynge ...problm idhar jayda h
@@shammirani6032 man jayenge nai pehle ek bar jayza lelo apne bf se puchke ki hints wagerah deke dekhe ghar pe ki kya kal ko karayenge ki nai. Agar vo bi mana karenge to aur mushkil ho jayegi. Agar vo log cool h isko leke to apko apni family ko manane me asani hogi ye bolke ki ladke ki family apko pasand karti h. Aur ladke wale razi h aur ladke se milwa dena fir smooth ho jayega
Didi digambar Jain and Aggarwal same hote caste hoti h ya alg alg????
Ye dono Caste alag hoti h
Didi fir Jain or Aggarwal ka gotra same kyu hote hain???
@@meghaaggarwal1998 kyunki kuch agrawal ne jainism leliya tha apna dharm. Isliye kayi agrawal ke gotr jain se same ho sakte h. Kayio ke nai bi hote. Family history pe depend karta h.
Ghar vale bolte h cast ka hota to kara dete intercaste me karne se hamari izzat chali jayegi
Yes🥺
Nice 🙂🙂
Thanks 💕
Hindu ho to sab kuch chhelega koi cast phast nhi hota but muslman se mat karna barna bahat pastaoge
😂😂
Aap 35 ki lag rhi buddhi
Bhai, kisi ache optician se apni ankho ki janch karao😂 dikh nai rha Tumhe thek se
Hello di
It's really nice to see you both together
Pls meri help kro.....
Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
Hello di
It's really nice to see you both together
Pls meri help kro.....
Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
Hello di
It's really nice to see you both together
Pls meri help kro.....
Actually hmdono se mba kiya hai we both doing jobs....pehle meri parents ko wo bht pasand tha I know aaj v hai but ye caste k chalte wo is topic ko aage nhi badha rhe hai...ab to uske baare m wo puchte v nhi hai ...pehle we are like family frnd ki tarah tha ....but jabse hm apne parents ko btaye ki hm usse shadi krna chahte hai they are like quite.....riste laaye jaaye rhe hai they want me to compromise.....but I can't .....hmko family ko manana hai kaise v kyuki hmko family or pyar dono hi chahiy di pls help me and guide me.....uske family se koi dikkat nhi hai dikkat mere family se hai or wo to upper caste ka hai fir v use koi prblm nhi h.....or hmlog ka native place v same hai...the only reason is caste..... directly papa se baat krne m v fikr hota hai ki kahi unko shock na lge....pta nhi wo kaise react krnege.....my parents love me very much....but don't know how to make them understand??
Sadhi ho gyi kya aapki
Not yet
@@thesunshine5724 kya parents ke against Jake inter cast merriage krna shi h...
Jitna ho skte try kro.... situation ko dekho kya hai...but ye v dhyan rakho ki kahi wolog riste na dekhe chup ke.....if u are sure about the boy then.....try harder
@@thesunshine5724 ldke ki trf se koi doubt nhi h relationship bhi 7 year ka h unki fmailly ki ha h but meri family Wale nhi man rhe or reason hai cast😭