I’m just gonna say this cause I feel something I said was taken wrong. I do believe her horrible experience with her friends happened. I was trying to say some young woman seek validation by letting men objectify them. That certainly backfires more than is successful. Teenage men will usually treat you like less than if they think they can. Sorry if what I said was poorly worded. That’s what I was trying to get across.
Hey Sean, I also know someone who lost a leg while train hopping. He was only like 15 at the time. Nice guy, I dated him for a while. Also, everyone has trauma in their life, I don't believe these people are big due to trauma. I think it's cuz they have motivation and disapline issues and want to blame something other than themselves. And most were on their way to becoming obese before the abuse.
@@Willow-as-Phoenix I get what you're saying. I've never been obese, just overweight, I've had a lot of trauma in my life, but I didn't develop an addiction as a result of it. Some people are more prone to addictions, be they drugs, alcohol, food, porn, etc. These people aren't necessarily physically addicted to food, but like every addict, they are addicted to "numbing out" of the feelings & memories that remain from the trauma.
“Neiko is extremely rude to me now” Hmmm, the 14 year old son you left to be raised by your parents so you could do drugs and binge food, then uprooted from his home to be your sole caretaker is being rude? I wonder why. 🤨
And he’s being forced into a room with her AND his sister sleeping with her boyfriend right there. What the heck happened to parenting? No one said “no!” to this teenage girl’s boyfriend just moving in. Poor girl may end up like her mama. No parental protection going on here ANYWHERE. 💔💔💔
Seriously. It made me FURIOUS they allowed that boy to be there as her caretaker. That lady that birthed him has zero right to ask him for a thing. She’s a disgrace
Pretty sure I haven't heard her say 'please' or 'thankyou' either .... and as for her not dealing with him? She hasn't done that since he was a baby, so that's nothing new 🤷♀️
I’ve noticed this as well with some of the other people featured on the show. She has an extremely narcissistic childishness and self-absorption - she is literally a giant toddler. It’s also tragic that her behavior and tantrums have been enabled. She is waited on hand and foot and she demands attention while her kids flounder by themselves without proper parenting.
"Someone has to help me. Someone has to feed me. Someone has to give me a place to live. " No, they don't. You are damn lucky when people DO help you, but eventually is all up to you.
The SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT POSSES ME OFF BIG TIME. NO ONE HELPED YOU GET LIKE THIS so WHY is it EVERYONE ELSES RESPONSIBILITY to provide everything you need?🤔🤨
This! When I was bedbound in 2012 (due to aftereffects from a virulent disease and having been comatose) I was so grateful for my family and friends, I knew they DIDN’T "have to" help me, and I always thanked them, and I never took them for granted, _and they were all adults!_ She treats her own young-teenage son like a servant. 😢😡
Right! That’s one of the things I notice in with many of that’s cases on this show. A lot of these people have an attitude of entitlement and are annoying buttheads. They’re very intolerable.
Making the 14 year old son take care of his obese mother is so cruel, they should never have left him with her. She just got clean 8 months ago too after abandoning them for 14 years.
Yes exactly! She should have just stayed out of her kids’ lives. Instead this teen boy had to suddenly share a room with his absent mother and then was forced to move far away from the only home he’d ever known (including his friends and school) to become her sole caretaker.
She basically says that getting clean wasn't her choice. Her dealer went to jail and she's to big to physically go get them. I wouldn't be surprised if she did lose weight and went right back to doing drugs which are super easy to find in Houston.
Holy crap I'm missed the abandoned and drug part because I was listening while cleaning. Man that's f',d up. I'm pulling for her kid 100 percent to break the cycle
I feel so bad for Neiko. Dragged down to Houston to be his mom's slave without being asked. His childish behaviour is completely understandable BECAUSE HE IS A CHILD.
Not to mention mum has only been around for 8 months, since moving back in with her parents & children. 14yo boys are typically surly & monosyllabic while going through puberty, without the added stress of being taken away from home & forced to be the caretaker of such a nightmarish mother. Neiko has so much to be resentful & angry about. Kirsten acts more childish than him. She’s got a dreadful attitude.
@@deew1215exactly…her attitude and behaviour was way more rude and childish than Nicos was and at least he has the excuse of being young. What the hell is her excuse!?
I hope Neiko is living his best life. Talking about how you can't stand your son, in his ear range, after making him move to another state to act as your caregiver is the most selfish shit I've ever seen.
I can't blame Nico for acting out at ALL! His "mother" abandoned him, before showing up again just to invade his personal space with 600 pounds of whiny STINK! He has ZERO moral obligation to put up with her shit, let alone be her personal caretaker.
Add to that he’s literally an 8th grade boy. Immature, rude, and cringey is just part of where he is developmentally and instead of getting the parenting he badly needs he’s stuck with a helpless mother acting brattier than he is, ignoring his feelings and villifying him for being what he is.
This 💯💯💯 and I LOVED THAT HE LAUGHED AT HER FOR BEING SO IRRITATED.... It's so much better than letting the other terrible feelings that he was probably going thru take over and crush him. 😢
He's gonna resent her when he's an adult and can fully grasp the gravity of his mom's poor life choices. I'm hoping her children will do much better in life than she is.
I will never understand why UA-cam cuts words like suicide, or rape. 1st of all, everyone already knows what they're saying and 2nd, if we as a society stop the discussion about these things, they will only get worse
They don’t care about “stopping discussions” they care about advertisements. Ads won’t run on videos where those words are used because people don’t want their products associated with controversial topics.
UA-cam has a system where they can detect those blacklisted words. If they are detected then they will demonetize the video. So youtubers will bleep out those words to avoid that. It's dumb but thats youtube monetization for you.
I think it's funny she's saying she's gonna toss her mom into the worst nursing home when she's old. Like honey girl! What do you think Nico's gonna do?! You're gonna be all by yourself because you're treating him worse than a rat!
Especially since she has NOTHING meanwhile her parents have enough to take care of themselves, their grandkids AND their ridiculous excuses for a daughter. This woman is delusional and I hope her parents leave her good luck in their will and nothing else.
@@existentialgamer9206Ikr, her mother is independent, she's the one who'd be in a nursing home if her family wasn't caring for her! And she complains her mom took the sweet pupper to the vet??? Dogs NEED to be cared for! And unlike her, they give us so much love.
also from what we were shown her mom took care of her (we see so many of participants on their own with a caretaker), took care of her children, like she’s wiping your butt but you wanna throw her into a nursing home???
Nico is a somewhat normal teenager who is tired of his mom's BS. He's pissed he had to uproot his life to, once again, take care of his mom. In his mind, his mom is not going to change. So he's acting out so he can go back to his old life WITHOUT his mom.
He has to take care of his "mom" who didn't take care of him because she was too busy doing all the horrible things which ended up putting her in the position to be eventually taken care of... yeah, poor Niko. 😟
Neiko is a fourteen-year old boy His mother abandoned him when he was a baby. I think it’s totally inappropriate for him to be taking care-if her physical care.
Yeah, like did she forget that she was a drug addict that passed her kids off to her parents to be raised for 10 years and suddenly expect him to clean up behind her what the fffff
Yes I agree it's totally inappropriate..we already know that she has a spaz out in the shower and requires help as well as wiping her after she uses the commode..number 1: I would NEVER expect my 14 yr old son to do those things for me.. number 2: when she was still in WA sharing a room with her son she was on her bed facing his bed with her legs spread showing her privates to the point that it had to be blurred out and she was so lazy that she didn't even bother to at least cover herself with a sheet.. that boy has seen way too much way to early.
I am so angry at all the adults here. That 14 year old boy was passed to grandparents bc mom didn't care, he shares a bedroom with a neglected mom, took out his environment and moved across states and everyone is blaming him for his behaviour! Ffs, he is a wounded child just going through all the hormonal stuff that confuses the hell out of all of us during teens and menopause. Hormonal imbalance is not fun. He is probably very angry at his mom. And the mom is still "i don't want to deal with him". Grandma too, let's fly him back and grandpa can deal with him. I can't believe it....
Exactly! He’s the real victim in all of this as he’s the kid. He didn’t choose that life. He’s reaping the effects of the adults bad life choices. His mother needs to stop projecting her selfish nonsense on him and get off of her big azz and act like a mother for once. Jeesh smh
Ikr, sharing a bed with her teenage son is creepy. I can understand sharing a room, I've done that when we didn't have many rooms; but I'm female and if I were a teenager and I was sharing a room with my Dad and there was only one bed, one of us would've slept on the floor in a sleeping bag!
I’m pretty sure this is child abuse. Forcing a 14 year old to leave his life to be a caregiver for his absentee mom. Shouldn’t he be in school? Child labor laws? No one is making any decent food for him. Her parents did not treat her like this. She has no right to be angry at him
I completely agree with you and don’t even get me started on how she bitches at him and says that he sub sabotaging her and blah blah blah blah dude you can’t blame your 14-year-old because you wanna act like a freaking idiot.
I garuantee this woman is overdoing her breathing to gain sympathy. Also it's so true how she can hop right up for a snack but can't get up for anything else. The whole car scene was so overly dramatic.
omg yes! Shes just like a toddler. The other night my toddler was upset when I asked her to use potty and said no and then was upset when i said ok and closed the toilet lid. This is literally the same behaviors as this lady except my toddler is 2.5 lol!!!
I have a 3 year old and 5 year old...it's the same for me. My 5 year old usually asks for help, but that usually means she wants someone else to do it for me
She is insufferable--the constant crying & whining, then forcing her 14 y.o. son to take care of her when she NEVER EVER took care of HIM--I just can't!!
I don't think the poor boy should be her caretaker. He is a child. He should be playing games, having fun with his friends outdoor, and watch cartoons. It is awful what the mom puts him through.
I can fully understand Neiko acting out. Imagine living with someone who cries and complains constantly, then having to leave the only place you know as home all because she CHOOSES not to take care of herself. SMH. Kirsten blamed everyone but herself. I hope she gets it together cause her child is hurting.
I think of my son at 14 and can not imagine putting him through this. He could hardly stand me at that age lol. But seriously this is child abuse imo. I hope she does well and he can forgive her. But I do have empathy for her
Never mind that neither Kristen nor her mother even could comprehend how their desires/need for a caregiver affected the kid. Gawd. Lousy mothering x 2
I don’t blame him at all. I completely agree with you, and then her cussing at him, calling him names saying he sabotaging her. I’m like lady you forced him to come down here you forced him basically into child servitude because you don’t want to get off your ass and do anything for yourself it’s not his damn fault.
@@roselandberg2738 exactly thank you and her mother was just so eager to just put them on a plane and send them back to wherever they came from because I mean who cares about how he feels though it’s all about her it’s all about her no take the boy into consideration he doesn’t even want to be down there. He doesn’t want to be looking after his mother that’s not even fair.
I think it’s so gross that Kirsten feels that entitled to take her son that she barely has a relationship with states away from his home, school and friends to be her caregiver in Texas. This is a disaster in the making. Another thing pissing me off is his grandparents saying hell no to her terrible plan and letting him go like they can’t see how awful this would be for him.
I wish I could double like this comment. Kirsten couldn't be bothered to stop using drugs to keep custody of her child but he should inconvenience himself for HER, his parent? FOH. Like absolutely no gd way.
Unbelievable, she flops into her sons room, she has absolutely no modesty, lays up there completely exposed toward her sons bed!!!! Her history is not finding any sympathy with me. Father concerned about not being there to take care of her… she’ll expect her abandoned son or daughter to take her burden. Ugh!
Offloading your issues onto your teenage kid after uprooting them and you expect them to look after you?? Yeah if i was Nico I'd for sure be acting out
She's just lucky he's not acting out more! Also, all that crying and talking rude to the people trying to help her, she's lucky it ain't me driving that heifer, she'd be walking to Dr. Now's office
@@crayCray420I don’t think he’s funny, he _is_ behaving badly and acting out but it’s totally understandable given the life circumstances that have been forced upon him
Did they think a 14 year old can take care of a 500 lb post abdominal surgery pt.? They uprooted him from his life to sit in a apartment in a strange city to be a caretaker. A 14 year old is a 8th or 9th grader.
@@carlettewilliamsExactly. Also, her completely disgusting nudity with her legs always spread open around him is sexual abuse and I suspect it may have gone beyond that. I would have called CPS so incredibly quickly if I’d been their neighbor.
She got mad because they put her on suicide watch? As a former hospital nurse, I can tell you this, that we HAVE to take any threats of suicide or self harm seriously for legal reasons. If you don't want a babysitter and all sharp objects removed from your room, then don't utter that foolishness! They are trying to save your life, goofy woman!
LOL, I learned the hard way when I was being dramatic. I was talking to my screen like you're talking yourself into a 72 hr hold. Lots of times more than 72. 5150, baker act, whatever name. Don't be dramatic and say you wanna die, especially in front of emt, police, hospital staff.
I mean, after 6 months of puking and pissing blood, and then they gave me some pills that did kinda help but stop my heart, I was done too. Too much pain for too long takes a toll.
She gripes and gripes..cries, and complains constantly about how hard her life is..??? Lady, you need to get someone to duct tape your mouth shut, and you will lose weight in no time..😂
Well he's not exactly in her custody and her parents did a great job raising him do thst would traumatize the patents and kids and none of them deserve that. He just needed to go back home and be away from her
The forklift comment did make me chuckle cause it's so accurate. That mom is not able to pick her up. In fact first rule of first aid, if someone has a bad fall they gotta get up on their own power or you call the ambulance. No in between. Cause if you fall and you can't get up you might have hurt something badly.
I find it ironic that they’re saying Neiko is being annoying and a brat when his mother is a big whiny adult brat. He’s 14 and he keeps getting uprooted because everything is always about his mother’s wants and needs. Also though I’m very glad she took her journey seriously and kept trying.
It makes me sad how everyone says interacting with Neiko is "Dealing with him 😒". He's a child, you're the adult, it's your responsibility to talk to him and help him through his difficult times, not push him off and constantly look at him with disgust, poor Neiko needs some love and someone to listen to him.
I am so sick of the people on the show ruining their childrens childhood and then moving them and then not following the rules. It seems like total child abuse.
Don’t forget they themselves blame their situation on their childhood, then inflict a terrible childhood upon their children all the while expecting sympathy
In all seriousness I completely agree with you. They are complete narcissists and don’t even think about the life they are inflicting upon their kids. It’s all about themselves. Mind you, I’ve seen some episodes of this show that really surprised me and they pulled themselves out of that mentality but the damage has probably already been done to the children
It stems from a slefish behavior that was never corrected and once you become an adult with that selfishness its hard to change unfortunately. I think the best thing she did for those kids was to leave them with her parents but she still seems to disregard the fact that what they went through was because of her choices. Sadly it seems when people find a person or reason they can blame their bad choices on the just extend that to whats going on with their kids. "I never felt loved by my parents so I did drugs which means its my parents fault my kids feel abandoned and like I like drung more than them", type of mentality.
How can everyone in this family be claiming Neiko is acting like a brat when Kirsten has been crying and throwing tantrums the entire episode! She was pouting like a child in the hospital. She abandoned him as a baby, dragged him away from his friends, from his school, from his life, to care for the "mother" that left him and all she can do is cry about herself. She shows very little care or consideration for anyone else but herself. She is the brat here. Edit: I don't mean this as an attack or insult in any way, but it wouldn't surprise me me if Kirsten was bipolar. I think she's got some psychological issues that are fueling her reskless behavior and mood swings.
Why not an attack,? This woman is on my last nerve!! She's a spoiled rotten brat who never grew up!! And the grandmother isn't understanding that either.i don't understand these people's thought processes!!
Sean, I have been watching you for awhile now and I am so amazed by your response to Kirsten's assault when she was younger. As someone who has gone through s*xual assault multiple times, the biggest issue/fear is not being believed. Your response is so heartwarming and appreciated especially when you gave the different scenarios and still said that it didn't matter. Thank you for being you and for inspiring me and many others every day. I have seen almost all of your videos multiple times. Keep up the great work, I'm a big fan!!!
If she doesn't like her son's attitude then maybe she should have...I dunno...tried raising him with the morals/attitude she thinks is right? Dumping your kid on his grandparents and then wanting him to act the way YOU want to him to is absolutely wild. THE AUDACITY!
I can't stand this chick. Not only was she mean to her family, she constantly cried and complained about everything. Getting mad at her son because he was eating cheetos was also ridiculous.
As a Psych, I can tell you when people become addicted to whatever (drugs, drinking, eating etc.) they STOP MATURING!! Due to the fact that once the addiction begins - *THEY DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH NORMAL LIFE!* So, if you start using food to cope at 5 years old, she has not developed the skills necessary to act as a 32 year old woman would. ☠
@@GunnWrights Wow thanks for the insight..... I've never considered that concept.....and I can definitely see that in some of my family members and friends.
It's sad too. Poor kid. He's obviously still hurt/upset by/with her. He's had no closure! Of course he's gonna resent her!!!! She's done nothing to better things with him! Appears she just wanted him primarily to 'take care of her'. Imagine his ire!!! He probably is thinking how dare she?? I hope they ALL can get to a better place, forgiveness, etc & finally have a good relationship
You just blipped over your weight like it's nothing, sir. Omg, 273? Rockstar Sean! Congratulations and thank you for the videos. Scrub balls, get out. Hilarious
This lady got on my LAST RAW NERVE and rode it to the bitter end! Some of these ppl i cheered so hard to do well & some i saw as immature brats & couldnt find much sympathy for those that act that way!! Hate victim mentality which is SO prevalent these days.
How dare she burden her son the way she does. I’m honestly most disgusted by that. She was Not there for him, now she bribes him for food and makes him a care taker. This family is wacky. Poor freaking kid!
Oh man yeah, it took her no time to get off that bed when food was ready she basically bounced up. Then did her weird little shuffle ,she got there quick.
Her son was acting just like her 😂😂 she is rude af to her parents and was ✨surprised✨ when her son is rude to her when that is all is observing from her.
I like cringe when I hear how Kristen talks about her son. Her son is absolutely a product of his environment and lack of security/stability. She bailed on her children, any subsequent attention seeking behavior he does is a direct result. It's just sad she talks about him the way she does. Super harsh, and lacking in any compassion.
Ya know, I actually really liked Nieko, he was the only one to gave her the same energy back. I’m glad to see her attitude do a 180° cause holy sh!et she was unbearable to be around. I’d probably sit and eat a bag of Cheetos in front of her too lmaooo. Happy birthday Sean!
@MontagZoso he actually wasn't though. The attitude he was giving her is completely justified and deserved. She abandoned him as a baby, never looked after him as a mother should and she expects him to look after her? Nah, id be giving it to her 10x worse if i was him.
The reason Nico is childish is because hes a child. A child who was abandoned by the mum who he is forced to care for. I'd be eating all types of shit in front of her!
This woman literally acts like a 5yo! Her poor kids are so much more mature and grounded than she is. It shouldn't be like that. Her childish outbursts are making me cringe 😖
I have a theory that when people gain weight to the point of immobility, they are subconsciously wanting to regress into a baby again. They are fed, bathed, and caregivers come running when they cry. I'm sure it's not true for all of them, but so many people on these videos seem like they are just done adulting.
Bring me my cane, she orders. No Please, No Thank you. That is so sad for the child; it's so good he didn't have to live with her most of her life. She sucks the life out of the room.
I agree. She had not one nice or positive thing to say the entire episodes.. And; my parents would've whooped my ass if I talked to them the way that she yelled @ hers. Miserable lady indeed. . Poor Nico.
I heard the best saying the other day that made me think of you. “It’s not what you go through, it’s what you grow through.” A year ago when I started watching your videos I weighed over 200. I’m now 147. Keep inspiring while making people laugh. ❤😊
This woman gives orders to every one of her family members and never once says PLEASE. Even when Dr N says "how are you" she just says an angry FINE, not fine thank you.
Wait wait wait, they are all mad at a 14 year old boy being “annoying” after they uprooted him from him life (which already wasn’t much considering he was sharing a room with his “mother”). This poor kid just wants a normal life…. hanging out with friends, going to school, playing video games late at night. Ridiculous. They are putting so much blame on a CHILD, saying he is sabotaging his mom. No, he is just acting out because he wants a normal life. I don’t blame him.
Why are these bedridden people so impolite! They never say please! I'm guessing the son meant emotional blackmail 😢 if I were her mum I'd get her to get her own food! She can walk to the kitchen to get a bowl of salad!!
i feel absolutely terrible for that kid. he acts like more of an adult than his mother which is extremely emotionally traumatizing for a kid. she ruined his childhood. truly terrible
Here’s a good tip I learned from my son… when you shop..always shop the outside only …. Never enter enter any aisles. So the outside has all your veggies, fruits s, eggs, cheese and meat….. never anything normally processed.
This is way too true! I go down the aisles for cereal and ice cream, everything else is in the outer ring. But that's also where the bakery is, so watch out!
Fun fact: My 600lb life is produced by/created by Dr Now's son. I like to think Dr Now has some say in the the Hoo-ha shots 😂 (I mean, I doubt he does, but it's fun to imagine)
Plain and simple, Sex Sells, sensationalism sells, this is scripted reality as ALL of them are, it's for profit entertainment television, plain and simple, the more provocative the camera angle the better for ratings🎉🎉🎉
@@subekennedy9554 I was going to comment the exact same thing - she is rude and nasty to her parents all the time but she expects her son to be respectful to her!? She could start by setting a better example of how to talk to your elders with respect and also not expect her son to be her full time carer when she, as his mother, didn't even take care of him for 14 years!
No she is seeing right, she can move as we saw she moved that ass to the kitchen to get food and son even says she sneaks food and ask him to get food. And she did move to the car and back to the house also she got out the car a few times and walked to the bathroom with a walker. So no, her mobility is not gone.
Mother of the year....she gave up both her kids to her parents, and then runs back to her parents because she can't take care of herself. Then wants her oldest son to take care of her too, when she couldn't take care of him...
Her expectation that her 14 yeae old son should be helping her is absolutely wild and SO UNFAIR. She did not ask him if he would be okay with this. She could have gone down with her parents and they could have helped her. Her son shouldnt have to.
Your comment about her being on the same mental capacity as her 14 year old son is extremely accurate. When people start abusing substances, they need to get developmentally "stuck" at whatever age they started using and I think Kirsten demonstrates perfectly how she's stuck in adolescence. Her kids are likely going to "age" past her, especially if she doesn't process her trauma and experiences.
Is there any scientific backing to this? Because I’ve been clean for seven years, but I’ve been around a lot of addicts and that never seemed to be the case.
@@katieedwards5926 Yeah, there’s a huge scientific backing around stunted emotional and developmental growth that is caused by substance use. It’s something that is frequently discussed and identified in various therapeutic approaches to substance use as well. It’s similar to the way people can get emotionally stuck at the age of their trauma, too.
OMG!! what a selfish selfish woman!! That boy is 14!! He's got no place being his mother's keeper FFS.He doesn't even have the emotional and metal capacity to deal with what's expected of him.. If they wonder why he's being rude, they might need to look at the example that his own mother has set for him. Surprised child services weren't involved.
It's not an excuse for her behavior by any means, but she literally does not know how to treat her own kid. Her own mental development and maturity was arrested at about Neiko's age (like 14 or so), and what with the drug abuse, trauma from SA, isolation in her home, and getting up to 600 lbs, she is miserable-- and she doesn't know what to do with that misery other than make other people miserable. I will say that I'm happy she seems headed in the right direction and I hope she's still doing well.
It's totally inappropriate for a 14 yr old boy to not only be sharing a room with his mother (prepubescent boys and girls absolutely REQUIRE private sleeping space from the rest of their family), but the fact that she expects him to take care of her physically after uprooting him from the only home he knows is insane. You can see the disgust on his face as he listens to her breathe. God only knows the trauma he has from listening to his mother scream and cry and panic in the shower. It's completely abnormal and dysfunctional in every way. My heart is breaking for Neiko. Also. The daughter's boyfriend has no business living in the home. Maybe he has some situation where his parents are unfit or deceased or he is in poor foster care. Whatever is going on, Kirsten's parents can absolutely help him find a safe place to stay or live but it is totally unacceptable that they are allowing a 17 yr old girl to live with her boyfriend in their home. You are setting her up to be a teenage mother. There is no way teenagers aren't going to eventually have s3x but facilitating it like that is not okay. I hope she is on birth control.
I’m loving Sean’s commentary. He says what we’re all thinking, with truth, yet is still understanding and kind. I really like this guy. Genuine human being.
Exactly the same with criminals. I don't dismiss her childhood and traumas. Been there done that but I became a responsible adult, mother and grandmother.
@@erin.v.m657I don't know. I thought that too initially but as the episode continued she seemed to truly mature. They even had a great conversation near the end of the episode while at the park where they hugged and said they loved each other. I think there's hope.
She treats her son like shit. She bought him to Texas when he never wanted to, bear in mind they have no strong bond since she left him at birth. She forces him to be her carer when essentially she should be his. She complains that he’s rude but completely ignores the fact that she displaced him, she acts like a victim, needs help washing, cooking, god knows what else - it’s an entirely inappropriate relationship for her and her young son to have end of
The comment she made about putting her mom in a crappy nursing home was just evil and uncalled for. After all she's done. I hope she sees that and says something about that
If they truly loved her, they would have stopped pandering to her.it isn't a kids job to make a parents life easier from their own life choices. She was a lousy parent, she got out of him what she put into him. Do it yourself if you want it
She is a neglectful mother and then forced her child to solo be a full time caregiver (washing, medical needs, food) to his obese disabled dependent mother. That is abuse. And then the mother and the grandma gave the audacity to talk smack about the kids behavior: his behavior is absolutely normal given the circumstances. He needs to be out of the situation and in therapy and with adults that care for him and support him. This entire family needed to be in therapy for a good amount of time before approval for surgery.
I can't stand her!! Bit i pity her son!; i hope he tells her off good soon!! He should be doing kid things, not sleeping in his mom's bedroom and catering to her!!
I noticed there was an immediate change in attitude when Nico left and her mother took over, it seemed like she transitioned into a crybaby voice again and I think it’s because she gets her way when she acts like this. Nico acting out was just him mimicking his mother’s behavior
She should have been transported in the Whaaaaaambulance with all that cryin' she did. I certainly hope Kirsten has risen above that stage and is working further on herself emotionally, physically, and with the relationships she damaged.
This woman is beyond disgusting. She has had no part in her son's life and she expects him to instantly be a live-in nurse for her? And says she's unhappy because he's not as useful as she thought he'd be!! OMG! And she just wants to send him away - not for his own happiness, but because he's not useful to her. My mind is just boggled. It's so obvious that the boy is engaging in passive-aggressive behavior - and thoroughly enjoying it - while eating snacks in front of her. I don't blame him in the least. He feels powerless. I can only imagine the rage surging in side him - (I was raised by a narcissistic mother also). I hope that he can get the help he needs to understand that none of this is his fault and that just because she is related to him by blood does not mean he owes her anything - including love. Her definition of "love" is very conditional. The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. That's the point I've gotten to and I hope he can too. Not hate, not wanting revenge or making her pay - just looking at her and thinking "That is a truly pitiful person". And she doesn't deserve any more time than that devoted to her. She says she wants to "repair the relationship" with him, indicating how truly out of touch she is - lady, there IS no relationship. YOU did that. She doesn't want to deal with or own any of her past behavior, and now she just expects unending, gushing praise for any miniscule thing she does.
I’m just gonna say this cause I feel something I said was taken wrong. I do believe her horrible experience with her friends happened. I was trying to say some young woman seek validation by letting men objectify them. That certainly backfires more than is successful. Teenage men will usually treat you like less than if they think they can. Sorry if what I said was poorly worded. That’s what I was trying to get across.
As a woman and SA survivor I totally agree with you. Thank you for being so considerate and thoughtful as to clarify yourself.
Anybody who watches your video is regularly Knows that you're a compassionate person. Don't let trolls get at you.
You are always so empathetic. I personally could never take anything you say wrong because I know it's always coming from a good place ❤
Hey Sean, I also know someone who lost a leg while train hopping. He was only like 15 at the time. Nice guy, I dated him for a while. Also, everyone has trauma in their life, I don't believe these people are big due to trauma. I think it's cuz they have motivation and disapline issues and want to blame something other than themselves. And most were on their way to becoming obese before the abuse.
@@Willow-as-Phoenix I get what you're saying. I've never been obese, just overweight, I've had a lot of trauma in my life, but I didn't develop an addiction as a result of it. Some people are more prone to addictions, be they drugs, alcohol, food, porn, etc. These people aren't necessarily physically addicted to food, but like every addict, they are addicted to "numbing out" of the feelings & memories that remain from the trauma.
“Neiko is extremely rude to me now” Hmmm, the 14 year old son you left to be raised by your parents so you could do drugs and binge food, then uprooted from his home to be your sole caretaker is being rude? I wonder why. 🤨
And he’s being forced into a room with her AND his sister sleeping with her boyfriend right there.
What the heck happened to parenting? No one said “no!” to this teenage girl’s boyfriend just moving in. Poor girl may end up like her mama. No parental protection going on here ANYWHERE. 💔💔💔
Also no school no friends
Ikr, she never cared for him!
Also, she behaves like she's his little sister or something they absolutely do not have a normal son/mother relationship. It's weird
shocking😱🫢
"I LET my mother and father raise my kids" How fucking generous!
I know right? And she probably insists on having ALL of the say so when it comes to raising them too
I know shes just all giving all hale greedy nasty crying b##ch 😂
no i think she even said "them". like if they very puppies, thats the first thing what i didnt ike from her
😂😂😂
The fuck is she talking about rude? Pretty sure choosing drugs over your kids is pretty rude, too.
She hasn't said please or thank you once
Seriously. It made me FURIOUS they allowed that boy to be there as her caretaker. That lady that birthed him has zero right to ask him for a thing. She’s a disgrace
@@HermitMeowmeowagree! She's so rude to her parents who raised her children and are now having to look after her, too!!
Not to mention moving states with him with the expectation of him being caregiver.
Pretty sure I haven't heard her say 'please' or 'thankyou' either .... and as for her not dealing with him? She hasn't done that since he was a baby, so that's nothing new 🤷♀️
Her poor parents. Raising their kids, raising their grandkids and taking care of a giant toddler. Bless them.
They were better off.
I just commented the exact same thing 😅
They're the ones feeding her to this size. Theyre the ones funding her lifestyle
Well the Giant Toddler certainly has her parents undivided attention. Isn't that what she wanted?
I’ve noticed this as well with some of the other people featured on the show. She has an extremely narcissistic childishness and self-absorption - she is literally a giant toddler. It’s also tragic that her behavior and tantrums have been enabled. She is waited on hand and foot and she demands attention while her kids flounder by themselves without proper parenting.
That voice combined with the crying is enough to drive anyone up the wall
As much as I love Sean...
As much as I love you guys...
I almost skipped this one...
Two minutes and that moaning crying made me want to scream..m
@@SonjaElizabethTeal Same. Ugh.
She’s insufferable!!
Yeah, I’ve got ZERO sympathy for this young lady!
Banshee scream cause she couldn't move 2 inches in the shower to find the bench was sickening too. Mom is super patient!
"Someone has to help me. Someone has to feed me. Someone has to give me a place to live. " No, they don't. You are damn lucky when people DO help you, but eventually is all up to you.
That’s facts.
The SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT POSSES ME OFF BIG TIME. NO ONE HELPED YOU GET LIKE THIS so WHY is it EVERYONE ELSES RESPONSIBILITY to provide everything you need?🤔🤨
Facts 💯
This!
When I was bedbound in 2012 (due to aftereffects from a virulent disease and having been comatose) I was so grateful for my family and friends, I knew they DIDN’T "have to" help me, and I always thanked them, and I never took them for granted, _and they were all adults!_ She treats her own young-teenage son like a servant. 😢😡
Right! That’s one of the things I notice in with many of that’s cases on this show. A lot of these people have an attitude of entitlement and are annoying buttheads. They’re very intolerable.
Making the 14 year old son take care of his obese mother is so cruel, they should never have left him with her. She just got clean 8 months ago too after abandoning them for 14 years.
Yes exactly! She should have just stayed out of her kids’ lives. Instead this teen boy had to suddenly share a room with his absent mother and then was forced to move far away from the only home he’d ever known (including his friends and school) to become her sole caretaker.
She basically says that getting clean wasn't her choice. Her dealer went to jail and she's to big to physically go get them. I wouldn't be surprised if she did lose weight and went right back to doing drugs which are super easy to find in Houston.
forcing a kid to grow up and caretake their parent like that is a well understood fast track to emotional problems as an adult. poor kid
Holy crap I'm missed the abandoned and drug part because I was listening while cleaning. Man that's f',d up. I'm pulling for her kid 100 percent to break the cycle
She constantly needs someone to take care of her. She's a perpetual victim.
Laying there naked in front of her teenage son is beyond disgusting!!!! 😮😮
She obviously has no shame..😢
It's totally inappropriate and gross
Nasty 💯!
Awkward 😳
Kinda came in her room that time with the chips lol.
I feel so bad for Neiko. Dragged down to Houston to be his mom's slave without being asked. His childish behaviour is completely understandable BECAUSE HE IS A CHILD.
Never should have been allowed.
I think Nico is funny af
Not to mention mum has only been around for 8 months, since moving back in with her parents & children. 14yo boys are typically surly & monosyllabic while going through puberty, without the added stress of being taken away from home & forced to be the caretaker of such a nightmarish mother. Neiko has so much to be resentful & angry about. Kirsten acts more childish than him. She’s got a dreadful attitude.
@@deew1215exactly…her attitude and behaviour was way more rude and childish than Nicos was and at least he has the excuse of being young. What the hell is her excuse!?
She expects her son to take care of her. But she couldn't take care of him since he was a baby. Make this make sense. I feel really bad for him.
So do I ❤ he handled it really well considering
it can't make sense because it's abusive
"Neiko is making everyone around him miserable!"
"Hello, Pot; this is Kettle".
Golden comment 😂
He is a child!
Exactly 💯
😂😂😂
I hope Neiko is living his best life. Talking about how you can't stand your son, in his ear range, after making him move to another state to act as your caregiver is the most selfish shit I've ever seen.
Then you watch the full video and she is trying to fix shit lol.
I love it when they say, "I'm starving" and Dr. Now says, "Don't worry, you've eaten enough for 4 years into the future" 😂😂😂
I know. Send them to Somalia or South Sudan.
I’ve been chowing down on popcorn and now I suddenly feel attacked by you. 🤨🤣🤣🤣
@@Alison-ku5ko Ben & Jerrys here aaaand same. Dont worry, this keeps you wash my back & ill wash yours 😂
😂
When he says that, i wish the camera would zoom in on Dr. Now assuming a fighting stance and the editor would dub in: "Fatality. Flawless victory."
I can't blame Nico for acting out at ALL! His "mother" abandoned him, before showing up again just to invade his personal space with 600 pounds of whiny STINK! He has ZERO moral obligation to put up with her shit, let alone be her personal caretaker.
Add to that he’s literally an 8th grade boy. Immature, rude, and cringey is just part of where he is developmentally and instead of getting the parenting he badly needs he’s stuck with a helpless mother acting brattier than he is, ignoring his feelings and villifying him for being what he is.
This 💯💯💯 and I LOVED THAT HE LAUGHED AT HER FOR BEING SO IRRITATED.... It's so much better than letting the other terrible feelings that he was probably going thru take over and crush him. 😢
Caretaker?!? More like SLAVE!!!
Facts!
He's gonna resent her when he's an adult and can fully grasp the gravity of his mom's poor life choices. I'm hoping her children will do much better in life than she is.
I will never understand why UA-cam cuts words like suicide, or rape. 1st of all, everyone already knows what they're saying and 2nd, if we as a society stop the discussion about these things, they will only get worse
i agree!! sweeping under the rug is not gonna get rid of the problem
They don’t care about “stopping discussions” they care about advertisements. Ads won’t run on videos where those words are used because people don’t want their products associated with controversial topics.
Yes. Like many people who refuse to discuss politics.
Not just that but also deleting comments. Makes me mad.😅
UA-cam has a system where they can detect those blacklisted words. If they are detected then they will demonetize the video. So youtubers will bleep out those words to avoid that. It's dumb but thats youtube monetization for you.
her son understands how manipulative she is.... thats so sad, I hope he has someone in his life that he trusts and can rely on.
I think it's funny she's saying she's gonna toss her mom into the worst nursing home when she's old. Like honey girl! What do you think Nico's gonna do?! You're gonna be all by yourself because you're treating him worse than a rat!
It’s funny that she thinks she’ll outlive her mom to throw her in there
Especially since she has NOTHING meanwhile her parents have enough to take care of themselves, their grandkids AND their ridiculous excuses for a daughter. This woman is delusional and I hope her parents leave her good luck in their will and nothing else.
@@existentialgamer9206Ikr, her mother is independent, she's the one who'd be in a nursing home if her family wasn't caring for her!
And she complains her mom took the sweet pupper to the vet??? Dogs NEED to be cared for! And unlike her, they give us so much love.
also from what we were shown her mom took care of her (we see so many of participants on their own with a caretaker), took care of her children, like she’s wiping your butt but you wanna throw her into a nursing home???
100%!!!
Nico is a somewhat normal teenager who is tired of his mom's BS. He's pissed he had to uproot his life to, once again, take care of his mom. In his mind, his mom is not going to change. So he's acting out so he can go back to his old life WITHOUT his mom.
exactly what I knew what was happening
I don't blame him
He has to take care of his "mom" who didn't take care of him because she was too busy doing all the horrible things which ended up putting her in the position to be eventually taken care of... yeah, poor Niko. 😟
Totally agree
I feel bad for him. Poor kid.
Neiko is a fourteen-year old boy
His mother abandoned him when he was a baby.
I think it’s totally inappropriate for him to be taking care-if her physical care.
100%
I agree!!!!!
Yeah, like did she forget that she was a drug addict that passed her kids off to her parents to be raised for 10 years and suddenly expect him to clean up behind her what the fffff
Yes I agree it's totally inappropriate..we already know that she has a spaz out in the shower and requires help as well as wiping her after she uses the commode..number 1: I would NEVER expect my 14 yr old son to do those things for me.. number 2: when she was still in WA sharing a room with her son she was on her bed facing his bed with her legs spread showing her privates to the point that it had to be blurred out and she was so lazy that she didn't even bother to at least cover herself with a sheet.. that boy has seen way too much way to early.
The kids are the real victims here. They are trapped in this gene pool, sinking in a fat quagmire started by the past 2 generations. 😡
I am so angry at all the adults here. That 14 year old boy was passed to grandparents bc mom didn't care, he shares a bedroom with a neglected mom, took out his environment and moved across states and everyone is blaming him for his behaviour! Ffs, he is a wounded child just going through all the hormonal stuff that confuses the hell out of all of us during teens and menopause. Hormonal imbalance is not fun. He is probably very angry at his mom. And the mom is still "i don't want to deal with him". Grandma too, let's fly him back and grandpa can deal with him. I can't believe it....
Exactly! He’s the real victim in all of this as he’s the kid. He didn’t choose that life. He’s reaping the effects of the adults bad life choices. His mother needs to stop projecting her selfish nonsense on him and get off of her big azz and act like a mother for once. Jeesh smh
Well, tbf the grandparents are the parents of Kristen so you can't expect them to Nico something they don't have or understand.
A teen boy should not be sharing a room, especially a bed, with his mom.
The only time my teen son was in the same room was hotel rooms and we had separate beds.
Yes that's absolutely boundary violation.
Weird.
I am surprised that it is not considered abuse
They can share rooms but the bed is werid
Ikr, sharing a bed with her teenage son is creepy. I can understand sharing a room, I've done that when we didn't have many rooms; but I'm female and if I were a teenager and I was sharing a room with my Dad and there was only one bed, one of us would've slept on the floor in a sleeping bag!
i took a shot every time she cried.
i am now in the hospital recovering from near-fatal alcohol poisoning.
Good one
😂 🤣
Best comment award!!! 😂😂😂
You coulda taken a sip of beer each time she cried and had the same result.
😂😂😂😂😂😂I couldn't NEVER listen to cry like that
I’m pretty sure this is child abuse. Forcing a 14 year old to leave his life to be a caregiver for his absentee mom. Shouldn’t he be in school? Child labor laws? No one is making any decent food for him. Her parents did not treat her like this. She has no right to be angry at him
addict behavior - they can't see beyond their own needs and feelings
I completely agree with you and don’t even get me started on how she bitches at him and says that he sub sabotaging her and blah blah blah blah dude you can’t blame your 14-year-old because you wanna act like a freaking idiot.
@@flogusgladly5370 she’s one of the worst.
It looks like it's summer time . He might be on summer vacation and he is too young to be left behind.
I was thinking the same thing
I garuantee this woman is overdoing her breathing to gain sympathy. Also it's so true how she can hop right up for a snack but can't get up for anything else. The whole car scene was so overly dramatic.
She could get a Razzy award for "acting". That's the award for horrible acting.
Kirsten acts exactly like my 3 year old when she needs help. Just immediate tears and “moooooooom I can’t do it” 😂
Lmbo 😂😂😂😂
omg yes! Shes just like a toddler. The other night my toddler was upset when I asked her to use potty and said no and then was upset when i said ok and closed the toilet lid. This is literally the same behaviors as this lady except my toddler is 2.5 lol!!!
I have a 3 year old and 5 year old...it's the same for me. My 5 year old usually asks for help, but that usually means she wants someone else to do it for me
It looks like the bigger a body becomes, the smaller the mind.
It’s all that estrogen in all that weight. 🤪
She is insufferable--the constant crying & whining, then forcing her 14 y.o. son to take care of her when she NEVER EVER took care of HIM--I just can't!!
Imagine him having to watch his mother trash talk him on national television after this aired. Same with the grandmother. Both of them are abhorrent.
@@showkitties3844 so sad. Poor kid. He just wanted his mother to be a MOTHER 😢
For real! How these people just take her shit is so beyond me!! I just don't get it!
Insufferable is absolutely the most accurate description here.
I’m sorry the crying is so fake at this point you never see tears…she’s horrible so nasty too
I don't think the poor boy should be her caretaker. He is a child. He should be playing games, having fun with his friends outdoor, and watch cartoons. It is awful what the mom puts him through.
I can fully understand Neiko acting out. Imagine living with someone who cries and complains constantly, then having to leave the only place you know as home all because she CHOOSES not to take care of herself. SMH. Kirsten blamed everyone but herself. I hope she gets it together cause her child is hurting.
I think of my son at 14 and can not imagine putting him through this. He could hardly stand me at that age lol. But seriously this is child abuse imo. I hope she does well and he can forgive her. But I do have empathy for her
Never mind that neither Kristen nor her mother even could comprehend how their desires/need for a caregiver affected the kid. Gawd. Lousy mothering x 2
She's one f*ckn whiner!!
I don’t blame him at all. I completely agree with you, and then her cussing at him, calling him names saying he sabotaging her. I’m like lady you forced him to come down here you forced him basically into child servitude because you don’t want to get off your ass and do anything for yourself it’s not his damn fault.
@@roselandberg2738 exactly thank you and her mother was just so eager to just put them on a plane and send them back to wherever they came from because I mean who cares about how he feels though it’s all about her it’s all about her no take the boy into consideration he doesn’t even want to be down there. He doesn’t want to be looking after his mother that’s not even fair.
I think it’s so gross that Kirsten feels that entitled to take her son that she barely has a relationship with states away from his home, school and friends to be her caregiver in Texas. This is a disaster in the making. Another thing pissing me off is his grandparents saying hell no to her terrible plan and letting him go like they can’t see how awful this would be for him.
Cps should have been called
I wish I could double like this comment. Kirsten couldn't be bothered to stop using drugs to keep custody of her child but he should inconvenience himself for HER, his parent? FOH. Like absolutely no gd way.
Unbelievable, she flops into her sons room, she has absolutely no modesty, lays up there completely exposed toward her sons bed!!!!
Her history is not finding any sympathy with me.
Father concerned about not being there to take care of her… she’ll expect her abandoned son or daughter to take her burden. Ugh!
@@PennyBird1agreed. Usually I have sympathy for these people but I’m having trouble finding it for her.
Then after all that she accuses him of sabotaging her because she can't control her own damn self? What a disgusting individual
Offloading your issues onto your teenage kid after uprooting them and you expect them to look after you?? Yeah if i was Nico I'd for sure be acting out
Good point RandyPissFlaps
Good point and I love your username lol
She's just lucky he's not acting out more!
Also, all that crying and talking rude to the people trying to help her, she's lucky it ain't me driving that heifer, she'd be walking to Dr. Now's office
I think Nico is funny. 😅
@@crayCray420I don’t think he’s funny, he _is_ behaving badly and acting out but it’s totally understandable given the life circumstances that have been forced upon him
"I have nothing left. All I have is food"
Kids are literally right next to you.
Did they think a 14 year old can take care of a 500 lb post abdominal surgery pt.? They uprooted him from his life to sit in a apartment in a strange city to be a caretaker. A 14 year old is a 8th or 9th grader.
Child abuse, it’s not the child’s responsibility to take care of his obese mother, this is so sad…
@@carlettewilliamsExactly. Also, her completely disgusting nudity with her legs always spread open around him is sexual abuse and I suspect it may have gone beyond that. I would have called CPS so incredibly quickly if I’d been their neighbor.
She got mad because they put her on suicide watch? As a former hospital nurse, I can tell you this, that we HAVE to take any threats of suicide or self harm seriously for legal reasons. If you don't want a babysitter and all sharp objects removed from your room, then don't utter that foolishness! They are trying to save your life, goofy woman!
ditto!
The evidence suggests that she's not an experienced drama llama: those know how far they can push without those consequences.
That's what she gets for acting like a little kid and saying dumb shit for attention all the time. They can't just ignore some things.
LOL, I learned the hard way when I was being dramatic. I was talking to my screen like you're talking yourself into a 72 hr hold. Lots of times more than 72. 5150, baker act, whatever name. Don't be dramatic and say you wanna die, especially in front of emt, police, hospital staff.
I mean, after 6 months of puking and pissing blood, and then they gave me some pills that did kinda help but stop my heart, I was done too.
Too much pain for too long takes a toll.
I think CPS should be called whenever a child has to take care of an adult who should be taking care of themselves.
I 💯 agree!!
100 %
She gripes and gripes..cries, and complains constantly about how hard her life is..???
Lady, you need to get someone to duct tape your mouth shut, and you will lose weight in no time..😂
if you give birth at 600lbs then cps should be involved. You can’t care for yourself let alone a child.
Well he's not exactly in her custody and her parents did a great job raising him do thst would traumatize the patents and kids and none of them deserve that. He just needed to go back home and be away from her
She yells Mom come help !! HELP HOW ?? You weigh 1000 lbs ...What is Mom go do to help you ?! Your Mom is not a forklift !!
Doesn't that kid ever go to school.??
That mother is so selfish..😢
The forklift comment did make me chuckle cause it's so accurate. That mom is not able to pick her up. In fact first rule of first aid, if someone has a bad fall they gotta get up on their own power or you call the ambulance. No in between. Cause if you fall and you can't get up you might have hurt something badly.
I find it ironic that they’re saying Neiko is being annoying and a brat when his mother is a big whiny adult brat. He’s 14 and he keeps getting uprooted because everything is always about his mother’s wants and needs. Also though I’m very glad she took her journey seriously and kept trying.
Calling him a brat was the pot calling the kettle black 🤣🤣🤣🤣
14 year olds with stable environments can be brats. I don’t blame neko the least bit for any struggles he’s having.
He’s not annoying nor a brat
Guess I was just hoping this acorn had fallen far from the tree,and he was different than his mom.Guess not
It takes her 10 minute to get to the car, but just 10 seconds to the living room when the pizza arrives.
I noticed that, too.
They ought to have said there was pizza was in the vehicle
She didn’t get up earlier to walk even though she knows it takes her longer. Always making people wait.
The domino shuffle 😂
😂Its a miracle
I just can’t take her whining and crying all the time. Her mom is a saint and her dad deserves credit for tolerating Kirsten’s snotty attitude.
Oh but her dad is abuuuuuuusive!! /s
Her mother didn't look well. I don't think she could cope much longer.
@@tarabytez And that's who she lets raise her children......SMH....
@@conniepitts8392my thoughts exactly. Jax 70 in Hawaii 🌴🌺
It makes me sad how everyone says interacting with Neiko is "Dealing with him 😒". He's a child, you're the adult, it's your responsibility to talk to him and help him through his difficult times, not push him off and constantly look at him with disgust, poor Neiko needs some love and someone to listen to him.
I am so sick of the people on the show ruining their childrens childhood and then moving them and then not following the rules. It seems like total child abuse.
I don’t understand what ur saying ?
Don’t forget they themselves blame their situation on their childhood, then inflict a terrible childhood upon their children all the while expecting sympathy
In all seriousness I completely agree with you. They are complete narcissists and don’t even think about the life they are inflicting upon their kids. It’s all about themselves.
Mind you, I’ve seen some episodes of this show that really surprised me and they pulled themselves out of that mentality but the damage has probably already been done to the children
@@TheCrapOnYourStrapOn exactly. It drives me crazy.
It stems from a slefish behavior that was never corrected and once you become an adult with that selfishness its hard to change unfortunately. I think the best thing she did for those kids was to leave them with her parents but she still seems to disregard the fact that what they went through was because of her choices. Sadly it seems when people find a person or reason they can blame their bad choices on the just extend that to whats going on with their kids. "I never felt loved by my parents so I did drugs which means its my parents fault my kids feel abandoned and like I like drung more than them", type of mentality.
How can everyone in this family be claiming Neiko is acting like a brat when Kirsten has been crying and throwing tantrums the entire episode! She was pouting like a child in the hospital. She abandoned him as a baby, dragged him away from his friends, from his school, from his life, to care for the "mother" that left him and all she can do is cry about herself. She shows very little care or consideration for anyone else but herself. She is the brat here.
Edit: I don't mean this as an attack or insult in any way, but it wouldn't surprise me me if Kirsten was bipolar. I think she's got some psychological issues that are fueling her reskless behavior and mood swings.
Why not an attack,? This woman is on my last nerve!! She's a spoiled rotten brat who never grew up!! And the grandmother isn't understanding that either.i don't understand these people's thought processes!!
Exactly. You beat me to it😅. This lady is insufferable.
Neiko's "bye fatty two shoes" will forever be iconic
😂
Neiko is a brat after all …
@@alexanderplatzberlin3940no he wants a decent life and a non whiny mom
@@Intrusivi_pensieriI’m pretty sure that was sarcasm
@@shym6158 still some people think he’s in fault
Sean, I have been watching you for awhile now and I am so amazed by your response to Kirsten's assault when she was younger. As someone who has gone through s*xual assault multiple times, the biggest issue/fear is not being believed. Your response is so heartwarming and appreciated especially when you gave the different scenarios and still said that it didn't matter. Thank you for being you and for inspiring me and many others every day. I have seen almost all of your videos multiple times. Keep up the great work, I'm a big fan!!!
If she doesn't like her son's attitude then maybe she should have...I dunno...tried raising him with the morals/attitude she thinks is right? Dumping your kid on his grandparents and then wanting him to act the way YOU want to him to is absolutely wild. THE AUDACITY!
I can't stand this chick. Not only was she mean to her family, she constantly cried and complained about everything. Getting mad at her son because he was eating cheetos was also ridiculous.
I. Ouldnt stand her either. OMG a Big baby. And her. Otter was a TERRIBLE enable. She was almost as a Worning Waiter bather, wiper and cook cleaner
She’s not as mature as her children are.
As a Psych, I can tell you when people become addicted to whatever (drugs, drinking, eating etc.) they STOP MATURING!! Due to the fact that once the addiction begins - *THEY DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH NORMAL LIFE!* So, if you start using food to cope at 5 years old, she has not developed the skills necessary to act as a 32 year old woman would. ☠
@@GunnWrights Wow thanks for the insight..... I've never considered that concept.....and I can definitely see that in some of my family members and friends.
It's sad too. Poor kid. He's obviously still hurt/upset by/with her. He's had no closure! Of course he's gonna resent her!!!! She's done nothing to better things with him! Appears she just wanted him primarily to 'take care of her'. Imagine his ire!!! He probably is thinking how dare she?? I hope they ALL can get to a better place, forgiveness, etc & finally have a good relationship
You just blipped over your weight like it's nothing, sir. Omg, 273? Rockstar Sean! Congratulations and thank you for the videos. Scrub balls, get out. Hilarious
Thanks I appreciate that 😊
I know right! So proud x
Very proud of Sean
Good job!!! @@Seanofsteel
Ikr isn’t it fun seeing Sean's progress? And almost 100k subs too! 🎉🎆🎊
This lady got on my LAST RAW NERVE and rode it to the bitter end! Some of these ppl i cheered so hard to do well & some i saw as immature brats & couldnt find much sympathy for those that act that way!! Hate victim mentality which is SO prevalent these days.
this is what a lifetime of no accountability looks like
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Totally right!!
How dare she burden her son the way she does. I’m honestly most disgusted by that. She was Not there for him, now she bribes him for food and makes him a care taker. This family is wacky. Poor freaking kid!
Her being bed bound was selective 😂 the only time she can walk is when there’s food involved 😭
Oh man yeah, it took her no time to get off that bed when food was ready she basically bounced up. Then did her weird little shuffle ,she got there quick.
When you are a junkie of drugs good, etc, it is absolutely stunning how fast you can summon the energy and money put of thin air to get your fix.
Her son was acting just like her 😂😂 she is rude af to her parents and was ✨surprised✨ when her son is rude to her when that is all is observing from her.
She stood up moved quick enough when the pizza arrived , n didn’t whine about the pain then .
I was thinking the same thing
Painkilling pizza!😋
I like cringe when I hear how Kristen talks about her son. Her son is absolutely a product of his environment and lack of security/stability. She bailed on her children, any subsequent attention seeking behavior he does is a direct result. It's just sad she talks about him the way she does. Super harsh, and lacking in any compassion.
But she expects a lot of sympathy.....
Who else is avoiding work by watching Sean's new video? 👋
lol you guys are funny
I wish I could! Having my morning coffee and crunching numbers.
I’m retired, and I do my housework while listening to Sean. It makes doing my chores a lot easier. 😊
@@EYE_GOTCHA Wanna come to my house. I've got 3 floors. I've got sixteen 50 x 60 windows. Interested? 🤣
Oof me too. Not avoiding buuuut definitely multitasking
She’s perfected abdicating all responsibility for her life, her choices, and the consequences.
Ya know, I actually really liked Nieko, he was the only one to gave her the same energy back. I’m glad to see her attitude do a 180° cause holy sh!et she was unbearable to be around. I’d probably sit and eat a bag of Cheetos in front of her too lmaooo. Happy birthday Sean!
I know Neiko had justifiable issues, but that kid was a little shi*.
@MontagZoso he actually wasn't though. The attitude he was giving her is completely justified and deserved. She abandoned him as a baby, never looked after him as a mother should and she expects him to look after her? Nah, id be giving it to her 10x worse if i was him.
The reason Nico is childish is because hes a child. A child who was abandoned by the mum who he is forced to care for. I'd be eating all types of shit in front of her!
This woman literally acts like a 5yo! Her poor kids are so much more mature and grounded than she is. It shouldn't be like that.
Her childish outbursts are making me cringe 😖
I feel like when I was 5 I acted more mature lol ❤🎉
She should have FLASHBACKS to those TOUGH moments when she goes to SHOVEL FOOD IN HER FACE.🙄
She is convinced that everyone owes her if she experiences any discomfort. This is pathological selfishness.
I have a theory that when people gain weight to the point of immobility, they are subconsciously wanting to regress into a baby again. They are fed, bathed, and caregivers come running when they cry. I'm sure it's not true for all of them, but so many people on these videos seem like they are just done adulting.
her behavior forced her children to mature. they deserve so much better
Bring me my cane, she orders. No Please, No Thank you. That is so sad for the child; it's so good he didn't have to live with her most of her life. She sucks the life out of the room.
I agree. She had not one nice or positive thing to say the entire episodes..
And; my parents would've whooped my ass if I talked to them the way that she yelled @ hers. Miserable lady indeed. . Poor Nico.
I heard the best saying the other day that made me think of you.
“It’s not what you go through, it’s what you grow through.”
A year ago when I started watching your videos I weighed over 200. I’m now 147. Keep inspiring while making people laugh. ❤😊
That a great saying also you’re killing it congrats.
EXCELLENT!! Keep up the great work!!
@@Seanofsteel thank you! 😊
@@theresahaddad107 thanks so much!
well done!!!!
This woman gives orders to every one of her family members and never once says PLEASE. Even when Dr N says "how are you" she just says an angry FINE, not fine thank you.
Wait wait wait, they are all mad at a 14 year old boy being “annoying” after they uprooted him from him life (which already wasn’t much considering he was sharing a room with his “mother”). This poor kid just wants a normal life…. hanging out with friends, going to school, playing video games late at night. Ridiculous. They are putting so much blame on a CHILD, saying he is sabotaging his mom. No, he is just acting out because he wants a normal life. I don’t blame him.
Why are these bedridden people so impolite! They never say please! I'm guessing the son meant emotional blackmail 😢 if I were her mum I'd get her to get her own food! She can walk to the kitchen to get a bowl of salad!!
i feel absolutely terrible for that kid. he acts like more of an adult than his mother which is extremely emotionally traumatizing for a kid. she ruined his childhood. truly terrible
She speaks 2 her family like they’re dirt on her shoe. If I had spoken 2 my mum like that I would’ve been homeless
I'd still be trying to get off the floor.
Here’s a good tip I learned from my son… when you shop..always shop the outside only …. Never enter enter any aisles. So the outside has all your veggies, fruits s, eggs, cheese and meat….. never anything normally processed.
That is a really good tip
He's a wise one.
This is way too true! I go down the aisles for cereal and ice cream, everything else is in the outer ring. But that's also where the bakery is, so watch out!
That's a really good tip but it's hard to follow
@@bonafidehomicide5742- The bakery can be brutal to "carb addicts!"😀
Lots of crying but no tears. She seems to manipulate everyone and enjoys ordering everyone around.
I see two children who will go no-contact.
After a mom who has been “no parenting contact” to them for years, and sees her kids only as devices to bring her food or other items, and do chores.
OH MY GOD THIS the second they turn 18 they are out of the picture so fast they’ll scorch the carpet
I deeply hope so, they deserve better than this mess
She is bedbound one minute, then the pizza is here!! Look at the cow shuffle to the front room!
Calling her a cow is just making fun of her, c’mon.
@@MontagZosoI understand the nastiness though. This woman is deeply unpleasant so I can see why someone feels justified in calling her a cow.
Exactly!
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Not sorry
As a man who started at 5’8” 400lbs and 10 years later hold steady at 150-155, happy birthday my fellow formally fat friend 😂😂😂 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻
You look great Congratulations🎉
For her to try to advice this kid is a joke. You can tell by his demeanor that his respect for her is ZERO and he can’t be blamed for that.
Fun fact: My 600lb life is produced by/created by Dr Now's son. I like to think Dr Now has some say in the the Hoo-ha shots 😂 (I mean, I doubt he does, but it's fun to imagine)
Woah!!! Really? I didn’t know that at all, clearly haha, what a nice twist! It makes so much more sense knowing this fact tbh!
I have NEVER seen a "hoo ha" they barely visible
I still think showing bare skin in that area is naughty. Fupa needs to be covered. This show is indecent
@@annacostello5181 what they gonna cover it with? 🤣
Plain and simple, Sex Sells, sensationalism sells, this is scripted reality as ALL of them are, it's for profit entertainment television, plain and simple, the more provocative the camera angle the better for ratings🎉🎉🎉
The way she talks to her parents “Just close the door!”, just doesn’t sit right with me.
Same here.
None of her bullsh$t sits right with me! She's a horrible person.
Very few "Please" or " Thank yous" heard from her.
Then she expects niko to be a perfect angel😑
@@subekennedy9554 I was going to comment the exact same thing - she is rude and nasty to her parents all the time but she expects her son to be respectful to her!? She could start by setting a better example of how to talk to your elders with respect and also not expect her son to be her full time carer when she, as his mother, didn't even take care of him for 14 years!
She abandoned Neiko and now she wants HIM to take care of HER. Good for Neiko!
Mother says 'she's going to loose her mobility'. Going to loose? Mother needs to take off her rose colored glasses. Her mobility is gone.
No she is seeing right, she can move as we saw she moved that ass to the kitchen to get food and son even says she sneaks food and ask him to get food.
And she did move to the car and back to the house also she got out the car a few times and walked to the bathroom with a walker.
So no, her mobility is not gone.
Mother of the year....she gave up both her kids to her parents, and then runs back to her parents because she can't take care of herself. Then wants her oldest son to take care of her too, when she couldn't take care of him...
Her expectation that her 14 yeae old son should be helping her is absolutely wild and SO UNFAIR. She did not ask him if he would be okay with this. She could have gone down with her parents and they could have helped her. Her son shouldnt have to.
Your comment about her being on the same mental capacity as her 14 year old son is extremely accurate. When people start abusing substances, they need to get developmentally "stuck" at whatever age they started using and I think Kirsten demonstrates perfectly how she's stuck in adolescence. Her kids are likely going to "age" past her, especially if she doesn't process her trauma and experiences.
Is there any scientific backing to this? Because I’ve been clean for seven years, but I’ve been around a lot of addicts and that never seemed to be the case.
@@katieedwards5926 Yeah, there’s a huge scientific backing around stunted emotional and developmental growth that is caused by substance use. It’s something that is frequently discussed and identified in various therapeutic approaches to substance use as well. It’s similar to the way people can get emotionally stuck at the age of their trauma, too.
OMG!! what a selfish selfish woman!! That boy is 14!! He's got no place being his mother's keeper FFS.He doesn't even have the emotional and metal capacity to deal with what's expected of him.. If they wonder why he's being rude, they might need to look at the example that his own mother has set for him. Surprised child services weren't involved.
I can’t stand these adult babies. Why is she not being a real parent and expecting her kids to take care of her. Shame on her !
It's not an excuse for her behavior by any means, but she literally does not know how to treat her own kid. Her own mental development and maturity was arrested at about Neiko's age (like 14 or so), and what with the drug abuse, trauma from SA, isolation in her home, and getting up to 600 lbs, she is miserable-- and she doesn't know what to do with that misery other than make other people miserable. I will say that I'm happy she seems headed in the right direction and I hope she's still doing well.
It's totally inappropriate for a 14 yr old boy to not only be sharing a room with his mother (prepubescent boys and girls absolutely REQUIRE private sleeping space from the rest of their family), but the fact that she expects him to take care of her physically after uprooting him from the only home he knows is insane. You can see the disgust on his face as he listens to her breathe. God only knows the trauma he has from listening to his mother scream and cry and panic in the shower. It's completely abnormal and dysfunctional in every way. My heart is breaking for Neiko.
Also. The daughter's boyfriend has no business living in the home. Maybe he has some situation where his parents are unfit or deceased or he is in poor foster care. Whatever is going on, Kirsten's parents can absolutely help him find a safe place to stay or live but it is totally unacceptable that they are allowing a 17 yr old girl to live with her boyfriend in their home. You are setting her up to be a teenage mother. There is no way teenagers aren't going to eventually have s3x but facilitating it like that is not okay. I hope she is on birth control.
I’m loving Sean’s commentary. He says what we’re all thinking, with truth, yet is still understanding and kind. I really like this guy. Genuine human being.
He has an amazing personality. Great sense of humour, yet compassionate and a big softie😍
I could not handle her constant whining and crying.
Isn’t it interesting how one person with a hard background becomes an overachiever and another becomes a whiny parasite with addiction?
Exactly the same with criminals. I don't dismiss her childhood and traumas. Been there done that but I became a responsible adult, mother and grandmother.
Everyone responds to childhood ptsd differently.
David Goggins 🎉 had the hardest life and now , WOW
I had the same thought. It’s weird how the brain interprets trauma.
Pressure can break you or make you a better person. Diamonds are made under pressure.
Niko has to take care of a woman who never took care of him.
How accurate is that ? Exactly right. And it's so sad. I hope when he turns 18 he goes no contact.
@@erin.v.m657I don't know. I thought that too initially but as the episode continued she seemed to truly mature. They even had a great conversation near the end of the episode while at the park where they hugged and said they loved each other. I think there's hope.
She treats her son like shit. She bought him to Texas when he never wanted to, bear in mind they have no strong bond since she left him at birth. She forces him to be her carer when essentially she should be his. She complains that he’s rude but completely ignores the fact that she displaced him, she acts like a victim, needs help washing, cooking, god knows what else - it’s an entirely inappropriate relationship for her and her young son to have end of
I feel so bad for Neiko....caregiving is no job for a kid, it's grueling, draining work
She has mastered emotional manipulation of her family members. It’s really sickening.
Best time of day is.....Sean-time! 😁🥳happy birthday!!!
Thanks 😊❤ have a great day
@@Seanofsteel You too!
Hahaha was literally gonna comment his videos are always the highlight of my day 😄💕
Best ever🎉🎉
@@Seanofsteel Happy Birthday! You’re doing great and inspiring us all to avoid those carbs!
The comment she made about putting her mom in a crappy nursing home was just evil and uncalled for. After all she's done. I hope she sees that and says something about that
If they truly loved her, they would have stopped pandering to her.it isn't a kids job to make a parents life easier from their own life choices. She was a lousy parent, she got out of him what she put into him. Do it yourself if you want it
She is a neglectful mother and then forced her child to solo be a full time caregiver (washing, medical needs, food) to his obese disabled dependent mother. That is abuse. And then the mother and the grandma gave the audacity to talk smack about the kids behavior: his behavior is absolutely normal given the circumstances. He needs to be out of the situation and in therapy and with adults that care for him and support him. This entire family needed to be in therapy for a good amount of time before approval for surgery.
Absolutely!! I wanted her to flip on dr.now and see how an adult treats her !!
She’s insufferable. WAAAH MOMMY HELP ME then WAAAH MOMMY GO AWAY 😂
My goodness what a crybaby. She's like a 5 year-old.
Ugly crying 😭🤣🤣🤣
@@valerievasilievas4038 hey, don't insult 5 year olds 😂😂😂😂🥴🥴🥴🥴😩
I can't stand her!! Bit i pity her son!; i hope he tells her off good soon!! He should be doing kid things, not sleeping in his mom's bedroom and catering to her!!
These people are so selfish. She screwed up her own childhood. It doesn't give her the right to screw up her son's. Gross gross gross
They are so selfish, they think that everyone around them should take care of them, and in return for gratitude they burden them psychologically.
I noticed there was an immediate change in attitude when Nico left and her mother took over, it seemed like she transitioned into a crybaby voice again and I think it’s because she gets her way when she acts like this. Nico acting out was just him mimicking his mother’s behavior
That boy is utterly adorable! What he is putting up with! Bless his heart I hope he’s doing ok now ❤️
She should have been transported in the Whaaaaaambulance with all that cryin' she did.
I certainly hope Kirsten has risen above that stage and is working further on herself emotionally, physically, and with the relationships she damaged.
😂Wambulance is baller
This woman is beyond disgusting. She has had no part in her son's life and she expects him to instantly be a live-in nurse for her? And says she's unhappy because he's not as useful as she thought he'd be!! OMG! And she just wants to send him away - not for his own happiness, but because he's not useful to her. My mind is just boggled. It's so obvious that the boy is engaging in passive-aggressive behavior - and thoroughly enjoying it - while eating snacks in front of her. I don't blame him in the least. He feels powerless. I can only imagine the rage surging in side him - (I was raised by a narcissistic mother also). I hope that he can get the help he needs to understand that none of this is his fault and that just because she is related to him by blood does not mean he owes her anything - including love. Her definition of "love" is very conditional. The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. That's the point I've gotten to and I hope he can too. Not hate, not wanting revenge or making her pay - just looking at her and thinking "That is a truly pitiful person". And she doesn't deserve any more time than that devoted to her. She says she wants to "repair the relationship" with him, indicating how truly out of touch she is - lady, there IS no relationship. YOU did that. She doesn't want to deal with or own any of her past behavior, and now she just expects unending, gushing praise for any miniscule thing she does.
Agreed