What’s our OPINION on… | Part 1 - Episode 135

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  • Опубліковано 9 кві 2024
  • The episode you get to hear what our opinions are ? Yes this is the ONE ! 🤩
    For this weeks episode we get to share our two cents on a couple of topics requested by you Inbetweeners…From what we think about period sex… 🤭 to our thoughts on dating right after a breakup… 🫣 bet you’ll be glued to the screen!
    As you are enjoying this episode be sure to also share your opinion on whatever topic respectfully and don’t forget to subscribe 😊
    KINDLY NOTE: This week’s video sound quality may not meet our usual standard of quality due to unavoidable circumstances. We’re working hard to address this and appreciate your understanding and patience during this time.
    Next weeks quality will be better as always 😍😍😍
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 94

  • @Njeri_Gitau
    @Njeri_Gitau Місяць тому +134

    You guys sound different today

    • @limitlesstrends2792
      @limitlesstrends2792 Місяць тому +6

      There is some echo in the back ground

    • @SeeShells79
      @SeeShells79 Місяць тому +2

      Yes I was about to say there is something up with the sound quality

    • @KenyaLit
      @KenyaLit Місяць тому +1

      Echoy!! If that's a word

  • @fareedmatovu4336
    @fareedmatovu4336 Місяць тому +59

    There's a lot of echo I think there needs to be more sound proofing to help

    • @sheilarisper1922
      @sheilarisper1922 Місяць тому

      check description babes. saw another comment addressing that ❤

  • @brianthomasM
    @brianthomasM Місяць тому +33

    No one is talking about the title of the episode. The OPINION is in caps to remind the comment warriors who would be triggered that this is their OPINION which they are entitled to. I thoroughly enjoyed this episode and agreed to almost all of them. I love how, in as much as it was based on opinion, you ladies gave facts to back them up. TMI to the world!!!! #proud kingbetweener!!!

  • @josiegacau
    @josiegacau Місяць тому +20

    Im in a 30 year age gap relationship i know quite crazy and controversial but my hot take is there are no rules to life ,do what truly makes you happy .My partner and I are aware of the challenges we will face in the future when he's in his 70 and im no where close . We've had raw and open conversations about it .Our values align and we just get eachother.And i agree with Lydia being with an way older partner definitely ages you .But we have boundaries and im aware he can't be going clubbing with me and i dont join him for his old boring stuff .We do our age appropriate things separately.
    And meet at home later.We found a balance where i compromise and he does as well .

  • @wanguimuchiri8115
    @wanguimuchiri8115 Місяць тому +2

    Hey girls, I'm really loving this episode. On the topic of abortions, we can't underestimate the entanglement that is religion and the state. Political leaders are more likely to support laws that align with their own belief systems. Sometimes we forget that our religions may stop us from doing certain things but we have no right to force people who don't believe the same to not do those same things. "You can't do something cause my religion said so" is crazy.

  • @StaceyOnyango
    @StaceyOnyango Місяць тому +18

    for a second i thought it was my speakers, but thanks for the notice. Loving the episode!

  • @naomirobinson2900
    @naomirobinson2900 Місяць тому +7

    Leo sidownload coz tumefunga shule... Am happy .

  • @ajehlenechoiga3023
    @ajehlenechoiga3023 Місяць тому +17

    On what Lyd is talking about there is something called the principle of presumption of marriage. The popular case of Hotensiah yawe v public trustee lays down the nitty gritties for that. The law doesn't automatically presume that you are married and thats why the parties need to prove that they intended to be married etc. It normally comes up during succession mainly and it's not a good place to be . The courts are starting to be very skeptical on marriage by cohabitation. So gurl just go get legally hitched or traditionally instead of being eternally a cohabitee. It's a dangerous place to be.

    • @lucianmaina2867
      @lucianmaina2867 Місяць тому +1

      Marriage act did away with presumption of marriage.
      Murugi's position was correct.
      However there are rare instances where the court presumes marriage but the burden to prove is on the party alleging as per the recent supreme court decision

    • @ajehlenechoiga3023
      @ajehlenechoiga3023 Місяць тому +1

      @@lucianmaina2867
      The principles of presumption of marriage is usually raised at the succession level majorly as I had earlier asserted. The recent supreme court declaration is that the principle is on its death bed and that is why I said the law will not assume you are married because you are a cohabitee but when raised in court then the court will determine if the principle is applicable to you or not but the onus is on a party to prove that.

  • @RuvimboDadi
    @RuvimboDadi Місяць тому +15

    I really think the adoption issue is very very important because why wouldn’t someone tell you they were adopted and they want to marry you. Genetics family history etc does matter

    • @evelynmbithe
      @evelynmbithe Місяць тому +1

      I agree with you

    • @nyaugenyaful
      @nyaugenyaful Місяць тому

      Chances are if they are adopted, they likely dont know their biological family so there will be no history there to know. Unless it is a case of sickle cells, but for that the two of you can do a test to find out.

  • @matildatimpiyian1325
    @matildatimpiyian1325 Місяць тому +4

    54:18 Hey TMI, last year January, the Supreme Court of Kenya passed a ruling on cohabiting. The court said cohabiting is not marriage even if the partners have lived together for decades. This ruling helps in the event of death, when unknown families come out claiming to succeed the deceased. So the ruling outlines that a cohabiting partner cannot succeed the other. The law only recognizes the known spouse.

    • @cmt8725
      @cmt8725 Місяць тому +2

      Very correct.
      I hope women get informed about this.
      If you don't have a marriage certificate, you don't have any rights over your 'husband' or his properties.

  • @faithnjoki1471
    @faithnjoki1471 Місяць тому +6

    These ladies have addressed the issue of sound in their description box. Let's just listen as is.

  • @RuvimboDadi
    @RuvimboDadi Місяць тому +3

    I agree with Murugi about abortions. There’s so many situations that lead to one wanting an abortion. I was also in school in SA and I can say sometimes people have sex and live in delulu land by not taking any birth control and just thinking pregnancy is a myth. And with some it happens many times. Once is okay maybe they didn’t know about contraception but surely the second time? That’s ignorance to a certain extent. It’s also quite interesting how sometimes people choose which side they want to be on in such situations. The law or the religion you apparently follow🌚 or when the situation happens to you or someone you know the opinion immediately changes. There definitely should be more education on contraceptives and like Lydia said, people have access to google. Use it.

  • @lynbee1238
    @lynbee1238 Місяць тому +1

    ❤Always love coming here❤ thank you ladies🥰

  • @Fidey_Kokonya
    @Fidey_Kokonya Місяць тому +4

    Its definitely TMI...loved the convo, waiting for the next part. The sound though?

  • @TheNaisenya
    @TheNaisenya Місяць тому +16

    22:45 Lydia is a very wise young woman ❤

  • @playgirlkitty
    @playgirlkitty Місяць тому +6

    I need to chime in the Pro choice discussion,You know what else having a choice ensures?That the people who want to keep their unplanned children,can still keep them.Legalising abortion does not mean doctors induce abortions on pregnant ladies who want to kee it.Its just like how cigarretes are legal and not everyone smokes them,or is expected to smoke .

  • @NewBeginnings2.0
    @NewBeginnings2.0 Місяць тому +20

    Sup with the sound?!?

  • @rapudocreative
    @rapudocreative Місяць тому +2

    Lemmi get my tea and enjoy this in this rainy weather...

  • @KlaireKK
    @KlaireKK Місяць тому +4

    Great episode as always 👏🏾👏🏾
    About the sound, y’all please read the description 🙂

  • @verydark..1988
    @verydark..1988 Місяць тому +1

    Adoption is a big conversation I believe. What insecurities does he have that he is unable to share this with you? Her children's DNA pool is limited on their father's side etc.

  • @evelyndaniella9199
    @evelyndaniella9199 Місяць тому

    Great episode! I miss the old music intro,it gave me goosebumps. Guess I will have to get used to the new one😄.

  • @joyleencherono3764
    @joyleencherono3764 Місяць тому

    This was a lovely episode!,,candid and wholesome☺

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 Місяць тому +3

    Girls I like these bright colours era. The episode did not have good sound today.
    The conversation was great as usual but the sound made it a bit difficult to really get into it.

  • @bellaparrott71604
    @bellaparrott71604 Місяць тому +3

    I’m adopted so here are my thoughts. It depends on what kind of adoption you’re talking about, but either way please let him know as soon as possible.❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mrnzimbi4932
    @mrnzimbi4932 Місяць тому +3

    It’s definitely TMI 🎉❤

  • @evitak8172
    @evitak8172 Місяць тому +1

    Great show as always and that's why I have landed here,feedback though,glad I went through the comments before I typed out lol,thought I was just hating,the sound and lighting is definitely off,I thought it was the make up at first ,no! Thought you both looked tired too, not the same energy,can't figure it out,but.... Something was off

  • @constencehenritah3261
    @constencehenritah3261 Місяць тому +1

    It's definitely TMI❤

  • @GambaWithJ
    @GambaWithJ Місяць тому

    Great episode

  • @emmafaithmbugua1488
    @emmafaithmbugua1488 27 днів тому

    Cohabitation is no longer considered a marriage anymore in Kenya. After August 2017 I believe every person must register your marriage.
    Previously cohabitation was considered a marriage if you satisfied the ingredients of marriage.

  • @bettykubai927
    @bettykubai927 Місяць тому +9

    The SOUND is off today. Too much echo.

  • @mollyjael6739
    @mollyjael6739 Місяць тому +5

    The sound quality is different

  • @paxliviacherono7157
    @paxliviacherono7157 Місяць тому +4

    Sound is different 😊

  • @aunty.social
    @aunty.social Місяць тому

    Lydia, has spoken to me on something. I was getting ready to step out. I have sat down to think about it

  • @sellyyvvette
    @sellyyvvette Місяць тому +2

    I appreciate the effort to have the episode, however the sound and video quality isn't what TMI has been serving us, abit low, but bearable, i know they'll work on it😊

  • @TashaNjagi
    @TashaNjagi Місяць тому +1

    TMI to the world🥰

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Місяць тому +2

    Yayyy🎉🎉. Right on time! Hapo sasa Warembo❤❤. It's Wednesday, it's Definitely TMIIII 😊💃🏿.

  • @Brozacharia
    @Brozacharia Місяць тому +3

    Enjoying the show, though the echo is not pleasant

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Місяць тому +1

    I love the pink outfit murugi 😍

  • @lilyankamau3111
    @lilyankamau3111 Місяць тому +1

    My opinion today. The video clarity and sound wasn't as quality today. The discussion was good as always though. It's definitely TMI🎉🎉❤

  • @lucyosenyi714
    @lucyosenyi714 Місяць тому

    Fire intro🎉❤

  • @ken4722
    @ken4722 Місяць тому +3

    I don't know about the adopted guy thing, guys. I think in the spirit of vulnerability, I want to know these little things that mean a lot to my partner. There is no rationalizing why its really important, cause in the bigger scheme of things its not, but just knowing what someone's upbringing was like is very important to some of us. I bet the guy has had unique experiences based on adoption which shaped who he is today and a partner is not crazy for wanting to be a part of that. Now, the man might have bad memories about everything and not comfortable to talk about the subject currently, but thats another story.

  • @Its_at.ieno12
    @Its_at.ieno12 Місяць тому +2

    Tmi time......yeeeey!!!!

  • @winsetmukunya4860
    @winsetmukunya4860 Місяць тому +5

    The sound .....

  • @jacquendanu6621
    @jacquendanu6621 Місяць тому +1

    Hey lovelies, the sound is not so good. Please check on it next time.

  • @marynmuraya9790
    @marynmuraya9790 Місяць тому +2

    Weeee niko hapa

  • @OliveMukuna
    @OliveMukuna Місяць тому

    The audio on Spotify Is off.

  • @marychege6261
    @marychege6261 Місяць тому

    today sound is echoing am listening on airpods and weeh can't finish the episode today

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow Місяць тому

    It's definitely tmi❤🎉

  • @preciousagema-zk1rk
    @preciousagema-zk1rk Місяць тому +4

    The issue on adoption..
    I would definitely tell the man it would really itch me, because of hereditary disorders, majorly about health that would affect the relationship and the family we want to establish..
    Plus..I think it would pain the man more to know that I knew and I didn't feel the need to share..it's a whole different case if the man knows .I'd totally respect that

  • @leiladrammeh3991
    @leiladrammeh3991 Місяць тому +1

    1: I agree with feminism, even though it sometimes has a negative connotation. But it's important to understand that feminism means different things to different people. For example, what feminism means for a black woman might be different from what it means for a Middle Eastern Muslim woman. When it comes to gender equality, it's not just about making everything equal and thus gender equity plays a huge role as It's more about making sure everyone gets a fair chance in different circumstances, especially if there are big differences that need to be addressed.
    2: Yeah, I'm on board with cancel culture too. If I find out a friend supports something awful, like turning a blind eye to what's happening in Palestine, then I'll distance myself from them. I mean, why stick around with someone who's okay with genocide, GBV, racism etc right? And I'll also boycott companies like Coca-Cola and McDonald's as they are directly and openly funding Israel. It's not about being radical; it's about standing up for what's right and not supporting things that cause real harm, like trauma and even death. So, yeah, count me in for cancel culture!

  • @TBTMovies96
    @TBTMovies96 Місяць тому +3

    Look at it this way,
    We are all prolife, right?
    Why then put yourself in a situation that allows for conception only to cancel this life that we are all Pro for?
    I am also pro choice,
    that is, choose Not to conceive in the first place...
    Pro life~ choose to keep
    Pro choice ~ choose not to conceive

    • @almahzanellah9807
      @almahzanellah9807 Місяць тому

      'most' Contraception's are only 97-99% effective, what happens to the 1-2% who could end up pregnant even after 'choosing' not to conceive in the first place?

    • @TBTMovies96
      @TBTMovies96 Місяць тому

      @@almahzanellah9807 95% of the people aborting do so, not because the pills failed, but because they failed to take any precaution.
      Ladies who are committed to NOT having babies align their choices with actions.
      Ladies who are indifferent to whether they conceive or not have their back up, A.K.A abortion.
      Everyone has a right and even more so, everyone should come to terms with the reality of what they choose.
      We can have freedom of choice, question is, are you truly free from the fact that you've ended the life of your child?

  • @joynysh6785
    @joynysh6785 Місяць тому +3

    There's something about he sound that's different

  • @BeingSuzieSpain
    @BeingSuzieSpain Місяць тому

    The sound is off today😢

  • @moraanyanchoga6948
    @moraanyanchoga6948 Місяць тому +2

    What happened to sound today?

  • @Leticiann121
    @Leticiann121 Місяць тому

    the sound this episode 😢

  • @servicedesk5120
    @servicedesk5120 Місяць тому +1

    It's Wednesday ❤🎉

  • @cwmuiruri
    @cwmuiruri Місяць тому +1

    There’s something called common law marriage where there’s a presumption that people are married after they live together acting as husband and wife for a certain length of time.

    • @cmt8725
      @cmt8725 Місяць тому +1

      In Kenya the law is very clear.
      Marriage must be registered. Even Polygamous marriages must be registered with the registrar of marriage.
      Please be informed and always have a lawyer who you can consult on matters law.
      Many people assume a lot of things.

    • @cwmuiruri
      @cwmuiruri Місяць тому

      My apologies, I should have mentioned that the common law marriages are recognized in some states in the US jurisdiction. But I am glad to know that is not the case in Kenya. Thank you and Good topic to discuss

    • @ajehlenechoiga3023
      @ajehlenechoiga3023 Місяць тому

      Common law is applicable in Kenya unless there is an express statute that deletes it. Presumption of marriage is still an applicable principle though the parties need to prove that there was intention to marry. The principle is on its death bed though ( latest assertions by the supreme court)

    • @marionchepkemoi8546
      @marionchepkemoi8546 Місяць тому

      ​@ajehlenechoiga3023 also the parties must have capacity. A party lacks marital capacity if they have contracted a previous monogamous marriage. Hence there cannot be a presumtion of marriage where one party is already married either through church, civil or hindu marriage. However where one was previously marrried through customary marriage which is inherently polygamous then the person has capacity and a subsequent presumption of marriage can stand.

  • @kdee-dee
    @kdee-dee Місяць тому +2

    Yeiii🎉❤

  • @annemwaura3910
    @annemwaura3910 Місяць тому +1

    TMI🎉

  • @Augenia
    @Augenia Місяць тому +1

    Sound quality 😢

  • @Asholzoe
    @Asholzoe Місяць тому +3

    #Pro-choice

  • @CKomeza
    @CKomeza Місяць тому

    Ladies, what is wrong with the audio this time…? I don’t know if I’ll listen to the whole episode this time 😢

  • @Ence254
    @Ence254 Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @lilianwawira4273
    @lilianwawira4273 Місяць тому

  • @raelwanjiku7132
    @raelwanjiku7132 Місяць тому +1

    Too much echo, I'm struggling to hear you

  • @thehiker2545
    @thehiker2545 Місяць тому +2

    Sooooouuuuunnnnddd!!!!

  • @the.victorgeorge
    @the.victorgeorge Місяць тому

    On the pre-nup issue, prenups are not only to protect wealth. That used to be the belief because of what we saw in celebrity divorces.
    However, it also includes protection against your partner's debt that they had before the marriage, inheritance they might get, protecting your children if you came into the marriage with them, some people even use it to include an infidelity clause - if you cheat, I get this amount of money from you.

  • @wanguikahure2939
    @wanguikahure2939 Місяць тому +2

    First here🥳

  • @agathamugaa3373
    @agathamugaa3373 Місяць тому

    Just downloading the video, I'll be back.

  • @Jakks07
    @Jakks07 Місяць тому

    SOUND of extremely off on this Ep.