3 Ways to grow your Personality Type
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- Опубліковано 19 лис 2024
- New to personality type or haven't really leveraged it for growth yet? This video shares 3 suggestions for using your personality type for growth. *For those looking to study your opposite, comment below with your type and I will give you a study challenge of your opposite type.
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You know you're an INTJ when:
- You pick up on things early on growing up
- You conduct a whole study in your head since you were 9 on why your family is toxic
- You cringe hard at certain things you've done in the past
- Take mental notes on everyone you encounter(good and bad)
- play scenarios in your head on who will succeed and fail(which often come true)
- analyze everyone in the room knowing good and well you ain't finna vibe with anyone
- Play along with anyone who is considered fake and/or narcissistic
- Look for solitude in the most secluded areas you know
- You do average in school on purpose(knowing your the smartest and capable of getting 100s across the board) so your parents aren't bragging to relatives you'll never know and/or meet about my high IQ
- You let go of anyone who is considered a stumbling block to achieve your goals
*lemme know if I missed anything, other than that your welcome(from a fellow INTJ)*
Nice summary! I'd add some less noble ones like, you are clumsy, often zone out, you are very annoyed when you have to cease your inner monologue to talk to someone...
Btw. I did average in school bc why learn something I'd forget when I passed anyway 😂
omg 💀calling me out bro
@@Jooney91 The clumsy part is accurate cuz we basically use that when playing dumb, zoning put yes cuz we have a rich inner world that cannot be obtained elsewhere and being interrupted and knowing that school teaches you less than outside things such a as tv shows and what not. Which is one reason why we are a different breed and built different🤣
@@agent9184 I have to call my ppl out somehow, as I am an INTJ myself🤣
@@diversejoe617 well I meant like really clumsy because of inferior Se (so especially when we are inside our heads) 😁 and yes, school system was not a fit for me at all, I wanted to learn, but different things. Leading Ni is very rare in general so for us it is very hard to find "our" people, moreover it makes us stand out even if we don't want to, so yeah, we are like completely different breed 🙂
My fav fav favorite MBTI channel, yeah !! 😐 (INTJ facial expression of joy)
😭♥️
Just to add:
When Lindsey says you don't "have" that function, she means you don't use it as much, or that you use it in the shadow process
Ty 😉
@@InternetLiJo Love your videos, Lindsey! -Mysterious INFJ commenter
This is why I started watching you. You have my functions backwards (our Te modalities are flipped, but otherwise...). I am looking at people with Ni/Fi sleep first too right now because my sleep function is obnoxiously underdeveloped. Supposedly if I work on that my emotions will be easier to manage.
Thank you. Learn the functions, study the unconscious type and write down our fears and see what is causing them.
The third instruction sounds really awesome, my fears are fading from thinking about it.
I noticed today that when I tell myself to be an Ni dom I find it much easier to basically get stuff done and to feel confident in my decisions. (I’m an Ne dom).
I’ll try following your second two steps more (I’ve already done step 1 too much, I even bought a socionics book which I’m starting to wonder about).
I took notes lol. I've been trying to use more Se for some time and learning my other functions but didn't know how to properly do it. This was helpful... thanks :)
As an entp I have an isfj friend and she taught me the importance of considering pre established structures. In class, I’d be more likely to approach a task in a very random manner that didn’t rely on already learned methods. My isfj friend will always point out those methods to me and get frustrated when I “freelance” and just do things my own way because she won’t understand why I don’t just go the easy way and do it as the teacher said. Through either taking way too long or forgetting things (which I hate because I want the whole picture and missing things has me nervous) while she got the task done in time with all the boxes ticked, she taught me that going by the tried and true needs to be considered as an option that might be more beneficial in some situations. This schooled my ne eye to consider the si way but always check up on my ti to make sure it makes sense for me in that particular situation.
ABSOLUTELY GREAT, FANTASTIC advice LiJo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO that which IS // those which ARE your weaker areas.
it is ABSOLUTELY NOT a perfection mindset but, it ABSOLUTELY IS a GROWTH mindset. THAT in effect WILL shape you into a more WELL-ROUNDED human being.
ABSOLUTELY.
FOR SURE.
btw, i ABSOLUTELY LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVVEEE your 'cheerleader' on the couch behind you. while listening carefully to your commentary, i couldnt help watching your li'l pup and wonder 'what is he looking at // what is currently grabbing his attention and, WHY???????' oh, but THEN he disappeared around the 4:30 mark. WHERE DID HE GO???????????????????????????????????????
- intj
Hahah the disappearing mysterious papillon Indie!! He knows way too much about cognitive functions after hearing me blab about it for years. He got bored 😆
That sense of humor tho.😂
3:28 Ah, but there are 4 types of opposites:
As an INTP (Ti Ne Si Fe): I can go ENFJ (Fe Si Ne Ti), ENTJ (Te Ni Se Fi) and ISFP (Fi Se Ni Te). I can even go as far as finding an INTP (Ti-Ne) vs. INTP (Ti-Si), that kind of thing.
I'm glad we have astrology and MBTI, so we have to know ourselves.😌
The vedic one though! :D
@@slq4358 Try draconic astrology (soul)(yin) also known as your true-self and the enneagram.😉
@@kevinfukthezetamale4298 I've read it all and I recommend. I'm an obsessive psychology nerd with a knack for whacky people sciences and theories and goal of self improvement and understating lol. Type 5 here 😛
@@saloni.sharma Don't forget numerology [Life Path (Sun Sign), Personality Number (Rising Sign), and Soul Urge (Moon Sign)]
@@kevinfukthezetamale4298 yeah.. They're all part of the natal chart in vedic astrology too..
This is being released on my birthday! Look forward to it.
Happy birthday! Have a great year ahead!
@@QuotesArticles thank you!!
So my opposite would be INFP, (or ENFJ depending on how you look at it.) Does anyone know of any UA-camrs with this personality type that I could study?
Two INFPs for you. Pete Holmes and Bo Burnham!
another INFP is Matt Sherman
I'm totally doing the "mirror" type thing. Great tip! :)
As an ENTP with a short attention span I really appreciate that your videos are always on point and not too lo- Hey, look, a squirrel!
Hahaha well thank you!
I have a complaint. (This could be useful for you) CLOSED CAPTIONS have not been working on your newer videos. This one has the option for Portuguese Captions, only
I’ll have to look into why! Thank you.
@@InternetLiJo omg! Was I actually USEFUL there for a second??? So THAT's how that feels like! 🤯 Lol (guess my Fe has subtley picked up on some of your Te)
Wow, 3 bangers, a super hat trick. ⚽️⚽️⚽️ Now if I can pull any of them off 🤔
YEEES! Ok INTJ here are some human ESFP study challenges, one that follows the mbti stereotype and one one not so much: Angelina Jolie, and Laurie Santos
@@InternetLiJo firstly, THANKS so much. Next, is getting called INTJ like when your parents call you by your full name. Third .. AJ .. just gonna have to pass. Definitely on the other one. Number next, I'm watching the DK channel. She has you listed as a special channel she follows btw. Now everytime I think I have decent Se, she does something to remind me I'm slacking. And why does she look like Fe when all she has is Fi o e slot higher ? ( rhetorical) Have a great rest of your day !! ( copying the chipper ESFP salutation style) 🎄💙
@@InternetLiJo oh yeah, as per your previous help. If blast is just the use of those 2 functions, then I am considering it like a turbo consume. And I think I'm going play blast consume sleep.
You da bomb
Hello! I'm really excited to try this advice! Could you suggest me a study case too? I'm an infp :)
Ni-Ti loop sis.
Tell me more~
@@InternetLiJo Girl I am trying to break free from my chains.Its a slow and tyring process.😞
Especially dealing with my insecurities and living in the real world.
Thanks for the video tho.Always appreciate it.😊👍
@@lightinthedark9201 I am/was in the same paralyzing situation. Having my best friend shout "CONTROL IS AN ILLUSIOOON!" on the phone I have to say woke me up quite a bit. If this can help, observe your thoughts and see if you notice you're unconsciously deceiving yourself, like looking for the perfect way to not care about perfection, or waiting for the perfect moment to start doing something, basically the usual nonsense your mind creates without you even realizing it prolly. Instead of going on autopilot and just reacting to them, challenge your thoughts and you'll find out they've been lying to you the whole time. It's what the ego does. Also when the mind is overloaded and taking over, focusing on daily, practical tasks balances things out. We don't exist neither yesterday nor tomorrow after all, only now. Good luck on your journey and don't forget: CONTROL IS AN ILLUSIOOON!
Love it as always, what a great idea!
Pondering, Perseverance~Persistence, Perception, Promotion, Prominence, Prancing and Poo-pin Prowess!... Possibly?
poo-pin prowess for SURE
4:51
What are some of your fears triggered by inf se? I've been trying for a while to figure my type (i'm pretty sure i'm also an intj) and i want to see if we share some!
2:30 ua-cam.com/video/tQaHdZmLwvo/v-deo.htmlm19s Frank James did a shortcut on it. I'm just getting it.
How does an INTJ change from their 20s to their 50s?
This is kinda irrelevant but you look amazing and tell me if I'm wrong but I think you got lip fillers, and I'm thinking about doing the same so I wanted to ask which kind you got (if you did) bc I love the way yours look and I'm afraid of getting the wrong filler and causing duck lips
Probably not the forum for this question but I’m going to ask anyway. How would an Fe/Se ENFJ jumper behave? What would be some things we’d be able to predict in terms of
behavior and what would be their struggles in life?
Watch Gary Vee - one of my favorite example of this the. Also John Paul Dejoria is also a favorite!! This type is AMAZING knowing what people like in reality and working that pipeline.
see point 2 is why I watch your videos :D
You’re so smart! Already well on your way to Alaska!
@@InternetLiJo You’re so balanced and unique! See you in Alaska!
My fellow INTJs, start the video from here - @1:43. ^^ The purpose, is something you already knew before clicking onto this video. Ahah
Who is the ISTJ you mentioned? Kit Fife? Google says she doesn't exist... ENFP here looking for an ISTJ to study 📋
Thanks!
Yes!! This is her: ua-cam.com/video/65jmKES_opA/v-deo.html
Thanks so much!
Man I took the functions test two-three times and I got Ni-Ne followed by Ti as most developed functions every time. 12% Se lmao. Can't tell if I'm an INTP, INFJ jumper or maybe ENTP.
Do you like to argue with strangers on the internet?
@@alex.does.comedy y e s :D
@@slq4358 that doesn't look like a very optimal use of your time, does it?
@@alex.does.comedy in this time and age where hypochondriac and security-obsessed baboons are mindlessly giving their freedom away to the same masters that have been destroying and lying to them for decades, while progressively losing the ability to think critically and independently in a world where you can't even call a table a table anymore without someone feeling insulted, I think discussing is not only useful but necessary. Humanity needs less SJ and more NT. Just need to remember to sleep more and smoke less while doing so.
@@slq4358 i look at this comment and think ENTP, an INTJs best buddy 👍
amazing advice
Thank you :)
Hello! Could you suggest me a study case? Im an Enfp
An ISTJ for you - Heather Heying ua-cam.com/video/vm-4HS2khTw/v-deo.html or Kitt Fife: ua-cam.com/video/EeVuskJ4jOc/v-deo.html
@@InternetLiJo thank you Lindsay! 😁 I appreciate your concern for your subscribers. I will look into this Istj !
Hi Lindsay, you look beautiful
could you recommend me a study case ?
-intj
ESFP Ben Afleck or Chris Cornell
@@InternetLiJo thank you Lindsay
Ok…. But can we talk about your cohost in the background?
Staring Indie 👏🏼 world's cutest papillon, so cute that it's annoying. 😆
@@InternetLiJo 😂😂😂 that is one cute ass dog. when are we typing indie?
why did youtube auto play this video to me? i don't care about personality types at all
No idea…
shlop shlop shlop
I swear, your past 4 videos have all been eerily similar to conversations I've had with people, in the time between postings. The first two conversations were on Reddit, so I thought maybe you saw them, but the last two were private conversations. Maybe Jung was right about the collective unconscious lol
The collective unconscious is real my friend. Also I'm not on Reddit so there's further confirmation :)