6 Signs Your Crush Isn't Really Into You

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  • Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
  • Do you have a crush at the moment, but you are not sure if your crush likes you back? Sometimes, to know whether someone likes you or not, you have to look for the signs that they don't like you. And if they don't show many of these signs, then maybe you are in for a lucky treat. Here are some possible signs that your crush doesn't like you back.
    #crush
    Does your crush like you even if you don't think so? Watch this video to find out: • 6 Signs a Person Likes...
    Writer: Michal Mitchell
    Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: IG:Jam_sticker
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    Nowakowski, A. S., & Wheeler, G. (2021, July 26). 8 signs your crush just isn't that into you. Elite Daily. Retrieved from www.elitedaily.com/dating/signs-he-doesnt-like-you-back
    Kim, J. (2011). 6 signs that someone just isn't into you - psychology Today. Psychology Today. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/valley-girl-brain/201109/6-signs-someone-just-isnt-you
    Mitrokostas, S. (2018, October 22). 10 subtle signs your crush just wants to be friends. Insider. Retrieved from www.insider.com/does-my-crush-think-of-me-as-just-a-friend-2018-10

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  • @Psych2go
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    • @chynabarbieeeeee
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  • @rest1585
    @rest1585 2 роки тому +6531

    Sometimes people just need to hear: “dude, she’s just not into youuuu~~~”

    • @LilithDark
      @LilithDark 2 роки тому +368

      “You need to move on”

    • @sach4997
      @sach4997 2 роки тому +169

      @@LilithDark "move on~"

    • @11crunmch33
      @11crunmch33 2 роки тому +189

      “Gotta move on”
      But why move on when you could think about it forever >:)

    • @Dylanbar1
      @Dylanbar1 2 роки тому +39

      Early before blows up les go

    • @Dylanbar1
      @Dylanbar1 2 роки тому +39

      “Don’t get friend zoned bro “

  • @bellamckinnon8655
    @bellamckinnon8655 2 роки тому +88

    0:21 they talk to you often about their crushes
    0:39 they don't open up or show their true self around you
    1:05 they never try or want to be alone with you
    1:32 they're always busy and not available for you
    1:56 they haven't asked you out
    2:16 they don't remember things you tell them about yourself

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      thank you so much!

    • @bellamckinnon8655
      @bellamckinnon8655 Рік тому

      @@Psych2go of course! thanks for putting out the videos you have always - means a lot to us

  • @haileyxx
    @haileyxx 2 роки тому +106

    TIME STAMPS
    0:23 They talk to you often about their crushes
    0:37 They don’t open up or show their self around you
    1:03 They never try or want to be alone with you
    1:32 They are always busy and not available for you
    1:56 They havent asked you out
    2:11 They don’t remember things you tell them about yourself

  • @lizzyb.2411
    @lizzyb.2411 2 роки тому +105

    1. They talk to you often about their crushes
    2. They don’t open up or show their true self around you
    3. They never try or want to be alone with you
    4. They’re always busy and not available for you
    5. They haven’t asked you out
    6. They don’t remember things you tell them about yourself
    And remember, if your crush doesn’t love you, I’ll always love you and be your bestie. 💛💛💛

    • @quit83636
      @quit83636 2 роки тому +2

      Awh! Thank you so much. 💜 You are so amazing. 🤗

    • @jennymeakins1
      @jennymeakins1 2 роки тому +2

      You so rock😬💕

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

  • @wildeberry9942
    @wildeberry9942 2 роки тому +101

    Helping y'all out:
    0:21 1. They talk about their crushes to you
    0:36 2. They don't open up to you
    1:03 3. They never try to be alone with you
    1:30 4. They're always busy and never spend time with you
    1:56 5. They've never asked you out (like to go hang out)
    2:12 6. They never remember small things you've said
    Have a good day everyone

    • @ycn3-031
      @ycn3-031 2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot summary guy

  • @mort7018
    @mort7018 2 роки тому +44

    1. Talk about their crushes
    2. Don’t open up
    3. Never try to be alone with you
    4. Always busy and not available for you
    5. Haven’t asked you out
    6. Don’t remember small things you tell them

    • @Ruby-Rush
      @Ruby-Rush 2 роки тому

      Yeah my crush doesn't do any of these things
      But the other one I like somewhat does these except for trying to be alone with me
      Seen as she lives kind of far

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому

      thanks!

  • @marmite226
    @marmite226 Рік тому +50

    POV : You’re not surprised, but it still is disappointing

  • @Ellsblue34
    @Ellsblue34 2 роки тому +43

    How I know my crush isn’t into me:
    1. She rejected me.

    • @stefanoschristodoulou6295
      @stefanoschristodoulou6295 2 роки тому +2

      Damn

    • @sebastianfox5330
      @sebastianfox5330 2 роки тому +2

      Quite true.. I have had at least a dozen crushes, and out of all of them, only one ever reciprocated. And even then, we’re no longer together. Love is brutal…

    • @Okkkkokk
      @Okkkkokk 2 роки тому

      Nahhh maybe the crush just want to focus on study,they still like you but their parent say"No love until finish college",etc,

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +2

      sorry about this. You will discover the one!

  • @snipeknite9614
    @snipeknite9614 2 роки тому +71

    This hits hard because literally today I decided that I was over my crush because she literally puts next to none effort in me. I could clearly see that she wasn’t really interested but I kept telling myself that we just need to talk more and spend more time together. But slowly I have realized that she seems more interested in like every other person (definitely other guys) more than me. I thought if I tried hard enough she would eventually like me back but I realized too late that she wasn’t feeling the same way and I broke my own heart because I got too invested. Feels bad but I will get through it just gotta keep moving forward

    • @FathersFuckingBiscuits
      @FathersFuckingBiscuits 2 роки тому +4

      Keep ya head up bro and you’ll eventually find that girl.

    • @dsb_3593
      @dsb_3593 2 роки тому +4

      Y'know man, something similar happened to me about around 1 month ago, except it felt like she showed hints and she even said she preferred me over another guy, she showed mixed signals, but in the end I was just another friend, don't let it get to you and I recommend focusing on yourself and being the best version of you

    • @Je11keng
      @Je11keng 2 роки тому +2

      You got this! Just be careful on getting friendzone.

    • @rest1585
      @rest1585 2 роки тому +2

      Stay strong m8

    • @chickennug5104
      @chickennug5104 2 роки тому +2

      had a crush when I was a freshman in highschool on a naturally flirty boy with a staring issue thought he liked me the entire year because he was always teasing me and staring ehen he thought I wasn't looking until the last day of school and heard my friends were talking at lunch they said"you know who has a staring problem(fill in his name)"all of them agreed I was just a friend in his eyes my crush ended the way a steriotypical way a crush ends I was crushed kinda wonder if maybe he accually did like me but idk hes being home schooled next year I'm not a very flirty person though I kinda wonder if I was more flirty if we could have been something or if I just was honest and said how I felt. just remember that people express flirtation and other emotions differently than you and when in doubt be honest because you never know if the other person feels the same way if you don't say anything then you might both be crushed because you accually liked each other or you move on with your life knowing you at least communicated your feelings and have a sort of closer

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +26

    Sometimes you can be so consumed with your own infatuation and idea of them that it can be hard to notice that the feelings aren’t reciprocated. Hard reality but it’s better to know the truth than to make them feel uncomfortable 🙁

  • @canonsunkmyships4548
    @canonsunkmyships4548 2 роки тому +50

    *6 signs your crush isn't into you:*
    1. they're fictional **cries**

    • @iwantaplushia8307
      @iwantaplushia8307 2 роки тому +3

      Or a celebrity😭

    • @viraltiktok9603
      @viraltiktok9603 2 роки тому

      dude get a life why are you going after some picture

    • @canonsunkmyships4548
      @canonsunkmyships4548 2 роки тому

      @@viraltiktok9603 'GeT a LiFe' says the person watching a "6 signs your crush isn't really into you" video lmao

  • @sk_lxr2920
    @sk_lxr2920 2 роки тому +22

    To those who don't have time to watch the video :)
    1- They talk to you often about their crushes
    2- They don't open up or show their true self around you
    3- They never try or want to be alone with you
    4- They're always busy and not available for you
    5- They haven't asked you out (similar to point 4)
    6- They don't remember things you tell them about yourself

  • @yana.rya_____
    @yana.rya_____ 2 роки тому +33

    I think this can be applied for friendships too and is pretty useful to see if someone just enjoys your company in general

    • @Cherrycreamsoda1
      @Cherrycreamsoda1 2 роки тому +2

      I reckon "don't open up" and "always busy and not available" would be red flags, but I reckon the other are things that most friends do lol

    • @payojaaa
      @payojaaa 2 роки тому +1

      @@Cherrycreamsoda1 good friends never leave you alone they always have time for you and they remember every little things about you

  • @misterlamprey7777
    @misterlamprey7777 2 роки тому +25

    1. They talk about their crush around you frequently.
    2. They aren't themselves around you.
    3. They never want to be alone with you.
    4. They are never available for you.
    5. They haven't asked you out, platonically or romantically.
    6. They don't remember things about you.

  • @yowshimoshi
    @yowshimoshi 2 роки тому +49

    For people in a hurry. (with timestamps!!)
    1- They talk to you often about their crushes 0:23
    2- They don't open up or show their true self around you. 0:38
    3- They never try or want to be alone with you. 1:03
    4- They're always busy & not available for you. 1:31
    5- They haven't asked you out. 1:55
    5- They don't remember things you tell them about yourself. 2:15
    (hopefully this helped!!)

    • @sagethevelvet
      @sagethevelvet 2 роки тому

      help all of that doesnt apply apart of the first one, ig at least they like me

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому

  • @namjesusiswatchingyou8729
    @namjesusiswatchingyou8729 2 роки тому +36

    You probably don't want to see the video but you want the points so here it is
    1. They talk to you often about their crushes
    2. They don't open up or show their true self around you
    3. They never try or want to be alone with you
    4. They're always busy and not available for you
    5. They haven't asked you out
    6. They don't remember things you tell them about yourself.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for your service!

  • @ZelanSimp
    @ZelanSimp 2 роки тому +26

    1. They talk to you often about their crushes.
    2. They don't open up or show their true self around you.
    3. They never try or want to be alone with you.
    4. They're always busy and not available for you.
    5. They haven't asked you out.
    6. They don't remember things you tell them about yourself.

  • @lucid4666
    @lucid4666 2 роки тому +77

    Timeline for those who are busy
    0:22 - They talk to you often about their crushes
    0:39 - They don't open up or show their true self around you
    1:06 - They never try or want to be alone with you
    1:32 - They're always busy and not available for you
    1:57 - They haven't asked you out
    2:13 - They don't remember things you tell them about yourself

    • @hye3922
      @hye3922 2 роки тому +3

      Yeah, i feel so sad

  • @mk_nugget
    @mk_nugget Рік тому +45

    Not me watching all these crush videos to try and convince myself he likes me

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin 2 роки тому +28

    Summary
    0:00 intro
    0:21 1、They talk to you often about their crushes.
    0:36 2、They don't open up or show their true self around you.
    1:03 3、They never try or wanna be alone with you.
    1:30 4、They're always busy and not available for you.
    1:55 5、they haven't asked you out.
    2:12 6、They don't remember things you tell them about yourself.
    2:44 ending

  • @goo6083
    @goo6083 Рік тому +38

    1 . They talk too often about their crush
    2 . They don't open or show their true self around you
    3 . They never try or wanna be alone with you
    4 . They're always busy and not available for you
    5 . They haven't asked you out
    6 . They don't remember things you tell them about yourself

  • @Sunshine-xg6kr
    @Sunshine-xg6kr 2 роки тому +28

    Signs your crush isn't really into you:
    1.They talk to you often about their crushes.
    2.They don't open up or show their true self around you.
    3.They never try and want to be alone with you.
    4.They are always busy and not available for you.
    5.They haven't asked you out.
    6.They don't remember things that you tell them about yourself.

  • @mwangi8623
    @mwangi8623 Рік тому +74

    7. You're watching this

  • @Someone-xy3ng
    @Someone-xy3ng 2 роки тому +100

    *6 Signs Your Crush Really Isn't Into You*
    1. They talk to you often about their crushes.
    2. They don't open up or show their true self around you.
    3. They never try or want to be alone with you.
    4. They are always busy and not available for you.
    5. They haven't asked you out.
    6. They don't remember things you tell them about yourself.
    Never lower your worth for anyone, if they actually deserve you then they will show you and you'll just realise it on the way. I know that sometimes it might be a hard pill to swallow but still remember that not everyone's going to like us and that's okay, everyone is special in their own way for the right people. 💜

    • @user-mn4ck1jt2f
      @user-mn4ck1jt2f 2 роки тому

      They don't remember things u tell them seem quite inaccurate

    • @Dat1Grill
      @Dat1Grill 2 роки тому +1

      Number 3 is accuarate because hes busy and I'm still at school (I'm 17 and hes 18) but yeah its harshly true 🤣 but at least I enjoyed his presence.

    • @Someone-xy3ng
      @Someone-xy3ng 2 роки тому

      @@Dat1Grill Exactly same!!!! 😩😭😂

    • @user-mn4ck1jt2f
      @user-mn4ck1jt2f 2 роки тому +2

      @@Dat1Grill lol he just think bout ur future lmao...or he's shy to be alone with u?haha

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +2

      ty!

  • @vitoriapereira6849
    @vitoriapereira6849 2 роки тому +24

    This video made me realize that i'm not into my crush 🙁

  • @monsterguy3624
    @monsterguy3624 2 роки тому +18

    The alternative title is “how to break someone’s heart in 3 minutes”

    • @jilyyyyy.
      @jilyyyyy. 2 роки тому

      BHWHAHAHAHHAHAHA facts😢

  • @FuriousLing
    @FuriousLing 2 роки тому +13

    About not remembering things, that's hard for me to do. I've got ADHD, and if I don't write stuff down immediately, I'll most likely forget it.

  • @pavanimohan8757
    @pavanimohan8757 Рік тому +29

    Video-
    1 they talk about their crush
    2 they don't talk or tell everything about him/ her
    3 they never want to be alone with you
    4 they're always busy / don't have time for you
    5 the haven't asked u
    out
    6: they don't remember things you tell them about your self

    • @preetiraut787
      @preetiraut787 Рік тому +1

      what do i do if relate to ALL the signs? :')

  • @pianior6652
    @pianior6652 Рік тому +28

    I have a feeling my crush is into me, but after a few weeks and days, i just realized it's all in my mind. I cried while remembering all those interactions between me and her, I realized she's just being friendly, that's just how casual people is. It hurts.

    • @cleverclovercreates3249
      @cleverclovercreates3249 Рік тому +1

      I’ve been told the guy I like likes me too, but personally, I can’t tell.
      I saw him the other day and ever since I’ve been worried he doesn’t like me the same way.
      I don’t think it’s because he acted differently or something, I think I might’ve just realized how much I like him, and that made me more scared that he doesn’t like me.
      I know he likes me as a human being, but I don’t know if he likes me, like he would want to date eventually. I know if he does like me like that it’s probably hard for him. His parents are divorced, and he said when he was really young that he never wanted to go into a relationship. So I’m sure at first he’d deny it, hide it, and be a little scared by it.
      But that’s okay with me, I also don’t mind if he takes longer than the average. I also know I’d still only become something like a year from now since we’re young, (I’m almost 14).
      Anyway I kinda trailed off, what my point was, I had a feeling before he liked me too. And I’m scared this is what will happen. It’s hard when you care so much and really think this person is cool (in my own uncool, weird way of nerd kind of cool), and then find out they don’t like you.
      I’ve cried a lot thinking about it and cried over the overwhelming feeling of someone slipping by the barriers I thought I had.
      Liking someone is hard. It hurts, the uncertainty hurts, and the ending sometimes hurts.
      Sometimes the ending is completely worth it, but sometimes it ends sadly.
      Tbh, sometimes I question why God started a friendship but set it up to get ruined since I like him, but he probably doesn’t like me.
      It’s all painful, but I don’t care if I knew it’d end well. I don’t mind crying a lot, even everyday if it ends up turning out to be real. I also don’t mind waiting.
      I’m really sorry I wrote this really long thing, also I’m sure you aren’t reading it all. But if you did, thank you very much for sharing your time.

  • @riyayyy
    @riyayyy 2 роки тому +99

    A little list containing timestamps and titles to help you! :)
    0:22 1. They talk to you about their crushes.
    0:38 2. They don’t open up or show their true self around you.
    1:05 3. They never try or want to be alone with you.
    1:33 4. They’re always busy and not available for you.
    1:59 5. They haven’t asked you out.
    2:13 6. They don’t remember things you tell them about yourself.
    Have a good day/night! 🧡

  • @ramyeonikiii
    @ramyeonikiii 2 роки тому +17

    Sometimes the people who we think are the perfect one for us, are the ones that will break our hearts :(

    • @boxy_tocs2035
      @boxy_tocs2035 2 роки тому +2

      Idk about fictional characters BUT as intj
      Maybe in the Future someone will develop a device that let us communicate with the animae/ manga world it seems impossible but maybe it will develop in the future.

    • @ramyeonikiii
      @ramyeonikiii 2 роки тому

      @@boxy_tocs2035 honestly same. I used to really wanna go to anime worlds cause the people there, their way better than everyone here. They made me smile every day even if they don't exist.

    • @boxy_tocs2035
      @boxy_tocs2035 2 роки тому +1

      @@ramyeonikiii I thought of inventing something like that in the future but I need to know:
      How can I do this?
      How do I know this will work?
      What do I need for this?
      How does this works?
      But sometimes I just think I'm too nerdy for that...

    • @ramyeonikiii
      @ramyeonikiii 2 роки тому

      @@boxy_tocs2035 I'm sure with future technology you can definitely accomplish that! You just need a bit of motivation and self-assurance

  • @0kayts442
    @0kayts442 2 роки тому +19

    the way I immediately went “ooh, this ones for me!” 💀

  • @crow3370
    @crow3370 2 роки тому +24

    This is why I keep convincing myself I'm better off alone

    • @datboigroovin8200
      @datboigroovin8200 2 роки тому +3

      Hey, I know that when you’re going through this everything other people tell you feels like empty words.
      I went through that for my entire teenaged life and ended up really emotionally damaged from it. I got to a really low point and wanted to give up on everything. But after my breakdown I met the love of my life who was also going through something similar.
      You can make it. It’s not going to be easy, and it’s not going to be fun. It’s going to hurt, and it’s going to suck. But it’s going to work out.

    • @crow3370
      @crow3370 2 роки тому +2

      @@datboigroovin8200 thanks i appreciate it

    • @datboigroovin8200
      @datboigroovin8200 2 роки тому +1

      @@crow3370 of course, Take care of yourself.

  • @GetYourLifeBetter
    @GetYourLifeBetter 2 роки тому +20

    When you have a crush on someone, you may find yourself looking for any sort of sign that he’s interested in you. The problem is that you might be so blinded by your attraction that you can’t see that your crush isn’t interested. Save yourself the trouble of an ego-crushing heartbreak of going after a crush who’s clearly not into you.

    • @Okkkkokk
      @Okkkkokk 2 роки тому

      Yeah I hate people like that

    • @viraltiktok9603
      @viraltiktok9603 2 роки тому

      just show him that you're a high value woman and he will be into you

    • @Okkkkokk
      @Okkkkokk 2 роки тому

      @@viraltiktok9603 well that hard LMAO but mostly I won't cuz I want a real love not by looks or money or fame or good grade

    • @Je11keng
      @Je11keng 2 роки тому

      You read my mind lmao 🤣

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      true!

  • @That_one_edgy_metalhead
    @That_one_edgy_metalhead 2 роки тому +27

    The way that was recommended to me felt like a personal attack

  • @grimygaming
    @grimygaming 2 роки тому +23

    Not having a crush anymore on someone that wasn’t into you is really the most liberating feeling ever. Sometimes the right decision is to just cut your crush out of your life completely. although it’s not nice to your crush, it’s probably the best for your heart especially if that person really never cared about you as much as you did for them.

    • @paniniprincess5211
      @paniniprincess5211 2 роки тому +2

      Definitely that's what I did too! Sometimes you just need space put yourself first!

    • @cindymohamedkheir
      @cindymohamedkheir 2 роки тому +2

      Easier said than done. I tried to do that multiple times but I always end up going back to him.

    • @grimygaming
      @grimygaming 2 роки тому +1

      @@cindymohamedkheir not easy at all. It’s happened to me where I felt guilty for distancing myself from my crush and kept going back and apologizing for distancing myself. But once you commit to the idea that you are happier without that person it becomes possible.

    • @cindymohamedkheir
      @cindymohamedkheir 2 роки тому

      @@grimygaming I'm going to try my best, thanks for your help :)

    • @Sam-xq3tu
      @Sam-xq3tu 2 роки тому

      @@grimygaming did he ever try chasing after you cuz he missed you?

  • @xkaydv
    @xkaydv 2 роки тому +19

    Sign 1: you have a crush on them

  • @ZayJayPlays
    @ZayJayPlays 2 роки тому +13

    Me after watching this with little to no signs of my crush not being into me: Still too risky to try.

  • @dibidibidimynameisminho1181
    @dibidibidimynameisminho1181 Рік тому +18

    Man , I actually had the courage to talk to my crush today. He was leaving so I tapped his shoulder and the only thing that could come out was: "I like your jacket" 💀 . He said "thank you" and I just said " you're welcome" and I left. It wasn't the best but at least it's a start.

  • @mybrainmeatshurt
    @mybrainmeatshurt 2 роки тому +16

    "I can't go out this weekend, I need to study for finals"
    "You graduated 15 years ago"

    • @samf.s8786
      @samf.s8786 2 роки тому

      I don't know, maybe they're just an introvert. 🤣 We'll cling to any excuse if it means we get to stay home longer lol 😆

    • @mybrainmeatshurt
      @mybrainmeatshurt 2 роки тому

      @@samf.s8786 Pfft, I'm an introvert too and I'll at least have the decency to say I'd rather just stay home.

  • @ash.4817
    @ash.4817 2 роки тому +24

    I really need this to get my head back on it's track. Girllll focus on yourself first stop wasting time for him 😭😭

    • @heartzy_
      @heartzy_ 2 роки тому

      “girl” “him” are you assuming peoples genders and preferences ☠️

    • @kamoko6295
      @kamoko6295 2 роки тому +2

      Girl sameeee😭😔💀

    • @ash.4817
      @ash.4817 2 роки тому

      @@heartzy_ Lol. No and pls don't get unnecessarily triggered. I am referring this comment to myself. I am a 'girl' and I like 'him'. That's all. Thank you.

  • @Jade_West2010
    @Jade_West2010 2 роки тому +66

    0:21 They Talk to you often about their crushes
    0:36 They don't open up or show their true self around you
    1:03 They never try or want to be alone with you
    1:31 They're always busy and not available for you
    1:55 They haven't asked you out
    2:12 They don't remember things you tell them about yourself

  • @TheSaneHatter
    @TheSaneHatter 2 роки тому +14

    You know what might be an interesting exercise? Describing this dynamic from the other side. After more than one presentation along these lines, a video like, "Are you ignoring someone with a crush on you?" could be a really thoughtful approach to try . . . and maybe save someone from making a mistake.

    • @phoebeats
      @phoebeats 2 роки тому +1

      I listened to this vid from the perspective "was I into them" by thinking whether my behavior matched or opposed this vid's descriptions

    • @meganmann9970
      @meganmann9970 2 роки тому +1

      This would be so interesting!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +2

      Great suggestion!

  • @cyrus2546
    @cyrus2546 3 місяці тому +24

    My crush looked me in the eye and said “I think you’re a jerk and I wouldn’t date you if you were the last guy on earth.”
    I’m so confused. What do you guys think that means?

  • @bee2396
    @bee2396 Рік тому +24

    Me: *clicks off the video halfway through bc it's officially hopeless*

  • @ramennkimchi.5346
    @ramennkimchi.5346 2 роки тому +48

    The points covered in the video!!
    ✨ They talk to you often about their crushes!
    ✨ They don't open up or show their true self around you!
    ✨ They never try or want to be alone with you!
    ✨ They're always busy and not available for you!
    ✨ They don't remember things you tell them about yourself!

    • @Anguu777
      @Anguu777 2 роки тому

      Thanks 🙂....

  • @shadowknight_studios7588
    @shadowknight_studios7588 2 роки тому +19

    Reasons why I stopped having crushes 😔

  • @cryspbacon
    @cryspbacon 2 роки тому +14

    my last crush basically scarred me from crushing on anyone again. it’s been nine years & i’m just not into the rejection again.

  • @mariianosova5823
    @mariianosova5823 2 роки тому +34

    Imagine having a courage to like ask ur crush out or to hang out even man

    • @navya1489
      @navya1489 2 роки тому +5

      Well my crush is my best friend…

    • @thatoneguyPCB
      @thatoneguyPCB 2 роки тому

      @@navya1489 lol, same

  • @adindaarini2547
    @adindaarini2547 2 роки тому +51

    1. they talk often about their crush
    2. they dont show up about themselves to you
    3. They never try / dont wanna be alone with you
    4. They always busy n dont available with you
    5. They havent asked you to hang out
    6. they dont remember thongs about you

    • @akaisoras
      @akaisoras 2 роки тому +17

      Thongs?

    • @karolinanie5946
      @karolinanie5946 2 роки тому +4

      @@akaisoras I definitely would remember anyone talking about her/his thongs too much 🤣

    • @venus-zi3ew
      @venus-zi3ew 2 роки тому +4

      HELEPPEPE THONGS

    • @kiiiograms6210
      @kiiiograms6210 2 роки тому +1

      @@akaisoras HELPP

    • @sphere9325
      @sphere9325 2 роки тому +2

      IM CHOKiNG 💀💀💀😭 THonGS
      /SRS

  • @andrew0319
    @andrew0319 2 роки тому +12

    I recently have a crush, but I’m currently keeping my distance so that way these feelings would fade away cause I wanna see them as a friend again :)

  • @kaccordeon3692
    @kaccordeon3692 2 роки тому +17

    yes but if your crush is one of your close friends it's hard to differentiate, even with this video

  • @mohammedamir-2005
    @mohammedamir-2005 2 роки тому +16

    None of my crushes were ever into me and I don’t need to see a video about it to make sure😂

  • @nostalgia9338
    @nostalgia9338 2 роки тому +28

    From my experience lol
    If the ball is in their court and they don’t swing. Even if he’s a shy guy/girl and you have made it very easy for them by asking them out and explicitly telling them that you like them. If that doesn’t make the reciprocate easily, they’re not into you.

    • @sacha7202
      @sacha7202 2 роки тому +5

      It hurts to hear this but you're telling facts

    • @stary_holic
      @stary_holic 2 роки тому

      What if she/he is totally broken by the very bad experiences from their past relationship and she/he is not sure if the new relationship will not end the same bad, so she/he better rejects you than try a relationship.

    • @nostalgia9338
      @nostalgia9338 2 роки тому +1

      @@stary_holic In my case, I didn't give up. I still believed he was shy and really afraid of rejection. I kept dropping hints, flirting, complimenting etc...texting him, still believing men can be terrified of women, made myself appear "less intimidating" so many chances for him to open up and if he still hasn't, then hes not into you despite all the "signs" you believed in.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      true true!

  • @berry.1uvr
    @berry.1uvr 2 роки тому +38

    Easiest sign - he has a girlfriend.

  • @imyourloyalsenpai2400
    @imyourloyalsenpai2400 Рік тому +20

    for some reason, when there's a possibility that me and my crush will be alone, I try my best to get a friend. And also if we and my crush IS alone, I always walk faster. Its too embarassing for me to think for topics because we have opposite hobbies. Our talks always awkward.

  • @sushidashi6152
    @sushidashi6152 2 роки тому +24

    Pov: you’re best friends with your crush and they do the opposite of all of this but you still can’t figure out if they like you back :’)

  • @Obsidian_GTR
    @Obsidian_GTR 2 роки тому +13

    Part of the reason why I stopped caring 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @laraj.6134
    @laraj.6134 Рік тому +13

    Through watching almost all videos about crushes I just notice more and more that my crush propably doesn't like me back

  • @atinukearianaa3791
    @atinukearianaa3791 2 роки тому +51

    You guys talk to your crush?

    • @ruchira1tuku
      @ruchira1tuku 2 роки тому +6

      No. We avoid them.

    • @atinukearianaa3791
      @atinukearianaa3791 2 роки тому

      @@nataliarubijuarez5519 Heyy same here it happens to me too. Although I don’t talk to him all even as little as exchanging greetings since 2019. Ans I know fully well that he never liked me, he doesn’t like me and he never will. And yet he lives in my head rent free. I keep wondering when it would all end🥲

    • @itz_choclatebear3382
      @itz_choclatebear3382 2 роки тому

      yes he likes me too

  • @junkewk
    @junkewk 2 роки тому +31

    all these signs can mean the opposite too lol, sometimes you just avoid someone you like because you believe its not going to work between you both. I get uncomfortable around people i like and try my best to ignore them so that i don't end up doing smth stupid...

  • @airen8009
    @airen8009 2 роки тому +66

    1.↓
    .0:22
    -: They talk to you often about their crushes
    2.↓
    .0:37
    -: They don't open up or show their true self around you
    3.↓
    .1:06
    -: They never try or want to be alone with you
    4.↓
    .1:31
    -: They're always busy & not available for you
    5.
    .1:55
    -: They haven't asked you out
    6.↓
    .2:12
    -: They don't remember things you tell them about yourself

  • @meow_7th
    @meow_7th 2 роки тому +15

    My feelings for my crush faded as i noticed that she never reciprocated anything-the time, the effort, and the energy-i finally realized my worth.

    • @almatrzabayev
      @almatrzabayev 2 роки тому +1

      Same thing happened to me. Except, I am on the opposite side of the story. I had feelings for her, but was too afraid to act on them; 'cause I didn't know what she felt about me.
      But recently she told me that she liked me for quite a while, but not anymore.
      Could you please help me on this, as I am really confused?

    • @Okkkkokk
      @Okkkkokk 2 роки тому +1

      @@almatrzabayevshe like u a littel but but not anymore.

  • @ramyeonikiii
    @ramyeonikiii 2 роки тому +11

    What really sucks is that he used to never talk about other people, always find ways to be alone with me, he was always free when he sees me alone and in need of someone to talk to, he liked to ask me to play board games with him alone, and he always remembered things I tell him about myself. I was a bit too late to realize that he maybe liked me before, and now I'm the one who's chasing after him.
    4 years. That's how long I liked him and also how long I regret not noticing. I was too blind. I was just a kid:(

    • @ramyeonikiii
      @ramyeonikiii 2 роки тому

      @theMX89 It's fineee, sure it hurts but he was worth all the butterflies. What sucks though is that even though I dont think he likes me anymore now, I still do.

  • @bryangeraldo1757
    @bryangeraldo1757 Рік тому +29

    Time to learn reality

  • @psychoticcoconut4047
    @psychoticcoconut4047 2 роки тому +15

    It scares me thinking about how my crush may very well be searching "how to know if someone has a crush on me"

  • @aria5816
    @aria5816 2 роки тому +25

    Watching this for the second time cos we keep making eye contact and he even smiled...

  • @introvert357
    @introvert357 2 роки тому +30

    I confessed to him yesterday, you're a kinda late, algorithm

    • @fakehuman9694
      @fakehuman9694 2 роки тому +2

      lolll

    • @yuul7178
      @yuul7178 2 роки тому

      Awww how'd it go?

    • @shrutik9673
      @shrutik9673 2 роки тому +2

      @@yuul7178 read the room my man ,read the room

    • @carysrubio7246
      @carysrubio7246 2 роки тому

      @@shrutik9673 lmao you've gotta good point

  • @sharjesm
    @sharjesm 2 роки тому +15

    so...not only does my crush not like me, but nor does my family and friends. dayum.

  • @wHyAmIhErE-3
    @wHyAmIhErE-3 2 роки тому +28

    Pov : You never had the guts to talk with your crush

    • @cha0ticClipzz
      @cha0ticClipzz 2 роки тому +4

      Bro it could not get more relatable

  • @yvetual
    @yvetual 2 роки тому +21

    Video: 6 Signs Your Crush Isn’t Really Into You
    Also Video: (Puts you in a scenario where you and your crush are actually friends)
    Me, who is basically a background character in my crush’s life:
    *”damn…”*

  • @DraconiInfernalus
    @DraconiInfernalus 2 роки тому +11

    some people tend to never talk about any personal or "deep" things in general with anyone. because of trust issues.
    my crush is giving me often mixed signals. but he is also a insecure person. he is afraid of a deep connection with another person because of past experiences.
    people are not checklists and these points are just hints.

  • @Sina-dv1eg
    @Sina-dv1eg Рік тому +16

    My crush literally asked me out, yet I'm still watching this because my stupid brain is convinced that nobody could be into me

    • @Iemonic
      @Iemonic Рік тому +1

      did you say yes?

  • @serene1486
    @serene1486 2 роки тому +20

    IM SO TIRED GOD WHEN WILL THINGS TURN RIGHT FOR ME

  • @ives3572
    @ives3572 2 роки тому +12

    Food For Thought: That's why it's called "crush," because you get "crushed" in the end.

    • @Je11keng
      @Je11keng 2 роки тому +1

      I don't really because that.

  • @soonaumi6620
    @soonaumi6620 2 роки тому +14

    It hurts really bad when u do everything in your power to talk to her and get try to know her better, as well as sacrifice what u have and your time to make her happy or be with her. Then she stays distant and after a long time u hear she has a crush on someone else. 😭😭😭 It happens all the time for me

    • @p.s1034
      @p.s1034 2 роки тому +2

      Hopefully this video will help people recognize quicker someone is just not into you and avoid such things

    • @samueldavid1757
      @samueldavid1757 2 роки тому

      happened to me recently. we basically talk on an online chatting platform for 5 months, i got to know her and vice versa. Turns out, few days ago, he met some guy, and she said she liked him. i can't believe i've sacrificed 5 months of my time just to get overtaken by some random guy she met online.

    • @rymreaper
      @rymreaper 2 роки тому +2

      If you're sacrificing everything to make her happy then you're doing it wrong

  • @deathseeker7994
    @deathseeker7994 Рік тому +27

    1. Check......
    2. Check......
    3. Check......
    Im.... Damned

  • @n.ddrawings1865
    @n.ddrawings1865 2 роки тому +31

    i got destrooyed , but knowing the truth better than fake hopes

  • @neon_nyan270
    @neon_nyan270 2 роки тому +50

    POV: you’re looking in the comments for time stamps 🤡

  • @self-improvement5731
    @self-improvement5731 2 роки тому +24

    Nice, it's time to move on

  • @I_kidnaplittlegirls
    @I_kidnaplittlegirls 2 роки тому +13

    What if like NEVER talk to them in person 😻

    • @WelfareCenter
      @WelfareCenter 2 роки тому +2

      Here is what Avatar the last airbender taught me.
      "Thats rough buddy"

  • @BOOMcherrytalk
    @BOOMcherrytalk 2 роки тому +36

    why am i watching this
    even though i have no crush

  • @vinhtrieu8060
    @vinhtrieu8060 2 роки тому +11

    idk why I'm still watching this video, I straight up told her my feeling and she don't return the feelings. being all polite and nice, luckily we are still friend.
    but it just unsettling, I can feel she so close but so far away. because I know it will never gonna be me.

  • @Missy_1D
    @Missy_1D 2 роки тому +9

    I’ve had a crush on this person for a YEAR now, never opened up to them though. I thought he liked me....
    *until I watched this*

  • @gaiaaprile9003
    @gaiaaprile9003 2 роки тому +23

    my crush... well I've been liking him for almost 2 years. Now he's in a relationship with one of his classmates, I helped him get with that girl, and I'm happy for him, but well it also hurts a lot :)

    • @toottoot2121
      @toottoot2121 2 роки тому +3

      i did the same twice for the same person and honestly i would feel insecure cause i would compare myself with those people he liked. there was a point that i told him i liked him and he led me on for half a year, then decided to ghost me after i moved. honestly ive seem situation where people can feel possessive, and not understand. you’re quite the selfless and understanding person…maybe he hasnt seen the person you are. i hope things turn out well for you. you deserve a good person who would appreciate you. wether its him or someone else, good luck!!!

    • @gaiaaprile9003
      @gaiaaprile9003 2 роки тому +1

      @@toottoot2121 thank you so much😭 wow reading that was a rollercoaster of emotions💀✨

    • @caiebkrieg
      @caiebkrieg 2 роки тому

      i am worried that ill face this one day, im mentally preparing myself. im not in a girl > boy situation. im a boy in this situation and im sure there is someone more mature for her. im just stabbed but id get over it one day once i understand she doesnt feel the same way

  • @rimshakhalid787
    @rimshakhalid787 2 роки тому +14

    Can u guys PLZZZ PLEASE PLEASE do a video about one sided friendships I’m going through it rn and it’s been very painful and difficult I’m so confused and feel guilty for my choice I put Sm effort into it and receive nothing back also it’s not a toxic manipulative type of friendship more like I’m always putting the effort to say hi how r u r u okay how’s family sending so much stuff like videos pictures u name it and it’s never been her giving it to me or saying it to me I’m putting in 70% of the work & she’s giving me 30% it’s so frustrating and disappointing for me after all these years since College I’ve been fighting for our friendship to the point where I failed a class and had to move into a new college now she’s got work and has fully changed into someone I thought I was close too but not anymore, going out feels boring too the energy is just not there :( she’s never there for me when I need the comfort & uplifting
    Could you guys also recommend healthy & non toxic ways to distance yourself from them if they feel something is wrong in a healthy non suspicious way cuz I don’t want any drama I just want to handle it slowly, maturely & without any fights.

  • @Zouly
    @Zouly Рік тому +14

    My crush actually was the first one that found me and started chatting with me, we hit it off quite good and had so many similar interests. We talked for a few months and for 2 weeks we barely chatted, i have a major crush on her now and think about her every single day and hour. She doesn’t respond to my snaps so often anymore so i am not sure what’s going on. She’s the sweetest, kindest and preetiest girl i’ve ever met.

    • @dibidibidimynameisminho1181
      @dibidibidimynameisminho1181 Рік тому +2

      That sounds so cute! Maybe she's having issues or something else is going on in her life. But you can just keep looking out for her and show that you care.

  • @NIGHTBLOODUSAGI
    @NIGHTBLOODUSAGI Рік тому +15

    this sounds alot more like a friend who doesn't want to be your friend-

  • @mokleymoke
    @mokleymoke 2 роки тому +22

    Hey, people of the comments. Just a reminder that this video is also, in some aspects, heavily relied on the personality of a person. For example, I completely fell in love with a super emotionally detached person who's quiet, judgemental, and seem like they don't care about you at all. That's genuinely just the way he is, and his true self, who is caring, gentle and understanding, shows when he knows you more, but he still would not open up to you at all. Some people are simply brought up a certain way, does not necessarily mean they don't like you. Love takes patience, persistence (not in a creepy way) and passion!
    Edit: for those of you that might wonder how the hell I fell in love with such a person in the first place?
    TW warning: S.H. and Suicide.
    Well, he was one of the only people that genuinely cared about me through my suicidal and self harming times which I am still going through. He takes your problems seriously and looks for a logical way out of it. He really cares on the inside and it's clear as crystals in the broad daylight. Although he might seem emotionally detached and a judgemental asshole (which, both of those are true to some extent), everyone can be a sweetheart to the people they care about, and everyone changes for the people they care about. He has changed for the better in many ways, through my patience and understanding.

    • @samf.s8786
      @samf.s8786 2 роки тому

      I can't read the second half of your comment, so thanks for the heads up!!
      But you're spot on with that first part tbh.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому

      ty for the story and perspective

  • @v1xv0x
    @v1xv0x Рік тому +18

    we are not close at all but i admire him scretely

  • @Jellyfhsi
    @Jellyfhsi 2 роки тому +11

    Crushing isnt easy for me knowing they wont love me back

    • @Just_Santi
      @Just_Santi 2 роки тому +2

      you're lucky, I get crushes too easy 😅

    • @3NewDay
      @3NewDay 2 роки тому +2

      That is why I make sure I never have a celebrity crush. Why have a crush on someone I have no chance of being with? It will only make me depressed.

    • @samf.s8786
      @samf.s8786 2 роки тому +2

      @@Just_Santi it's a skill that you gotta pick up, the moment you start thinking "they're cute" instead of building them up in your head, just don't!
      Don't do anything for them that they're not doing...you can and will be happier with someone who wants you. It's the most important thing. If it's not there, don't crush on that person.
      For me, this came with aging, it's not built in, it's a skill 😁
      Will save your sanity, trust me!

    • @samf.s8786
      @samf.s8786 2 роки тому

      @@3NewDay That should completely go away as you grow older, don't worry 😊
      Like, you won't even entertain the idea.

    • @3NewDay
      @3NewDay 2 роки тому

      @@samf.s8786 Yeah, I have gotten pretty good at it. I have learned how to control my mind. The sadness I have from being single and people I have fair contact with not liking me motivates me even more to ignore the celebrities to avoid making me feel worse.

  • @eros3453
    @eros3453 2 роки тому +28

    YALL I MAY HAVE A CHANCE-

  • @roggiepogi211
    @roggiepogi211 2 роки тому +15

    I'm giving up today haha.
    I'm tired of chasing people.

    • @destinyup1710
      @destinyup1710 2 роки тому +7

      Focus on and learn to appreciate yourself that way people will chase you

    • @omi5614
      @omi5614 2 роки тому +2

      @@destinyup1710 thank you Floppa :,)

    • @destinyup1710
      @destinyup1710 2 роки тому +1

      @@omi5614 :)

    • @omi5614
      @omi5614 2 роки тому

      @@destinyup1710 I uploaded a video of you on my channel :D

    • @destinyup1710
      @destinyup1710 2 роки тому +1

      @@omi5614 omg ur amazing thx for supporting my family

  • @milhouse8166
    @milhouse8166 2 роки тому +11

    If someone doesn't have the decency to let you know where they stand they are not worth your time. Politely move on.

  • @rustydusty3646
    @rustydusty3646 2 роки тому +9

    I just don't have crushes I don't let my self, they are a waste of energy

  • @kimberlydeleon8277
    @kimberlydeleon8277 Рік тому +25

    i finally got a perfect score because of this, 6/6 💯

  • @dazaidazaii
    @dazaidazaii 2 роки тому +19

    someone needs to hear tbh
    "f-r-i-e-n-d-s
    we're just friends."

  • @yoursweethoneyyyy
    @yoursweethoneyyyy 2 роки тому +14

    6 signs your crush isn’t really into you:
    🫀they talk to you often about their crushes.
    🫀they don’t open up or show their true self around you.
    🫀they never try or want to be alone with you.
    🫀they’re always busy and not available for you.
    🫀they haven’t asked you out.
    🫀they don’t remember things you tell them about yourself.

  • @strawbsy7731
    @strawbsy7731 7 місяців тому +24

    Anyone else watching this even though they’re introverted and can’t even make a conversation with them 😅

    • @myluvisdahlia
      @myluvisdahlia 7 місяців тому +2

      It's hard to be an introvert 🥲

    • @Aritra_Krishnapriya
      @Aritra_Krishnapriya 7 місяців тому

      Here I am 😔 I do not dare to speak to my crush.....

    • @Aritra_Krishnapriya
      @Aritra_Krishnapriya 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@myluvisdahlia yes exactly 🥲

    • @MrHams623
      @MrHams623 7 місяців тому

      Yeah💀

    • @13.carlosm.58
      @13.carlosm.58 7 місяців тому +1

      thats not really what being an introverted is tho