i've come to terms with this now, that escaping is not an option and the only way out of my depression is through. to live every long day, to go very much through every and any moment that pains me - because it's going to be worth it. and every one of those moments is a lesson, building me up to living a life that is instead full of flourishing and loving the life around me. i'm going to learn how to love living !!! and i'm going to ENJOY IT
a positive mindset only gets you so far, can´t just escape materialist causes of unhappiness... instead of just building the "house" in your head, connect with others to create those "houses"
In Norway, people in bigger cities often own "Hytte" which is basically like a vacation home except intenionally isolated from other people, have little technology (no WiFi, limited or no phone service, sometimes no running water etc...) and are often from like the 1960's if not older, mine is for instance built by my grandpa in 1964 and has stayed almost the exact same since. This is definitely a nice balance between city life and "escaping it all"
@princesscoco6434 the idea is from Albert Camus's The myth of Sisyphus he stated the the meaningless cycle that Sisyphus lives in isn't much different from our modern work life and we must find joy and happiness in the few hours we're free in in Sisyphus's case, the moment that he reaches the top of the mountain and sees the view while he's walking down the mountain without the burden of the boulder. So yeah, in some sense. It's about accepting the suffering
The picture in the thumbnail is some kind of police station thing in Gothenburg, Sweden. It's in the biggest park in the whole city and has a mini zoo with penguins and seals and reindeer and stuff. Just a fun fact.
You're just glossing over the idea that some people REALLY don't want to partake in organised society. I don't fancy living in a concrete tomb, stuffed next to a hundred other identical concrete tombs, next to people who I have nothing in common with, who don't share my ideals in the slightest. In fact, their ideas seem entirely alien to me. It won't cure my bipolar, but not having to deal this constant bombardment of other people, news, advertisements, shops, buses, cars or whatever the fuck would do me good. I don't feel nothing but disdain and disgust for anything not part of the natural world.
yes i do get the disdain and the desire of getting away from that type of environment but the way i view it is that until we are disconnected and finally removed from those surroundings we should find some comfort in ourselves, to not focus only on the negatives on our present but to actually enjoy it for the thing it is no matter how many problems there are in our environment
@@eternallybound And how do you suggest those with mood disorders/personality disorders overcome this idea of moving past the negatives? Your idea wasn't very thought out and comes over as extremely arrogant, completely disregarding the socio-economic reasons as to why people may be unhappy, not to mention the uncertainty of the current world. People feel like I do because A) they don't feel like they belong and haven't felt like they belonged ever, B) have social/financial issues causing them to be unhappy (I.E, if you're trans, gay, of colour, poor, or in any other way disenfranchised), and C) may have gone through extremely horrific/traumatic situations that you couldn't even begin to fathom. Yes, there's a lot of beauty if you look closely, but you have to wade through layers of shit, piss, vomit, death and decay to see it.
Sorry for the late response. My idea wasn't to come across as ignorant to deeper issues such as mental disorders or trauma but the point is that in order to fully resolve something you are dealing with you need to approach it both physically and mentally. Getting away from an environment that you don't like is sure to help but its not going to resolve the situation fully. And thats where we also have to take into consideration the fact that we must also take care of resolving our problems mentally as well. Im not saying that thinking happy is magically going to help us out, but taking the time to find satisfaction and gratitude within ourselves is a huge step towards solving our problems. Finding an answer to your problems both physically and mentally was what the video tried to portray
Eventually the "a house in the wood" was never a physical thing and you would be ginormously stupid to want to escape ur environment for its negativities. Well done videos pal keep making the good content
this is the equivalent of "If you're depressed, just smile lol"
i've come to terms with this now, that escaping is not an option and the only way out of my depression is through. to live every long day, to go very much through every and any moment that pains me - because it's going to be worth it. and every one of those moments is a lesson, building me up to living a life that is instead full of flourishing and loving the life around me. i'm going to learn how to love living !!! and i'm going to ENJOY IT
HELL YEAAHHHH keep working on it !! love everything about your life and most importantly love for yourself!!
a positive mindset only gets you so far, can´t just escape materialist causes of unhappiness...
instead of just building the "house" in your head, connect with others to create those "houses"
In Norway, people in bigger cities often own "Hytte" which is basically like a vacation home except intenionally isolated from other people, have little technology (no WiFi, limited or no phone service, sometimes no running water etc...) and are often from like the 1960's if not older, mine is for instance built by my grandpa in 1964 and has stayed almost the exact same since. This is definitely a nice balance between city life and "escaping it all"
"Just be happy bro" Oh shit thanks man very helpful
sometimes it is as simple as that
@@eternallybound You seem very small-minded and unable to conjure up any empathy for others. Maybe make animations and keep your opinions to yourself.
Don't care, still want that cabin in the woods.
Can't escape your own self tho
isn't this just an exurb2a post with the title shuffled around so it seems original??
ik he made a video about the topic and the title idea is from him but idk if the points we made are the same since i didnt watch it
maybe if american cities weren't such hellscapes at the moment i wouldn't mind them so much
One must imagine Sisyphus happy....
I imagine sysuphus is not happy, but he is accepting or maybe indifferent
@princesscoco6434 the idea is from Albert Camus's The myth of Sisyphus
he stated the the meaningless cycle that Sisyphus lives in isn't much different from our modern work life
and we must find joy and happiness in the few hours we're free in
in Sisyphus's case, the moment that he reaches the top of the mountain and sees the view while he's walking down the mountain without the burden of the boulder.
So yeah, in some sense. It's about accepting the suffering
I hear you, but I still want the cabin in the woods option.
pedestrian
im pretty happy in a cabin in the woods
The picture in the thumbnail is some kind of police station thing in Gothenburg, Sweden. It's in the biggest park in the whole city and has a mini zoo with penguins and seals and reindeer and stuff. Just a fun fact.
This channel is way too underrated
That paradise is an overrated place
"wow"
hello exurb1a
exurbia inspo right?
You're just glossing over the idea that some people REALLY don't want to partake in organised society. I don't fancy living in a concrete tomb, stuffed next to a hundred other identical concrete tombs, next to people who I have nothing in common with, who don't share my ideals in the slightest. In fact, their ideas seem entirely alien to me. It won't cure my bipolar, but not having to deal this constant bombardment of other people, news, advertisements, shops, buses, cars or whatever the fuck would do me good. I don't feel nothing but disdain and disgust for anything not part of the natural world.
yes i do get the disdain and the desire of getting away from that type of environment but the way i view it is that until we are disconnected and finally removed from those surroundings we should find some comfort in ourselves, to not focus only on the negatives on our present but to actually enjoy it for the thing it is no matter how many problems there are in our environment
@@eternallybound And how do you suggest those with mood disorders/personality disorders overcome this idea of moving past the negatives? Your idea wasn't very thought out and comes over as extremely arrogant, completely disregarding the socio-economic reasons as to why people may be unhappy, not to mention the uncertainty of the current world. People feel like I do because A) they don't feel like they belong and haven't felt like they belonged ever, B) have social/financial issues causing them to be unhappy (I.E, if you're trans, gay, of colour, poor, or in any other way disenfranchised), and C) may have gone through extremely horrific/traumatic situations that you couldn't even begin to fathom.
Yes, there's a lot of beauty if you look closely, but you have to wade through layers of shit, piss, vomit, death and decay to see it.
Sorry for the late response. My idea wasn't to come across as ignorant to deeper issues such as mental disorders or trauma but the point is that in order to fully resolve something you are dealing with you need to approach it both physically and mentally. Getting away from an environment that you don't like is sure to help but its not going to resolve the situation fully. And thats where we also have to take into consideration the fact that we must also take care of resolving our problems mentally as well. Im not saying that thinking happy is magically going to help us out, but taking the time to find satisfaction and gratitude within ourselves is a huge step towards solving our problems. Finding an answer to your problems both physically and mentally was what the video tried to portray
Disagree.
Eventually the "a house in the wood" was never a physical thing and you would be ginormously stupid to want to escape ur environment for its negativities. Well done videos pal keep making the good content
Exactlyyy, thank u for watching ;*