My casual golf buddy thinks we're better friends than we are
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- Опубліковано 24 жов 2024
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Hanging out with someone multiple times a week outside of a work for a whole year and saying hes not your friend is insane 💀
Solid douchebag for sure
I've never seen someone in denial about being someones friend 😂
Yeah I’ve never crossed that line of hanging out with coworkers outside of work, but if you cross that line that means you’re friends maybe not close friends but still friends big leap considering most people can’t stand there coworkers
@@cbrock6520 Hanging out with coworkers outside of work doesnt necessarily make you friends, its the fact that it was multiple times a week for an entire year that makes them friends.
@@awerawer0708I mean, what do you call anyone that you hang out with socially, more than once, and on purpose? That’s a “friend”. There’s different levels of friendships.
100% this call wouldn't have taken place if the girlfriends friends were hot.
😂😂 That's IT
Yeah this dude is delusional 😅 thinking that it was a guarantee that any of the bridesmaids would even want to jump his bones.
The caller thinks the golf buddy is 'beneath' him, and doesn't want to consider him as an equal. No hot gf friends is another sign of that
This is my new answer to literally every guy calling into complain about their woman.
100% whatever it is wouldn’t be an issue if her friends were hot lol.
@@kjr4946the guy must be his “fat friend”
Maybe I’m weird. But I don’t hangout with people I’m not friends with lol.
You get drinks together, hangout, go golfing once a week. But you’re not friends? That’s just so weird to me
Golfing and drinks has gotta be like 6 hours a week.
Thats like the majority of most peoples social time, how much time does this dude spend with his "actual friends"
Yea bro working together, hanging out outside of work once a week sounds like at the very least a good friend.
Seems to me like the caller probably doesn't really do 'friendship' the way a well-adjusted adult normally would.
@libertariansasquatch If you finished post secondary 5 years ago and your still maintaining serious relationships with 6 different dudes you don't run a business with??? If yall rich whatever, but if you got 9-5s and yall getting together multiple times a week 😆 I got homies I ain't seen in years we don't keep in touch we got kids were men, this dude sounds high maintenence
@@jasonvan3887 having friends as an adult is childish.
This dude calling in like “help, someone wants to be my friend!”
Bringing depth to the “Stavys World Humblebrag Call”
I don't think this guy understands how friends work
He thinks guy friends are supposed to build intimate sensitive relationships as adults or something 🙄 he asks me for "primetime" escalate it... this is crazy
Its fine to just want a loose friendship with someone, but the way to do that is to just say no to other stuff, you can't really walk back an escalation easily without having a life change ad an excuse.
That being said, yeah dude you hang out with the guy multiple times a week for drinks and golf for over a year, you are friends at that point man you can't bitch about getting a wedding invite.
@@jasonvan3887 hung around too much women, that's how women have friends, not men
@@nolp2898it’s also sometimes you may think the relationship doesn’t mean anything to you but if it means that much to the other person maybe they don’t have a lot of friends and what not
My bestest straightest friend Nichauraus Mulldogged hasn’t the slightest idea of what these group of tards are even trying to convey
I have good friends that live in the area. Dont get to see them nearly as often as this guy hangs with his “not friend” lmao
The not friend is a convenient person to hang with, golfing by yourself can be a pain, and getting a drink at happy hour doesn’t mean shit. The callers coworker is just desperate
@@INGTHING1nah, the caller is just lame
@@INGTHING1thats only a good explanation if its just an every now and then thing. They’ve been hanging out on a weekly basis for over a year. If you’re an adult with a job and a life, it takes a lot of planning and commitment to maintain setting aside personal time for someone that often. I don’t see my actual best friends nearly as much as this caller sees this dude
@@brycehouse3544exactly, that’s an insane amount of time every week to spend with someone who’s just “convenient”. At that point you are either an ass or terrible at social understanding
They hangout every week but he can’t be a groomsman for a few hours, bummer
it was more than that. he wanted to upgrade the friendship and hang out much more
@@rickson50yeah probably because of the wedding. After the wedding it would go back to normal
@@rickson50God forbid someone wants to be a closer friend to someone they hang out with every week already. 😂 Tell us you're anti-social without telling us you're anti-social.
@@zenleeparadise Or they're already happy with the friends they have? No one is obligated to be your friend and they're not antisocial just because YOU really want to be close friends with them.
@@TheHeadlets like are you really gonna say most people in modern day America have people they work all the time with and hang out with for hours a week in their free time and don't consider that person a friend? It's a super abnormal perspective, and I get the sense the caller didn't have a busy social calendar, since that wasn't mentioned. It's not like the guy said he has a million other friend's weddings to attend that are more demanding. You're just pulling this hypothetical that doesn't actually apply to the story out of thin air - and I doubt the hypothetical applies to you yourself. When's the last time a coworker asked you to be a groomsman? Be real. This is a big deal, for most people, and even if most people would be surprised by a particular friend asking them this, most wouldn't be so antisocial that they have to call a stand up comedian's advice show to figure out how to navigate this. You think if he had other friends, maybe he might be asking them instead? Like, get real.
Guy says he was in the exact same situation, then talks about a guy who he never hung out with outside of work and wasnt actually friends with.
He wanted to humblebrag about how much cooler he is than the other dude. He'll take any opportunity to tell this story so everyone knows how many friends he has.
@@thomasfriesejr.9198 Bullseye
And of instead of being a man and saying he didn’t feel comfortable, he made the guy feel worthless. Seems like a bad dude.
Its embellished bullshit as well that Stav pushes him on
@@thomasfriesejr.9198ur tweaking😅
So he regularly drinks, hangs out and plays golf with a guy but they're not friends. Right. The weird thing is, this is not the first of such calls on this podcast.
Thats what i was thinking too. My best friends I still only see once a week but that apparently isn't enough for this guy lol
It's not about being friends, it's about not wanting to engage in more intimate settings.
Don't you have buddies from a hobby that you wouldn't invite on a camping trip?
Most men have the emotional intelligence of a neonate chimp, so I’m not surprised this has come up more than once
It means they don’t agree on deeper issues beyond small talk.
@@zsefton thats actually fair. i think you're right that's probably the case.
I don't think these guys understand how lonely and difficult it is for a lot of people to make friends. Sometimes if you hang out with a guy a couple times a month or less and it's going to feel imbalanced because this guy isn't as social as you. I've had a couple people text me out of the blue that want to hang out sometimes years after the fact and I almost forget about them because we feel so distant, but they hang out with so few people so seldom this is the realm that they consider friendship so I just reciprocate it's fine.
Yeah, I'm one of those people who never hangs out with people. But honestly, you can tell that the more social people view you as weird when you try to hang out with them, so I've just stopped completely. Like, having awkward social hangs with someone isn't really more satisfying that just being solitary.
Wise words. Without sound preachy thats what christ would want you to do. In the end you're a better person for having done so. And usually when you treat someone we'll down the road they return the favor when you need it most
@@user82938 that's cope. The more you spend time socializing the more comfortable you become. We are social animals, we need each other to live a happy life. Don't use awkward situations as an excuse to sit out from having friendships leading to a much more depressing life.
If we hangout once a week I am assuming we are close friends! I don’t see my best friend once a week
Thats what I’m saying. I’ve frequently gone months without seeing my closest friends just on accident because of being busy. It takes a lot of dedication to see someone weekly for a year on your personal time
It’s funny how it if the wife’s friends were hot this would be a completely different story
no doubt
Yeah that dude sucks
The more I watch , I hate this dude. You Golf Once a week with a guy for a year… that’s like 6-7+ hours at times once a week? And you don’t think you’re friends? You’ve said yes to weekend trips? And don’t think you’re friends?
Dude.. you might be a terrible friend. I’ll bet you don’t day “I love you” to any of the bros
Kinda gay dude
@@ANGELMAN.what of it?
Rick definitely knew that dude messed up his name on purpose. You can just say no instead of making up a stupid game to degrade the guy even more.
That dudes story is very likely a lie, it doesn't quite track
As a married dude I've been faced with the groomsman spot-filling conundrum, Fiance says, "hey I have 7 girlfriends that I have to have in my wedding... also I need the photos to have an even amount of guys and girls so I need you to invite 7 guy friends to be groomsmen". I don't know about you but that list is not that big for me. And of that list its even a smaller list of dudes that I could ask to be in my wedding. Its a tough one.
How are we assuming that the golf buddy is choosing him out of lack of friends? They spend a tonne of time together and the guy hasn’t communicated otherwise, thinking they’re friends isn’t weird at all.
this is what bothered me about it, the caller is acting like this guy is crazy to THINK it makes sense to have him as a groomsmen.
I hope the groom sees this and realizes what an asshole he has considered to be a good friend.
I feel sorry for Stav having such assholes as fans.
The man can say no. He is a coward and leading this other man along because he cannot admit this
Imagine calling a comedian's voice mail instead of just saying how you really feel to someone who considers you a friend. Pathetic
Caller is clearly a sociopath.
Bet this guy never left area where he grew up so has HS friends nearby, and has no desire to expand his friend group past who he met before turning 25
Wack
The set looking ragged 😂
😂 I want to know what happened to the statue! Anyone know?!?
The wops got tired of them talking shit
@@theexistentialtigers stav got hungry
Maybe I'm an idiot and this is all funy AF, but what I would do:
- He I want me to be your best man
- Dude, I'm flattred, but I don't think we are close enough. I'm really sorry, but I wouldn't be comfortable doing that.
This guy is the type to date a girl for a year and the freak out when she refers to him as her “boyfriend”.
Why can’t you just say, “no, thank you”?
What’s the point of being alive if you’re spending so much time with someone who’s not your friend
whoa what happened to the rotund Greek statue?!
Sex appeal
It symbolizes Stav's weight loss journey
@@StephenIC that's a bad omen 😬 "why did the statue of Dionysius crack??" "He's sobering up!" 😑
I actually think its fat adonis@@marcelwaddell6290
Bet dudes name was actually Rick. Lol
Whew thought he was talkin bout me 😬 then he said Rick... guess some other guy asked him too maybe I'm not so pathetic after all 😂
Really spamming the trans friend joke there big fella.
How, as an adult, are you making time to see someone and hang out EVERY WEEK…and you don’t view them as a close friend?
I’m fortunate enough to have quite a few people in my life that I would call good friends. I’ve frequently gone months without seeing those dudes. The only ones I see more than once or twice a month are my childhood friends I’ve known for like 20 years.
If you’re making plans and hanging out with them once a week for an extended period, thats definitely fair to say they’re your best friend. Idk why the caller is acting so shocked
Yeah, this dude seems wacky. The only person I hang out with more than this guy does his 'not friend' is my wife and we live together lol.
This really makes it seem like all those dysfunctional friend groups patterns were right and like this what happens when high school ends and the losers and the cool kids start to artificially mix together.
If i was asked to be a groomsman by someone i only considered an "acquaitance" and not a "friend" id be honored and saddened at the same time. since that means my friendship to them didnt mean as much to me, as their friendship to me meant to them, if that makes sense🤣🤣. but i also dont really recreationally hangout with people im not actually friends with LMAO.
love the group chemistry on this one
Justin gave advice equivalent to a nuclear bomb to the friendship 🤣
That is 100% the plot of I Love You, Man and they shut that guy down when he said it
Get a toga on that statue
This guy sucks at being a friend. What a terrible person
Cable guy arc
Sounds like these guys hang out more than I do with my good friends, lol
I was in a guys wedding that I maybe spent a total of 2 hours talking before he asked me. Really nice guy. Sucked there was no booze though at the only wedding I’ve been to in lol
3:20 sounds like the groomsmen side of “I Love You Man” 😂
11:43 lol oh
it was so nice having this lovely gay couple on the show
Caller is living in his home town guaranteed
gay dudes holding hands is hilarious
Damn I didn't even notice
Hangs out once a week. Not sure if friends. My brother, you've just been diagnosed with autism
you chose to give a full workday a week in time with this guy in the golf course, I’d forgive him for thinking y’all are better friends
It's pretty eye opening that a lot of guys just don't have friends. It's crazy that they can get girlfriends and marry, but they don't have friends.
i remember feeling like this... in highschool lol. when people id talk to in class would try to hangout with me outside of class. and i didnt know how to be like... listen dude. were friends in school because it'd be awkward to just say nothing all day to anyone. but outside of school, i prefer to play video games and be alone all day. i learned how to grow past this after leaving highschool though. now i straight up tell coworkers that think were friends naw dude, were friends at work, outside of work i dont think about any of this shit.
7:42 “iVe SeEn eVeRy ALiEnnNnNn!”
You couldn't hold a gun to my head and make me hang out with someone who's not my friend
Has stav lost weight or is it just that luscious hair?
Stav will do anything to lose weight except eat less and exercise
Yeah I've heard the camera adds weight but Stav looks pretty trim here.
@adamsteinken1185 Stav is a true hero who holds on to his principles
Gotta be the hair
I feel like part of this stems from the recent trend of people acting like you should never make friends at work
Bro sounded like Dutch from RDR at the end lmao
Everyone in the comments is delusional. He didn’t say they weren’t friends at all he said they weren’t close friends. Because they’re not. They’re golf buddies that see each other once a week or once every two weeks. He said that when they worked at the same job they’d get happy hour together every now and then. That isn’t the same thing as a friend lmao. I have past work friends that I’d have a drink with after work. That doesn’t make us friends wen we no longer work together
Fellas is it gay to admit you have a friend? Why’s this guy in denial about his friendship
I kinda get where this dude is coming from, I definitely have friends that are super casual but at the same time, if you’re getting drinks and golfing with this guy on a weekly to bi weekly basis, that’s one of your good friends at that point. Like how many hours are you spending golfing and getting drinks? 4-6 hours? That’s not some insignificant amount of time, for a lot of people that’s all the time they have to hangout with people in their week. So I can’t say I blame the guy for thinking the friendship is heading that way. Rule number 1 for stuff like this is you got to stop it from escalating in the first place. Say no to things and set your boundaries early and people (most of the time) will get the idea
I see my friends like twice a month lol
This guy doesn't have any obligation to be friends with this guy just cause he spends some time with him regularly. You can just be work acquaintances and golf buddies no need to know my family or hang out more.
Nah you're weird if the guy isn't a friend you don't do that much shit with them
The guest story is nothing like the callers lol, the caller hung out with the guy outside of work every week
What happened to statue? Lol
So many men would rather mistreat someone than feel bad about turning someone down to their face. That’s selfish as hell. You’re an adult, just have an honest conversation.
I have a crazy solution... just say no
He’s your friend bro
Just tell the casual buddy upfront you shouldn't be a groomsman in his wedding. Say you haven't earned it and it's to his benefit that he rescinded the invitation. Frame it in a way that decision is still his.
What happened to the set between today and yesterday clips
Lmao shout out glen burnie
Dudes name is Rick…I would’ve called him Kevin
I feel like I have heard this exact call before?
Listen being nice to a poor loner is never a bad thing. Some people are freaks and lonely. Christ would appreciate you being there for a poor slob no one else seems to like. You'll make that person really happy and in the end you'll feel happier too. Worse comes to worse, you can find another job or move to different town and then you don't have to worry about that dude anymore trying to be best friends
The caller is the weirdo in this story. There’s no evidence the other dude is even a loner. They have a completely normal friendship, the caller just has issues.
@@leastselfawarepotassium Maybe he just like playing golf with him because hes a good gofler. But yeah you're most likely right
@@johnnada yeah 100% nothing wrong with that but don’t act like the other dudes a weirdo for thinking you’re friends when you haven’t defined your relationship as anything otherwise.
what happened to the phat statue?
Wasn't this a call already?
Best man a bit much, just a grooms man, he's not giving a speech he's just standing there, some people don't have an abundance of friends. Drinks and golf 2- 4 times/month for 6 months is "friends" classification.
10:48 He's definitely gonna lose the golf thing.
Golfing is 1/4 of your weekend (sometimes more), most dudes with jobs don't want to spend that time with acquaintances. If being a groomsman is a problem, you're not friends, you're acquaintances at best.
This guy probably has other friends he can golf with and caller is taking up a spot in the foursome, if the caller doesn't want to be friends with this dude, he should be upfront.
Ok I keep googling trans comedian joe Robinson and clearly his SEO has not been optimized
i’m trying to figure out if comedian joe robinson is really trans
I fucking read this as Joe Rogan and I cackled like a witch
@@maxwellkazemba2299 💯
damn i was hoping someone in the comments had cracked the code to find trans comedian joe robinson
No shot the guest story is true
Be a groomsmen, avoid him for everything but golf....
What a Chad
You see him once a week sometimes more and he’s not a good friend? Huh?! I see my best friend once a month and I was his best man and we’ve been friends for 15 years
This guy's a weirdo
Who broke the statue?
Honestly this is just kinda sad for those guys who don't have real friends
With friends like these who needs enemies? The caller is a conniving little weasel
Shit like this is awkward AF. Had this happen with a dude at work, we’ve exchanged like a handful of words in a year, none of them particularly friendly IMO, and then I met his wife by accident the other day, and she was like “oh you’re so and so from work, Michael talks about you a lot.” Like whaaaaaat? I hope not. But just made me sad that he had so few friends he thought I was his friend.
"talking about you a lot" doesn't necessarily mean he likes you, Corndogg
@@sawyerstudio hahaha so true
@@sawyerstudio exactly. she was basically saying "youre the scumbag my husband hates at work!" politely lmao
My main friend is my plumber who I see a couple times a year at most.
Bro you suck. You assume he has no other friends because he talks to his wife about you. He probably talks to his wife about everyone else at work too, which is completely normal to do with your spouse.
idk man I don't even see my BEST friends every week--you see him on a weekly basis outside of work and think it's weird you'd be considered for a groomsman? Just tough it out and slowly ice him out then. You obviously like him enough to see him on a regular basis lol. It comes off like gay panic.
Also you would definitely not give a shit about this if the bridesmaids were hot.
Stavvy looking like hes got hot shorts on
Friends come and go. Dude is just picking you to fill the roster. Get over yourself, he probably doesn't even care that much. Be a man and say no. 😂
😂
You don’t hang w people that wouldn’t physically fight for you
louis ck looking rough
Wow TOmmy looks incredibly gay
these guests are whack
Yeah the dude in the middle is a douche. Brought up a situation that wasn't the same at all to humble brag on how well liked he is and he treated the guy like shit instead of just saying no.
@@northernspade1727 💯
What’s wrong with everyone here? Why would Justin do that to someone who wants to share something special with you? And laugh about it? Are we that self centered as a people now?
dude, you need a complete makeover of your studio. the statue is broken and the backdrop is awful. please, up the quality.
I feel like a lot of guys in the comments are overestimating their friendships
Or they just know how to bromunicate like a normal person.
Holding hands is gay
There are things way gayer than holding hands 🤷♂️ I'd say, on the scale, holding hands would be pretty low.
Boooooooooooo this guy
Was this a drinking game podcast episode where you take a shot every time they say our 'friend trans comedian Joe Robinson'??? Okkkk, we get it already... You're woke... You're and ally...
It's a joke my guy
Saying yes to the groomsmen was the mistake. You say no I can’t be a groomsman but I’ll go to the wedding. That would have solved the problem. It would have established a boundary
This is super weird. Like, why would you hang out every week with someone you don't like? Pro tip for life, if you wouldn't be happy for them to live with you, don't talk to them. Ghost anyone that you don't like enough to be best friends with.
Thats a bit extreme
this comment is insane
Maybe it's because I'm older and have a family, but I stopped wasting my time with people I didn't really like. I'll still be nice to people, and chat with them at social gatherings, but I actively avoid committing any extra time or energy to anyone outside of who I would consider a very close friend.
@@Yourmomma568I’m 26 and I learned this early on. It really saves you a lot of time and pain
@@ShakeBaker-nx5nlYeah I already have a core friend group who I trust a lot. When I start new jobs and shit, I make it pretty clear im not trying to make friends.
Cringe guest
Why are two grown men holding hands
Greek tradition
Why not?
You are sad just like the caller
You forgot to mention their trans comedian friend
Huge recession soon 🔵
Lol wut
Just logged on Fortnite
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