How to 10x Your Emotional Intelligence - Dr Lisa Feldman Barrett

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  • Опубліковано 14 січ 2025

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  • @ninjatall15
    @ninjatall15 Рік тому +24

    Summary for ADHD folks.
    - [00:00] 🧠 Understanding Affect vs. Emotions
    - The brain's primary role is to regulate the body's systems, sending and receiving signals constantly.
    - Affect, often referred to as mood, is a continuous, ever-present feeling that is with us 24/7.
    - Affect doesn't have one specific cause but arises from the ongoing internal bodily processes.
    - [05:29] 📊 Emotional Granularity and Its Significance
    - Emotional granularity refers to having a rich vocabulary and understanding of emotions.
    - Having a broader emotional vocabulary allows for more precise interpretation of sense data.
    - People with higher emotional granularity tend to cope better and have better mental and physical health.
    - [10:07]🤔 Implications for Personal Responsibility and Free Will
    - Changing one's actions and behaviors involves shaping future predictions by experiencing new things.
    - We are responsible for our actions and reactions, even when victimized, as we have the power to influence our future responses.
    - Personal responsibility doesn't imply culpability but rather the ability to take control of our lives and responses.

    • @emmacapell96
      @emmacapell96 11 місяців тому +1

      Brilliant! Thanks so much for that!

    • @croguy
      @croguy 9 місяців тому

      THANK YOU!

    • @Whoknows-rm8li
      @Whoknows-rm8li 3 місяці тому +1

      timestamp is wrong its 14:00 for free will

  • @devidaughter7782
    @devidaughter7782 18 днів тому +1

    "emotions . . . are prescriptions for action" (9:29). . . rather than anxiety, you can learn to experience arousal as determination (11:11)

  • @Kormac80
    @Kormac80 Рік тому +13

    Habits and feedback loops are key. Emotional habits. Her notions about the difficulty or effort is accurate. One simply has to recognize they're in the habit of being angry, sad or afraid and that those reactions inform a whole cycle in your body/mind. So make a decision to embrace peace and dislodge the habit of suffering. Then create the mechanisms for making that decision happen.

  • @Facilitatricedeconscience
    @Facilitatricedeconscience 2 місяці тому +1

    Being aware of all that’s going on inside is what we call hypersensitivity. And yes it is painful. But we can use that as a force. A strength. Do develop our consciousness and become hyper conscious and reach supra consciousness.

  • @JoshuaDb_The_Witness
    @JoshuaDb_The_Witness Місяць тому

    i'm late diagnosed auadhd, so my experience similar - but the differences a intense

  • @Lori_g70
    @Lori_g70 Місяць тому

    I definitely need to be more emotionally granular and improve my vocabulary

  • @psyfiles7351
    @psyfiles7351 Рік тому +3

    Wow that is the best one sentence summary of this brilliant woman’s expansion of our understanding of emotions thank you!

  • @thiagarajang6813
    @thiagarajang6813 5 місяців тому

    Excellent

  • @dee5331
    @dee5331 5 місяців тому

    My friend Bill shared all of this and how it works with me except he kept it simpler and focused more on the solution.

  • @cristianos21encontexto17
    @cristianos21encontexto17 11 місяців тому +2

    Great explanation, full of scientific and human wisdom

  • @humanyoda
    @humanyoda 5 місяців тому

    I'd recommend that you interview Dr. Bruce Ecker if you haven't yet.

  • @denissidorenko8832
    @denissidorenko8832 Рік тому +5

    Video title does not correspond to what the video is actually about

  • @yazanasad7811
    @yazanasad7811 3 місяці тому

    Learning anxiety as determination when it comes to exams
    The more meanings/concepts you have, the more flexible capacity you have to make sense of sense data in actionable situations.
    Brain constructing constructs from past. More constructs equals more emotional granularity more flexible.
    Seeding Predictability - new experience, curate new opportunities, invest resources and becomes effortless, and allows for more future granularity

  • @DAClub-uf3br
    @DAClub-uf3br 8 місяців тому

    How do you learn to identify emotions?

  • @noahcytrynbaum4751
    @noahcytrynbaum4751 5 місяців тому

    So wait is emotion the side effect/how we feel of brain communicating with our body, or does the brain create feeling to match with the body's reaction?

  • @igorvolkov6396
    @igorvolkov6396 Рік тому

    6:47 Affect is a feature of consciousness. The theory of triune brain is well suited as a framework for such matters. Each tier is a regulatory loop with input and output. What is needed - to understand how they interact with each other. The key point is terminology. The present words often mix rather different functions. So far as I understand, affect is a very broad term. For initial understanding, better to avoid it at all. Emotions (output) and feelings (input) happen in different structures. The former are generated by the limbic system (mammal brain). The latter emerge in cortical areas (probably in the cingulate gyrus which is shared by the 2 and 3 tiers of triune brain indeed). That is feeling is perception of own emotion.

  • @humanyoda
    @humanyoda 5 місяців тому

    I think the word "interprets" is more appropriate than "predicts".

  • @sj_joe77
    @sj_joe77 Рік тому +2

    Now i have curious. If this argument is true, can you use this theory to argue how people are not culpable for committing crime?

    • @Paseosinperro
      @Paseosinperro 8 місяців тому

      I think people are not culpable for committing a crime but for all of us as a society is better to do something about that, so the person can learn and also to keep all us safe in the future. I think jail as it is today is not the best option but maybe something where criminals can learn and heal themselves would be better. I recommend you to watch something from Gregory Boyle, a man who help gang members in Los Angeles. He is awesome!

  • @hyperduality2838
    @hyperduality2838 6 місяців тому

    Making predictions is a syntropic process -- teleological.
    Concepts are dual to percepts -- the mind duality of Immanuel Kant.
    Causes are dual to effects -- causality.
    "Always two there are" -- Yoda.

  • @hermitthefrog8951
    @hermitthefrog8951 9 місяців тому

    I seen to know a fair number of people whose affect doesn't closely correlate with their sensory data...

  • @zeroonetime
    @zeroonetime 6 місяців тому

    Sorry, i have to correct you. Feelings are all in the G.u.T..In and Out. Light and Dark ~ 010

  • @njj5674
    @njj5674 Рік тому +2

    All I hear is what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
    That's fine but the world is not full of people who are psychologists and most struggle in life to except the ups and downs or even understand why they have ups and downs....
    You take the time to understand yourself and what triggers you to create these emotions.
    All of a sudden you find yourself alone because you are now psychoanalysing yourself and everything, every person or a future relationships etc.
    Perhaps TV and the media should stop trying to put every human into a box so they behave in a controlled robot like manner.
    I think we all forget we are animals and perhaps we should let nature and natural evolution evolve us.
    You put an animal into a cage, trapped and it will go nuts.
    I'm sorry but humans and animals are all born with some basic inherit genes.
    Man made evolution is trying to make everyone conform to a world of control simply for selfish greed and financial gain.
    The ones who suffer are the pawns on the chess board...
    If I'm wrong why has mental health escalated off the scale?
    Psychologists are very good at telling people what's wrong with them, but not so good at curing them.
    Perhaps curing people would be less profitable?

  • @thinkIndependent2024
    @thinkIndependent2024 10 місяців тому

    As Audiophile Nope!!! But if Ever in England I will setup your system and prove with tracks recorded by competent Master Recording Engineer's how a Drum Kit can be played back like a projector but 100% sound

  • @geofflecren8827
    @geofflecren8827 Рік тому +17

    Buddhism has been saying all of this for over 2,000 years.

    • @geofflecren8827
      @geofflecren8827 Рік тому +8

      @quantumwaver My point is only that science continues to prove what we have known for a very long time. To answer your point, you don't need to do as Buddha did, because he already did it, this knowledge and of many teachers since is now readily available to all of humanity.
      Blessings

    • @andresdiaz7112
      @andresdiaz7112 Рік тому +3

      This would be a generalization, please supply granularity in sharing some of Buddha's concepts so that we can understand your idea in saying "Buddhism has been saying all of this for over 2,000 years.".
      My ask, supply Buddhist granularity by sharing with us a few of Buddha's concepts and connect them to what Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett shared so that we can try to experience what you mean.

    • @geofflecren8827
      @geofflecren8827 Рік тому +5

      ​@@andresdiaz7112
      We perceive and then label according to our biased perception, usually based on past experiences, this is typical human behaviour. Buddhism talks of emptiness, that all things are actually empty of what our mind perceives/labels them to be. This is what's discussed at 7:00 but there many examples in this video.

  • @stephencaudill2422
    @stephencaudill2422 Рік тому

    Irish lad...☘

  • @BenjaminMaerz-um5bc
    @BenjaminMaerz-um5bc День тому

    Too many words. I can't keep listening.

  • @budte
    @budte 6 місяців тому

    There is no such thing as emotional intelligence.

  • @pimbu936
    @pimbu936 Рік тому

    Damn, learn some math and stop calling competencies intelligence, intelligence is a specific word with a specific meaning that actually already has a meaning assigned to it

    • @Amor_fati.Memento_Mori
      @Amor_fati.Memento_Mori Рік тому +4

      Words can have different connotations yes?

    • @andresdiaz7112
      @andresdiaz7112 Рік тому

      Howard Gardner, creator of the "multiple intelligence theory", defines intelligence as "your ability to solve a problem under a given context (music, DO RE MI, math, 1 + 1 = 2, etc)

    • @deleted01
      @deleted01 7 місяців тому

      Competency is just intelligence. Try again