The Josh Speaks hey josh I wanna ask a girl out on Friday but I’m really unsure what I want to do if she says yes. I was thinking ice cream. Ps. I’m in 8th grade, Love ❤️ your videos
Hey that sounds like a great first date idea. I made a video all about middle school first date ideas which might be helpful here: ua-cam.com/video/-b-l36x-gYY/v-deo.html
Hi josh, i sit in class with my crush only with mathematics. She is always going to sit near me and looks at me a lot. We havo also had some intense eyecontact from distance. I really want to talk to her but i just don't know what to say and i'm scared it'll be awkward. Any tips how i could start?
Dude I'm in the same boat omg! And idk what to do. I made a phone call to my crush today to try and make up for the previous awkward moments because she actually even came to see me at work, and omg I was so awkward over the phone because I was so shy. We even had a really huge awkward silence. I'm actually nervous and wanna text to make up for that again, but idk if that would be the right thing to do 😅 damn dude this is hard
Just do it! Life is short my friend, just dont wait for the perfect time to talk because it is the perfect time and when you want to talk its to late and u lost it!
The next crush in the future I have gonna be hard, I’m so shy I don’t even know if I can not be shy lol, the only way how not to be shy is to have help from a friend are her talking to me first.
Im 27 and still act like a teenage school girl around guys im attracted too. Its very annoying because I cant control my anxiety around him. I wish I was more confident 😢 Im also horrible at flirting because I feel I'm going to make the dude uncomfortable. So I don't bother showing interest.
Hey I get where you're coming from. It can be tough sometimes to interact with someone you are interested in. I think at the end of the day, most people have the same desires when interacting, they want to feel understood and heard. Whenever you talk to a guy you like, just remember that deep down that's what hes looking for.
I'm 36 and I swear the TWO times I have spoken to him, I feel like I sounded like a whole shuddering mess. I also told him (a 23 yr old grown ma) that he's cute. He smiled and everything, but I haven't been able to speak to him since. We just pass each throughout the store (my job) kinda look at each other but never really speak. He does, however speak to EVERYONE ELSE at but me and it drives me insane😓
I agree and plan out in my head what every little word might lead to in the future and feel so bad about what to say and end up just saying nothing even though I really want to
I am in college, and every time I see them, they’re with their friends/social group. Also, I have a suspicion about this other girl I am friends with, just about every time I see her, she has a big smile on her face.
Hey if the person you want to talk to is always with their friends, you may have to break through that barrier and talk to all of them. I talk more about that in this video: ua-cam.com/video/ibQOT06vHFM/v-deo.html
I'm scared of everything honestly, rejection, freezing up, the whole shabang. I can't trust anyone, even my own self sometimes so idk It's like my brain is telling me to stop because It'll just end up becoming sadness and pain than happiness and love but my chest won't stop that aching feeling of loving this person. It sucks but if I don't try now I'll never have the courage needed to date someone
‘ CCK5018 ‘ Him and I and a couple others formed a friend group in our class This might be weird, but my crush feelings went away. I had a quick crush because it was at the right place and time when I met him. However, in another class, I have a minor crush on a guy who sits next to me. I literally get nervous. I’m going to introduce myself tomorrow to him. I’ll ask him about the homework, but that means I have to start the hw rn :)
I don't care about rejection. It's freezing up that bothers me because rejection. It's not so bad. It's really not so hard. It's just the freezing up part. That's what gets you. And also think of it like this.When somebody rejects you, it's probably because they probably weren't meant for you anyway, so they're probably doing your favor rejection is not no big deal.It's just you're not always gonna be somebody's cup of tea
Hi Josh, been a while since I watched your videos or streams, I feel like you've helped me alot with my crush, I have a different one now anyway😅 I came here because I struggle too have a conversation. But it's good too be back for a video at leasy. Thank you❤️
Hey Josh, I don’t ever see my crush and I was thinking of texting one or maybe some of her friends and asking them about some stuff. What exactly things I should ask? Like things about her classes, where I could meet her etc? Thanks for the video, some great advice ;)
Josh I need your help. What happens if you talk a lot online and don talk much at school because we don’t want people to know we like each other but we are fine to talk when we are on our own.
Hey i think in a situation like that if you want to develop what the two of you have, you're going to have to start putting each other before everyone else. Think about how good both and and that person will feel when you're able to comfortably be yourselves in public rather than allowing the opinion of others to force you to act differently. Other people may make comments and spread gossip or even tease you, but at the end of the day it's you two that are building something and that's going to be much stronger than someone else's 5 minute opinion before they get bored and think about something else.
Hey I made this video all about how to walk up to a girl in public without it being awkward which might be helpful for you: ua-cam.com/video/qp5F3l4qdsI/v-deo.html
Hey and advice, she walks alone during a passing period and I recently talked to her until she got to her class but it was pretty awkward. She was kind of interested and asked some questions about history class and stuff. I’m not very popular and she hangs out with a bunch of other guys. I feel like she tries to ignore me sometimes but I make her laugh at least twice a day and maybe those are fake laughs. I can’t stop thinking about her and I don’t know what to do. I have her in one more class besides math but she’s always with her friends. I feel like I just need to get her interested in me. And I do not have a phone. I am in 8th grade.
I’m afraid of his asking me “why”. Sometimes when I know what to say and it’s the perfect time to say it, I don’t. One example: one time we were walking back to the locker rooms. I was walking next to him and his friends weren’t there. I wanted to ask what he got on the mile but I didn’t because I was afraid he was gonna ask me why. 😕
i'm just worried about going back to school tomorrow because of what my crush might think of me since i haven't seen her in a long time, what classes i'm going to be in with her and what might happen throughout the school year.
I have a crush who I would do crazy stuff for her. But we r not in any classes together (some with her friends), I asked some of my friends for help but they ended up not helping. She also has a boyfriend but that dosent make me wanna give up. I get rly nervous because I have no way to talk to her
Hey James, I know the feeling there. I made this video all about what to do while your crush is dating someone else. I hope it's helpful: ua-cam.com/video/3Vb_NA_n7Cs/v-deo.html
Hey josh I just wanted to say thank you so much for all your advice. My confidence has gotten a lot better I have been talking to more girls lately and building friendships with them thank you so much josh your videos have been helpful
Can you make a video on why girls completely ignore short guys as a dating option like me and some of my friends? I asked some of my female friends and they say they just like guys who are taller (which I get) but even short girls go right for the tall guys. So me and my friends feel like we shouldn't even try any more, and we are just finishing middle school so we still have time but nobody has ever had a crush on me so I've given up until high school or longer any advice would really help. Once again thanks for the great content
Hey I hear you on that, I think a lot of times girls like taller guys because they feel like they can offer more physical comfort because of their height in some ways. The thing is, a shorter guy can do all the same, but there's a perception in society that that's what we should value. I think as you get older, you'll start to see that girls will develop their interests more and be focused less on height and more on personality, comfort and confidence with a guy. I made this video all about what short guys can do to boost their confidence with girls which might be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/LB7eyrp5Hgg/v-deo.html
I have a friend who is amazing friends with my crush and I’m pretty sure my crush likes him even though my friend likes someone else and I’m over here just watching in the corner. Is there anything I can do.
@YPS 21 Problem is I’m not confident, charming, funny, handsome or someone that girls tend to like as a crush or whatever and whenever I see her I just lose it.
Hey that's a really good topic to cover. My short answer is this, if you really like this girl, you are gonna have to show her why you're someone worth getting to know better. If you hold back from pursuing her, shes not gonna see any reason to pick you over him.
My crush and her friend came over tonight and her friend kinda gave it away that they was talking about me b4 and during the movie her friend kept nudging her and after each time she nudged her they looked over at me they did this quite a few times. I kinda want to ask her to the movies but i dont have the confidence what should i do
Yo I have a weird situation i like this girl on the bus and I genuinely think she likes me she constantly is checking me out I catch her eye each bus journey and she gives me warm smiles and genuinely looks into my soul each time I see her 😂 thing is I gave her my number is this a situation where I avoid it or shall I try approach her if she is giving me that indication as I have given her my number but she didn't message that's where I am lacking in hope but its fine I just wanna know your advice. Shall I see if she gives anymore signs or just avoid it as she is on my bus twice a week for college
Hey it sounds like you left it up to her to do the follow up. If you really like her you should ask her for her number or better yet, create an on the spot date and just invite her to go out with you to grab food in that moment.
There is this girl I work with and she's my sisters friend. I'm 17 and she's 18 and I feel like she had a crush on me like 3 months ago because she would go to the part of the job im working at and just hangout with me but its hard for me to talk to her because I'm shy and I don't wanna say the wrong thing. And I'm not a good conversation starter or ender. Shes really sweat and she helped me with my job when I first started. And after about 3 weeks of me working there I went into the back room at my work to get something and she comes in behind me a few seconds after I went in and we have like a minute conversation. She asked me what my favorite color was and I was like I don't really have a favorite color so I told here that and she said pick a color. And I was like for what. She's said for some sunglasses thats at my work and I said surprise me and she randomly grabs a green pair. I broke my nose a few years ago so its uncomfortable to wear them like normal so I wear them upside down. She puts hers upside down too and she smiles. So I smiled back and she said let's take a picture and I said ok. I was like she likes me and it made me happy because I really liked her. We talked every once in a while because we have different work schedules and I see her like 2 times a month. And now she looks at me and then looks away without saying anything. What do you think I should do?
Can you help me with something? 2 years ago my crush and i used to be friends (that was when I didn't have a crush on her) but then I started irritating her so much that to a point she stopped talking to me. But now I've been crush on her for like 8 months and she doesn't like me back. What should I do? Can I just be friends with her?
I talk to my crush quite a bit, but she talks to other guys too and I haven’t had the random “confidence boost” to ask her out yet. And 1st semester has just ended, so I no longer have a class with her. Should I try to ask her out sometime, like if I see her in the hallway between classes?
Hey you totally should! I know now it may be harder since you dont share a class but if you dont, you might end up regretting not acting. Theres no better time to do it than now!
So i was kinda rejected, i told her i would like to take her out somrwhere she denied saying "Im not into dating rn sorry" but she will always stare at me in class, especially when im talking to other girls. Keep in mind she is literally the shyest girl in the whole school and her friends would also look back at me when they are sitting at lunch and stuff idk what to do please help someone
Hey it's hard to say. If she told you she's not into dating she may want to get to know you better and develop a friendship first if anything. I would work on forming a closer connection with her, learn about her interests and hobbies and share your own with her. Eventually she may come around and be open to a date or if you see it's not leading to that, you can choose to pursue a friendship or just let her be.
Hey Nate, I break down how to ask for her number/snapchat/instagram in this video here. I think it'll be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/hN-Ryu4-8DE/v-deo.html
Ok I am in class with my crush in 2nd grade, and i like her so much but she dont know that, i tell that to lot of my friends and her bff and i dont know what to do, her bff tell me that this girl dont feel anything to me just a good friend, and they tell me to forgot her and go on, but i cant i want to tell her that i like her, but i am scared if it go bad Will we be a good friends like before that
Hey josh I was wondering is there any signs that I can show a girl that I’m single because I’m too shy to talk to them but I want to show them that I’m single is there any way I can show them?
I'm scared of him thinking something about me and I'm scared that I'm ganna get into drama and everyone is ganna Judge me and I'm also scared of being weird or just looking weird and twitching or sweating or turning red or smiling and blushing uncontrollable
Okay Josh, listen, the girl I love is from another country, and I am scared to even say a word to her, I never even been able to say a word, she joined our class last year, she's here because her dad got a job here, and I wanna take things slow, but I don't know when she might leave, I can't let this chance to waste, please tell me what to do.
Hey I think if there's a chance she may leave, it's best to go for it now. Don't think in terms of having a long relationship, just live in the moment and see if she's open to dating, hanging out and getting to know each other. If there's no pressure and things are just about having fun together, it might make it easier if she does eventually move.
@@TheJoshSpeaks I agree, I got a chance last year, I let it go to waste, and now I'm getting a second chance, I won't let this one go, because it might be the last I get, if I finess this, and she does leave, that's alright, we can still date even if she lives somewhere else, we will be able to meet sometimes, so thanks for the support, I really wanted to know if I should go for it now, I appreciate the help.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Also by the way, I have watched the video, and the steps, but my question is, will those steps help if I never said a word to her? Because I seriously never could, and I want to change that, as soon as possible, because I don't know how much time I have, if she's still staying next year, then I have time to take things a bit slower, but I need to talk to her, so maybe I can ask her, so that I know what to do, for additional info, we only talk on texts, and we talk like weekly one time or a few times, so does that make things easier, or does it just make it more complex for me?
Hi josh .... its the first time i am seeing your video .... it was like a confidence booster ... you know , i am having a crush on a girl at my tution , she came to talk random stuffs to me ... but my friends hopped in to me and distracted the conversation .I wish i got another chance to talk with her ... so should i initiate the talk or should i wait for her to come to me ?
Hey Josh, so me and my crush are in the same project, so we are staying longer in class Yesterday, she offered to walk together home, as we live close to each other and we will be walking together after project on Friday I have her number because we were in a group chat, but we closed it and I haven't spoken to her on private Can you give me some advice what to say and what do? I would be grateful
Hey I think if the two of you are going to be walking together on Friday, I would see if she wants to grab food afterwards so the two of you can talk and get to know each other better. That might make it easier for you to DM her afterwards because you'll have spent that face to face time together.
Like this one super cute guy at my middle school only problem is he like lead me on and told my friends he liked me and when I asked he said he didn't and it's super awckward cause I've already told him I like him we've only ever snapped and we dont tlak in person please help how do I talk to him becasue he's always with all hair friends.
I have a problem I'm best friend's with my crush and if I admit and he says no our friendship could be ruined we have known each other since we were three i can't throw that out
In my situation I just don’t ever want him to find out that I like him. He certainly wouldn’t be attracted to me being a guy and all so my whole goal is to make it less obvious. I would prefer that he not view me as the weird guy who stares too much.
Josh I went a Father's day party with my mom's friends house last year and my mom's lady friend said to me she will introduce me to her nieces but the next I see her she didn't mention or she forgot how can I ask her for her nieces so she introduce one of them to me I know where she lives I have a much older friend that goes to her house and does repair projects for her what u think??
Hey it's possible she just forgot? I think instead of asking someone to ask her, the next time you see her you can just say something like "hey, I can't wait to meet your nieces!".
I think a girl likes me,she keep staring at me and she keep smiling at me but she always send her friend to ask me questions and she text me on instagram the other day, but again in person she send her friend to ask me questions. Does that mean that she likes me? Because I like her too ☺️😂, but I’m not sure if she actually like me,can someone help me, I just wanna know if that means that she probably like me
I had a girlfriend in fourth grade she was going to a new school she told me which school she was going to and I found out that I was going to that same School so I knew I’ll be seeing her again and I’m really nervous about seeing her again and excited but mostly nervous I have no clue what to do or say whenever I see her again because I don’t know if she moved on Or got together with another boy I don’t know what to do to get her back
I'm 2 years older than my crush but at the same time she a family friend because my cousin waches her for a friend and dang dong I dont wanna ask her out then she tell all my cousins and gg so I just sit alone crying my self saying man I just want her to ask me out
Try and talk to her more and interact more often, talk about something to do with your cousins or a funny moment you've had with her, just try and get comfortable near her.
Hey the best way to talk directly would be through patreon.com/thejoshspeaks. I also have a Discord with an awesome community that can help you out as well! www.thejoshspeaks.com/discord
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The Josh Speaks hey josh I wanna ask a girl out on Friday but I’m really unsure what I want to do if she says yes. I was thinking ice cream. Ps. I’m in 8th grade, Love ❤️ your videos
Hey that sounds like a great first date idea. I made a video all about middle school first date ideas which might be helpful here: ua-cam.com/video/-b-l36x-gYY/v-deo.html
Hi my friend from school is really shy and won't talk to her. I've been trying to encourage him but it's not working. Do you know what to do
Hi josh, i sit in class with my crush only with mathematics. She is always going to sit near me and looks at me a lot. We havo also had some intense eyecontact from distance. I really want to talk to her but i just don't know what to say and i'm scared it'll be awkward. Any tips how i could start?
Btw, this is Denise's son Isaac: YES
I feel like I've already been so awkward around my crush that it's too late to redeem myself
SAME!!
Ahhh shit I feel the same ryt now....
But it's never too late 😆 I'll try wat he is said and start with small conversations...
Exactly my thoughts
It's the opposite for me
Aaaaahhh!
Sameee.... Fishhh
My crush is literally flirting with me to my face and I still can’t stop being shy around him and actually say something back. 😂
Dude I'm in the same boat omg! And idk what to do. I made a phone call to my crush today to try and make up for the previous awkward moments because she actually even came to see me at work, and omg I was so awkward over the phone because I was so shy. We even had a really huge awkward silence. I'm actually nervous and wanna text to make up for that again, but idk if that would be the right thing to do 😅 damn dude this is hard
@@MaceDawn how did it go after ten months
SAME IM WORRIED IT WILL AFFECT OUR RELATIONSHI😭😭😭😭😭I LOVE HIM SO MUCH WE TALKED FOR HOURS WAAA PLS HELP....
@@MaceDawn Oh no! 🤣🤣🤣
Six years of silence
Finally broken
Just do it! Life is short my friend, just dont wait for the perfect time to talk because it is the perfect time and when you want to talk its to late and u lost it!
The next crush in the future I have gonna be hard, I’m so shy I don’t even know if I can not be shy lol, the only way how not to be shy is to have help from a friend are her talking to me first.
Hey I get where you're coming from. I think if you take small steps towards starting a conversation it might help ease your anxiety over time.
Talked to her for the first time today, hopefully the first of many
So it's been 2 months... Has it worked out?
How’d it go?
Update us
For everyone waiting, a formal update will be given late may 2021 thx for ur patience (not much has happened)
@@rjmooothicalshow4778 okay
Im 27 and still act like a teenage school girl around guys im attracted too. Its very annoying because I cant control my anxiety around him. I wish I was more confident 😢 Im also horrible at flirting because I feel I'm going to make the dude uncomfortable. So I don't bother showing interest.
not hing Nah. Using them makes me feel desperate 😂 I always preferred meeting someone unexpectedly. It feels more genuine.
YPS 21 Really think so? 🤔
Hey I get where you're coming from. It can be tough sometimes to interact with someone you are interested in. I think at the end of the day, most people have the same desires when interacting, they want to feel understood and heard. Whenever you talk to a guy you like, just remember that deep down that's what hes looking for.
The Josh Speaks Thanks Josh 👍❤️ Youre so understanding and your advice is some of the best!!
That's the problem, not showing interest makes guys give up easily, showing interest in a awkward way is still better than not showing interest at all
I'm 36 and I swear the TWO times I have spoken to him, I feel like I sounded like a whole shuddering mess. I also told him (a 23 yr old grown ma) that he's cute. He smiled and everything, but I haven't been able to speak to him since. We just pass each throughout the store (my job) kinda look at each other but never really speak. He does, however speak to EVERYONE ELSE at but me and it drives me insane😓
I want to tell my crush I like him but it's harder for me then for most people, I overthink it to the extreme
SAME
I agree and plan out in my head what every little word might lead to in the future and feel so bad about what to say and end up just saying nothing even though I really want to
Once you get to know them it’s also a good thing to tease them. It’s easier to start up a conversation from that or even messing around.
I am in college, and every time I see them, they’re with their friends/social group. Also, I have a suspicion about this other girl I am friends with, just about every time I see her, she has a big smile on her face.
Hey if the person you want to talk to is always with their friends, you may have to break through that barrier and talk to all of them. I talk more about that in this video: ua-cam.com/video/ibQOT06vHFM/v-deo.html
I'm scared of everything honestly, rejection, freezing up, the whole shabang. I can't trust anyone, even my own self sometimes so idk It's like my brain is telling me to stop because It'll just end up becoming sadness and pain than happiness and love but my chest won't stop that aching feeling of loving this person. It sucks but if I don't try now I'll never have the courage needed to date someone
I’m going to try this tomorrow. He might be straight though. I’m scared 😂😂
Good luck Lucas!
How did it go? I’m rooting for you man!!!
‘ CCK5018 ‘
Him and I and a couple others formed a friend group in our class
This might be weird, but my crush feelings went away. I had a quick crush because it was at the right place and time when I met him.
However, in another class, I have a minor crush on a guy who sits next to me. I literally get nervous. I’m going to introduce myself tomorrow to him. I’ll ask him about the homework, but that means I have to start the hw rn :)
Lucas M yes. Tell me how it went tomorrow!
kaz
I met a guy at this gay dance and I asked him out today Feb 15. We’re going out on Thursday! I’m excited
Your videos really helped me out I finally asked my best friend out and she said yes
Thanks Josh You've been a big help here imma get my game together and take your advice along the trail
Awesome Lenny, I'm happy I can be a part of your journey!
I don't care about rejection. It's freezing up that bothers me because rejection. It's not so bad. It's really not so hard. It's just the freezing up part. That's what gets you.
And also think of it like this.When somebody rejects you, it's probably because they probably weren't meant for you anyway, so they're probably doing your favor rejection is not no big deal.It's just you're not always gonna be somebody's cup of tea
The fact that one clicks subscribe within 1.5 seconds (literally), shows the incredible importance of tone of voice👍
Thank you so much for this message. This was much needed advice that made sense!
Hi Josh, been a while since I watched your videos or streams, I feel like you've helped me alot with my crush, I have a different one now anyway😅 I came here because I struggle too have a conversation. But it's good too be back for a video at leasy. Thank you❤️
Hey good to see you back! Have you checked out my ice breakers guide yet? www.thejoshspeaks.com/ice-breakers
@@TheJoshSpeaks Yeah you sent me it before but I don't know where it is now so thanks for sending it. Hopefully I can just come by in a stream one day
Thanks josh I’m gonna try this.
Awesome Luke, lemme know how it goes!
Will do
Hey Josh, I don’t ever see my crush and I was thinking of texting one or maybe some of her friends and asking them about some stuff. What exactly things I should ask? Like things about her classes, where I could meet her etc? Thanks for the video, some great advice ;)
Hey, I made this video all about asking out your crush when you never see them around which might be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/R3-pBtxRhFE/v-deo.html
Josh I need your help.
What happens if you talk a lot online and don talk much at school because we don’t want people to know we like each other but we are fine to talk when we are on our own.
Hey i think in a situation like that if you want to develop what the two of you have, you're going to have to start putting each other before everyone else. Think about how good both and and that person will feel when you're able to comfortably be yourselves in public rather than allowing the opinion of others to force you to act differently. Other people may make comments and spread gossip or even tease you, but at the end of the day it's you two that are building something and that's going to be much stronger than someone else's 5 minute opinion before they get bored and think about something else.
@@TheJoshSpeaks okay thanks
How do I like walk up to a girl I’m interested in and not be very awkward? It’s hard to explain but just a stranger and start talking to them.
Hey I made this video all about how to walk up to a girl in public without it being awkward which might be helpful for you: ua-cam.com/video/qp5F3l4qdsI/v-deo.html
Hey and advice, she walks alone during a passing period and I recently talked to her until she got to her class but it was pretty awkward. She was kind of interested and asked some questions about history class and stuff. I’m not very popular and she hangs out with a bunch of other guys. I feel like she tries to ignore me sometimes but I make her laugh at least twice a day and maybe those are fake laughs. I can’t stop thinking about her and I don’t know what to do. I have her in one more class besides math but she’s always with her friends. I feel like I just need to get her interested in me. And I do not have a phone. I am in 8th grade.
Im really scared I want to be friends with my crush but I’m sooooo scared I want to be friends but not directly in a relationship
Same
I want to be friends then slowly turn into a relationship
Yes! needed this.
I hope its helpful Patrick!
I found great advice, thank you, I also like the intro, keep up the good work.
Awesome, I'm glad you enjoyed it!
bruh. all uve said here are what im facing. thanks for the tips💙
I’m afraid of his asking me “why”.
Sometimes when I know what to say and it’s the perfect time to say it, I don’t. One example: one time we were walking back to the locker rooms. I was walking next to him and his friends weren’t there. I wanted to ask what he got on the mile but I didn’t because I was afraid he was gonna ask me why. 😕
i'm just worried about going back to school tomorrow because of what my crush might think of me since i haven't seen her in a long time, what classes i'm going to be in with her and what might happen throughout the school year.
Maybe the break was a good thing. And you can think of tomorrow as a fresh start🙌
Best of luck
@@alyjoleemusic yeah i hope everything goes ok
Hey I made this video all about seeing your crush again after a long time which might be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/DOQFVQZ5vV8/v-deo.html
@@TheJoshSpeaks thanks your advice always helps
I have a crush who I would do crazy stuff for her. But we r not in any classes together (some with her friends), I asked some of my friends for help but they ended up not helping. She also has a boyfriend but that dosent make me wanna give up. I get rly nervous because I have no way to talk to her
Hey James, I know the feeling there. I made this video all about what to do while your crush is dating someone else. I hope it's helpful: ua-cam.com/video/3Vb_NA_n7Cs/v-deo.html
The problem is that when we are connecting with their friends one of them can fall for you
Hey josh I just wanted to say thank you so much for all your advice. My confidence has gotten a lot better I have been talking to more girls lately and building friendships with them thank you so much josh your videos have been helpful
Hey Emanuel, that's so awesome to hear! I'm happy I can be a part of your journey towards being your best self.
Can you make a video on why girls completely ignore short guys as a dating option like me and some of my friends? I asked some of my female friends and they say they just like guys who are taller (which I get) but even short girls go right for the tall guys. So me and my friends feel like we shouldn't even try any more, and we are just finishing middle school so we still have time but nobody has ever had a crush on me so I've given up until high school or longer any advice would really help. Once again thanks for the great content
Hey I hear you on that, I think a lot of times girls like taller guys because they feel like they can offer more physical comfort because of their height in some ways. The thing is, a shorter guy can do all the same, but there's a perception in society that that's what we should value. I think as you get older, you'll start to see that girls will develop their interests more and be focused less on height and more on personality, comfort and confidence with a guy. I made this video all about what short guys can do to boost their confidence with girls which might be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/LB7eyrp5Hgg/v-deo.html
@@TheJoshSpeaks OK this really helped thanks
As an introvert im not really good of chit chating. Im into deep talk and I think this makes me a boring person.
Brother ..I love your concepts..You are just awesome🔥
I have a friend who is amazing friends with my crush and I’m pretty sure my crush likes him even though my friend likes someone else and I’m over here just watching in the corner. Is there anything I can do.
@YPS 21 Problem is I’m not confident, charming, funny, handsome or someone that girls tend to like as a crush or whatever and whenever I see her I just lose it.
Hey that's a really good topic to cover. My short answer is this, if you really like this girl, you are gonna have to show her why you're someone worth getting to know better. If you hold back from pursuing her, shes not gonna see any reason to pick you over him.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Thanks for the help, I’ll try my best
My crush and her friend came over tonight and her friend kinda gave it away that they was talking about me b4 and during the movie her friend kept nudging her and after each time she nudged her they looked over at me they did this quite a few times. I kinda want to ask her to the movies but i dont have the confidence what should i do
This is many situation rn 😭 he likes me back too help 😣
Yo I have a weird situation i like this girl on the bus and I genuinely think she likes me she constantly is checking me out I catch her eye each bus journey and she gives me warm smiles and genuinely looks into my soul each time I see her 😂 thing is I gave her my number is this a situation where I avoid it or shall I try approach her if she is giving me that indication as I have given her my number but she didn't message that's where I am lacking in hope but its fine I just wanna know your advice. Shall I see if she gives anymore signs or just avoid it as she is on my bus twice a week for college
Hey it sounds like you left it up to her to do the follow up. If you really like her you should ask her for her number or better yet, create an on the spot date and just invite her to go out with you to grab food in that moment.
There is this girl I work with and she's my sisters friend. I'm 17 and she's 18 and I feel like she had a crush on me like 3 months ago because she would go to the part of the job im working at and just hangout with me but its hard for me to talk to her because I'm shy and I don't wanna say the wrong thing. And I'm not a good conversation starter or ender. Shes really sweat and she helped me with my job when I first started. And after about 3 weeks of me working there I went into the back room at my work to get something and she comes in behind me a few seconds after I went in and we have like a minute conversation. She asked me what my favorite color was and I was like I don't really have a favorite color so I told here that and she said pick a color. And I was like for what. She's said for some sunglasses thats at my work and I said surprise me and she randomly grabs a green pair. I broke my nose a few years ago so its uncomfortable to wear them like normal so I wear them upside down. She puts hers upside down too and she smiles. So I smiled back and she said let's take a picture and I said ok. I was like she likes me and it made me happy because I really liked her. We talked every once in a while because we have different work schedules and I see her like 2 times a month. And now she looks at me and then looks away without saying anything. What do you think I should do?
Sorry if its all over the place it was at different time periods from the sunglasses part and when she comes and hangs out with me
Can you help me with something?
2 years ago my crush and i used to be friends (that was when I didn't have a crush on her) but then I started irritating her so much that to a point she stopped talking to me. But now I've been crush on her for like 8 months and she doesn't like me back. What should I do? Can I just be friends with her?
I talk to my crush quite a bit, but she talks to other guys too and I haven’t had the random “confidence boost” to ask her out yet. And 1st semester has just ended, so I no longer have a class with her. Should I try to ask her out sometime, like if I see her in the hallway between classes?
Hey you totally should! I know now it may be harder since you dont share a class but if you dont, you might end up regretting not acting. Theres no better time to do it than now!
The Josh Speaks thanks for the advice, if I see her and get the chance, I will make the move.
I'm not in any of my crush's classes
@@jamesbootma1428 same and I think he's younger than me too so That's also why I have no classes with him:')
I can't even look her in the eyes without smiling or blushing
I have a mindset of having my future me happy with me doing anything so I would just talk to them
So i was kinda rejected, i told her i would like to take her out somrwhere she denied saying "Im not into dating rn sorry" but she will always stare at me in class, especially when im talking to other girls. Keep in mind she is literally the shyest girl in the whole school and her friends would also look back at me when they are sitting at lunch and stuff idk what to do please help someone
Hey it's hard to say. If she told you she's not into dating she may want to get to know you better and develop a friendship first if anything. I would work on forming a closer connection with her, learn about her interests and hobbies and share your own with her. Eventually she may come around and be open to a date or if you see it's not leading to that, you can choose to pursue a friendship or just let her be.
@@TheJoshSpeaks the thing is she never talks she so shy so i kinda have to enforce a convo otherwise shes dead quiet
@@bigmike1052 best of luck, I was told something similar from someone who didn't mean it I hope your crush truly just isn't ready for dating rn
@@duncecan3047 thanks a lot
@@bigmike1052 no problem
Broski how do I ask them for their social media.. snapchat to be more
specific
Say "yo dawg what's the snap" works every time except for when they say no.
Hey Nate, I break down how to ask for her number/snapchat/instagram in this video here. I think it'll be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/hN-Ryu4-8DE/v-deo.html
Ok I am in class with my crush in 2nd grade, and i like her so much but she dont know that, i tell that to lot of my friends and her bff and i dont know what to do, her bff tell me that this girl dont feel anything to me just a good friend, and they tell me to forgot her and go on, but i cant i want to tell her that i like her, but i am scared if it go bad Will we be a good friends like before that
marinos 168 And you’re in 2nd grade, elementary dating SUCKS!
I think it's important to be honest about how you feel but you should also respect her space if she doesnt want to interact.
@@TheJoshSpeaks thank you for advice
can you please make a video about "how to date your girl crush even if she has dated your best friend"
How is it possible that a guy with a room full of toys is giving me flirting tips
I wanna know what love is...
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Hey josh I was wondering is there any signs that I can show a girl that I’m single because I’m too shy to talk to them but I want to show them that I’m single is there any way I can show them?
I'm scared of him thinking something about me and I'm scared that I'm ganna get into drama and everyone is ganna Judge me and I'm also scared of being weird or just looking weird and twitching or sweating or turning red or smiling and blushing uncontrollable
Okay Josh, listen, the girl I love is from another country, and I am scared to even say a word to her, I never even been able to say a word, she joined our class last year, she's here because her dad got a job here, and I wanna take things slow, but I don't know when she might leave, I can't let this chance to waste, please tell me what to do.
Hey I think if there's a chance she may leave, it's best to go for it now. Don't think in terms of having a long relationship, just live in the moment and see if she's open to dating, hanging out and getting to know each other. If there's no pressure and things are just about having fun together, it might make it easier if she does eventually move.
@@TheJoshSpeaks I agree, I got a chance last year, I let it go to waste, and now I'm getting a second chance, I won't let this one go, because it might be the last I get, if I finess this, and she does leave, that's alright, we can still date even if she lives somewhere else, we will be able to meet sometimes, so thanks for the support, I really wanted to know if I should go for it now, I appreciate the help.
@@TheJoshSpeaks Also by the way, I have watched the video, and the steps, but my question is, will those steps help if I never said a word to her? Because I seriously never could, and I want to change that, as soon as possible, because I don't know how much time I have, if she's still staying next year, then I have time to take things a bit slower, but I need to talk to her, so maybe I can ask her, so that I know what to do, for additional info, we only talk on texts, and we talk like weekly one time or a few times, so does that make things easier, or does it just make it more complex for me?
We’re in Med school, he’s in a different semester than me, surrounded by ppl ALL THE TIME
We literally just talk about school
Ahhhhhhh
Hi josh .... its the first time i am seeing your video .... it was like a confidence booster ... you know , i am having a crush on a girl at my tution , she came to talk random stuffs to me ... but my friends hopped in to me and distracted the conversation .I wish i got another chance to talk with her ... so should i initiate the talk or should i wait for her to come to me ?
So I realised I don't believe in myself and I'm comparing myself to my crush but what to do about it
I'm just afraid of how the person would react.
Hey Josh, so me and my crush are in the same project, so we are staying longer in class
Yesterday, she offered to walk together home, as we live close to each other and we will be walking together after project on Friday
I have her number because we were in a group chat, but we closed it and I haven't spoken to her on private
Can you give me some advice what to say and what do?
I would be grateful
Hey I think if the two of you are going to be walking together on Friday, I would see if she wants to grab food afterwards so the two of you can talk and get to know each other better. That might make it easier for you to DM her afterwards because you'll have spent that face to face time together.
Thanks for the advice Josh
I read your book
Like this one super cute guy at my middle school only problem is he like lead me on and told my friends he liked me and when I asked he said he didn't and it's super awckward cause I've already told him I like him we've only ever snapped and we dont tlak in person please help how do I talk to him becasue he's always with all hair friends.
Nice
Next video what to do when she say to take of your mask to see if you cute with acne
I have a problem I'm best friend's with my crush and if I admit and he says no our friendship could be ruined we have known each other since we were three i can't throw that out
In my situation I just don’t ever want him to find out that I like him. He certainly wouldn’t be attracted to me being a guy and all so my whole goal is to make it less obvious. I would prefer that he not view me as the weird guy who stares too much.
I fear rejection
Josh I went a Father's day party with my mom's friends house last year and my mom's lady friend said to me she will introduce me to her nieces but the next I see her she didn't mention or she forgot how can I ask her for her nieces so she introduce one of them to me I know where she lives I have a much older friend that goes to her house and does repair projects for her what u think??
Hey it's possible she just forgot? I think instead of asking someone to ask her, the next time you see her you can just say something like "hey, I can't wait to meet your nieces!".
I am giving a tip be yourself
I think a girl likes me,she keep staring at me and she keep smiling at me but she always send her friend to ask me questions and she text me on instagram the other day, but again in person she send her friend to ask me questions. Does that mean that she likes me? Because I like her too ☺️😂, but I’m not sure if she actually like me,can someone help me, I just wanna know if that means that she probably like me
My crush is not interested on me bec iam doubt my friend told me that
What do I do I got rejected by my crush
But I never talk to her days what do I do
Plz help me
Just talk to her and try to be friends
Im to scared 😂
I had a girlfriend in fourth grade she was going to a new school she told me which school she was going to and I found out that I was going to that same School so I knew I’ll be seeing her again and I’m really nervous about seeing her again and excited but mostly nervous I have no clue what to do or say whenever I see her again because I don’t know if she moved on Or got together with another boy I don’t know what to do to get her back
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My crush likes me but I'm just a shy little dump
Actually I have nothing to tell her
Josh, my crush got mad at me for dming her wassup what does this mean ?
If a simple text to check up on them gets them riled up then maybe they aren't worth your tine
Hey it's hard to say, was that the only thing you messaged her?
The Josh Speaks yes it’s was only thing To messaged
Music by Aly true but I think she’s just annoyed of lots of other dudes dming her.
I'm 2 years older than my crush but at the same time she a family friend because my cousin waches her for a friend and dang dong I dont wanna ask her out then she tell all my cousins and gg so I just sit alone crying my self saying man I just want her to ask me out
Try and talk to her more and interact more often, talk about something to do with your cousins or a funny moment you've had with her, just try and get comfortable near her.
Yey I do 1k liek in a video for PPL liek me
Hey josh can u dm me privately? Like insta or something cause im talking to a girl but idk what to do or say to her. :/
Hey the best way to talk directly would be through patreon.com/thejoshspeaks. I also have a Discord with an awesome community that can help you out as well! www.thejoshspeaks.com/discord
The Josh Speaks do you have like instagram???