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КОМЕНТАРІ • 108

  • @cxg7381
    @cxg7381 Рік тому +16

    Thank you for trusting us enough to share your past year. Oh yes, we do understand. No judgments ever - just support for your journey.

  • @MalekBinns
    @MalekBinns Рік тому +15

    OMG. Lisa, this was sooooooo brave and courageous for you to do! I love to see the rawness that everyone else needs to see. Normalize being raw!! I love you a lot and we have talked about the real stuff that happened in our lives. You are strong and I cannot wait to see your journey in the new chapter in your life. Grandma sends her love as well! ❤
    Everyone, PLEASE get your mental health together if you can, you are worth it.

  • @secondtwonone22
    @secondtwonone22 Рік тому +8

    Confronting mental health struggles as a person of Asian descent is some next level shit. It requires a lot of bravery, a lot of unlearning, a lot of humility and a lot of grace for yourself. Keep doing this hard work and thank you for normalizing the struggle AND the work towards recovery.

  • @angeloocchi05
    @angeloocchi05 Рік тому +9

    You never failed you are learning your limits and yourself so failure is not a word you should ever use learning to be kind and loving to yourself is the hardest thing ever being willing to go on that journey makes you the braver and stronger then we give ourselves credit for

  • @epiphanyl
    @epiphanyl Рік тому +5

    ❤ I empathize with you. I feel like the last few years since covid has put me through the wringer with close family deaths and my relationship faltering as well. It's a journey and even though it's not always pretty, it's yours. However you choose to live it is under your control. Wishing you grace and courage to continue through it.

  • @ccook9906
    @ccook9906 Рік тому +2

    I just came across this video and am so thankful for your vulnerability and openness in sharing your struggles. That took so much courage and bravery and it touched my heart and helped me know that I am not alone in my struggles. God bless you and stay strong, you’re an amazing woman.

  • @cathyoyama9938
    @cathyoyama9938 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. I’m much older than you and I’ve struggled with some of the same things you shared as well. I can tell you that every major valley in my life, turned out to simply be the starting point of a new journey - setting me on a new path forged thru the struggle, providing new awareness and greater strength. And when I look back on it, I am so grateful. My heart breaks for you, because I know what it’s like to go thru a valley, but I’m also so excited for you because I know that this is the beginning of something wonderful. “I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future” Jeremiah 29:11. I will be praying for you, Lisa. New heights and brighter days are ahead ❤️.

  • @shelbyatkins4327
    @shelbyatkins4327 Рік тому +5

    Your content is what gave me the confidence to first get into baking. I have loved seeing your content over the years: cookies, pavlova, you exploring your Chinese heritage, everything. Thank you for sharing and what you do. You’re strong enough for this ❤

  • @minjonjones8548
    @minjonjones8548 Рік тому +6

    We all have a story - thank you SO much for sharing yours. I know it wasn't easy. Your honesty is refreshing and inspiring. I hope this experience is therapeutic for you. I LOVE your work and look forward to your videos. I will be thinking about you - sending positive energy your way and praying for your healing. VERY happy your relationship with your parents is on the mend and you and your husband still talk! Be blessed, be safe, and take your time taking care of yourself as you get to know you. You matter, we see and hear you. Your video touched me deeply and has caused me to pause and hit the "reset" button.

  • @dianadgb1
    @dianadgb1 Рік тому +2

    Sending you hugs, love, and positive energy 💖. You're such an inspiration and motivated me to do things I never thought possible, and I love you even more now. Can't wait to see what you'll do now that you're 'woke' 😂. Love you so much!

  • @eileenhurley7473
    @eileenhurley7473 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I'm humbled by your honesty. Just remember- everything happens for a reason (s) and you are exactly where you are supposed to be. Growth happens through pain and struggle( AFGO: another f*****g growth opportunity!) . You're navigating your journey, and eventually, the light will shine through the darkness. Have Faith. Sending {{{{hugs}}} and healing energy.

  • @kimberlyzuniga1594
    @kimberlyzuniga1594 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for being real with your followers, that is the one thing i have always admired about you, well besides the Boss Girl in YOU, but thank you for not always cutting a perfect cookie all time because life is not always perfect. But we always learn and grow as we go long this journey of life. Sending hugs to you and you will come out this being more resilient than ever!!
    I have also been in a emotional funk and want to get back in grove of going to work with joy, going to gym, doing the hobbies i enjoy and being happy. So thank you for sharing, very powerful! We are here to support! :)

  • @marthab255
    @marthab255 Рік тому +5

    After graduation cookies, I went into I don’t want to do another cookie. I love people of different cultures. There is a lot to be learned. I have a relative who is Cambodia and lots of Mexican immigrants. I was born in USA but I love that you are here in my country. We will be together in heaven one day.

  • @usmcwife1215
    @usmcwife1215 Рік тому +7

    Sending you big hugs! I can just see how hard that was for you. Coming from a strong Mexican background, speaking up when I was overwhelmed was not an option for me. I just couldn't admit to these feelings I was having. Helplessness, hopeless, depressed. All seemed to be dampening my spirit. I can relate to things you mentioned. I'm so happy that you've gotten help and are working through and forward. I look forward to seeing your upcoming content. You're amazing! ❤

  • @siftandswirl
    @siftandswirl Рік тому +3

    Love you Lisa!!! Big hugs to you 💗💗💗 therapy is so draining sometimes but when you see the clarity, it is amazing. I’m still praying for your journey and rooting for you. Cannot wait until I can see you in person again and give you a big hug!

  • @amoderncookie
    @amoderncookie Рік тому +4

    Thank you for your vulnerability and bravery to share. Will always be following and supporting and routing for your success in all aspects. Much love to you!❤

  • @tbynum7751
    @tbynum7751 Рік тому +5

    Sending hugs! Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing so many relatable things! 🙏🏾 🤗 ❤

  • @Artisan855
    @Artisan855 Рік тому +2

    Life can be such a struggle! While my life choices are not the same as yours in some ways, I can totally empathize with so many of your struggles! One of the things that I have learned as I have progressed in this life, is that family is everything! Your heritage and family are very important. You should take pride in the fact that you are working on putting things in perspective for your happiness. I hope that you can come to understand that you are loved and that you definitely matter! Take it one day at a time. I hope you have a spiritual person that can help you with your beliefs. All of these things can help to strengthen you to help you to become stronger and better. The world can wait. Do what you need to for you! Bless your heart, and I hope that you will come to see that this has all helped you grow into the person you truly want to be.

  • @beththevanillan
    @beththevanillan Рік тому +5

    Lisa, you’re brave and thank you for sharing this video. You light up my soul, girl! 😘

  • @chouamclean4844
    @chouamclean4844 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing, Lisa. Sending to a BIG virtual hug and lots of love. 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @jessieg8527
    @jessieg8527 Рік тому +4

    Lisa, I am so incredibly proud of you for telling your story. It’s very difficult to do on a public platform. You are so strong for doing it. Sending lots of love and positive vibes your way. You are doing great!!!! Xoxo.

  • @emilyowens2852
    @emilyowens2852 Рік тому +5

    Rooting for you as you continue to go through this journey. Thank you for sharing with us. I hope you will someday know how much you mean to this baking community. ❤️

  • @Phyl429
    @Phyl429 Рік тому +3

    Dear Lisa, Thank you for sharing your story. Know there are so many of us that truly care and are here for you. I wish you only the best and it's okay to go through life changes--- mental, physical, emotional. You are strong, intelligent, independent, brave, honest and loving. Be good to yourself. You deserve it. Love & Hugs

  • @pamelaschmidt3773
    @pamelaschmidt3773 Рік тому +2

    Lisa we love you. The Sugar Art world would be loss without you. Remember God loves you and he is always there for you.

  • @comradekitsch
    @comradekitsch Рік тому +2

    Sending so much love to you. What you’re doing is so hard and so brave. Thank you for sharing your experience and truth with us. ❤

  • @kristinedubeau341
    @kristinedubeau341 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing so honestly. I felt seen as a fellow baker, always working out how to best balance being a wife, mother, animal rescuer and running my business, not wanting to let anyone down but often feeling like I put myself last (only realizing it when I am fully depleted). I’m also on a journey to restoring balance and ensuring I’m pursuing the things in life that bring me joy. Just wanted to let you know that your story resonated and will definitely help many people as, like you said, these emotions can often leave someone feeling alone in their emotions. Good luck in your journey as you continue defining what a life that is most meaningful to you looks like and cannot wait to see your cookbook. 💕

  • @rosemacarons
    @rosemacarons Рік тому +4

    Lisa, thank you for sharing your journey. I’m 34 this year too and the last couple of years have not been consistent to say the least for me, either. Happy to hear from you even tho these are hard subjects and challenging times.

  • @ler1354
    @ler1354 Рік тому +4

    Your community is here for you. I understood this more than you know and to a lesser extent am going through parts of it. I haven't been able to put it into words but your descriptions were right on. I know it can't and doesn't help, but sending you love and hugs. We'll be here when you're ready. YOU need to come first. ❤️

  • @triciapike6276
    @triciapike6276 Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Lisa. Came at a perfect time for me. Your honesty really did make a difference. THANK YOU!

  • @mikandcookies
    @mikandcookies Рік тому +5

    so proud of you ❤️ thank you for sharing and opening up, Lisa. I am here for you, however you need me to be!!

  • @shawnjones3288
    @shawnjones3288 Рік тому +2

    I am so crying right now Lisa..your heart is so visible and vulnerable here and I am sending you the biggest grizzly bear hug..I think we all go through this “who am I” and “what do I want” phase and then hopefully finding our purpose at some point in our lives…COVID just made things almost insurmountable no matter what stage of life we were in..my opinion ❤️ Although IG and FB (I am not on Twitter or TikTok) are useful tools in growing and maintaining a business, along with these comes a lot of personal peer pressure..God is here..lean on him and he will give you what you need for tranquility and survival 🙏🏻❤️ love you sweet Lisa 🥰😍

  • @LisaSciabica-tq9pu
    @LisaSciabica-tq9pu Рік тому +2

    Thank you for your vulnerability, honesty and authenticity... giving voice to your journey & the struggles you've encountered along the way, is so brave & I hope, freeing. Your sharing about these experiences helps to normalize talking about mental health, loss, self-care & restoration. I'm grateful to you more than you could ever know. You are so loved by this community. I can't wait to see what this next season of life holds for you ❤️

  • @karenlightfield3103
    @karenlightfield3103 Рік тому +6

    If I could give you a huge hug right now I would do it!! Thank you for sharing and for being YOU! You are so worthy Lisa. You are on your way to your authentic self...that is something to be very proud of!! We are here to help you shake yourself out of this until you can do it on your own. I am so very proud of you!!

  • @shelleymank755
    @shelleymank755 Рік тому +2

    Sending you love and thanks for this video. So much of this is relatable and well spoken. Best of luck on your new journey of self discovery and doing this hard stuff ❤️

  • @aminla3
    @aminla3 Рік тому +4

    Good for you for allowing yourself to be your authentic self: if something doesn't positively resonate within you, chances are it's not the right thing or path for you. ♥

  • @daylepedrick7066
    @daylepedrick7066 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing a glimpse of your struggles. You are loved and not alone. ❤

  • @wendyelmore9018
    @wendyelmore9018 Рік тому +2

    Hi Lisa, Please do not even consider embarrassment, shame or any other negative thought about this video! You have done a great service to your friends, family and followers by posting your true position at this time in life.. When I first came across you in the "cookie world" I watched your video comparing dehydrators. I did not see you as anything less than a trustworthy, expert cookier with a terrific personality. As with so many people who have reached this level, you are experiencing what so many others experience by handling multiple aspects of life outside professional life. Not many are willing to share their struggle and I praise you for sharing! Those of us who follow you and other expert cookiers realize there is much more to your lives than what we see on camera. You only strengthen your reputation and persona by giving us a glimpse into how much you have been juggling since COVID. You are not alone! Embrace your heritage and know that being an American is not a strictly defined role! Our country and society is a beautiful tapestry woven with threads from many cultures. Thank you for all you contribute in the "cookie world," and even more for what you contributed to so many people living with the same issues you pointed out in your video. You are loved. Sincerely, Wendy Elmore

  • @Kdpartak
    @Kdpartak Рік тому +2

    I remember us meeting at News 10 what feels like a million years ago. I saw that weight... you were trying to decide if you could leave your corporate job to do BB. I'm proud of you and I get it. I've been there in entrepreneurship, marriage, now menopause has kicked my butt and I am on the other side of lots of things that provide me with empathy and compassion that I didn't have before. Hold your head up high, you are amazing and YOU ABSOLUTELY belong in the space with the best bakers and cookiers in the world. Love you girl! You are stronger than you think but it's okay to rest.

  • @hnybjonez2961
    @hnybjonez2961 5 місяців тому +1

    I relate! I have had identity issues as well. I was ashamed of my Mexican heritage because of how I grew up so I get the “fitting in”. It takes a HUGE toll on your psyche. You are brave and I commend you for putting it out there!! I hope you find the answers soon.

  • @tanyakollar7795
    @tanyakollar7795 Рік тому +1

    Compassion and love your way. Spent much time as a teen going to school in San Francisco at Prosideo School. My best friend was of Asian decent and never gave much thought of how difficult it might have been for her. Not because I was insensitive but only. Young and thought we were the same,, just being kids. We rode horses at the Golden Gate Park. Miss her, I am 74 now and wonder of her from time to time..Hope you a speedy journey through your struggles..Blessings.

  • @AimeeJordan-oq6qg
    @AimeeJordan-oq6qg Рік тому +4

    Big hugs! I’ve been there but trust me, you’ll come out stronger on the other side. Give yourself time. I’m glad you are taking care of yourself. Thanks for being brave and sharing your story. - Aimee

  • @mvessels721
    @mvessels721 Рік тому +3

    I think so many of us can relate to your feelings. I appreciate you sharing and being vulnerable. Sending lots of love your way 💜

  • @2OfMommy
    @2OfMommy Рік тому +4

    Sending you big hugs, Lisa. I’ve been going to counseling for a few months now and it was the best decision ever. You have always been my inspiration and I love that you’re being open because you have lots of people here to support you and show you love.

  • @lynnlai9968
    @lynnlai9968 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing and you're definitely not alone. You've provided so much support for your community and now we want to give you that same support. The journey is never easy but you'll definitely come out better for it. Sending you (and Frey!) all the love! ❤

  • @elizabethz3627
    @elizabethz3627 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for being so brave in sharing your journey. ❤❤❤

  • @mecheleclasson
    @mecheleclasson Рік тому +1

    I watch you because you aren't bubbly but because of your serious demeanor.. One personality doesn't fit all people.. In this industry I have come to find that burnout will come for everyone.. Don't be so hard on yourself ❤.. Thank you for sharing..

  • @reginamunster2937
    @reginamunster2937 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for being open and vulnerable with your personal problems you have been experiencing this last year. So proud of you ❤ Come be inspired…CookieCon Orlando!

  • @butterflybakesatl
    @butterflybakesatl Рік тому +1

    Lisa ❤ you are so brave and generous to share your struggles with us. What you did with this video is so extremely important, I think, not only for your own healing, but for our collective healing as a society. I am so thankful you did decide to share your raw, vulnerable self. Please be gentle with yourself and know there is hope on the other side. I love you!

  • @DesireeSanchez-t4q
    @DesireeSanchez-t4q Рік тому +2

    Takes great courage to open up and be vulnerable with the world. It was raw and authentic, many can relate as well as myself. Im proud of you for taking those steps and seeking out help. I wish you patience and self love on your journey of discovery. You have a whole tribe in your corner, rooting for you and sending love, light and virtual hugs.

  • @dawnbatson8697
    @dawnbatson8697 Рік тому +1

    Lisa, I am so incredibly proud of you. Allow yourself, to be patient with yourself. If that makes sense? I struggle with that myself. I'm an immigrant also. I have been made to feel like I shouldn't be here in the US at times. I know your story isn't really about. It just gives me imposter syndrome sometimes. I was so grateful that you let us into your life. I even cried a little. We are here for you, always 🤗❤‍🩹

  • @ssbakesky
    @ssbakesky Рік тому +1

    Thank you for always sharing wtih us, Lisa. I love how real you always are. I know what you are going through is very hard, but I cant help but feel like growth and strength are on the horizon for you. You will get through this. As I was listening to you yesterday, I could not help but feel like some (or maybe a lot) of what you are going through is grief. Grief for your grandmother, grief for your marriage, grief in that your life is so different now, and even grief for your childhood. That is alot of grief all at once. Grief can be so tricky; I think it can be really hard to pinpoint due to all the layers and emotions (anger, sadness, despair, stress, anxiety, and more). Grief isn't something we can just turn off; unfortunately, it has its own course and timeline. I am praying for you, Lisa. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You are only doing the best you can. Please remember that. If you need a break, take one. So glad you are putting yourself first. Love and big hugs.

  • @lily4118
    @lily4118 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for being honest and so, so brave about all of your recent struggles. It helps to know that when we all feel that loneliness in struggling with the difficult things in life, being an entrepreneur, etc….that there is someone who understands and can relate. Thank you for also talking about your mental health and how important it is to take care of yourself in that regard. I’m rooting for you and if there is anything I can say from following you, it’s that this next chapter in your life is going to be filled with strength, love, and growth.

  • @irenebielanski431
    @irenebielanski431 Рік тому +1

    In life we all have challenges, great is the person who can learn empathy and remain in it consistently. Hearing you content today, I am gently recommending/suggesting the following: Get a Christian Bible to read; prior to reading, pray the Holy Spirit be with you as you read and help you understand and when done reading, pray again. Pray to God our Father...start prayer with what your thankful for, then ask for forgiveness of your sins, then whatever else is on your mind/heart, and end in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen. Start going to a Christian church or Bible Study...you do not need to join...just investigate...it takes time to get to know what their groups beliefs are and if they are aligned to what the Holy Spirit is communicating to you is the truth. - - - If at any time your therapist seems to be going in the wrong direction, switch. - - - Glad you and your parents can have a loving relationship. There are so many people that do not have that and it can effect their entire life. May God bless you with peace.

  • @Syl91765
    @Syl91765 Рік тому +1

    Thank you. Many of us are going through depression and angst. Covid changed our world. Take care of you. It's okay if you're not consistent with content. We enjoy whatever you share and we learn from it. Praying for your health. ❤

  • @deseraeconstantineau1063
    @deseraeconstantineau1063 Рік тому +1

    Lisa, you've been one of my mentors in this new cookie adventure of mine and I'm so very proud of you for being so raw and vulnerable. I am so sorry for your pain and struggles the last few years but I believe we do have to break down to break through. Keep being you and keep being real. As @BreneBrown says, Vulnerability is a superpower!

  • @kariaceto3151
    @kariaceto3151 Рік тому +1

    This came at the exact time I am in a (scarily) similar position. Let me be honest in saying I struggle with jealousy and would see how successful you were and ALL the ways you were growing. It made me not want to watch you because it was a reminder of how far away I am - I couldn't relate. What I think most content creators fail to do is to be real. A lot of us don't want to watch these highly produced and mostly unattainable videos. We want to relate to you and see ourselves in you. So you've gotten a "fan" back and I am sure this video will bring even more people to you and I hope more support from us "faceless you tube subscribers" because we are real and my sentiments are as well. I wish you strength and hope you continue to be able to forgive yourself for any of the bumps and hiccups you have made. I hate to sound like an old lady but you are SO young! Give your younger self and your future self some much deserved grace. I wish I had come to this point in my life earlier and not wasted so many years being unhappy. You are on the right/your path - it's not always going to spark joy but you need to have faith that you do really deserve to be happier than not. Thank you. Sending you a huge hug.

  • @Eazybakecakes
    @Eazybakecakes Рік тому +1

    💚💚💚 I felt your energy was different this time. Take care of yourself always Lisa! 🫶🏼

  • @kalyndecarlo1118
    @kalyndecarlo1118 Рік тому +3

    “Sometimes there is a season to hustle and sometimes there is a season to look in on yourself.” 🖤
    Thank you for standing next to us and meeting us with such vulnerability and honesty.
    You’ve given me the strength to push pause on parts of my life and give myself the time to mourn the recent loss of my parents. Now is not the time to hustle. Now is the time to take care of me.
    As my therapist told me, “You can’t white knuckle it through life.”
    🖤 you and THANK YOU.

  • @kateb3259
    @kateb3259 Рік тому +1

    I’m on both sides of a similar struggle right now as what you’re describing- as both the person going through it and the partner of someone going through it- while trying to make it as my own business and you’re the first person I’ve heard voice it as I’m experiencing it. All of it. And thank you so much for that. While I understand why you might want to delete this later, I hope you know what a source of compassion and strength it can serve for others (and is). You’ve helped more than your one person I imagine.

  • @ktodd037
    @ktodd037 Рік тому +2

    Holy cow Lisa, you're human! I have followed you forever and always wondered how you did it all. Thank you sooo much for sharing your struggles. I remember being in my mid 30's (I'm 58 now) and going through some of the same things you're going through now. Your 30's are such a time of reflection and it's hard. I'm so glad to hear you have found it in yourself to see it and to find the people you need to help you through it. I think one of the hardest things for me was thinking that I didn't deserve it and what am I complaining about when there are people who have it so much worse. I want to tell you that your struggles are real to you and you have to do whatever you can to address them. I wish you all the best, and believe me, if you take care of yourself, it will get better. Much love and thank you!

  • @sharon.in.cookieland
    @sharon.in.cookieland Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this because it definitely helped me ❤️ I’m just starting out trying to start a cookie decorating business and I’ve noticed my life has gradually become more and more strained as I spend all my time baking, decorating, designing, editing videos, and cleaning up. It’s starting to really consume my life and your video reminded me I need to prioritize myself and self care. It’s easy to ignore boundaries when it comes to a home business and treat yourself like a machine to keep up. So I really needed to hear this and I appreciate it.

  • @meaganbruno2296
    @meaganbruno2296 Рік тому +4

    First off this was amazing. I know how difficult this was to do. 🤗 you got this ❤

  • @lisalarcenaire4406
    @lisalarcenaire4406 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your brave share. I hope it was cathartic for you on some level. You have obviously learned so much and are on your way to the next iteration. It is somehow fitting that you would open yourself up to teach others on THIS level because we have all learned so much from you on the cookie/small business level. Sending a virtual hug.

  • @zaidadiaz-rossi3668
    @zaidadiaz-rossi3668 8 місяців тому +1

    You are amazing! I love your videos, and you are more than worthy! Proud of you for doing the work, this is not easy stuff. ❤

  • @emilyh3479
    @emilyh3479 Рік тому +2

    By tapping into your "faults" and addressing them you will only become stronger and the pursuit of perfection will ultimately lose out to the pursuit of happiness. Trust the process and always allow yourself forgiveness. I follow two mantras in life "History is not destiny" and "It is always now". These help me personally when I get overloaded and stressed. Be in your current moment the best that you can because "now" is truly the reality any of us have. Thank you for sharing and be well

  • @otterbebaking3444
    @otterbebaking3444 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us. A lot of what you said resonated with me. You are a huge gift to this community and being this real and relatable is another example of why. Keep doing the hard work on yourself! ❤

  • @cassiepike834
    @cassiepike834 Рік тому +1

    Take your time, friend. Good for you for facing it head on, life is harrrrrrrrrd. Money will be there when you’re ready to go get it. ❤️

  • @debbieperez1034
    @debbieperez1034 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for being transparent, Lisa!!! Totally understand…. Live with depression and think EVERYONE should get therapy. Judgement…. YES but NOT in a BAD WAY!! YOU ROCK 🤘🏻 Thank you for showing REALNESS ✌🏻💗

  • @gabrielncali8999
    @gabrielncali8999 6 місяців тому +1

    Lisa, I can’t believe I’m just seeing this now! Crazy! Thank you for being real! This is ALL part of it! It is! I know we don’t’ know each other personally, but you are a cookie mentor for me. I just wanted to give you a big hug watching this. But, I’ve been in this place and hug can only mean so much you have to make the decisions. So glad you got help and my experience is to be willing to accept help. All love. All love. All love. Thank you for sharing. I hope things are getting better now. Looking forward to the cookbook!
    P.S. I loved the slurping! ❤🤣

  • @DanielleFiore-y4t
    @DanielleFiore-y4t Рік тому +2

    Hi Lisa. Sending hugs to you. How brave of you to put this out there and be so vulnerable. Praying that you find what truly makes you happy.

  • @lj8742
    @lj8742 8 місяців тому +1

    You are soooo brave for showing your vulnerability. The biggest gift we can give ourselves is the ability of being core honest with who we are. In order to love someone else, one has to love themselves. That was my mum's advice. It seems so basic, but it was the best advice she gave me. I totally understand the rut you have experienced, I am dealing with it atm, and I am 63. I decided I need to find something to occupy my time, which is royal icing cookies, hence how I found you!! So you see, here I am in Western Australia, the other end of the world, and I came across your video. You should be sooo proud of yourself and that you have been able to self assess and question your life choices at such a young age, 35 is way young and you have your whole life ahead of you!! I only figured it later in life!! Thank you soooo much for sharing something soooo private, I needed to hear this today. Much ❤️. P.S. I love your videos!!! You go girl❤❤❤❤

  • @triciahanley651
    @triciahanley651 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for sharing. That was brave.

  • @mimiscountrygoodies5019
    @mimiscountrygoodies5019 Рік тому +1

    Lisa, thank you for sharing your story and emotions!! Life is a learning process and each day we are learning something new about ourselves!! Keep striving and look forward to your content and products melodie/ Mimi’s Country Goodies

  • @catrinaweagraff5194
    @catrinaweagraff5194 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing from your heart. You are not alone!! I can definitely connect with you on the disconnected from myself aspect... I don't know how to find me again..

  • @sugarbeezllc
    @sugarbeezllc Рік тому +1

    Oh my ganache, this was so relatable. I felt like you were talking about me. How lonely entrepreneurship is. I hope you continue to heal.

  • @catricarrion5305
    @catricarrion5305 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. Prayers and big hug.

  • @theresafranco7002
    @theresafranco7002 Рік тому +1

    thank you for sharing your journey, sending hugs to you.

  • @DeardraOBrien
    @DeardraOBrien Рік тому +1

    You are so brave girl !! Sending you all the love and strength to come out the other side of this stronger than ever ❤️💪🏻

  • @cherylmeehan6915
    @cherylmeehan6915 Рік тому +4

    That was very brave, Lisa.

  • @mbuccibear
    @mbuccibear Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing.--Never any judgements...please take care of yourself!

  • @kimberlylawrentz4987
    @kimberlylawrentz4987 25 днів тому +1

    You are amazing💫

  • @AJ-yg6ii
    @AJ-yg6ii Рік тому

    Lisa, your personality is so good, just being yourself. You don’t have to be bubbly or anything other than you. We all really like you exactly as you are, and always have!!! Props for realizing you’re worth having an authentic, best life! You inspired me to do CCC, and were so kind in person, I’ll always remember that. You’re amazing from where I stand!

  • @universalbutterfly1111
    @universalbutterfly1111 Рік тому

    You’re evolving and growing beautifully and that’s all a part of the process of unlearning and re-learning yourself. God bless you for sharing your journey thanks💜🙏🏾💜

  • @kathyh9423
    @kathyh9423 Рік тому

    Oh, Lisa. My heart goes out to you and you have my utmost respect for showing your vulnerability and bravery this way. It is so true that every person one meets is struggling with something and what we see on the surface or on social media never tells the real story. It is also very true what Leonard Cohen wrote: "There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in." I was 35 years old when I finally realized that all along I'd been asking myself, "What am I supposed to do?" It was a seismic revelation to realize the question I could ask myself is, "What do I want to do?"
    I am 52 years old now and I can tell you that life can get harder at times - I had a rare, aggressive cancer where my odds of surviving beyond 2 years were less than 3% and I now have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome where I am housebound and often bed/couch bound. But I would never trade the wisdom I have accumulated by coming through the hard times and remaining grateful. It has taught me the most fundamental life lesson... that love is the foundation of life and your people are what get you through.
    You clearly have insight, intelligence and grace and those will continue to serve you well in all the years ahead, whatever they bring. Stay curious, stay brave and be gentle and patient with yourself. I have a Life is Good shirt that says "Grow through what you go through" and I wish you growth and peace. Sending you love and a hug.

  • @TaniaCarolineChen
    @TaniaCarolineChen Рік тому

    This is sort of like getting naked in front of millions of people who don't know you. Maybe just talk to a therapist? You're laying yourself vulnerable to a whole load of people who you don't know you watching you cry and telling them your life story. Maybe protect yourself and keep this private, personal is called personal for a reason.

  • @AshleyNewellDotMe
    @AshleyNewellDotMe Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing this! Your vulnerability is so brave! I'm so proud of you and I'm so glad that you are putting yourself, your needs, and your authenticity first. It's incredibly hard and working on yourself is truly not an easy task. I cannot wait to see where your next chapter takes you and I hope to see you more!

  • @JulieSmith-s9b
    @JulieSmith-s9b Рік тому

    Hugs and love and light your way. Thank you for just showing what being human is, messy hard and real. We are all here for it , even unknowingly. ❤ People need that, and I hope it helps you too!

  • @veronicadavidson5990
    @veronicadavidson5990 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve felt the same for a very long time. Combine the self doubt with loss of a child and social anxiety I feel stuck. There are things I want to do but can’t bring myself to do. I spent 30 years of marriage being constantly put down by my in laws with no support from my husband. He never stood up to them out of fear of being cut out but it was at my expense. Now they’re gone but we’re just friends. I find it hard to get close. I can’t get close to anyone.

  • @BakerAndABlackCat
    @BakerAndABlackCat Рік тому

    Sending all the hugs, support, and gratitude. This came at a very appropriate time in my life. Thank you sharing. 💜

  • @iniabellepaz445
    @iniabellepaz445 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing, sending you blessings. Stay well.

  • @dinkieduckie
    @dinkieduckie Рік тому

    Thank you for opening yourself up like that. You have amazing insight into yourself and your mental health. You speak so eloquently and from the heart. I wish you a healing and joyous year to come.

  • @kathleenrust5230
    @kathleenrust5230 Рік тому

    Lisa I met you through Karen and have loved you and your products I’m so sorry your going through this no judgment I feel you will find your way through this god bless you

  • @_LaNica
    @_LaNica 10 місяців тому +1

    I hope all is well! ❤

  • @kathytimcho1102
    @kathytimcho1102 Рік тому

    Appreciate your honesty. We are here for you and love your kindness in always sharing your skills with us. Hold your head up high and know that you are well-loved by cookiers and others who applaud all your efforts.

  • @yinglong9845
    @yinglong9845 Рік тому +1

    brave ,

  • @StevieLazo-q2b
    @StevieLazo-q2b Рік тому

    Ah, the crack in the cosmic egg. That’s where the light comes in. It’s on its way to you. 💕

  • @SweetXpectations
    @SweetXpectations Рік тому

    Survival mode is real & so exhausting hugs we will get through this ❤

  • @cguzmanvisuals
    @cguzmanvisuals Рік тому +3

  • @linsj1528
    @linsj1528 Рік тому

    You are a beautiful human! Thank you for sharing your story

  • @inugirl47guyzako
    @inugirl47guyzako Рік тому +1

    To new chapters Lisa 🙌😊