How To Respond To A Bad Performance Review (And When To Quit)

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  • Опубліковано 2 вер 2020
  • Here's how to deal with a bad performance review in a way where you can actually forge a stronger bond with your boss! I'm sharing several tips to help you handle a bad performance review.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 51

  • @Buyitforwife
    @Buyitforwife  3 роки тому +2

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  • @jhunsuc1239
    @jhunsuc1239 11 місяців тому +5

    We had monthly meetings and she told me how wonderfully I was doing.

  • @savannahthomas9841
    @savannahthomas9841 Рік тому +16

    I was shocked with my first performance review and I addressed it with my supervisor. My review wasn’t just negative it was shockingly negative. I wanted to know what she meant and she told me it’s a standard letter. I am definitely gathering all my evidence to protect myself.

    • @talasilachaitanya7626
      @talasilachaitanya7626 Рік тому +4

      I just can’t fathom some Supervisors/Managers are setting the Unreal expectations!!

  • @jackcarraway4707
    @jackcarraway4707 Рік тому +19

    If you're doing your honest best and that's not good enough for your boss, pull the plug and leave.

    • @yoch8350
      @yoch8350 5 місяців тому

      What if it is your dream job ?

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  5 місяців тому +5

      @yoch8350 if your boss is not making you a better person, or treats you horribly it is not a dream job

  • @codykonior
    @codykonior 3 роки тому +35

    This was extremely helpful advice, thanks. Getting a bad performance review, especially when it's undeserved (e.g. due to new requirements going forward), feels like dying.

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  3 роки тому +13

      Thanks Cody - yes especially when it’s undeserved or used as a way to push someone out of an organization.

  • @KristinAlayna
    @KristinAlayna 3 роки тому +59

    What if the review is BS? What if the review is based on how much they personally dislike you or how annoying they think you are, instead of what you actually did? What if they do want you to quit?

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  3 роки тому +17

      If that is INDEED true (confirmed after checking multiple legit sources and confirmed again), then it’s time to leave. You can also start building your case too and stay as long as you need to collect evidence and perhaps take some kind of legal action if you do have a case that is

    • @christophertracy2807
      @christophertracy2807 3 роки тому +20

      Quit - get out of there are fast as possible

    • @Milla300
      @Milla300 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly I am gonna nail her a$$

    • @virtuosowins
      @virtuosowins 2 роки тому +7

      Plan the getaway and bail out. You leaving for a better job is the best way to ask them to shove it.

    • @gerykis
      @gerykis Рік тому +1

      Or wait until your manager will change team. had like 4 manager coming and go

  • @danacarmen2699
    @danacarmen2699 Рік тому +11

    I think toxic workplace leads to bad performance reviews, usually in corporations the boss relies on others bs feedback and not on metrics. On 360 feedback review usually people just throw their frustrations in there and then the boss uses that against you to not give you a raise. It's that simple and works every time. Turn people against each other by asking the right questions and then uses that as a motive to not give you a bonus or a raise.

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  Рік тому +4

      Yes I see your point. 360, and other similar assessment tools, in my opinion is a waste of time made by “experts” that repurpose the same content with a new trademarked name. If the manager is good, he/she will help raise their team and let them grow and give direct feedback.

  • @DJCayne
    @DJCayne Рік тому +8

    What sucks is for some companies this sticks for entire career in industry.

  • @MsPriyaLal
    @MsPriyaLal 2 роки тому +28

    Are you serious? If you give someone a true negative review there is no way they are going to improve to be a powerful force together. The relationship is strained and doomed. Its better to get a different job. But what you describe is negative feedback or a negative comment in the review. Negative comments are where you can show and improve .

    • @peaceatlast8768
      @peaceatlast8768 Рік тому +11

      Exactly! Your reputation is ruined and theres no way you can grow in that company anymore.

  • @virtuosowins
    @virtuosowins 2 роки тому +16

    The most important thing is to recognize all the sweet talk in words and on paper and no negative comments from the manager but then giving you a rating lesser than optimal to meet the efin Bell curve. What might be the best way to deal with it ?

  • @randomoverpopulatedworldid3286
    @randomoverpopulatedworldid3286 Рік тому +10

    I've worked through COVID with a very high risk population since 2018. I've watched various employees around me slack off. Now I'm quiet quitting. F them I'm waiting for them to lay me off. I've dealt with many deaths and personal problems and all they care about is productivity. My productivity was great until they got rid of my high yield clients. Feel like they're pushing me out. Or make me a manager which I've turned down MANY TIMES for ethical and legal reasons. So the manager who did my review I trained and I also trained many people along the way too.

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  Рік тому +1

      Gosh I’m sorry to hear that and hope you find your way out of it. I don’t know if quiet quitting is the answer…and funny enough if they are pushing you out…is that quiet firing?

  • @peaceatlast8768
    @peaceatlast8768 Рік тому +5

    Bad advice, a negative review a sure-fire way to get someone to leave.

  • @curious_7525
    @curious_7525 2 роки тому +7

    I detest the word Boss

  • @bigneiltoo
    @bigneiltoo Місяць тому +1

    1) Don't argue.
    2) Don't insult your boss.
    3) Don't blame others.
    4) Don't badmouth coworkers.
    5) Thank them for the opportunity to improve.
    6) Shake their hand.

  • @somav8
    @somav8 3 роки тому +11

    By boss keeps canceling our check in meetings.

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  3 роки тому +2

      That’s not uncommon but doesn’t mean it’s acceptable, especially if the boss is high up the chain. I’d suggest you bring that up specifically with the boss and inquire as to why that’s the case and how that can be improved

  • @Richmonkey837
    @Richmonkey837 2 місяці тому

    What if the performance discussion comes in the middle of nowhere when you already applied for another position in the company and you are going to have an interview? Now your manager decides to do PR with you before the interview.

  • @nickpapageorgio4944
    @nickpapageorgio4944 Рік тому +1

    Good advice. Do you have a video on how to deal with a boss that wants you to take a different career path (to suit their career aspirations) vs what you want? A path that has nothing to do with your passions, strengths, skill set, and interests?

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  Рік тому

      I would say, 1) are there transferable skills or experience that could help get you to where you REALLY want to go? 2) otherwise, time to look for other options…

  • @sherrim4067
    @sherrim4067 Рік тому +1

    What if they read what you wrote in remarks and tell you to change it,?

  • @mw7882
    @mw7882 9 місяців тому

    My supervisor isn't interested in checking in with the staff. She does not care to see if the partner's claims are true or false.

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    @gorgeesalhadaya7258 3 роки тому

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  • @jhunsuc1239
    @jhunsuc1239 11 місяців тому

    What if they refuse to give you a copy of the review?

  • @peonyflowers23
    @peonyflowers23 5 місяців тому +2

    The problem is reviews are used as weapons by insecure people.

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  5 місяців тому

      Yes it’s possible (although rare). I would say if the boss is insecure, you don’t want to be there.

  • @Milla300
    @Milla300 2 роки тому +3

    Seriously my review was marked down by an inferior supervisor seriously can you write about that

  • @jhunsuc1239
    @jhunsuc1239 11 місяців тому +1

    Also when I asked for specifics, my boss got angry and stated she wasn't prepared for that question.

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  11 місяців тому +2

      That’s no good…goes to show the quality of leadership unfortunately

    • @jhunsuc1239
      @jhunsuc1239 11 місяців тому +4

      Thank you, that helps me to decipher kind of what is going on. It has been pretty confusing to me, the last year. I never feel like I know what is expected of me and the goalpost seems to keep moving. I really appreciate your response.

  • @golgo1393
    @golgo1393 2 роки тому +4

    What to do if you think the comment from your supervisor on the performance sheet is clearly false?

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  2 роки тому +3

      Ask them about it - ask them to explain that in more detail with examples

  • @Milla300
    @Milla300 2 роки тому +1

    Yeh ambiguous as hell!!!!

  • @savannahthomas9841
    @savannahthomas9841 Рік тому +2

    Do I need to sign my performance review if I don’t agree with it?

    • @Faith-sr8zw
      @Faith-sr8zw Рік тому

      Good question hope someone answers this cos I want the answer too

    • @mw7882
      @mw7882 9 місяців тому

      I have not signed reviews that were slanderous and fabricated. Alternative I have responded with an action plan for areas of improvement and evidence against false claims.

  • @CriticalCentrist
    @CriticalCentrist 7 місяців тому

    Why do these videos always seem to focus on the white collar jobs? There are plenty of jobs out there that do performance reviews for menial, blue collar work

    • @Buyitforwife
      @Buyitforwife  7 місяців тому

      That’s a great question! There should be more content on that I agree with