Most of those things are how I was raised also. Including let the old guy think he is right. For now. No need to make an argument out in public. Shoes...Growing up on a farm, well, there is good reason to leave your shoes outside. Always say hi to everyone at a gathering. You never know when that will be your last chance to. Being polite seems to be a lost art in America. People now brag about how offensive they can be to others. We really need to bring Shame back. Good vid. Great topic.
Yep. The oldest person is always right because most of the time, that person is going senile and you don’t want to distress them. Arguing with your ulyanin grandpa isn’t going to prove anything to anyone. Down here, we take care of our elderly ourselves. Life is hard in the Philippines and it’s family that makes it bearable and worthwhile. I didn’t personally see it but my parents tell me how hard their parents worked to provide for them and if my parents who I see are working their asses of for me and my sister say so, I’d believe them. When my parents turn gray and wrinkly, you’ll bet I’ll make sure to make them as comfortable as I can manage and won’t tolerate my future kids being disrespectful so yeah, my grandma can keep telling me everyday that a mid-twenties woman should already be married and have like, three kids by now and I’ll still love her to bits.
Luckily my wife told me about those things so i have a clue. Nevertheless, I enjoyed hearing you talk about them. You do a nice job explaining them without passing judgement.
How can you forget "Mano Po"? This is with Filipino younger "relatives", even if you are just an "uncle" (not blood related). ("Mano Po" is a younger Filipino takes the hand you extended toward them and they put it on their forehead as a sign of respect.)
@raananh-w2j My Filipina GF forced me / ordered me / demanded from me to do the Mano to all older people (incl her parents, god mother and the likes). I am not allowed to say the following but in my country we dont do that. We just shake hands and/or hug and/or give 3 kisses on the cheeks. However, I followed her orders but I also informed her that I didnt and dont FEEL any respect. Bec I simply dont know those people. In my country we use the word respect only when we speak and think highly of an individual (based on her/his personal achievements). For the rest, we think about all other people in equal terms. Respect goes both ways (but not in the Philippines). Moral of the story: I can do everything but with no emotions and with an empty brain. So whats the point of doing the mano when there are no emotions involved?
@raananh-w2j Good point, but my Filipina mother in law doesn't want me to do this, she says its not our tradition (foreign USA). Her grandchildren always greet me this way though.
In Minnesota, you will arrive at 11:45 for a noon appointment. We're accustomed to the extra time it takes to deal with all the clothes before the meeting starts. Arrive at noon and then find a place for your coat, hat. boots, clean your glasses from the fog . . . After the meeting, everyone will say the worst thing that can be said in Minnesota: Well he was different.
You could make this a continuing video...lol Lots of traditions talked about and important. My favorite is my Filipina wife told me that sleeping with the cieling fan on makes you fart....lol She always sleeps under the covers...lol Thanks for the video, John...Jim
That last piece of food that nobody eats (eventhough they want to) because everbody's like "Hey that last piece is yours if you want it." to each other.
One Filipino-Chinese tradition that we were taught was to always use both hands when handing something to someone, especially if it is to an older person. It is a sign of respect.
As for not(!) saying "No" in Asian culture, including Filipino society, it's much worse in Japan, where they say "Yes" when they really mean "No". Very frustrating for Westerners. In the Philippines, they say "no" (Hindi) more than most Asian countries, but try to avoid saying that. No so bad in the Philippines.
I think the older you are, the farthest you should sit is based on Emergency situation. If you put a slow person in front, in case of emergency, there is a bigger probability of more casualties. I think, they do this in the plane. If you have travelled a lot, then if you are between 30-40, you will be chosen to be sitting next to the Emergency Exit. This rule is different from Person with Disability.
If you need to point at someone to indicate you are talking to them you can use the open palm method. Point using your open hand as if you were offering him something.
We went to a buffet once in Tacloban and they actually charged extra for the food you got, but didn't eat. I found that strange at first, but it makes sense.
Dang, love the name of your channel. First video 45k? Amazing. For the videos in my home or outside I use the Osmo Pocket 3 Creator Combo. For the videos in my studio I use a Sony A7C. What do you use?
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat thank you so much ☺☺☺nice. i have the osmo pocket 3 too, but I use the DJI osmo action 5 pro, in HLG format and converting to rec709 ☺☺☺
Hello, is there a certain area of Davao city you would recommend to buy a home? Or is their a realtor you would recommend that really knows that area? I want to avoid any area's that flood, something that has security guards would be a must also. Thank you
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat Hello and thanks for trying to answer my questions. If you can tell me the top 3 condo's in Davao to look at I would really appreciate it.
I know, from reading, at least in the French Foreign Legion you have to shake hands with everyone in the morning when you meet them the first time. Not the rest of the time after that. I wonder if that is a general French thing?
Dear John, for more subs you need to habitually acknowledge comments that are left, otherwise it’s like saying ‘I’m not interested’ . Just saying, to help a friend…😊
@Scollier1961 I appreciate your feedback my friend. I used to respond to every comment but have had a challenge to that lately but will work on it more
Low Carbon Footprint is embedded in Filipino culture, from reusing and less foodwaste. Our problem in terms of environmental is our law does not allow inciniration of solid waste plus there is a sachet culture because of poverty+floods that take these solid wastes to the sea. They should really allow solid waste inciniration as Philippines does not have enough landmass, compare to Latin Countries and even our neighboring countries. The Local Government is struggling to pinpoint Land fill areas, as we have declared a lot of protected areas also, and whenever they build a land fill, it often easily get full. Our congressmen does not even bother to tackle this critical issues in solid waste.
Most of those things are how I was raised also.
Including let the old guy think he is right. For now. No need to make an argument out in public. Shoes...Growing up on a farm, well, there is good reason to leave your shoes outside. Always say hi to everyone at a gathering. You never know when that will be your last chance to.
Being polite seems to be a lost art in America. People now brag about how offensive they can be to others. We really need to bring Shame back. Good vid. Great topic.
as a Filipino, you are really on point on your observations.
Maraming salamat 😊
Does the respect for the oldest person transfer to foreigners? If so, I really like it because I'm the oldest most of the time.
Yep. The oldest person is always right because most of the time, that person is going senile and you don’t want to distress them. Arguing with your ulyanin grandpa isn’t going to prove anything to anyone. Down here, we take care of our elderly ourselves. Life is hard in the Philippines and it’s family that makes it bearable and worthwhile.
I didn’t personally see it but my parents tell me how hard their parents worked to provide for them and if my parents who I see are working their asses of for me and my sister say so, I’d believe them. When my parents turn gray and wrinkly, you’ll bet I’ll make sure to make them as comfortable as I can manage and won’t tolerate my future kids being disrespectful so yeah, my grandma can keep telling me everyday that a mid-twenties woman should already be married and have like, three kids by now and I’ll still love her to bits.
Respect
Yes that's all true, respect is the most.. Thanks for reminding these again ❤😂
Luckily my wife told me about those things so i have a clue. Nevertheless, I enjoyed hearing you talk about them. You do a nice job explaining them without passing judgement.
Glad to hear that your wife has been helpful, and thanks for the kind words about my style
GREAT VIDEO
Thanks, glad you liked it!
How can you forget "Mano Po"? This is with Filipino younger "relatives", even if you are just an "uncle" (not blood related). ("Mano Po" is a younger Filipino takes the hand you extended toward them and they put it on their forehead as a sign of respect.)
@raananh-w2j
My Filipina GF forced me / ordered me / demanded from me to do the Mano to all older people (incl her parents, god mother and the likes).
I am not allowed to say the following but in my country we dont do that. We just shake hands and/or hug and/or give 3 kisses on the cheeks.
However, I followed her orders but I also informed her that I didnt and dont FEEL any respect. Bec I simply dont know those people.
In my country we use the word respect only when we speak and think highly of an individual (based on her/his personal achievements). For the rest, we think about all other people in equal terms. Respect goes both ways (but not in the Philippines).
Moral of the story:
I can do everything but with no emotions and with an empty brain. So whats the point of doing the mano when there are no emotions involved?
@raananh-w2j Good point, but my Filipina mother in law doesn't want me to do this, she says its not our tradition (foreign USA). Her grandchildren always greet me this way though.
Thank you for adding that to the list
I don't do it. I don't ask younger relatives to do it either.
@@Merlinhexer I don't ask for that. But when you meet younger Filipinos, they will grab your hand, and instead of shaking it, they will do Mano Po.
In Minnesota, you will arrive at 11:45 for a noon appointment. We're accustomed to the extra time it takes to deal with all the clothes before the meeting starts.
Arrive at noon and then find a place for your coat, hat. boots, clean your glasses from the fog . . . After the meeting, everyone will say the worst thing that can be said in Minnesota: Well he was different.
Minnesotans are going to love the Philippines then :)
Legit. Great video🎉
Appreciate that!
Godbless your very informative Channels regarding to Filipino topic
Thanks so much! Appreciate your kind words
You could make this a continuing video...lol Lots of traditions talked about and important. My favorite is my Filipina wife told me that sleeping with the cieling fan on makes you fart....lol She always sleeps under the covers...lol Thanks for the video, John...Jim
LOL sleeping under the covers and farting. Sounds like a Dutch oven 😅
That last piece of food that nobody eats (eventhough they want to) because everbody's like "Hey that last piece is yours if you want it." to each other.
One Filipino-Chinese tradition that we were taught was to always use both hands when handing something to someone, especially if it is to an older person. It is a sign of respect.
@Busy_as_a_Bea Like that!
As for not(!) saying "No" in Asian culture, including Filipino society, it's much worse in Japan, where they say "Yes" when they really mean "No". Very frustrating for Westerners. In the Philippines, they say "no" (Hindi) more than most Asian countries, but try to avoid saying that. No so bad in the Philippines.
I say NO to my 8 year old son almost all the time 😅
@@Busy_as_a_Bea Yes, parents and 2-years-old kids use the word "NO!" a lot. You are funny, but correct.
That does sound very frustrating in Japan
I think the older you are, the farthest you should sit is based on Emergency situation. If you put a slow person in front, in case of emergency, there is a bigger probability of more casualties. I think, they do this in the plane. If you have travelled a lot, then if you are between 30-40, you will be chosen to be sitting next to the Emergency Exit. This rule is different from Person with Disability.
If you need to point at someone to indicate you are talking to them you can use the open palm method. Point using your open hand as if you were offering him something.
We went to a buffet once in Tacloban and they actually charged extra for the food you got, but didn't eat. I found that strange at first, but it makes sense.
They do that everywhere
Yes, its common at lots of buffets here though I haven't seen them enforce it before.
hey bro nice video, which camera you use? 😮😮😮
Dang, love the name of your channel. First video 45k? Amazing. For the videos in my home or outside I use the Osmo Pocket 3 Creator Combo. For the videos in my studio I use a Sony A7C. What do you use?
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat thank you so much ☺☺☺nice. i have the osmo pocket 3 too, but I use the DJI osmo action 5 pro, in HLG format and converting to rec709 ☺☺☺
@@BALDGUY.official Nice one 😊👍
There is Never a socially acceptable reason to raise your voice.
Yes agreed
If you’re dating a Filipina, avoid getting “kuya”-zoned. If she’s calling you that, it’s probably her way of saying she’s not into you. lol
Hello, is there a certain area of Davao city you would recommend to buy a home? Or is their a realtor you would recommend that really knows that area? I want to avoid any area's that flood, something that has security guards would be a must also. Thank you
I'm sorry i'm not sure on either with those, I know more on the condo side there.
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat Hello and thanks for trying to answer my questions. If you can tell me the top 3 condo's in Davao to look at I would really appreciate it.
😅😅I am a Filipina and you are right, John.....😂🙄😂
Salamat Hazel 😊
I'll sit by the door ! First to get the hell out 😁
I know, from reading, at least in the French Foreign Legion you have to shake hands with everyone in the morning when you meet them the first time. Not the rest of the time after that. I wonder if that is a general French thing?
2nd to comment
Thank you for your support
point with all the finger or the whole hand…that is polite. one finger is inpolite.
true
Dear John, for more subs you need to habitually acknowledge comments that are left, otherwise it’s like saying ‘I’m not interested’ . Just saying, to help a friend…😊
That might be true, but John is busy running a business. Maybe he can add it to an employee's duties lol
I dont want him to state:
"thanks for your comment. Thanks for watching". In that case, I rather he didnt respond at all.
@Scollier1961 I appreciate your feedback my friend. I used to respond to every comment but have had a challenge to that lately but will work on it more
@KeepingupwiththeJoneses1999 appreciate your understanding
Interaction is valuable
Low Carbon Footprint is embedded in Filipino culture, from reusing and less foodwaste. Our problem in terms of environmental is our law does not allow inciniration of solid waste plus there is a sachet culture because of poverty+floods that take these solid wastes to the sea. They should really allow solid waste inciniration as Philippines does not have enough landmass, compare to Latin Countries and even our neighboring countries. The Local Government is struggling to pinpoint Land fill areas, as we have declared a lot of protected areas also, and whenever they build a land fill, it often easily get full. Our congressmen does not even bother to tackle this critical issues in solid waste.
Everybody just burns in their yard
Nah, I’m saying no. That’s how you get them to stop asking.
Supertitious beliefs now adays most of us are not applicable to filipinos.
Is Romance scam AND begging for money also part of the culture?
No, it's a new phenomenon after the advent of the internet all over the world, and if you fall for that it's your fault really
Its really a minority here, and its also a minority in western countries
Every man has a story Jr.