Ben is English, but he could as well be Italian by the amount of times that he moves his hands to speak hahaha 🤣 I love how passionate he is when he’s talking about something important to him. Jenn is a queen and nothing else to say.
That intro is 🤗! You two should also start a podcast! We'd love to hear more from you, from discussing a wide range of topics to simply just sharing your thoughts and opinions. 😊
That intro!! What an adorable idea. Loved that you guys wrapped up with importance of deep breathing. I start yoga during the beginning of the pandemic and it made me realize how shallow my breathing is day to day and how healing it can be to just take a few deep breaths throughout the day. Really loving the mentality and mindset you guys are spreading!
Hey Jocelyn! That's amazing you're into yoga and understand the value in breathing. It's literally life changing. If you haven't already check out Wim Hof, he's the one that that helped science understand that breathing can heal the body
I will never get over how well they work together. You can genuinely feel how much they love and care for one another even when the topic isn’t something relationship related. Ugh I just love them ❤️
absolutely LOVED this. honest, thoughtful advice yet full of compassion and empathy from both of you. and it's so visible how passionate both of you are about what you say. also amazing all the knowledge and facts that ben knows! so many nuggets of wisdom, can't wait for more ✨🥰
I really admire yours and Jen’s ability to talk about these self improvement topics publicly together!! It’s such an inspiration for me and my partner personally and I’m always taking notes from these videos of yours. Look forward to seeing more of these discussion type videos :)
this podcast is sososoo special!! i absolutely ADORE the intro, it's so fun, creative, and cinematic!! i felt like we were about to dive into a film of sorts!!
Like you guys said, i feel like it is soo important to kind of trigger warn someone you are about to spill emotion to. Sometimes people aren’t prepared emotionally/mentally to take on the baggage of others and thus aren’t well equipped in the moment to hear or respond to you with care and understanding. That initial check in of “hey are you in the head space to talk about something heavy?” Is extremely important!
It is oficial...we need a podcast from you two. Even if it’s only a >15 min. advice podcast segment. You two give such a positive vibe and give true, helpful advice--and really make me feel normal about what I think or go through.
love this video! subscribed! one thing that helped me get out of my low tide phase, which the last one was about for about four or five months, was to only plan to do one task a day and anything else was a bonus. so for example, on the weekend, i had to sweep the floor, wash the dishes, do laundry, vaccum carpet, water the plants, etc. on saturday, i might only plan to sweep the floor and on sunday, i might only plan to do the laundry. after those tasks on those days, anything else is just a bonus. there were days where i was able to do more and there were days when i just forced myself to do the one task and that was it. this made me feel productive while also acknowledging how i felt in a healthy way. it was my way of self care during the low period. sure, it would mean my house was a mess for most of the time but it also meant that that's ok. il get through this. and i did! some days are better than others but so far so good!
Wow!!!! Ben is so well spoken!!! He is very grounded, in tuned with people and radiates such great energy. A person that is easy to listen to! 👏 so inspired ❤️
YES PODCAST!!!! Please, I know you two are busier than ever but if you're throwing it out there to see if we'd want it, the answer is a definite yes! I'd really trust your insights and would love some more reflective discussion like this one.
i just wanted to say that i'm incredible thankful for this video and i'm really looking forward to all the other ones in this series. but it's not only this video that gives me a sense of security & calmness. i'm really thankful for the videos you and jenn both post on your channels & i'm really glad i can call this my safe place. i'm (for the 882726th time) truly truly grateful that not only me but also other people have the opportunity to come here and watch your videos whenever they want and need it. thank you.
So we’ll done love the intro and the set up!! Who better to give any life advice than you guys. You two work so hard on keeping your mindset right and self love and development! Can’t wait for more!!!
I’ve been down these few days ... but after watching this episode I feel SO MUCH BETTER! Love this new series , looking for more episode of “SPILL THE TEA” !!!
You both give amazing advice! Thoroughly enjoyed hearing your thoughts about self worth, it definitely was helpful ❤️ Looking forward to more Spill The Tea videos 😊
I feel like this video came at a perfect time! It’s just super wholesome! Maybe it’s because people be spilling their tea to you guys, that you guys feel like a warm cup of tea to the rest of us ☺️ Can’t wait for more from this series 💕
Absolutely agreed. Writing things down has saved me tremendously. When you don’t have the right person to talk to writing helps you deal with tough times 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Wow literally had the same conversation about needing to vent to my partner yesterday. I would recommend every couple reads "Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars" it touches subjects like this and makes you understand how to deal with it as a couple. So excited for this new series! I feel like in every video comment there's always someone asking for a podcast or self-help videos.
Y did I cried watching this 😭 . I feel so connected to ur advice ,to me it felt like you guys r my parents who truly care and and shares from within on every question . All the questions are so relatable 😣
You guys are such a beam of light and warmth. Thank you for taking your time to share your positivity with the world ❤️biggest takeaway is that wellbeing and happiness is an everyday constant effort. It's the regular healthy habits, constant reminders of gratitude and constant reflection and appreciation of the self that yields long term happiness
Guys this was such a great idea! i love shows like this one, they are very popular and helpful and we all benefit from them!! As a future counsellor I tell you well done for making people's lives better! xx
Heart warming and a needed space in our current environment. Thank you both. 🙏 I feel inclined to recommend Alan Watts Chillhop videos here on YT, they have been extremely helpful during this time. Sending blessings 💗
You both give such good and heartfelt advice. Thank you so much for this! Things are so hard right now and I think we all needed to hear this 🥺 sending love 💖💖
love this new series!! Excited to see future episodes 💖 you guys are such caring people and I’m sure you’re great new parents despite the difficulties! I love how honest Jenn has been throughout the whole pregnancy process, makes me hopeful that if I have kids I can get through it too! I am a very emotional person and feel everything too lol
no joke I thought this was big company interviewing you guys and didnt realize until I scrolled down. that opening was a banger! i would kill for a podcast from you!!
Thank you! I feel inspired to write out my thoughts now because I feel super down today for some reason. Also yes please make a podcast that would be so amazing :)
PFF wow ben, and jen i mean you guys are so inspiring! as a person! And I love the way you guys give advise/ do this podcast, i can't stop listening! I was in a rut today but damn guys... this helped ^-^
watching this as I let myself cried 2 hours ago after screwing up my test. I guess i'm grateful for being able to afford a slice of cake while I watch this video to feel better.
Hang in there. I hope you are feeling better and that there is an opporrunity to retake this test 💜 (But if not, there will be another. Do not be too hard on yourself, as we all tend to be.)
Would love if thus could be in podcast format. I can imagine myself listening to this on a nature walk. Cheers to the start of a new series!
Ben is English, but he could as well be Italian by the amount of times that he moves his hands to speak hahaha 🤣 I love how passionate he is when he’s talking about something important to him.
Jenn is a queen and nothing else to say.
I love how Jenn is able to speak so calmly, yet get her point across without getting lost in her train of thought. So organized and poised.
So cute Ben! Really excited for this cute little series 🦋☺️
That intro is 🤗! You two should also start a podcast! We'd love to hear more from you, from discussing a wide range of topics to simply just sharing your thoughts and opinions. 😊
That intro!! What an adorable idea. Loved that you guys wrapped up with importance of deep breathing. I start yoga during the beginning of the pandemic and it made me realize how shallow my breathing is day to day and how healing it can be to just take a few deep breaths throughout the day. Really loving the mentality and mindset you guys are spreading!
Hey Jocelyn! That's amazing you're into yoga and understand the value in breathing. It's literally life changing. If you haven't already check out Wim Hof, he's the one that that helped science understand that breathing can heal the body
@@HaveAGoodOne Definitely will! Thanks for the recommendation (:
Every single one was relatable, I appreciate your candid reflections and would LOVE a podcast!
Love the vibe of this video! What a refreshing idea to have this type of talk and engage with people! Can't wait to see what you do in the future.
I honestly feel so loved by this couple lowkey feeling like they’re my parents 😭 thanks for all the advice
Ben and if possible Jenn, please make a podcast!! You totally deserve one and your advice are life changing 🙌🏻
I will never get over how well they work together. You can genuinely feel how much they love and care for one another even when the topic isn’t something relationship related. Ugh I just love them ❤️
Omg… if this becomes a podcast… I’d be so excited
absolutely LOVED this. honest, thoughtful advice yet full of compassion and empathy from both of you. and it's so visible how passionate both of you are about what you say. also amazing all the knowledge and facts that ben knows! so many nuggets of wisdom, can't wait for more ✨🥰
I love love LOVE this new series. My mantra for this week “ everything comes from within” ❤️🙏
You guys NEED a podcast asap! Love listening to your videos while getting ready! 💕
I really admire yours and Jen’s ability to talk about these self improvement topics publicly together!! It’s such an inspiration for me and my partner personally and I’m always taking notes from these videos of yours. Look forward to seeing more of these discussion type videos :)
There’s something very pleasant about the way you guys looked at each other while the other person was talking
this podcast is sososoo special!! i absolutely ADORE the intro, it's so fun, creative, and cinematic!! i felt like we were about to dive into a film of sorts!!
Like you guys said, i feel like it is soo important to kind of trigger warn someone you are about to spill emotion to. Sometimes people aren’t prepared emotionally/mentally to take on the baggage of others and thus aren’t well equipped in the moment to hear or respond to you with care and understanding. That initial check in of “hey are you in the head space to talk about something heavy?” Is extremely important!
It is oficial...we need a podcast from you two. Even if it’s only a >15 min. advice podcast segment. You two give such a positive vibe and give true, helpful advice--and really make me feel normal about what I think or go through.
The way you guys look at each other makes my heart flutter! Just pure love 🥺❤️
Love this vibe Ben….This is the CONTENT I can watch all day ….just so pure🤍💕 …you guys are love 🤍🤍
love this video! subscribed!
one thing that helped me get out of my low tide phase, which the last one was about for about four or five months, was to only plan to do one task a day and anything else was a bonus.
so for example, on the weekend, i had to sweep the floor, wash the dishes, do laundry, vaccum carpet, water the plants, etc. on saturday, i might only plan to sweep the floor and on sunday, i might only plan to do the laundry. after those tasks on those days, anything else is just a bonus. there were days where i was able to do more and there were days when i just forced myself to do the one task and that was it.
this made me feel productive while also acknowledging how i felt in a healthy way. it was my way of self care during the low period. sure, it would mean my house was a mess for most of the time but it also meant that that's ok. il get through this.
and i did! some days are better than others but so far so good!
This video is gold. Full of wisdom. Thank you Ben & Jenn
The active listening that’s happening in this video is beautiful 👏
Wow!!!! Ben is so well spoken!!! He is very grounded, in tuned with people and radiates such great energy. A person that is easy to listen to! 👏 so inspired ❤️
YES PODCAST!!!! Please, I know you two are busier than ever but if you're throwing it out there to see if we'd want it, the answer is a definite yes! I'd really trust your insights and would love some more reflective discussion like this one.
i just wanted to say that i'm incredible thankful for this video and i'm really looking forward to all the other ones in this series. but it's not only this video that gives me a sense of security & calmness. i'm really thankful for the videos you and jenn both post on your channels & i'm really glad i can call this my safe place. i'm (for the 882726th time) truly truly grateful that not only me but also other people have the opportunity to come here and watch your videos whenever they want and need it. thank you.
So we’ll done love the intro and the set up!! Who better to give any life advice than you guys. You two work so hard on keeping your mindset right and self love and development! Can’t wait for more!!!
I’ve been down these few days ... but after watching this episode I feel SO MUCH BETTER! Love this new series , looking for more episode of “SPILL THE TEA” !!!
This was exactly what I need, I've been going through a depressive episode lately. Thank you both so much :)
You both give amazing advice! Thoroughly enjoyed hearing your thoughts about self worth, it definitely was helpful ❤️ Looking forward to more Spill The Tea videos 😊
how do you know so much? you are so eloquent, im blown away
Ben is so knowledgable about self improvement and mindset! Love you guys
I feel like this video came at a perfect time! It’s just super wholesome! Maybe it’s because people be spilling their tea to you guys, that you guys feel like a warm cup of tea to the rest of us ☺️ Can’t wait for more from this series 💕
*WHO'S STILL SHOOK THAT BEN SPILLED THE TEA LITERALLY PURPOSEFULLY XDDD*
Anyone else love the tranquility and wholesomeness here☁️ Jen tu pelo se ve maravilloso 🤍🫂
Absolutely agreed. Writing things down has saved me tremendously. When you don’t have the right person to talk to writing helps you deal with tough times 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Ben’s insights ending toxic masculinity day by day ✨
This is a preview of the future Ben & jenn podcast! PLEASE START ITTTTT ASAAPPPPP! Love u guys so much!!!
Podcast please!!!!! Loved this & the energy you both put out into the world ❤️
Both of you are so inspirational and motivational. Please start doing more of podcasts like this 😍
I so much needed this video, even for your first answer to the first question. Thank you guys for sharing your good vibes and minds :)
Thank you for making this video. I'm currently facing something. But, your video with jen. This really have given me a motivation. Thank you so much.
Wow literally had the same conversation about needing to vent to my partner yesterday. I would recommend every couple reads "Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars" it touches subjects like this and makes you understand how to deal with it as a couple. So excited for this new series! I feel like in every video comment there's always someone asking for a podcast or self-help videos.
Y did I cried watching this 😭 . I feel so connected to ur advice ,to me it felt like you guys r my parents who truly care and and shares from within on every question . All the questions are so relatable 😣
You guys are such a beam of light and warmth. Thank you for taking your time to share your positivity with the world ❤️biggest takeaway is that wellbeing and happiness is an everyday constant effort. It's the regular healthy habits, constant reminders of gratitude and constant reflection and appreciation of the self that yields long term happiness
does anyone else find the placement of Ben's necklace really satisfying :P
love the messages in this vid btw
I could watch you two talk about anything. Very insightful and interesting!
This made me feel so heard and was incredibly helpful. Please keep making this series for us!!!🙏🏻🥺🤗
That intro was amazing! Love this new segment! Love you guys!!
Guys this was such a great idea! i love shows like this one, they are very popular and helpful and we all benefit from them!! As a future counsellor I tell you well done for making people's lives better! xx
Please make a podcast! Love you guys and congratulations on becoming new parents :)
thank you, mum + dad
This was very insightful and helpful as well!! Pls consider making this series to a podcast xx
Okay we love a ben and jen podcast, please make this regular :)
omg the intro!! i'm obsessed. I'm so looking forward to this series! immediate watch everytime ben uploads
ughhh I love this series already! you guys will be amazing parents
Feeling super thankful for these advices from you guys. Exactly what i needed rn!!! Also the way you guys look at each other when you talk ugh i cant
pls make a podcast i would die to listen to you guys talk all day
Thank you 🙏🏼 this video pop up on my feed at the right time. Really needed this. ❤️❤️❤️
Aww love the intro of this new series! Very British with the tea! You're spoiling us with the uploads! Love you both 💓
Heart warming and a needed space in our current environment. Thank you both. 🙏
I feel inclined to recommend Alan Watts Chillhop videos here on YT, they have been extremely helpful during this time. Sending blessings 💗
I love Alan Watts but only just seeing this Chillhop! Wow, it's so good! Appreciate the recommendation and the kind words, Coconut!
How can anyone dislike Ben’s videos???!! Love this thank you Ben & Jenn
this is everything! I love hearing both of your perspectives on certain issues. You both are so wise and give great advice! Much love 💗
I loved this!! Can you do more on consciousness!!
You both give such good and heartfelt advice. Thank you so much for this! Things are so hard right now and I think we all needed to hear this 🥺 sending love 💖💖
Your content keeps getting more and more creative! Great stuff Ben
Only a minute in and I am already sold on to this kind of content! Love it.
I agree with many of the comments - you two would be great as a podcast - enjoying this new series 💕😇👍🏽
love this new series!! Excited to see future episodes 💖 you guys are such caring people and I’m sure you’re great new parents despite the difficulties! I love how honest Jenn has been throughout the whole pregnancy process, makes me hopeful that if I have kids I can get through it too! I am a very emotional person and feel everything too lol
Hey Ben & Jen, I love this series & just from this episode, I've learnt so much. You guys are going to be the most AMAZING 'rents to lil Len.
Ben and Jenn dropping the videos the same time. Can’t decide which one to watch first 😭😆
no joke I thought this was big company interviewing you guys and didnt realize until I scrolled down. that opening was a banger! i would kill for a podcast from you!!
This video is everything!!! Please do more videos like this! And do you have any good book/podcast recommendations on improving mental health?
This is such a beautiful video! Thank you both so much 💗 Ben, your energy is unmatched.
Thank you for this new series. It's lovely to hear both of your opinions and it's been very helpful. Looking forward to more from both of you! 😊
The intro to the video is cute & lovely! Great conversation!
A podcast would be perfect! I looooove this episode so much!! It’s really relatable and I’ve learned so much from you guys! Thanks for this!
I loved this so much. I would love if these were both UA-cam videos anddd a podcast! Thanks both for your insight
Thanks Rachel! We're not perfect but we try our best and that's all we can ask for. Thanks for taking your time out to watch!
LOVE! So comforting to know the acknowledgment of how to self heal.
Podcast would be amazing! I can listen to this for hours! So much I can relate too, and I love both of your perspectives.
Thank you so much for this video Ben and Jen. What great advises and opinions. 🙏❤️
Does this series replace Fancy The Pub?
Loved this episode! Thank you so much for your insights!
I love your content, Ben! I always feel so good after watching your videos. I would love a podcast to listen to on my commute to school and work. 😊
Thank you! I feel inspired to write out my thoughts now because I feel super down today for some reason. Also yes please make a podcast that would be so amazing :)
Love this! you are SO creative. Love you both!
Okay but I am very veryyy excited for more of thisss!!! This came into my life at the perfect time! :D
You guys should start a podcast! Your words are always very inspiring and comforting. I'm sure most people would agree.
appreciate hearing your perspectives on these different things folks are going through that are very relatable. take care everyone!
Please do a podcast I loved this!
Thankyou Ben, for this positivity that you always try to spread among everyone in the world 🌎 ❣️🍀 God bless ur family!!!
Wowwww it was great to hear your insights on these topics!! This would be great as a podcast as I listened to you guys as I was sewing😆 (school work)
these are exactly what i needed to hear right now, thanks xxx
This video is really helping me a lot. Im struggling with all these problems.
And podcast format please.... 😊
Definitely loved this! Wish it was longer!
Ok but that intro was BRILLIANT
Oh my god! That intro!!! It was so smooth and creative. Just subscribed, and can't wait to see more! ☺️
PFF wow ben, and jen i mean you guys are so inspiring! as a person! And I love the way you guys give advise/ do this podcast, i can't stop listening! I was in a rut today but damn guys... this helped ^-^
I love that quote by Einstein! It made a big difference in how I felt about myself as a young mother
watching this as I let myself cried 2 hours ago after screwing up my test. I guess i'm grateful for being able to afford a slice of cake while I watch this video to feel better.
Hang in there. I hope you are feeling better and that there is an opporrunity to retake this test 💜 (But if not, there will be another. Do not be too hard on yourself, as we all tend to be.)